How to get a sag man to commit?

This has probably been asked before but sag men.. What were the reasons you committed yourself with someone (sleeping together exclusively) what do you look for? What made you not want to commit.. Also, if a girl asked u to only sleep with her... and you turn around and see her after that does that mean you have agreed in the exclusivity deal? Thank you

The eternal question

My Sag asked me to marry him three times before I said yes.

I think you have to look at his moon? Mine has a Taurus Moon..oh and Mercury in Scorpio so I think those two combos make him who he is especially.

Are you currently seeing one? What's his chart look like?

Posted by DMV
The eternal question

Lol yes girl

@exo

Hahaha, I agree with you archer. It's fucking hard for me to stay only with one person longer than 6 months. I just want to explore, don't want to know that it's all about it, and nothing more. We are about new experiences and learning. At least I must chat and flirt with many girls...but absolutely nothing, and only with one person...no fuckin' way. 😄 But hey, I am not typical Sag either, because I have many planets in Sag. that is why I can't settle. xD

I've accepted that most Sag men just can't commit; it's not in their nature. It doesn't negate the fact that they care. I had a romantic past with one, and he's still trying to be my friend -- I'll cross that bridge when I decide to come to it lol

Archers just need to explore, and not much can change that unless they're chart is riddled with water or earth lol it is what it is.

Posted by exo
i told him i wanted exclusivity or nothing.

i made every visit and encounter worthwhile, worth the wait and experience.

when he started talking serious, i made him work for it. he got his shit together. i became his goal for the future.

and he proposed and now we're married. 🙂

Many blessings my sister

Posted by exo
i told him i wanted exclusivity or nothing.

i made every visit and encounter worthwhile, worth the wait and experience.

when he started talking serious, i made him work for it. he got his shit together. i became his goal for the future.

and he proposed and now we're married. 🙂

What do you mean by you made him work when he started talking serious? What's your placements and his placements?

wahaha best on these answerez I think the commitment sag is very rare even if their Venus in Scorpio. It's like 10 out of 100 percents chance he will commit . I have decided earlier that he is who he is I can't change that but then again apart of me only what him.. were we kissing passionately n he said, so u want me to say no to other people and I said yes can u try? I think he went quiet I can't remember.. n e way, the next time he negotiated and we ofcoz did stuff (arghhhh).. I know I know my fault.. then afterwards he started talking serious stuff that led me to think that he did think about it.. his words not mine.. then , when he left for the first time he actually kissed me passionately haha normally it's like a little cheek kissing thing or a bear hug. n I actually called him baby for the first time n we been involved with n been through a hell alot together over the last 2 years.. and now he has disappeared out of this earth for 2 days.. God knows maybe his sag nature needing to regain his freedom kicked in and now he's like running for his space. It's very annoying.. I wanna text him n go chill out young man.. but I don't want him to see it has affected me if that make sense.. you sag men are impossible !!!!! The rare cases are blessing but most sag hate commitment inao

Posted by TauroMale22
roll him in a blanket and beat him with a lead pipe.

Surprisingly he will love that. lol

Posted by exo
and ladies, it is possible. 😄

I think you have a rare case.. but yes blessing to you !!

Posted by ozzzy
Hahaha, I agree with you archer. It's fucking hard for me to stay only with one person longer than 6 months. I just want to explore, don't want to know that it's all about it, and nothing more. We are about new experiences and learning. At least I must chat and flirt with many girls...but absolutely nothing, and only with one person...no fuckin' way. 😄 But hey, I am not typical Sag either, because I have many planets in Sag. that is why I can't settle. xD

Wow see for me a Taurus.. I feel like even chatting and flirting is still not acceptable if u r sleeping exclusively with one woman .. lol my kind of loyalty is so not like sag kind of loyalty Imao

I'm kinda chuckling at this thread...it's really not that hard to get us to commit.

My dad is a sag, he has been with his SO (never married her) ever since him and my mother split like 30 yrs ago lol. She is a Gemini, maybe you should ask one of them. Shes a provider-cooks, cleans and takes no shit and has her own space and life. She never wanted kids and he got her knocked up twice. They are still together but now seem to be majorly struggling and keeping it together for the girls sake imo.

Posted by libraqueeen
My Sag asked me to marry him three times before I said yes.

I think you have to look at his moon? Mine has a Taurus Moon..oh and Mercury in Scorpio so I think those two combos make him who he is especially.

Are you currently seeing one? What's his chart look like?

Must be a Libra thing. I think we have special powers over them, lol

Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm kinda chuckling at this thread...it's really not that hard to get us to commit.

Agreed.

First and foremost. A sag man is a man. He will want to be treated like a man. Dont try to baby him, tell him how things should really be, dont kill his dreams even tho most wont be realized.

Most of the problems occur when someone tries to stick a round peg ina square hole.

Sag men are support systems. Treat him like a man and not like Peter Pan. A sag man knows what will and will not work for him. Problems arise when you tell him otherwise.

Like Exo said, make every moment count. In his life, youre either part of the solution or part of the problem.

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Posted by confusedlibra78

Posted by libraqueeen
My Sag asked me to marry him three times before I said yes.

I think you have to look at his moon? Mine has a Taurus Moon..oh and Mercury in Scorpio so I think those two combos make him who he is especially.

Are you currently seeing one? What's his chart look like?

Must be a Libra thing. I think we have special powers over them, lol

Yeah

They make sags weak in emotional things ..sags make aquas weak and the circle keep going

Whatever there is always drama between these signs.

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Word. It's boring

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Posted by confusedlibra78

Posted by libraqueeen
My Sag asked me to marry him three times before I said yes.

I think you have to look at his moon? Mine has a Taurus Moon..oh and Mercury in Scorpio so I think those two combos make him who he is especially.

Are you currently seeing one? What's his chart look like?

Must be a Libra thing. I think we have special powers over them, lol

Yeah

They make sags weak in emotional things ..sags make aquas weak and the circle keep going

Whatever there is always drama between these signs.

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Indeed there is. I finally broke free of it.

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm kinda chuckling at this thread...it's really not that hard to get us to commit.

Agreed.

First and foremost. A sag man is a man. He will want to be treated like a man. Dont try to baby him, tell him how things should really be, dont kill his dreams even tho most wont be realized.

Most of the problems occur when someone tries to stick a round peg ina square hole.

Sag men are support systems. Treat him like a man and not like Peter Pan. A sag man knows what will and will not work for him. Problems arise when you tell him otherwise.

Like Exo said, make every moment count. In his life, youre either part of the solution or part of the problem.

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Bingo and couldn't have said it better myself

Don't force him into anything but be clear about what you want, but detached at the same time. If that makes any sense. You have to have your own life that he would love to be a part of.

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Posted by confusedlibra78

Posted by libraqueeen
My Sag asked me to marry him three times before I said yes.

I think you have to look at his moon? Mine has a Taurus Moon..oh and Mercury in Scorpio so I think those two combos make him who he is especially.

Are you currently seeing one? What's his chart look like?

Must be a Libra thing. I think we have special powers over them, lol

Yeah

They make sags weak in emotional things ..sags make aquas weak and the circle keep going

Whatever there is always drama between these signs.

Word. It's boring

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Agreed

Posted by xomelindabelle
I've accepted that most Sag men just can't commit; it's not in their nature. It doesn't negate the fact that they care. I had a romantic past with one, and he's still trying to be my friend -- I'll cross that bridge when I decide to come to it lol

Archers just need to explore, and not much can change that unless they're chart is riddled with water or earth lol it is what it is.

Cross it...life's too short

As a Gemini, it's not hard for me to get a Sagittarius to want a relationship. Be unavailable and more focused on fun than serious relationships, also be very intellectual talk about deep things.

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Posted by confusedlibra78

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Posted by confusedlibra78

Posted by libraqueeen
My Sag asked me to marry him three times before I said yes.

I think you have to look at his moon? Mine has a Taurus Moon..oh and Mercury in Scorpio so I think those two combos make him who he is especially.

Are you currently seeing one? What's his chart look like?

Must be a Libra thing. I think we have special powers over them, lol

Yeah

They make sags weak in emotional things ..sags make aquas weak and the circle keep going

Whatever there is always drama between these signs.

Indeed there is. I finally broke free of it.

What happened ?

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We were together for the better part if 18 years. Although we had "it" and he says I've ruined him for other women, we just couldn't make it work. We are still really good friends but I feel sorry for any woman who wants to be on a relationship with him.

So how do I go about this 2 days disappearing acts after asking for exclusivity he saw me after that then Dissapearrd. Do I act like it doesn't me.. by leaving him the space or do I tell him this behaviour is not acceptable as I don't appreciate the yo yo attitude?? What's the best way?

I have an aqua moon so we get along quiet perfectly when it comes to conversations and the deep talking stuff. Our moon and sun match very well.. but yes the sag nature plays up and he probably realises he can't commit to one... I don't know this old bullshit game is boring me now.. too much drama shit I don't wanna deal with no more.. he also said I ruined it for other women.. hahaha but hey, I don't know man.. if I start dating other men, he will play it back on me.. I truly think this sign plays game subconsciously it's like they want u so much more when they don't have u. It's quiet sickening.

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm kinda chuckling at this thread...it's really not that hard to get us to commit.

Agreed.

First and foremost. A sag man is a man. He will want to be treated like a man. Dont try to baby him, tell him how things should really be, dont kill his dreams even tho most wont be realized.

Most of the problems occur when someone tries to stick a round peg ina square hole.

Sag men are support systems. Treat him like a man and not like Peter Pan. A sag man knows what will and will not work for him. Problems arise when you tell him otherwise.

Like Exo said, make every moment count. In his life, youre either part of the solution or part of the problem.

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ok got it thank u.

Also, the last time I gave him a massage hickys on the neck while we were getting it on. It was totally unintentionally I was in the moment and got way overly excited hahaha. Instead of kissing him hard this time I bit his neck instead . I hope he doesn't think I'm trying to brand him !!!!! As a sag he would have hated that... Arkkkkkk u sag men r sooooo hard to tame...

Massive hickies ***

Imo you don't. The majority of my male friends are Sag, and there is absolutely no way to tame a younger Sag male. Out of all the signs I'd say these are the hardest to hold down. They get a bad rep because of this, but truly are amazing, fun, and intelligent people. You just have to ride the wave and let them be free. You also have to forgive them for being on the move so much, because they truly hold those closest to them pretty high. They naturally want to get as much out of life as possible. They are born to be a free spirit, and if you can respect them for that and still stick around they will find time to return the favor plus some.

It's possible.. But don't ever chase a man who doesn't want you the same way you want him.

My Sag guy asked me to move in with him around 6 months and talked marriage around 1 year. He's fully committed and his friends and family have all said he's never been this way with any other woman. (He never introduced any gf to his family either.)

He's a passionate, intelligent, and very caring guy.

Posted by jane84
It's possible.. But don't ever chase a man who doesn't want you the same way you want him.

My Sag guy asked me to move in with him around 6 months and talked marriage around 1 year. He's fully committed and his friends and family have all said he's never been this way with any other woman. (He never introduced any gf to his family either.)

He's a passionate, intelligent, and very caring guy.

What's your sun sign and Venus sign and his Venus sign?

Posted by Soul
Imo you don't. The majority of my male friends are Sag, and there is absolutely no way to tame a younger Sag male. Out of all the signs I'd say these are the hardest to hold down. They get a bad rep because of this, but truly are amazing, fun, and intelligent people. You just have to ride the wave and let them be free. You also have to forgive them for being on the move so much, because they truly hold those closest to them pretty high. They naturally want to get as much out of life as possible. They are born to be a free spirit, and if you can respect them for that and still stick around they will find time to return the favor plus some.

This is somehow very true. Look I'm a very free spirit myself and have my shares of craziness and fun.. coz of my moon and Venus in air placements.. But my Taurus does kick in and it's sad that I honestly can't share any longer lol... I mean I can always set us up for an open relationship arrangements since we r wholeheartedly very into each other sexually but at the end of the day it won't fully fill in my desire... he mentioned future stuff the last visit after I mentioned exclusivity so I thought hey we r good and on to something here !! then now it's almost 3 days he's gone into his sag escape mode or something.. maybe it's nothing but maybe it's his way of showing he can't give me that exclusivity I'm after .. whatever sag men r great but he will prob hurt me at the end of the day n I don't have time for that crap no more..

Another question .. them not having the ability to commit does that mean they just don't love you ?? Or it's because they can't help themselves but have their options open — too free spirits to settle? My sag girlfriend never has a boyfriend for a long time since her last and only commited herself to her dogsss lol too funny... well those ladies here that managed to get them to commit, how were u acting? What did you do? What happened? how many days do u go by without talking etc?

Also, I'm wondering if this space thing is a test to see if I will go crazy or not?

Hm.. My sag always says that if i have met him 10 years ago he would have maybe had problems with commiting.. But now, he doesnt.. He always says that it cones with age.. He is not afraid of it.. He keeps repeating that i gave him reasons to settle down and think of a possible future with him..

But its very true what others say: i give him his space, have my own, no pinning down, no telling him what he should or should not do.. We are two seperate ppl who work perfectly together.. And a lot of laughter.. I simply cant say i ever laughed this hard 🙂 but im not sure about emotional side, about that us libras make sags emotionaly weak.. Its the. Other way around when it comes to me.. He made me emotionally weak 🙂))

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Posted by libraqueeen
My Sag asked me to marry him three times before I said yes.

I think you have to look at his moon? Mine has a Taurus Moon..oh and Mercury in Scorpio so I think those two combos make him who he is especially.

Are you currently seeing one? What's his chart look like?

Must be a Libra thing. I think we have special powers over them, lol

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Lol yeah probably

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Posted by confusedlibra78

Posted by libraqueeen
My Sag asked me to marry him three times before I said yes.

I think you have to look at his moon? Mine has a Taurus Moon..oh and Mercury in Scorpio so I think those two combos make him who he is especially.

Are you currently seeing one? What's his chart look like?

Must be a Libra thing. I think we have special powers over them, lol

Yeah

They make sags weak in emotional things ..sags make aquas weak and the circle keep going

Whatever there is always drama between these signs.

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What do you mean by make them weak?

Posted by hera
Hm.. My sag always says that if i have met him 10 years ago he would have maybe had problems with commiting.. But now, he doesnt.. He always says that it cones with age.. He is not afraid of it.. He keeps repeating that i gave him reasons to settle down and think of a possible future with him..

But its very true what others say: i give him his space, have my own, no pinning down, no telling him what he should or should not do.. We are two seperate ppl who work perfectly together.. And a lot of laughter.. I simply cant say i ever laughed this hard 🙂 but im not sure about emotional side, about that us libras make sags emotionaly weak.. Its the. Other way around when it comes to me.. He made me emotionally weak 🙂))

Def something to think about here... sigh.. I better give up.. This Is simply not going to work.. every time I walk away though he pushes and try harder. It drives me madddddd . I hate it and love it at the same time.. congrats to those who got them to commit lol... how old is he now if u don't mind me asking?

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Posted by hera
Hm.. My sag always says that if i have met him 10 years ago he would have maybe had problems with commiting.. But now, he doesnt.. He always says that it cones with age.. He is not afraid of it.. He keeps repeating that i gave him reasons to settle down and think of a possible future with him..

But its very true what others say: i give him his space, have my own, no pinning down, no telling him what he should or should not do.. We are two seperate ppl who work perfectly together.. And a lot of laughter.. I simply cant say i ever laughed this hard 🙂 but im not sure about emotional side, about that us libras make sags emotionaly weak.. Its the. Other way around when it comes to me.. He made me emotionally weak 🙂))

Def something to think about here... sigh.. I better give up.. This Is simply not going to work.. every time I walk away though he pushes and try harder. It drives me madddddd . I hate it and love it at the same time.. congrats to those who got them to commit lol... how old is he now if u don't mind me asking?

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34..

We both like chalenges and games.. So we play a lot 🙂) and we both have high sexual drive.. Its never boring.. I must say, i finally found my partner in crime.. We both love to learn new things and explore and travel. He knows i need security so he makes sure i never have a reason to doubth him.

@Hera great to hear that.. well I have or we have a very high sex drive n that's the one thing he's totally weak to me about.. He says he can detach easily normally but when it comes to me he gets super weak like a girl lol.. so we connect with that and intellectually. We speak the same language most of the times.. 34 is a good age he's 28... not quiet there yet.. Well turns out he emailed me while at work saying his phone is deAd and is giving me heads up.. I guess I am onto something here... otherwise he probably wouldn't bother updating me.. Thanks ladies for all ur advises... wil def take that on board.... !!

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Posted by jane84
It's possible.. But don't ever chase a man who doesn't want you the same way you want him.

My Sag guy asked me to move in with him around 6 months and talked marriage around 1 year. He's fully committed and his friends and family have all said he's never been this way with any other woman. (He never introduced any gf to his family either.)

He's a passionate, intelligent, and very caring guy.

What's your sun sign and Venus sign and his Venus sign?

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I'm a Libra w/ my Venus in Scorpio and his Venus is in Capricorn.

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Posted by hera
Hm.. My sag always says that if i have met him 10 years ago he would have maybe had problems with commiting.. But now, he doesnt.. He always says that it cones with age.. He is not afraid of it.. He keeps repeating that i gave him reasons to settle down and think of a possible future with him..

But its very true what others say: i give him his space, have my own, no pinning down, no telling him what he should or should not do.. We are two seperate ppl who work perfectly together.. And a lot of laughter.. I simply cant say i ever laughed this hard 🙂 but im not sure about emotional side, about that us libras make sags emotionaly weak.. Its the. Other way around when it comes to me.. He made me emotionally weak 🙂))

Awwh 🙂 I never know that you're with sag ??

Yeah "sags" we make you feel a live, and happy lol

Happy for you girl ❤

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We are still fresh.. But you are right.. He makes me feel soo good, alive!! And he softened me so much.. I was a bit emotionally closed before him, but he made me feel like a teenager again..

And i am glad i make him laugh, and feel good and loved... At least he says so 🙂

Ty dear

@Harukka

But you know what i like the most: our talks.. I was never able to talk to a person the way i talk to him.. We can talk for hours!!! 😄 and its never boring, and we always learn something from each other 😄

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Posted by libraqueeen
My Sag asked me to marry him three times before I said yes.

I think you have to look at his moon? Mine has a Taurus Moon..oh and Mercury in Scorpio so I think those two combos make him who he is especially.

Are you currently seeing one? What's his chart look like?

Must be a Libra thing. I think we have special powers over them, lol

Yeah

They make sags weak in emotional things ..sags make aquas weak and the circle keep going

Whatever there is always drama between these signs.

What do you mean by make them weak?

Mmmmm ... I don't know but I was with libra, we where so in love ..even tho it was so short, I felt like I know him from along time, I never fell for anyone like I fall for him, he tell me the same but there was a lot of drama and I couldn't handle him using my emotional against me (when he try to make me feel jealous I leave him for good) whatever he turn to scary person when I did and he did everything he could to hurt me.

Awh horror story ?

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im so sorry 😢

Posted by Redoctober2000
That's like asking "how long is a piece of string?" .. .

Answer: "you don't"....

Horses run free from stable to stable until they find the "perfect" one!!!

Best thing u ever wrote

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Posted by Phonixxxxx
wahaha best on these answerez I think the commitment sag is very rare even if their Venus in Scorpio. It's like 10 out of 100 percents chance he will commit . I have decided earlier that he is who he is I can't change that but then again apart of me only what him.. were we kissing passionately n he said, so u want me to say no to other people and I said yes can u try? I think he went quiet I can't remember.. n e way, the next time he negotiated and we ofcoz did stuff (arghhhh).. I know I know my fault.. then afterwards he started talking serious stuff that led me to think that he did think about it.. his words not mine.. then , when he left for the first time he actually kissed me passionately haha normally it's like a little cheek kissing thing or a bear hug. n I actually called him baby for the first time n we been involved with n been through a hell alot together over the last 2 years.. and now he has disappeared out of this earth for 2 days.. God knows maybe his sag nature needing to regain his freedom kicked in and now he's like running for his space. It's very annoying.. I wanna text him n go chill out young man.. but I don't want him to see it has affected me if that make sense.. you sag men are impossible !!!!! The rare cases are blessing but most sag hate commitment inao

He goes for "two days" and you get on like this—? Good luck girl!!!

If you sincerely want a "COMMITTED" sign... I'm sorry, but it's not sags. Not the males at least....

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Lol we normally talk everyday that's why it's unlikely for him.. n yes for me consistent communication is key. Don't get me wrong I don't nag or call him ever though over the past 2 years... it shouldn't be too bad since he emailed me saying his phone is dead lol.. do u think his Venus in Scorpio might ease him to being with one person atlesst a little bit? or wud an open relationship work better for us?? everything is great just this commitment bloody thing!!

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Posted by Redoctober2000
That's like asking "how long is a piece of string?" .. .

Answer: "you don't"....

Horses run free from stable to stable until they find the "perfect" one!!!

Best thing u ever wrote

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How do describe a perfect one? I bet as a sag even if they find a perfect one they will still run free coz they can't commit to that perfect one ether imaoooo

Posted by hera
Hm.. My sag always says that if i have met him 10 years ago he would have maybe had problems with commiting.. But now, he doesnt.. He always says that it cones with age.. He is not afraid of it.. He keeps repeating that i gave him reasons to settle down and think of a possible future with him..

But its very true what others say: i give him his space, have my own, no pinning down, no telling him what he should or should not do.. We are two seperate ppl who work perfectly together.. And a lot of laughter.. I simply cant say i ever laughed this hard 🙂 but im not sure about emotional side, about that us libras make sags emotionaly weak.. Its the. Other way around when it comes to me.. He made me emotionally weak 🙂))

Holy crap! I think we are living the same life! That's EXACTLY what my Sag said and how I feel about him! Best relationship ever...so far lol