Virgo and anger

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Virgo is angry at me for being angry at him.

A little background.

Been together with him for 1 year now, and due to the nature of our job we can't meet often. Once a week if our schedule meet up. Otherwise, it's always texts and occasional phone calls.

Today, we had plans to go for dinner and movie. While waiting for him to get ready, I went through his phone and found him on OkCupid. Now, I have asked him before about OkCupid (want to try it out but it didn't seem right to make an account when I'm in a relationship with him. So I asked him about it but he said he deleted his account alr..) confronted him before dinner. He explained about why he was logged in, but tbh I don't know what to feel about his explaination. He sent me home, no movies..

Well, I am still obviously angry at him for lying about OkCupid account, and angry that he is on OkCupid despite having deleted his account. But why is he angry at me?

Seriously. Angry, not replying text. Said really mean stuff.

I don't want to be a doormat with this situation. I am angry. And hurt. And I feel betrayed. What's the best way to let him know this... and ask for some pacifying actions from him (would be a bonus really)
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Simple:

You caught him in a lie and he knew it.

I did this twice to a virgo man.

Once it was my boss who was lying to me about giving me a raise and the office equipment I needed to do my increased work load. In an office meeting, I simply asked him "where was my office equipment, it's been over a month since you supposedly ordered it?" He obviously didn't like that I was calling him out and the next day he called me around lunch time ( he was out of the office on purpose as he was a real baby) and told me to clear out my desk and leave. This is after two years of working my ass off for him, taking on more responsibilities than just my job and never missing a day of work.

Second time was calling a virgo friend who I'd known for years...he was criticizing something I was allowing my child to be active in (a certain sport) and he didn't like the fact that I would do so because he "assumed" the activity was too competitive for them, despite the fact he didn't even know who the coaches were, how the program was run and what was allowed etc. He muttered, "Unbelievable" under his breath when we were discussing my kids and I mentioned they were still playing football.

During a conversation after that day, I subtly pointed out that his assumption was wrong and said everything was fine as the program was in good hands with great coaches who cared about safety first.

He acted as if no big deal, and said great.

Then following, he completely did a 180 on me asking me to be part of something, then ignored me. I asked him why he did this and he said, he was too occupied at the time to speak with me.

Yea right....

Then he went on to say how he'd always have fond thoughts of me.

What a crock!!

The best advice I can give you about any man, let alone a virgo is this. If he's capable of lying to you when you know he's lying to your face, he's going to lie to you when it's completely behind your back. Ever heard the saying, "You can't change the stripes a zebra?" This means no matter how you'd like to change that darn zebra, you can't. Same goes with anyone who lies, male or female.

Virgos, especially men because of their fragile egos, will NEVER let it go that you caught them in a lie. They'd rather die than know you know and will never admit it. I have NEVER received an apology from a virgo. I'm not saying all virgo's are bad. They aren't. However, the ones I've dealt with would rather lose a friend or loved one that admit they were wrong and simply make amends. You'll die of old age faster than one will admit they lied and say, "I'm truly sorry."

Do yourself a favor....MOVE ON with your life and find a man who is honest and has integrity.
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Posted by gemini64
Simple:

You caught him in a lie and he knew it.

I did this twice to a virgo man.

Once it was my boss who was lying to me about giving me a raise and the office equipment I needed to do my increased work load. In an office meeting, I simply asked him "where was my office equipment, it's been over a month since you supposedly ordered it?" He obviously didn't like that I was calling him out and the next day he called me around lunch time ( he was out of the office on purpose as he was a real baby) and told me to clear out my desk and leave. This is after two years of working my ass off for him, taking on more responsibilities than just my job and never missing a day of work.

Second time was calling a virgo friend who I'd known for years...he was criticizing something I was allowing my child to be active in (a certain sport) and he didn't like the fact that I would do so because he "assumed" the activity was too competitive for them, despite the fact he didn't even know who the coaches were, how the program was run and what was allowed etc. He muttered, "Unbelievable" under his breath when we were discussing my kids and I mentioned they were still playing football.

During a conversation after that day, I subtly pointed out that his assumption was wrong and said everything was fine as the program was in good hands with great coaches who cared about safety first.

He acted as if no big deal, and said great.

Then following, he completely did a 180 on me asking me to be part of something, then ignored me. I asked him why he did this and he said, he was too occupied at the time to speak with me.

Yea right....

Then he went on to say how he'd always have fond thoughts of me.

What a crock!!

The best advice I can give you about any man, let alone a virgo is this. If he's capable of lying to you when you know he's lying to your face, he's going to lie to you when it's completely behind your back. Ever heard the saying, "You can't change the stripes a zebra?" This means no matter how you'd like to change that darn zebra, you can't. Same goes with anyone who lies, male or female.

Virgos, especially men because of their fragile egos, will NEVER let it go that you caught them in a lie. They'd rather die than know you know and will never admit it. I have NEVER received an apology from a virgo. I'm not saying all virgo's are bad. They aren't. However, the ones I've dealt with would rather lose a friend or loved one that admit they were wrong and simply make amends. You'll die of old age faster than one will admit they lied and say, "I'm truly sorry."

Do yourself a favor....MOVE ON with your life and find a man who is honest and has integrity.
That first scenario about your boss isn't a Virgo thing, that's just being an arrogant dumbass. As as a member if management...I would've told you to go over his head. Also, although you may be in a right-to-work State, that doesn't protect employers from wrongful termination.

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Posted by gemini64
Simple:

You caught him in a lie and he knew it.

I did this twice to a virgo man.

Once it was my boss who was lying to me about giving me a raise and the office equipment I needed to do my increased work load. In an office meeting, I simply asked him "where was my office equipment, it's been over a month since you supposedly ordered it?" He obviously didn't like that I was calling him out and the next day he called me around lunch time ( he was out of the office on purpose as he was a real baby) and told me to clear out my desk and leave. This is after two years of working my ass off for him, taking on more responsibilities than just my job and never missing a day of work.

Second time was calling a virgo friend who I'd known for years...he was criticizing something I was allowing my child to be active in (a certain sport) and he didn't like the fact that I would do so because he "assumed" the activity was too competitive for them, despite the fact he didn't even know who the coaches were, how the program was run and what was allowed etc. He muttered, "Unbelievable" under his breath when we were discussing my kids and I mentioned they were still playing football.

During a conversation after that day, I subtly pointed out that his assumption was wrong and said everything was fine as the program was in good hands with great coaches who cared about safety first.

He acted as if no big deal, and said great.

Then following, he completely did a 180 on me asking me to be part of something, then ignored me. I asked him why he did this and he said, he was too occupied at the time to speak with me.

Yea right....

Then he went on to say how he'd always have fond thoughts of me.

What a crock!!

The best advice I can give you about any man, let alone a virgo is this. If he's capable of lying to you when you know he's lying to your face, he's going to lie to you when it's completely behind your back. Ever heard the saying, "You can't change the stripes a zebra?" This means no matter how you'd like to change that darn zebra, you can't. Same goes with anyone who lies, male or female.

Virgos, especially men because of their fragile egos, will NEVER let it go that you caught them in a lie. They'd rather die than know you know and will never admit it. I have NEVER received an apology from a virgo. I'm not saying all virgo's are bad. They aren't. However, the ones I've dealt with would rather lose a friend or loved one that admit they were wrong and simply make amends. You'll die of old age faster than one will admit they lied and say, "I'm truly sorry."

Do yourself a favor....MOVE ON with your life and find a man who is honest and has integrity.


An apology will always be nice. And I wasn't even mean about this whole thing, I merely asked him about the incident; if he was on OkCupid, and why would he lie to me about something so trival... wasn't even insinuating if he was checking girls out (bet he was, but no conversation with them were found). Really can't decide if I should be angry about him checking other girls on OkCupid or him lying to me.

I'm just going to want that apology.
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Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Lol @ the manipulation attempts.

You are a child.

This is why he'll probably leave you once he finds a Woman.




What manipulation...

And he should leave me if he finds another woman (and let me know he fell out of love). I rather he focus his time and energy on one person.. and I will appreciate that honestly. That "hey I know this is f up to say, I don't love you anymore" something along that line...

People fall in love and out of love all the time.

But it really doesn't sit well with me if you are going to lie about being in love with me and then repeat all that to another lady. Not cool bro, not cool.

Sure if you think I'm manipulating him and a child, but a little more explaination would be awesome.
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Lol @ the manipulation attempts.

You are a child.

This is why he'll probably leave you once he finds a Woman.




What manipulation...

And he should leave me if he finds another woman (and let me know he fell out of love). I rather he focus his time and energy on one person.. and I will appreciate that honestly. That "hey I know this is f up to say, I don't love you anymore" something along that line...

People fall in love and out of love all the time.

But it really doesn't sit well with me if you are going to lie about being in love with me and then repeat all that to another lady. Not cool bro, not cool.

Sure if you think I'm manipulating him and a child, but a little more explaination would be awesome.
An explanation, huh?

Okay.

Been there, done that.

I used to date this one chick who showed me her true self, which I didn't like, so I kept my options open.

Met another chick who I clicked with, basically drove to get her and went to a secret location to make her mine.

2 days of intense fucking and we're together.

Phoned the ex that I'm leaving her and went to pick up my stuff.

So, you see?

I got off that old sinking ship and boarded another.

God damn my adventures with Libras, smh.

You really think your Virgo can't see through your power plays?

Lol, so naive of you.

Remember, people are expendable.

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Why didn't you break it off with your first girl before going after the second one? Especially after seeing her true self which you didn't like... why did you wait till you got someone new then only break up with her.

Sure people are expandable, but lying and cheating is just terrible. I'll be sure to let him know that he can just break up with me if there is an issue about the relationship that's been bugging him and there will be no hungover feelings. Don't have to lie to me to keep your ego up.. just not my thing.

I hope your new relationship work out. Otherwise you'll just be jumping ship over and over again until you get such a bad rep warning signs are gonna go up when she hears your name.
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Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Lol @ the manipulation attempts.

You are a child.

This is why he'll probably leave you once he finds a Woman.




What manipulation...

And he should leave me if he finds another woman (and let me know he fell out of love). I rather he focus his time and energy on one person.. and I will appreciate that honestly. That "hey I know this is f up to say, I don't love you anymore" something along that line...

People fall in love and out of love all the time.

But it really doesn't sit well with me if you are going to lie about being in love with me and then repeat all that to another lady. Not cool bro, not cool.

Sure if you think I'm manipulating him and a child, but a little more explaination would be awesome.
An explanation, huh?

Okay.

Been there, done that.

I used to date this one chick who showed me her true self, which I didn't like, so I kept my options open.

Met another chick who I clicked with, basically drove to get her and went to a secret location to make her mine.

2 days of intense fucking and we're together.

Phoned the ex that I'm leaving her and went to pick up my stuff.

So, you see?

I got off that old sinking ship and boarded another.

God damn my adventures with Libras, smh.

You really think your Virgo can't see through your power plays?

Lol, so naive of you.

Remember, people are expendable.




Why didn't you break it off with your first girl before going after the second one? Especially after seeing her true self which you didn't like... why did you wait till you got someone new then only break up with her.

Sure people are expandable, but lying and cheating is just terrible. I'll be sure to let him know that he can just break up with me if there is an issue about the relationship that's been bugging him and there will be no hungover feelings. Don't have to lie to me to keep your ego up.. just not my thing.

I hope your new relationship work out. Otherwise you'll just be jumping ship over and over again until you get such a bad rep warning signs are gonna go up when she hears your name.
I'll explain like this.

If you go out hunting and see a deer.

Do you wave your hands and shout at it :

"Hey motherfucker I'm gonna kill you, stand there while I aim"?

Highly doubt it.

My advice, don't date Virgos, you don't seem to be ready for them, quite yet.

As for my womanizing and "rep" amongs women.

Warning signs don't mean a damn thing lol.

Most girls will ignore all the signs and continue going at it.

God bless, women.

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And yet you called my action manipulative...

Thanks for the insight anyway.

And goodluck.
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Posted by gemini64
Simple:

You caught him in a lie and he knew it.

I did this twice to a virgo man.

Once it was my boss who was lying to me about giving me a raise and the office equipment I needed to do my increased work load. In an office meeting, I simply asked him "where was my office equipment, it's been over a month since you supposedly ordered it?" He obviously didn't like that I was calling him out and the next day he called me around lunch time ( he was out of the office on purpose as he was a real baby) and told me to clear out my desk and leave. This is after two years of working my ass off for him, taking on more responsibilities than just my job and never missing a day of work.

Second time was calling a virgo friend who I'd known for years...he was criticizing something I was allowing my child to be active in (a certain sport) and he didn't like the fact that I would do so because he "assumed" the activity was too competitive for them, despite the fact he didn't even know who the coaches were, how the program was run and what was allowed etc. He muttered, "Unbelievable" under his breath when we were discussing my kids and I mentioned they were still playing football.

During a conversation after that day, I subtly pointed out that his assumption was wrong and said everything was fine as the program was in good hands with great coaches who cared about safety first.

He acted as if no big deal, and said great.

Then following, he completely did a 180 on me asking me to be part of something, then ignored me. I asked him why he did this and he said, he was too occupied at the time to speak with me.

Yea right....

Then he went on to say how he'd always have fond thoughts of me.

What a crock!!

The best advice I can give you about any man, let alone a virgo is this. If he's capable of lying to you when you know he's lying to your face, he's going to lie to you when it's completely behind your back. Ever heard the saying, "You can't change the stripes a zebra?" This means no matter how you'd like to change that darn zebra, you can't. Same goes with anyone who lies, male or female.

Virgos, especially men because of their fragile egos, will NEVER let it go that you caught them in a lie. They'd rather die than know you know and will never admit it. I have NEVER received an apology from a virgo. I'm not saying all virgo's are bad. They aren't. However, the ones I've dealt with would rather lose a friend or loved one that admit they were wrong and simply make amends. You'll die of old age faster than one will admit they lied and say, "I'm truly sorry."

Do yourself a favor....MOVE ON with your life and find a man who is honest and has integrity.
That first scenario about your boss isn't a Virgo thing, that's just being an arrogant dumbass. As as a member if management...I would've told you to go over his head. Also, although you may be in a right-to-work State, that doesn't protect employers from wrongful termination.

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couldn't go over his head as he was the owner and only physician in the practice.

RE: he's being a dumbass...i only told you what got me fired. there is so much more, but I was responding to the OP's thread about lying. He was living a double life. He had a license in CO but it got revoked because he was negligent and OD a patient who eventually died as a result. His family lived in CO while he lived in a cheap apt. in my state. He was addicted to porn and lied about nearly everything. Yes, he was a dumbass and douchbag But he's one of several virgo males I've known who live double lives and lie to keep things covered. I was smart enough to figure him out and he knew it. Thus, he went on the offensive. I wouldn't have gone back there if he had written me a check for 1M $ $ . He's a loser and the state is constantly watching him for any slip ups as he's on probation for several years. Of course he never revealed that little revelation to me when I accepted the position.
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Posted by gemini64
Simple:

You caught him in a lie and he knew it.

I did this twice to a virgo man.

Once it was my boss who was lying to me about giving me a raise and the office equipment I needed to do my increased work load. In an office meeting, I simply asked him "where was my office equipment, it's been over a month since you supposedly ordered it?" He obviously didn't like that I was calling him out and the next day he called me around lunch time ( he was out of the office on purpose as he was a real baby) and told me to clear out my desk and leave. This is after two years of working my ass off for him, taking on more responsibilities than just my job and never missing a day of work.

Second time was calling a virgo friend who I'd known for years...he was criticizing something I was allowing my child to be active in (a certain sport) and he didn't like the fact that I would do so because he "assumed" the activity was too competitive for them, despite the fact he didn't even know who the coaches were, how the program was run and what was allowed etc. He muttered, "Unbelievable" under his breath when we were discussing my kids and I mentioned they were still playing football.

During a conversation after that day, I subtly pointed out that his assumption was wrong and said everything was fine as the program was in good hands with great coaches who cared about safety first.

He acted as if no big deal, and said great.

Then following, he completely did a 180 on me asking me to be part of something, then ignored me. I asked him why he did this and he said, he was too occupied at the time to speak with me.

Yea right....

Then he went on to say how he'd always have fond thoughts of me.

What a crock!!

The best advice I can give you about any man, let alone a virgo is this. If he's capable of lying to you when you know he's lying to your face, he's going to lie to you when it's completely behind your back. Ever heard the saying, "You can't change the stripes a zebra?" This means no matter how you'd like to change that darn zebra, you can't. Same goes with anyone who lies, male or female.

Virgos, especially men because of their fragile egos, will NEVER let it go that you caught them in a lie. They'd rather die than know you know and will never admit it. I have NEVER received an apology from a virgo. I'm not saying all virgo's are bad. They aren't. However, the ones I've dealt with would rather lose a friend or loved one that admit they were wrong and simply make amends. You'll die of old age faster than one will admit they lied and say, "I'm truly sorry."

Do yourself a favor....MOVE ON with your life and find a man who is honest and has integrity.
That first scenario about your boss isn't a Virgo thing, that's just being an arrogant dumbass. As as a member if management...I would've told you to go over his head. Also, although you may be in a right-to-work State, that doesn't protect employers from wrongful termination.


couldn't go over his head as he was the owner and only physician in the practice.

RE: he's being a dumbass...i only told you what got me fired. there is so much more, but I was responding to the OP's thread about lying. He was living a double life. He had a license in CO but it got revoked because he was negligent and OD a patient who eventually died as a result. His family lived in CO while he lived in a cheap apt. in my state. He was addicted to porn and lied about nearly everything. Yes, he was a dumbass and douchbag But he's one of several virgo males I've known who live double lives and lie to keep things covered. I was smart enough to figure him out and he knew it. Thus, he went on the offensive. I wouldn't have gone back there if he had written me a check for 1M $ $ . He's a loser and the state is constantly watching him for any slip ups as he's on probation for several years. Of course he never revealed that little revelation to me when I accepted the position.
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He od a pt?

And he lived a perfectly double life. Oh my god. This is all amazing and wtf at the same time!
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Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Posted by Machchu2
Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Lol @ the manipulation attempts.

You are a child.

This is why he'll probably leave you once he finds a Woman.




What manipulation...

And he should leave me if he finds another woman (and let me know he fell out of love). I rather he focus his time and energy on one person.. and I will appreciate that honestly. That "hey I know this is f up to say, I don't love you anymore" something along that line...

People fall in love and out of love all the time.

But it really doesn't sit well with me if you are going to lie about being in love with me and then repeat all that to another lady. Not cool bro, not cool.

Sure if you think I'm manipulating him and a child, but a little more explaination would be awesome.
An explanation, huh?

Okay.

Been there, done that.

I used to date this one chick who showed me her true self, which I didn't like, so I kept my options open.

Met another chick who I clicked with, basically drove to get her and went to a secret location to make her mine.

2 days of intense fucking and we're together.

Phoned the ex that I'm leaving her and went to pick up my stuff.

So, you see?

I got off that old sinking ship and boarded another.

God damn my adventures with Libras, smh.

You really think your Virgo can't see through your power plays?

Lol, so naive of you.

Remember, people are expendable.

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The way you view people is disgusting. I hope it's just you and not all virgos out there.
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Posted by Cherrylips
Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Posted by Machchu2
Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Lol @ the manipulation attempts.

You are a child.

This is why he'll probably leave you once he finds a Woman.




What manipulation...

And he should leave me if he finds another woman (and let me know he fell out of love). I rather he focus his time and energy on one person.. and I will appreciate that honestly. That "hey I know this is f up to say, I don't love you anymore" something along that line...

People fall in love and out of love all the time.

But it really doesn't sit well with me if you are going to lie about being in love with me and then repeat all that to another lady. Not cool bro, not cool.

Sure if you think I'm manipulating him and a child, but a little more explaination would be awesome.
An explanation, huh?

Okay.

Been there, done that.

I used to date this one chick who showed me her true self, which I didn't like, so I kept my options open.

Met another chick who I clicked with, basically drove to get her and went to a secret location to make her mine.

2 days of intense fucking and we're together.

Phoned the ex that I'm leaving her and went to pick up my stuff.

So, you see?

I got off that old sinking ship and boarded another.

God damn my adventures with Libras, smh.

You really think your Virgo can't see through your power plays?

Lol, so naive of you.

Remember, people are expendable.


The way you view people is disgusting. I hope it's just you and not all virgos out there.


And why did you want to tell me this exactly?
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It was a need...deep inside me...started in my stomach... couldn't help it. Hope you don't mind. I'm sure you don't, 'cause you're awesome! 😉
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Posted by Earthgoddess
Stick to ur guns!!!! DO not try manipulation!!!!

If he was wrong and you have reason to be angry show him ur disapproval clearly. Interact if he initiates it but do not- i repeat do not chase. Or make it seem as if u are willing to make consignments on his behave. Show ur strength.

Not politely standing your ground with a virgo can be deadly. We do NOT want doormats as partners



Thank you love.

I will wait until he is ready to talk, then figure something that works for the both of us. Then gently let him know that I am not okay with him lying to me, big or small lies. Something along the line of already forgiving him but I really do not want this to repeat again...

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Posted by gemini64
Simple:

You caught him in a lie and he knew it.

I did this twice to a virgo man.

Once it was my boss who was lying to me about giving me a raise and the office equipment I needed to do my increased work load. In an office meeting, I simply asked him "where was my office equipment, it's been over a month since you supposedly ordered it?" He obviously didn't like that I was calling him out and the next day he called me around lunch time ( he was out of the office on purpose as he was a real baby) and told me to clear out my desk and leave. This is after two years of working my ass off for him, taking on more responsibilities than just my job and never missing a day of work.

Second time was calling a virgo friend who I'd known for years...he was criticizing something I was allowing my child to be active in (a certain sport) and he didn't like the fact that I would do so because he "assumed" the activity was too competitive for them, despite the fact he didn't even know who the coaches were, how the program was run and what was allowed etc. He muttered, "Unbelievable" under his breath when we were discussing my kids and I mentioned they were still playing football.

During a conversation after that day, I subtly pointed out that his assumption was wrong and said everything was fine as the program was in good hands with great coaches who cared about safety first.

He acted as if no big deal, and said great.

Then following, he completely did a 180 on me asking me to be part of something, then ignored me. I asked him why he did this and he said, he was too occupied at the time to speak with me.

Yea right....

Then he went on to say how he'd always have fond thoughts of me.

What a crock!!

The best advice I can give you about any man, let alone a virgo is this. If he's capable of lying to you when you know he's lying to your face, he's going to lie to you when it's completely behind your back. Ever heard the saying, "You can't change the stripes a zebra?" This means no matter how you'd like to change that darn zebra, you can't. Same goes with anyone who lies, male or female.

Virgos, especially men because of their fragile egos, will NEVER let it go that you caught them in a lie. They'd rather die than know you know and will never admit it. I have NEVER received an apology from a virgo. I'm not saying all virgo's are bad. They aren't. However, the ones I've dealt with would rather lose a friend or loved one that admit they were wrong and simply make amends. You'll die of old age faster than one will admit they lied and say, "I'm truly sorry."

Do yourself a favor....MOVE ON with your life and find a man who is honest and has integrity.
That first scenario about your boss isn't a Virgo thing, that's just being an arrogant dumbass. As as a member if management...I would've told you to go over his head. Also, although you may be in a right-to-work State, that doesn't protect employers from wrongful termination.


couldn't go over his head as he was the owner and only physician in the practice.

RE: he's being a dumbass...i only told you what got me fired. there is so much more, but I was responding to the OP's thread about lying. He was living a double life. He had a license in CO but it got revoked because he was negligent and OD a patient who eventually died as a result. His family lived in CO while he lived in a cheap apt. in my state. He was addicted to porn and lied about nearly everything. Yes, he was a dumbass and douchbag But he's one of several virgo males I've known who live double lives and lie to keep things covered. I was smart enough to figure him out and he knew it. Thus, he went on the offensive. I wouldn't have gone back there if he had written me a check for 1M $ $ . He's a loser and the state is constantly watching him for any slip ups as he's on probation for several years. Of course he never revealed that little revelation to me when I accepted the position.


He od a pt?

And he lived a perfectly double life. Oh my god. This is all amazing and wtf at the same time!

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Yes, gave a patient a pain med that not only was she allergic to (it was in her chart) but he gave her too high of dosage that was not normal protocol. She went into shock and then heart failure.....death.

in my experiences there seems to be two types of virgo men. 1. control freaks, liars and live double lives or 2. married, happy and hard working.

yes #1 can be hard working, but it's the weird demeanor they display, like this "aloof" and "mysterious" vibe they give off. I always felt as if he was hiding something simply by his demeanor. My instincts were correct. They usually are.

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Simple:

You caught him in a lie and he knew it.

I did this twice to a virgo man.

Once it was my boss who was lying to me about giving me a raise and the office equipment I needed to do my increased work load. In an office meeting, I simply asked him "where was my office equipment, it's been over a month since you supposedly ordered it?" He obviously didn't like that I was calling him out and the next day he called me around lunch time ( he was out of the office on purpose as he was a real baby) and told me to clear out my desk and leave. This is after two years of working my ass off for him, taking on more responsibilities than just my job and never missing a day of work.

Second time was calling a virgo friend who I'd known for years...he was criticizing something I was allowing my child to be active in (a certain sport) and he didn't like the fact that I would do so because he "assumed" the activity was too competitive for them, despite the fact he didn't even know who the coaches were, how the program was run and what was allowed etc. He muttered, "Unbelievable" under his breath when we were discussing my kids and I mentioned they were still playing football.

During a conversation after that day, I subtly pointed out that his assumption was wrong and said everything was fine as the program was in good hands with great coaches who cared about safety first.

He acted as if no big deal, and said great.

Then following, he completely did a 180 on me asking me to be part of something, then ignored me. I asked him why he did this and he said, he was too occupied at the time to speak with me.

Yea right....

Then he went on to say how he'd always have fond thoughts of me.

What a crock!!

The best advice I can give you about any man, let alone a virgo is this. If he's capable of lying to you when you know he's lying to your face, he's going to lie to you when it's completely behind your back. Ever heard the saying, "You can't change the stripes a zebra?" This means no matter how you'd like to change that darn zebra, you can't. Same goes with anyone who lies, male or female.

Virgos, especially men because of their fragile egos, will NEVER let it go that you caught them in a lie. They'd rather die than know you know and will never admit it. I have NEVER received an apology from a virgo. I'm not saying all virgo's are bad. They aren't. However, the ones I've dealt with would rather lose a friend or loved one that admit they were wrong and simply make amends. You'll die of old age faster than one will admit they lied and say, "I'm truly sorry."

Do yourself a favor....MOVE ON with your life and find a man who is honest and has integrity.
That first scenario about your boss isn't a Virgo thing, that's just being an arrogant dumbass. As as a member if management...I would've told you to go over his head. Also, although you may be in a right-to-work State, that doesn't protect employers from wrongful termination.


couldn't go over his head as he was the owner and only physician in the practice.

RE: he's being a dumbass...i only told you what got me fired. there is so much more, but I was responding to the OP's thread about lying. He was living a double life. He had a license in CO but it got revoked because he was negligent and OD a patient who eventually died as a result. His family lived in CO while he lived in a cheap apt. in my state. He was addicted to porn and lied about nearly everything. Yes, he was a dumbass and douchbag But he's one of several virgo males I've known who live double lives and lie to keep things covered. I was smart enough to figure him out and he knew it. Thus, he went on the offensive. I wouldn't have gone back there if he had written me a check for 1M $ $ . He's a loser and the state is constantly watching him for any slip ups as he's on probation for several years. Of course he never revealed that little revelation to me when I accepted the position.


He od a pt?

And he lived a perfectly double life. Oh my god. This is all amazing and wtf at the same time!



Yes, gave a patient a pain med that not only was she allergic to (it was in her chart) but he gave her too high of dosage that was not normal protocol. She went into shock and then heart failure.....death.

in my experiences there seems to be two types of virgo men. 1. control freaks, liars and live double lives or 2. married, happy and hard working.

yes #1 can be hard working, but it's the weird demeanor they display, like this "aloof" and "mysterious" vibe they give off. I always felt as if he was hiding something simply by his demeanor. My instincts were correct. They usually are.

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Death by anaphylactic reaction..

He was the one giving the meds as well?

Beejus. That's why I trust the Nurses to do more pt related work. Nurses are quite nice and legitly know their stuff. Well, not all but most.
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Quick update:

He texted me back asking about my day (cliche I know..)

And I replied that it was bad because honestly I thought he was going to break up with me. ( they say honesty is the best policy)

And his replied is... I told you I love you right? I mean it.

Aside from feeling swoon and having the swipe off my feet moment... is there anything else I should be worried with?
Most def...His active account on OkCupid!!!



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Ahhh problems not actually solved .. will follow up on that .