Am I wrong for this ?

I haven't posted on here for quite a while as I didn't want to annoy the shit out of you all like I did before with my problems with the Gem in my life.

Anyway most of you know our past.

So rencetly things have been worst than its ever been.

She told me she doesn't want to be with me yet she is kissing me sleeping with me and we spend everyday together.

Anyway she went away for 10 nights at her friend's house because her friend is going away on holiday and offered her house to her as its by the beach so she went with her children as well.

When she was away on the trip I was Sick with Covid and during that time when I was sick and she was away she was down and depressed on the phone to me moaning about my ex partner because she went away with our kids with my dad and his partner nothing to do with me at all and it was months ago.

So I told her look I am sick at the moment like you know and why are you bringing it up its nothing to do with me and it doesn't affect our life together as we do our own thing basically it was a one off my dad is 62 and he couldn't take the girls away by him self anyway I did have an argument with my dad as I said well ylu could of asked me to come away with you instead but unfortunately we wasn't talking at the time so he thinks.

So a few days went by and she was talking to me and happy on the phone etc she then text me saying there is something I need to talk to you about I want your opinion on it and how you feel.

So this guy from her gym who I have known about since I have been with her he is 43 years old we are both 29years old.

He has recently had a deviorce with his wife and has been non stop texting my Gem I am talking this is happening everyday nearly it's been happening for around 2-3 months he did use to text her before but it was like every now and then.

So I got really funny about it and I said how would you feel given the shoe on the other foot and she said no your right I would feel the same but didn't do a thing about it she said you have nothing to worry about are you for real he's like a little Danny devito I don't want that man. So we fell out and got back together .

Anyway so she was at her friend's for 10 days and she texts me saying I have something to talk to you about and I want your opinion and how you feel about it so I rang her on the phone and she said the guy from the gym has asked if me and the girls with him and his kids would like to go camping with him for free .

So I went crazy obviously given the situation anyway we was arguing for 5 days about this and she came from her friends after 10days and back for two days at her house I seen her even though she told me we are done and she doesn't want to see me.

We was fine together and had a few drinks and a laugh anyway she promised me she'd call me on the nights as she knew how I felt about the situation I had to accept the fact she went away with another man otherwise we would be over.

So she was being distant on the first day told me she'd call me when she got there but she never and then the night time came she text me saying I am just settling the girls down then I will call you so an hour went by and I had nothing from her so I text her saying your nothing calling me are you and then I had to send a few more and I was being pushy because its one thing I asked that she promised me and she texts me later on saying one of her kids was sick on her and over the bed.

So the next day she was blunt on texts and not really texting me at all so I sent her a voice message saying Look I'm sorry I was pushy I didn't have any idea your little girl was being sick I just wanted to talk to you.

I said I will leave you to your trip and hopefully I can see you and talk to you soon.

Anyway she text me saying your just fake and all talk.

So I said no I'm not I want you to have a good time away I didn't realise your little one was sick at the time as all I knew was you said you would call me.

She didn't bother talking to me all day yesterday and I didn't contact her as I told her I wouldn't bother her.

So I had a text this morning saying you are fake and I dont want to put up with your shit anymore I don't want to see you tomorrow or even next week and so on I am done.

She is turning it around on you. She should understand your point as you understood the issue with her daughter being sick.

From an outsider's POV, this relationship is really toxic. Life is too short for unnecessary drama.

I hope you'll have the strength to walk away and move on.

Why are you such a beta cuck?

She text me telling me she's done she hasn't got any respect for me so I haven't text her and I won't bother too unless she contacts me. I don't know what else I can do.

Your sick with covid but mad she didn't invite you to stay with her and her kids in her friends beach house lmao. Yup reasonable.

To answer your question.. yes you are wrong for this.

Telling her, strangers online, yourself many many MANY times that you are done with this relationship and then still kissing, fucking, communicating with her... yes you are wrong for this.

Breaking up with her, telling her to do what she wants, and then being jealous and mean because she has a platonic friendship with another man she has disclosed to you... yes you are wrong for this.

Having a surprise Pikachu face when it plays out the same way it always has, yes you are wrong for this.

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Your sick with covid but mad she didn't invite you to stay with her and her kids in her friends beach house lmao. Yup reasonable.

No I wasn't mad the fact she went away to her friends house you have read this wrong.

Posted by Purplesky

Can't believe shecalled you fake 🤨 after all you've done ☹☹

I can't believe alot of shit but hay it is what it is nothing I can do now and I won't try to do anything I usually back down and try and try to crawl us back but this time I am just leaving it up to the Universe.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Your sick with covid but mad she didn't invite you to stay with her and her kids in her friends beach house lmao. Yup reasonable.

No I wasn't mad the fact she went away to her friends house you have read this wrong.

Danny DeVito hitting that?

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Who knows good for them if he is it will all come out in the end if she wants to date her dad good luck😉 and they will look like a right pair of idiots as they both go to the same gym and wind him up about hanging around her so much.

Funny thing is she hasn't told any of them that we are still together or seeing eachother and we are both single in everyone else's eyes lol so she can pull shit like this.

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Can't believe shecalled you fake 🤨 after all you've done ☹☹

I can't believe alot of shit but hay it is what it is nothing I can do now and I won't try to do anything I usually back down and try and try to crawl us back but this time I am just leaving it up to the Universe.

She left you no choice 💔 💯

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Exactly it's okay for other people to comment and think I am a bad person etc but I really dont care try to be with a person you love and would do anything for and are always there for her children putting them to bed and having them while she goes to gym and running out for drinks etc and I look after them do ten times more than there dad ever has and I take her out all the time try being the best partner I can get her flowers like once a month try to express myself always there for her when needed I am guilty that I have put all my time into her and her children this past 18 months and should of been doing more of that with my children but I was trying to build a life with her.

I have tried my best yes I got things wrong but all this time my heart and soul has always been with her in everything I have done.

So I can't do much else now but leave it up to the Universe I won't contact her and make myself look a fool anymore if she contacts me then we will see but I can almost certainly say she will not so it is what it is nothing more can be said.

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I know there's a shitload of Danny DeVito puns, but I'm not feeling it and it seems cruel. Someone had to Get Shorty in the end.

They didn't have to but that's life and that's even if she done anything with him that is all talk she may not of.done a thing she said do you really think I want that man he gives me the creeps I can't even think of him like that yet she still went away and knew he really likes her. I don't fucking know

WELP!

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.

-Albert Einstein

Posted by Sagoxa

Bruhhh... still with the same person?



Unbelievable 😅🤣

Not anymore shoot me 🙄💔

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Posted by LadyNeptune

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.

-Albert Einstein

"What's a tangle teezer?" Albert Einstein

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i is confused

Quit playing everyone - us, her, friends/family who have to listen to you drone on, the randoms in your day to day lives, etc.

Stop. Just stop.

You keep saying one thing, doing a compete different thing. Why even ask in the first place when you already know what will end up happening?

You're exhausting dude, sorry to say but.. is what it is. Like I told you the first time I replied to one of your same old threads was TO TAKE A STEP BACK. Actually do so, stop engaging her n doing the same shit day in, day out of this unhealthy toxic relationship and actually take a look inside yourself n do some reflection.

If you actually do so you'll quit agonizing over this petty bullshit 🤷🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️🙃 good luck I guess! Hope you're not a troll but I already said what I said so F it 🤷🏻‍♀️🙃

Posted by Centaur12

...So rencetly things have been worst than its ever been...

Unless it involves blood or a missing limb, I find this statement hard to believe.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.

-Albert Einstein

"What's a tangle teezer?" Albert Einstein

i is confused

Because he had messy hair.

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I had to google what a tangle teezer is 🙈

Unreal seriously. More of the question is why the hell are you STILL willing to be treated this way? Love yourself first before you talk about “but I love her”. You are so desperate for love that you are accepting whatever she gives you. Hardheaded much?

Posted by CuddleBug1288

Quit playing everyone - us, her, friends/family who have to listen to you drone on, the randoms in your day to day lives, etc.

Stop. Just stop.

You keep saying one thing, doing a compete different thing. Why even ask in the first place when you already know what will end up happening?

You're exhausting dude, sorry to say but.. is what it is. Like I told you the first time I replied to one of your same old threads was TO TAKE A STEP BACK. Actually do so, stop engaging her n doing the same shit day in, day out of this unhealthy toxic relationship and actually take a look inside yourself n do some reflection.

If you actually do so you'll quit agonizing over this petty bullshit 🤷🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️🙃 good luck I guess! Hope you're not a troll but I already said what I said so F it 🤷🏻‍♀️🙃

I have took a step back I haven't bothered to contact her like I said and I do not intend on doing so.

I am just concentrating on my kids and myself right now yes she's on my mind morning and night but their is nothing I can do about it.

Sometimes things are best left alone and if things work out then they do and if they don't then we just aren't meant to be simple as that.

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Unreal seriously. More of the question is why the hell are you STILL willing to be treated this way? Love yourself first before you talk about “but I love her”. You are so desperate for love that you are accepting whatever she gives you. Hardheaded much?

I'm here you have my heart just walk all over me. 🙄

Just was never strong enough to ever do anything about it I loved her that much that I was scared to loose her but now I realised and I am stronger that I won't put the effort in like I did to try and claw us back.

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Posted by CuddleBug1288

Quit playing everyone - us, her, friends/family who have to listen to you drone on, the randoms in your day to day lives, etc.

Stop. Just stop.

You keep saying one thing, doing a compete different thing. Why even ask in the first place when you already know what will end up happening?

You're exhausting dude, sorry to say but.. is what it is. Like I told you the first time I replied to one of your same old threads was TO TAKE A STEP BACK. Actually do so, stop engaging her n doing the same shit day in, day out of this unhealthy toxic relationship and actually take a look inside yourself n do some reflection.

If you actually do so you'll quit agonizing over this petty bullshit 🤷🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️🙃 good luck I guess! Hope you're not a troll but I already said what I said so F it 🤷🏻‍♀️🙃

I have took a step back I haven't bothered to contact her like I said and I do not intend on doing so.

I am just concentrating on my kids and myself right now yes she's on my mind morning and night but their is nothing I can do about it.

Sometimes things are best left alone and if things work out then they do and if they don't then we just aren't meant to be simple as that.

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Go back through all your posts, you have said this at least 5 times but then she dangles a carrot or texts you and your right back there sucking up. It’s a cycle and I think you get off on it.

When you admit that it’s over and there’s no going back, then and only then will your life change.

You two aren’t meant for each other, it will never work.. not maybe if this or that.. it is NEVER going to work.

In all your answers and questions here, you still think it might. So no one here can help or offer anything because your mind is where it’s at, in a hopeless situation 🙄

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

Unreal seriously. More of the question is why the hell are you STILL willing to be treated this way? Love yourself first before you talk about “but I love her”. You are so desperate for love that you are accepting whatever she gives you. Hardheaded much?

I'm here you have my heart just walk all over me. 🙄

Just was never strong enough to ever do anything about it I loved her that much that I was scared to loose her but now I realised and I am stronger that I won't put the effort in like I did to try and claw us back.

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Healthy relationships require strong people. You can’t let people walk on you. It just doesn’t work that way. You take responsibility for yourself & take the chances of losing it all to make a healthy strong bond. If you lose them, then it wasn’t right. Not right leads to toxic. It’s tough to go through but important to get stronger so you can really find the real thing. Somewhere where someone treats you right. You see it’s a lesson. I do understand, I’ve been there. Getting stronger is important. Hugs.

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Posted by CuddleBug1288

Quit playing everyone - us, her, friends/family who have to listen to you drone on, the randoms in your day to day lives, etc.

Stop. Just stop.

You keep saying one thing, doing a compete different thing. Why even ask in the first place when you already know what will end up happening?

You're exhausting dude, sorry to say but.. is what it is. Like I told you the first time I replied to one of your same old threads was TO TAKE A STEP BACK. Actually do so, stop engaging her n doing the same shit day in, day out of this unhealthy toxic relationship and actually take a look inside yourself n do some reflection.

If you actually do so you'll quit agonizing over this petty bullshit 🤷🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️🙃 good luck I guess! Hope you're not a troll but I already said what I said so F it 🤷🏻‍♀️🙃

I have took a step back I haven't bothered to contact her like I said and I do not intend on doing so.

I am just concentrating on my kids and myself right now yes she's on my mind morning and night but their is nothing I can do about it.

Sometimes things are best left alone and if things work out then they do and if they don't then we just aren't meant to be simple as that.

Go back through all your posts, you have said this at least 5 times but then she dangles a carrot or texts you and your right back there sucking up. It’s a cycle and I think you get off on it.

When you admit that it’s over and there’s no going back, then and only then will your life change.

You two aren’t meant for each other, it will never work.. not maybe if this or that.. it is NEVER going to work.

In all your answers and questions here, you still think it might. So no one here can help or offer anything because your mind is where it’s at, in a hopeless situation 🙄

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Yes I know it hss been going on and on round and round like a dam ferris wheel..

She has never really text me and been so blunt about it before telling me that she's done as she's drained from it even tho she has caused most of the shit.

She's expecting me to text her to see her and beg her like I always do but this time I am not doing that I am leaving it I am leaving her alone yes I am heart broken but it's for my own good whatever happens happens.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

Unreal seriously. More of the question is why the hell are you STILL willing to be treated this way? Love yourself first before you talk about “but I love her”. You are so desperate for love that you are accepting whatever she gives you. Hardheaded much?

I'm here you have my heart just walk all over me. 🙄

Just was never strong enough to ever do anything about it I loved her that much that I was scared to loose her but now I realised and I am stronger that I won't put the effort in like I did to try and claw us back.

Healthy relationships require strong people. You can’t let people walk on you. It just doesn’t work that way. You take responsibility for yourself & take the chances of losing it all to make a healthy strong bond. If you lose them, then it wasn’t right. Not right leads to toxic. It’s tough to go through but important to get stronger so you can really find the real thing. Somewhere where someone treats you right. You see it’s a lesson. I do understand, I’ve been there. Getting stronger is important. Hugs.

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Yes you are right but that is all I wanted with her but things just keep coming up all the time and destroying it.

She didn't have to go away with another guy.

She didn't have to bring up the ex shit all over again.

Okay I suppose you can say I didn't have to be insecure about her going away with another man but your telling me if I wenr away with a woman she wouldn't feel the same.

Thank you means alot 🙏 .

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Posted by CuddleBug1288

Quit playing everyone - us, her, friends/family who have to listen to you drone on, the randoms in your day to day lives, etc.

Stop. Just stop.

You keep saying one thing, doing a compete different thing. Why even ask in the first place when you already know what will end up happening?

You're exhausting dude, sorry to say but.. is what it is. Like I told you the first time I replied to one of your same old threads was TO TAKE A STEP BACK. Actually do so, stop engaging her n doing the same shit day in, day out of this unhealthy toxic relationship and actually take a look inside yourself n do some reflection.

If you actually do so you'll quit agonizing over this petty bullshit 🤷🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️🙃 good luck I guess! Hope you're not a troll but I already said what I said so F it 🤷🏻‍♀️🙃

I have took a step back I haven't bothered to contact her like I said and I do not intend on doing so.

I am just concentrating on my kids and myself right now yes she's on my mind morning and night but their is nothing I can do about it.

Sometimes things are best left alone and if things work out then they do and if they don't then we just aren't meant to be simple as that.

Go back through all your posts, you have said this at least 5 times but then she dangles a carrot or texts you and your right back there sucking up. It’s a cycle and I think you get off on it.

When you admit that it’s over and there’s no going back, then and only then will your life change.

You two aren’t meant for each other, it will never work.. not maybe if this or that.. it is NEVER going to work.

In all your answers and questions here, you still think it might. So no one here can help or offer anything because your mind is where it’s at, in a hopeless situation 🙄

Yes I know it hss been going on and on round and round like a dam ferris wheel..

She has never really text me and been so blunt about it before telling me that she's done as she's drained from it even tho she has caused most of the shit.

She's expecting me to text her to see her and beg her like I always do but this time I am not doing that I am leaving it I am leaving her alone yes I am heart broken but it's for my own good whatever happens happens.

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But you’re desperately holding on to hope that she will wake up and realise you are the man of her dreams.

It won’t happen!

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Posted by CuddleBug1288

Quit playing everyone - us, her, friends/family who have to listen to you drone on, the randoms in your day to day lives, etc.

Stop. Just stop.

You keep saying one thing, doing a compete different thing. Why even ask in the first place when you already know what will end up happening?

You're exhausting dude, sorry to say but.. is what it is. Like I told you the first time I replied to one of your same old threads was TO TAKE A STEP BACK. Actually do so, stop engaging her n doing the same shit day in, day out of this unhealthy toxic relationship and actually take a look inside yourself n do some reflection.

If you actually do so you'll quit agonizing over this petty bullshit 🤷🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️🙃 good luck I guess! Hope you're not a troll but I already said what I said so F it 🤷🏻‍♀️🙃

I have took a step back I haven't bothered to contact her like I said and I do not intend on doing so.

I am just concentrating on my kids and myself right now yes she's on my mind morning and night but their is nothing I can do about it.

Sometimes things are best left alone and if things work out then they do and if they don't then we just aren't meant to be simple as that.

Go back through all your posts, you have said this at least 5 times but then she dangles a carrot or texts you and your right back there sucking up. It’s a cycle and I think you get off on it.

When you admit that it’s over and there’s no going back, then and only then will your life change.

You two aren’t meant for each other, it will never work.. not maybe if this or that.. it is NEVER going to work.

In all your answers and questions here, you still think it might. So no one here can help or offer anything because your mind is where it’s at, in a hopeless situation 🙄

Yes I know it hss been going on and on round and round like a dam ferris wheel..

She has never really text me and been so blunt about it before telling me that she's done as she's drained from it even tho she has caused most of the shit.

She's expecting me to text her to see her and beg her like I always do but this time I am not doing that I am leaving it I am leaving her alone yes I am heart broken but it's for my own good whatever happens happens.

But you’re desperately holding on to hope that she will wake up and realise you are the man of her dreams.

It won’t happen!

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Yeah I already know this but why would she contact me okay she hasn't so far but why would did she before when we said its over etc

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What cycle number are we on?

Like 6 - 7 🥱😔

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Posted by CuddleBug1288

Quit playing everyone - us, her, friends/family who have to listen to you drone on, the randoms in your day to day lives, etc.

Stop. Just stop.

You keep saying one thing, doing a compete different thing. Why even ask in the first place when you already know what will end up happening?

You're exhausting dude, sorry to say but.. is what it is. Like I told you the first time I replied to one of your same old threads was TO TAKE A STEP BACK. Actually do so, stop engaging her n doing the same shit day in, day out of this unhealthy toxic relationship and actually take a look inside yourself n do some reflection.

If you actually do so you'll quit agonizing over this petty bullshit 🤷🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️🙃 good luck I guess! Hope you're not a troll but I already said what I said so F it 🤷🏻‍♀️🙃

I have took a step back I haven't bothered to contact her like I said and I do not intend on doing so.

I am just concentrating on my kids and myself right now yes she's on my mind morning and night but their is nothing I can do about it.

Sometimes things are best left alone and if things work out then they do and if they don't then we just aren't meant to be simple as that.

Go back through all your posts, you have said this at least 5 times but then she dangles a carrot or texts you and your right back there sucking up. It’s a cycle and I think you get off on it.

When you admit that it’s over and there’s no going back, then and only then will your life change.

You two aren’t meant for each other, it will never work.. not maybe if this or that.. it is NEVER going to work.

In all your answers and questions here, you still think it might. So no one here can help or offer anything because your mind is where it’s at, in a hopeless situation 🙄

Yes I know it hss been going on and on round and round like a dam ferris wheel..

She has never really text me and been so blunt about it before telling me that she's done as she's drained from it even tho she has caused most of the shit.

She's expecting me to text her to see her and beg her like I always do but this time I am not doing that I am leaving it I am leaving her alone yes I am heart broken but it's for my own good whatever happens happens.

But you’re desperately holding on to hope that she will wake up and realise you are the man of her dreams.

It won’t happen!

Yeah I already know this but why would she contact me okay she hasn't so far but why would did she before when we said its over etc

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Because she’d addicted To attention, she gets it from the “gross” her words guy at the gym and Laps it up.. even goes away with him and she gets it from you constantly.

The only time from your stories that you two were really happy was when you were still with your wife and she was trying harder to steal you away.. pretty much as soon as you were free and all your attention was on her, she wasn’t as interested anymore and then started with the issues of your ex wife and your children.

I’m not sure if you’re ever really going to wake up, this is an emotionally abusive relationship and it’s already affecting your self esteem.

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Posted by CuddleBug1288

Quit playing everyone - us, her, friends/family who have to listen to you drone on, the randoms in your day to day lives, etc.

Stop. Just stop.

You keep saying one thing, doing a compete different thing. Why even ask in the first place when you already know what will end up happening?

You're exhausting dude, sorry to say but.. is what it is. Like I told you the first time I replied to one of your same old threads was TO TAKE A STEP BACK. Actually do so, stop engaging her n doing the same shit day in, day out of this unhealthy toxic relationship and actually take a look inside yourself n do some reflection.

If you actually do so you'll quit agonizing over this petty bullshit 🤷🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️🙃 good luck I guess! Hope you're not a troll but I already said what I said so F it 🤷🏻‍♀️🙃

I have took a step back I haven't bothered to contact her like I said and I do not intend on doing so.

I am just concentrating on my kids and myself right now yes she's on my mind morning and night but their is nothing I can do about it.

Sometimes things are best left alone and if things work out then they do and if they don't then we just aren't meant to be simple as that.

Go back through all your posts, you have said this at least 5 times but then she dangles a carrot or texts you and your right back there sucking up. It’s a cycle and I think you get off on it.

When you admit that it’s over and there’s no going back, then and only then will your life change.

You two aren’t meant for each other, it will never work.. not maybe if this or that.. it is NEVER going to work.

In all your answers and questions here, you still think it might. So no one here can help or offer anything because your mind is where it’s at, in a hopeless situation 🙄

Yes I know it hss been going on and on round and round like a dam ferris wheel..

She has never really text me and been so blunt about it before telling me that she's done as she's drained from it even tho she has caused most of the shit.

She's expecting me to text her to see her and beg her like I always do but this time I am not doing that I am leaving it I am leaving her alone yes I am heart broken but it's for my own good whatever happens happens.

But you’re desperately holding on to hope that she will wake up and realise you are the man of her dreams.

It won’t happen!

Yeah I already know this but why would she contact me okay she hasn't so far but why would did she before when we said its over etc

Because she’d addicted To attention, she gets it from the “gross” her words guy at the gym and Laps it up.. even goes away with him and she gets it from you constantly.

The only time from your stories that you two were really happy was when you were still with your wife and she was trying harder to steal you away.. pretty much as soon as you were free and all your attention was on her, she wasn’t as interested anymore and then started with the issues of your ex wife and your children.

I’m not sure if you’re ever really going to wake up, this is an emotionally abusive relationship and it’s already affecting your self esteem.

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I have no idea where my self esteem is my head is completely fucked if I am honest with you I don't know myself anymore and I am so lost I have no idea if I can get back to me.

Maybe I made it to easy for her letting her know how I feel about her and always being around loving and caring for her needs and not doing what I love as well I gave up my life really to try please hers.



I am really hurting but I will no longer chase anymore thing is she knows I love her and she knows how to play it.

She's cleaver tho if she is really like that for the attention etc because the way she projects her self to the world is different she comes across that she just wants a loving family home etc and marriage and all that comes with it yet she acts in this way.

She will not contact me either because she won't want to effect her Ego and she's very stubborn.

Yesterday after telling me she is done I text her a few texts and she read them but didn't replied and then about 4-5 hours later she sent me a message saying are these your keys and sent me a picture she said I found them in my daughters brand new silld pajama bag that she bought from the supermarket.

I replied no their not mine thanks for asking tho.

She said okay must me the supermarkets.

I said yes probably had new keys cut by now.

And she said yea probably.

That is the last I heard from her and I will not contact her now.

She's Posted up her photos of her away on holiday with her kids usually she wouldn't do that but she put to all my friends your amazing people I am back to the strong independent woman I am.

Is she trying to piss me off or annoy me.

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She's Posted up her photos of her away on holiday with her kids usually she wouldn't do that but she put to all my friends your amazing people I am back to the strong independent woman I am.

Is she trying to piss me off or annoy me.

Both probably

And trying to convince herself she’s a *strong independent woman” which she is obviously not.

I do blame you too for this mess as you are her enabler.

Now she's text me a few minutes after saying what does my daughter want for her birthday and it's tomorrow. Why does she care ? Is it because I bought her daughter something for her birthday in July.

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Posted by Centaur12

She's Posted up her photos of her away on holiday with her kids usually she wouldn't do that but she put to all my friends your amazing people I am back to the strong independent woman I am.

Is she trying to piss me off or annoy me.

Both probably

And trying to convince herself she’s a *strong independent woman” which she is obviously not.

I do blame you too for this mess as you are her enabler.

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No don't get me wrong it takes 2 I blame my self as well.

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Posted by Centaur12

Now she's text me a few minutes after saying what does my daughter want for her birthday and it's tomorrow. Why does she care ? Is it because I bought her daughter something for her birthday in July.

Don't reply and she will apologize and chase you.

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Wtf is that all about why is she asking me this I don't understand.

Now shew text saying I am out shopping now are you going to pick it up or am I wasting my time.

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Centaur12

She's Posted up her photos of her away on holiday with her kids usually she wouldn't do that but she put to all my friends your amazing people I am back to the strong independent woman I am.

Is she trying to piss me off or annoy me.

Both probably

And trying to convince herself she’s a *strong independent woman” which she is obviously not.

I do blame you too for this mess as you are her enabler.

No don't get me wrong it takes 2 I blame my self as well.

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I know you do. Now you need to untangle yourself ...

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Centaur12

She's Posted up her photos of her away on holiday with her kids usually she wouldn't do that but she put to all my friends your amazing people I am back to the strong independent woman I am.

Is she trying to piss me off or annoy me.

Both probably

And trying to convince herself she’s a *strong independent woman” which she is obviously not.

I do blame you too for this mess as you are her enabler.

Who posts holiday photos of their kids anyway. Sure show them to your friends, but you never know what creep is looking.

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Exactly 😐

It’s crazy. I saw a woman on tv who had her little girl’s pics stolen from FB and they ends up on a porn site ... 😡

I wouldn’t post pics of kids here either. Never know who is lurking.

Shitty social media....

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Posted by Centaur12

She's Posted up her photos of her away on holiday with her kids usually she wouldn't do that but she put to all my friends your amazing people I am back to the strong independent woman I am.

Is she trying to piss me off or annoy me.

Both probably

And trying to convince herself she’s a *strong independent woman” which she is obviously not.

I do blame you too for this mess as you are her enabler.

Who posts holiday photos of their kids anyway. Sure show them to your friends, but you never know what creep is looking.

Exactly 😐

It’s crazy. I saw a woman on tv who had her little girl’s pics stolen from FB and they ends up on a porn site ... 😡

I wouldn’t post pics of kids here either. Never know who is lurking.

Shitty social media....

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That's fucking disgusting 😤 some right sick wiredos out there.

I keep my children off of the imternet as well.

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Posted by Centaur12

Now she's text me a few minutes after saying what does my daughter want for her birthday and it's tomorrow. Why does she care ? Is it because I bought her daughter something for her birthday in July.

Don't reply and she will apologize and chase you.

Wtf is that all about why is she asking me this I don't understand.

It's to keep contact by bringing up trivial things.

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Yeah but why would she want to keep contact of she told me she doesn't want to see me.

Quote:

Wake up dude! You can choose to be "the simple man of your dreams".

Start today.

Take it in your own hands to break out of your pitiable situation, because... No one else will do it for you.

Grow a spine. Grow a strong, steely heart. No one else will do it for you.

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Quote:

Wake up dude! You can choose to be "the simple man of your dreams".

Start today.

Take it in your own hands to break out of your pitiable situation, because... No one else will do it for you.

Grow a spine. Grow a strong, steely heart. No one else will do it for you.

That's exactly what I am doing 😁

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Posted by Centaur12

Now she's text me a few minutes after saying what does my daughter want for her birthday and it's tomorrow. Why does she care ? Is it because I bought her daughter something for her birthday in July.

Don't reply and she will apologize and chase you.

Wtf is that all about why is she asking me this I don't understand.

It's to keep contact by bringing up trivial things.

Yeah but why would she want to keep contact of she told me she doesn't want to see me.

She doesn't want to feel like she's the bad guy.

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But why would she feel like the bad guy if in her eyes she's done nothing wrong in the beginning. Lol

Now another text to say can I collect the present from the store for my daughter for her birthday tomorrow and she will pay for it.

She’s running all over you, dude. I understand you may think you love her, but love isn’t one sided and this situation certainly is. Stop being her doormat, I hate the saying but “grow a pair”, and make some personal boundaries for yourself. Someone who loves you will respect those—anyone else can fuck right off, especially someone as wishy-washy as this! Do yourself a favor and get out now. Show her you mean business. She will either A.) Come to see the error of her ways—maybe correct the problem, maybe not. Or B.) She bounces and doesn’t have to be the “bad guy”. Either way, you are better off. Seriously, don’t take this kind of treatment from anyone. Learn to speak your needs or they will never get met.

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She’s running all over you, dude. I understand you may think you love her, but love isn’t one sided and this situation certainly is. Stop being her doormat, I hate the saying but “grow a pair”, and make some personal boundaries for yourself. Someone who loves you will respect those—anyone else can fuck right off, especially someone as wishy-washy as this! Do yourself a favor and get out now. Show her you mean business. She will either A.) Come to see the error of her ways—maybe correct the problem, maybe not. Or B.) She bounces and doesn’t have to be the “bad guy”. Either way, you are better off. Seriously, don’t take this kind of treatment from anyone. Learn to speak your needs or they will never get met.

Yeah your right but what should I do about her texting me about my daughters present etc ?

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Posted by Centaur12

Now she's text me a few minutes after saying what does my daughter want for her birthday and it's tomorrow. Why does she care ? Is it because I bought her daughter something for her birthday in July.

Don't reply and she will apologize and chase you.

Wtf is that all about why is she asking me this I don't understand.

It's to keep contact by bringing up trivial things.

Yeah but why would she want to keep contact of she told me she doesn't want to see me.

She doesn't want to feel like she's the bad guy.

But why would she feel like the bad guy if in her eyes she's done nothing wrong in the beginning. Lol

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I think that could be the attitude of a psycopath 🥴

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Posted by Centaur12

Now she's text me a few minutes after saying what does my daughter want for her birthday and it's tomorrow. Why does she care ? Is it because I bought her daughter something for her birthday in July.

Don't reply and she will apologize and chase you.

Wtf is that all about why is she asking me this I don't understand.

It's to keep contact by bringing up trivial things.

Yeah but why would she want to keep contact of she told me she doesn't want to see me.

She doesn't want to feel like she's the bad guy.

But why would she feel like the bad guy if in her eyes she's done nothing wrong in the beginning. Lol

I think that could be the attitude of a psycopath 🥴

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🤭😅

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Posted by alexscaries

Posted by Centaur12

Now she's text me a few minutes after saying what does my daughter want for her birthday and it's tomorrow. Why does she care ? Is it because I bought her daughter something for her birthday in July.

Don't reply and she will apologize and chase you.

Wtf is that all about why is she asking me this I don't understand.

It's to keep contact by bringing up trivial things.

Yeah but why would she want to keep contact of she told me she doesn't want to see me.

She doesn't want to feel like she's the bad guy.

But why would she feel like the bad guy if in her eyes she's done nothing wrong in the beginning. Lol

I think that could be the attitude of a psycopath 🥴

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I just duno what to text her back