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Anyone else hate looking like you tried to be sexy? 😂Like it’s truly embarrassing to me....

So I was brushing my teeth the other night and I was staring at myself in the mirror thinking “who the fuck married your ass?” There I am in one of my husband’s old T-shirts and worn out soffe shorts...hair up in a sloppy ass pony tail...

And I’m like you know what? My husband deserves better than this... I’m going to order some sexier night attire.

But then I was online looking at lingerie like I don’t think I can wear this shit. “Looks like I’m trying too hard.”

What is wrong with me?
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Posted by nikkistar

This is normal after you have a baby. You are insecure with the changes in your body, and you just want to feel like he still is attracted to you.

It's in your head, woman. Stop it.

It is probably that

Like I’m such a mom now ughh

I always have food particles and other weird shit smeared all over me too from her wiping her mouth and dirty little hands on me 😂
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Posted by brianafay

Anyone else hate looking like you tried to be sexy? 😂Like it’s truly embarrassing to me....

So I was brushing my teeth the other night and I was staring at myself in the mirror thinking “who the fuck married your ass?” There I am in one of my husband’s old T-shirts and worn out soffe shorts...hair up in a sloppy ass pony tail...

And I’m like you know what? My husband deserves better than this... I’m going to order some sexier night attire.

But then I was online looking at lingerie like I don’t think I can wear this shit. “Looks like I’m trying too hard.”

What is wrong with me?

Feelz..

I literally had my bf ask me what I was wearing after I brought sexy lingerie...

" Get into a pair of sweats please"...

Then he gave me the good d.

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Posted by brianafay
Posted by nikkistar

This is normal after you have a baby. You are insecure with the changes in your body, and you just want to feel like he still is attracted to you.

It's in your head, woman. Stop it.

It is probably that

Like I’m such a mom now ughh

I always have food particles and other weird shit smeared all over me too from her wiping her mouth and dirty little hands on me 😂
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Welcome to being a mom to a baby/toddler. Expect that until they are about 7/8. lol
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Posted by bumboklatt

Usually when girls try its when they're not sexy

When they try the least its hot afLike some of those homeless wimmins o lawds

But that maybe something to do witb my placements cause i know some dudes like clean cut girls

....

And I thought I was strange...

Just cause they got nowhere to stay and maybe like narcotics doesent mean theyre not hot
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Completely different situation where I live lol. But in some rare occasions maybe the hotness can be seen.
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Posted by brianafay

Anyone else hate looking like you tried to be sexy? 😂Like it’s truly embarrassing to me....

So I was brushing my teeth the other night and I was staring at myself in the mirror thinking “who the fuck married your ass?” There I am in one of my husband’s old T-shirts and worn out soffe shorts...hair up in a sloppy ass pony tail...

And I’m like you know what? My husband deserves better than this... I’m going to order some sexier night attire.

But then I was online looking at lingerie like I don’t think I can wear this shit. “Looks like I’m trying too hard.”

What is wrong with me?


Lmao...

When I look in the mirror I thank God for creating this impossible perfection...and because of that I am late for work...but it’s no issue because when I finally come - everybody is happy that I am well and alive...

Otherwise they will be devastated and I can’t have that happen to people around me...

I have to BE! And I AM!

Hello...🧟‍♀️🤔🎈
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Posted by nanorobot

Wow none of this ever occurred to me at all

And here I am suddenly wondering if its selfish that I don't actually give a fuck what he thinks, at all, as I lay here typing happily and comfortably in a mumu


Yeah! Like accidentally got a gorgeous bra on sale and tried to parade it and asked him if he liked my bra and he said he likes them off and hooks were off-putting and un-nesessery!

Well...so much for ‘men loooove lingerie! 🖕
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I think it's a sign of love and respect, so bravo. You are truly thinking about him over yourself--if that ain't love, Idk what is! I think we take care of ourselves for ourselves, and also in respect to our partner. Who wants someone who doesn't want to look good for them? When I say good, I don't mean completely dolled up but polished. Depressed people ignore their hygiene I tend to think. I may see it in a dated way but that's how I see it. If you aren't trying, there's a reason.