@Gemitati
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Older women
Why Men Are Drawn to Older Women
Many men find older women attractive because of their confidence, experience, and emotional maturity. These qualities often provide a sense of stability and deeper connection that appeals to some men seeking meaningful relationships. Personal preferences vary, but these attributes are common reasons behind the attraction to older women.
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Define older. Older by how much?
The one relationship i knew in which he was 20 years her younger was centered around some sort of weird dynamic between the two in which he played her son (the real one was fairly dysfunctional) and she played his mom for him (he for real just couldn't let go of momma's bosom at 25-ish so he found himself a substitute) and then over all of this there was the romantic aspect which was iffy to say the least (he complained of different men driving her home on occasions lol).
They are together to this day, she is nearly 60 he is nearly 40, idk how all of that works tbh, he complained of her being dry, not easily arroused while she was younger. I'm guessing he's a pliable manlet that does whatever he is told and gets pussy which he can't make wet in return. So she seeks it elsewhere. It's fucked up.
Posted by Ram416
Define older. Older by how much?
Then how hot Halle Berry 50 ish uhh yeah.
Hotness is the question from 24 to 42 is my superior range. Sapiosexual
sexually speaking it can be hot if she's older and sexy.
Relationship wise, probably not a good idea
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"The younger ones are timid. The older ones, they know it won't break." - Hyde
Posted by enfant_terrible
"The younger ones are timid. The older ones, they know it won't break." - Hyde
Exactly! How stupid is that? They can’t get any women of their age mtfkrs! Otherwise...why?
Posted by topes
The experience is worth it.
Worth’s what?
I'd say mommy issue, I generally say something like that in the opposite situation.
but whatever, like what's a "good" relationship supposed to be like anyway.
Posted by Endless
I'd say mommy issue, I generally say something like that in the opposite situation.
but whatever, like what's a "good" relationship supposed to be like anyway.
When you laugh together?
Posted by Endless
I'd say mommy issue, I generally say something like that in the opposite situation.
but whatever, like what's a "good" relationship supposed to be like anyway.
My younger ones had no mommy issues. The older ones cried in my arms. I'm talking 10 -13 years younger and 9 - 14 years older.
Posted by LibraSupreme
Posted by Ram416
Define older. Older by how much?
Then how hot Halle Berry 50 ish uhh yeah.
Hotness is the question from 24 to 42 is my superior range. Sapiosexual
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I'm 44. I will always be hot. A regular Blanche Devereaux.
Posted by VenusAquarius
Posted by LibraSupreme
Posted by Ram416
Define older. Older by how much?
Then how hot Halle Berry 50 ish uhh yeah.
Hotness is the question from 24 to 42 is my superior range. Sapiosexual
I'm 44. I will always be hot. A regular Blanche Devereaux.
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If your hot age ain't nothing but a #.
The words of a famous poet....Act your age and not your shoe size.
Posted by LibraSupreme
Posted by VenusAquarius
Posted by LibraSupreme
Posted by Ram416
Define older. Older by how much?
Then how hot Halle Berry 50 ish uhh yeah.
Hotness is the question from 24 to 42 is my superior range. Sapiosexual
I'm 44. I will always be hot. A regular Blanche Devereaux.
If your hot age ain't nothing but a #.
The words of a famous poet....Act your age and not your shoe size.
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What do you think the strongest sense is?
I think sight. When my miniature height is added to the equation that is me.... people think they can play me!!! Making assumptions about my age that they don't even consider being wrong about. This is on reference to the whole "act your age..."
Just a vent...
Not denying that older women can be a knock out but there are plenty of young women who are hot so why would younger man not to fish in a younger pool?
I understand falling in love accidentally - happens but looking for older purposely...sound sick to me.
It’s like if I was purposely looking for flaccid dick! I mean if it happened by accident it’s just that - an accident!
But saying ‘I prefer flaccid dick’ is helloova not tatural!
Posted by -Romz-
Posted by enfant_terrible
"The younger ones are timid. The older ones, they know it won't break." - Hyde
Are you sure you don’t have Aries placements? 🤨
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OMG! Yes! In Venus...now tell me it all! Lol
Posted by -Romz-
Posted by enfant_terrible
"The younger ones are timid. The older ones, they know it won't break." - Hyde
Are you sure you don’t have Aries placements? 🤨
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3rd Decan Leo.. does that count?
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by -Romz-
Posted by enfant_terrible
"The younger ones are timid. The older ones, they know it won't break." - Hyde
Are you sure you don’t have Aries placements? 🤨
3rd Decan Leo.. does that count?
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I bet it does. I just don’t know for what...lol
Posted by DrinkWater
Some women keep better than others, you know they got great genes and no added preservatives.
I KNOW! So are YOUNGER WOMEN! So young woman with good luck looks vs older woman with good luck genes is still YOUNGER!
So why would you as a young man want older—
Just admit! You see older women as an easier target! That’s the only answer!
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by -Romz-
Posted by enfant_terrible
"The younger ones are timid. The older ones, they know it won't break." - Hyde
Are you sure you don’t have Aries placements? 🤨
3rd Decan Leo.. does that count?
I bet it does. I just don’t know for what...lol
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"If your birthday falls between August 13 and August 22 (your Sun is between 20˚01' to 30˚ Leo), you belong to the third decan of Leo, which is sub-ruled by Mars, the planetary ruler of the Fire sign Aries."
- Random Astro site
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by -Romz-
Posted by enfant_terrible
"The younger ones are timid. The older ones, they know it won't break." - Hyde
Are you sure you don’t have Aries placements? 🤨
3rd Decan Leo.. does that count?
I bet it does. I just don’t know for what...lol
"If your birthday falls between August 13 and August 22 (your Sun is between 20˚01' to 30˚ Leo), you belong to the third decan of Leo, which is sub-ruled by Mars, the planetary ruler of the Fire sign Aries."
- Random Astro site
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Good for you bro! That’s why you are into older women or you just posted it for no reason?
Posted by Gemitati
Not denying that older women can be a knock out but there are plenty of young women who are hot so why would younger man not to fish in a younger pool?
I understand falling in love accidentally - happens but looking for older purposely...sound sick to me.
It’s like if I was purposely looking for flaccid dick! I mean if it happened by accident it’s just that - an accident!
But saying ‘I prefer flaccid dick’ is helloova not tatural!
A hot mature is hotter than a hot young woman, actually I don't find women "hot" before 25 at least. Favorite is between 35 and 45. Of course it depends on the women
Posted by hydorah
Posted by Gemitati
Not denying that older women can be a knock out but there are plenty of young women who are hot so why would younger man not to fish in a younger pool?
I understand falling in love accidentally - happens but looking for older purposely...sound sick to me.
It’s like if I was purposely looking for flaccid dick! I mean if it happened by accident it’s just that - an accident!
But saying ‘I prefer flaccid dick’ is helloova not tatural!
A hot mature is hotter than a hot young woman, actually I don't find women "hot" before 25 at least. Favorite is between 35 and 45. Of course it depends on the women
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But yiubaee 46! So how much older would be a limit? 70?
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by hydorah
Posted by Gemitati
Not denying that older women can be a knock out but there are plenty of young women who are hot so why would younger man not to fish in a younger pool?
I understand falling in love accidentally - happens but looking for older purposely...sound sick to me.
It’s like if I was purposely looking for flaccid dick! I mean if it happened by accident it’s just that - an accident!
But saying ‘I prefer flaccid dick’ is helloova not tatural!
A hot mature is hotter than a hot young woman, actually I don't find women "hot" before 25 at least. Favorite is between 35 and 45. Of course it depends on the women
But yiubaee 46! So how much older would be a limit? 70?
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I've always had the same age interest regardless of my own age, so when I was younger I was dating older than me and as I get older I start dating women younger than me
Every young guy has a fetish for older women. If not, they are gay
Posted by 777
Every young guy has a fetish for older women. If not, they are gay
Really?
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by 777
Every young guy has a fetish for older women. If not, they are gay
Really?
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Yea
Posted by DrinkWater
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by DrinkWater
Some women keep better than others, you know they got great genes and no added preservatives.
I KNOW! So are YOUNGER WOMEN! So young woman with good luck looks vs older woman with good luck genes is still YOUNGER!
So why would you as a young man want older—
Just admit! You see older women as an easier target! That’s the only answer!
You have no idea what you're talking about.
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That’s why I am talking about it! If I had an idea - would I be talking about it? Logically speaking...THINK!
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by -Romz-
Posted by enfant_terrible
"The younger ones are timid. The older ones, they know it won't break." - Hyde
Are you sure you don’t have Aries placements? 🤨
3rd Decan Leo.. does that count?
I bet it does. I just don’t know for what...lol
"If your birthday falls between August 13 and August 22 (your Sun is between 20˚01' to 30˚ Leo), you belong to the third decan of Leo, which is sub-ruled by Mars, the planetary ruler of the Fire sign Aries."
- Random Astro site
Good for you bro! That’s why you are into older women or you just posted it for no reason?
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For no reason
Posted by hydorah
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by hydorah
Posted by Gemitati
Not denying that older women can be a knock out but there are plenty of young women who are hot so why would younger man not to fish in a younger pool?
I understand falling in love accidentally - happens but looking for older purposely...sound sick to me.
It’s like if I was purposely looking for flaccid dick! I mean if it happened by accident it’s just that - an accident!
But saying ‘I prefer flaccid dick’ is helloova not tatural!
A hot mature is hotter than a hot young woman, actually I don't find women "hot" before 25 at least. Favorite is between 35 and 45. Of course it depends on the women
But yiubaee 46! So how much older would be a limit? 70?
I've always had the same age interest regardless of my own age, so when I was younger I was dating older than me and as I get older I start dating women younger than me
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How young were you and how much older have you dated?
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by hydorah
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by hydorah
Posted by Gemitati
Not denying that older women can be a knock out but there are plenty of young women who are hot so why would younger man not to fish in a younger pool?
I understand falling in love accidentally - happens but looking for older purposely...sound sick to me.
It’s like if I was purposely looking for flaccid dick! I mean if it happened by accident it’s just that - an accident!
But saying ‘I prefer flaccid dick’ is helloova not tatural!
A hot mature is hotter than a hot young woman, actually I don't find women "hot" before 25 at least. Favorite is between 35 and 45. Of course it depends on the women
But yiubaee 46! So how much older would be a limit? 70?
I've always had the same age interest regardless of my own age, so when I was younger I was dating older than me and as I get older I start dating women younger than me
How young were you and how much older have you dated?
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I'm not going to derail the thread with my stories, but it was hot
Posted by hydorah
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by hydorah
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by hydorah
Posted by Gemitati
Not denying that older women can be a knock out but there are plenty of young women who are hot so why would younger man not to fish in a younger pool?
I understand falling in love accidentally - happens but looking for older purposely...sound sick to me.
It’s like if I was purposely looking for flaccid dick! I mean if it happened by accident it’s just that - an accident!
But saying ‘I prefer flaccid dick’ is helloova not tatural!
A hot mature is hotter than a hot young woman, actually I don't find women "hot" before 25 at least. Favorite is between 35 and 45. Of course it depends on the women
But yiubaee 46! So how much older would be a limit? 70?
I've always had the same age interest regardless of my own age, so when I was younger I was dating older than me and as I get older I start dating women younger than me
How young were you and how much older have you dated?
I'm not going to derail the thread with my stories, but it was hot
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How about just numbers?
Posted by TheRabbit
Dusty dry ass vaginas have more friction
I bet we ALL trust your experience!
Get her some lube...unless you get used to it jerking off with your rough skin palms...
Posted by TheRabbit
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheRabbit
Dusty dry ass vaginas have more friction
I bet we ALL trust your experience!
Get her some lube...unless you get used to it jerking off with your rough skin palms...
Slather some butter flavored Crisco on dem wrinkly tiddies
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You jerk off in your underwear
I don't think that any of the much younger men that wanted to date me irl had mummy issues 😄.
They just thought I was their age! Because...age is just a number.
Posted by Undine
I don't think that any of the much younger men that wanted to date me irl had mummy issues 😄.
They just thought I was their age! Because...age is just a number.
Age is not just a number. It’s set of your mind, experience, your body, amount of shit and happiness you went trough...’just a nimber’ Is same bogus saying as ‘size doesn’t matter’.
It DOES!
Agree. I was just talking about the chronological age.
The age you don't give a fuck anymore!
Posted by Undine
The age you don't give a fuck anymore!
So when you were younger you looked worse?
You missin anpoint!
I don’t deny that older women look hot! I am just saying younger men thinking that them giving us attention makes us easy to get! Fuck no! I am not giving up my silver fox for any of you bozos!
Posted by Gemitati
Not denying that older women can be a knock out but there are plenty of young women who are hot so why would younger man not to fish in a younger pool?
I understand falling in love accidentally - happens but looking for older purposely...sound sick to me.
It’s like if I was purposely looking for flaccid dick! I mean if it happened by accident it’s just that - an accident!
But saying ‘I prefer flaccid dick’ is helloova not tatural!
I was certainly not an easy or easier target than a younger woman. Do you read the threads they post?
Besides, I think "easy target" has to do with your personality, your love style , developmental relationship with one's parents.
However, I get where your coming from. Older women may be easier because of the YOLO attitude that comes with aging.
Posted by VenusAquarius
Posted by Gemitati
Not denying that older women can be a knock out but there are plenty of young women who are hot so why would younger man not to fish in a younger pool?
I understand falling in love accidentally - happens but looking for older purposely...sound sick to me.
It’s like if I was purposely looking for flaccid dick! I mean if it happened by accident it’s just that - an accident!
But saying ‘I prefer flaccid dick’ is helloova not tatural!
I was certainly not an easy or easier target than a younger woman. Do you read the threads they post?
Besides, I think "easy target" has to do with your personality, your love style , developmental relationship with one's parents.
However, I get where your coming from. Older women may be easier because of the YOLO attitude that comes with aging.
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Enlighten me on YOLO please lol
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by VenusAquarius
Posted by Gemitati
Not denying that older women can be a knock out but there are plenty of young women who are hot so why would younger man not to fish in a younger pool?
I understand falling in love accidentally - happens but looking for older purposely...sound sick to me.
It’s like if I was purposely looking for flaccid dick! I mean if it happened by accident it’s just that - an accident!
But saying ‘I prefer flaccid dick’ is helloova not tatural!
I was certainly not an easy or easier target than a younger woman. Do you read the threads they post?
Besides, I think "easy target" has to do with your personality, your love style , developmental relationship with one's parents.
However, I get where your coming from. Older women may be easier because of the YOLO attitude that comes with aging.
Enlighten me on YOLO please lol
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You Only Live Once
Posted by VenusAquarius
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by VenusAquarius
Posted by Gemitati
Not denying that older women can be a knock out but there are plenty of young women who are hot so why would younger man not to fish in a younger pool?
I understand falling in love accidentally - happens but looking for older purposely...sound sick to me.
It’s like if I was purposely looking for flaccid dick! I mean if it happened by accident it’s just that - an accident!
But saying ‘I prefer flaccid dick’ is helloova not tatural!
I was certainly not an easy or easier target than a younger woman. Do you read the threads they post?
Besides, I think "easy target" has to do with your personality, your love style , developmental relationship with one's parents.
However, I get where your coming from. Older women may be easier because of the YOLO attitude that comes with aging.
Enlighten me on YOLO please lol
You Only Live Once
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Oh! That? But we don’t have to succumb to whatever...though I am sure some prefer young bodies though same as older women - our age men can be better than those younger flabby dudes who aren’t able to get their age women so they figured...older women will be HAPPY to fuck their less than average even bodies...🤮
Posted by TheRabbit
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheRabbit
@Gemitati post your pic.
We need to see if you even come close to being as hot as @Undine
Keep on dreaming! I don’t need validation from you! I have enough people and a mirror...and yes @Undine is a knock out!
Put up or shut up
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Put up with what?
Or shut up why?
You sound desperate man! Chill your balls! Lmao
Definitely real for me. The older I get the younger the guys I attract, and they for sure don’t have mommy issues for sure.
I found that I always attract guys in the same age range (23-42), at least for the past 15 years. I’m 38 now, but guys assume I’m 27/28. I think it’s normal for a 23/24-year old guy to find me attractive when he thinks I’m just 27/28. My current bf is 24. He’s a visual guy so he admits that he is atttacted to me cuz I look like I’m in my 20s and that if I looked 40, he would not find me attractive.
Posted by whatisthisallabout
I found that I always attract guys in the same age range (23-42), at least for the past 15 years. I’m 38 now, but guys assume I’m 27/28. I think it’s normal for a 23/24-year old guy to find me attractive when he thinks I’m just 27/28. My current bf is 24. He’s a visual guy so he admits that he is atttacted to me cuz I look like I’m in my 20s and that if I looked 40, he would not find me attractive.
SOB! Lol
Do you see the future with this boy?
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Men! What’s about ‘I love older women’?
Is it real? Why?
For me there is one reason. Can’t het younger! Any other reasons? Share please. Assuming you are a stud!
Not a whimp or submissive...