I'm a Capricorn Man, She's Virgo. I'm about to stop talking to her. This is great...

Hello!

First post and probably just a vent post by now, but here it goes:

I met a beautiful Virgo lady at my University's library. At first I didn't really care about her (She was pretty, but not big deal to me). However, recently she started to sit down next to me where I'm normally studying.

So that's how we met.

We started to see each other everyday and talk every now and then, keep company for our studies

(I'm a Med Student and so is she BTW). I slowly started to get an interest on her.

So I tried to invite her out to do something for the weekend, and all that replied was

that she was busy.

I'm actually under much stress due to important examinations and licensing processes I'm going through

in my career right now, and I'm really not in the mood to decipher or play games with a woman at all.

So me being ol' grumpy capricorn just decided to cut all ties with the woman, as I'm not willing

to dedicate time to her that I must use elsewhere right now. (Graduation, etc)

So there's that... If any Virgo girl was actually wondering if Capricorns are good for them, you might

want to reconsider because I truly feel I'm being the bad guy here.

But my career comes first.

You sound pretty fucked up to me ..... I mean the woman said she was busy, and you gauge that as playing games with you?



You're not being a bad guy ... you ARE a bad guy.



Any person who would make that kind of assessment on a person who is too busy to go out with you ... is a fucked up person.



You caught feelings for her, and then suddenly you think she owes you to go out with you?



she didn't say anything derogatory according to what you wrote ... she simply said she was busy.



Good thing you're not the prime example of Capricorn.

Ok, so you can't handle rejection.

That's not her problem.

I was just venting, and certainly not expecting much love from here anyway.

I have my mind on other things right now and I'm emotionally unavailable, I don't really care.

I'm a bit frustrated tho because I know I could pursue her, but I just won't because of these other

things I've to do.

I was just venting, calm down.

Taking it way too personal from some stranger writing on the internet.

Posted by TaureanVirgo
Ok, so you can't handle rejection.

That's not her problem.

I can handle rejection very well.

I can't handle distractions in the moment I'm at right now tho.

Beautiful lady, great person! I wish I could pursue her!

Unfortunately I need my attention elsewhere right now, I know this and also know

I'll lose my chance with her because of this.

I'm frustrated, I'm venting right now.

That was the whole point of this post, wasn't trying to insult women here or something.

lol

I'll never for the life of me understand why people make these posts, then act like they don't really care about the person they're bitching about, or the situation, but they still need to vent.

Everybody knows you cared enough to find this place and post (or just post if you were already a member). You don't look any less lovelorn than the people who openly whine about feeling neglected and rejected. Just 'fess up to it.

Well apparently u had enough time to post & vent here.

No one is interested in courting u

Take ur dull ass back to ur studies

LMFAOO even a cap said they're not good for us

Posted by P-Angel
You sound pretty fucked up to me ..... I mean the woman said she was busy, and you gauge that as playing games with you?



You're not being a bad guy ... you ARE a bad guy.



Any person who would make that kind of assessment on a person who is too busy to go out with you ... is a fucked up person.



You caught feelings for her, and then suddenly you think she owes you to go out with you?



she didn't say anything derogatory according to what you wrote ... she simply said she was busy.



Good thing you're not the prime example of Capricorn.

I've glanced at post. I felt it's crap! I saw you replied. I am happy you able to! HAVE you knocked that crap out yet? Hope you did! ?

I'm a Capricorn Man, She's Virgo. I'm about to stop talking to her. This is great...

This isn't great!

This is about most stupid thing I've ever seen and she is lucky woman you won't talk to her moron'

Go on and do you with your bad cap self.

Posted by Capricorn007
I met a beautiful Virgo lady at my University's library. At first I didn't really care about her (She was pretty, but not big deal to me). However, recently she started to sit down next to me where I'm normally studying.

So that's how we met.

Translation: If a woman is beautiful, she isn't worth pursuing. But if she initiates the conversation, she is worth speaking with.

Posted by Capricorn007
We started to see each other everyday and talk every now and then, keep company for our studies

(I'm a Med Student and so is she BTW). I slowly started to get an interest on her.

So I tried to invite her out to do something for the weekend, and all that replied was

that she was busy.

Clearly both Pre-Med Students.

Posted by Capricorn007
I'm actually under much stress due to important examinations and licensing processes I'm going through

in my career right now, and I'm really not in the mood to decipher or play games with a woman at all.

Posted by Capricorn007
So me being ol' grumpy capricorn just decided to cut all ties with the woman, as I'm not willing

to dedicate time to her that I must use elsewhere right now. (Graduation, etc)

So there's that... If any Virgo girl was actually wondering if Capricorns are good for them, you might

want to reconsider because I truly feel I'm being the bad guy here.

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The OP is allowed to busy with Pre-Med, but the OP isn't allowed to be busy, although she is also Pre-Med

*laughs*

Posted by Bricks195
I'll never for the life of me understand why people make these posts, then act like they don't really care about the person they're bitching about, or the situation, but they still need to vent.

Everybody knows you cared enough to find this place and post (or just post if you were already a member). You don't look any less lovelorn than the people who openly whine about feeling neglected and rejected. Just 'fess up to it.

*like*

Posted by Capricorn007

Posted by TaureanVirgo
Ok, so you can't handle rejection.

That's not her problem.

I can handle rejection very well.

I can't handle distractions in the moment I'm at right now tho.

Beautiful lady, great person! I wish I could pursue her!

Unfortunately I need my attention elsewhere right now, I know this and also know

I'll lose my chance with her because of this.

I'm frustrated, I'm venting right now.

That was the whole point of this post, wasn't trying to insult women here or something.

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This makes sense.

Sounds like an unfortunate situation you are in. Just know she's most likely similar...busy, and missing out on opportunities because of it. You should actually be able to relate and understand each other in that way.

Wish you luck. Maybe the two of you can connect again when you both have the time.

Posted by Capricorn007
Hello!

First post and probably just a vent post by now, but here it goes:

I met a beautiful Virgo lady at my University's library. At first I didn't really care about her (She was pretty, but not big deal to me). However, recently she started to sit down next to me where I'm normally studying.

So that's how we met.

We started to see each other everyday and talk every now and then, keep company for our studies

(I'm a Med Student and so is she BTW). I slowly started to get an interest on her.

So I tried to invite her out to do something for the weekend, and all that replied was

that she was busy.

I'm actually under much stress due to important examinations and licensing processes I'm going through

in my career right now, and I'm really not in the mood to decipher or play games with a woman at all.

So me being ol' grumpy capricorn just decided to cut all ties with the woman, as I'm not willing

to dedicate time to her that I must use elsewhere right now. (Graduation, etc)

So there's that... If any Virgo girl was actually wondering if Capricorns are good for them, you might

want to reconsider because I truly feel I'm being the bad guy here.

But my career comes first.

Yes but your career will not be present at your funeral to say kind words about you.

Then again, you're a Capricorn. Can't imagine there'd ever be anything positive said in your eulogy other than, "He worked very hard, and constantly, all his life. And he had a big bank account. The end." And you'll be eulogized by your financial advisor.

Ugh. You Capricorns are so typical. And boring.

As for the Virgo girl, well no big loss there. For either of you.

I despise games too when my work life has high stakes.. OP, like Rocky had to tell Adrian in Rocky 1: "Yo I'm in training, no foolin' around right now" bro, just make sure to do 2 things now, if you care: 1. Say sorry.. 2. Tell her what's up. That's how you form the bond. I used to be like you with my work-life but I was an orphan in survival mode.. and I still take needed space when I need to strategize and work on my ventures, but, my Virgos always understand.. I've noticed that as long as you talk to them and let them know what's up they will rally with you. They're fantastic sidekicks (I'm talking about female virgos) If you gatta be cold though, do it, if you love her though, tell her what you feel, even if it makes you uncomfortable. She might surprise you man.

Also, OP, what TaurusBull said needs to hit you hard in the face.. you're too busy for games you say, and she says she's too busy for who knows what, maybe she's like you, too busy with school at that moment too.. you 2 CAN connect on your joint-fight to become docs and improve the world, AND, maybe if you can guide the conversation with love and care you 2 can fiiiind love in relating right there in that 'commonality' (is that even a word?) Also, maybe she's too busy for games too, so she's telling you she's too busy.. to see if you react with some understanding (but you didn't) she's a woman.. you can't just cut her like that.. massive red flag.. trust me, I've been you..

PS: What Tom said makes sense, just don't be a douche to the girl, man.. don't pay attention to 81gems either.. his/her kids will inherit a rented trailer and credit card debt and take care of many.. idk.. maybe some goldfish.. and hopefully their kids.. J/k gems.. but don't knock peoples ambition

She just said she was busy... ONCE. You can't jump the boat and say she's playing games just because of ONE excuse. How long have you guys been hitting it off? How long have you guys been seeing each other? That amount of time and her consideration to sit by your cold ass in the first place DOES NOT deserve you to just dismiss her because she can't make it to the first date. For all we know, she might really be busy. She might have plans. She might have to study. You don't know her schedule. Focusing on your career is a good thing but you can't just dismiss your relationships because they don't all conveniently work to your bidding. People have their own lives to attend to.

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Posted by Sunsetvirgo
LMFAOO even a cap said they're not good for us

you disappoint me

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WELL BBY ITS THE TRUTH

Posted by DannyMC
PS: What Tom said makes sense, just don't be a douche to the girl, man.. don't pay attention to 81gems either.. his/her kids will inherit a rented trailer and credit card debt and take care of many.. idk.. maybe some goldfish.. and hopefully their kids.. J/k gems.. but don't knock peoples ambition

Hey, not knocking. Just saying what I think. Work and work and work and career career career and..... boring boring boring. I was that way myself years ago. Yuck! Now I work my ass off 9 months or so a year then relax the rest of the time. I could do more and make more money, but hey, I can't take anything with me when I'm dead. I'd rather enjoy my money and spoil myself and husband. And work till I'm dead!

Anyway, I think the OP is being too hasty, but if his career is THAT important to him, and his time is too precious to invest in things like a relationship with someone he's interested in, that's on him.

He should realize Virgo is like Capricorn in some ways. They both see the meaning in working, keeping "busy," being resourceful, using things/people to their advantage, and money. If he can remember this it'll help him avoid frustration in the future.