GypseeScorpGal
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Aquarius moon man behavior
Good luck 👍
I was married to one for a long time
Good guy, but he needed and needs loads of space
It works very well as a friendship now
Good guy, but he needed and needs loads of space
It works very well as a friendship now
Posted by JustOneDayPosted by GypseeScorpGalWhat's his Sun sign?
I'm messaging because I want to deeply understand this Aqua moon man situation I am experiencing.
For starters, we have an amazing amount of intellectual chemistry. We can talk about anything and he has said that he loves reading what texts I send because of my intelligence. He's described how he's feeling as "highly attracted to me physically, feels a strong connection, says I'm amazing, says he's falling fast for me, calls us soulmates, highly intelligent (he did recently even say that he believes himself to be intelligent until we started talking and he feels intimidated by me), he's been extremely honest with me about many things so I have no reason to think he's dishonest. I'm not picking up anything dishonest intuitively either.
He does need tons of space I've noted, which is sometimes hard for me but I'm always positive when he comes back ready to chat and reconnect after a spell apart. But then says that he needs me and asks me to never leave him, tells me he's afraid of being abandoned. I reassure him but he's still kinda "frozen" for lack of better terms. If I initiate he backs waaaaay up...he does not respond well to direct approach at all!
He's kind of all over the place though. One day very chatty, ready for connection, takes the conversation from deep psychological theories to sexual desires to kundalini and twin flames and back again. Then the next day, one text message. Sometimes he'll start messaging with me and we'll chat for a few messages and I'll be the last to respond and I won't hear from him until the next morning - like nothing ever happened. The last message I sent completely glossed over.
Is this all typical Aqua man behavior? What's my best approach to help him feel comfortable and allow him to understand he can trust me? ...that I'm not going to leave him?
Thanks
ScorpGalclick to expand
He is a Taurus Sun
Cancer Mars
Venus Aries
So Yeah...there's that
Posted by KoniuchaaNo...I've brought this up and his response is "Please be patient, it's not time. I'm working on it"
Have you met in person?
Posted by UnicornSagScorpios are contradictions galore...life and death
You seem to change your minds pretty fast...yesterday you wanted to show him you'll be there for him and won't leave him but today you're done?
I don't know how Aqua man are cause I haven't dealt with one but I did deal with Cap sun/Aqua Moon combo and it can be like this. But that's if you don't ask what happened? I'm not scared to ask questions and I do ask them. I'm being me with him and he responds to that more or less. Not sure that he ever asked for space tho but he did retreat to himself after certain conversations happened. I have feeling every aqua placements would go well with sag placements when it comes to that desire for freedom and not being clingy. Like letting someone know you're there for them but not being all over them...sounds good on paper but I have no idea how it looks like in reality.
And what I don't understand is why Scorps have to say one thing and think/do the other all the time? JUst like you described yourself here
Being a WATER sign, they can be enormously sensitive and moody.
But being ruled by MARS, they can be impatient and harsh.
But being FEMININE, they can be emotional mushballs.
And being FIXED, they can be incredibly STUBBORN and DOMINANT.
In fact, if one has set his sights on you, good luck getting rid of him.
It's incredibly difficult to have these influences in my chart and be an evolved human being.
I always come back to what's the most important thing to me and how I want others to feel in my presence, or as a result of my behavior, what influence or inspiration I want to leave them with.
His behavior just feels disrespectful to my person. The thing is too, I've discussed this with him and he's acknowledge in a complete and deep understanding so I know it's there. It's like he needs to have full control of the conversation all the time. When he doesn't, he withdraws, but at the same time really shows admiration for what I've said or shared.
Posted by crazysiouxOh yes they do. Seeing one now and not my first rodeo with an aqua moon, he told me on our second date that he doesn't need to talk or text everyday. I'm good with that because I'm the same way...but if the op needs more contact and/or confirmation it won't work for her...Posted by UnicornSagBingo!
You seem to change your minds pretty fast...yesterday you wanted to show him you'll be there for him and won't leave him but today you're done?
He senses fickleness and responds accordingly.
Aqua moons are slow to make any consistent commitment.
The need to feel safe and secure, and need their freedom/space, too.click to expand
Posted by crazysiouxI understand trepidation but I cannot construct a narrative to connect the dots on his behalf just because the connection intellectually is strong. I do believe that he likes me a great deal and he may be uncertain of my feelings for him. I have been very consistent with him, not in the same way he is with me, but I am not him by extension and will not show him the way he shows me.Posted by UnicornSagBingo!
You seem to change your minds pretty fast...yesterday you wanted to show him you'll be there for him and won't leave him but today you're done?
He senses fickleness and responds accordingly.
Aqua moons are slow to make any consistent commitment.
The need to feel safe and secure, and need their freedom/space, too.click to expand
He came at me hard in the beginning as to ensure I would have strong feelings for him. He has been the one that has altered his behavior. I now have reason not to trust by demonstration...not provide unrequited love. His paradigm is fantasy mimicking and because we haven't met in person could not possibly be based on anything tangible. This is where I'm left confused.
Posted by CvurkooThat's just it. He's not always there for me and isn't showing up even when he says he's going to.
We do need lots of space but whats the problem if we are always there when need be and if we give enough love to our partner?
It does seem like he has some insecurities tho, he should work on those.
Oh and i personally am extremely awkward when i express feelings so if he is like that too, chances are her likes you a lot.
Good luck
I believe he has severe anxiety and he is working on them, I have to give him that.
He's not awkward, he's direct and abrupt, and then completely disappears.
Posted by MyStarsShineWhat were some of his other placements Star, is this the Virgo?
I was married to one for a long time
Good guy, but he needed and needs loads of space
It works very well as a friendship now
Posted by Jules-llYes Virgo, Jules....son's dadPosted by MyStarsShineWhat were some of his other placements Star, is this the Virgo?
I was married to one for a long time
Good guy, but he needed and needs loads of space
It works very well as a friendship nowclick to expand
Virgo Sun, Mercury and Pluto in 9th
Venus in Cancer in 8th
Mars Sag in 1st
Jupiter and Uranus in Libra in 10th
Rising Sag
Chiron in Aries in 4th. 😞
Saturn in 5th Taurus
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jules-llYes Virgo, Jules....son's dadPosted by MyStarsShineWhat were some of his other placements Star, is this the Virgo?
I was married to one for a long time
Good guy, but he needed and needs loads of space
It works very well as a friendship now
Virgo Sun, Mercury and Pluto in 9th
Venus in Cancer in 8th
Mars Sag in 1st
Jupiter and Uranus in Libra in 10th
Rising Sag
Chiron in Aries in 4th. 😞
Saturn in 5th Taurusclick to expand
I have the same sun, Merc and Pluto as your ex, and an air moon as well. I need some alone time. It's how we regroup and relax our always busy minds, not that we don't want to be around our loved ones. My scorp moon ex never understood this concept, in fact he was threatened by the idea...
Posted by LibraMudra
Really strange.
I was with a scorp sun, aqua moon for 5 years. I also have aqua moon. We may have may have both been stubborn af but we never really disappeared on each other. If anything, we both beat the dead horse for far too long. And I am the one who needed tons of space probably because all the air in my chart. It felt a bit like he suffocated me. But even still, if he texted or called me, I would reply. Until the very end when I left him. And that was because things got physically abusive. Then I dropped off the face of the planet and he went crazy.
We can get a bit awkward expressing feelings. Especially if there is no artistic outlet as hobby or passion. It takes a lot of patience and time. The more space and reassurance you give, the more they want to be around.
It shocks me that it went physical! I was also with a scorp sun/aqua moon for 4 years. I couldn't even get him to pull my hair....
Posted by Jules-llMoon square moon can be difficulty Jules....what were his other placements ?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jules-llYes Virgo, Jules....son's dadPosted by MyStarsShineWhat were some of his other placements Star, is this the Virgo?
I was married to one for a long time
Good guy, but he needed and needs loads of space
It works very well as a friendship now
Virgo Sun, Mercury and Pluto in 9th
Venus in Cancer in 8th
Mars Sag in 1st
Jupiter and Uranus in Libra in 10th
Rising Sag
Chiron in Aries in 4th. 😞
Saturn in 5th Taurus
I have the same sun, Merc and Pluto as your ex, and an air moon as well. I need some alone time. It's how we regroup and relax our always busy minds, not that we don't want to be around our loved ones. My scorp moon ex never understood this concept, in fact he was threatened by the idea...
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I feel if it wasn't for our son and myself, Virgo wouldn't socialise at all, except to feed his Sag mars a couple times a week to play football
He works from home and keeps himself very private
Posted by LibraMudraPosted by Jules-llWell, I mean, I'm sure they don't have the same placements or same POS personality. He has sag venus and leo rising. I don't even think that matters. It was his upbringing.Posted by LibraMudra
Really strange.
I was with a scorp sun, aqua moon for 5 years. I also have aqua moon. We may have may have both been stubborn af but we never really disappeared on each other. If anything, we both beat the dead horse for far too long. And I am the one who needed tons of space probably because all the air in my chart. It felt a bit like he suffocated me. But even still, if he texted or called me, I would reply. Until the very end when I left him. And that was because things got physically abusive. Then I dropped off the face of the planet and he went crazy.
We can get a bit awkward expressing feelings. Especially if there is no artistic outlet as hobby or passion. It takes a lot of patience and time. The more space and reassurance you give, the more they want to be around.
It shocks me that it went physical! I was also with a scorp sun/aqua moon for 4 years. I couldn't even get him to pull my hair....
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Sorry you went through that, glad you got out of it...
Posted by UnicornSagYou've shared some amazing insights about acceptance. I really appreciate you taking your time to help me source out what's really going on and being a part of that process for me. I clearly have more internal work to focus on with regards to emotional turbulence. I don't mean anything bad about it, and I don't move on what I'm thinking as far as changing my mind. I just think that I might. It's not a Scorpio trait...I have Libra Venus so I vacillate and with a Scorpio moon that can be a wild and turbulent pendulum.Posted by GypseeScorpGalPosted by UnicornSagScorpios are contradictions galore...life and death
You seem to change your minds pretty fast...yesterday you wanted to show him you'll be there for him and won't leave him but today you're done?
I don't know how Aqua man are cause I haven't dealt with one but I did deal with Cap sun/Aqua Moon combo and it can be like this. But that's if you don't ask what happened? I'm not scared to ask questions and I do ask them. I'm being me with him and he responds to that more or less. Not sure that he ever asked for space tho but he did retreat to himself after certain conversations happened. I have feeling every aqua placements would go well with sag placements when it comes to that desire for freedom and not being clingy. Like letting someone know you're there for them but not being all over them...sounds good on paper but I have no idea how it looks like in reality.
And what I don't understand is why Scorps have to say one thing and think/do the other all the time? JUst like you described yourself here
Being a WATER sign, they can be enormously sensitive and moody.
But being ruled by MARS, they can be impatient and harsh.
But being FEMININE, they can be emotional mushballs.
And being FIXED, they can be incredibly STUBBORN and DOMINANT.
In fact, if one has set his sights on you, good luck getting rid of him.
It's incredibly difficult to have these influences in my chart and be an evolved human being.
I always come back to what's the most important thing to me and how I want others to feel in my presence, or as a result of my behavior, what influence or inspiration I want to leave them with.
His behavior just feels disrespectful to my person. The thing is too, I've discussed this with him and he's acknowledge in a complete and deep understanding so I know it's there. It's like he needs to have full control of the conversation all the time. When he doesn't, he withdraws, but at the same time really shows admiration for what I've said or shared.
Yes I've seen how that loos like when Scorpio is after you, it's like they'll do anything to get you. No boundaries, no nothing, it can be even pathetic how low one can go for that...I don't really understand that kind of determination but whatever works for you 🙂 it's also easy to chase away Scorpio if you know how to lol
About control part I'd say it comes more from his sun than moon. And he clearly needs things in his pace so you can't rush him to be faster no matter how much you want it. It's not getting his way, despite I'm aware that's how it looks to a Scorpio who also wants things their way. It's the way he is. Not the battle for power, who will be in charge or better, it's how how he works as a person. You can either accept it or walk away from it, but you can't make him be the way you want him. He clearly is interested and shows it in his own way but how fast it will go depends on him really, it's not him getting control over you but it's simply him being himself. Put yourself in his place. If you were the one who wants things to go slower and he rush you to move faster and you feel uncomfortable about it, would you accept it still just to please him? I don't think so really. Again, I'm not saying you have to put up with it but if you like him and he likes you, maybe you should simply consider accepting him the way he is if you can and if you can't well you know...click to expand
Through the years I have made balance a focus and when I start to have true and deep feelings, when things start to feel deeper for me, it's hard to balance. I eventually settle and during that process it's exactly people like you that share the wisdom that you have that really aid my calm returning.
I also have Ketu in a rough placement for a female because it makes me more analytical about making decisions regarding my feelings. I can be very disciplined, working my feelings out for myself rather than expressing them. I've been told that's a detriment because of the way men bond by fixing things in a relationship with his woman. Until I work this out, I'm going to have these types of issues within myself. I hope he can accept that about me.
Posted by SpaceBirdYeah...I get that. I'm just not sure the casual fits the Scorpio descriptive. I can do light and fun thanks to some great Libra placements, but when my emotions are drawn into the situation it's difficult for me to keep light. It gets buried. Any suggestions as to how I could continue without it appearing...I don't want to be dishonest.
i would suggest you see this as more casual....you may never meet him...
go with the flow ..as far as he is concerned ....see other people ..let other men into your life ...
I have and continue to talk with other men. So there is that and I've learned the benefit of multiple conversations without heavy definitions of commitments. I do strongly draw the line at my inner value system and maintain my feminine integrity.
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Thanks
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