So I ran into my ex and his new girlfriend at a local bar he brushes my hand says hey and I said excuse me I'm trying to get to the ATM machine... he rushes his gf to the back of the bar they sit I get my money and drinks and proceed to have a good time with my best friend. To give just a lil back story he cheated and left me for the woman he is with now she always acts like she wants to be my friend and she talks about me all the time but I don't give a f@& $ about her at all... anyway I'm having a good time enjoying myself because it was my bday after a hour or so I was standing up talking to a friend of mine I felt a tap which means someone was trying to get pass me which it was him I turned and looked and I said why didn't you get your child today he turns to face me and he leans in and caresses his hand around my lower back pulls me in and says because I didn't call him I say why do I have to call u for your child there was a 10 second pause while he's still holding me and says he would get her the next day while in this embrace his gf is standing directly behind us I touch his shoulder and say that's fine cause I'm going out of town do you mind keeping her till I get back he agreed he then proceeds to talk to by bestie because that's her uncle while his gf walks past me and then turns around to say hi Tracy how are you? I said I'm good how are you? She says fine as they both walk away my bestie turns to me with the big eyes I say what's wrong she said to him why haven't you told my friend happy birthday he says to her I loooove her, she said what he said again I loooove her right in front of his gf... what does all that mean?I'm so confused because this is from a man who said he was happy with the new chick so I just basically ignore him on a regular basis or gray rock him when it comes to dealing with our child....
WTF is he trying to do
@tixiani no the first encounter we ever had she thought me and him talked all the time apparently she feels threatened by me but she also gives me a nice-nasty attitude

Relax. He already told his girlfriend (Snake he is), "I am in love with you (his gf), but I love her (you) because she's the mother of my child". Stupid current gf accepts this as she doesn't want to lose him; for you. Guys say this to their SO all the time, "She's the mother of my child I will communicate with her for life, blah, blah, blah".
OR he was DRUNK! If the SO didn't make a scene, then she was stupid NOT to hear his words to you in the loudness of the bar (maybe it was quiet, I don't know, she didn't hear him is my point). He can LOVE you, but be IN LOVE with his SO. I wouldn't think too much about this. And yeah, they say when a man is DRUNK the truth comes out. Keep remembering two words: In love and love.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
OR he was DRUNK! If the SO didn't make a scene, then she was stupid NOT to hear his words to you in the loudness of the bar (maybe it was quiet, I don't know, she didn't hear him is my point). He can LOVE you, but be IN LOVE with his SO. I wouldn't think too much about this. And yeah, they say when a man is DRUNK the truth comes out. Keep remembering two words: In love and love.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
@EvatheDiva right I totally understand the difference but I thought he was disrespectful the way he touched me and it caught me off guard because he is so in love with her
@Tiziani I am happy where I am right now I just thought it was disrespectful because no man could ever touch another woman in my presence like that and he never did that when we were out... but I feel what you're saying... I didn't realize I misspelled your name lol
@Blue_Froggie she doesn't have to worry about me I don't want him back he probably is because after all he is a narcissist
@CaramelizedCoffee I thought it was weird too because he's never made any advances towards me any other time
@bittercupcake idk I don't think so she said he was her Boaz lol
@bittercupcake she was also concerned about that she thought she had a std one time and was pretty upset about it
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeExactly!!!Posted by geminiwomanHe's a loser. And very disrespectful
@CaramelizedCoffee I thought it was weird too because he's never made any advances towards me any other timeclick to expand
@NemDeux no we have a child together
Posted by NemDeuxShe's only 2 so she's not really aware yet so it's not affecting her but if there is tension it's on his part not minePosted by geminiwomansounds like a cat and mouse game here ...hope your kiddy does not get too effected by the tension going on.
@NemDeux no we have a child togetherclick to expand

Posted by geminiwomanOk Gem, here is the truth.
@Blue_Froggie she doesn't have to worry about me I don't want him back he probably is because after all he is a narcissist
You are lying to yourself and people here.
When woman doesn't want man - he doesn't post in forum about some stupid accounter that happened. She also doesn't let man she doesn't want to touch her and hold her not for 10 sec - for 1...
She slaps his face and tells him to keep his dirty paws off her body!!!
You are in a state when you melting in his hands telling yourself you not supposed to want him but you do! So have respect for people you using as your advisers and don't bullshit anybody. He said he loves you? And you became wet behind your ears, right? RIGHT?
Posted by GemitatiPosted by geminiwomanOk Gem, here is the truth.
@Blue_Froggie she doesn't have to worry about me I don't want him back he probably is because after all he is a narcissistclick to expand
You are lying to yourself and people here.
When woman doesn't want man - he doesn't post in forum about some stupid accounter that happened. She also doesn't let man she doesn't want to touch her and hold her not for 10 sec - for 1...
She slaps his face and tells him to keep his dirty paws off her body!!!
You are in a state when you melting in his hands telling yourself you not supposed to want him but you do! So have respect for people you using as your advisers and don't bullshit anybody. He said he loves you? And you became wet behind your ears, right? RIGHT?
I did melt for a minute and please don't try to come for me cause I don't have shit to lie about from one gem to another so pipe down if u don't like wtf I'm asking cause you can easily move to the next post now yes melt I did but I know he ain't shit so that doesn't last long I just thought it was odd because for months we don't even speak to each other unless it's about our child and most of the time the convo I very limited so he caught me off guard and the I love you shit does nothing for me that was for my friend not me boo...
Posted by bittercupcakeShe's a VirgoPosted by geminiwoman...what's her sign..? ... is she an air sign..?
@bittercupcake idk I don't think so she said he was her Boaz lolclick to expand

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@bittercupcake idk I don't think so she said he was her Boaz lolclick to expand
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@geminiwoman
You can take your advise to move to another forum if your ass isn't kissed - roll it and stick it up to your ass!
Everybody who wants to post will post and they will post whatever is that they feel like. You have a block option. Don't like it - use it.
You keep lying! If you don't want h and don't care - what's the purpose of this stupid revelation?
What do you want to hear?
Oh, he probably love you? He will be back?
But you don't want him!!! My ass...
He doesn't love you is also not a good answer!
WHAT DAFUG DO YOU WANT—
You can take your advise to move to another forum if your ass isn't kissed - roll it and stick it up to your ass!
Everybody who wants to post will post and they will post whatever is that they feel like. You have a block option. Don't like it - use it.
You keep lying! If you don't want h and don't care - what's the purpose of this stupid revelation?
What do you want to hear?
Oh, he probably love you? He will be back?
But you don't want him!!! My ass...
He doesn't love you is also not a good answer!
WHAT DAFUG DO YOU WANT—
Posted by GemitatiBitch just because your bitter ass is mad about something so you can keep being BIG MAD about whatever I can post my shit in a million forums if I fuckin choose too you don't have to read it troll block you for what. I can hold my own, you mad about something or someone but I got a homie who can handle that for you he calm bitches like u down
@geminiwoman
You can take your advise to move to another forum if your ass isn't kissed - roll it and stick it up to your ass!
Everybody who wants to post will post and they will post whatever is that they feel like. You have a block option. Don't like it - use it.
You keep lying! If you don't want h and don't care - what's the purpose of this stupid revelation?
What do you want to hear?
Oh, he probably love you? He will be back?
But you don't want him!!! My ass...
He doesn't love you is also not a good answer!
WHAT DAFUG DO YOU WANT—

Posted by geminiwomanStoned for sure!Posted by GemitatiBitch just because your bitter ass is mad about something so you can keep being BIG MAD about whatever I can post my shit in a million forums if I fuckin choose too you don't have to read it troll block you for what. I can hold my own, you mad about something or someone but I got a homie who can handle that for you he calm bitches like u down
@geminiwoman
You can take your advise to move to another forum if your ass isn't kissed - roll it and stick it up to your ass!
Everybody who wants to post will post and they will post whatever is that they feel like. You have a block option. Don't like it - use it.
You keep lying! If you don't want h and don't care - what's the purpose of this stupid revelation?
What do you want to hear?
Oh, he probably love you? He will be back?
But you don't want him!!! My ass...
He doesn't love you is also not a good answer!
WHAT DAFUG DO YOU WANT—
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Posted by GemitatiMaybe you I don't smoke.. so play with the next bitchPosted by geminiwomanStoned for sure!Posted by GemitatiBitch just because your bitter ass is mad about something so you can keep being BIG MAD about whatever I can post my shit in a million forums if I fuckin choose too you don't have to read it troll block you for what. I can hold my own, you mad about something or someone but I got a homie who can handle that for you he calm bitches like u down
@geminiwoman
You can take your advise to move to another forum if your ass isn't kissed - roll it and stick it up to your ass!
Everybody who wants to post will post and they will post whatever is that they feel like. You have a block option. Don't like it - use it.
You keep lying! If you don't want h and don't care - what's the purpose of this stupid revelation?
What do you want to hear?
Oh, he probably love you? He will be back?
But you don't want him!!! My ass...
He doesn't love you is also not a good answer!
WHAT DAFUG DO YOU WANT—
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Wait did you say your best friend's uncle = the father of your child?
Posted by bittercupcakeWhy do you say thatPosted by geminiwoman..that actually makes a lot of sense...tbhPosted by bittercupcakeShe's a VirgoPosted by geminiwoman...what's her sign..? ... is she an air sign..?
@bittercupcake idk I don't think so she said he was her Boaz lol
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Posted by Chuckcem
Wait did you say your best friend's uncle = the father of your child?
Not by blood he is her real uncles best friend
Posted by bittercupcakeOh ok then you're right that does explain a lot cause I would have smacked his face off in the bar in front of everyone... my mom is a Virgo and she is not a doormatPosted by geminiwoman...from my experience...Virgos tend to be doormat like... you get the really feisty ones...or the complete doormat ones... they go with the flow with their partners and put up a lot....Posted by bittercupcakeWhy do you say thatPosted by geminiwoman..that actually makes a lot of sense...tbhPosted by bittercupcakeShe's a VirgoPosted by geminiwoman...what's her sign..? ... is she an air sign..?
@bittercupcake idk I don't think so she said he was her Boaz lol
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Posted by geminiwomanI know, he's a rude, crude, dude! 😡
@EvatheDiva right I totally understand the difference but I thought he was disrespectful the way he touched me and it caught me off guard because he is so in love with her
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
He wants his cake and eat it too and clearly his gf don't really care, she might want you too lol
Posted by PayMeek_NoMindEwwwwwwww lol
He wants his cake and eat it too and clearly his gf don't really care, she might want you too lol

You sound very immature .. you definitely don't know how to handle yourself.
You attempted to start a problem by bringing up your beefs with him in public.
let's hope you have more sense than to cause that kind of tension in front of the child
Posted by P-AngelThank you!!!
You sound very immature .. you definitely don't know how to handle yourself.
You attempted to start a problem by bringing up your beefs with him in public.
let's hope you have more sense than to cause that kind of tension in front of the child
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