Taurus Man Scorpio Woman... WTH?

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Older scorpio female... was seeing younger taurus Male. I never wanted to involve myself with him... for one he was the friend of someone I used to date but the relationship ended bad because he disrespected me so BAD in public. For two he was married but i always sensed it wasnt a "traditional marriage" if you get my point. And for three i just was never attracted to him. It all began when he first contacted me to make sure i was okay after seeing his friend verbally abuse me in public. I kept it very platonic but i could tell he had other interests. He kept trying to get me to hang out with him explaining he was going threw a divorce and he just wanted to get out and about. I continued to turn him down for months. About 6 months Iater.. after not speaking to him for a few months i ended up moving away... out of nowhere he contacts on social media, and its ironic because o swear i dreamed of him not even 2 days prior. Anyway he DMs me asks how im doing and begins to confide in me about his failed marriage and how she cheated with the guy i used to date... blah blah blah... me feeling sympathetic i converse with him back and forth and before you know it were talking everyday... which quickly turns out to him visiting... i could feel things becoming a lil intense so i ask him his status of his divorce he reassures me hes separated and have filed for divorce moved out but i still felt like things shouldnt go further until its finale. I told him this he said he understood... but he did everything to whoa me! Very persistent! Charming, cooked, attentive, gentleman etc. The chemistry was off the charts! Eventually one thing lead to the other and we slept together. I felt like i needed to cut things off not because i didnt want to be with him it was just the timing was bad... so i told him we couldnt go there anymore.

About a week later he ends up in the same club im in and we ended up being physical again... now im starting to catch feelings so i tell him again why we had to end things. He wasnt happy, said he would show me that he would do right by me... but i still felt like the situation was messy.. so i stopped talking to him for about 3 weeks... he kept commenting on posts on social media finally he texts and says basically i pissed him off by cutting him off and i threw a monkey wrench in the situation but i felt he wasnt fully available to me it was inconsistencies that started to come out. He would not be able to talk on the phone at certain times, could never stay the night, gave excuses about why he couldnt do these things.. these were all Red Flags that he wasnt being truthful.

Like a dumby i saw him again.. but now his persistence had died off a lot, he wouldnt be as attentive, he wasnt really talking to me everyday.. when i asked why he said because i keep cutting things off.. but i told him i keep cuttings off because you dont seem 100 percent available. RED FLAGS. So this passed holiday he wanted to see me before i left for a trip. He came by and things got physical smh.. i knew better... he ended up leaving for his holiday trip the day i got back ... he was driving home (16hr) for the holidays... i was shocked and asked if he was driving alone he reassured me that he was and that hed be fine... i told him to call me if he needed... he said ok.. never heard from him...

Couple days pass and i felt like he was being distant so i confronted him... he said he was just enjoying family and said he missed me... about two days later i got two new requests on my snap chat... i added them just out of curiosity. One ended up being his so called estranged "wife" soon to be divorced... her snapped revealed she was pregnant and on vacation with him! I text him cussed him out and told him never to contact me again. Taurus Men SMH he knew where i stood about not dating him in that situation. I feel used! Never again
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There were RED FLAGS prior you to you being initmate with him.

1. FIRST red flag- Trying to push up on his friend's woman (recruiting a side-piece for himself.) 1st douche move. 2nd douche move...and cornball move...playing good cop/bad cop after you and your ex had an argument.

2. SECOND red flag He didn't respect your boundaries. You told him nothing 'initmate' until the divorce was final. However, you're partially to blame in this. You should have NEVER invited him over to your house. You should have been 'firm' with those boundaries.

Here is my assessment of the situation...

(I could be wrong).

There are bad Taurus men in the bunch.

He represents the 'hedonistic' kind.

They can be sometimes hard to detect, because they 'woo' you with the same 'gusto' as the good Taurus men.

My guess,

You probably trusted letting him into your apartment because he probably made you feel 'safe.'

Earth Sign men can let down those defenses without even trying.

Gentleman behavior....

Affectionate...

Attentive....

Grounded...

Good Listeners.



Take this as a learning lesson.

A good taurus man would not have been this 'pushy'...he would have respectedyour boundaries.
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Tarusbull1997 thank you and yes i am to blame because i should have known better.. i guess i just wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt but best believe hes history now...

And his wife probably already knows... i am not the first girl he probably has been dealing with. After she tried to add me i went to her facebook and she had this long story on there about her marriage and how she had enough and is getting a divorce... so she knows.. i will let karma catch up to him... im not out here trying to do Gods work. I honestly believe that if i did tell her she wouldnt do anything... shed still stay with him.. seen it all before... you try to be a good advocaye for other women and it back fires so i will bow out gracefully because i know my worth and what i wont put up with.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977

There were RED FLAGS prior you to you being initmate with him.

1. FIRST red flag- Trying to push up on his friend's woman (recruiting a side-piece for himself.) 1st douche move. 2nd douche move...and cornball move...playing good cop/bad cop after you and your ex had an argument.

2. SECOND red flag He didn't respect your boundaries. You told him nothing 'initmate' until the divorce was final. However, you're partially to blame in this. You should have NEVER invited him over to your house. You should have been 'firm' with those boundaries.

Here is my assessment of the situation...

(I could be wrong).

There are bad Taurus men in the bunch.

He represents the 'hedonistic' kind.

They can be sometimes hard to detect, because they 'woo' you with the same 'gusto' as the good Taurus men.

My guess,

You probably trusted letting him into your apartment because he probably made you feel 'safe.'

Earth Sign men can let down those defenses without even trying.

Gentleman behavior....

Affectionate...

Attentive....

Grounded...

Good Listeners.



Take this as a learning lesson.

A good taurus man would not have been this 'pushy'...he would have respectedyour boundaries.

You always come correct with your information on us it amazes me. Those two red flags you mentioned are a dead giveaway of a bad Taurus man especially number two. With a good Taurus once you set up a boundary we make sure to stay far away from it out of respect and admiration for you until you give us the ok to proceed, but even then we may still hesitate to move out of cautiousness lol.
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Tarusbull1997 thank you and yes i am to blame because i should have known better.. i guess i just wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt but best believe hes history now...

And his wife probably already knows... i am not the first girl he probably has been dealing with. After she tried to add me i went to her facebook and she had this long story on there about her marriage and how she had enough and is getting a divorce... so she knows.. i will let karma catch up to him... im not out here trying to do Gods work. I honestly believe that if i did tell her she wouldnt do anything... shed still stay with him.. seen it all before... you try to be a good advocaye for other women and it back fires so i will bow out gracefully because i know my worth and what i wont put up with.

Jeez... You really are a fkn idiot.
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Really.. if you have nothing more to say keep your derogatory comments to yourself! Thanks
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Posted by LentoBull91

Posted by TaurusBull1977

There were RED FLAGS prior you to you being initmate with him.

1. FIRST red flag- Trying to push up on his friend's woman (recruiting a side-piece for himself.) 1st douche move. 2nd douche move...and cornball move...playing good cop/bad cop after you and your ex had an argument.

2. SECOND red flag He didn't respect your boundaries. You told him nothing 'initmate' until the divorce was final. However, you're partially to blame in this. You should have NEVER invited him over to your house. You should have been 'firm' with those boundaries.

3. THIRD (AND many other red flags) He didn't stay over night

4. FORTH (your bad); you should have asked him for a copy of his divorce decree; THEN you would have agreed to date him.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by FknMeow

Posted by TNT

Tarusbull1997 thank you and yes i am to blame because i should have known better.. i guess i just wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt but best believe hes history now...

And his wife probably already knows... i am not the first girl he probably has been dealing with. After she tried to add me i went to her facebook and she had this long story on there about her marriage and how she had enough and is getting a divorce... so she knows.. i will let karma catch up to him... im not out here trying to do Gods work. I honestly believe that if i did tell her she wouldnt do anything... shed still stay with him.. seen it all before... you try to be a good advocaye for other women and it back fires so i will bow out gracefully because i know my worth and what i wont put up with.

Jeez... You really are a fkn idiot.
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ROFLMAO!

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🤗 Cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva