hellosaggy
@hellosaggy
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Aqua woman question
Poor girl, she can’t hid from the truth much longer 😂 I know she does, we can’t help but love Sags!!
The way you go about the relationship is kinda adorable. Maybe she thinks you don't love her and feels like you'd switch up on her at any moment. Maybe she feels that you are asking her to move in for convenience mostly.
Do you think she loves you and is lying about it? Do you love her?
Do you think she loves you and is lying about it? Do you love her?
Posted by SeleukosPosted by STILLI know right? 😄
The way you go about the relationship is kinda adorable. Maybe she thinks you don't love her and feels like you'd switch up on her at any moment. Maybe she feels that you are asking her to move in for convenience mostly.
Do you think she loves you and is lying about it? Do you love her?
I definetly think it's not an accident that one of the two I have been interested so far was a Sag.click to expand
Yeah
Very interested in his answer
hope by time he does, I have time to get back to him
Posted by STILLI've told him this too, that she's unsure of his feelings so she's backtracking lol.
The way you go about the relationship is kinda adorable. Maybe she thinks you don't love her and feels like you'd switch up on her at any moment. Maybe she feels that you are asking her to move in for convenience mostly.
Do you think she loves you and is lying about it? Do you love her?
Deny, Deny, Deny!!! Then maybe those pesky feels will go away! 😆
Posted by saggurl88lol!Posted by STILLI've told him this too, that she's unsure of his feelings so she's backtracking lol.
The way you go about the relationship is kinda adorable. Maybe she thinks you don't love her and feels like you'd switch up on her at any moment. Maybe she feels that you are asking her to move in for convenience mostly.
Do you think she loves you and is lying about it? Do you love her?
Deny, Deny, Deny!!! Then maybe those pesky feels will go away! 😆click to expand
Yeah I shouldn't have used the word lying though. Confused is more like it. A lot of the times Idk what I am feeling that early. She may feel something, but just don't know what.
He has to make her feel secure and be consistent without wavering not even a little.
I'm kind of confused by his story. The way he expresses things is like she's just convenient for him, but not a preference. Then on the other hand it seems like he adores her. Idk.... waiting for his response.
@hellosaggy
What question did you actually want to ask? It's gonna need to be a little bit clearer. It just sounds like you're venting. lol
P.S.
Hey BFF!!!
What question did you actually want to ask? It's gonna need to be a little bit clearer. It just sounds like you're venting. lol
P.S.
Hey BFF!!!
Posted by STILL😆 I got chu girlie! See the post above lolPosted by saggurl88Yeah I shouldn't have used the word lying though. Confused is more like it. A lot of times Idk what I am feeling that early. She may feel something, but just don't know what.Posted by STILLI've told him this too, that she's unsure of his feelings so she's backtracking lol.
The way you go about the relationship is kinda adorable. Maybe she thinks you don't love her and feels like you'd switch up on her at any moment. Maybe she feels that you are asking her to move in for convenience mostly.
Do you think she loves you and is lying about it? Do you love her?
Deny, Deny, Deny!!! Then maybe those pesky feels will go away! 😆
He has to make her feel secure and be consistent without wavering not even a little.
I'm kind of confused by his story. The way he expresses things is like she's just convenient for him, but not a preference. Then on the other hand it seems like he adores her. Idk.... waiting for his response.
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Posted by saggurl88Yeah I know. After I responded to you, I was like suggurl is really learning the Aqua ways.Posted by STILL😆 I got chu girlie! See the post above lolPosted by saggurl88Yeah I shouldn't have used the word lying though. Confused is more like it. A lot of times Idk what I am feeling that early. She may feel something, but just don't know what.Posted by STILLI've told him this too, that she's unsure of his feelings so she's backtracking lol.
The way you go about the relationship is kinda adorable. Maybe she thinks you don't love her and feels like you'd switch up on her at any moment. Maybe she feels that you are asking her to move in for convenience mostly.
Do you think she loves you and is lying about it? Do you love her?
Deny, Deny, Deny!!! Then maybe those pesky feels will go away! 😆
He has to make her feel secure and be consistent without wavering not even a little.
I'm kind of confused by his story. The way he expresses things is like she's just convenient for him, but not a preference. Then on the other hand it seems like he adores her. Idk.... waiting for his response.
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Posted by STILLLol Too bad it means nothing in the big scheme of the one I want liking me 😆 I refuse to do all that it takes to hunt you guys down. I'll just wait it out and hope for the best lol typical Aqua style lol We are too much alike in that aspect! 😆Posted by saggurl88Yeah I know. After I responded to you, I was like suggurl is really learning the Aqua ways.Posted by STILL😆 I got chu girlie! See the post above lolPosted by saggurl88Yeah I shouldn't have used the word lying though. Confused is more like it. A lot of times Idk what I am feeling that early. She may feel something, but just don't know what.Posted by STILLI've told him this too, that she's unsure of his feelings so she's backtracking lol.
The way you go about the relationship is kinda adorable. Maybe she thinks you don't love her and feels like you'd switch up on her at any moment. Maybe she feels that you are asking her to move in for convenience mostly.
Do you think she loves you and is lying about it? Do you love her?
Deny, Deny, Deny!!! Then maybe those pesky feels will go away! 😆
He has to make her feel secure and be consistent without wavering not even a little.
I'm kind of confused by his story. The way he expresses things is like she's just convenient for him, but not a preference. Then on the other hand it seems like he adores her. Idk.... waiting for his response.
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Posted by saggurl88I think you've already done a lot. I think the only reason you didn't get your man is because he had a gf and probably still does.Posted by STILLLol Too bad it means nothing in the big scheme of the one I want liking me 😆 I refuse to do all that it takes to hunt you guys down. I'll just wait it out and hope for the best lol typical Aqua style lol We are too much alike in that aspect! 😆Posted by saggurl88Yeah I know. After I responded to you, I was like suggurl is really learning the Aqua ways.Posted by STILL😆 I got chu girlie! See the post above lolPosted by saggurl88Yeah I shouldn't have used the word lying though. Confused is more like it. A lot of times Idk what I am feeling that early. She may feel something, but just don't know what.Posted by STILLI've told him this too, that she's unsure of his feelings so she's backtracking lol.
The way you go about the relationship is kinda adorable. Maybe she thinks you don't love her and feels like you'd switch up on her at any moment. Maybe she feels that you are asking her to move in for convenience mostly.
Do you think she loves you and is lying about it? Do you love her?
Deny, Deny, Deny!!! Then maybe those pesky feels will go away! 😆
He has to make her feel secure and be consistent without wavering not even a little.
I'm kind of confused by his story. The way he expresses things is like she's just convenient for him, but not a preference. Then on the other hand it seems like he adores her. Idk.... waiting for his response.
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Posted by STILLWell he did get one right in the middle of us seeing each other, so it wasn't enough apparently lol He didn't have a girlfriend when we started seeing each other.But you win some and lose some. We are on the outs again and I'm leaving him alone. Maybe another couple of months will do us some good lolPosted by saggurl88I think you've already done a lot. I think the only reason you didn't get your man is because he had a gf and probably still does.Posted by STILLLol Too bad it means nothing in the big scheme of the one I want liking me 😆 I refuse to do all that it takes to hunt you guys down. I'll just wait it out and hope for the best lol typical Aqua style lol We are too much alike in that aspect! 😆Posted by saggurl88Yeah I know. After I responded to you, I was like suggurl is really learning the Aqua ways.Posted by STILL😆 I got chu girlie! See the post above lolPosted by saggurl88Yeah I shouldn't have used the word lying though. Confused is more like it. A lot of times Idk what I am feeling that early. She may feel something, but just don't know what.Posted by STILLI've told him this too, that she's unsure of his feelings so she's backtracking lol.
The way you go about the relationship is kinda adorable. Maybe she thinks you don't love her and feels like you'd switch up on her at any moment. Maybe she feels that you are asking her to move in for convenience mostly.
Do you think she loves you and is lying about it? Do you love her?
Deny, Deny, Deny!!! Then maybe those pesky feels will go away! 😆
He has to make her feel secure and be consistent without wavering not even a little.
I'm kind of confused by his story. The way he expresses things is like she's just convenient for him, but not a preference. Then on the other hand it seems like he adores her. Idk.... waiting for his response.
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Posted by saggurl88The first time, you disappeared girl! That's why he got a gf.Posted by STILLWell he did get one right in the middle of us seeing each other, so it wasn't enough apparently lol He didn't have a girlfriend when we started seeing each other.But you win some and lose some. We are on the outs again and I'm leaving him alone. Maybe another couple of months will do us some good lolPosted by saggurl88I think you've already done a lot. I think the only reason you didn't get your man is because he had a gf and probably still does.Posted by STILLLol Too bad it means nothing in the big scheme of the one I want liking me 😆 I refuse to do all that it takes to hunt you guys down. I'll just wait it out and hope for the best lol typical Aqua style lol We are too much alike in that aspect! 😆Posted by saggurl88Yeah I know. After I responded to you, I was like suggurl is really learning the Aqua ways.Posted by STILL😆 I got chu girlie! See the post above lolPosted by saggurl88Yeah I shouldn't have used the word lying though. Confused is more like it. A lot of times Idk what I am feeling that early. She may feel something, but just don't know what.Posted by STILLI've told him this too, that she's unsure of his feelings so she's backtracking lol.
The way you go about the relationship is kinda adorable. Maybe she thinks you don't love her and feels like you'd switch up on her at any moment. Maybe she feels that you are asking her to move in for convenience mostly.
Do you think she loves you and is lying about it? Do you love her?
Deny, Deny, Deny!!! Then maybe those pesky feels will go away! 😆
He has to make her feel secure and be consistent without wavering not even a little.
I'm kind of confused by his story. The way he expresses things is like she's just convenient for him, but not a preference. Then on the other hand it seems like he adores her. Idk.... waiting for his response.
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Why are you two on the outs now?
She’s smart for not moving in, it’s wayyy too soon to even bring it up, she’s not trying to be co-dependent.
Sagg just wants love guys lol
Sagg just wants love guys lol
Posted by STILLI don't want to clog up my BFF's thread with my bullshit. He was mean to me and made me cry, so I'm not reaching out. lol It's really easy for me to get my feelings hurt when I care about someone. So I was texting with him, he was mean. I responded nicely but cried and then sent him one last text saying he was mean lolPosted by saggurl88The first time, you disappear girl! That's why he got a gf.Posted by STILLWell he did get one right in the middle of us seeing each other, so it wasn't enough apparently lol He didn't have a girlfriend when we started seeing each other.But you win some and lose some. We are on the outs again and I'm leaving him alone. Maybe another couple of months will do us some good lolPosted by saggurl88I think you've already done a lot. I think the only reason you didn't get your man is because he had a gf and probably still does.Posted by STILLLol Too bad it means nothing in the big scheme of the one I want liking me 😆 I refuse to do all that it takes to hunt you guys down. I'll just wait it out and hope for the best lol typical Aqua style lol We are too much alike in that aspect! 😆Posted by saggurl88Yeah I know. After I responded to you, I was like suggurl is really learning the Aqua ways.Posted by STILL😆 I got chu girlie! See the post above lolPosted by saggurl88Yeah I shouldn't have used the word lying though. Confused is more like it. A lot of times Idk what I am feeling that early. She may feel something, but just don't know what.Posted by STILLI've told him this too, that she's unsure of his feelings so she's backtracking lol.
The way you go about the relationship is kinda adorable. Maybe she thinks you don't love her and feels like you'd switch up on her at any moment. Maybe she feels that you are asking her to move in for convenience mostly.
Do you think she loves you and is lying about it? Do you love her?
Deny, Deny, Deny!!! Then maybe those pesky feels will go away! 😆
He has to make her feel secure and be consistent without wavering not even a little.
I'm kind of confused by his story. The way he expresses things is like she's just convenient for him, but not a preference. Then on the other hand it seems like he adores her. Idk.... waiting for his response.
Why are you two on the outs now?click to expand
Way to go, Sag!!! I let him have it! 😆 Now I will just go back into hiding.
Posted by UnicornSagBecause Venus in Scorpio says so! 😈😇
Why force moving in after just 4 months? Who cares for convenience, it's not a bad thing to have your own place just in case? I'm with a guy 8 years and never moved in,despite being there almost all the time. I feel better this way so why not be that way? Aquas just as Sags love their space and alone time so idk why would you as a Sag force that either
Posted by saggurl88That's exhausting!Posted by STILLI don't want to clog up my BFF's thread with my bullshit. He was mean to me and made me cry, so I'm not reaching out. lol It's really easy for me to get my feelings hurt when I care about someone. So I was texting with him, he was mean. I responded nicely but cried and then sent him one last text saying he was mean lolPosted by saggurl88The first time, you disappear girl! That's why he got a gf.Posted by STILLWell he did get one right in the middle of us seeing each other, so it wasn't enough apparently lol He didn't have a girlfriend when we started seeing each other.But you win some and lose some. We are on the outs again and I'm leaving him alone. Maybe another couple of months will do us some good lolPosted by saggurl88I think you've already done a lot. I think the only reason you didn't get your man is because he had a gf and probably still does.Posted by STILLLol Too bad it means nothing in the big scheme of the one I want liking me 😆 I refuse to do all that it takes to hunt you guys down. I'll just wait it out and hope for the best lol typical Aqua style lol We are too much alike in that aspect! 😆Posted by saggurl88Yeah I know. After I responded to you, I was like suggurl is really learning the Aqua ways.Posted by STILL😆 I got chu girlie! See the post above lolPosted by saggurl88Yeah I shouldn't have used the word lying though. Confused is more like it. A lot of times Idk what I am feeling that early. She may feel something, but just don't know what.Posted by STILLI've told him this too, that she's unsure of his feelings so she's backtracking lol.
The way you go about the relationship is kinda adorable. Maybe she thinks you don't love her and feels like you'd switch up on her at any moment. Maybe she feels that you are asking her to move in for convenience mostly.
Do you think she loves you and is lying about it? Do you love her?
Deny, Deny, Deny!!! Then maybe those pesky feels will go away! 😆
He has to make her feel secure and be consistent without wavering not even a little.
I'm kind of confused by his story. The way he expresses things is like she's just convenient for him, but not a preference. Then on the other hand it seems like he adores her. Idk.... waiting for his response.
Why are you two on the outs now?
Way to go, Sag!!! I let him have it! 😆 Now I will just go back into hiding.click to expand
Posted by STILLHow do you think I feel! lol He doesn't know he made me cry, I didn't tell him. I don't want him to have the satisfaction lol I still have a little dignity lolPosted by saggurl88That's exhausting!Posted by STILLI don't want to clog up my BFF's thread with my bullshit. He was mean to me and made me cry, so I'm not reaching out. lol It's really easy for me to get my feelings hurt when I care about someone. So I was texting with him, he was mean. I responded nicely but cried and then sent him one last text saying he was mean lolPosted by saggurl88The first time, you disappear girl! That's why he got a gf.Posted by STILLWell he did get one right in the middle of us seeing each other, so it wasn't enough apparently lol He didn't have a girlfriend when we started seeing each other.But you win some and lose some. We are on the outs again and I'm leaving him alone. Maybe another couple of months will do us some good lolPosted by saggurl88I think you've already done a lot. I think the only reason you didn't get your man is because he had a gf and probably still does.Posted by STILLLol Too bad it means nothing in the big scheme of the one I want liking me 😆 I refuse to do all that it takes to hunt you guys down. I'll just wait it out and hope for the best lol typical Aqua style lol We are too much alike in that aspect! 😆Posted by saggurl88Yeah I know. After I responded to you, I was like suggurl is really learning the Aqua ways.Posted by STILL😆 I got chu girlie! See the post above lolPosted by saggurl88Yeah I shouldn't have used the word lying though. Confused is more like it. A lot of times Idk what I am feeling that early. She may feel something, but just don't know what.Posted by STILLI've told him this too, that she's unsure of his feelings so she's backtracking lol.
The way you go about the relationship is kinda adorable. Maybe she thinks you don't love her and feels like you'd switch up on her at any moment. Maybe she feels that you are asking her to move in for convenience mostly.
Do you think she loves you and is lying about it? Do you love her?
Deny, Deny, Deny!!! Then maybe those pesky feels will go away! 😆
He has to make her feel secure and be consistent without wavering not even a little.
I'm kind of confused by his story. The way he expresses things is like she's just convenient for him, but not a preference. Then on the other hand it seems like he adores her. Idk.... waiting for his response.
Why are you two on the outs now?
Way to go, Sag!!! I let him have it! 😆 Now I will just go back into hiding.click to expand
Posted by UnicornSagI like Sag Venus. My ex Scorpio has that. He always need to be shown affection. I love how he throws fits to get it 😆 I'm nonchalant on purpose cause it bugs him and then he scooches under me like a puppy wanting to get pet 😄Posted by saggurl88Posted by UnicornSagBecause Venus in Scorpio says so! 😈😇
Why force moving in after just 4 months? Who cares for convenience, it's not a bad thing to have your own place just in case? I'm with a guy 8 years and never moved in,despite being there almost all the time. I feel better this way so why not be that way? Aquas just as Sags love their space and alone time so idk why would you as a Sag force that either
Venus in Sag takes no orders 😄
but seriously...that's way too fast lolclick to expand
I’m not rushing... she has literally been around me or at my place everyday since New Years.... not an exaggeration.
Feelings? Mmmm... not really. But our relationship works really well to the point where her being in my space the way she is doesn’t frustrate me 95% of the time...
She can’t help but love me. In love, I’m not looking for, but she’s constantly complimenting and shows jealousy when drunk. When sober, she seems to absolutely don’t have jealousy though lol.
Feelings? Mmmm... not really. But our relationship works really well to the point where her being in my space the way she is doesn’t frustrate me 95% of the time...
She can’t help but love me. In love, I’m not looking for, but she’s constantly complimenting and shows jealousy when drunk. When sober, she seems to absolutely don’t have jealousy though lol.
Wow. You all are judgmental as fuck... she’s having financial difficulties and is only making it because I’m helping...
It’s nit about what I want it just makes sense
It’s nit about what I want it just makes sense
Posted by LaMadrinaSeems like you got some past demons.
It's not rocket science. A woman can love the feel of a relationship setting, but she can still want her independence too. She wants to come and go as she pleases without it being messy. Living with you is not the plan. Think about this too. Why is the relationship smooth? Because she always had her option of independence. I bet if she lived with you permanently, things would change. Take people as they are and stop trying to make it your way so much. Women too have the right to come and go as we please.
Side note: I hope she doesn't have to get liquored up first all the time in order to have intimate moments with you. She seems reserved otherwise. That says a lot too.
I help her pay for a place she never stays at. It’s like it’s a safety net. I ask her to stay at her place and she always asks if I’m coming along. She enjoys being around me.
She’s an Aquarius sun/Aries moon and I’m a saggitarius sun/Aries moon. We get each other and it’s just an easy time.
She’s intimate all the time physically. It’s the feelings and emotion that comes out when liquor comes into play.
Posted by hellosaggyI'm curious. Are you incapable of having feelings for her? Why do you do all of this for her if you don't? I'm just trying to understand.Posted by LaMadrinaSeems like you got some past demons.
It's not rocket science. A woman can love the feel of a relationship setting, but she can still want her independence too. She wants to come and go as she pleases without it being messy. Living with you is not the plan. Think about this too. Why is the relationship smooth? Because she always had her option of independence. I bet if she lived with you permanently, things would change. Take people as they are and stop trying to make it your way so much. Women too have the right to come and go as we please.
Side note: I hope she doesn't have to get liquored up first all the time in order to have intimate moments with you. She seems reserved otherwise. That says a lot too.
I help her pay for a place she never stays at. It’s like it’s a safety net. I ask her to stay at her place and she always asks if I’m coming along. She enjoys being around me.
She’s an Aquarius sun/Aries moon and I’m a saggitarius sun/Aries moon. We get each other and it’s just an easy time.
She’s intimate all the time physically. It’s the feelings and emotion that comes out when liquor comes into play.click to expand
Posted by LaMadrinacalling yourself a demon shows your old age and "maturity"... hardly.Posted by hellosaggySo me being able to see where the women is coming from equates to me having so-called past demons.Posted by LaMadrinaSeems like you got some past demons.
It's not rocket science. A woman can love the feel of a relationship setting, but she can still want her independence too. She wants to come and go as she pleases without it being messy. Living with you is not the plan. Think about this too. Why is the relationship smooth? Because she always had her option of independence. I bet if she lived with you permanently, things would change. Take people as they are and stop trying to make it your way so much. Women too have the right to come and go as we please.
Side note: I hope she doesn't have to get liquored up first all the time in order to have intimate moments with you. She seems reserved otherwise. That says a lot too.
I help her pay for a place she never stays at. It’s like it’s a safety net. I ask her to stay at her place and she always asks if I’m coming along. She enjoys being around me.
She’s an Aquarius sun/Aries moon and I’m a saggitarius sun/Aries moon. We get each other and it’s just an easy time.
She’s intimate all the time physically. It’s the feelings and emotion that comes out when liquor comes into play.
Sag logic. Little silly ass boy, I AM the demon. Are you always so sensitive and defensive to advice you don't want to hear? If so, don't come here and ask questions. You offered help, she said no. You come here and bitch about it. Sounds like you need to back off and man up. No is no. What else is there to say? How about helping her find a place since you want to "help" so damn much. Oh no, that's not the kind of help YOU want to give. You just want her to move in so it's easier for you to trick off. Fake ass good intentions.click to expand
You know nothing of which you speak. She's wanting to move to be close to her family (across country to Washington) , wanting to stay here, and wanting to look for opportunities in other areas. Signing another lease where she's at or anywhere, with her situations, isn't a smart idea. I told her she needs to figure her path out so she can pull the trigger. I don't WANT her to live with me, but its the most logical, as basically she's lived with me for four months. at least that way if it takes her 2 - 3 months to decide ultimately what she wants, she's not locking herself into an agreement, when I already know she's going to be over here all the time anyway.
It's sad some of you ladies figure this is about in house vagina, when I'm already basically getting it in house everyday. One of my very concerns is once I allow her to truly live with me, things change and I become miserable. Part of me wants to be selfish and say "No, stay where you are, because I don't see things going the way I want." Another part of me wants to say, "hey come stay, save some cash, figure your shit out, and then make your decision without haste."
@Still ... in terms of feelings. I have feelings for her, but she's so wishy-washy. I have my walls up. If I stopped talking to her today, I would miss her company, but that's about it.
One day she wants to meet my family, another day she wants to find someone who loves her for her, another day she wants to find a woman to be with, another day I am her best friend and she appreciates me in her life, when she's drunk she loves me. when she's sober she says she doesn't, but exhibits every sign she does.
She truly acts like a typical man in a woman's body. the only time she gets really feminine is during her period when shes wanting to cuddle and stuff, heck even sex is more like a tug-o-war for power, then she becomes submissive during, and as soon as its over, back to being standoffish.
I really don't know what I'm getting every morning or throughout the day with her.
So I am playing the FWB role, just to keep all the expectations down and be supportive. I have other things in my life that need my attention and I am sure of.
Posted by hellosaggyIf you didn't have your walls up she wouldn't be wishy-washy. She knows you have you're walls up. It's in black and white right there. 👉"another day she wants to find someone who loves her for her" This will be such an adorable story if you guys were in love.Posted by LaMadrinacalling yourself a demon shows your old age and "maturity"... hardly.Posted by hellosaggySo me being able to see where the women is coming from equates to me having so-called past demons.Posted by LaMadrinaSeems like you got some past demons.
It's not rocket science. A woman can love the feel of a relationship setting, but she can still want her independence too. She wants to come and go as she pleases without it being messy. Living with you is not the plan. Think about this too. Why is the relationship smooth? Because she always had her option of independence. I bet if she lived with you permanently, things would change. Take people as they are and stop trying to make it your way so much. Women too have the right to come and go as we please.
Side note: I hope she doesn't have to get liquored up first all the time in order to have intimate moments with you. She seems reserved otherwise. That says a lot too.
I help her pay for a place she never stays at. It’s like it’s a safety net. I ask her to stay at her place and she always asks if I’m coming along. She enjoys being around me.
She’s an Aquarius sun/Aries moon and I’m a saggitarius sun/Aries moon. We get each other and it’s just an easy time.
She’s intimate all the time physically. It’s the feelings and emotion that comes out when liquor comes into play.
Sag logic. Little silly ass boy, I AM the demon. Are you always so sensitive and defensive to advice you don't want to hear? If so, don't come here and ask questions. You offered help, she said no. You come here and bitch about it. Sounds like you need to back off and man up. No is no. What else is there to say? How about helping her find a place since you want to "help" so damn much. Oh no, that's not the kind of help YOU want to give. You just want her to move in so it's easier for you to trick off. Fake ass good intentions.
You know nothing of which you speak. She's wanting to move to be close to her family (across country to Washington) , wanting to stay here, and wanting to look for opportunities in other areas. Signing another lease where she's at or anywhere, with her situations, isn't a smart idea. I told her she needs to figure her path out so she can pull the trigger. I don't WANT her to live with me, but its the most logical, as basically she's lived with me for four months. at least that way if it takes her 2 - 3 months to decide ultimately what she wants, she's not locking herself into an agreement, when I already know she's going to be over here all the time anyway.
It's sad some of you ladies figure this is about in house vagina, when I'm already basically getting it in house everyday. One of my very concerns is once I allow her to truly live with me, things change and I become miserable. Part of me wants to be selfish and say "No, stay where you are, because I don't see things going the way I want." Another part of me wants to say, "hey come stay, save some cash, figure your shit out, and then make your decision without haste."
@Still ... in terms of feelings. I have feelings for her, but she's so wishy-washy. I have my walls up. If I stopped talking to her today, I would miss her company, but that's about it.
One day she wants to meet my family, another day she wants to find someone who loves her for her, another day she wants to find a woman to be with, another day I am her best friend and she appreciates me in her life, when she's drunk she loves me. when she's sober she says she doesn't, but exhibits every sign she does.
She truly acts like a typical man in a woman's body. the only time she gets really feminine is during her period when shes wanting to cuddle and stuff, heck even sex is more like a tug-o-war for power, then she becomes submissive during, and as soon as its over, back to being standoffish.
I really don't know what I'm getting every morning or throughout the day with her.
So I am playing the FWB role, just to keep all the expectations down and be supportive. I have other things in my life that need my attention and I am sure of.click to expand
Don't let her fall any further in love with you if you're not going to do the same.
Posted by LaMadrinaomg. i missed this xdPosted by hellosaggyPosted by LaMadrina
It's not rocket science. A woman can love the feel of a relationship setting, but she can still want her independence too. She wants to come and go as she pleases without it being messy. Living with you is not the plan. Think about this too. Why is the relationship smooth? Because she always had her option of independence. I bet if she lived with you permanently, things would change. Take people as they are and stop trying to make it your way so much. Women too have the right to come and go as we please.
Side note: I hope she doesn't have to get liquored up first all the time in order to have intimate moments with you. She seems reserved otherwise. That says a lot too.
Seems like you got some past demons.
I help her pay for a place she never stays at. It’s like it’s a safety net. I ask her to stay at her place and she always asks if I’m coming along. She enjoys being around me.
She’s an Aquarius sun/Aries moon and I’m a saggitarius sun/Aries moon. We get each other and it’s just an easy time.
She’s intimate all the time physically. It’s the feelings and emotion that comes out when liquor comes into play.
So me being able to see where the women is coming from equates to me having so-called past demons.
Sag logic. Little silly ass boy, I AM the demon. Are you always so sensitive and defensive to advice you don't want to hear? If so, don't come here and ask questions. You offered help, she said no. You come here and cookiemonster about it. Sounds like you need to back off and man up. No is no. What else is there to say? How about helping her find a place since you want to "help" so damn much. Oh no, that's not the kind of help YOU want to give. You just want her to move in so it's easier for you to trick off. Fake ass good intentions. click to expandclick to expand
u are good.
i dont knnow what saggy man is doing but gosh is he boring as hell. xd
if i were the aqua chick he would so NOT be on my radar.
too much happy go lucky for my taaste.
oh god good read in the morning with morning coffee.
better than the morning news.
Posted by hellosaggydamn...does she have capricorn?Posted by LaMadrinaPosted by hellosaggyPosted by LaMadrina
It's not rocket science. A woman can love the feel of a relationship setting, but she can still want her independence too. She wants to come and go as she pleases without it being messy. Living with you is not the plan. Think about this too. Why is the relationship smooth? Because she always had her option of independence. I bet if she lived with you permanently, things would change. Take people as they are and stop trying to make it your way so much. Women too have the right to come and go as we please.
Side note: I hope she doesn't have to get liquored up first all the time in order to have intimate moments with you. She seems reserved otherwise. That says a lot too.
Seems like you got some past demons.
I help her pay for a place she never stays at. It’s like it’s a safety net. I ask her to stay at her place and she always asks if I’m coming along. She enjoys being around me.
She’s an Aquarius sun/Aries moon and I’m a saggitarius sun/Aries moon. We get each other and it’s just an easy time.
She’s intimate all the time physically. It’s the feelings and emotion that comes out when liquor comes into play.
So me being able to see where the women is coming from equates to me having so-called past demons.
Sag logic. Little silly ass boy, I AM the demon. Are you always so sensitive and defensive to advice you don't want to hear? If so, don't come here and ask questions. You offered help, she said no. You come here and cookiemonster about it. Sounds like you need to back off and man up. No is no. What else is there to say? How about helping her find a place since you want to "help" so damn much. Oh no, that's not the kind of help YOU want to give. You just want her to move in so it's easier for you to trick off. Fake ass good intentions.
calling yourself a demon shows your old age and "maturity"... hardly.
You know nothing of which you speak. She's wanting to move to be close to her family (across country to Washington) , wanting to stay here, and wanting to look for opportunities in other areas. Signing another lease where she's at or anywhere, with her situations, isn't a smart idea. I told her she needs to figure her path out so she can pull the trigger. I don't WANT her to live with me, but its the most logical, as basically she's lived with me for four months. at least that way if it takes her 2 - 3 months to decide ultimately what she wants, she's not locking herself into an agreement, when I already know she's going to be over here all the time anyway.
It's sad some of you ladies figure this is about in house vagina, when I'm already basically getting it in house everyday. One of my very concerns is once I allow her to truly live with me, things change and I become miserable. Part of me wants to be selfish and say "No, stay where you are, because I don't see things going the way I want." Another part of me wants to say, "hey come stay, save some cash, figure your butter out, and then make your decision without haste."
@Still ... in terms of feelings. I have feelings for her, but she's so wishy-washy. I have my walls up. If I stopped talking to her today, I would miss her company, but that's about it.
One day she wants to meet my family, another day she wants to find someone who loves her for her, another day she wants to find a woman to be with, another day I am her best friend and she appreciates me in her life, when she's drunk she loves me. when she's sober she says she doesn't, but exhibits every sign she does.
She truly acts like a typical man in a woman's body. the only time she gets really feminine is during her period when shes wanting to cuddle and stuff, heck even sex is more like a tug-o-war for power, then she becomes submissive during, and as soon as its over, back to being standoffish.
I really don't know what I'm getting every morning or throughout the day with her.
So I am playing the FWB role, just to keep all the expectations down and be supportive. I have other things in my life that need my attention and I am sure of. click to expandclick to expand
lol
if she's having fwb with u it's probably cause she likes ur sexing
but can't trust u otherwise. like she knows u two are incompatible.
but her needs must be met xd
never had fwb to be honest but that's what i think i would do if i were in her place.
for example, i feel a "connection" with u...like i can't stay away from u cause there's something magnetic between us...
but i know u are so incompatible with me because u and i dont see eye to eye on relationship values.
thats the only reason i would think why some do fwb.
i mean why?
Posted by saggurl88sag venus men like happy go lucky women lolPosted by UnicornSagPosted by saggurl88Venus in Sag takes no ordersPosted by UnicornSag
Why force moving in after just 4 months? Who cares for convenience, it's not a bad thing to have your own place just in case? I'm with a guy 8 years and never moved in,despite being there almost all the time. I feel better this way so why not be that way? Aquas just as Sags love their space and alone time so idk why would you as a Sag force that either
Because Venus in Scorpio says so! 😈😇
but seriously...that's way too fast lol
I like Sag Venus. My ex Scorpio has that. He always need to be shown affection. I love how he throws fits to get it I'm nonchalant on purpose cause it bugs him and then he scooches under me like a puppy wanting to get pet click to expandclick to expand
MOON / VENUS in SAGITTARIUS
The type of woman who attracts you is honest, direct, and reliable - who can be your "pal". You like a woman who's playful one minute, and philosophical the next.
Above all, companionship, honesty, and idealism appeal to you - and a sense of humor! You also like "outdoorsy", athletic, or adventurous types; and can be attracted to women who are "foreign" to you by race, religion, or country of origin - or all three!
You need your "space" and freedom in relationships; yet with a partner who allows you this freedom, you feel less of a need to actually exercise it! Just to know you have the freedom to choose is the important thing. You may not commit to a lasting relationship while young, remaining single until you're ready to trade total independence for the benefits of an intimate, lasting partnership.
Your natural friendliness can be mistaken by some for a sexual interest; and you are as likely to confuse a woman's friendliness with romantic interest. You may find that many of your potential romances actually end up as platonic friendships instead. (continued) ©2000 by Michael Star"
my husband has sagittarius in personal planets and a mercury that has no filter ...his filter only works in professional setting.
he likes exotic/foriegn looks, which is true. And he is my best friend too. but what he does not have is that happy go lucky demeanour, he is more serious minded.
and i'm not the outdoorsy type either...i am really a homebody in comparison. i hate camping and anything outdoorsy too much but i like hiking and walks in the woods and cycling as long as we get back to the house cabin and cozy up there. i fucking hate camping.
Posted by vixen14This and Im a Sag! 4 months is too fast for a move in...
OmG 4 months is nothing Sag. We don’t move fast like other signs. We need time and very few have the patience to handle that. I honestly wouldn’t move in with you either. At 4 months you’re practically a stranger to me.
What’s her venus?
I learned that lesson that hard way before! LOL
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