Younger men love older women because they give good head + you can cum inside without worrying about impregnation.
Older women (Page 2)
You are on page out of 2 | Reverse Order
June 25, 1745
My dear Friend,
I know of no Medicine fit to diminish the violent natural Inclinations you mention; and if I did, I think I should not communicate it to you. Marriage is the proper Remedy. It is the most natural State of Man, and therefore the State in which you are most likely to find solid Happiness. Your Reasons against entering into it at present, appear to me not well-founded. The circumstantial Advantages you have in View by postponing it, are not only uncertain, but they are small in comparison with that of the Thing itself, the being married and settled. It is the Man and Woman united that make the compleat human Being. Separate, she wants his Force of Body and Strength of Reason; he, her Softness, Sensibility and acute Discernment. Together they are more likely to succeed in the World. A single Man has not nearly the Value he would have in that State of Union. He is an incomplete Animal. He resembles the odd Half of a Pair of Scissars. If you get a prudent healthy Wife, your Industry in your Profession, with her good Economy, will be a Fortune sufficient.
But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking a Commerce with the Sex inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice, that in all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand my Reasons. They are these:
i. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor'd with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreable.
2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.
3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc'd may be attended with much Inconvenience.
4. Because thro' more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin'd to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.
5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding2 only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement.
6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her for Life unhappy.
7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making an old Woman happy.
8thly and Lastly They are so grateful!!
Thus much for my Paradox. But still I advise you to marry directly; being sincerely Your affectionate Friend.
-Ben Franklin
My dear Friend,
I know of no Medicine fit to diminish the violent natural Inclinations you mention; and if I did, I think I should not communicate it to you. Marriage is the proper Remedy. It is the most natural State of Man, and therefore the State in which you are most likely to find solid Happiness. Your Reasons against entering into it at present, appear to me not well-founded. The circumstantial Advantages you have in View by postponing it, are not only uncertain, but they are small in comparison with that of the Thing itself, the being married and settled. It is the Man and Woman united that make the compleat human Being. Separate, she wants his Force of Body and Strength of Reason; he, her Softness, Sensibility and acute Discernment. Together they are more likely to succeed in the World. A single Man has not nearly the Value he would have in that State of Union. He is an incomplete Animal. He resembles the odd Half of a Pair of Scissars. If you get a prudent healthy Wife, your Industry in your Profession, with her good Economy, will be a Fortune sufficient.
But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking a Commerce with the Sex inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice, that in all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand my Reasons. They are these:
i. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor'd with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreable.
2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.
3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc'd may be attended with much Inconvenience.
4. Because thro' more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin'd to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.
5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding2 only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement.
6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her for Life unhappy.
7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making an old Woman happy.
8thly and Lastly They are so grateful!!
Thus much for my Paradox. But still I advise you to marry directly; being sincerely Your affectionate Friend.
-Ben Franklin
Posted by whatisthisallabout
I found that I always attract guys in the same age range (23-42), at least for the past 15 years. I’m 38 now, but guys assume I’m 27/28. I think it’s normal for a 23/24-year old guy to find me attractive when he thinks I’m just 27/28. My current bf is 24. He’s a visual guy so he admits that he is atttacted to me cuz I look like I’m in my 20s and that if I looked 40, he would not find me attractive.
You go lady!
The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Very good!!! Enough bullshit! Your mother would not appreciate it...
Very good!!! Enough bullshit! Your mother would not appreciate it...
I don't chase cougars... I do chase the sexual experience they possess. I realize older women have restriction simply over what they don't like, not what they think they don't like.
I've noticed that older women seem to enjoy a larger dick than younger girls, and know what to do with it.... plus you bang them right you actually get some sugar momma status/reciprocation.
A lot of young girls, when I say young I mean 35 and below are broke. other than probably some young vag, that's all they can really offer outside of "companionship".... I can't even go dutch with some of these chicks because places I like to go might screw their budget up.
I've noticed that older women seem to enjoy a larger dick than younger girls, and know what to do with it.... plus you bang them right you actually get some sugar momma status/reciprocation.
A lot of young girls, when I say young I mean 35 and below are broke. other than probably some young vag, that's all they can really offer outside of "companionship".... I can't even go dutch with some of these chicks because places I like to go might screw their budget up.
Posted by hellosaggy
I don't chase cougars... I do chase the sexual experience they possess. I realize older women have restriction simply over what they don't like, not what they think they don't like.
I've noticed that older women seem to enjoy a larger dick than younger girls, and know what to do with it.... plus you bang them right you actually get some sugar momma status/reciprocation.
A lot of young girls, when I say young I mean 35 and below are broke. other than probably some young vag, that's all they can really offer outside of "companionship".... I can't even go dutch with some of these chicks because places I like to go might screw their budget up.
LMAO...you mean I am supposed to watch you trying to find your way around me, suffer trough seeing your immature flesh pretending to know what you doing and then PAY HALF after all THAT—
What kind of ugly cougars you dealing with?
No fucking way I am paying for anything! Are you kidding, boyo?
Should I buy you as ice cream and pair of sucks as well? No! It’s your mothers job...😂😂😂😂💦💦💦
Posted by ScorpioTruth
I’m 38 but get told almost daily that I look like I’m in my mid-twenties.. I always have young men after me and it’s awkward because I have a nephew who is 21 and I used to change his diapers.. so when these young boys approach me I’m just like “you could be my nephew” 🤮🤣🤣
Ive never dated anyone more than 6 years younger than me, that’s as far as it went. I feel like men already mature slower than women so women who are attracted to young boys just baffle me 🤨
Right! I can’t get over 2 years age difference with Aries...
Him being a dork and acting like he never left HS isn’t helping also...
But I am noticing since I am with him I am becoming to look younger...or maybe I am delusional...
Him calling me a ‘girl’ doesn’t help either...but I am trying...lmao
How does @LadyNeptune mom fucking young boy - I have NO idea!
Some women have talent. They put their hair in pigtails and wearing clothes from Forever21 and pretend they are baaaack!!!
🤮
To clarify for the peanut gallery my mother is dating a 39 year old man. She is pushing 60.
Stay mad gemithoti
Stay mad gemithoti
Posted by FishyDude
I've only once dated an older woman, in 2008. She's 9 years older than me. She wanted fwb, I wanted something more.
Like WHAT?
Posted by FishyDudePosted by GemitatiPosted by FishyDude
I've only once dated an older woman, in 2008. She's 9 years older than me. She wanted fwb, I wanted something more.
Like WHAT?
I wanted a relationship with her. We're still friends though.click to expand
What was the ages when you wanted her?
Posted by hiphopopotamusPosted by hellosaggy
I don't chase cougars... I do chase the sexual experience they possess. I realize older women have restriction simply over what they don't like, not what they think they don't like.
I've noticed that older women seem to enjoy a larger dick than younger girls, and know what to do with it.... plus you bang them right you actually get some sugar momma status/reciprocation.
A lot of young girls, when I say young I mean 35 and below are broke. other than probably some young vag, that's all they can really offer outside of "companionship".... I can't even go dutch with some of these chicks because places I like to go might screw their budget up.
What’s been age range here?
How old is old.click to expand
Not old. Older...
If you are 20 - older is 23 and up.
If you are 35 - older is 40 and up.
So on so forth...
Posted by hiphopopotamusPosted by GemitatiPosted by hiphopopotamusPosted by hellosaggy
I don't chase cougars... I do chase the sexual experience they possess. I realize older women have restriction simply over what they don't like, not what they think they don't like.
I've noticed that older women seem to enjoy a larger dick than younger girls, and know what to do with it.... plus you bang them right you actually get some sugar momma status/reciprocation.
A lot of young girls, when I say young I mean 35 and below are broke. other than probably some young vag, that's all they can really offer outside of "companionship".... I can't even go dutch with some of these chicks because places I like to go might screw their budget up.
What’s been age range here?
How old is old.
Not old. Older...
If you are 20 - older is 23 and up.
If you are 35 - older is 40 and up.
So on so forth...
That’s what i was thinking, and saggys ‘older’ so maybe 50’s or 60’s for old? I can’t do plus or minus more than ten years, and youngish dudes coming onto me is awkward af. I’m curious how this works.click to expand
you put 5 years as older? pfft. Im 35... currently between a 22(virgo) 28(pisces), about to be 26(aqua), and a 44 year old(sagittarius)... my ex fiance is 9 years older than me... a bi sagittarius.
The 22 year old is absolutely sprung on the sex, but completely broke. I pay for everything
the 28 year old... sprung on the sex is completely broke, with a shopping habit, I pay for most things
the 26 year old live in fwb... is breaking even, but I pay for most things and all the house bills
the 39 year old is probably the best sex partner, we dont do it much but its definitely desired.... we go dutch or alternate.
This new year.... I'm definitely planning on pushing the aqua out the nest and maybe dating the 28 year old.... shes's a pisces and a little moody, but she constantly strokes my ego amongst other things.... but she's more cognizant of what she asks of me, and keeping me happy sexually.
Oh shyt, I love old men, and I always attract the younger 🤨
Ah I felt ashamed when that high school boy wrote poem and give it to me ughhhhh 🐒💔💔
Posted by LadyNeptune
To clarify for the peanut gallery my mother is dating a 39 year old man. She is pushing 60.
Stay mad gemithoti
Redhead women thing
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by hellosaggyPosted by hiphopopotamusPosted by GemitatiPosted by hiphopopotamusPosted by hellosaggy
I don't chase cougars... I do chase the sexual experience they possess. I realize older women have restriction simply over what they don't like, not what they think they don't like.
I've noticed that older women seem to enjoy a larger dick than younger girls, and know what to do with it.... plus you bang them right you actually get some sugar momma status/reciprocation.
A lot of young girls, when I say young I mean 35 and below are broke. other than probably some young vag, that's all they can really offer outside of "companionship".... I can't even go dutch with some of these chicks because places I like to go might screw their budget up.
What’s been age range here?
How old is old.
Not old. Older...
If you are 20 - older is 23 and up.
If you are 35 - older is 40 and up.
So on so forth...
That’s what i was thinking, and saggys ‘older’ so maybe 50’s or 60’s for old? I can’t do plus or minus more than ten years, and youngish dudes coming onto me is awkward af. I’m curious how this works.
you put 5 years as older? pfft. Im 35... currently between a 22(virgo) 28(pisces), about to be 26(aqua), and a 44 year old(sagittarius)... my ex fiance is 9 years older than me... a bi sagittarius.
The 22 year old is absolutely sprung on the sex, but completely broke. I pay for everything
the 28 year old... sprung on the sex is completely broke, with a shopping habit, I pay for most things
the 26 year old live in fwb... is breaking even, but I pay for most things and all the house bills
the 39 year old is probably the best sex partner, we dont do it much but its definitely desired.... we go dutch or alternate.
This new year.... I'm definitely planning on pushing the aqua out the nest and maybe dating the 28 year old.... shes's a pisces and a little moody, but she constantly strokes my ego amongst other things.... but she's more cognizant of what she asks of me, and keeping me happy sexually.
I hate sag men
So horishclick to expand
They are crazy, but still the best
Posted by HaruukaPosted by LadyNeptune
To clarify for the peanut gallery my mother is dating a 39 year old man. She is pushing 60.
Stay mad gemithoti
Redhead women thingclick to expand
She’s a dark eyed dark haired beauty. My sister is a carbon copy. Lucky bishes.
Chicana blood.
I’m the freak who randomly has red hair. All my siblings got that lovely olive skin tone.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by HaruukaPosted by LadyNeptune
To clarify for the peanut gallery my mother is dating a 39 year old man. She is pushing 60.
Stay mad gemithoti
Redhead women thing
She’s a dark eyed dark haired beauty. My sister is a carbon copy. Lucky bishes.
Chicana blood.
I’m the freak who randomly has red hair. All my siblings got that lovely olive skin tone.click to expand
You’re not freak, you’re beautiful
Posted by HaruukaPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by HaruukaPosted by LadyNeptune
To clarify for the peanut gallery my mother is dating a 39 year old man. She is pushing 60.
Stay mad gemithoti
Redhead women thing
She’s a dark eyed dark haired beauty. My sister is a carbon copy. Lucky bishes.
Chicana blood.
I’m the freak who randomly has red hair. All my siblings got that lovely olive skin tone.
You’re not freak, you’re beautifulclick to expand
Gawd bless you
Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX
There are two main reasons why I've witnessed guys getting involved with older chicks.
1.) They assume older women are either more experienced, have a lot of money, or are more mature. Obviously, not always the case as we've seen on DXP...
2.) They assume older women are desperate if they entertain younger guys and therefore can get over on them however they please.
I have a lot of male friends and I know a lot of guys in general. Many of them have dated older women.
I find that usually they don't respect the older woman. They're just looking for a good ego stroke (feeling cool that they're dating someone's mom) and a come up.
Thank you! It’s exactly what I am thinking. But them younger men denying it! Because real reason is that they think older women will be happy no matter how bad they are in bed! Because of the young body!
I am really grossed out by those youckies stink bugs...🤢
Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX
I think an older man (40+ range) dating a significantly older woman is likely to take the relationship seriously though.
At that age they're probably tired of getting it wrong so they're seeking an older woman for stability rather than childish gain like a lot of younger guys do.
Or they can’t get it up and looking for those who aren’t asking for sex...
Can hardly imagine 40 y/old man with 55y/old woman...
There is a reason why women above 23, or like we call them Milfs, are so popular in the world of porn
when you are like 20 and see a 40 year old woman and you are like damn, she looks so juicy and ready to go, you are like you don't need much talk or game or money, you just go for it and beg her to come with you and cry like a little girl until she says "ok, just this one time" and you are happy and jump around like a dummy
Nah I can't explain it in words 🙂
when you are like 20 and see a 40 year old woman and you are like damn, she looks so juicy and ready to go, you are like you don't need much talk or game or money, you just go for it and beg her to come with you and cry like a little girl until she says "ok, just this one time" and you are happy and jump around like a dummy
Nah I can't explain it in words 🙂
Gem. Both of us have to agree that Men are submissive by nature.
Posted by virgoth
same with women dating older men xcept instead of money its sexual experience they seek
mmm..
No
Posted by AneemA11Posted by virgoth
same with women dating older men xcept instead of money its sexual experience they seek
mmm..
Noclick to expand
+1
No! It IS money and excuse me...not ready for viagra sex yet...older man not equal sexually experienced.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →Related Topics
Go about returning to a woman that broke up with them if rhey realised they'd made a mistake? I don't want to limit this to signs, I'm taking generally. How would you show you wanted her back, or would you think about it but do nothing about it?
with the woman who falsely accused you of sexual abuse
So, in general... like they say in sports, no fucking before the game type shit ya, know?
- If yes, is the lack of ability to pulla bitch?
- You dan pissed of yo lova and in da doghouse?
- Hurt behind a past love and get back out there but you still nee
Does it feel better? Or is it for the view?
Just ran my hand over my leg...felt amazingly smooth and I have no idea what to do next...
@tiziani lmao
Howard Dare, Sandman, Tom Leykis, etc...
How many of you are starting to realize that these men are right, and that MGTOW is becoming our healthiest choice at this point?
Help à sister out.I have been warned that I was too loud.But my problem is I can't help it but scream during penetration .Am I enjoying too much or ?
Um...so there is this guy who I work with who I consider as a friend.
I told him all about my sexuality from the jump. Have talked to him about girls and stuff.
We hang out and talk regularly at work.
However, I've noticed these past couples of weeks...h
Do guys focus on a girl overall or you guys have specific wants 're certain body types?
I have heard about the boob and bum boys, but does it means if you like either or both, you don't mind other bits?
In your opinion guys, what's this about and I'm always hearing about it but never know what it means.
Do you tell the women to do something else? They really don't move an inch when your plowing into them?
What is really happening behind closed doors a
Guys would you date a fat chick and if no, could you state why?
so I like this chick... and wanna pursue her. every time i see her, i am drawn to her.
it's just that she seems to be evading me. i didn't know she's very smart. they say she almost topped the boards and graduated magna cum laude. i didn't know about tho
Are you down?
What kinds of services are you open too?
Spa day...
threading...
foot massage...
mani/pedi
So, ive been reading up on dating psychology. I have read exclusively (like literally every source) say that a man will not get into a relationship with a woman he doesnt feel he had to invest in. Not monetarily but that he had to put in sufficient effort
A women who gets extremely wet when turned on...like panties, pants, sheets soaked wet. This is way before she cums...
Is it a turn on (I know most will say it's better than dry...I agree but still)?
Does it cause "feeling" issues for you?
Do yo
Just wondering.... 🤔
So I was having this debate with my friend who happens to be a male.
He said, A man can date several women but it’s with whom he chooses to spend his nights where his interest is.
I didn’t agree. I felt you spend the day time with women you like and y
Hey guys,please help! My boyfriend went and got circumcised but after he did it,I feel like he started ignoring me or is it that he is just still healing?
How significant is it for a man to introduce his gf to his parents? Or is it no big deal?!