SuperSize9
@SuperSize9
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Who do you love more!
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The first one for sure, I don't tell my man anything that can change the way he thinks of me, honestly it's one of my biggest fears. When I start sharing my dark past and the pathetic shit I go through with someone it's because I no longer see myself with that person romantically.
Why do you think women having sex makes them dirty? Lets unpack that op.
Reddit incel threads are not doing your brain any favors.
Reddit incel threads are not doing your brain any favors.
Posted by MareInfame
The love from #2 would be felt deeply.
#1 is in love with someone that doesn’t exist. Deep inside, nothing is felt.
But you put so much effort to get guy 1. Guy 2 takes no effort. So loosing guy one would hurt because you tried to impress him while guy 2 come a dime a dozen.
And that person does exist we all re create ourselves
This is a trick questions, both are bad choices.
Pick yourself and watch feminism tiktok to reinforces your decision when ever you feel lonely!
Pick yourself and watch feminism tiktok to reinforces your decision when ever you feel lonely!
Posted by LadyNeptune
Why do you think women having sex makes them dirty? Lets unpack that op.
Reddit incel threads are not doing your brain any favors.
Your feminist aren’t you? Because if you think sexual history doesn’t matter your just lying to yourself. And you tell people to tell things you would dare tell.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Why do you think women having sex makes them dirty? Lets unpack that op.
Reddit incel threads are not doing your brain any favors.
Your feminist aren’t you? Because if you think sexual history doesn’t matter your just lying to yourself. And you tell people to tell things you would dare tell.
Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9
Let’s say your dating 2 guys.
Guy 1, you paint a picture of yourself like an angel. You want him to see you in the purest light. So you hid things from your past and lie here and there little lies but still. You don’t tell him about your dirty secrets, you decrease the number of guys you been with, sexual experience you tell him well I’ve never done this before(but you have). You create a different person only for him to see because how he sees you matters some what.
Guy 2, he knows your deepest darkest secrets, because you don’t really care what he thinks that much or if he knows about you being promiscuous in your past. Your an open book with him and you do connect with him, he can see you how ever he wants, and you remain open and honest with him about seeing other guys because his opinion of you doesn’t matter as much.
Which guy do you love more, and why?
"Dirty" secrets? Like what?click to expand
3 sums, getting drunk having sex with someone you barely remember, doing onlyfan page etc not the normal sh# lol
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
Why do you think women having sex makes them dirty? Lets unpack that op.
Reddit incel threads are not doing your brain any favors.
Your feminist aren’t you? Because if you think sexual history doesn’t matter your just lying to yourself. And you tell people to tell things you would dare tell.click to expand
You didn't answer the question. Explain to us why you think women having sex makes them dirty. Walk me through how this works.
Posted by Astrobyn
This is a trick questions, both are bad choices.
Pick yourself and watch feminism tiktok to reinforces your decision when ever you feel lonely!
It’s a question. If the question was reversed with guy to girl you would answer it. This is why feminism is leaving a lot of women unmarried. Because every question is automatically an attack.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by SuperSize9Posted by MareInfame
The love from #2 would be felt deeply.
#1 is in love with someone that doesn’t exist. Deep inside, nothing is felt.
But you put so much effort to get guy 1. Guy 2 takes no effort. So loosing guy one would hurt because you tried to impress him while guy 2 come a dime a dozen.
And that person does exist we all re create ourselves
Maybe I shouldn’t participate in this thread. I’m not a Cardinal, and there is no way in hell I’d put that much effort into a lie.
Talk about wasted energy 🥴👎🏼click to expand
If you had to get a job you really wanted your dream job with your dream company but to get the job you’d had have to been a model citizen. Would you lie to get the job?
I'll answer the question op, then maybe you'll answer mine instead of deflecting.
Based on your description...
Option 1 you feel you need to lie to them.
Option 2 you don't respect their opinion
Neither of these imaginary men in these imaginary situation are lovable. So no, I don't love one "more".
Based on your description...
Option 1 you feel you need to lie to them.
Option 2 you don't respect their opinion
Neither of these imaginary men in these imaginary situation are lovable. So no, I don't love one "more".
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
Why do you think women having sex makes them dirty? Lets unpack that op.
Reddit incel threads are not doing your brain any favors.
Your feminist aren’t you? Because if you think sexual history doesn’t matter your just lying to yourself. And you tell people to tell things you would dare tell.
You didn't answer the question. Explain to us why you think women having sex makes them dirty. Walk me through how this works.click to expand
Because men don’t want to marry promiscuous women. Not saying be a virgin but that’s how your man will judge you.
Answer this Why do women lie about the number of sex partners? Or feel it’s private and shouldn’t be asked?
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by Astrobyn
This is a trick questions, both are bad choices.
Pick yourself and watch feminism tiktok to reinforces your decision when ever you feel lonely!
It’s a question. If the question was reversed with guy to girl you would answer it. This is why feminism is leaving a lot of women unmarried. Because every question is automatically an attack.click to expand
I would answer it the same, and strongly suggest he seek feminist tiktok as well.
Women lie about their sexual history because they don't want be judged but more importantly a lot of guys wouldn't be able to handle the truth.
Posted by LadyNeptune
I'll answer the question op, then maybe you'll answer mine instead of deflecting.
Based on your description...
Option 1 you feel you need to lie to them.
Option 2 you don't respect their opinion
Neither of these imaginary men in these imaginary situation are lovable. So no, I don't love one "more".
Exactly the question is to pick 1. The question requires an answer between the two. But I understand if you can’t answer it is a hard question that requires truth and for the weak who lie to themselves every day it’s impossible to look yourself in the mirror knowing the truth.
Posted by AstrobynPosted by SuperSize9Posted by Astrobyn
This is a trick questions, both are bad choices.
Pick yourself and watch feminism tiktok to reinforces your decision when ever you feel lonely!
It’s a question. If the question was reversed with guy to girl you would answer it. This is why feminism is leaving a lot of women unmarried. Because every question is automatically an attack.
I would answer it the same, and strongly suggest he seek feminist tiktok as well.click to expand
I really hope you never get married. Feminist tend to pass away alone with a room full of cats. Because no string masculine man wants women who think like you. You can have all the Beta feminine men. But. You don’t really respect or want them. So live Alone. Or get a wife
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
Why do you think women having sex makes them dirty? Lets unpack that op.
Reddit incel threads are not doing your brain any favors.
Your feminist aren’t you? Because if you think sexual history doesn’t matter your just lying to yourself. And you tell people to tell things you would dare tell.
You didn't answer the question. Explain to us why you think women having sex makes them dirty. Walk me through how this works.
Because men don’t want to marry promiscuous women. Not saying be a virgin but that’s how your man will judge you.
Answer this Why do women lie about the number of sex partners? Or feel it’s private and shouldn’t be asked?click to expand
No that's not how my man judges me. Perhaps because, shockingly 🙄, he values me for more than whats between my legs.
This patriarch society has taught you women's only value is as an object for your desire and consumption. The idea that if another man(s) has been with a woman that it reduces her value is some Victorian 1950s shit. Virginity is a myth. Men do marry promiscuous women, and women marry promiscuous men.
Perhaps change your approach. If women feel they need to lie to you or are uncomfortable with you demanding a body count... seems like a uniquely YOU problem.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by SuperSize9Posted by MareInfamePosted by SuperSize9Posted by MareInfame
The love from #2 would be felt deeply.
#1 is in love with someone that doesn’t exist. Deep inside, nothing is felt.
But you put so much effort to get guy 1. Guy 2 takes no effort. So loosing guy one would hurt because you tried to impress him while guy 2 come a dime a dozen.
And that person does exist we all re create ourselves
Maybe I shouldn’t participate in this thread. I’m not a Cardinal, and there is no way in hell I’d put that much effort into a lie.
Talk about wasted energy 🥴👎🏼
If you had to get a job you really wanted your dream job with your dream company but to get the job you’d had have to been a model citizen. Would you lie to get the job?
No I am a model citizen, no need to lie. As for the number partners only somebody with insecurity issues would ask that. I don't care if a woman I am dating has been with 5 men or 500.click to expand
Why is it a man is insecure because he asks you how many guys Fked you? Maybe he territorial. How bout this why are you ashamed of the question why shy away from it. Majority of men will gladly tell you.
I’ve been with over 60 women and counting.
Neither.
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by AstrobynPosted by SuperSize9Posted by Astrobyn
This is a trick questions, both are bad choices.
Pick yourself and watch feminism tiktok to reinforces your decision when ever you feel lonely!
It’s a question. If the question was reversed with guy to girl you would answer it. This is why feminism is leaving a lot of women unmarried. Because every question is automatically an attack.
I would answer it the same, and strongly suggest he seek feminist tiktok as well.
I really hope you never get married. Feminist tend to pass away alone with a room full of cats. Because no string masculine man wants women who think like you. You can have all the Beta feminine men. But. You don’t really respect or want them. So live Alone. Or get a wifeclick to expand
I wish could marry a woman,
I'd have engaging conversations
an actual partner in taking care of the home, and family,
I could just asker her to get something done, and I wouldn't have to give her instructions.
I don't have to lie about how many people I slept with.
but god made me attracted to men 😢
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
I'll answer the question op, then maybe you'll answer mine instead of deflecting.
Based on your description...
Option 1 you feel you need to lie to them.
Option 2 you don't respect their opinion
Neither of these imaginary men in these imaginary situation are lovable. So no, I don't love one "more".
Exactly the question is to pick 1. The question requires an answer between the two. But I understand if you can’t answer it is a hard question that requires truth and for the weak who lie to themselves every day it’s impossible to look yourself in the mirror knowing the truth.click to expand
Its not a hard question, far from it.
I wouldn't entertain someone I felt I had to lie to or that I didn't respect. Point blank.
Lol op claims to have been with 60 women but wants a virgin because "promiscuous women are dirty".
I guess self reflection is not part of his skill set.
I guess self reflection is not part of his skill set.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
Why do you think women having sex makes them dirty? Lets unpack that op.
Reddit incel threads are not doing your brain any favors.
Your feminist aren’t you? Because if you think sexual history doesn’t matter your just lying to yourself. And you tell people to tell things you would dare tell.
You didn't answer the question. Explain to us why you think women having sex makes them dirty. Walk me through how this works.
Because men don’t want to marry promiscuous women. Not saying be a virgin but that’s how your man will judge you.
Answer this Why do women lie about the number of sex partners? Or feel it’s private and shouldn’t be asked?
No that's not how my man judges me. Perhaps because, shockingly 🙄, he values me for more than whats between my legs.
This patriarch society has taught you women's only value is as an object for your desire and consumption. The idea that if another man(s) has been with a woman that it reduces her value is some Victorian 1950s shit. Virginity is a myth. Men do marry promiscuous women, and women marry promiscuous men.
Perhaps change your approach. If women feel they need to lie to you or are uncomfortable with you demanding a body count... seems like a uniquely YOU problem.click to expand
The same patriarch society that
Built or created
The express ways
The roads
Air planes
Cars
Gas stations
Sky scrapers
Cell phones
DXPNET
Ships
Rockets
Grocery stores
Antibiotics
Made labor delivery safer
All forms of birth control
Who voted to give women rights
Who run the police departments
Who fight the wars to protect us
Etc etc etc etc etc
Posted by SeaLion
Neither.
It requires you to pick one. What you are is afraid or in denial.
Posted by AstrobynPosted by SuperSize9Posted by AstrobynPosted by SuperSize9Posted by Astrobyn
This is a trick questions, both are bad choices.
Pick yourself and watch feminism tiktok to reinforces your decision when ever you feel lonely!
It’s a question. If the question was reversed with guy to girl you would answer it. This is why feminism is leaving a lot of women unmarried. Because every question is automatically an attack.
I would answer it the same, and strongly suggest he seek feminist tiktok as well.
I really hope you never get married. Feminist tend to pass away alone with a room full of cats. Because no string masculine man wants women who think like you. You can have all the Beta feminine men. But. You don’t really respect or want them. So live Alone. Or get a wife
I wish could marry a woman,
I'd have engaging conversations
an actual partner in taking care of the home, and family,
I could just asker her to get something done, and I wouldn't have to give her instructions.
I don't have to lie about how many people I slept with.
but god made me attracted to men 😢click to expand
You can and you should stay away from men. We good
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
I'll answer the question op, then maybe you'll answer mine instead of deflecting.
Based on your description...
Option 1 you feel you need to lie to them.
Option 2 you don't respect their opinion
Neither of these imaginary men in these imaginary situation are lovable. So no, I don't love one "more".
Exactly the question is to pick 1. The question requires an answer between the two. But I understand if you can’t answer it is a hard question that requires truth and for the weak who lie to themselves every day it’s impossible to look yourself in the mirror knowing the truth.
Its not a hard question, far from it.
I wouldn't entertain someone I felt I had to lie to or that I didn't respect. Point blank.click to expand
It’s only two options. But trust me I understand why you can’t all men do. Lol you think your different but your the same. I get your response from the women who are afraid and are in denial
I love this idiotic argument that number of peen in vageen makes you 'dirty'. Just only body count, not number of times you had sex.
For the person having sex with lets say 100 people, one night stands, over 7 years = 100 encounters
Vs the person having sex in their relationship, 5xs per week, for 7 years = 1800+encounters
Guess who is viewed in a negative light, its the person whose had 1/18th sex in comparison.
Its almost as funny to me as the idea that a peen can 'destroy' a vageen which can push out a baby(s) and bounce back.
For the person having sex with lets say 100 people, one night stands, over 7 years = 100 encounters
Vs the person having sex in their relationship, 5xs per week, for 7 years = 1800+encounters
Guess who is viewed in a negative light, its the person whose had 1/18th sex in comparison.
Its almost as funny to me as the idea that a peen can 'destroy' a vageen which can push out a baby(s) and bounce back.
Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
Why do you think women having sex makes them dirty? Lets unpack that op.
Reddit incel threads are not doing your brain any favors.
Your feminist aren’t you? Because if you think sexual history doesn’t matter your just lying to yourself. And you tell people to tell things you would dare tell.
You didn't answer the question. Explain to us why you think women having sex makes them dirty. Walk me through how this works.
Because men don’t want to marry promiscuous women. Not saying be a virgin but that’s how your man will judge you.
Answer this Why do women lie about the number of sex partners? Or feel it’s private and shouldn’t be asked?
You speak a lot in absolute generalizations. Do you feel you have a better handle on what people are thinking than the people themselves do?
As a man, I don't give much thought to how many men a woman has been with prior to me. I surely won't care how many men she is with after me if there is an after.
Why do you care so much?click to expand
It’s a question. It doesn’t until your about to put a ring and give her your last name.
If your a man and you say it don’t matter than marry a prostitute who’s been with 400 men and take around your family and friends and see how they look at her and you. Don’t lie to women I hate when men like you do this. Your lying to them and it’s wrong.
At least the sex worker whose been with 400 men got PAID. She can bring some funds to the table for her family. Respect the hustle.
Op is just out here slinging dick (allegedly) for free!
Op is just out here slinging dick (allegedly) for free!
Posted by roti
Women lie about their sexual history because they don't want be judged but more importantly a lot of guys wouldn't be able to handle the truth.
Yeah, and a lot of women would not be getting married or having relationships and they couldn't handle that.
I love neither
Posted by LadyNeptune
I love this idiotic argument that number of peen in vageen makes you 'dirty'. Just only body count, not number of times you had sex.
For the person having sex with lets say 100 people, one night stands, over 7 years = 100 encounters
Vs the person having sex in their relationship, 5xs per week, for 7 years = 1800+encounters
Guess who is viewed in a negative light, its the person whose had 1/10th sex in comparison.
Its almost as funny to me as the idea that a peen can 'destroy' a vageen which can push out a baby(s) and bounce back.
Do you understand that’s completely different that’s still 1 partner just multiple times. The insanity to try and make it sound right. No it’s not the same.
Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
Why do you think women having sex makes them dirty? Lets unpack that op.
Reddit incel threads are not doing your brain any favors.
Your feminist aren’t you? Because if you think sexual history doesn’t matter your just lying to yourself. And you tell people to tell things you would dare tell.
You didn't answer the question. Explain to us why you think women having sex makes them dirty. Walk me through how this works.
Because men don’t want to marry promiscuous women. Not saying be a virgin but that’s how your man will judge you.
Answer this Why do women lie about the number of sex partners? Or feel it’s private and shouldn’t be asked?
You speak a lot in absolute generalizations. Do you feel you have a better handle on what people are thinking than the people themselves do?
As a man, I don't give much thought to how many men a woman has been with prior to me. I surely won't care how many men she is with after me if there is an after.
Why do you care so much?
It’s a question. It doesn’t until your about to put a ring and give her your last name.
If your a man and you say it don’t matter than marry a prostitute who’s been with 400 men and take around your family and friends and see how they look at her and you. Don’t lie to women I hate when men like you do this. Your lying to them and it’s wrong.
I never disputed you had a question.
Your question is the inspiration for my questions.
As a matter of fact, I, a man, asked you a direct question about your beliefs, one that you seem to be engaging in character assassination to avoid rather than answer my questions directly.
To your direction about who to marry, you are setting up a straw-man argument. One that is a non-starter for me personally based on values that I have.
You are saying I am lying, that is a curious assertion. Do you assume people are lying because they disagree with your viewpoint?click to expand
I don’t assume I know. Because these are facts you can’t argue facts.
Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
Why do you think women having sex makes them dirty? Lets unpack that op.
Reddit incel threads are not doing your brain any favors.
Your feminist aren’t you? Because if you think sexual history doesn’t matter your just lying to yourself. And you tell people to tell things you would dare tell.
You didn't answer the question. Explain to us why you think women having sex makes them dirty. Walk me through how this works.
Because men don’t want to marry promiscuous women. Not saying be a virgin but that’s how your man will judge you.
Answer this Why do women lie about the number of sex partners? Or feel it’s private and shouldn’t be asked?
You speak a lot in absolute generalizations. Do you feel you have a better handle on what people are thinking than the people themselves do?
As a man, I don't give much thought to how many men a woman has been with prior to me. I surely won't care how many men she is with after me if there is an after.
Why do you care so much?
It’s a question. It doesn’t until your about to put a ring and give her your last name.
If your a man and you say it don’t matter than marry a prostitute who’s been with 400 men and take around your family and friends and see how they look at her and you. Don’t lie to women I hate when men like you do this. Your lying to them and it’s wrong.
I never disputed you had a question.
Your question is the inspiration for my questions.
As a matter of fact, I, a man, asked you a direct question about your beliefs, one that you seem to be engaging in character assassination to avoid rather than answer my questions directly.
To your direction about who to marry, you are setting up a straw-man argument. One that is a non-starter for me personally based on values that I have.
You are saying I am lying, that is a curious assertion. Do you assume people are lying because they disagree with your viewpoint?click to expand
I don’t assume I know. Because these are facts you can’t argue facts.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by SuperSize9Posted by alexscariesPosted by SuperSize9Posted by MareInfamePosted by SuperSize9Posted by MareInfame
The love from #2 would be felt deeply.
#1 is in love with someone that doesn’t exist. Deep inside, nothing is felt.
But you put so much effort to get guy 1. Guy 2 takes no effort. So loosing guy one would hurt because you tried to impress him while guy 2 come a dime a dozen.
And that person does exist we all re create ourselves
Maybe I shouldn’t participate in this thread. I’m not a Cardinal, and there is no way in hell I’d put that much effort into a lie.
Talk about wasted energy 🥴👎🏼
If you had to get a job you really wanted your dream job with your dream company but to get the job you’d had have to been a model citizen. Would you lie to get the job?
No I am a model citizen, no need to lie. As for the number partners only somebody with insecurity issues would ask that. I don't care if a woman I am dating has been with 5 men or 500.
Why is it a man is insecure because he asks you how many guys Fked you? Maybe he territorial. How bout this why are you ashamed of the question why shy away from it. Majority of men will gladly tell you.
I’ve been with over 60 women and counting.
I'm not into men and I am a man. I think there's been some confusion. I wouldn't ask it of a partner as I don't care that's the point I was making, it doesn't make any difference.click to expand
Well that’s good for you.
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
I love this idiotic argument that number of peen in vageen makes you 'dirty'. Just only body count, not number of times you had sex.
For the person having sex with lets say 100 people, one night stands, over 7 years = 100 encounters
Vs the person having sex in their relationship, 5xs per week, for 7 years = 1800+encounters
Guess who is viewed in a negative light, its the person whose had 1/10th sex in comparison.
Its almost as funny to me as the idea that a peen can 'destroy' a vageen which can push out a baby(s) and bounce back.
Do you understand that’s completely different that’s still 1 partner just multiple times. The insanity to try and make it sound right. No it’s not the same.click to expand
Yes it is different. A person having sex with their partner is probably doing so without protection, bareback, most likely trying all sorts of exploratory kinky types of sex. Especially the longer the relationship... gotta spice it up. You should be more worried about being stacked up performance wise to her ex who knew ALL THE SPOTS and how to play her body like a fiddle.
VS being scared of the buzzed, sloppy, and most definitely unsatisfactory sex that didn't warrant a follow up... aka one night stand.
The only reason you have the viewpoint you do is because you view women as an object for your ownership whose value deflates with each man who has "had her". Examine that.
Posted by cerseiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by Astrobyn
This is a trick questions, both are bad choices.
Pick yourself and watch feminism tiktok to reinforces your decision when ever you feel lonely!
It’s a question. If the question was reversed with guy to girl you would answer it. This is why feminism is leaving a lot of women unmarried. Because every question is automatically an attack.
Because most of the time men are not criticized for their sexual history but women are. I don’t even consider myself a feminist and even that much is obvious to meclick to expand
Thank you it’s not men judging women it’s society. Men judge them and women judge them even harder. That’s why it’s important for a women to bet the guys that try to court her. Pick the top guys or better quality of guys and you won’t have to worry about finding another guy. You may run across a few bad ones but over 10 slow down and 20— Come on that’s 20 guys I’m not calling you a bad person but get counseling. That should hold more value.
Scenario 1: A real man would not ask how many men I've slept with. That is insecure boy bullshit and if a guy did ask me that I would not feel inclined to move forward with that relationship to the point I was lying about it...and the only reason I would be lying about it is if he asked me.
Scenario 2: this sounds like more of a friendship or a fwb situation especially if I am dating other men...and if I'm dating other men then chances are I'm not in love with him cause if I was then I wouldn't be seeing other men.
Neither men would know how many other men I've been with. Neither would know all my deepest darkest secrets.
So yes. My answer of Neither standards.
Scenario 2: this sounds like more of a friendship or a fwb situation especially if I am dating other men...and if I'm dating other men then chances are I'm not in love with him cause if I was then I wouldn't be seeing other men.
Neither men would know how many other men I've been with. Neither would know all my deepest darkest secrets.
So yes. My answer of Neither standards.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by SuperSize9Posted by MareInfamePosted by SuperSize9Posted by MareInfame
The love from #2 would be felt deeply.
#1 is in love with someone that doesn’t exist. Deep inside, nothing is felt.
But you put so much effort to get guy 1. Guy 2 takes no effort. So loosing guy one would hurt because you tried to impress him while guy 2 come a dime a dozen.
And that person does exist we all re create ourselves
Maybe I shouldn’t participate in this thread. I’m not a Cardinal, and there is no way in hell I’d put that much effort into a lie.
Talk about wasted energy 🥴👎🏼
If you had to get a job you really wanted your dream job with your dream company but to get the job you’d had have to been a model citizen. Would you lie to get the job?
I’ve gotten my dream job at a dream company before without having to lie. Lying never entered my brain.
It feels euphoric when you accomplish something that big without having to LIE. You should try it sometime.click to expand
Answer the question I asked. Start with that.
Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptune
Why do you think women having sex makes them dirty? Lets unpack that op.
Reddit incel threads are not doing your brain any favors.
Your feminist aren’t you? Because if you think sexual history doesn’t matter your just lying to yourself. And you tell people to tell things you would dare tell.
You didn't answer the question. Explain to us why you think women having sex makes them dirty. Walk me through how this works.
Because men don’t want to marry promiscuous women. Not saying be a virgin but that’s how your man will judge you.
Answer this Why do women lie about the number of sex partners? Or feel it’s private and shouldn’t be asked?
You speak a lot in absolute generalizations. Do you feel you have a better handle on what people are thinking than the people themselves do?
As a man, I don't give much thought to how many men a woman has been with prior to me. I surely won't care how many men she is with after me if there is an after.
Why do you care so much?
It’s a question. It doesn’t until your about to put a ring and give her your last name.
If your a man and you say it don’t matter than marry a prostitute who’s been with 400 men and take around your family and friends and see how they look at her and you. Don’t lie to women I hate when men like you do this. Your lying to them and it’s wrong.
I never disputed you had a question.
Your question is the inspiration for my questions.
As a matter of fact, I, a man, asked you a direct question about your beliefs, one that you seem to be engaging in character assassination to avoid rather than answer my questions directly.
To your direction about who to marry, you are setting up a straw-man argument. One that is a non-starter for me personally based on values that I have.
You are saying I am lying, that is a curious assertion. Do you assume people are lying because they disagree with your viewpoint?
I don’t assume I know. Because these are facts you can’t argue facts.
You can't argue facts. Which is why we are in discussion, because you have packaged your opinion as fact...but they are still opinions not indisputable in the least. Asserting your opinion is fact just leads me to believe that perhaps you don't know what a fact is?
Do you know what a fact is?
Because presently, I am not seeing facts here.
I am seeing baseless assertions by you of having some privileged info on how "all men" think and of what all men value, knowing that unless you have telepathy you have no such access to that info.click to expand
Get to the point no one to read all that mess. You can go read every major scientific data, research, articles and even go talk to several men and see how much agree with me vs you.
Posted by SuperSize9
I’ve been with over 60 women and counting.
Posted by SuperSize9
Pick the top guys or better quality of guys and you won’t have to worry about finding another guy. You may run across a few bad ones but over 10 slow down and 20— Come on that’s 20 guys I’m not calling you a bad person but get counseling. That should hold more value.click to expand
Op perhaps consider taking your own advice. Speaking to a therapist might do you wonders.
Or is this a, do as I say not as I do.
Posted by SeaLion
Scenario 1: A real man would not ask how many men I've slept with. That is insecure boy bullshit and if a guy did ask me that I would not feel inclined to move forward with that relationship to the point I was lying about it...and the only reason I would be lying about it is if he asked me.
Scenario 2: this sounds like more of a friendship or a fwb situation especially if I am dating other men...and if I'm dating other men then chances are I'm not in love with him cause if I was then I wouldn't be seeing other men.
Neither men would know how many other men I've been with. Neither would know all my deepest darkest secrets.
So yes. My answer of Neither standards.
Ok. Oh well. Hope you and your husband have a good night.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9
I’ve been with over 60 women and counting.Posted by SuperSize9
Pick the top guys or better quality of guys and you won’t have to worry about finding another guy. You may run across a few bad ones but over 10 slow down and 20— Come on that’s 20 guys I’m not calling you a bad person but get counseling. That should hold more value.
Op perhaps consider taking your own advice. Speaking to a therapist might do you wonders.
Or is this a, do as I say not as I do.click to expand
No your right. Going forward I’ll just tell women to sleep many guys as they want. I’ll tell them it’ll increase their chances of getting married and having a happy relationship etc. because you know! Boys grow up thinking I really hope my gurl has been with a tone of guys and possibly has kids. Who cares if my first is her 2nd or 3rd. And that’s why
The truth hurts but it’s real.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by SuperSize9Posted by MareInfamePosted by SuperSize9Posted by MareInfamePosted by SuperSize9Posted by MareInfame
The love from #2 would be felt deeply.
#1 is in love with someone that doesn’t exist. Deep inside, nothing is felt.
But you put so much effort to get guy 1. Guy 2 takes no effort. So loosing guy one would hurt because you tried to impress him while guy 2 come a dime a dozen.
And that person does exist we all re create ourselves
Maybe I shouldn’t participate in this thread. I’m not a Cardinal, and there is no way in hell I’d put that much effort into a lie.
Talk about wasted energy 🥴👎🏼
If you had to get a job you really wanted your dream job with your dream company but to get the job you’d had have to been a model citizen. Would you lie to get the job?
I’ve gotten my dream job at a dream company before without having to lie. Lying never entered my brain.
It feels euphoric when you accomplish something that big without having to LIE. You should try it sometime.
Answer the question I asked. Start with that.
You couldn’t put that together?!?! 🥴
It’s AN OBVIOUS NO. I know I don’t have to, to get what I want… duh!!🙄🙄🙄🙄click to expand
Ok hope you your husband have a good night
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9
I’ve been with over 60 women and counting.Posted by SuperSize9
Pick the top guys or better quality of guys and you won’t have to worry about finding another guy. You may run across a few bad ones but over 10 slow down and 20— Come on that’s 20 guys I’m not calling you a bad person but get counseling. That should hold more value.
Op perhaps consider taking your own advice. Speaking to a therapist might do you wonders.
Or is this a, do as I say not as I do.
No your right. Going forward I’ll just tell women to sleep many guys as they want. I’ll tell them it’ll increase their chances of getting married and having a happy relationship etc. because you know! Boys grow up thinking I really hope my gurl has been with a tone of guys and possibly has kids. Who cares if my first is her 2nd or 3rd. And that’s why
The truth hurts but it’s real.
You proposed to a woman who had a child from a previous relationship.
Posted by SuperSize9
I didn’t propose just for a piece of the cookie in the cookie jar. That may have been a little motivation but 2 years into a relationship and a possible beautiful little step daughter I’m all in for it. I don’t see me going anywhere and If she is Prego I wouldn’t be too upset.click to expand
Your own actions are the opposite of your advice. Which is unsolicited btw. Women neither requested nor want your outdated hypocritical approach to relationships.
Posted by IxiPosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9
I’ve been with over 60 women and counting.Posted by SuperSize9
Pick the top guys or better quality of guys and you won’t have to worry about finding another guy. You may run across a few bad ones but over 10 slow down and 20— Come on that’s 20 guys I’m not calling you a bad person but get counseling. That should hold more value.
Op perhaps consider taking your own advice. Speaking to a therapist might do you wonders.
Or is this a, do as I say not as I do.
No your right. Going forward I’ll just tell women to sleep many guys as they want. I’ll tell them it’ll increase their chances of getting married and having a happy relationship etc. because you know! Boys grow up thinking I really hope my gurl has been with a tone of guys and possibly has kids. Who cares if my first is her 2nd or 3rd. And that’s why
The truth hurts but it’s real.
Why are you telling women anything about their sex lives, or lack thereof? Have they all asked you to?
If so, why?click to expand
Why does it matter to you. You’ve express your position already. You gave your response. This isn’t a debate this a question between 2 options. Your trying dissect the question for what it’s a waste of time.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9
I’ve been with over 60 women and counting.Posted by SuperSize9
Pick the top guys or better quality of guys and you won’t have to worry about finding another guy. You may run across a few bad ones but over 10 slow down and 20— Come on that’s 20 guys I’m not calling you a bad person but get counseling. That should hold more value.
Op perhaps consider taking your own advice. Speaking to a therapist might do you wonders.
Or is this a, do as I say not as I do.
No your right. Going forward I’ll just tell women to sleep many guys as they want. I’ll tell them it’ll increase their chances of getting married and having a happy relationship etc. because you know! Boys grow up thinking I really hope my gurl has been with a tone of guys and possibly has kids. Who cares if my first is her 2nd or 3rd. And that’s why
The truth hurts but it’s real.
You proposed to a woman who had a child from a previous relationship.Posted by SuperSize9
I didn’t propose just for a piece of the cookie in the cookie jar. That may have been a little motivation but 2 years into a relationship and a possible beautiful little step daughter I’m all in for it. I don’t see me going anywhere and If she is Prego I wouldn’t be too upset.
Your own actions are the opposite of your advice. Which is unsolicited btw. Women neither requested nor want your outdated hypocritical approach to relationships.click to expand
Yes I have and I still will Marry a women with kids but if I had to pick between versions of my wife one with out a kid the 2nd with I’d go for option 1 every time. And I love my step kid. But that’s how men are
Posted by kachi_cake
Let’s say your dating 2 guys.
Guy 1, you paint a picture of yourself like an angel. You want him to see you in the purest light. So you hid things from your past and lie here and there little lies but still. You don’t tell him about your dirty secrets, you decrease the number of guys you been with, sexual experience you tell him well I’ve never done this before(but you have). You create a different person only for him to see because how he sees you matters some what.
Guy 2, he knows your deepest darkest secrets, because you don’t really care what he thinks that much or if he knows about you being promiscuous in your past. Your an open book with him and you do connect with him, he can see you how ever he wants, and you remain open and honest with him about seeing other guys because his opinion of you doesn’t matter as much.
Which guy do you love more, and why?
Personally, I don't see the difference between 1 and 2. If the person doesn't ask then don't tell. Unless of course health and safety are involved. From interacting with men over the years, I learnt that some secrets are best untold. I draw that boundary from any potential risk. Let's just say it's damage control and unnecessary.
I don't want to date a guy who I can't be my authentic self.
I don't owe anybody anything and somebody knowing your deepest secret doesn't make it a great connection.
If Kim is hungry and prefers oranges but has the option between 2 apples 1 red 1 green which apple would Kim eat pick
Your reply: neither because dying of hunger is because I don’t owe anybody anything including MYSELF.
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SuperSize9
I’ve been with over 60 women and counting.Posted by SuperSize9
Pick the top guys or better quality of guys and you won’t have to worry about finding another guy. You may run across a few bad ones but over 10 slow down and 20— Come on that’s 20 guys I’m not calling you a bad person but get counseling. That should hold more value.
Op perhaps consider taking your own advice. Speaking to a therapist might do you wonders.
Or is this a, do as I say not as I do.
No your right. Going forward I’ll just tell women to sleep many guys as they want. I’ll tell them it’ll increase their chances of getting married and having a happy relationship etc. because you know! Boys grow up thinking I really hope my gurl has been with a tone of guys and possibly has kids. Who cares if my first is her 2nd or 3rd. And that’s why
The truth hurts but it’s real.
You proposed to a woman who had a child from a previous relationship.Posted by SuperSize9
I didn’t propose just for a piece of the cookie in the cookie jar. That may have been a little motivation but 2 years into a relationship and a possible beautiful little step daughter I’m all in for it. I don’t see me going anywhere and If she is Prego I wouldn’t be too upset.
Your own actions are the opposite of your advice. Which is unsolicited btw. Women neither requested nor want your outdated hypocritical approach to relationships.
Yes I have and I still will Marry a women with kids but if I had to pick between versions of my wife one with out a kid the 2nd with I’d go for option 1 every time. And I love my step kid. But that’s how men areclick to expand
Perhaps instead of wasting your time on strangers online you should be open and honest in your own relationship. Let your wife know that you would've preferred her child didn't exist and you fantasize about an alternate universe where her body count was lower and she was childless.
Also let her know that you are planning to fuck other women. 60 and counting...
Your so eager to tell women 'the truth' why don't you start with telling your wife your truth.
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