Unsolicited dick pics

Ok, I’m not saying I don’t like them, but what is the deal with men sending them without even asking first (I’m not talking about being in an agreed upon relationship). I just told a guy that I didn’t care about the pics he had sent me because so many other men just randomly send them (not that I have that right now, but I have and I was speaking more generally). I hurt his feelings. He said he doesn’t just send them to people, but because he likes me. He had been pushing for a relationship. No we haven’t slept together.

What I’m most pissed about it the fact that I feel bad for hurting his feelings. Seriously!!! Why should I even feel bad when I never asked for them? I never did say please stop, but I never responded to them either. I’m just venting.

Posted by WarAngel

I never send dick pics unless I REALLY know the person and NEVER without prior consent.

That's just rude on his part. Don't feel bad at all.

At least you are smart/respectful about it. So many guys don’t.

There could be women that like them and request them and the men who think its ok and not a big deal to send.

It’s almost like sending nudes, like some sort of pre show to the real show.

Like if his flirting technique isn’t working but he has a nice package, that will finish the work needed to get you to his bed.

But if you don’t like that sort of thing, you should definitely let him know it’s not your style and you prefer to not get them.

You shouldn’t feel bad about letting him know that it’s not your thing. Especially if you don’t send him nudes or anything like that. It’s almost common sense not to send something like that if he’s not receiving anything from you.

Brains in his pants lol🥴

As WarAngel said, don’t feel bad ... he’s not using much imagination and being pre(dic)table

Lol

I saw a dic pic as someone’s profile pic once on a dating site so i wrote to “it”’ asking “do you have a face and if not could you at least draw one on your lad?

😂

Its the new courtshipping. Instead of trying to impress you with wealth, countryside mansions, horse n carriages ect, they try to court you with their masculinity cause thats what it suposed to represent.

Your so called friend didnt value your clear set boundary tho so dont feel bad and dont apologize to him. He should be the one feeling bad and apologizing to you.

Posted by PiscesGal76

Its the new courtshipping. Instead of trying to impress you with wealth, countryside mansions, horse n carriages ect, they try to court you with their masculinity cause thats what it suposed to represent.

Your so called friend didnt value your clear set boundary tho so dobt feel bad and dont apologize to him. He should be the one feeling bad and apologizing to you.

...or even a personality 😂🥴

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by PiscesGal76

Its the new courtshipping. Instead of trying to impress you with wealth, countryside mansions, horse n carriages ect, they try to court you with their masculinity cause thats what it suposed to represent.

Your so called friend didnt value your clear set boundary tho so dobt feel bad and dont apologize to him. He should be the one feeling bad and apologizing to you.

...or even a personality 😂🥴

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Hahahahaaa yes!

But even in the medieval times (the time I was refering to), personality was a rare thing cause society demanded certain behaviours from men and women which allowed very little room for a personality.

“Personality was a rare thing”

Not much has changed with some people then

😂😀

He flipped it on you. His feelings ain’t hurt. He’s mad his penis isn’t getting a better response lol. He thought you were that kinda girl. Easy to impress. Doesn’t require any real effort. He thinks low of you.

Don’t feel bad.

Demand better from the people looking to be in your life. Have a bar that people need to reach. At the very least be a gentleman.

I would get these unsolicited pics back in my earlier days and it was fun n exciting but then I realized that I was getting the bare minimum from men. What does a person have to offer outside of sex?

Those dudes are dumb. It always boggles my mind how all of them do the same things regarding online dating and "approaching." They all send the same boring questions, and soon after, dick pics also while thinking that they will impress those girls/women or make them horny that way. The fact is that for a vast majority of girls/women, dick pics don't do anything well. They won't be horny after seeing them or anything. Men are visual creatures, so they think that the same thing works for girls/women also. Wrong. Most of them will end up being ignored or blocked after that. They need to be more classy in their approach to intrigue/attract them appropriately by displaying desirable personality traits. Then, most girls/women will offer their nudes to a guy after some time, without asking the same pics in return. That is how it goes when you do it right. Be different, be classy, think out of the box. It works like a charm every single time...not to brag about it, but it is just way too easy for me after cracking the code. 😏

I hate them.

It’s on par with indecent exposure misdemeanor IMO when it is unsolicited. If a man flashes his dick at you in public he will be arrested and charged for exposing his genitals. Same shit really. Just as intentional.

I say berate him, mock him, shame him to the extent that he is traumatized. He'll think twice about sending a dick pick again. More people should do this.

Fucking stupid, unimaginative, vulgar, offensive, low effort garbage attempt at trying to holler at someone.

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Posted by saggurl88

Haha I just finished binging this the other night

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I've never done this. Actually I don't even know a single guy who has done this.

Honestly how many men are truly doing this? I feel its like 1 out of 10,000 men do this randomly with no questions asked, and make such a disturbance in the matrix it makes it look like all men are doing it.

Posted by Soul

I've never done this. Actually I don't even know a single guy who has done this.

Honestly how many men are truly doing this? I feel its like 1 out of 10,000 men do this randomly with no questions asked, and make such a disturbance in the matrix it makes it look like all men are doing it.

Because your brain is in your head and not your pants and you’re an intelligent man.

I’m sorry but if I got one without asking (which I wouldn’t), I’d say “so...and......is that it ?”

🥴

Posted by saggurl88

There could be women that like them and request them and the men who think its ok and not a big deal to send.

It’s almost like sending nudes, like some sort of pre show to the real show.

Like if his flirting technique isn’t working but he has a nice package, that will finish the work needed to get you to his bed.

But if you don’t like that sort of thing, you should definitely let him know it’s not your style and you prefer to not get them.

You shouldn’t feel bad about letting him know that it’s not your thing. Especially if you don’t send him nudes or anything like that. It’s almost common sense not to send something like that if he’s not receiving anything from you.

No I’m not sending him things. And I honestly don’t mind those types of pictures if it’s from someone I’m with. It’s a turn off from someone I’m getting to know.

Posted by MyStarsShine

Brains in his pants lol🥴

As WarAngel said, don’t feel bad ... he’s not using much imagination and being pre(dic)table

Lol

I saw a dic pic as someone’s profile pic once on a dating site so i wrote to “it”’ asking “do you have a face and if not could you at least draw one on your lad?

😂

😂😂😂😂 how did it respond ?

Posted by Wizardz

It's a way of trying to get you interested in them. Like if they have a nice car they want to tell you. They're not going to wait for you to have a conversation about cars

"Look, I have a dick. I'll show you" 🤣

Didn’t work. I have had other people do that to me as well. Makes me lose interest so quick. Could be a decent dude, but I won’t find out.

Posted by alexscaries

Stick them up on onlyfans and sell them.

😂

Posted by PiscesGal76

Its the new courtshipping. Instead of trying to impress you with wealth, countryside mansions, horse n carriages ect, they try to court you with their masculinity cause thats what it suposed to represent.

Your so called friend didnt value your clear set boundary tho so dont feel bad and dont apologize to him. He should be the one feeling bad and apologizing to you.

I just need someone with good conversation, loyalty and good sex 😂🤷‍♂️

Posted by jukey

I get that it's raunchy and sexy to some, but not my style . If that's all I'm relying on to woo a lady, all my years laboring on crossword puzzles were in vain.

😂🤓

Posted by DMV

He flipped it on you. His feelings ain’t hurt. He’s mad his penis isn’t getting a better response lol. He thought you were that kinda girl. Easy to impress. Doesn’t require any real effort. He thinks low of you.

Don’t feel bad.

Demand better from the people looking to be in your life. Have a bar that people need to reach. At the very least be a gentleman.

I would get these unsolicited pics back in my earlier days and it was fun n exciting but then I realized that I was getting the bare minimum from men. What does a person have to offer outside of sex?

I haven’t given in to him. I have even told him that it turned me off and that I for sure don’t want anything with him. Now he keeps trying to find a way to come over (thankfully he doesn’t know where I live).

Posted by ImperfectStorm

Don’t feel bad at all. I have done this same thing and yelled at someone for sending me one. I did not feel bad at all for hurting his feelings, hopefully it will discourage him from passing out dick pics like business cards. 🙄

People apparently don’t believe in leaving anything for the imagination anymore. If a guy sends me a dick pic to impress me I’m going to assume that is the only thing he is convinced he has going for himself. 🤷‍♀️

I don’t think you are wrong with that one

Posted by ozzzy

Those dudes are dumb. It always boggles my mind how all of them do the same things regarding online dating and "approaching." They all send the same boring questions, and soon after, dick pics also while thinking that they will impress those girls/women or make them horny that way. The fact is that for a vast majority of girls/women, dick pics don't do anything well. They won't be horny after seeing them or anything. Men are visual creatures, so they think that the same thing works for girls/women also. Wrong. Most of them will end up being ignored or blocked after that. They need to be more classy in their approach to intrigue/attract them appropriately by displaying desirable personality traits. Then, most girls/women will offer their nudes to a guy after some time, without asking the same pics in return. That is how it goes when you do it right. Be different, be classy, think out of the box. It works like a charm every single time...not to brag about it, but it is just way too easy for me after cracking the code. 😏

You know better so you do better 😂

Posted by _elle_

Even when I would travel and the Cap would send them....I thought to myself....why? I already know what it looks like. I could probably draw it from memory. 🤣😂🤣😂

😂😂 yeah, I don’t mind them from someone I’m with, but j on not send them to me if I’m about to jump on it.

Posted by Soul

I've never done this. Actually I don't even know a single guy who has done this.

Honestly how many men are truly doing this? I feel its like 1 out of 10,000 men do this randomly with no questions asked, and make such a disturbance in the matrix it makes it look like all men are doing it.

Possibly. It feels like more. I have had 4 different guys do that to me in the past year. That was when I attempted to date. If they didn’t send a pic than they almost immediately tried bringing up sex.🤷‍♂️

Posted by MyStarsShine

I’m sorry but if I got one without asking (which I wouldn’t), I’d say “so...and......is that it ?”

🥴

😂

Posted by jukey

Unsolicited dick facts

Dick also once popularly meant an assertion, announcement, or declaration, such as “I do dick Mr. Beauregard… you are my hero!” Similarly, someone’s ‘dying dick’ meant something completely different in the Middle Ages as it would now, namely their ‘dying declaration’.

Other things that were commonly called ‘dick’ through the middle ages up to now include: aprons, dictionaries, detectives, whips, and nothing (as in, ‘I got dick for my birthday’).

Not one of those was in the pics. Damn I would have preferred any of those 😂

Posted by ATGR

Men - she’s going to show the pictures to her friends and they are all going to laugh about them. I’ve seen this happen in a bar and it wasn’t even youngsters doing it.

I probably should have.

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Men - she’s going to show the pictures to her friends and they are all going to laugh about them. I’ve seen this happen in a bar and it wasn’t even youngsters doing it.

Lol.. So what do guys really do with nudes they get from girls?

I have been curious about this, so other dudes feel free to reply..

If a dude is asking for nudes, is it cause he wants to jerk off to you or do you guys just to collect them like Pokemon or some shit? I never know how to take it when someone requests nudes, I don't ever send them to people unless they are my boyfriend.. so what's with guys who aren't your boyfriend asking for them? What ya'll really doing with them? Lol

I’ve never had any 😢 If I did it would just be for me though, I wouldn’t share them around or show anyone.

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Classy

Posted by Sailor_Mars

I wouldn't be mad if the dick had a little cowboy hat or a costume...that would be funny and cute...as for the plain dickpic, if I get one...I instantly block it and the rest of the person, because we are distant breeds with irreconcilable differences

All I’m imagining is the cowboy now!!!😂😂😂

Posted by Cclion

Posted by saggurl88

There could be women that like them and request them and the men who think its ok and not a big deal to send.

It’s almost like sending nudes, like some sort of pre show to the real show.

Like if his flirting technique isn’t working but he has a nice package, that will finish the work needed to get you to his bed.

But if you don’t like that sort of thing, you should definitely let him know it’s not your style and you prefer to not get them.

You shouldn’t feel bad about letting him know that it’s not your thing. Especially if you don’t send him nudes or anything like that. It’s almost common sense not to send something like that if he’s not receiving anything from you.

No I’m not sending him things. And I honestly don’t mind those types of pictures if it’s from someone I’m with. It’s a turn off from someone I’m getting to know.

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I like them too. So what ended up happening? Did you say anything else about them? Is he still embarrassed or did he get over it?

Posted by blackphvse

To be on topic though.. I've only ever gotten 1 unsolicited dick pic. An Aries dude that kept chasing me, no idea how he thought sending me a dick pic I didn't ask for was gonna help his case.. Block!

This one I started the thread about is an Aries...

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Cclion

Posted by saggurl88

There could be women that like them and request them and the men who think its ok and not a big deal to send.

It’s almost like sending nudes, like some sort of pre show to the real show.

Like if his flirting technique isn’t working but he has a nice package, that will finish the work needed to get you to his bed.

But if you don’t like that sort of thing, you should definitely let him know it’s not your style and you prefer to not get them.

You shouldn’t feel bad about letting him know that it’s not your thing. Especially if you don’t send him nudes or anything like that. It’s almost common sense not to send something like that if he’s not receiving anything from you.

No I’m not sending him things. And I honestly don’t mind those types of pictures if it’s from someone I’m with. It’s a turn off from someone I’m getting to know.

I like them too. So what ended up happening? Did you say anything else about them? Is he still embarrassed or did he get over it?

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I haven’t gotten any since. He tried to give me an ultimatum about being with him in that same conversation and said he wasn’t going to contact me for about a week. He called me the next day. We didn’t talk though. I was busy when he called. I feel like he is trying to work his way in because he mentioned trying to come over. He doesn’t know where I live and I want to keep it that way.

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Posted by blackphvse

To be on topic though.. I've only ever gotten 1 unsolicited dick pic. An Aries dude that kept chasing me, no idea how he thought sending me a dick pic I didn't ask for was gonna help his case.. Block!

This one I started the thread about is an Aries...

LOL!! That's too funny 😆

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Something about Aries I guess lol

Posted by WarAngel

I actually sent one out last night. 🤭

How did it go? Lol

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Brains in his pants lol🥴

As WarAngel said, don’t feel bad ... he’s not using much imagination and being pre(dic)table

Lol

I saw a dic pic as someone’s profile pic once on a dating site so i wrote to “it”’ asking “do you have a face and if not could you at least draw one on your lad?

😂

😂😂😂😂 how did it respond ?

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I think it ignored me 😂

Posted by Cclion

Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

There could be women that like them and request them and the men who think its ok and not a big deal to send.

It’s almost like sending nudes, like some sort of pre show to the real show.

Like if his flirting technique isn’t working but he has a nice package, that will finish the work needed to get you to his bed.

But if you don’t like that sort of thing, you should definitely let him know it’s not your style and you prefer to not get them.

You shouldn’t feel bad about letting him know that it’s not your thing. Especially if you don’t send him nudes or anything like that. It’s almost common sense not to send something like that if he’s not receiving anything from you.

No I’m not sending him things. And I honestly don’t mind those types of pictures if it’s from someone I’m with. It’s a turn off from someone I’m getting to know.

I like them too. So what ended up happening? Did you say anything else about them? Is he still embarrassed or did he get over it?

I haven’t gotten any since. He tried to give me an ultimatum about being with him in that same conversation and said he wasn’t going to contact me for about a week. He called me the next day. We didn’t talk though. I was busy when he called. I feel like he is trying to work his way in because he mentioned trying to come over. He doesn’t know where I live and I want to keep it that way.

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It's always the ones you don't want that want you lol The Universe gots jokes 😭

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There could be women that like them and request them and the men who think its ok and not a big deal to send.

It’s almost like sending nudes, like some sort of pre show to the real show.

Like if his flirting technique isn’t working but he has a nice package, that will finish the work needed to get you to his bed.

But if you don’t like that sort of thing, you should definitely let him know it’s not your style and you prefer to not get them.

You shouldn’t feel bad about letting him know that it’s not your thing. Especially if you don’t send him nudes or anything like that. It’s almost common sense not to send something like that if he’s not receiving anything from you.

No I’m not sending him things. And I honestly don’t mind those types of pictures if it’s from someone I’m with. It’s a turn off from someone I’m getting to know.

I like them too. So what ended up happening? Did you say anything else about them? Is he still embarrassed or did he get over it?

I haven’t gotten any since. He tried to give me an ultimatum about being with him in that same conversation and said he wasn’t going to contact me for about a week. He called me the next day. We didn’t talk though. I was busy when he called. I feel like he is trying to work his way in because he mentioned trying to come over. He doesn’t know where I live and I want to keep it that way.

It's always the ones you don't want that want you lol The Universe gots jokes 😭

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Ain’t that the truth 🙄

Posted by MyStarsShine

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Brains in his pants lol🥴

As WarAngel said, don’t feel bad ... he’s not using much imagination and being pre(dic)table

Lol

I saw a dic pic as someone’s profile pic once on a dating site so i wrote to “it”’ asking “do you have a face and if not could you at least draw one on your lad?

😂

😂😂😂😂 how did it respond ?

I think it ignored me 😂

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😂😂😂

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Posted by PiscesGal76

Its the new courtshipping. Instead of trying to impress you with wealth, countryside mansions, horse n carriages ect, they try to court you with their masculinity cause thats what it suposed to represent.

Your so called friend didnt value your clear set boundary tho so dont feel bad and dont apologize to him. He should be the one feeling bad and apologizing to you.

I just need someone with good conversation, loyalty and good sex 😂🤷‍♂️

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Dont we all? 🤭🤣🤣

If you’ve not met him in person, ask him

if he’d like a pic of your dick....tell him

it’s a whopper

That’ll freak him out

Go on I dare you

😆🤣🥴

Posted by Cclion

Ok, I’m not saying I don’t like them, but what is the deal with men sending them without even asking first (I’m not talking about being in an agreed upon relationship). I just told a guy that I didn’t care about the pics he had sent me because so many other men just randomly send them (not that I have that right now, but I have and I was speaking more generally). I hurt his feelings. He said he doesn’t just send them to people, but because he likes me. He had been pushing for a relationship. No we haven’t slept together.

What I’m most pissed about it the fact that I feel bad for hurting his feelings. Seriously!!! Why should I even feel bad when I never asked for them? I never did say please stop, but I never responded to them either. I’m just venting.

How old are you? I’m just curious what age this guy is to be sending this

I don’t think I’ve ever gotten a dick pic, maybe one that shows the happy trail...but I’ve also been fortunate that I’ve never had a guy ask for nudes which is how usually...this sort of thing starts. But some people have no social intelligence, so to just send a dick pic unsolicited is very odd.

Posted by MyStarsShine

If you’ve not met him in person, ask him

if he’d like a pic of your dick....tell him

it’s a whopper

That’ll freak him out

Go on I dare you

😆🤣🥴

😂😂😂😂 I will add that to my arsenal for later!

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Posted by Cclion

Ok, I’m not saying I don’t like them, but what is the deal with men sending them without even asking first (I’m not talking about being in an agreed upon relationship). I just told a guy that I didn’t care about the pics he had sent me because so many other men just randomly send them (not that I have that right now, but I have and I was speaking more generally). I hurt his feelings. He said he doesn’t just send them to people, but because he likes me. He had been pushing for a relationship. No we haven’t slept together.

What I’m most pissed about it the fact that I feel bad for hurting his feelings. Seriously!!! Why should I even feel bad when I never asked for them? I never did say please stop, but I never responded to them either. I’m just venting.

How old are you? I’m just curious what age this guy is to be sending this

I don’t think I’ve ever gotten a dick pic, maybe one that shows the happy trail...but I’ve also been fortunate that I’ve never had a guy ask for nudes which is how usually...this sort of thing starts. But some people have no social intelligence, so to just send a dick pic unsolicited is very odd.

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He is 30. An Aries. To be fair, we had talked and flirted, but not phone sex stuff. I just think he’s a bit more immature in that way. I have observed him more and I’m seeing it consistently in other areas of his life. He reminds me of a high school boy about it. I don’t think he had a filter and might be used to sex only situations with women.

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Posted by Sailor_Mars

I wouldn't be mad if the dick had a little cowboy hat or a costume...that would be funny and cute...as for the plain dickpic, if I get one...I instantly block it and the rest of the person, because we are distant breeds with irreconcilable differences

All I’m imagining is the cowboy now!!!😂😂😂

CC is that you———??

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