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Gemitati
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Hypothetically is it ever possible that at some point I had been dying for this man and he showed me as much attention as he thought I should be having.

So I had been working hard for 3 years explaining all of my thoughts to him and stirring him into direction that I wanted.

Like if you set up routine calling me daily at 11 - you have to stick with it or at least text me that you can't! No drama will follow...

So lately he had been up my ass so I am becoming worried! I am not used to being so overly pampered by him!

Is there slight possibility that he fell for me finally and hard and I can now hope that he will at least consider divorce?

He used to echo my I love you...I knew just to be nice!

Lately he calls me MY LOVE firmly during conversation about...car model I am looking for or anything like house chores...
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Posted by DivaCanLeo
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Old woman seeking answers from young people who have no clue.

————??
Because I don't know any old people who are jobless to the point to live on forums

Unlike young ones. So shove it! Or stick it...whatever gives you more pleasure!
Or because you know old folks would judge you for bothering young people with your old people problems.

I bet your friends think you're disgusting
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No at my age your friends envy you for getting back to life they all forgotten!

Though you 'young' person apparently have less going on than my 'old' friends!
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Posted by DivaCanLeo
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by DivaCanLeo
Old woman seeking answers from young people who have no clue.

————??
Because I don't know any old people who are jobless to the point to live on forums

Unlike young ones. So shove it! Or stick it...whatever gives you more pleasure!
Or because you know old folks would judge you for bothering young people with your old people problems.

I bet your friends think you're disgusting
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No at my age your friends envy you for getting back to life they all forgotten!

Though you 'young' person apparently have less going on than my 'old' friends!
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Posted by TaurusinTexas
I think making some phone calls and sending more texts is a far leap from filing for divorce. I wouldn't get my hopes too high.
I am just exploring possibilities because for me it's not going to be 123 done!

So just talking it over.

I am wondering what makes man to be

so 'good' all of a sudden? And it's not like he is getting sex for that! Lol
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Posted by TheGreatSearcher
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Gemitati, please stop cheating on your husband. Or at least file for a fucking divorce?
Do you REALLY think I will do what you telling me to do? Seriously?
I'm telling what's right. You just feel insecure and your need to be reassured that you are attractive is through the roof. The truth bites.

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Who are you really to tell me what's right for me?

And about insecure - you have no idea.

I know you fishing for a picture but no way! Keep wondering. And think of your own bitter!
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Posted by LadyNeptune
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Question, if he divorced his wife will you divorce your husband.
Yes!

But that wasn't a question!!!
Have you ever considered that he's awaiting you leaving your husband before he'll leave his wife?
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I've been told that by every person I've talk to about it!

I just don't see why. His divorce is going to be very complicated. Mine is not.

So he needs to talk to me.

Because I am about to! He is acting so different - it scares shit out of me!

And now you said it and it's like...again—

Must be something to it!
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Posted by starwars
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Gemitati, please stop cheating on your husband. Or at least file for a fucking divorce?
Do you REALLY think I will do what you telling me to do? Seriously?
I'm telling what's right. You just feel insecure and your need to be reassured that you are attractive is through the roof. The truth bites.


Who are you really to tell me what's right for me?

And about insecure - you have no idea.

I know you fishing for a picture but no way! Keep wondering. And think of your own bitter!
its so obvious hes fishing for a picture, don't fall for it.

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Oh. He is he? Even stranger for a man to be up my ass with lectures! Saint deek!
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
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Question, if he divorced his wife will you divorce your husband.
Yes!

But that wasn't a question!!!
Have you ever considered that he's awaiting you leaving your husband before he'll leave his wife?
I've been told that by every person I've talk to about it!

I just don't see why. His divorce is going to be very complicated. Mine is not.

So he needs to talk to me.

Because I am about to! He is acting so different - it scares shit out of me!

And now you said it and it's like...again—

Must be something to it!
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He's been giving you crumbs for so long that this slight increase of communication, texting and calls, is making you loose your head. Truth is your expectations superceede his own.

Next time he calls you should ask him when he plans to leave his wife for you. Let us know how it goes.
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
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Question, if he divorced his wife will you divorce your husband.
Yes!

But that wasn't a question!!!
Have you ever considered that he's awaiting you leaving your husband before he'll leave his wife?
I've been told that by every person I've talk to about it!

I just don't see why. His divorce is going to be very complicated. Mine is not.

So he needs to talk to me.

Because I am about to! He is acting so different - it scares shit out of me!

And now you said it and it's like...again—

Must be something to it!
He's been giving you crumbs for so long that this slight increase of communication, texting and calls, is making you loose your head. Truth is your expectations superceede his own.

Next time he calls you should ask him when he plans to leave his wife for you. Let us know how it goes.
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How does it in sync with your last 'suggestion'?

If I left first...what's your last post has to do with previous?
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Question, if he divorced his wife will you divorce your husband.
Yes!

But that wasn't a question!!!
Have you ever considered that he's awaiting you leaving your husband before he'll leave his wife?
I've been told that by every person I've talk to about it!

I just don't see why. His divorce is going to be very complicated. Mine is not.

So he needs to talk to me.

Because I am about to! He is acting so different - it scares shit out of me!

And now you said it and it's like...again—

Must be something to it!
He's been giving you crumbs for so long that this slight increase of communication, texting and calls, is making you loose your head. Truth is your expectations superceede his own.

Next time he calls you should ask him when he plans to leave his wife for you. Let us know how it goes.
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Also he wasn't feeding me crumbs!

He treated me for years with outmost respect but at the beginning it was curiosity and we agreed on never changing our lives.

Later we were talking about living to the end as we do or as we could have done!

Later he told me he wants to be with me but he needs to make sure no one hurts.

Later NOW he is trying to use every moment to stay in touch...

Isn't it how relation progressing under complicated circumstances?

No one get divorce because they had gotten excited about piece of ass!

It all takes time. There life behind us...
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Question, if he divorced his wife will you divorce your husband.
Yes!

But that wasn't a question!!!
Have you ever considered that he's awaiting you leaving your husband before he'll leave his wife?
I've been told that by every person I've talk to about it!

I just don't see why. His divorce is going to be very complicated. Mine is not.

So he needs to talk to me.

Because I am about to! He is acting so different - it scares shit out of me!

And now you said it and it's like...again—

Must be something to it!


Next time he calls you should ask him when he plans to leave his wife for you. Let us know how it goes.
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This is good advice, you guys have been doing this for years, things seem to be changing, just ask him. At this point what do you have to lose?
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Posted by Gemitati
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Gemitati, please stop cheating on your husband. Or at least file for a fucking divorce?
Do you REALLY think I will do what you telling me to do? Seriously?
I'm telling what's right. You just feel insecure and your need to be reassured that you are attractive is through the roof. The truth bites.


Who are you really to tell me what's right for me?

And about insecure - you have no idea.

I know you fishing for a picture but no way! Keep wondering. And think of your own bitter!
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You don't need to be a rocket scientist to understand that cheating is fucked up and you have no excuse to cheat on your husband of 20+ years. Stop trying to move away from the argument, it only makes you look pathetic.
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Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Gemitati, please stop cheating on your husband. Or at least file for a fucking divorce?
Do you REALLY think I will do what you telling me to do? Seriously?
I'm telling what's right. You just feel insecure and your need to be reassured that you are attractive is through the roof. The truth bites.


Who are you really to tell me what's right for me?

And about insecure - you have no idea.

I know you fishing for a picture but no way! Keep wondering. And think of your own bitter!
You don't need to be a rocket scientist to understand that cheating is fucked up and you have no excuse to cheat on your husband of 20+ years. Stop trying to move away from the argument, it only makes you look pathetic.
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What was the longest relationship you've ever been to?
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Question, if he divorced his wife will you divorce your husband.
Yes!

But that wasn't a question!!!
Have you ever considered that he's awaiting you leaving your husband before he'll leave his wife?
I've been told that by every person I've talk to about it!

I just don't see why. His divorce is going to be very complicated. Mine is not.

So he needs to talk to me.

Because I am about to! He is acting so different - it scares shit out of me!

And now you said it and it's like...again—

Must be something to it!
Have you ever thought that maybe he's changing coz he's buttering you up for the eventual:

"Let's end this."

Maybe he wants to finally stop sneaking around with you.

He's married to someone else.

You're married to someone else.

Move on.
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We've been on breaks before.

All he has to do or I to say I need some time and we both respect each other wishes.
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Posted by yupvirgoo
Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Question, if he divorced his wife will you divorce your husband.
Yes!

But that wasn't a question!!!
Have you ever considered that he's awaiting you leaving your husband before he'll leave his wife?
I've been told that by every person I've talk to about it!

I just don't see why. His divorce is going to be very complicated. Mine is not.

So he needs to talk to me.

Because I am about to! He is acting so different - it scares shit out of me!

And now you said it and it's like...again—

Must be something to it!
Have you ever thought that maybe he's changing coz he's buttering you up for the eventual:

"Let's end this."

Maybe he wants to finally stop sneaking around with you.

He's married to someone else.

You're married to someone else.

Move on.
We've been on breaks before.

All he has to do or I to say I need some time and we both respect each other wishes.


How long do your "breaks" from each other usually last?
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It's been a while ago!

The longest been a month maybe.

He had to sort things out but had contacted me

to see how I was doing and show me that he had

not out out. He had also asked mutual friends

about me. So he actually tried to see if that's at all

possible. Haven't had any breaks since March.
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Gemitati, please stop cheating on your husband. Or at least file for a fucking divorce?
Do you REALLY think I will do what you telling me to do? Seriously?
I'm telling what's right. You just feel insecure and your need to be reassured that you are attractive is through the roof. The truth bites.


Who are you really to tell me what's right for me?

And about insecure - you have no idea.

I know you fishing for a picture but no way! Keep wondering. And think of your own bitter!
You don't need to be a rocket scientist to understand that cheating is fucked up and you have no excuse to cheat on your husband of 20+ years. Stop trying to move away from the argument, it only makes you look pathetic.
What was the longest relationship you've ever been to?

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Your attempts of dodging my argument are only making you look more and more delusional.
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Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Gemitati, please stop cheating on your husband. Or at least file for a fucking divorce?
Do you REALLY think I will do what you telling me to do? Seriously?
I'm telling what's right. You just feel insecure and your need to be reassured that you are attractive is through the roof. The truth bites.


Who are you really to tell me what's right for me?

And about insecure - you have no idea.

I know you fishing for a picture but no way! Keep wondering. And think of your own bitter!
You don't need to be a rocket scientist to understand that cheating is fucked up and you have no excuse to cheat on your husband of 20+ years. Stop trying to move away from the argument, it only makes you look pathetic.
What was the longest relationship you've ever been to?


Your attempts of dodging my argument are only making you look more and more delusional.
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I am happy to be delusional as you happy to be miserable!
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Gemitati, please stop cheating on your husband. Or at least file for a fucking divorce?
Do you REALLY think I will do what you telling me to do? Seriously?
I'm telling what's right. You just feel insecure and your need to be reassured that you are attractive is through the roof. The truth bites.


Who are you really to tell me what's right for me?

And about insecure - you have no idea.

I know you fishing for a picture but no way! Keep wondering. And think of your own bitter!
You don't need to be a rocket scientist to understand that cheating is fucked up and you have no excuse to cheat on your husband of 20+ years. Stop trying to move away from the argument, it only makes you look pathetic.
What was the longest relationship you've ever been to?


Your attempts of dodging my argument are only making you look more and more delusional.
I am happy to be delusional as you happy to be miserable!
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Why is it acceptable for you to be a moron but not for me to point it out?
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Gemitati, please stop cheating on your husband. Or at least file for a fucking divorce?
Do you REALLY think I will do what you telling me to do? Seriously?
I'm telling what's right. You just feel insecure and your need to be reassured that you are attractive is through the roof. The truth bites.


Who are you really to tell me what's right for me?

And about insecure - you have no idea.

I know you fishing for a picture but no way! Keep wondering. And think of your own bitter!
You don't need to be a rocket scientist to understand that cheating is fucked up and you have no excuse to cheat on your husband of 20+ years. Stop trying to move away from the argument, it only makes you look pathetic.
What was the longest relationship you've ever been to?


Your attempts of dodging my argument are only making you look more and more delusional.
I am happy to be delusional as you happy to be miserable!
Why is it acceptable for you to be a moron but not for me to point it out?
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Because you aren't my anybody!

And what you think is moronic I think is great!!! And who said you are more right?

And why can't you admit you are miserable?
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Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
You failed sidechick 101. A man doesn't leave his wife for the sidechick. Unless the side chick is way younger. Are you way younger than him? Aren't you in fact older than him? It would cost him too much money for a divorce if there are younger children involved especially. Your company is not worth the hassle he would have to go through.

Be happy as the side piece because that's all you'll be.
I am glad you've got it off your chest!
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You failed sidechick 101. A man doesn't leave his wife for the sidechick. Unless the side chick is way younger. Are you way younger than him? Aren't you in fact older than him? It would cost him too much money for a divorce if there are younger children involved especially. Your company is not worth the hassle he would have to go through.

Be happy as the side piece because that's all you'll be.
I am glad you've got it off your chest!


It's a tale as old as time. Why do you act like it's new to you? You're a mistress who made the mistake of thinking she was more than a mistress like so many do. The longevity of your "relationship" means nothing. You're not even a fun mistress because you sound pretty naggy and he already married the woman he's okay with nagging him the rest of his life.

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Is there a lot left on your chest?

Because it seems you aren't all calmed down yet! Lol

So throwing you another bone...enjoy!
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Hypothetically is it ever possible that at some point I had been dying for this man and he showed me as much attention as he thought I should be having.

So I had been working hard for 3 years explaining all of my thoughts to him and stirring him into direction that I wanted.

Like if you set up routine calling me daily at 11 - you have to stick with it or at least text me that you can't! No drama will follow...

So lately he had been up my ass so I am becoming worried! I am not used to being so overly pampered by him!

Is there slight possibility that he fell for me finally and hard and I can now hope that he will at least consider divorce?

He used to echo my I love you...I knew just to be nice!

Lately he calls me MY LOVE firmly during conversation about...car model I am looking for or anything like house chores...
It's known as, in most relationships, the honey moon stage. If this stage lasts for over a year, you know he has a deep affection for you, if it lasts a month, well, he just fancied you.

Most Scorpio men suck, except for one of my best friends who is a Scorp. We bros; we're tiiiiight.

I'm a little concern with your proposal to him. That's a little over the top, especially for a gem. The attention is great from the people we love is great, but you need to understand that we, or anyone for that matter, really need our alone time as well. If he forgets to call you 1 night, or maybe 2, maybe he is busy, or maybe he just didn't feel like it. You can't expect someone to just devote non stop attention to someone. It's just not human physically possible. Everyone (especially Gems) need to have time to recharge their batteries or you become drained, bored, etc.

But just notice that the honey moon stage is over and now you need to spice things up. Time to take a different direction, like your Gem nature is easy to do, and explore new ways of spending time together and just having fun.
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You didn't get it right.

I do not demand a thing.

It's just how life unfolds.

I think he gets attached more.

And it makes me wonder...
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Gemitati, please stop cheating on your husband. Or at least file for a fucking divorce?
Do you REALLY think I will do what you telling me to do? Seriously?
I'm telling what's right. You just feel insecure and your need to be reassured that you are attractive is through the roof. The truth bites.


Who are you really to tell me what's right for me?

And about insecure - you have no idea.

I know you fishing for a picture but no way! Keep wondering. And think of your own bitter!
You don't need to be a rocket scientist to understand that cheating is fucked up and you have no excuse to cheat on your husband of 20+ years. Stop trying to move away from the argument, it only makes you look pathetic.
What was the longest relationship you've ever been to?


Your attempts of dodging my argument are only making you look more and more delusional.
I am happy to be delusional as you happy to be miserable!
Why is it acceptable for you to be a moron but not for me to point it out?
Because you aren't my anybody!

And what you think is moronic I think is great!!! And who said you are more right?

And why can't you admit you are miserable?
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Because I'm not miserable or incapable of staying committed to a marriage of 20+ years. Unlike you, of course.
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Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?



Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.

Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
Oh, shut up tiny dick.


OH wait, Dominoes?!

Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
Why are you being mean to her?
I guess I was being a lil' bitchy but c'mon do you not see that she's in the wrong?

You don't put yourself in another person's shoes? Imagine what it would feel like being betrayed/cheated on by the person who means the World to you?

It wouldn't bother you if your girl was being unfaithful to you?! The fuck?
Dude, wtf? Why are you assuming so much. Leave it at the first sentence. I don't want to respond to all that.

Based on what I read, this Scorpio is seeing someone else, committed or not, and decided to emotionally cheat on her for this Gem and now she is upset he stepped back. That's my understanding of what happened. No?
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Just to give you the history, she is cheating on her Capricorn husband of 20 years and the Scorpio is cheating on his wife. She won't leave her marriage even though her kids are grown because her husband supports her and he won't leave his marriage because it will cost too much money - which right, there I would be super insulted, he put a price on you and you aren't worth that - but still she holds out hope and wants this so bad and who knows maybe the Scorpio is going to one day leave to be with her, statistically he's not, but these things do happen. Oh and yes he does still have sex with his wife, she did confirm that and again statistically, that's par for the course with this kind of arrangement. And I think I've got you up to speed. And anyone please feel free to add or say where I missed something or misrepresented it.
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Posted by Gem_from_Venus
The thing all the very young people don't understand is that when you're with someone for years and years it's not easy to leave. It's not easy to leave a house you've lived in for years. To separate friends, family, pets, bank accounts, possessions, where one goes to the market...all the normal stuff of life that is still yours. When a young person's relationship ends, they'll still have all those things to comfort themselves, but that won't be there for you if you're leaving a years-long marriage. Not to mention that even if you are no longer in love with your spouse, they're like family now. Best case, a best friend and roomie; worst case, they're like a sibling or child.

None of this makes cheating right or okay. It does make telling her to just leave a much much bigger deal than telling that to someone who is 22 and cheating on someone they've been seeing for two months.
It's amazingly refreshing to read something that make sense.
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Posted by TaurusinTexas
Posted by Hrodebert
Posted by Mystical111
Posted by Hrodebert
Posted by Mystical111
Posted by Hrodebert
Posted by Mystical111
Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?



Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.

Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
Oh, shut up tiny dick.


OH wait, Dominoes?!

Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
Why are you being mean to her?
I guess I was being a lil' bitchy but c'mon do you not see that she's in the wrong?

You don't put yourself in another person's shoes? Imagine what it would feel like being betrayed/cheated on by the person who means the World to you?

It wouldn't bother you if your girl was being unfaithful to you?! The fuck?
Dude, wtf? Why are you assuming so much. Leave it at the first sentence. I don't want to respond to all that.

Based on what I read, this Scorpio is seeing someone else, committed or not, and decided to emotionally cheat on her for this Gem and now she is upset he stepped back. That's my understanding of what happened. No?
Just to give you the history, she is cheating on her Capricorn husband of 20 years and the Scorpio is cheating on his wife. She won't leave her marriage even though her kids are grown because her husband supports her and he won't leave his marriage because it will cost too much money - which right, there I would be super insulted, he put a price on you and you aren't worth that - but still she holds out hope and wants this so bad and who knows maybe the Scorpio is going to one day leave to be with her, statistically he's not, but these things do happen. Oh and yes he does still have sex with his wife, she did confirm that and again statistically, that's par for the course with this kind of arrangement. And I think I've got you up to speed. And anyone please feel free to add or say where I missed something or misrepresented it.

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You done well. Confirmed. Thanks
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Question, if he divorced his wife will you divorce your husband.
Yes!

But that wasn't a question!!!
Have you ever considered that he's awaiting you leaving your husband before he'll leave his wife?
I've been told that by every person I've talk to about it!

I just don't see why. His divorce is going to be very complicated. Mine is not.

So he needs to talk to me.

Because I am about to! He is acting so different - it scares shit out of me!

And now you said it and it's like...again—

Must be something to it!
He's been giving you crumbs for so long that this slight increase of communication, texting and calls, is making you loose your head. Truth is your expectations superceede his own.

Next time he calls you should ask him when he plans to leave his wife for you. Let us know how it goes.
How does it in sync with your last 'suggestion'?

If I left first...what's your last post has to do with previous?
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The last 'suggestion' as you call it was in actuality a question to determine how serious you are about this side dick of yours.

Asking him how serious he is about you is my suggestion. I anticipate you'll get a lot of lip service and empty promises from him with zero follow through. Things like, "the timing isn't right", and "I don't want to hurt anyone", etc. etc. And judging from your excitement over what little crumbs he's given you thus far it'll likely be enough to tide you over for another 3 years.

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Question, if he divorced his wife will you divorce your husband.
Yes!

But that wasn't a question!!!
Have you ever considered that he's awaiting you leaving your husband before he'll leave his wife?
I've been told that by every person I've talk to about it!

I just don't see why. His divorce is going to be very complicated. Mine is not.

So he needs to talk to me.

Because I am about to! He is acting so different - it scares shit out of me!

And now you said it and it's like...again—

Must be something to it!
He's been giving you crumbs for so long that this slight increase of communication, texting and calls, is making you loose your head. Truth is your expectations superceede his own.

Next time he calls you should ask him when he plans to leave his wife for you. Let us know how it goes.
How does it in sync with your last 'suggestion'?

If I left first...what's your last post has to do with previous?
The last 'suggestion' as you call it was in actuality a question to determine how serious you are about this side dick of yours.

Asking him how serious he is about you is my suggestion. I anticipate you'll get a lot of lip service and empty promises from him with zero follow through. Things like, "the timing isn't right", and "I don't want to hurt anyone", etc. etc. And judging from your excitement over what little crumbs he's given you thus far it'll likely be enough to tide you over for another 3 years.

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It doesn't mean it will change anything!

While we still looking good enough to do it - it's all good!

We had agreed for non-demanding relashionship a while ago!

Why are you so fired up? If I can live with it so you should be able to.
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Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?



Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.

Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
Oh, shut up tiny dick.


OH wait, Dominoes?!

Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
Why are you being mean to her?
I guess I was being a lil' bitchy but c'mon do you not see that she's in the wrong?

You don't put yourself in another person's shoes? Imagine what it would feel like being betrayed/cheated on by the person who means the World to you?

It wouldn't bother you if your girl was being unfaithful to you?! The fuck?
Dude, wtf? Why are you assuming so much. Leave it at the first sentence. I don't want to respond to all that.

Based on what I read, this Scorpio is seeing someone else, committed or not, and decided to emotionally cheat on her for this Gem and now she is upset he stepped back. That's my understanding of what happened. No?
I really don't give a fuck whether or not you want to read everything that i've written. Do what you wanna do, it doesn't affect me. You're telling me that I should leave things at the first sentence when, like the hypocrite that you are, you've written like 5.

If you don't want to read my shit then don't respond to me, it's that simple. Dummy. If you weren't interested in reading my responses you wouldn't be tagging my posts.You should probably work on actually making sense in your next response. Retard.
What the living fuck is wrong with you?


Maybe I should work on expressing my opinions without being disrespectful but the message was clear. I get that as a Gemini this probably offends you but there are several different threads about this topic and I think all of us have come to the conclusion that people with this Sun sign lack commitment.

Do you think cheating on a spouse is right, yes or no? And if you've answered no to this question then why are you defending the OP ? ? ?


Why would you ask a Taurus Venus such a stupid question? Of course cheating on a spouse is wrong. There is absolutely ZERO excuses to justify it.

Now, please stop making up assumptions. Can you please answer my question or I won't respond anymore and give you some space to calm the fuck down. Gezzus.


Which question(s)?

Why I'm mean to her or you asking me what is wrong with me?

I just don't condone cheating, I think it's fucked up. It's selfish. Just because her significant other has been unfaithful that shouldn't give her the reason to be that way as well. It's like the saying "Two wrongs don't make a right." Instead of vindictively getting back at him why don't you make things easier by leaving him? Obviously once he figures out she's speaking to another man then the relationship is over anyways, correct? So just leave. If the both of them aren't faithful to each other then what are they even doing with each other? Why are they even together still? It's pointless. Cut him off.
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I don't understand...has my thread being hijacked?
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Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?



Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.

Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
Oh, shut up tiny dick.


OH wait, Dominoes?!

Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
Why are you being mean to her?
I guess I was being a lil' bitchy but c'mon do you not see that she's in the wrong?

You don't put yourself in another person's shoes? Imagine what it would feel like being betrayed/cheated on by the person who means the World to you?

It wouldn't bother you if your girl was being unfaithful to you?! The fuck?
Dude, wtf? Why are you assuming so much. Leave it at the first sentence. I don't want to respond to all that.

Based on what I read, this Scorpio is seeing someone else, committed or not, and decided to emotionally cheat on her for this Gem and now she is upset he stepped back. That's my understanding of what happened. No?
I really don't give a fuck whether or not you want to read everything that i've written. Do what you wanna do, it doesn't affect me. You're telling me that I should leave things at the first sentence when, like the hypocrite that you are, you've written like 5.

If you don't want to read my shit then don't respond to me, it's that simple. Dummy. If you weren't interested in reading my responses you wouldn't be tagging my posts.You should probably work on actually making sense in your next response. Retard.
What the living fuck is wrong with you?


Maybe I should work on expressing my opinions without being disrespectful but the message was clear. I get that as a Gemini this probably offends you but there are several different threads about this topic and I think all of us have come to the conclusion that people with this Sun sign lack commitment.

Do you think cheating on a spouse is right, yes or no? And if you've answered no to this question then why are you defending the OP ? ? ?


Why would you ask a Taurus Venus such a stupid question? Of course cheating on a spouse is wrong. There is absolutely ZERO excuses to justify it.

Now, please stop making up assumptions. Can you please answer my question or I won't respond anymore and give you some space to calm the fuck down. Gezzus.


Which question(s)?

Why I'm mean to her or you asking me what is wrong with me?

I just don't condone cheating, I think it's fucked up. It's selfish. Just because her significant other has been unfaithful that shouldn't give her the reason to be that way as well. It's like the saying "Two wrongs don't make a right." Instead of vindictively getting back at him why don't you make things easier by leaving him? Obviously once he figures out she's speaking to another man then the relationship is over anyways, correct? So just leave. If the both of them aren't faithful to each other then what are they even doing with each other? Why are they even together still? It's pointless. Cut him off.
I don't understand...has my thread being hijacked?


Don't think so. But anyways I honestly hope you find a resolution with this sticky situation. Be wise with this.

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Thanks! I am looking...for years...
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Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?



Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.

Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
Oh, shut up tiny dick.


OH wait, Dominoes?!

Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
Why are you being mean to her?
um, excuse you sir I'm Gemitati personal knight so back off
She's all yours for the taking.
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I don't remember asking permission!

Also I didn't know you hold certificate of ME possession and if you do where is my NYear payment?
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Posted by Mystical111
Posted by Hrodebert
Posted by Mystical111
Posted by Hrodebert
Posted by Mystical111
Typical Gemini behavior. Let me guess you're a Gemini Venus too?



Your sign is really fucking pathetic when it comes to relationships.

Is it really that difficult to stay faithful to one person? Apparently for most Geminis it is. People of your sign should just stay single, stop wasting people's time.
Oh, shut up tiny dick.


OH wait, Dominoes?!

Ok this doesn't apply to you, You've got Scorpio Ascendant. We're ride or die as fuck. 100% loyal.
Why are you being mean to her?
I guess I was being a lil' bitchy but c'mon do you not see that she's in the wrong?

You don't put yourself in another person's shoes? Imagine what it would feel like being betrayed/cheated on by the person who means the World to you?

It wouldn't bother you if your girl was being unfaithful to you?! The fuck?
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It bothers everybody who was cheated on by somebody buy no one who is a 'victim' ever thinks that they maybe asked for it!
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