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Hi guys
I'm new to this and am looking for some relationship advice. Me and this virgo met 2 years ago at college and he was interested in me but I was already involved with someone else but on the verge of a break up. He was willing to wait for me but I told him he shouldn't wait as I wasn't coming back the following year anyways.. we hooked up though before I left and I had ended things with the guy I had been dating but didn't wanna make things official with virgo as I wasn't that much into him. Fast-forward to 2 years later, I have a child but am not together with the father, and he has a baby and is not with the mother. I reached out to him as I felt that I wanted to give us a shot and had always regretted not doing so earlier. my feelings for him weren't that strong but I've always known that he was a great guy. So anyways after reaching out to him 4 weeks ago we went out, and had a great time together. He came over to my place and we spent time together and got intimate. I then asked him whether he had been single when I reached out to him which is when he told me that he's involved with someone. He said he doesn't want to lose me but he also doesn't want to hurt her as she hasn't done anything to him so he'll distance himself from her slowly. He said he doesn't see a future with her and doesn't have strong feelings for her but is not a bad person to just ditch an 'innocent' girl like that. I agreed and told him I wasn't going anywhere.. he should do as he sees best. However now he goes days without calling and says he was with her and I should understand cause he told me he wasn't leaving her just like that. We got into an argument because I feel that he downplayed his relationship and his feelings for her. Now i'm starting to feel like he's not gonna leave her and is just using me as a backup plan incase things don't work out. I know him as a good guy but am now starting to doubt his intentions for me.
I'm new to this and am looking for some relationship advice. Me and this virgo met 2 years ago at college and he was interested in me but I was already involved with someone else but on the verge of a break up. He was willing to wait for me but I told him he shouldn't wait as I wasn't coming back the following year anyways.. we hooked up though before I left and I had ended things with the guy I had been dating but didn't wanna make things official with virgo as I wasn't that much into him. Fast-forward to 2 years later, I have a child but am not together with the father, and he has a baby and is not with the mother. I reached out to him as I felt that I wanted to give us a shot and had always regretted not doing so earlier. my feelings for him weren't that strong but I've always known that he was a great guy. So anyways after reaching out to him 4 weeks ago we went out, and had a great time together. He came over to my place and we spent time together and got intimate. I then asked him whether he had been single when I reached out to him which is when he told me that he's involved with someone. He said he doesn't want to lose me but he also doesn't want to hurt her as she hasn't done anything to him so he'll distance himself from her slowly. He said he doesn't see a future with her and doesn't have strong feelings for her but is not a bad person to just ditch an 'innocent' girl like that. I agreed and told him I wasn't going anywhere.. he should do as he sees best. However now he goes days without calling and says he was with her and I should understand cause he told me he wasn't leaving her just like that. We got into an argument because I feel that he downplayed his relationship and his feelings for her. Now i'm starting to feel like he's not gonna leave her and is just using me as a backup plan incase things don't work out. I know him as a good guy but am now starting to doubt his intentions for me.
I wouldn't bet on it.
Probably not but apparently virguys lead double lives...so maybe? But still doubt it...
This sounds like my friends with benefits guy. FYI virgo guys like the knight in shining armor/damsel in distress paradigm. As long as the innocent girl is making him feel needed, he is not going to leave her. At the same time, another girl can be someone he is considering a long term relationship with. Many virgo men live double lives like this. They will 'keep their fans'.
How you get him is how you lose him...
I would just leave him alone if I were you.
I would just leave him alone if I were you.
Ok. She is a good girl who hasn’t done anything bad to be punished by being dumped.
You...what are you? Why have you done to deserve to be waiting on him ‘just need to fuck her little longer before she is ready to be dumped...’
Please ask him what temperature that thermometer in her ass should be showing ‘ready’...
I don’t know why but I really am MAD!!!
You...what are you? Why have you done to deserve to be waiting on him ‘just need to fuck her little longer before she is ready to be dumped...’
Please ask him what temperature that thermometer in her ass should be showing ‘ready’...
I don’t know why but I really am MAD!!!
Yes he will. And then he will nag if you leave the pantyhose's on the floor until he gets bored of picking it up after you and leaves you.
Posted by GemCurioPosted by LostinmyMind11
Probably not but apparently virguys lead double lives...so maybe? But still doubt it...
That's so unfair. Virgos do not live double lives. This guy is just chasing his heart and at the same time trying to be a gentleman which makes no sense to me. At some point it will come to a head, and unless there are children involved I just don't see him staying where's he is at. You know we are very particular about what comes out of our mouths...click to expand
I'm just basing it off the 100s of posts thru out the years about virguys...I never dealt with one myself...so I have no clue.
Posted by GemCurioPosted by Gemitati
Ok. She is a good girl who hasn’t done anything bad to be punished by being dumped.
You...what are you? Why have you done to deserve to be waiting on him ‘just need to fuck her little longer before she is ready to be dumped...’
Please ask him what temperature that thermometer in her ass should be showing ‘ready’...
I don’t know why but I really am MAD!!!
Really— You're mad over this— Of ALL things... SMH..click to expand
I know right? Lol
It’s probably the fact how he is treating her as a dumbass...
I don’t know why but I want to punch bozo in a face!
Posted by GemCurioPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by GemCurioPosted by LostinmyMind11
Probably not but apparently virguys lead double lives...so maybe? But still doubt it...
That's so unfair. Virgos do not live double lives. This guy is just chasing his heart and at the same time trying to be a gentleman which makes no sense to me. At some point it will come to a head, and unless there are children involved I just don't see him staying where's he is at. You know we are very particular about what comes out of our mouths...
Every day is a war between reasoning and emotions. Both run strong throughout us and while most people share, and value others opinions, I think we are wired to figure out as much as we can independently before reaching out. Real loner Apha type stuff...
I'm just basing it off the 100s of posts thru out the years about virguys...I never dealt with one myself...so I have no clue.
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You don't have to tell me...I get it ♍
Posted by GemCurioPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by GemCurioPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by GemCurioPosted by LostinmyMind11
Probably not but apparently virguys lead double lives...so maybe? But still doubt it...
That's so unfair. Virgos do not live double lives. This guy is just chasing his heart and at the same time trying to be a gentleman which makes no sense to me. At some point it will come to a head, and unless there are children involved I just don't see him staying where's he is at. You know we are very particular about what comes out of our mouths...
Every day is a war between reasoning and emotions. Both run strong throughout us and while most people share, and value others opinions, I think we are wired to figure out as much as we can independently before reaching out. Real loner Apha type stuff...
I'm just basing it off the 100s of posts thru out the years about virguys...I never dealt with one myself...so I have no clue.
You don't have to tell me...I get it ♍
I know you do. What I write isn't really for your higher analytical mind. It's for those who aren't on the level and really become judgmental. I notice there are only like maybe 3 Virgo Guys on DXP.click to expand
There is probably more...they most likely lurk or afraid to give their sun sign out lol
Posted by GemCurioPosted by GemitatiPosted by GemCurioPosted by Gemitati
Ok. She is a good girl who hasn’t done anything bad to be punished by being dumped.
You...what are you? Why have you done to deserve to be waiting on him ‘just need to fuck her little longer before she is ready to be dumped...’
Please ask him what temperature that thermometer in her ass should be showing ‘ready’...
I don’t know why but I really am MAD!!!
Really— You're mad over this— Of ALL things... SMH..
I know right? Lol
It’s probably the fact how he is treating her as a dumbass...
I don’t know why but I want to punch bozo in a face!
You and her need to go shopping together or join the same Yoga Class. lol.. She should slap the hell out of your problem and you should flick hers in the throat...click to expand
I am feeling what you wanted to say but you couldn’t write or well...
And to your info - I wasn’t promised anything except ‘let’s take the edge off and will see what’s gonna happen🙂’
So what I am doing I am doing willingly...
And if I am fooling myself - I am doing it willingly!
In OPs case fucking Virgo just keeping 2 pussies!!! And think he can do it forever...
You slept with him when he had a gf in college. Idk why you would expect his behavior to change suddenly. Especially seeing your behavior stays the same.
Posted by Gemitati
Ok. She is a good girl who hasn’t done anything bad to be punished by being dumped.
You...what are you? Why have you done to deserve to be waiting on him ‘just need to fuck her little longer before she is ready to be dumped...’
Please ask him what temperature that thermometer in her ass should be showing ‘ready’...
I don’t know why but I really am MAD!!!
Exactly this. Now apply your words to your situation. What have you done over the last 9 years that you deserve to wait on the Scorpio to dump his wife for you.
Do better.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Gemitati
Ok. She is a good girl who hasn’t done anything bad to be punished by being dumped.
You...what are you? Why have you done to deserve to be waiting on him ‘just need to fuck her little longer before she is ready to be dumped...’
Please ask him what temperature that thermometer in her ass should be showing ‘ready’...
I don’t know why but I really am MAD!!!
Exactly this. Now apply your words to your situation. What have you done over the last 9 years that you deserve to wait on the Scorpio to dump his wife for you.
Do better.click to expand
It’s my choice! He never promised me anything. Nothing I need to apply! I am not complaining. Just talking. So far my tears are mine and my laughs are mine. And this the way I am living it!
And believe it or not while I was typing that message I KNEW you will say just THAT!
And I do have sins to pay for.
She is just taken for a fool! He promising crap. And I hate it!
Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Gemitati
Ok. She is a good girl who hasn’t done anything bad to be punished by being dumped.
You...what are you? Why have you done to deserve to be waiting on him ‘just need to fuck her little longer before she is ready to be dumped...’
Please ask him what temperature that thermometer in her ass should be showing ‘ready’...
I don’t know why but I really am MAD!!!
Exactly this. Now apply your words to your situation. What have you done over the last 9 years that you deserve to wait on the Scorpio to dump his wife for you.
Do better.
It’s my choice! He never promised me anything. Nothing I need to apply! I am not complaining. Just talking. So far my tears are mine and my laughs are mine. And this the way I am living it!
And believe it or not while I was typing that message I KNEW you will say just THAT!
And I do have sins to pay for.
She is just taken for a fool! He promising crap. And I hate it!
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He didn’t promise her shit. Actually he went a step further and told her he isn’t going to break up with the gf and still wants the side pussy.
If your gonna feel outraged over this feel some outrage for your own situation. It’s exactly the same. Only you’ve been pathetic enough to accept crumbs for 9 years.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Gemitati
Ok. She is a good girl who hasn’t done anything bad to be punished by being dumped.
You...what are you? Why have you done to deserve to be waiting on him ‘just need to fuck her little longer before she is ready to be dumped...’
Please ask him what temperature that thermometer in her ass should be showing ‘ready’...
I don’t know why but I really am MAD!!!
Exactly this. Now apply your words to your situation. What have you done over the last 9 years that you deserve to wait on the Scorpio to dump his wife for you.
Do better.
It’s my choice! He never promised me anything. Nothing I need to apply! I am not complaining. Just talking. So far my tears are mine and my laughs are mine. And this the way I am living it!
And believe it or not while I was typing that message I KNEW you will say just THAT!
And I do have sins to pay for.
She is just taken for a fool! He promising crap. And I hate it!
He didn’t promise her shit. Actually he went a step further and told her he isn’t going to break up with the gf and still wants the side pussy.
If your gonna feel outraged over this feel some outrage for your own situation. It’s exactly the same. Only you’ve been pathetic enough to accept crumbs for 9 years.click to expand
You need better reading comprehension!
He said HE WILL LEAVE gf for her but she is nice and he wants to leave her ‘in portions’...
And why can’t you stop fucking with my situation? It fascinates you isntnit? And you don’t even know half of it! If you did - you would probably...do something dispeakable...dork!
I love you anyway! It’s like you are my number 1 fan!
How have you been when I weren’t here? No idea...
Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Gemitati
Ok. She is a good girl who hasn’t done anything bad to be punished by being dumped.
You...what are you? Why have you done to deserve to be waiting on him ‘just need to fuck her little longer before she is ready to be dumped...’
Please ask him what temperature that thermometer in her ass should be showing ‘ready’...
I don’t know why but I really am MAD!!!
Exactly this. Now apply your words to your situation. What have you done over the last 9 years that you deserve to wait on the Scorpio to dump his wife for you.
Do better.
It’s my choice! He never promised me anything. Nothing I need to apply! I am not complaining. Just talking. So far my tears are mine and my laughs are mine. And this the way I am living it!
And believe it or not while I was typing that message I KNEW you will say just THAT!
And I do have sins to pay for.
She is just taken for a fool! He promising crap. And I hate it!
He didn’t promise her shit. Actually he went a step further and told her he isn’t going to break up with the gf and still wants the side pussy.
If your gonna feel outraged over this feel some outrage for your own situation. It’s exactly the same. Only you’ve been pathetic enough to accept crumbs for 9 years.
You need better reading comprehension!
He said HE WILL LEAVE gf for her but she is nice and he wants to leave her ‘in portions’...
And why can’t you stop fucking with my situation? It fascinates you isntnit? And you don’t even know half of it! If you did - you would probably...do something dispeakable...dork!
I love you anyway! It’s like you are my number 1 fan!
How have you been when I weren’t here? No idea...click to expand
Put your glasses on granny. He said he WOULDN’T leave the gf for her.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Gemitati
Ok. She is a good girl who hasn’t done anything bad to be punished by being dumped.
You...what are you? Why have you done to deserve to be waiting on him ‘just need to fuck her little longer before she is ready to be dumped...’
Please ask him what temperature that thermometer in her ass should be showing ‘ready’...
I don’t know why but I really am MAD!!!
Exactly this. Now apply your words to your situation. What have you done over the last 9 years that you deserve to wait on the Scorpio to dump his wife for you.
Do better.
It’s my choice! He never promised me anything. Nothing I need to apply! I am not complaining. Just talking. So far my tears are mine and my laughs are mine. And this the way I am living it!
And believe it or not while I was typing that message I KNEW you will say just THAT!
And I do have sins to pay for.
She is just taken for a fool! He promising crap. And I hate it!
He didn’t promise her shit. Actually he went a step further and told her he isn’t going to break up with the gf and still wants the side pussy.
If your gonna feel outraged over this feel some outrage for your own situation. It’s exactly the same. Only you’ve been pathetic enough to accept crumbs for 9 years.
You need better reading comprehension!
He said HE WILL LEAVE gf for her but she is nice and he wants to leave her ‘in portions’...
And why can’t you stop fucking with my situation? It fascinates you isntnit? And you don’t even know half of it! If you did - you would probably...do something dispeakable...dork!
I love you anyway! It’s like you are my number 1 fan!
How have you been when I weren’t here? No idea...
Put your glasses on granny. He said he WOULDN’T leave the gf for her.click to expand
He said he can’t dump her right away but he will be...graduately...
Whatever...I have my own shitbto deal with! You don’t so you dealing with all Dxp shit at the same time.
Posted by GemCurioPosted by LostinmyMind11
Probably not but apparently virguys lead double lives...so maybe? But still doubt it...
That's so unfair. Virgos do not live double lives. This guy is just chasing his heart and at the same time trying to be a gentleman which makes no sense to me. At some point it will come to a head, and unless there are children involved I just don't see him staying where's he is at. You know we are very particular about what comes out of our mouths...click to expand
Yes. They. Do.
Posted by ubuntu888
Hi guys
I'm new to this and am looking for some relationship advice. Me and this virgo met 2 years ago at college and he was interested in me but I was already involved with someone else but on the verge of a break up. He was willing to wait for me but I told him he shouldn't wait as I wasn't coming back the following year anyways.. we hooked up though before I left and I had ended things with the guy I had been dating but didn't wanna make things official with virgo as I wasn't that much into him. Fast-forward to 2 years later, I have a child but am not together with the father, and he has a baby and is not with the mother. I reached out to him as I felt that I wanted to give us a shot and had always regretted not doing so earlier. my feelings for him weren't that strong but I've always known that he was a great guy. So anyways after reaching out to him 4 weeks ago we went out, and had a great time together. He came over to my place and we spent time together and got intimate. I then asked him whether he had been single when I reached out to him which is when he told me that he's involved with someone. He said he doesn't want to lose me but he also doesn't want to hurt her as she hasn't done anything to him so he'll distance himself from her slowly. He said he doesn't see a future with her and doesn't have strong feelings for her but is not a bad person to just ditch an 'innocent' girl like that. I agreed and told him I wasn't going anywhere.. he should do as he sees best. However now he goes days without calling and says he was with her and I should understand cause he told me he wasn't leaving her just like that. We got into an argument because I feel that he downplayed his relationship and his feelings for her. Now i'm starting to feel like he's not gonna leave her and is just using me as a backup plan incase things don't work out. I know him as a good guy but am now starting to doubt his intentions for me.
If you knew anything about astrology, I would ask you to post the synastry in order to give you some astro based probability.
However, all I have is commonsense, age, and wisdom at my dispense at the moment.
So, the answer is no. Let me tell you why.
#1. He waited until after fucking you to tell you he was in a relationship. He had all evening and waited. That shows you where his focus was.
#2. He never had to tell you he was in a relationship. So, why did he? Because, the sex wasn't worth risking you wanting more. But, it was good enough to put you on hold with a promise for tomorrow.
#3. If he is capable of fucking you at 1st reacquaintance, after not seeing you for 3 years, while in a relationship with an "innocent" girl that he doesn't love, what else is he capable of?
#4. He doesn't love her. So no problem breaking her heart, right? But, he doesn't love you either. So, who gives a fuck. Let the chips fall where the may.
#5. Notice he calls her "innocent." Which implies what about you? You're not "innocent." Innocent means that she hasn't done anything wrong to him. Which implies you have.
#6. What have you done so wrong that... when deciding between two women, who are both giving him pussy, neither he loves, and are willing to take anything for a relationship regardless of whether he loves them or not.... he wouldn't choose you? a). She at least loves him; and/or b.) You don't love him; and/or c.) You made him the same promises as he is making you but, to add insult to injury, you "wasn't that much into him." Even after dumping your other guy. Even after dumping your other guy, you still didn't choose him.
And now, here you are getting into arguements with this dude that you don't love, who doesn't love you because "you feel that he downplayed his relationship and his feelings for her."
I don't think he is downing playing the relationship. I don't think he's using you as a backup plan incase things don't work out."
Although my answer is still no, he will not leave her, and although time will tell... I think it's revenge and/or he feels he can do it to you because you did the same to him.
Sounds logical... cause Virgos lead with logic. It's a mathematical equation. And, he ain't lied none.
He may indeed leave her for you.
I've seen it happen with virgo men and women.
Virgos suffer from the same things that all earth signs struggle with. Duty, Love, Responsibility
He may feel responsible for this girl but could have genuine feelings for you.
Be wary of mutables and the ability to lead double lives.
Virgos will comfortably operate in the gray area until they have made a decision.
That means, hes gonna date you both.
Just be mindful that hes is the type to keep secrets and withhold information unless you ask a specific question.
Virgos fix themselves by themselves.
So try appearing like you need help, their help.
They are the sign of service
I've seen it happen with virgo men and women.
Virgos suffer from the same things that all earth signs struggle with. Duty, Love, Responsibility
He may feel responsible for this girl but could have genuine feelings for you.
Be wary of mutables and the ability to lead double lives.
Virgos will comfortably operate in the gray area until they have made a decision.
That means, hes gonna date you both.
Just be mindful that hes is the type to keep secrets and withhold information unless you ask a specific question.
Virgos fix themselves by themselves.
So try appearing like you need help, their help.
They are the sign of service
Posted by Waterbearerwearer
This is annoying af bcos she will get played and the gf will be wounded.
That’s 2 women casualities. Fk that.
Once upon a time, along time ago, approximately two years ago, it was a two man casualty.
Posted by LadyNeptune
You slept with him when he had a gf in college. Idk why you would expect his behavior to change suddenly. Especially seeing your behavior stays the same.
No he didn't have a girlfriend in college
Posted by Arielle83
Ya I change my mind. I hope he picks you.
Nice, and innocent girls shouldn’t be stuck with two loose breeder skanks fucking each other behind her back.
You’ll prob get knocked up just to keep him once u get fed up of waiting
You sound real mad for whatever reason... Stop taking life so seriously.
Posted by greylatern
Yes he will. I understand is predicament and mentality. Tell him this. Everyday of her time you waste of hers she could be with a better match. She could have come across a awesome guy yesterday but was trying to be loyal so blew him off. Breaking up sucks but she will live and even hurt will respect your honesty. Another words tell him to look at the big picture. Your basically cock blocking her. :-)
Lol.. If I choose to fight for him I'll apply this but I do think it's better for everyone involved if I just walk away. If we're meant to try for a relationship another opportunity will present itself where there's no third party involved.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Gemitati
Ok. She is a good girl who hasn’t done anything bad to be punished by being dumped.
You...what are you? Why have you done to deserve to be waiting on him ‘just need to fuck her little longer before she is ready to be dumped...’
Please ask him what temperature that thermometer in her ass should be showing ‘ready’...
I don’t know why but I really am MAD!!!
Exactly this. Now apply your words to your situation. What have you done over the last 9 years that you deserve to wait on the Scorpio to dump his wife for you.
Do better.
It’s my choice! He never promised me anything. Nothing I need to apply! I am not complaining. Just talking. So far my tears are mine and my laughs are mine. And this the way I am living it!
And believe it or not while I was typing that message I KNEW you will say just THAT!
And I do have sins to pay for.
She is just taken for a fool! He promising crap. And I hate it!
He didn’t promise her shit. Actually he went a step further and told her he isn’t going to break up with the gf and still wants the side pussy.
If your gonna feel outraged over this feel some outrage for your own situation. It’s exactly the same. Only you’ve been pathetic enough to accept crumbs for 9 years.click to expand
He actually did promise to leave her.. gradually. but whatever
Posted by i-xy
Yes and no.
If he is seeing you while with another person, i'm guessing he's enjoying his variety.
Let live.
Lol.. live and let live! problem is I'm very possessive and don't like sharing my guy.. so this breaking up with her gradually thing is really weighing hard on me.. as much as I've developed some strong feelings for him I cannot put up with that.
Posted by GemCurio
Simply put, we always do what we say regardless of whether it makes sense or goes against are morals or better judgment. If he says he's going to leave her he will. There's no need to push him or try to pull him. Believe me, if he had no intentions of being with you he would've just made up some lie, try to get in your knickers a 2nd time, and ran. I know it sounds a bit extreme, but only angels can be demons, and we have a side that's just as broken, hurt, raging, and cruel as everyone else does. Be patient. Has it been 60 days yet before you already feeling this way—
No. I did however write him a lenghty email telling him about how I feel about this whole situation. In the email I basically said I feel like I'm not that important to him since he can go a whole day without checking up on me. I told him I don't want to bring a man around my child who's not in it for the long haul. I told him I'm possessive and don't think I can wait for him to slowly end things with her. He never replied to my email that day and when I asked him if he got it later that day he said he read it but was still processing everything I wrote and that he was gonna talk about it the following day once he was done processing everything. We ended up discussing everything though as I believe I was pushing him to respond right away.. i'm pretty impatient.. which is when he said he doesn't think I understood when he said he's ending things gradually with her so they are still spending time together and when he doesn't call its because she's around. He said she's trying really hard to make it work so he doesn't want to hurt her by just breaking it to her. He said she's very innocent and any guy would want her but he just doesn't see them working out in the long run cause he doesn't have strong feelings for her.. but she is a nice girl and he doesn't want to bring himself bad luck by hurting her. He said I need to be patient. I feel like it's all bull!
Posted by FlashlightVrgn
Scorpio I'm assuming? Please, please move on. Please.
No.. Libra
Posted by ubuntu888Posted by Arielle83
Ya I change my mind. I hope he picks you.
Nice, and innocent girls shouldn’t be stuck with two loose breeder skanks fucking each other behind her back.
You’ll prob get knocked up just to keep him once u get fed up of waiting
You sound real mad for whatever reason... Stop taking life so seriously.
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Lol don't worry about it, she's just mad she's alive. You'll get used to it, everyone else has.
Now the first thing you need to know about Virgos is to not push them to do anything. Being clingy, writing up essays to tell them how you feel left out because he doesn't check in daily will have him reaching for an oxygen mask.
Virgos need some solitude in order to recharge their mental/emotional batteries & relax their hectic brain. Not everything is about you.
As a Virgo mooner myself & having sorta-waited on a mostly-straight Virgo man for the past 4 years, I can safely say you're not making a great case for yourself in his eyes. A Virgo's life can be stressful enough as it is without someone else adding to it. It's one of the worst things you can do to him.
Posted by GemCurioPosted by LostinmyMind11
Probably not but apparently virguys lead double lives...so maybe? But still doubt it...
That's so unfair. Virgos do not live double lives. This guy is just chasing his heart and at the same time trying to be a gentleman which makes no sense to me. At some point it will come to a head, and unless there are children involved I just don't see him staying where's he is at. You know we are very particular about what comes out of our mouths...click to expand
I just don't know whether to wait for him or to let go. I do think he's a great catch though and don't want to just give up on him... especially cause he was so patient with me when we were in college. I just hate knowing that he's involved with someone else cause I've developed some strong feelings for him and I get jealous pretty easily
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by Arielle83
Ya I change my mind. I hope he picks you.
Nice, and innocent girls shouldn’t be stuck with two loose breeder skanks fucking each other behind her back.
You’ll prob get knocked up just to keep him once u get fed up of waiting
You sound real mad for whatever reason... Stop taking life so seriously.
Lol don't worry about it, she's just mad she's alive. You'll get used to it, everyone else has.
Now the first thing you need to know about Virgos is to not push them to do anything. Being clingy, writing up essays to tell them how you feel left out because he doesn't check in daily will have him reaching for an oxygen mask.
Virgos need some solitude in order to recharge their mental/emotional batteries & relax their hectic brain. Not everything is about you.
As a Virgo mooner myself & having sorta-waited on a mostly-straight Virgo man for the past 4 years, I can safely say you're not making a great case for yourself in his eyes. A Virgo's life can be stressful enough as it is without someone else adding to it. It's one of the worst things you can do to him.click to expand
So I should just give him space instead? I was thinking putting in a little bit of effort instead of just leaving.. like take him out, spend some time and remind him why he fell in love with me in the first place.. but I dunno
Posted by greylaternPosted by ubuntu888Posted by FlashlightVrgn
Scorpio I'm assuming? Please, please move on. Please.
No.. Libra
Libra is no surprise. You seem rather matter a fact about all this.
I'm curious. What is you Venus and moon?click to expand
I have no idea.. how do I find out?
Posted by virgal_perfectionist
How you get him is how you lose him...
I would just leave him alone if I were you.
True. and I guess his feelings for me are not a good enough reason for him to leave her.
Posted by ubuntu888Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by Arielle83
Ya I change my mind. I hope he picks you.
Nice, and innocent girls shouldn’t be stuck with two loose breeder skanks fucking each other behind her back.
You’ll prob get knocked up just to keep him once u get fed up of waiting
You sound real mad for whatever reason... Stop taking life so seriously.
Lol don't worry about it, she's just mad she's alive. You'll get used to it, everyone else has.
Now the first thing you need to know about Virgos is to not push them to do anything. Being clingy, writing up essays to tell them how you feel left out because he doesn't check in daily will have him reaching for an oxygen mask.
Virgos need some solitude in order to recharge their mental/emotional batteries & relax their hectic brain. Not everything is about you.
As a Virgo mooner myself & having sorta-waited on a mostly-straight Virgo man for the past 4 years, I can safely say you're not making a great case for yourself in his eyes. A Virgo's life can be stressful enough as it is without someone else adding to it. It's one of the worst things you can do to him.
So I should just give him space instead? I was thinking putting in a little bit of effort instead of just leaving.. like take him out, spend some time and remind him why he fell in love with me in the first place.. but I dunnoclick to expand
That would depend on his level of annoyance with you at this stage. If your sight or presence aggravates him rather than make him glad, it might make things worse.
I would play it safe & send a text where you keep it short & sweet. Don't go on about how you feel, just let him know you'll be glad to hear from him when he's ready. If he cares about you in the slightest, he'll get in touch sooner or later.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by Arielle83
Ya I change my mind. I hope he picks you.
Nice, and innocent girls shouldn’t be stuck with two loose breeder skanks fucking each other behind her back.
You’ll prob get knocked up just to keep him once u get fed up of waiting
You sound real mad for whatever reason... Stop taking life so seriously.
Lol don't worry about it, she's just mad she's alive. You'll get used to it, everyone else has.
Now the first thing you need to know about Virgos is to not push them to do anything. Being clingy, writing up essays to tell them how you feel left out because he doesn't check in daily will have him reaching for an oxygen mask.
Virgos need some solitude in order to recharge their mental/emotional batteries & relax their hectic brain. Not everything is about you.
As a Virgo mooner myself & having sorta-waited on a mostly-straight Virgo man for the past 4 years, I can safely say you're not making a great case for yourself in his eyes. A Virgo's life can be stressful enough as it is without someone else adding to it. It's one of the worst things you can do to him.
So I should just give him space instead? I was thinking putting in a little bit of effort instead of just leaving.. like take him out, spend some time and remind him why he fell in love with me in the first place.. but I dunno
That would depend on his level of annoyance with you at this stage. If your sight or presence aggravates him rather than make him glad, it might make things worse.
I would play it safe & send a text where you keep it short & sweet. Don't go on about how you feel, just let him know you'll be glad to hear from him when he's ready. If he cares about you in the slightest, he'll get in touch sooner or later.click to expand
I get you. I guess ama just wait for him to say something first.. if he does than i'll tell him i'll hear from him when he's ready.. if he doesn't then ama just leave it alone and let him go about his life
Posted by Fallen2PiscesPosted by ubuntu888Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by Arielle83
Ya I change my mind. I hope he picks you.
Nice, and innocent girls shouldn’t be stuck with two loose breeder skanks fucking each other behind her back.
You’ll prob get knocked up just to keep him once u get fed up of waiting
You sound real mad for whatever reason... Stop taking life so seriously.
Lol don't worry about it, she's just mad she's alive. You'll get used to it, everyone else has.
Now the first thing you need to know about Virgos is to not push them to do anything. Being clingy, writing up essays to tell them how you feel left out because he doesn't check in daily will have him reaching for an oxygen mask.
Virgos need some solitude in order to recharge their mental/emotional batteries & relax their hectic brain. Not everything is about you.
As a Virgo mooner myself & having sorta-waited on a mostly-straight Virgo man for the past 4 years, I can safely say you're not making a great case for yourself in his eyes. A Virgo's life can be stressful enough as it is without someone else adding to it. It's one of the worst things you can do to him.
So I should just give him space instead? I was thinking putting in a little bit of effort instead of just leaving.. like take him out, spend some time and remind him why he fell in love with me in the first place.. but I dunno
That would depend on his level of annoyance with you at this stage. If your sight or presence aggravates him rather than make him glad, it might make things worse.
I would play it safe & send a text where you keep it short & sweet. Don't go on about how you feel, just let him know you'll be glad to hear from him when he's ready. If he cares about you in the slightest, he'll get in touch sooner or later.
I get you. I guess ama just wait for him to say something first.. if he does than i'll tell him i'll hear from him when he's ready.. if he doesn't then ama just leave it alone and let him go about his life
IM SOO CONFUSED ON YOUR CURRENT SITUATION LOL....click to expand
Girl meets boy...both in relationship
They hookup.
Years later they both reacquaint and hookup again. Boy tells girl he’s in a relationship. And won’t leave his “goodgirl”
Other girl is annoyed and confused.
Now she wants more even tho she knew BEFORE the last hookup the was involved
🤷🏽♀️ Tale as old as time
Posted by EarthyPosted by Fallen2PiscesPosted by ubuntu888Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by Arielle83
Ya I change my mind. I hope he picks you.
Nice, and innocent girls shouldn’t be stuck with two loose breeder skanks fucking each other behind her back.
You’ll prob get knocked up just to keep him once u get fed up of waiting
You sound real mad for whatever reason... Stop taking life so seriously.
Lol don't worry about it, she's just mad she's alive. You'll get used to it, everyone else has.
Now the first thing you need to know about Virgos is to not push them to do anything. Being clingy, writing up essays to tell them how you feel left out because he doesn't check in daily will have him reaching for an oxygen mask.
Virgos need some solitude in order to recharge their mental/emotional batteries & relax their hectic brain. Not everything is about you.
As a Virgo mooner myself & having sorta-waited on a mostly-straight Virgo man for the past 4 years, I can safely say you're not making a great case for yourself in his eyes. A Virgo's life can be stressful enough as it is without someone else adding to it. It's one of the worst things you can do to him.
So I should just give him space instead? I was thinking putting in a little bit of effort instead of just leaving.. like take him out, spend some time and remind him why he fell in love with me in the first place.. but I dunno
That would depend on his level of annoyance with you at this stage. If your sight or presence aggravates him rather than make him glad, it might make things worse.
I would play it safe & send a text where you keep it short & sweet. Don't go on about how you feel, just let him know you'll be glad to hear from him when he's ready. If he cares about you in the slightest, he'll get in touch sooner or later.
I get you. I guess ama just wait for him to say something first.. if he does than i'll tell him i'll hear from him when he's ready.. if he doesn't then ama just leave it alone and let him go about his life
IM SOO CONFUSED ON YOUR CURRENT SITUATION LOL....
Girl meets boy...both in relationship
They hookup.
Years later they both reacquaint and hookup again. Boy tells girl he’s in a relationship. And won’t leave his “goodgirl”
Other girl is annoyed and confused.
Now she wants more even tho she knew BEFORE the last hookup the was involved
🤷🏽♀️ Tale as old as time
click to expand
Why did you even respond cause clearly you are just as confused!
Posted by ubuntu888Posted by EarthyPosted by Fallen2PiscesPosted by ubuntu888Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by Arielle83
Ya I change my mind. I hope he picks you.
Nice, and innocent girls shouldn’t be stuck with two loose breeder skanks fucking each other behind her back.
You’ll prob get knocked up just to keep him once u get fed up of waiting
You sound real mad for whatever reason... Stop taking life so seriously.
Lol don't worry about it, she's just mad she's alive. You'll get used to it, everyone else has.
Now the first thing you need to know about Virgos is to not push them to do anything. Being clingy, writing up essays to tell them how you feel left out because he doesn't check in daily will have him reaching for an oxygen mask.
Virgos need some solitude in order to recharge their mental/emotional batteries & relax their hectic brain. Not everything is about you.
As a Virgo mooner myself & having sorta-waited on a mostly-straight Virgo man for the past 4 years, I can safely say you're not making a great case for yourself in his eyes. A Virgo's life can be stressful enough as it is without someone else adding to it. It's one of the worst things you can do to him.
So I should just give him space instead? I was thinking putting in a little bit of effort instead of just leaving.. like take him out, spend some time and remind him why he fell in love with me in the first place.. but I dunno
That would depend on his level of annoyance with you at this stage. If your sight or presence aggravates him rather than make him glad, it might make things worse.
I would play it safe & send a text where you keep it short & sweet. Don't go on about how you feel, just let him know you'll be glad to hear from him when he's ready. If he cares about you in the slightest, he'll get in touch sooner or later.
I get you. I guess ama just wait for him to say something first.. if he does than i'll tell him i'll hear from him when he's ready.. if he doesn't then ama just leave it alone and let him go about his life
IM SOO CONFUSED ON YOUR CURRENT SITUATION LOL....
Girl meets boy...both in relationship
They hookup.
Years later they both reacquaint and hookup again. Boy tells girl he’s in a relationship. And won’t leave his “goodgirl”
Other girl is annoyed and confused.
Now she wants more even tho she knew BEFORE the last hookup the was involved
🤷🏽♀️ Tale as old as time
Why did you even respond cause clearly you are just as confused!click to expand
🤔did I miss a important detail—? Did I say something that didn’t happen—?
I thought I was just cutting through the bullshit-
Posted by EarthyPosted by ubuntu888Posted by EarthyPosted by Fallen2PiscesPosted by ubuntu888Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by Arielle83
Ya I change my mind. I hope he picks you.
Nice, and innocent girls shouldn’t be stuck with two loose breeder skanks fucking each other behind her back.
You’ll prob get knocked up just to keep him once u get fed up of waiting
You sound real mad for whatever reason... Stop taking life so seriously.
Lol don't worry about it, she's just mad she's alive. You'll get used to it, everyone else has.
Now the first thing you need to know about Virgos is to not push them to do anything. Being clingy, writing up essays to tell them how you feel left out because he doesn't check in daily will have him reaching for an oxygen mask.
Virgos need some solitude in order to recharge their mental/emotional batteries & relax their hectic brain. Not everything is about you.
As a Virgo mooner myself & having sorta-waited on a mostly-straight Virgo man for the past 4 years, I can safely say you're not making a great case for yourself in his eyes. A Virgo's life can be stressful enough as it is without someone else adding to it. It's one of the worst things you can do to him.
So I should just give him space instead? I was thinking putting in a little bit of effort instead of just leaving.. like take him out, spend some time and remind him why he fell in love with me in the first place.. but I dunno
That would depend on his level of annoyance with you at this stage. If your sight or presence aggravates him rather than make him glad, it might make things worse.
I would play it safe & send a text where you keep it short & sweet. Don't go on about how you feel, just let him know you'll be glad to hear from him when he's ready. If he cares about you in the slightest, he'll get in touch sooner or later.
I get you. I guess ama just wait for him to say something first.. if he does than i'll tell him i'll hear from him when he's ready.. if he doesn't then ama just leave it alone and let him go about his life
IM SOO CONFUSED ON YOUR CURRENT SITUATION LOL....
Girl meets boy...both in relationship
They hookup.
Years later they both reacquaint and hookup again. Boy tells girl he’s in a relationship. And won’t leave his “goodgirl”
Other girl is annoyed and confused.
Now she wants more even tho she knew BEFORE the last hookup the was involved
🤷🏽♀️ Tale as old as time
Why did you even respond cause clearly you are just as confused!
🤔did I miss a important detail—? Did I say something that didn’t happen—?
I thought I was just cutting through the bullshit-click to expand
Yes to both your questions! Don't know where you read that
Posted by ubuntu888Posted by EarthyPosted by ubuntu888Posted by EarthyPosted by Fallen2PiscesPosted by ubuntu888Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by Arielle83
Ya I change my mind. I hope he picks you.
Nice, and innocent girls shouldn’t be stuck with two loose breeder skanks fucking each other behind her back.
You’ll prob get knocked up just to keep him once u get fed up of waiting
You sound real mad for whatever reason... Stop taking life so seriously.
Lol don't worry about it, she's just mad she's alive. You'll get used to it, everyone else has.
Now the first thing you need to know about Virgos is to not push them to do anything. Being clingy, writing up essays to tell them how you feel left out because he doesn't check in daily will have him reaching for an oxygen mask.
Virgos need some solitude in order to recharge their mental/emotional batteries & relax their hectic brain. Not everything is about you.
As a Virgo mooner myself & having sorta-waited on a mostly-straight Virgo man for the past 4 years, I can safely say you're not making a great case for yourself in his eyes. A Virgo's life can be stressful enough as it is without someone else adding to it. It's one of the worst things you can do to him.
So I should just give him space instead? I was thinking putting in a little bit of effort instead of just leaving.. like take him out, spend some time and remind him why he fell in love with me in the first place.. but I dunno
That would depend on his level of annoyance with you at this stage. If your sight or presence aggravates him rather than make him glad, it might make things worse.
I would play it safe & send a text where you keep it short & sweet. Don't go on about how you feel, just let him know you'll be glad to hear from him when he's ready. If he cares about you in the slightest, he'll get in touch sooner or later.
I get you. I guess ama just wait for him to say something first.. if he does than i'll tell him i'll hear from him when he's ready.. if he doesn't then ama just leave it alone and let him go about his life
IM SOO CONFUSED ON YOUR CURRENT SITUATION LOL....
Girl meets boy...both in relationship
They hookup.
Years later they both reacquaint and hookup again. Boy tells girl he’s in a relationship. And won’t leave his “goodgirl”
Other girl is annoyed and confused.
Now she wants more even tho she knew BEFORE the last hookup the was involved
🤷🏽♀️ Tale as old as time
Why did you even respond cause clearly you are just as confused!
🤔did I miss a important detail—? Did I say something that didn’t happen—?
I thought I was just cutting through the bullshit-
Yes to both your questions! Don't know where you read thatclick to expand
Ok I see now...so he told u after the hookup🤷🏽♀️
But I was correct when I assumed u were tolerating him having a girl—-No??
Like were u waiting? And did u hookup after u already knew— Guess I assumed u continued. Either way my bad girl
Posted by Fallen2PiscesPosted by ubuntu888Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by Arielle83
Ya I change my mind. I hope he picks you.
Nice, and innocent girls shouldn’t be stuck with two loose breeder skanks fucking each other behind her back.
You’ll prob get knocked up just to keep him once u get fed up of waiting
You sound real mad for whatever reason... Stop taking life so seriously.
Lol don't worry about it, she's just mad she's alive. You'll get used to it, everyone else has.
Now the first thing you need to know about Virgos is to not push them to do anything. Being clingy, writing up essays to tell them how you feel left out because he doesn't check in daily will have him reaching for an oxygen mask.
Virgos need some solitude in order to recharge their mental/emotional batteries & relax their hectic brain. Not everything is about you.
As a Virgo mooner myself & having sorta-waited on a mostly-straight Virgo man for the past 4 years, I can safely say you're not making a great case for yourself in his eyes. A Virgo's life can be stressful enough as it is without someone else adding to it. It's one of the worst things you can do to him.
So I should just give him space instead? I was thinking putting in a little bit of effort instead of just leaving.. like take him out, spend some time and remind him why he fell in love with me in the first place.. but I dunno
That would depend on his level of annoyance with you at this stage. If your sight or presence aggravates him rather than make him glad, it might make things worse.
I would play it safe & send a text where you keep it short & sweet. Don't go on about how you feel, just let him know you'll be glad to hear from him when he's ready. If he cares about you in the slightest, he'll get in touch sooner or later.
I get you. I guess ama just wait for him to say something first.. if he does than i'll tell him i'll hear from him when he's ready.. if he doesn't then ama just leave it alone and let him go about his life
IM SOO CONFUSED ON YOUR CURRENT SITUATION LOL....click to expand
The current situation is that I suggested I take a step back from getting involved with him since i'm having trouble waiting on him to slowly end things with her and I told him that knowing me and how impatient I am i'll keep asking whether he has ended it yet and that might annoy him and lead to disagreements. He agreed and said for my sake he thinks its better I do that cause he can see I can't handle this whole thing as it is and he apologized for making me feel unattended to... so to be quite honest i'm not really sure where we stand. But we haven't spoken for 2 days
Posted by EarthyPosted by ubuntu888Posted by EarthyPosted by ubuntu888Posted by EarthyPosted by Fallen2PiscesPosted by ubuntu888Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by ubuntu888Posted by Arielle83
Ya I change my mind. I hope he picks you.
Nice, and innocent girls shouldn’t be stuck with two loose breeder skanks fucking each other behind her back.
You’ll prob get knocked up just to keep him once u get fed up of waiting
You sound real mad for whatever reason... Stop taking life so seriously.
Lol don't worry about it, she's just mad she's alive. You'll get used to it, everyone else has.
Now the first thing you need to know about Virgos is to not push them to do anything. Being clingy, writing up essays to tell them how you feel left out because he doesn't check in daily will have him reaching for an oxygen mask.
Virgos need some solitude in order to recharge their mental/emotional batteries & relax their hectic brain. Not everything is about you.
As a Virgo mooner myself & having sorta-waited on a mostly-straight Virgo man for the past 4 years, I can safely say you're not making a great case for yourself in his eyes. A Virgo's life can be stressful enough as it is without someone else adding to it. It's one of the worst things you can do to him.
So I should just give him space instead? I was thinking putting in a little bit of effort instead of just leaving.. like take him out, spend some time and remind him why he fell in love with me in the first place.. but I dunno
That would depend on his level of annoyance with you at this stage. If your sight or presence aggravates him rather than make him glad, it might make things worse.
I would play it safe & send a text where you keep it short & sweet. Don't go on about how you feel, just let him know you'll be glad to hear from him when he's ready. If he cares about you in the slightest, he'll get in touch sooner or later.
I get you. I guess ama just wait for him to say something first.. if he does than i'll tell him i'll hear from him when he's ready.. if he doesn't then ama just leave it alone and let him go about his life
IM SOO CONFUSED ON YOUR CURRENT SITUATION LOL....
Girl meets boy...both in relationship
They hookup.
Years later they both reacquaint and hookup again. Boy tells girl he’s in a relationship. And won’t leave his “goodgirl”
Other girl is annoyed and confused.
Now she wants more even tho she knew BEFORE the last hookup the was involved
🤷🏽♀️ Tale as old as time
Why did you even respond cause clearly you are just as confused!
🤔did I miss a important detail—? Did I say something that didn’t happen—?
I thought I was just cutting through the bullshit-
Yes to both your questions! Don't know where you read that
Ok I see now...so he told u after the hookup🤷🏽♀️
But I was correct when I assumed u were tolerating him having a girl—-No??
Like were u waiting? And did u hookup after u already knew— Guess I assumed u continued. Either way my bad girl
click to expand
Don't sweat it. No you were wrong.. I'm not tolerating shit. The thought of it really irks me... and no I did not know about it when we got intimate.. he only told me after.. and I asked. We haven't hooked up again since then (but that's mainly cause we're far apart from each other and we work).. and in college he didn't have a girlfriend, only hooked up with him once I had ended things with my then boyfriend.
Posted by GemCurioPosted by ubuntu888Posted by GemCurio
Simply put, we always do what we say regardless of whether it makes sense or goes against are morals or better judgment. If he says he's going to leave her he will. There's no need to push him or try to pull him. Believe me, if he had no intentions of being with you he would've just made up some lie, try to get in your knickers a 2nd time, and ran. I know it sounds a bit extreme, but only angels can be demons, and we have a side that's just as broken, hurt, raging, and cruel as everyone else does. Be patient. Has it been 60 days yet before you already feeling this way—
No. I did however write him a lenghty email telling him about how I feel about this whole situation. In the email I basically said I feel like I'm not that important to him since he can go a whole day without checking up on me. I told him I don't want to bring a man around my child who's not in it for the long haul. I told him I'm possessive and don't think I can wait for him to slowly end things with her. He never replied to my email that day and when I asked him if he got it later that day he said he read it but was still processing everything I wrote and that he was gonna talk about it the following day once he was done processing everything. We ended up discussing everything though as I believe I was pushing him to respond right away.. i'm pretty impatient.. which is when he said he doesn't think I understood when he said he's ending things gradually with her so they are still spending time together and when he doesn't call its because she's around. He said she's trying really hard to make it work so he doesn't want to hurt her by just breaking it to her. He said she's very innocent and any guy would want her but he just doesn't see them working out in the long run cause he doesn't have strong feelings for her.. but she is a nice girl and he doesn't want to bring himself bad luck by hurting her. He said I need to be patient. I feel like it's all bull!
Actually I'm a bit surprised he even responded. The moment I hear from a woman I want I want I want... me me me I I I... I'm gone. It's the most disgusting thing for any individual to try to impose their desires on another human being. It sounds like a 4 year old in desperate need of discipline. You should consider yourself lucky that the first thing that came out of his mouth wasn't, " Well, you seem assured in all your confidences and desires. Good luck with those endeavors."click to expand
I know... how can I make up for it now? I know I messed up being impatient and pushy, but how do I fix it?
Posted by GemCurioPosted by ubuntu888Posted by GemCurioPosted by ubuntu888Posted by GemCurio
Simply put, we always do what we say regardless of whether it makes sense or goes against are morals or better judgment. If he says he's going to leave her he will. There's no need to push him or try to pull him. Believe me, if he had no intentions of being with you he would've just made up some lie, try to get in your knickers a 2nd time, and ran. I know it sounds a bit extreme, but only angels can be demons, and we have a side that's just as broken, hurt, raging, and cruel as everyone else does. Be patient. Has it been 60 days yet before you already feeling this way—
No. I did however write him a lenghty email telling him about how I feel about this whole situation. In the email I basically said I feel like I'm not that important to him since he can go a whole day without checking up on me. I told him I don't want to bring a man around my child who's not in it for the long haul. I told him I'm possessive and don't think I can wait for him to slowly end things with her. He never replied to my email that day and when I asked him if he got it later that day he said he read it but was still processing everything I wrote and that he was gonna talk about it the following day once he was done processing everything. We ended up discussing everything though as I believe I was pushing him to respond right away.. i'm pretty impatient.. which is when he said he doesn't think I understood when he said he's ending things gradually with her so they are still spending time together and when he doesn't call its because she's around. He said she's trying really hard to make it work so he doesn't want to hurt her by just breaking it to her. He said she's very innocent and any guy would want her but he just doesn't see them working out in the long run cause he doesn't have strong feelings for her.. but she is a nice girl and he doesn't want to bring himself bad luck by hurting her. He said I need to be patient. I feel like it's all bull!
Actually I'm a bit surprised he even responded. The moment I hear from a woman I want I want I want... me me me I I I... I'm gone. It's the most disgusting thing for any individual to try to impose their desires on another human being. It sounds like a 4 year old in desperate need of discipline. You should consider yourself lucky that the first thing that came out of his mouth wasn't, " Well, you seem assured in all your confidences and desires. Good luck with those endeavors."
I know... how can I make up for it now? I know I messed up being impatient and pushy, but how do I fix it?
Good question. By having an epiphany that love is not about you. It's about sharing with someone else. It's a selfless sacrifice for another person. Print stands... He's probably still reading it and his stomachs turning. Especially if mine turned just from those few sentences...click to expand
I get that but he is also making this about him. I sense some double standards here.. He wants to have his cake and eat it too yet I'm the bad person for setting my boundaries and disclosing what it is I really want rather than just acting up and him wonder why
Posted by GemCurioPosted by ubuntu888Posted by GemCurioPosted by ubuntu888Posted by GemCurio
Simply put, we always do what we say regardless of whether it makes sense or goes against are morals or better judgment. If he says he's going to leave her he will. There's no need to push him or try to pull him. Believe me, if he had no intentions of being with you he would've just made up some lie, try to get in your knickers a 2nd time, and ran. I know it sounds a bit extreme, but only angels can be demons, and we have a side that's just as broken, hurt, raging, and cruel as everyone else does. Be patient. Has it been 60 days yet before you already feeling this way—
No. I did however write him a lenghty email telling him about how I feel about this whole situation. In the email I basically said I feel like I'm not that important to him since he can go a whole day without checking up on me. I told him I don't want to bring a man around my child who's not in it for the long haul. I told him I'm possessive and don't think I can wait for him to slowly end things with her. He never replied to my email that day and when I asked him if he got it later that day he said he read it but was still processing everything I wrote and that he was gonna talk about it the following day once he was done processing everything. We ended up discussing everything though as I believe I was pushing him to respond right away.. i'm pretty impatient.. which is when he said he doesn't think I understood when he said he's ending things gradually with her so they are still spending time together and when he doesn't call its because she's around. He said she's trying really hard to make it work so he doesn't want to hurt her by just breaking it to her. He said she's very innocent and any guy would want her but he just doesn't see them working out in the long run cause he doesn't have strong feelings for her.. but she is a nice girl and he doesn't want to bring himself bad luck by hurting her. He said I need to be patient. I feel like it's all bull!
Actually I'm a bit surprised he even responded. The moment I hear from a woman I want I want I want... me me me I I I... I'm gone. It's the most disgusting thing for any individual to try to impose their desires on another human being. It sounds like a 4 year old in desperate need of discipline. You should consider yourself lucky that the first thing that came out of his mouth wasn't, " Well, you seem assured in all your confidences and desires. Good luck with those endeavors."
I know... how can I make up for it now? I know I messed up being impatient and pushy, but how do I fix it?
Good question. By having an epiphany that love is not about you. It's about sharing with someone else. It's a selfless sacrifice for another person. Print stands... He's probably still reading it and his stomachs turning. Especially if mine turned just from those few sentences...click to expand
I feel like I've ruined any chances of us being together and there's no coming back from this 😢
Posted by Arielle83
If he wasn’t that big a thrill for you back then, why is he now?
All I’m saying you seem to want what you can’t have.
Like that old pedo, giving you essay grooming tips.
He loves the straight c0ck and hates women because he knows his apparent bf used to eat kitty. So he comes at chicks on here, but vibes and gives tips to the chicks who are in a challenging situation to get a man. Like how he was. He groomed that straight teen for years and now he finally has him. He should write a book.
Instead he vomits repetitive shit on his gay for pay bf all over this place. As well as chase certain users with bitchy banter only a desperate old queen would use. #frusterated.
You want to remove the chick between you, but that’s the virgos job. If you’re giving demands to Virgo he will get annoyed at u. You’re going to have to wait like pedo boy did. But don’t because the Virgo prob sees u a challenge as well. He wants u and u both desire each other, but like once u have each other the fantasy is over.
I’d say find someone else. Plus he doesn’t sound very assertive. That would annoy me.
I feel bad for the other chick cuz if he’s at you he probably at others.
I don't agree with the mean stuff you're saying about the other guy but in my situation for the most part you are right!
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