Virgos & Heartbreak... Curing the Disease...

-I'll speak for myself, but I find that many of my fellow Virgos tend to agree when push comes to shove. How does a Virgo handle heartbreak you ask— By trying to reason with you initially, however after the card are dealt, we tend to intentionally disappear fast and cure us of that disease called love.

Emotionally we feel deeply, but because it's over, we will go into straight hermit mode and after a brief period of emotional and mental imbalances, we will regain focus on the things we know well we can control and fixate on these things turning a negative into a positive. We succeed in our occupations, manifesting our creative ideas, adapting, and reestablishing ourselves when necessary because we Virgos view the heartache portions of love as a disease curable by positivity and over achievement. For certain, once a person leaves a Virgo, we level up so that he/she may look in our direction, but will need balls of solid brass to have the audacity to step up.

You will be replaced faster than an Air Sign decides to change an outfit when going somewhere special by many options all on our heels clearly seeing everything you no longer could. Being mutable, you might not even recognize us while we're right next to you because we Virgos managed to change ourselves more pure to who we really are so much in a short period of time. Most likely, you will never hear from us again because we understood that our best at the time wasn't good enough for the ex, so we leave most relationships with a clear conscience, if nothing more, and continue our journey to greatness dolo the way we internally feel the Creator intended. Born alone. Die alone. So, we Virgos tend to be on our game strong alone.

After each failed relationship, we often view relationships as in the way of our progress, instead of something that adds to our benefit. So we become very selective of the people we have in our lives. So, if you choose to breakup with a Virgo, just know if ever you see him/her again, that Virgo will no longer be the person you know. You (ex lover) were an important lesson and stepping stone to our growth and should you attempt to slide your way back in, you've been forgiven but your actions have not been forgotten and our measuring stick most likely will find you in lack of what we truly want. No offense. Depending on the level of maturity, we Virgos might have changed to a strictly FWBs type of person, or a person who has no desire to let anyone into our lives anymore because the only person we have learned to rely on is ourselves, and we truly never fail ourselves.

So, if you recently broke up with a Virgo and our considering trying to get back with him/her, unless it was literally the Virgos fault for whatever reason, that Virgo will watch every action compared to everything said by you, and will ghost you before you completed a blink of the eye. Once a Virgo stops watering the gardens of love, that field dries up fast and usually becomes a parking lot for the less fortunate. Just felt like providing some further insight into the inner workings of the Virgo Clan.. Later....

Also counts for Virgo moons.

It is my MO after dumping someone, and I never fall in love twice with the same person. I don't repeat my mistakes.



Funny thing is they never seem to take a hint. Still got my 2nd ex trying to reach out, and I'm like "it's been over a decade, you dumb shit, get a clue". And my latest ex, ugh he's like an abandoned puppy trying to find his way back, thinks I'm faking not giving a shit about him anymore.

Makes me wish I was a virgo lmfao

I think despite my gemini sun+moon+mars I'm as emotional as a water sign might be 😢

Not giving a shit about anyone is the only way to live

What if you dated said Virgo over 25 years ago as a teenager, how would they view you as a person now?

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

What if you dated said Virgo over 25 years ago as a teenager, how would they view you as a person now?

I'm not a virgo, but if I dated someone and broke up....a decade ago, they don't exactly exist anymore (not out of any bad emotions, its like would you care about what you had for lunch in middle school?? No)

"So, if you recently broke up with a Virgo and our considering trying to get back with him/her, unless it was literally the Virgos fault for whatever reason, that Virgo will watch every action compared to everything said by you, and will ghost you before you completed a blink of the eye. "

How are you trying to ghost someone whose already broken up with you. That's not ghosting... thats accepting that the relationship has been ended... by them.

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

What if you dated said Virgo over 25 years ago as a teenager, how would they view you as a person now?

I'm not a virgo, but if I dated someone and broke up....a decade ago, they don't exactly exist anymore (not out of any bad emotions, its like would you care about what you had for lunch in middle school?? No)

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We were one anothers first serious relationship and sexual relationship. He was born in England and moved to my country of birth where we met. I moved here when I was 25. We have always touched base over the years! He has moved back to Leeds in September and has asked to see me, so I was curious because you all say Virgo’s never go back. Sometimes people are able to remain friends after dating... just saying.

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

What if you dated said Virgo over 25 years ago as a teenager, how would they view you as a person now?

I'm not a virgo, but if I dated someone and broke up....a decade ago, they don't exactly exist anymore (not out of any bad emotions, its like would you care about what you had for lunch in middle school?? No)

We were one anothers first serious relationship and sexual relationship. He was born in England and moved to my country of birth where we met. I moved here when I was 25. We have always touched base over the years! He has moved back to Leeds in September and has asked to see me, so I was curious because you all say Virgo’s never go back. Sometimes people are able to remain friends after dating... just saying.

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Ooooo then that sounds good 🙂 yall can meet up and gauge his intentions

i'd rather virgos cheat than become long-suffering devotees. coz that tends to happen- becoming so devoted, almost worshipping their partner. but mostly i'm saying that coz of their suicide notes.

“Dear Ted, What has happened to us? I don’t know. I feel myself in a spiral, going down down down, into a black hole from which there is no escape, no brightness. And loud in my ears from every side I hear, ‘failure, failure, failure…’ I love you so much…I am too old and enmeshed in everything you do and are, that I cannot conceive of life without you . . . My going will leave quite a rumor, but you can say I was overworked and overwrought. Your reputation with your friends and fans will not be harmed . . . Sometimes, think of the fun we had all thru the years . . . “

-suffers from cancer then gets cheated on but she's still trying to protect her husband's reputation (that she helped in building)

"I am 27 years old and all that was left of me was a shell and a damaged one at that. I am damaged, I am disgusting."

-after getting STDs from a man who refuse to apologize and keeps trying to smear her reputation instead





ohh and camille grammer (though she didn't kill herself but still wtf kelsey)

virgos should never fall for the trap of devotion

i'd even encourage terrible behavior, just not this long-suffering

virgos romanticizing long-suffering devotion are bad virgos

this is a good virgo

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i'd rather virgos cheat than become long-suffering devotees. coz that tends to happen- becoming so devoted, almost worshipping their partner. but mostly i'm saying that coz of their suicide notes.

“Dear Ted, What has happened to us? I don’t know. I feel myself in a spiral, going down down down, into a black hole from which there is no escape, no brightness. And loud in my ears from every side I hear, ‘failure, failure, failure…’ I love you so much…I am too old and enmeshed in everything you do and are, that I cannot conceive of life without you . . . My going will leave quite a rumor, but you can say I was overworked and overwrought. Your reputation with your friends and fans will not be harmed . . . Sometimes, think of the fun we had all thru the years . . . “

-suffers from cancer then gets cheated on but she's still trying to protect her husband's reputation (that she helped in building)

"I am 27 years old and all that was left of me was a shell and a damaged one at that. I am damaged, I am disgusting."

-after getting STDs from a man who refuse to apologize and keeps trying to smear her reputation instead





ohh and camille grammer (though she didn't kill herself but still wtf kelsey)

virgos should never fall for the trap of devotion

i'd even encourage terrible behavior, just not this long-suffering

I feel like thats Beyonce as well....Jay Z cheated on her but sis took him back like YOU ARE BEYONCE YOU ARE THE QUEEN HOWWWWW

Posted by Gem03

Posted by virgoOPPP

i'd rather virgos cheat than become long-suffering devotees. coz that tends to happen- becoming so devoted, almost worshipping their partner. but mostly i'm saying that coz of their suicide notes.

“Dear Ted, What has happened to us? I don’t know. I feel myself in a spiral, going down down down, into a black hole from which there is no escape, no brightness. And loud in my ears from every side I hear, ‘failure, failure, failure…’ I love you so much…I am too old and enmeshed in everything you do and are, that I cannot conceive of life without you . . . My going will leave quite a rumor, but you can say I was overworked and overwrought. Your reputation with your friends and fans will not be harmed . . . Sometimes, think of the fun we had all thru the years . . . “

-suffers from cancer then gets cheated on but she's still trying to protect her husband's reputation (that she helped in building)

"I am 27 years old and all that was left of me was a shell and a damaged one at that. I am damaged, I am disgusting."

-after getting STDs from a man who refuse to apologize and keeps trying to smear her reputation instead





ohh and camille grammer (though she didn't kill herself but still wtf kelsey)

virgos should never fall for the trap of devotion

i'd even encourage terrible behavior, just not this long-suffering

I feel like thats Beyonce as well....Jay Z cheated on her but sis took him back like YOU ARE BEYONCE YOU ARE THE QUEEN HOWWWWW

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he's like her 2nd bf right? she was like 18 when she met him.

i imagine it's hard to leave someone like that.

bet he cheated on her multiple times over the years.

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Posted by virgoOPPP

i'd rather virgos cheat than become long-suffering devotees. coz that tends to happen- becoming so devoted, almost worshipping their partner. but mostly i'm saying that coz of their suicide notes.

“Dear Ted, What has happened to us? I don’t know. I feel myself in a spiral, going down down down, into a black hole from which there is no escape, no brightness. And loud in my ears from every side I hear, ‘failure, failure, failure…’ I love you so much…I am too old and enmeshed in everything you do and are, that I cannot conceive of life without you . . . My going will leave quite a rumor, but you can say I was overworked and overwrought. Your reputation with your friends and fans will not be harmed . . . Sometimes, think of the fun we had all thru the years . . . “

-suffers from cancer then gets cheated on but she's still trying to protect her husband's reputation (that she helped in building)

"I am 27 years old and all that was left of me was a shell and a damaged one at that. I am damaged, I am disgusting."

-after getting STDs from a man who refuse to apologize and keeps trying to smear her reputation instead





ohh and camille grammer (though she didn't kill herself but still wtf kelsey)

virgos should never fall for the trap of devotion

i'd even encourage terrible behavior, just not this long-suffering

I feel like thats Beyonce as well....Jay Z cheated on her but sis took him back like YOU ARE BEYONCE YOU ARE THE QUEEN HOWWWWW

he's like her 2nd bf right? she was like 18 when she met him.

i imagine it's hard to leave someone like that.

bet he cheated on her multiple times over the years.

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DUDE, if beyonce can get cheated on then I HAVE NO HOPE lmfao.

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Posted by Gem03

Posted by virgoOPPP

i'd rather virgos cheat than become long-suffering devotees. coz that tends to happen- becoming so devoted, almost worshipping their partner. but mostly i'm saying that coz of their suicide notes.

“Dear Ted, What has happened to us? I don’t know. I feel myself in a spiral, going down down down, into a black hole from which there is no escape, no brightness. And loud in my ears from every side I hear, ‘failure, failure, failure…’ I love you so much…I am too old and enmeshed in everything you do and are, that I cannot conceive of life without you . . . My going will leave quite a rumor, but you can say I was overworked and overwrought. Your reputation with your friends and fans will not be harmed . . . Sometimes, think of the fun we had all thru the years . . . “

-suffers from cancer then gets cheated on but she's still trying to protect her husband's reputation (that she helped in building)

"I am 27 years old and all that was left of me was a shell and a damaged one at that. I am damaged, I am disgusting."

-after getting STDs from a man who refuse to apologize and keeps trying to smear her reputation instead





ohh and camille grammer (though she didn't kill herself but still wtf kelsey)

virgos should never fall for the trap of devotion

i'd even encourage terrible behavior, just not this long-suffering

I feel like thats Beyonce as well....Jay Z cheated on her but sis took him back like YOU ARE BEYONCE YOU ARE THE QUEEN HOWWWWW

he's like her 2nd bf right? she was like 18 when she met him.

i imagine it's hard to leave someone like that.

bet he cheated on her multiple times over the years.

DUDE, if beyonce can get cheated on then I HAVE NO HOPE lmfao.

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sucks reading about these stuff

this virgo committed suicide after getting cancer, getting cheated on then trying to protect him

then her niece says: "her death is her one last final gift to him." (to this man who cheated on her wtf)

@Gem03 also beyonce had a tatoo of jay z on her ring finger

i feel bad for other virgos especially when they have scorpio moon

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

What if you dated said Virgo over 25 years ago as a teenager, how would they view you as a person now?

I'm not a virgo, but if I dated someone and broke up....a decade ago, they don't exactly exist anymore (not out of any bad emotions, its like would you care about what you had for lunch in middle school?? No)

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Actually, YES. The head cook/boss at my middle school, (jr. high school back then) Kevin, made THE BEST CHOCOLATE CHIP COOKIES I'VE EVER HAD IN MY ENTIRE LIFE! Even after I went to high school I tried to get my neighbor's younger son to buy me some of those cookies. It worked for a while till they moved away. I've had cookies from so many places, even from some supposed famous places in California and some bakery in Texas and the midwest. Blah!

His were soft, not too "cakey," crisp, held up well, stayed soft all day long, and had a very distinct flavor. None of these "best" or "top 10" or "blue ribbon" or "first prize" or "GRAND PRIZE $ 100,000 WINNING!" recipes come close. The only thing I want when I get to Heaven before I get sent to Hell is one of Kevin's cookies again.

The chicken fried steak with mashed potatoes and gravy were pretty good, too.