
LuckyLibra7
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Posted by AcutelyUnaware
BDSM = Batshit Crazy.
Heed my warning.


Posted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.


Posted by IceStorm
What always fascinated me is when women actually admit that they want to be treated like a ādirty little whoreā. Just Friday night I was out with my cancer and Virgo friends and my cancer friend who is in her last 40s says she likes to be demoralized⦠I like to be dominated, sometimes even restrained or controlled, but if a man disrespects me or calls me out of my name heās getting slapped š lol thereās nothing sexy about that.
So it does make you wonder why different people have these kinks. Why some women want to be abused, either verbally or physically.

Posted by LuckyLibra7
What's everyone's thoughts on men handling and accepting women's true desires sexually?
Most women tend to not reach that level of comfort with the average man they date, but lo and behold if they do... The majority of men cannot handle all the sexual ideas or fantasies in a woman's mind, let own some actual experiences.

Posted by AndalusiaPosted by LuckyLibra7
What's everyone's thoughts on men handling and accepting women's true desires sexually?
Most women tend to not reach that level of comfort with the average man they date, but lo and behold if they do... The majority of men cannot handle all the sexual ideas or fantasies in a woman's mind, let own some actual experiences.
IMO (and limited experience) the men that react like this to women's fantasies are in denial about their own.click to expand

Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by AndalusiaPosted by LuckyLibra7
What's everyone's thoughts on men handling and accepting women's true desires sexually?
Most women tend to not reach that level of comfort with the average man they date, but lo and behold if they do... The majority of men cannot handle all the sexual ideas or fantasies in a woman's mind, let own some actual experiences.
IMO (and limited experience) the men that react like this to women's fantasies are in denial about their own.
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Hmm, I have no idea. I've always thought men were appalled or would have issues with it because of the diplomatic perception given off by most women. Those type of fantasies or kinks don't align with how they present themselves. You can say the same about men, but they are typically more open that they want to bang as many women as possible or something to that degree. An easy tell would be the content they follow on social media. So many men, married or not follow and pester IG models.click to expand

Posted by IceStorm
What always fascinated me is when women actually admit that they want to be treated like a ādirty little whoreā. Just Friday night I was out with my cancer and Virgo friends and my cancer friend who is in her last 40s says she likes to be demoralized⦠I like to be dominated, sometimes even restrained or controlled, but if a man disrespects me or calls me out of my name heās getting slapped š lol thereās nothing sexy about that.
So it does make you wonder why different people have these kinks. Why some women want to be abused, either verbally or physically.

Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
I'm not necessarily talking about normal kinks or someone wanting anal constantly etc. But something that the woman doesn't share with every partner.
I dated a Virgo about two years ago. It took her several months to share her BDSM kink.. But it wasn't until after a year she finally shared that she had threesomes and multiple sexual encounters with different people in the friend group. At one point they were pretty much all fucking each other during COVID.
They all still remained friends, but it was a thing where she would introduce me and then say "yeah we had a thing before", but this kept happening and I was like wtf is going on??
Also, I have no idea about the rape fantasy thing. She may have just been wanted to be intensely dominated but the guy didn't feel comfortable doing that just yet since they had recently met.click to expand

Posted by nanochipPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by nanochipI'm not necessarily talking about normal kinks or someone wanting anal constantly etc. But something that the woman doesn't share with every partner.
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
I dated a Virgo about two years ago. It took her several months to share her BDSM kink.. But it wasn't until after a year she finally shared that she had threesomes and multiple sexual encounters with different people in the friend group. At one point they were pretty much all fucking each other during COVID.
They all still remained friends, but it was a thing where she would introduce me and then say "yeah we had a thing before", but this kept happening and I was like wtf is going on??
Also, I have no idea about the rape fantasy thing. She may have just been wanted to be intensely dominated but the guy didn't feel comfortable doing that just yet since they had recently met.
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What part about that do you feel that you could not satisfy/fulfill? I mean based on the thread title. Her need for variety and group sex? Again, not sure how common this is.
I feel like communication barriers like these are not open because we live still in a puritanical society preaching abstinence only sex education in some areas, so sex is still associated with shame before we even get to have it. This poor education follows people and how they view sex their entire lives. Iām speaking from US pov btw. Europeans are generally more educated and open as a whole, I do believeclick to expand

Posted by IceStormPosted by nanochipPosted by IceStorm
What always fascinated me is when women actually admit that they want to be treated like a ādirty little whoreā. Just Friday night I was out with my cancer and Virgo friends and my cancer friend who is in her last 40s says she likes to be demoralized⦠I like to be dominated, sometimes even restrained or controlled, but if a man disrespects me or calls me out of my name heās getting slapped š lol thereās nothing sexy about that.
So it does make you wonder why different people have these kinks. Why some women want to be abused, either verbally or physically.
I think itās sometimes different than you are thinking of it. This is more of a total submission thing than a disrespect/demoralizing/degrating thing imo. Iām speaking as a person who likes to be completely submissive in bed and enjoys that kind of talk, personally. Tbh Iām a bit of a cunt with ridged boundaries irl, so finding a man worth submitting to completely this way is a turn on. I think itās actually called a ābratā, like teasing and being difficult and then fiiiinally giving in when he literally cannot handle anymore.
Itās not the idea that youāre a āslutā or a āwhoreā the way itās generally used as an insult, but that youāre HIS slut/whore who would be willing to do anything naughty/dirty/shocking to please him, which makes it hot. Itās more a submissive/dom/ownership kind of thing. I know there are people into demoralization and degrading, but just giving you another perspective
I see what youāre saying.. I also feel like it takes a certain person and a level of trust to bring that level of freak out of us.. I just have not had that level brought out of me yet but Iāll never say never.click to expand

Posted by Bumboklaat
Idk what the truth is. Can't read minds. I've seen/done some kinky shiz tho. Wouldn't surprise me women had wilder fantasies than men, they are more in tune sexually than men imo.
What does surprise and fascinate me is the emotional control you can have over someone.


Posted by MyStarsShine
Iām wondering how many men are willing to receive anal sexā¦seems a lot expect the woman to be up for it. Double standard.
I only met one who was into itā¦

Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by MyStarsShine
Iām wondering how many men are willing to receive anal sexā¦seems a lot expect the woman to be up for it. Double standard.
I only met one who was into itā¦
you mean pegging?click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by MyStarsShine
Iām wondering how many men are willing to receive anal sexā¦seems a lot expect the woman to be up for it. Double standard.
I only met one who was into itā¦
you mean pegging?
Yes anal sex performed on a manā¦click to expand

Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by MyStarsShine
Iām wondering how many men are willing to receive anal sexā¦seems a lot expect the woman to be up for it. Double standard.
I only met one who was into itā¦
you mean pegging?
Yes anal sex performed on a manā¦
I doubt this is super common, but there are submissive men.click to expand


Posted by MyStarsShine
Iām wondering how many men are willing to receive anal sexā¦seems a lot expect the woman to be up for it. Double standard.
I only met one who was into itā¦


Posted by LuckyLibra7
What's everyone's thoughts on men handling and accepting women's true desires sexually?


Posted by alexscariesPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/<div class="bqfade">click to expand

Posted by alexscariesPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/click to expand


Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88
I think it sucks, some men stay on the vanilla side and don't even pull hair, and that's a pretty common thing to do in sex. Like why not even try to do it? It's not gonna hurt you or the girl.
I don't know what men are afraid of.
The rape fantasy, I get. It's a scary scenario and someone could think they will be too rough or too hurtful. And how often would they have to do that? Like if a women needed to be fake raped every time she had sex to have orgasms, I would think it could be tiring to do, let alone create a sadistic style of sex that would be habit forming.
She just needs to find a guy sexually compatible with her if this is important.
Damn, homie didn't even wanna pull your hair? *stretches fingers*click to expand


Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by MyStarsShineyou mean pegging?
Iām wondering how many men are willing to receive anal sexā¦seems a lot expect the woman to be up for it. Double standard.
I only met one who was into itā¦
Yes anal sex performed on a manā¦
I doubt this is super common, but there are submissive men.
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The guy I met who was into it was very dominant lol ā¦click to expand


Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88
I think it sucks, some men stay on the vanilla side and don't even pull hair, and that's a pretty common thing to do in sex. Like why not even try to do it? It's not gonna hurt you or the girl.
I don't know what men are afraid of.
The rape fantasy, I get. It's a scary scenario and someone could think they will be too rough or too hurtful. And how often would they have to do that? Like if a women needed to be fake raped every time she had sex to have orgasms, I would think it could be tiring to do, let alone create a sadistic style of sex that would be habit forming.
She just needs to find a guy sexually compatible with her if this is important.
Damn, homie didn't even wanna pull your hair? *stretches fingers*
I know! Boring, right? lol
I guess some people are just fine starfishing and being humped like a mechanical robot lol
I kinda wanna give sex classes. I think people could use some teaching. I'd be standing over 'em like NAH, YOU GOTTA SWITCH UP THE RYTHYM! WHY AREN'T YOU PLAYING WITH HER CLIT? ASK HER WHAT SHE LIKES!click to expand

Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/
I doubt that figure is correct
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I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy
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Posted by StonyPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesI doubt that figure is correctPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/
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I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy
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But how many of them would act that out?
Probably more than you think given the right partnerclick to expand

Posted by StonyPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StonyPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesI doubt that figure is correctPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/
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I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy
click to expand
But how many of them would act that out?
Probably more than you think given the right partner
Most of your sexual partners?
Lol nah, i haven't even had many partners, maybe like 6 at this point. Never broached CNC with any of them. Just that people like all kinds of wild shitclick to expand


Posted by StonyPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StonyPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StonyMost of your sexual partners?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesBut how many of them would act that out?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/
I doubt that figure is correct
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I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy
click to expand
Probably more than you think given the right partner
Lol nah, i haven't even had many partners, maybe like 6 at this point. Never broached CNC with any of them. Just that people like all kinds of wild shit
Iāve not had many either ā¦
Taurus moon purity šš
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I'm tryna get smudged up er suttin'click to expand

Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/
I doubt that figure is correct
click to expand
I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy
But how many of them would act that out?
Pointless having fantasies if they trapped and imaginaryclick to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by StonyPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StonyPosted by MyStarsShineProbably more than you think given the right partnerPosted by alexscariesBut how many of them would act that out?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/
I doubt that figure is correct
click to expand
I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy
click to expand
Most of your sexual partners?
Lol nah, i haven't even had many partners, maybe like 6 at this point. Never broached CNC with any of them. Just that people like all kinds of wild shit
click to expand
Iāve not had many either ā¦
Taurus moon purity ššclick to expand

Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/
I doubt that figure is correct
click to expand
I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy
But how many of them would act that out?
Pointless having fantasies if they trapped and imaginary
I knew a woman who lived her life as a fantasyā¦she claimed the reality was a let down
š¶come with me and youāll be in a world of pure imaginationš¶
I've got a remix of that it's called Wonkeredclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by StonyPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StonyPosted by MyStarsShineProbably more than you think given the right partnerPosted by alexscariesBut how many of them would act that out?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/
I doubt that figure is correct
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I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy
click to expand
Most of your sexual partners?
Lol nah, i haven't even had many partners, maybe like 6 at this point. Never broached CNC with any of them. Just that people like all kinds of wild shit
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Iāve not had many either ā¦
Taurus moon purity šš
Is that a thing? Taurus is known for indulging and being glutinous.
I know a Gemini Sun, Taurus moon, and Scorpio Mars that is a forever bachelor and will never settle because he loves being with a variety of different women. He will tell women that he will cheat if he's caged into a relationship. He gets too bored.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by StonyPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StonyPosted by MyStarsShineProbably more than you think given the right partnerPosted by alexscariesBut how many of them would act that out?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/
I doubt that figure is correct
click to expand
I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy
click to expand
Most of your sexual partners?
Lol nah, i haven't even had many partners, maybe like 6 at this point. Never broached CNC with any of them. Just that people like all kinds of wild shit
click to expand
Iāve not had many either ā¦
Taurus moon purity šš
Is that a thing? Taurus is known for indulging and being glutinous.
I know a Gemini Sun, Taurus moon, and Scorpio Mars that is a forever bachelor and will never settle because he loves being with a variety of different women. He will tell women that he will cheat if he's caged into a relationship. He gets too bored.
Yes greedy Taurus moons
I think Scorp Mars can be slutty and insatiable
I said that because Stony and me have Taurus moonā¦click to expand

Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/
I doubt that figure is correct
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I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy
But how many of them would act that out?
Pointless having fantasies if they trapped and imaginary
I knew a woman who lived her life as a fantasyā¦she claimed the reality was a let down
š¶come with me and youāll be in a world of pure imaginationš¶
I've got a remix of that it's called Wonkered
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Did you see the original with Jean Wilder
Both Wonkers were Geminis lol
I think it's a great film, but very psychedelic. Not seen the remake, not really a big Tim Burton fan.click to expand


Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by StonyIāve not had many either ā¦Posted by MyStarsShineLol nah, i haven't even had many partners, maybe like 6 at this point. Never broached CNC with any of them. Just that people like all kinds of wild shitPosted by StonyMost of your sexual partners?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/
I doubt that figure is correct
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I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy
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But how many of them would act that out?
Probably more than you think given the right partner
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Taurus moon purity šš
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Is that a thing? Taurus is known for indulging and being glutinous.
I know a Gemini Sun, Taurus moon, and Scorpio Mars that is a forever bachelor and will never settle because he loves being with a variety of different women. He will tell women that he will cheat if he's caged into a relationship. He gets too bored.
He's a scorpio mars we're special people.click to expand

Posted by alexscariesPosted by Textosmoon
I think that is wishful thinking OP.
The truth that men can't handle is that their sex drive is much higher than a woman's. And we are far more vanilla.
Most women have sex a lot of the time simply to please the partner but we dont need it and at times don't even enjoy it. Which i can understand might be hurtful to the man for him to know.
I think that is the truth men can't handle.
I think it varies. As I've said mine is either sky high or none existent. Some women have a higher sex drive than men and vise versa. Women's fantasies are also far more interesting than mens.click to expand

Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/
I doubt that figure is correct
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I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy
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Posted by Walk_on_byPosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesI doubt that figure is correctPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/
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I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy
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Womens romance fantasy books are not very interesting though lol. See this is a difference between men and women, women love that kind of shit and will read the same thing over and over and it's all the same sexual content, many popular women's books are ab sex. Men will read Moby Dick or something like that again and again while women can't stand it. A males sexual fantasy is some epic story of struggle and making a mark on the world, that's what gives us a hard on. A woman's sexual fantasy is for a man to make his mark on her...click to expand

Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Walk_on_byAnd that is why men and womenPosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/
I doubt that figure is correct
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I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy
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Womens romance fantasy books are not very interesting though lol. See this is a difference between men and women, women love that kind of shit and will read the same thing over and over and it's all the same sexual content, many popular women's books are ab sex. Men will read Moby Dick or something like that again and again while women can't stand it. A males sexual fantasy is some epic story of struggle and making a mark on the world, that's what gives us a hard on. A woman's sexual fantasy is for a man to make his mark on her...
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are highly incompatible š
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That's why it's called straight person's problems
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Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Walk_on_byPosted by alexscariesWomens romance fantasy books are not very interesting though lol. See this is a difference between men and women, women love that kind of shit and will read the same thing over and over and it's all the same sexual content, many popular women's books are ab sex. Men will read Moby Dick or something like that again and again while women can't stand it. A males sexual fantasy is some epic story of struggle and making a mark on the world, that's what gives us a hard on. A woman's sexual fantasy is for a man to make his mark on her...Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by nanochip
I would disagree - all of the men I have experience with have been very receptive to my desire/kinks that Iāve wanted to try. I think men in general want to please their sex partner. Iāve never had experience with anything otherwise. The key factor here is communication. I think the issue is that people arenāt open talking about this stuff, especially if youāre a person who has a lot of casual sex.
Your example is very extreme and an huge outlier from the norm. It sounds like that woman had a lot of psychological issues. Like she secretly literally wanted to be raped or what? No one would know she wanted that if she doesnāt tell them, she just expected them to do it of their own volition? Huge red flag. She sounds like sheās suffered from sexual assault/rape and hasnāt dealt with the trauma properly. Thatās in no way a standard desire or expectation for most women.
Disagree 62% of women have had rape fantasies. The women's fantasies are always more interesting than men's. Most popular male fantasy is a threesome ... borin'.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/
I doubt that figure is correct
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I don't. Loads of brutes in fiction, even Mr Darcy and the beast. It's a sexual fantasy not a romantic fantasy
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And that is why men and women
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Most women tend to not reach that level of comfort with the average man they date, but lo and behold if they do... The majority of men cannot handle all the sexual ideas or fantasies in a woman's mind, let own some actual experiences. Other than my own experiences, I've had a couple friends share some of their adventures and even though there's no romantic interest, at times like I'm still damn.. and in utter disbelief.
There was a guy a while back I know who went on several dates with a woman, but she was extremely closed off, yet kept communicating she liked him. He did not believe her and stated he wanted to end things.. she then turned the tables and stated she has a rape fantasy and he failed to take her by force so the relationship would not have progressed anyway.
The man was in complete shock and thought she was batshit crazy.