Mutya
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Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by MutyaPosted by Reincarnation4Posted by MutyaPosted by nanobotzPosted by MutyaPosted by nanobotzPosted by MutyaPosted by nanobotz
Strangely enough, I’m seeing a lot of men in their 30s never married, with no kids in my area since I moved to “Facebook dating”. Now what I am seeing is that these seem to be transient types, working fast food, retail, moving around a lot, living out of a van, etc. it’s no wonder they don’t have families, they can’t afford them.
The single dads on online dating - I have noticed that it’s always some bitchy intro like “My 3, 5, and 7 year old kids are a package deal, don’t like it? Swipe left”. 🤣🤣🤣 Gross? Who is that appealing to? Nothing redeemable or intriguing or enticing about the profile whatsoever. Just sticky little snot nosed humans with dirty faces on the photos 😷 Vagina closes up like a steel trap.
Yea… I totally want to get off a long day of work to go home to whiny, annoying kids and look forward to serving them Chef Boyardee and listen to loud obnoxious cartoons til we fight over their bedtime at 8pm. Said no woman ever.
When I was on dating apps, I had this on my bio : "I'm a career-driven single mom to a high schooler. I'm not after your money. I'm not here to find a father for my son, he already has one. I'm not gonna send you money, Amazon gift cards nor paying off your student loan debt either. I'm here to meet new people and see where things go. Unless you're a hawt LOTR nerd in w/c case, marry me?"
For me it wasn't meant to be bitchy or anything. I'm 36 and I don't wanna waste my time telling each and every man I match with that he doesn't need to worry about me pressuring him to be responsible for my kid if things get serious.
Most often than not, men find my bio pretty funny. The Amazon gift cards and nerd marry me thing catches their eye apparently.
That’s a good one. Honest, straight to the point, intentions clear, making it known that you’re independent. I can only speak for what I see on men’s profile, but I’m not seeing any remotely like what you’ve written here. Many of them are super bitter and it’s obvious on their profile, so you can get a taste of the baggage these dudes come with. Like Alex said, some are even going so far as to mention exes, being cheated on, losing everything, etc 😵💫😵💫😵💫
It’s so messy and if you look beyond the words, it’s hurt and pain. These are single dads in extremely tough situations, looking for love again. The delivery is so wrong though, I don’t know how they can’t see that and understand how it’s coming off to an observer.
Fortunately I haven't come across a profile of a bitter single dad on those things. Ironically, it was a single and childless 30-something Scorpio man who had the most depressing and bitter bio I came across:
"If you match with me first, you initiate the chat. I'm not here to beg for any woman's attention" and something about being lied to and betrayed way too many times. Lmao.
Oh god, I see those emo cry baby ones too. We have all been hurt, no need to announce it to the world. One time I got an intro from a scorpio man too no less, that started off a compliment and then he goes “so all that must mean you’re a gold digger like most women are.” Like bro?? Guaranteed I make 2-3x his salary. It’s wild. Men sabotaging themselves before you even get to exchange a single message back and forth LOL. Regardless if he sent that or not, I would have sniffed out that weak shit within a couple message exchanges. A very lonely life ahead for these angry incels if that’s their idea of how to approach women 💀💀💀
Jezus. I feel like some men on those apps create a profile just so they can unleash their misogyny anonymously.
One guy even messaged me saying "how much for a night?" I responded with "You should at least be an 8/10 to say things like that to a woman. The audacity."
I guess he didn't expect me to respond and said "I'm sorry ma'am! I was just trying to catch your attention. Now that you're here, would you like to get some coffee?"
Dafuq. So glad I deactivated my profiles.
Classy Filipino men.
The dating pool here is so bad even my single, childless girlfriends lost all hope in meeting a good, loyal and reliable man.
That’s sad 😞click to expand
Very. My Sag bff was smart. She branched out and ended up marrying an Aqua from Hungary. They're in the UK now and she's the happiest I've seen her.
Posted by KuromiPosted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by KuromiPosted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by Kuromi
Eww wth a cartoon
I only swiped right by mistake
what her description
I unmatched something like swipe right to know more
man this IS TOO much work, your leo Ex where did u meet here ? on a app ? fuck apps
Yep the same app
Before that I met girls in my building lobby 😅click to expand
What you broken up!!!!don’t worry you have a few more Clooney years
Posted by MutyaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by MutyaPosted by Reincarnation4Posted by MutyaPosted by nanobotzPosted by MutyaPosted by nanobotzPosted by MutyaPosted by nanobotz
Strangely enough, I’m seeing a lot of men in their 30s never married, with no kids in my area since I moved to “Facebook dating”. Now what I am seeing is that these seem to be transient types, working fast food, retail, moving around a lot, living out of a van, etc. it’s no wonder they don’t have families, they can’t afford them.
The single dads on online dating - I have noticed that it’s always some bitchy intro like “My 3, 5, and 7 year old kids are a package deal, don’t like it? Swipe left”. 🤣🤣🤣 Gross? Who is that appealing to? Nothing redeemable or intriguing or enticing about the profile whatsoever. Just sticky little snot nosed humans with dirty faces on the photos 😷 Vagina closes up like a steel trap.
Yea… I totally want to get off a long day of work to go home to whiny, annoying kids and look forward to serving them Chef Boyardee and listen to loud obnoxious cartoons til we fight over their bedtime at 8pm. Said no woman ever.
When I was on dating apps, I had this on my bio : "I'm a career-driven single mom to a high schooler. I'm not after your money. I'm not here to find a father for my son, he already has one. I'm not gonna send you money, Amazon gift cards nor paying off your student loan debt either. I'm here to meet new people and see where things go. Unless you're a hawt LOTR nerd in w/c case, marry me?"
For me it wasn't meant to be bitchy or anything. I'm 36 and I don't wanna waste my time telling each and every man I match with that he doesn't need to worry about me pressuring him to be responsible for my kid if things get serious.
Most often than not, men find my bio pretty funny. The Amazon gift cards and nerd marry me thing catches their eye apparently.
That’s a good one. Honest, straight to the point, intentions clear, making it known that you’re independent. I can only speak for what I see on men’s profile, but I’m not seeing any remotely like what you’ve written here. Many of them are super bitter and it’s obvious on their profile, so you can get a taste of the baggage these dudes come with. Like Alex said, some are even going so far as to mention exes, being cheated on, losing everything, etc 😵💫😵💫😵💫
It’s so messy and if you look beyond the words, it’s hurt and pain. These are single dads in extremely tough situations, looking for love again. The delivery is so wrong though, I don’t know how they can’t see that and understand how it’s coming off to an observer.
Fortunately I haven't come across a profile of a bitter single dad on those things. Ironically, it was a single and childless 30-something Scorpio man who had the most depressing and bitter bio I came across:
"If you match with me first, you initiate the chat. I'm not here to beg for any woman's attention" and something about being lied to and betrayed way too many times. Lmao.
Oh god, I see those emo cry baby ones too. We have all been hurt, no need to announce it to the world. One time I got an intro from a scorpio man too no less, that started off a compliment and then he goes “so all that must mean you’re a gold digger like most women are.” Like bro?? Guaranteed I make 2-3x his salary. It’s wild. Men sabotaging themselves before you even get to exchange a single message back and forth LOL. Regardless if he sent that or not, I would have sniffed out that weak shit within a couple message exchanges. A very lonely life ahead for these angry incels if that’s their idea of how to approach women 💀💀💀
Jezus. I feel like some men on those apps create a profile just so they can unleash their misogyny anonymously.
One guy even messaged me saying "how much for a night?" I responded with "You should at least be an 8/10 to say things like that to a woman. The audacity."
I guess he didn't expect me to respond and said "I'm sorry ma'am! I was just trying to catch your attention. Now that you're here, would you like to get some coffee?"
Dafuq. So glad I deactivated my profiles.
Classy Filipino men.
The dating pool here is so bad even my single, childless girlfriends lost all hope in meeting a good, loyal and reliable man.
That’s sad 😞
Very. My Sag bff was smart. She branched out and ended up marrying an Aqua from Hungary. They're in the UK now and she's the happiest I've seen her.click to expand
That’s great your friend is happy 😊. It gives hope to others!
It ain’t over till it’s over
I see love being found in convalescent homes lol
I see love being found in convalescent homes lol
Thanks for your input, all. Someday I'll find my little nerd hippie woman, but no rush for me. Life is good.
Posted by BumboklaatPosted by Astrobyn
Did you know there was such a thing called the Cinderella effect and children are 100x more at risk of child abuse and neglect living in a family with a step parent.
This is one of the major vulnerabilities I see in single moms. I mean there are 2nd chances but there's usually an underlying problem which caused the first relationship to fail. That never gets looked at and the kids always get the worst of it cause the mom wants to have her manclick to expand
I think that's more complicated. in our society, its been that a single woman with children has little value without a man. She has to put time and effort into her children, vs effort she could put into herself or earning potential. yeah there are some women who overlook this, but often its a choice between two bad options.
I honestly do not immediately pay attention to whether a woman has kids or not. Whether I feel attracted to a woman or not or whether I decide to act upon that attraction or not, depends largely on the overall energy and vibe I receive from her and whether there are enough common interests and there is enough chemistry which could potentially override potential inconveniences....like kids 😅
Posted by DMV
Strangely enough, men wouldn’t look in my direction if I didn’t have a kid. I was at a disadvantage.
They made a lot of judgment calls.
If I did I’m the have kids, no one liked me enough to get me pregnant, I can’t cook, I don’t know how to treat a man in my home.
I was not a catch because I didn’t have kids.
Men judge women harshly no matter what.
Do you.
I have children and get more attention with children than when I didn’t have kids and tbh it’s fucking weird.
Posted by DMV
Strangely enough, men wouldn’t look in my direction if I didn’t have a kid. I was at a disadvantage.
They made a lot of judgment calls.
If I did I’m the have kids, no one liked me enough to get me pregnant, I can’t cook, I don’t know how to treat a man in my home.
I was not a catch because I didn’t have kids.
Men are attracted to you? That is surprising.
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