Pisciesperson
@Pisciesperson
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Virgo man not really texting anymore?
Maybe he changed his phone's plan and the new one doesn't include free text allowances.
Virgos need their space, their time alone to process thoughts & feelings. It's nothing personal. It's early days so don't push him to respond sooner than he's ready. It won't do you any favors.
Unless he's decided he doesn't see a future with you in it, in which case send him this
and tell him it's because he didn't give you the common courtesy of at least letting you know he's not interested anymore and leaving you hanging like that.
Unless he's decided he doesn't see a future with you in it, in which case send him this
and tell him it's because he didn't give you the common courtesy of at least letting you know he's not interested anymore and leaving you hanging like that.
Arg. I get so irked when I see these types of posts.
I wonder if back in the day before mobile phones and texting people had similar thoughts of "S/He is not into me because he not calling at my door every half hour".
Texting one another in the first week every 6 seconds is a bit much don't you think? What happened to the days when people were a mystery, an exciting package you want to try and unravel while on your dates together.
The problem with texts is this:
There is no feeling behind them, no emotion, no tone, no face expressions and most importantly you cant read body language through a text.
Ask yourself what is more important to you now...
That relationship you have with him in person, or the one your eyes are having with that mobile phones screen of yours.
I wonder if back in the day before mobile phones and texting people had similar thoughts of "S/He is not into me because he not calling at my door every half hour".
Texting one another in the first week every 6 seconds is a bit much don't you think? What happened to the days when people were a mystery, an exciting package you want to try and unravel while on your dates together.
The problem with texts is this:
There is no feeling behind them, no emotion, no tone, no face expressions and most importantly you cant read body language through a text.
Ask yourself what is more important to you now...
That relationship you have with him in person, or the one your eyes are having with that mobile phones screen of yours.
Posted by MercuryMix24Posted by PisciespersonWhat is his age?
We've only been seeing each other for like a week now.
Still extremely early days.
However I have a lot of issues that stem with texting.
I've noticed a pattern in my love life where if there's a sudden drop in texting. It always ends up meaning they're over me.
So I'm a little eh right now.
He went from texting me every few minutes to texting me maybe once every 6 hours.
After I text him of course.
I will say he's been extremely busy at work these last few days, but at the same time it takes 30 seconds to reply to a message.
And isn't this the period where you're wanting to talk and get to know each other?
He said after our first date that he was interested in getting to know me more to see if he wants a relationship with me.
Not sure if that makes any difference.
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Posted by Pisciesperson
We've only been seeing each other for like a week now.
Still extremely early days.
However I have a lot of issues that stem with texting.
I've noticed a pattern in my love life where if there's a sudden drop in texting. It always ends up meaning they're over me.
So I'm a little eh right now.
He went from texting me every few minutes to texting me maybe once every 6 hours.
After I text him of course.
I will say he's been extremely busy at work these last few days, but at the same time it takes 30 seconds to reply to a message.
And isn't this the period where you're wanting to talk and get to know each other?
He said after our first date that he was interested in getting to know me more to see if he wants a relationship with me.
Not sure if that makes any difference.
Did you have sex yet
Posted by Virgonique29NooooPosted by Pisciesperson
We've only been seeing each other for like a week now.
Still extremely early days.
However I have a lot of issues that stem with texting.
I've noticed a pattern in my love life where if there's a sudden drop in texting. It always ends up meaning they're over me.
So I'm a little eh right now.
He went from texting me every few minutes to texting me maybe once every 6 hours.
After I text him of course.
I will say he's been extremely busy at work these last few days, but at the same time it takes 30 seconds to reply to a message.
And isn't this the period where you're wanting to talk and get to know each other?
He said after our first date that he was interested in getting to know me more to see if he wants a relationship with me.
Not sure if that makes any difference.
Did you have sex yet
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Only had one date
Posted by PVandJellyI don't understand?Posted by PisciespersonPosted by MercuryMix24Posted by PisciespersonWhat is his age?
We've only been seeing each other for like a week now.
Still extremely early days.
However I have a lot of issues that stem with texting.
I've noticed a pattern in my love life where if there's a sudden drop in texting. It always ends up meaning they're over me.
So I'm a little eh right now.
He went from texting me every few minutes to texting me maybe once every 6 hours.
After I text him of course.
I will say he's been extremely busy at work these last few days, but at the same time it takes 30 seconds to reply to a message.
And isn't this the period where you're wanting to talk and get to know each other?
He said after our first date that he was interested in getting to know me more to see if he wants a relationship with me.
Not sure if that makes any difference.
So this is all you have to add to the discussion? No other thoughts or epiphanies?click to expand
Posted by PVandJellyPosted by PisciespersonPosted by PVandJellyI don't understand?Posted by PisciespersonPosted by MercuryMix24Posted by PisciespersonWhat is his age?
We've only been seeing each other for like a week now.
Still extremely early days.
However I have a lot of issues that stem with texting.
I've noticed a pattern in my love life where if there's a sudden drop in texting. It always ends up meaning they're over me.
So I'm a little eh right now.
He went from texting me every few minutes to texting me maybe once every 6 hours.
After I text him of course.
I will say he's been extremely busy at work these last few days, but at the same time it takes 30 seconds to reply to a message.
And isn't this the period where you're wanting to talk and get to know each other?
He said after our first date that he was interested in getting to know me more to see if he wants a relationship with me.
Not sure if that makes any difference.
So this is all you have to add to the discussion? No other thoughts or epiphanies?
You posted a thread for feedback. What is the outcome? Did he text? Is he dumping you? Etc etc
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He texted me this morning.
But that's it. At this rate I don't think I'll get another text for 6-12hours.
Not a big deal to some, but a big deal to me.
I hate the feeling of being ignored, and that's what it feels like. Whether it's intentional or not.
Like I said. Only takes 30 seconds to send a text.
I'm a bit confused though as the other night, I mentioned to him that maybe we shouldn't continue seeing each other. As dating stresses me out (I stress myself out) and because he's travelling at the end of the month, and I want him to be able to have fun.
And he sent me back a message (3 hours later!!)
That he thinks I'm over thinking things. And if that's what I want, then okay. Because he doesn't want me to be stressed out.
And that maybe we could just take it easy and see what happens.
We're all good now. As it was just a little bit of an anxiety attack on my end. And the lack of texts has nothing to do with it, as it began before that.
Posted by PisciespersonIt's too soon to drop him or give him the 3rd degree. He told you he was interested in you. You're too focused on the past which could inadvertently ruin your present because you're speaking situations into existence. He either wants you or he doesn't until then give the man time and a chance.
We've only been seeing each other for like a week now.
Still extremely early days.
However I have a lot of issues that stem with texting.
I've noticed a pattern in my love life where if there's a sudden drop in texting. It always ends up meaning they're over me.
So I'm a little eh right now.
He went from texting me every few minutes to texting me maybe once every 6 hours.
After I text him of course.
I will say he's been extremely busy at work these last few days, but at the same time it takes 30 seconds to reply to a message.
And isn't this the period where you're wanting to talk and get to know each other?
He said after our first date that he was interested in getting to know me more to see if he wants a relationship with me.
Not sure if that makes any difference.
Posted by PisciespersonPosted by PVandJellyPosted by PisciespersonPosted by PVandJellyI don't understand?Posted by PisciespersonPosted by MercuryMix24Posted by PisciespersonWhat is his age?
We've only been seeing each other for like a week now.
Still extremely early days.
However I have a lot of issues that stem with texting.
I've noticed a pattern in my love life where if there's a sudden drop in texting. It always ends up meaning they're over me.
So I'm a little eh right now.
He went from texting me every few minutes to texting me maybe once every 6 hours.
After I text him of course.
I will say he's been extremely busy at work these last few days, but at the same time it takes 30 seconds to reply to a message.
And isn't this the period where you're wanting to talk and get to know each other?
He said after our first date that he was interested in getting to know me more to see if he wants a relationship with me.
Not sure if that makes any difference.
So this is all you have to add to the discussion? No other thoughts or epiphanies?
You posted a thread for feedback. What is the outcome? Did he text? Is he dumping you? Etc etc
He texted me this morning.
But that's it. At this rate I don't think I'll get another text for 6-12hours.
Not a big deal to some, but a big deal to me.
I hate the feeling of being ignored, and that's what it feels like. Whether it's intentional or not.
Like I said. Only takes 30 seconds to send a text.
I'm a bit confused though as the other night, I mentioned to him that maybe we shouldn't continue seeing each other. As dating stresses me out (I stress myself out) and because he's travelling at the end of the month, and I want him to be able to have fun.
And he sent me back a message (3 hours later!!)
That he thinks I'm over thinking things. And if that's what I want, then okay. Because he doesn't want me to be stressed out.
And that maybe we could just take it easy and see what happens.
We're all good now. As it was just a little bit of an anxiety attack on my end. And the lack of texts has nothing to do with it, as it began before that.click to expand
I didn't see this post before. You over reacted and did exactly what I said you would do and that was inadvertently ruin this for yourself with your insecurities about the future. You need to take a break from dating until you feel more confident within yourself because at this rate you're going to scare potentials away.
Posted by EveryOunceI haven't done anything?Posted by PisciespersonPosted by PVandJellyPosted by PisciespersonPosted by PVandJellyI don't understand?Posted by PisciespersonPosted by MercuryMix24Posted by PisciespersonWhat is his age?
We've only been seeing each other for like a week now.
Still extremely early days.
However I have a lot of issues that stem with texting.
I've noticed a pattern in my love life where if there's a sudden drop in texting. It always ends up meaning they're over me.
So I'm a little eh right now.
He went from texting me every few minutes to texting me maybe once every 6 hours.
After I text him of course.
I will say he's been extremely busy at work these last few days, but at the same time it takes 30 seconds to reply to a message.
And isn't this the period where you're wanting to talk and get to know each other?
He said after our first date that he was interested in getting to know me more to see if he wants a relationship with me.
Not sure if that makes any difference.
So this is all you have to add to the discussion? No other thoughts or epiphanies?
You posted a thread for feedback. What is the outcome? Did he text? Is he dumping you? Etc etc
He texted me this morning.
But that's it. At this rate I don't think I'll get another text for 6-12hours.
Not a big deal to some, but a big deal to me.
I hate the feeling of being ignored, and that's what it feels like. Whether it's intentional or not.
Like I said. Only takes 30 seconds to send a text.
I'm a bit confused though as the other night, I mentioned to him that maybe we shouldn't continue seeing each other. As dating stresses me out (I stress myself out) and because he's travelling at the end of the month, and I want him to be able to have fun.
And he sent me back a message (3 hours later!!)
That he thinks I'm over thinking things. And if that's what I want, then okay. Because he doesn't want me to be stressed out.
And that maybe we could just take it easy and see what happens.
We're all good now. As it was just a little bit of an anxiety attack on my end. And the lack of texts has nothing to do with it, as it began before that.
I didn't see this post before. You over reacted and did exactly what I said you would do and that was inadvertently ruin this for yourself with your insecurities about the future. You need to take a break from dating until you feel more confident within yourself because at this rate you're going to scare potentials away.
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If you're talking about the anxiety thing that was before I even posted this. And it's all been resolved.
If I wanna date someone, I'm gonna date them.
Posted by PisciespersonSometimes people don't see themselves the way others do. You come off needy and paranoid over small things so I just stated my opinion. All of which you don't have to take.Posted by EveryOunceI haven't done anything?Posted by PisciespersonPosted by PVandJellyPosted by PisciespersonPosted by PVandJellyI don't understand?Posted by PisciespersonPosted by MercuryMix24Posted by PisciespersonWhat is his age?
We've only been seeing each other for like a week now.
Still extremely early days.
However I have a lot of issues that stem with texting.
I've noticed a pattern in my love life where if there's a sudden drop in texting. It always ends up meaning they're over me.
So I'm a little eh right now.
He went from texting me every few minutes to texting me maybe once every 6 hours.
After I text him of course.
I will say he's been extremely busy at work these last few days, but at the same time it takes 30 seconds to reply to a message.
And isn't this the period where you're wanting to talk and get to know each other?
He said after our first date that he was interested in getting to know me more to see if he wants a relationship with me.
Not sure if that makes any difference.
So this is all you have to add to the discussion? No other thoughts or epiphanies?
You posted a thread for feedback. What is the outcome? Did he text? Is he dumping you? Etc etc
He texted me this morning.
But that's it. At this rate I don't think I'll get another text for 6-12hours.
Not a big deal to some, but a big deal to me.
I hate the feeling of being ignored, and that's what it feels like. Whether it's intentional or not.
Like I said. Only takes 30 seconds to send a text.
I'm a bit confused though as the other night, I mentioned to him that maybe we shouldn't continue seeing each other. As dating stresses me out (I stress myself out) and because he's travelling at the end of the month, and I want him to be able to have fun.
And he sent me back a message (3 hours later!!)
That he thinks I'm over thinking things. And if that's what I want, then okay. Because he doesn't want me to be stressed out.
And that maybe we could just take it easy and see what happens.
We're all good now. As it was just a little bit of an anxiety attack on my end. And the lack of texts has nothing to do with it, as it began before that.
I didn't see this post before. You over reacted and did exactly what I said you would do and that was inadvertently ruin this for yourself with your insecurities about the future. You need to take a break from dating until you feel more confident within yourself because at this rate you're going to scare potentials away.
If you're talking about the anxiety thing that was before I even posted this. And it's all been resolved.
If I wanna date someone, I'm gonna date them.
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Posted by PisciespersonPosted by PVandJellyPosted by PisciespersonPosted by PVandJellyI don't understand?Posted by PisciespersonPosted by MercuryMix24Posted by PisciespersonWhat is his age?
We've only been seeing each other for like a week now.
Still extremely early days.
However I have a lot of issues that stem with texting.
I've noticed a pattern in my love life where if there's a sudden drop in texting. It always ends up meaning they're over me.
So I'm a little eh right now.
He went from texting me every few minutes to texting me maybe once every 6 hours.
After I text him of course.
I will say he's been extremely busy at work these last few days, but at the same time it takes 30 seconds to reply to a message.
And isn't this the period where you're wanting to talk and get to know each other?
He said after our first date that he was interested in getting to know me more to see if he wants a relationship with me.
Not sure if that makes any difference.
So this is all you have to add to the discussion? No other thoughts or epiphanies?
You posted a thread for feedback. What is the outcome? Did he text? Is he dumping you? Etc etc
He texted me this morning.
But that's it. At this rate I don't think I'll get another text for 6-12hours.
Not a big deal to some, but a big deal to me.
I hate the feeling of being ignored, and that's what it feels like. Whether it's intentional or not.
Like I said. Only takes 30 seconds to send a text.
I'm a bit confused though as the other night, I mentioned to him that maybe we shouldn't continue seeing each other. As dating stresses me out (I stress myself out) and because he's travelling at the end of the month, and I want him to be able to have fun.
And he sent me back a message (3 hours later!!)
That he thinks I'm over thinking things. And if that's what I want, then okay. Because he doesn't want me to be stressed out.
And that maybe we could just take it easy and see what happens.
We're all good now. As it was just a little bit of an anxiety attack on my end. And the lack of texts has nothing to do with it, as it began before that.click to expand
When's his bday?
If you met online, you are prob not the only one he's talking to... I am not saying he doesn't like you but just be aware of it. I know sometimes guys become slower to text back because they are pre-occupied by chatting with someone new.
If you're going after a virgo and you want a flow of communication you're not compatible. Save yourself the pain and move on. 😛
Posted by PVandJellyNo maybe in that sentence. It is abruptly ending things.
and maybe I too abruptly end things.
You need to make a call between two choices here:
1) You want to be adored/worshiped/pursued ardently and will bank it all on the illusion. Btw, it is indeed really easy for anyone to reply in 30 seconds...if you do it absentmindedly. I could do that all the time but I respect my partner enough to take some time to process, especially if I communicated I am really busy over a span of time. To me replying just to be quick on the draw is insulting if I do it mechanically.
2) You actually want to establish a human relationship on even ground which will zap you out of the fairy tale notion that all people in love have nothing else in life but pursue and pursue some more and are glued to their phones. There's real humanity in this and humbleness, but no glamor and disney to it.
I would understand if you didn't hear at all from him in the span of a day because I would worry something bad might have happened. If you're dating me and I let a day go by without reaching out or without replying, you might as well start calling morgues/hospitals/jails. But having the time to check messages to see how many hours have passed in between...I don't have time for it and I'm not running against the clock to convince anyone I am actually into them.
As a rule, we're not fans of what we perceive as emotional high maintenance behavior which is amusing because to me Pisces are way more demanding and expectant of perfection than Virgos are.
1) You want to be adored/worshiped/pursued ardently and will bank it all on the illusion. Btw, it is indeed really easy for anyone to reply in 30 seconds...if you do it absentmindedly. I could do that all the time but I respect my partner enough to take some time to process, especially if I communicated I am really busy over a span of time. To me replying just to be quick on the draw is insulting if I do it mechanically.
2) You actually want to establish a human relationship on even ground which will zap you out of the fairy tale notion that all people in love have nothing else in life but pursue and pursue some more and are glued to their phones. There's real humanity in this and humbleness, but no glamor and disney to it.
I would understand if you didn't hear at all from him in the span of a day because I would worry something bad might have happened. If you're dating me and I let a day go by without reaching out or without replying, you might as well start calling morgues/hospitals/jails. But having the time to check messages to see how many hours have passed in between...I don't have time for it and I'm not running against the clock to convince anyone I am actually into them.
As a rule, we're not fans of what we perceive as emotional high maintenance behavior which is amusing because to me Pisces are way more demanding and expectant of perfection than Virgos are.
Posted by spurYou have no idea what you're talking about.
If you're going after a virgo and you want a flow of communication you're not compatible.
Posted by PVandJellyPeople need to be afforded the benefit of the doubt and the willingness to be met halfway...before jumping ship to safeguard feelings that might not even be injured, aka before self-sabotage 😛Posted by DamnataPosted by PVandJellyNo maybe in that sentence. It is abruptly ending things.
and maybe I too abruptly end things.
But I'm not sure. LOL.
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Just listen to this nice Virgo.
Posted by PVandJellyOh if you do that, then disregard what I said. I thought you just cut off completely or sulk/give silent treatment. If you actually go "Hey I know I overreacted. I am sorry. You're insufferable though just so you know lol" and you're met with a blank stare...I can't fault you. I would always give second and third and fourth chances to an open hearted honest approach. We all err. But I guess Virgo men are more rigid.Posted by DamnataPosted by PVandJellyPeople need to be afforded the benefit of the doubt and the willingness to be met halfway...before jumping ship to safeguard feelings that might not even be injured, aka before self-sabotage 😛Posted by DamnataPosted by PVandJellyNo maybe in that sentence. It is abruptly ending things.
and maybe I too abruptly end things.
But I'm not sure. LOL.
Just listen to this nice Virgo.
I may rage quit several times though and show up back on your door step.click to expand
I'm still saying one of them might surprise you. A cancer venus one perhaps? I know, I know...I am biased here cuz I have that placement lol.
Libra would actually work. I am a fan of inconjunct matches and I always think of Nefer when I think about that match.
Posted by VirgoGentThat's your Venus totally.
I too prefer clingy more than aloof and enjoy steady communication. Maybe that's my moon and venus coming through.
Yesssss be around me, yessssss now I can look after you/nurture you. Intimacy and vulnerability woooah
Smh water venus peeps.
Posted by PVandJellyWhy would you do that, Aqua Venus?
But with cancer venus I worry that I'll break their heart.
Why?
No but really, mutable men are the devil. Especially those on our axis. The women are so different smdh.
Posted by PVandJellyYeah, it's a specific type of high maintenance. You guys are mellow/chill so not the attention whorish type of high maintenance. But emotionally? lulz.Posted by Damnata
As a rule, we're not fans of what we perceive as emotional high maintenance behavior which is amusing because to me Pisces are way more demanding and expectant of perfection than Virgos are.
This is true. Emotionally high maintenance, never thought to put it like that. Makes sense..
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Ah don't worry, He will show up in a month or so, even more sweet and caring. If I know them good enough I should say the key is patience. He will warm up again don't worry. But tell me when did it start actually ? because if you have met him only once that may mean he's not physically attracted to you
Posted by PVandJellyLMAO!Posted by DamnataPosted by PVandJellyWhy would you do that, Aqua Venus?
But with cancer venus I worry that I'll break their heart.
Why?
No but really, mutable men are the devil. Especially those on our axis. The women are so different smdh.
LOL. Cancer venus confuses me. I can't tell if you like me. Or maybe it's cancer venus men. Air venus we like to talk about how we feel. Cancer venus is like, why do I have to tell you this?
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See...it's super funny for me cuz the Aqua Venus totally lost that memo about talking. He is exactly how you described that cancer venus guy..."why do I have to tell you this?"
He will avoid those convos like that scene in Matrix where Neo slows the bullets coming at him.
I remember a convo one day when I was complaining about this and I got back a "Well you are a romance addict and I'd be enabling you" reply. Truth be told, I blame his moon for that because it's not the most "let me tell my partner how much they mean to me" expressive moon ever. Actually I blame it for everything but I digress. Oh and the Aqua Mars is a nightmare to deal with in debates.
Just goes to show that astrology is bullshit and it comes down to Men vs Women and they are just..insufferable. We are deluded but that doesn't mean they are also not insufferable.
Posted by PVandJellyOne of my Pisces friend a month ago: "I just told my boyfriend he should go die in a fire"Posted by DamnataPosted by PVandJellyYeah, it's a specific type of high maintenance. You guys are mellow/chill so not the attention whorish type of high maintenance. But emotionally? lulz.Posted by Damnata
As a rule, we're not fans of what we perceive as emotional high maintenance behavior which is amusing because to me Pisces are way more demanding and expectant of perfection than Virgos are.
This is true. Emotionally high maintenance, never thought to put it like that. Makes sense..
We're special snowflakes. LOL. Or atleast we think we are. Do you not recognize this greatness being bestowed upon you. Worship me. ðŸ˜
Okay that could possibly be ny moons slight leo energy talking.
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"That's fucking cruel to say that shit"
"Well he pissed me off"
"So you're done then?"
"God no I hope he doesn't take me at my word. I love him"
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Posted by PVandJellyShe's a very loyal girl. But you know, it's strange because if you heard her talk? She always emphasizes how she could just up and go one day from her relationship. Meanwhile I look at what she actually does..and no. Like you said..jaws of life. But that's not what she claims lmao. If you listened to what she said, she goes overboard in explaining just how detached she is. I find it so funny and obviously her bf too since he has resorted to rolling his eyes after he heard the spiel the first 100 times.Posted by DamnataPosted by PVandJellyOne of my Pisces friend a month ago: "I just told my boyfriend he should go die in a fire"Posted by DamnataPosted by PVandJellyYeah, it's a specific type of high maintenance. You guys are mellow/chill so not the attention whorish type of high maintenance. But emotionally? lulz.Posted by Damnata
As a rule, we're not fans of what we perceive as emotional high maintenance behavior which is amusing because to me Pisces are way more demanding and expectant of perfection than Virgos are.
This is true. Emotionally high maintenance, never thought to put it like that. Makes sense..
We're special snowflakes. LOL. Or atleast we think we are. Do you not recognize this greatness being bestowed upon you. Worship me. ðŸ˜
Okay that could possibly be ny moons slight leo energy talking.
"That's fucking cruel to say that shit"
"Well he pissed me off"
"So you're done then?"
"God no I hope he doesn't take me at my word. I love him"
.....
-.-
....
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I try to avoid saying mean things when mad. But it happens. Honestly, pisces get a bad rap for being unfaithful, we're very very loyal. Takes the jaws of life to get rid of us once feelings are invested. But if we have disappeared, you have only yourself to blame because we always give fair warning...you just didn't listen. ?
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Let's all dump our mobile phones and go back to had written letters.
Posted by PVandJellyLeo.Posted by DamnataPosted by PVandJellyShe's a very loyal girl. But you know, it's strange because if you heard her talk? She always emphasizes how she could just up and go one day from her relationship. Meanwhile I look at what she actually does..and no. Like you said..jaws of life. But that's not what she claims lmao. If you listened to what she said, she goes overboard in explaining just how detached she is. I find it so funny and obviously her bf too since he has resorted to rolling his eyes after he heard the spiel the first 100 times.Posted by DamnataPosted by PVandJellyOne of my Pisces friend a month ago: "I just told my boyfriend he should go die in a fire"Posted by DamnataPosted by PVandJellyYeah, it's a specific type of high maintenance. You guys are mellow/chill so not the attention whorish type of high maintenance. But emotionally? lulz.Posted by Damnata
As a rule, we're not fans of what we perceive as emotional high maintenance behavior which is amusing because to me Pisces are way more demanding and expectant of perfection than Virgos are.
This is true. Emotionally high maintenance, never thought to put it like that. Makes sense..
We're special snowflakes. LOL. Or atleast we think we are. Do you not recognize this greatness being bestowed upon you. Worship me. ðŸ˜
Okay that could possibly be ny moons slight leo energy talking.
"That's fucking cruel to say that shit"
"Well he pissed me off"
"So you're done then?"
"God no I hope he doesn't take me at my word. I love him"
.....
-.-
....
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I try to avoid saying mean things when mad. But it happens. Honestly, pisces get a bad rap for being unfaithful, we're very very loyal. Takes the jaws of life to get rid of us once feelings are invested. But if we have disappeared, you have only yourself to blame because we always give fair warning...you just didn't listen. ?
LOL. What is her boyfriend's sign?
I like to think of myself as detached. But my aqua venus fails me.
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Ayyyyyy
Posted by PVandJellyThere is a certain degree of irony in Pisces making a topic about consistency when they swim in and out and are adamant about freedom yet it's no bueno when their partners do that....
I don't know where the OP went
Posted by PVandJellylmao, we're all so skittish with each other.
Two mutables, waiting for the other to initiate or take the lead. Like two ships passing.
Mutable 1: "Hmm, I think this person likes me..."
*minor thing that might point to the contrary happens*
Mutable 1: "I was wrong, god I am stupid"
Mutable 2: "—? Wtf is going on??"
I was thinking the other day...it's not mutable and fixed who are opposites, it's fixed and cardinal. Unstoppable force meets unmovable object. Mutables just...bridge the gap floating around I guess.
Such a chill vibe in this topic, I dig it. 🙂
My advice is to not worry. Let him have his space. Let him text you first. Girl, don't put yourself down... Before messanger, watsapp and kik exsisted there was only telephone booths and only famous rich people had access to mobile phones. Try to focus on other things. Do your hobbies, read, watch movies. When you do not text him every now and then, he will start to wonder why and text you out of the blue, if he cares, to see how you are. Don't worry and I wish you good luck 🙂
Your too invested after only a week. Learn to detach a bit.
Posted by PisciespersonDo you work/go to school?Posted by PVandJellyPosted by PisciespersonPosted by PVandJellyI don't understand?Posted by PisciespersonPosted by MercuryMix24Posted by PisciespersonWhat is his age?
We've only been seeing each other for like a week now.
Still extremely early days.
However I have a lot of issues that stem with texting.
I've noticed a pattern in my love life where if there's a sudden drop in texting. It always ends up meaning they're over me.
So I'm a little eh right now.
He went from texting me every few minutes to texting me maybe once every 6 hours.
After I text him of course.
I will say he's been extremely busy at work these last few days, but at the same time it takes 30 seconds to reply to a message.
And isn't this the period where you're wanting to talk and get to know each other?
He said after our first date that he was interested in getting to know me more to see if he wants a relationship with me.
Not sure if that makes any difference.
So this is all you have to add to the discussion? No other thoughts or epiphanies?
You posted a thread for feedback. What is the outcome? Did he text? Is he dumping you? Etc etc
He texted me this morning.
But that's it. At this rate I don't think I'll get another text for 6-12hours.
Not a big deal to some, but a big deal to me.
I hate the feeling of being ignored, and that's what it feels like. Whether it's intentional or not.
Like I said. Only takes 30 seconds to send a text.
I'm a bit confused though as the other night, I mentioned to him that maybe we shouldn't continue seeing each other. As dating stresses me out (I stress myself out) and because he's travelling at the end of the month, and I want him to be able to have fun.
And he sent me back a message (3 hours later!!)
That he thinks I'm over thinking things. And if that's what I want, then okay. Because he doesn't want me to be stressed out.
And that maybe we could just take it easy and see what happens.
We're all good now. As it was just a little bit of an anxiety attack on my end. And the lack of texts has nothing to do with it, as it began before that.click to expand
OmyGod.i have same experience like u with a virgo man!in the end i just told him i cant do it anymore.i need somebody who show me his efforts ,have time for me n cherish me.i really want to know him more n talk with him often but he did exactly like ur virgo man do to u 😢((
Its sad...i know how it feels dear..
Its sad...i know how it feels dear..
Update for anyone who cares.
I ended up ending things.
I realised it wasn't his lack of texting that was bothering me, but his lack of interest in getting to know me better.
I ended up ending things.
I realised it wasn't his lack of texting that was bothering me, but his lack of interest in getting to know me better.
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Still extremely early days.
However I have a lot of issues that stem with texting.
I've noticed a pattern in my love life where if there's a sudden drop in texting. It always ends up meaning they're over me.
So I'm a little eh right now.
He went from texting me every few minutes to texting me maybe once every 6 hours.
After I text him of course.
I will say he's been extremely busy at work these last few days, but at the same time it takes 30 seconds to reply to a message.
And isn't this the period where you're wanting to talk and get to know each other?
He said after our first date that he was interested in getting to know me more to see if he wants a relationship with me.
Not sure if that makes any difference.