Praisee
@Praisee
9 Years
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Posted by Mariposa_
Golddigger.
Why is it your obligation to pay for her things? That would make me suspicious.

Posted by Gemitati
How stupid are you? It’s a serious question.
Posted by VenusAquarius
Goldiggers go for bigger prizes. They are good at counting pockets. She's not a goldigger, imo, cause you clearly don't have it like that.
She's trying to pimp you... trying to train you. If it works, she keeps going. If it don't, she's gone.

Posted by PraiseePosted by VenusAquarius
Goldiggers go for bigger prizes. They are good at counting pockets. She's not a goldigger, imo, cause you clearly don't have it like that.
She's trying to pimp you... trying to train you. If it works, she keeps going. If it don't, she's gone.
she actually does encourage me a lot to get better.
what do you think I should do here?
Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.
Her saying she won't call me ever again is giving me heartacheclick to expand

Posted by PraiseePosted by Gemitati
How stupid are you? It’s a serious question.
pardon a man in love please... what do you think I should do here?
Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.click to expand



Posted by VenusAquarius
Y'all sit right there. Some men love to pay.
I've been with men that be boiling cause you refuse to ask. (I saw it as control.)
Everybody ain't the same.
He wants to pay, wishes he could. If this don't work out. You better believe, when gets hisself right. He's gonna be one of those men I mentioned above.
@Praisee,
You wish you could pay? You wish you had it like that?

Posted by nikkistarPosted by VenusAquarius
Y'all sit right there. Some men love to pay.
I've been with men that be boiling cause you refuse to ask. (I saw it as control.)
Everybody ain't the same.
He wants to pay, wishes he could. If this don't work out. You better believe, when gets hisself right. He's gonna be one of those men I mentioned above.
@Praisee,
You wish you could pay? You wish you had it like that?
It's not about him paying. If he wants to, and can, more power to him.
But to throw a tantrum about not getting money for a new phone, and then ignoring him for it, is ridiculously childish.click to expand
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by PraiseePosted by VenusAquarius
Goldiggers go for bigger prizes. They are good at counting pockets. She's not a goldigger, imo, cause you clearly don't have it like that.
She's trying to pimp you... trying to train you. If it works, she keeps going. If it don't, she's gone.
she actually does encourage me a lot to get better.
what do you think I should do here?
Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.
Her saying she won't call me ever again is giving me heartache
Act like it didn't happen? And, see how it goes.click to expand
Posted by nikkistarPosted by VenusAquarius
Y'all sit right there. Some men love to pay.
I've been with men that be boiling cause you refuse to ask. (I saw it as control.)
Everybody ain't the same.
He wants to pay, wishes he could. If this don't work out. You better believe, when gets hisself right. He's gonna be one of those men I mentioned above.
@Praisee,
You wish you could pay? You wish you had it like that?
It's not about him paying. If he wants to, and can, more power to him.
But to throw a tantrum about not getting money for a new phone, and then ignoring him for it, is ridiculously childish.click to expand

Posted by PraiseePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by PraiseePosted by VenusAquarius
Goldiggers go for bigger prizes. They are good at counting pockets. She's not a goldigger, imo, cause you clearly don't have it like that.
She's trying to pimp you... trying to train you. If it works, she keeps going. If it don't, she's gone.
she actually does encourage me a lot to get better.
what do you think I should do here?
Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.
Her saying she won't call me ever again is giving me heartache
Act like it didn't happen? And, see how it goes.
I should give her space?click to expand

Posted by VenusAquarius
Y'all sit right there. Some men love to pay.
I've been with men that be boiling cause you refuse to ask. (I saw it as control.)
Everybody ain't the same.
He wants to pay, wishes he could. If this don't work out. You better believe, when gets hisself right. He's gonna be one of those men I mentioned above.
@Praisee,
You wish you could pay? You wish you had it like that?
Posted by pisceswoman123
Do you think that it could be a possibility that it’s not about the money and that the real issue is that she feels that she is not important to you?
It feels to me that she is just throwing a tantrum because she doesn’t feel like you care enough for her.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by PraiseePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by PraiseePosted by VenusAquarius
Goldiggers go for bigger prizes. They are good at counting pockets. She's not a goldigger, imo, cause you clearly don't have it like that.
She's trying to pimp you... trying to train you. If it works, she keeps going. If it don't, she's gone.
she actually does encourage me a lot to get better.
what do you think I should do here?
Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.
Her saying she won't call me ever again is giving me heartache
Act like it didn't happen? And, see how it goes.
I should give her space?
Not really... just act like it never happened. Send a gift you can afford if it makes you feel better.
But, she the type to maybe have others. So watch her. Don't say nothing but, see how she gets money. Prepare your heart.
You'll get there one day.click to expand

Posted by PraiseePosted by pisceswoman123
Do you think that it could be a possibility that it’s not about the money and that the real issue is that she feels that she is not important to you?
It feels to me that she is just throwing a tantrum because she doesn’t feel like you care enough for her.
yes I feel this way too, because she said maybe I don't think she is important enough for my airtime to finish on her. Maybe I said the wrong thing at that time.
I don't know how to resolve it. I really want toclick to expand

Posted by PraiseePosted by nikkistarPosted by VenusAquarius
Y'all sit right there. Some men love to pay.
I've been with men that be boiling cause you refuse to ask. (I saw it as control.)
Everybody ain't the same.
He wants to pay, wishes he could. If this don't work out. You better believe, when gets hisself right. He's gonna be one of those men I mentioned above.
@Praisee,
You wish you could pay? You wish you had it like that?
It's not about him paying. If he wants to, and can, more power to him.
But to throw a tantrum about not getting money for a new phone, and then ignoring him for it, is ridiculously childish.
sorry for asking, you think the tantrum for her saying she won't ever call me again is my inability to pay up for her phone?
Or just because I felt we should chat rather than talk on phone at that moment?click to expand
Posted by Antiochus
Just do your own thing for a while while she does for hersel whatever she has to do.
Aqua women during their younger years have a tendeny to act plain crazy at times.
Posted by PraiseePosted by Gemitati
How stupid are you? It’s a serious question.
pardon a man in love please... what do you think I should do here?
Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.click to expand

Posted by pisceswoman123
Do you think that it could be a possibility that it’s not about the money and that the real issue is that she feels that she is not important to you?
It feels to me that she is just throwing a tantrum because she doesn’t feel like you care enough for her.

Posted by PraiseePosted by VenusAquariusPosted by PraiseePosted by VenusAquarius
Goldiggers go for bigger prizes. They are good at counting pockets. She's not a goldigger, imo, cause you clearly don't have it like that.
She's trying to pimp you... trying to train you. If it works, she keeps going. If it don't, she's gone.
she actually does encourage me a lot to get better.
what do you think I should do here?
Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.
Her saying she won't call me ever again is giving me heartache
Act like it didn't happen? And, see how it goes.
I should give her space?click to expand

Posted by Impulsv
Red flags she is using you
Who the fuck asks for money
Guys I can’t believe your so easily used

Posted by RooSagicornPosted by Mariposa_
This is why I don’t give advice, I feel I’m too harsh sometimes.
I agree with you!click to expand

Posted by PraiseePosted by Antiochus
Just do your own thing for a while while she does for hersel whatever she has to do.
Aqua women during their younger years have a tendeny to act plain crazy at times.
she is 22. Im 28click to expand


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Yesterday at night, she called me and I didn't pick up the phone. I later called back, we talked normally, then she raised the issue of her needing a new phone, I should add up some money for her. I told her I Will, let me get paid by the end of the month, she later asked why is it that every time she asks for significant money, I won't give it to her, like the last she asked me to pay up for part of her school fees, I already told her I didn't have at that point.
So for her to ask me again last night, I didn't have answers for her again, I told her let's chat on WhatsApp. That Was when the problem started.
She said she won't ever call me again, that we should be chatting only. She dropped the call. I called back, she kept dropping the calls till I sent her a text if she could come online.
She came online, I told her I didn't have enough airtime to call, that I didn't want the little I had to finish on her. She got angrier, saying it's because she is not important to me, that is why I didn't want my airtime to finish on her. She stopped chatting again.
Today, I've tried apologizing a lot, she hardly chats again with me, she only picks up my calls after it rings for a the fifth time again, and still insists she won't ever call me again.
How do I manage this situation. I'm afraid of losing her. I really love her.
I'm an Aquarian too.