lisabeth
@lisabethur8
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Do people really do this? You either accept me for me, or go kick some rocks. I could give 2 fuccs about me not being what they want. I don't care if you get angry either, get over it lol
I'm always gonna do me, you do you lol
I can compromise, but don't expect me to be what you want, I need to be what I want.
"If you're not an aquarius, state your sun, moon, mars mercury."
Sag, Cancer, Leo, Sag
I'm always gonna do me, you do you lol
I can compromise, but don't expect me to be what you want, I need to be what I want.
"If you're not an aquarius, state your sun, moon, mars mercury."
Sag, Cancer, Leo, Sag
I see women always trying to change a male aquas.
That it’s one of the reasons aqua like me. Apparently I don’t do that and they like that they can be themselves around me.
I am talking about male and female. My aqua friends always mention that to me. So obviously they feel pressure from other people.
The same with partners.
That it’s one of the reasons aqua like me. Apparently I don’t do that and they like that they can be themselves around me.
I am talking about male and female. My aqua friends always mention that to me. So obviously they feel pressure from other people.
The same with partners.
I think it is because they barely react to things to people want to see how far they go. My Aqua says he has experienced this. In a way I think it's the opposite he expects things from me then he gets confused when I don't live up to what he thinks is happening. I think he is never sure what he is feeling and projects that on to me. Saying things like I feel like you feel this way when I can't even figure out how he came to that conclusion it comes off as stuff he is really feeling about me but he isn't sure how to express it.
Easy going happy campers we are 😎🧜🏼♀️
idk if i evoke strong feelings, but once or twice in my life i had professional problems because the person directly above me got scared for his job after i arrived.
That taught me to never let your immediate superior know your thoughts on how you'd optimize the business because they take it as an insult on their ability and not in the "making life easier for everyone" spirit.
That taught me to never let your immediate superior know your thoughts on how you'd optimize the business because they take it as an insult on their ability and not in the "making life easier for everyone" spirit.
Fixed air
They can tend to think they are in the right a lot of the time which can annoy some people
They are usually harmless though
They can tend to think they are in the right a lot of the time which can annoy some people
They are usually harmless though
They can think they ate right all they want. I will just agree and keep it moving. Everyone has opinions. What's the big deal. Just ignore it.
I won't do what you say but I will listen to you say it 😁
I only do stuff if it makes sense to me. I don't care what it is. Lol
I won't do what you say but I will listen to you say it 😁
I only do stuff if it makes sense to me. I don't care what it is. Lol
Posted by SmidgeThe door is that way 👉🚶🚪
Yes, I agree, aquas are annoying.
Posted by SmidgeNah you're lying. You like us hehe.Posted by AerialViewOh thanks, I was looking for that. Freeeedom.Posted by SmidgeThe door is that way 👉🚶🚪
Yes, I agree, aquas are annoying.click to expand
Posted by SmidgeIt's hard not to laugh on that 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Posted by AerialViewNo. 😑Posted by SmidgeNah you're lying. You like us hehe.Posted by AerialViewOh thanks, I was looking for that. Freeeedom.Posted by SmidgeThe door is that way 👉🚶🚪
Yes, I agree, aquas are annoying.
I swear, some weird aqua locked me in here. Said he was going outside to shower in the rain. Weird.
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I think aquas require a lot of patience ⏱
Posted by pisceswoman123yeah but i think that's with every man out there. in every sun sign... women want to change them.
I see women always trying to change a male aquas.
That it’s one of the reasons aqua like me. Apparently I don’t do that and they like that they can be themselves around me.
I am talking about male and female. My aqua friends always mention that to me. So obviously they feel pressure from other people.
The same with partners.
you can't change someone unless they want to compromise or adapt, in a relationship.
and yeah i do like how you just let things be, i'll mirror you too, and allow you to be you, so when you say,
you have those aquas that like you, i never had a problem with you.
speaking of women trying to change men, i know they mean well, but if they are who they are,
you can't change them. i mean you fell in love with them in the first place that way, so let it go.
i think that's also a large part of my relationshp with my husband, i dont change him, and let him be.
and he loves that too. we mirror eachother.
Posted by saggurl88you're very easy going. lol
Do people really do this? You either accept me for me, or go kick some rocks. I could give 2 fuccs about me not being what they want. I don't care if you get angry either, get over it lol
I'm always gonna do me, you do you lol
I can compromise, but don't expect me to be what you want, I need to be what I want.
"If you're not an aquarius, state your sun, moon, mars mercury."
Sag, Cancer, Leo, Sag
Posted by nanoyou know so many aquas.lol
I like aquas and get along with them great. Sometimes I get annoyed with my aqua coworkers but that's to be expected when you are spending so much time with them at work.
The two that I work with both have sag moon and they are constantly joking around all day every single day and sometimes I want to be quiet, work alone, and be more serious and get things done. They are very buddy-oriented and need to do EVERYTHING together.
It also feels like my female aqua coworker holds me to a higher standard than the male aqua and the male Libra. I just attribute that to the fact that women dislike other women generally. Like they can ask for all these vacations and days off and it's cool. But if I need to go to the dentist, I'm questioned. Wtf?
Anyway, I don't think or notice that they get strong feelings and reactions out of people.
Maybe the aqua woman married to the scorp when she doesn't obey him. Scorp has the aqua whipped and she obliges happily. Kind of makes me nauseas
Posted by Cheesecakeif it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,
I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
are you talking about just friendship/platonic?
as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
Posted by ladylibra21it doesn't sound like an easy going relationshp for you and your aqua though, if it's too hard. :/
I think it is because they barely react to things to people want to see how far they go. My Aqua says he has experienced this. In a way I think it's the opposite he expects things from me then he gets confused when I don't live up to what he thinks is happening. I think he is never sure what he is feeling and projects that on to me. Saying things like I feel like you feel this way when I can't even figure out how he came to that conclusion it comes off as stuff he is really feeling about me but he isn't sure how to express it.
Posted by Lioness18881I disagree. Many Aquas tell folks straight up the guy/girl isn't interested and get told we are mean or too cold. Or we hear ten pages of things that happened in the relationship that isn't a relationship and to dissect what happened. People hear what they want to has been my experience in the past 4 + years here.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881Yes, we like ot listen and help where we can.Posted by SmidgeLol. I think i figurred ot out. It's because they're full of shit. Go to the Leo or Aries one and ask why a guy isn't calling or texting and we tell them straight out, he doesn't like you. Ask an aqua and they say he likes you but he needs his space. Then people as what should i do and then they go into a rant about how you should give him space, don't be this, don't be that, aquas are the best just accept him the way he is and don't expect a fucking thing ever. Wait around and be friends for 70 years and they will love you like no other... 😝Posted by Lioness18881Aqua board is always busy 😂Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosYup 🤔Posted by SmidgeYou guys need to become more confusing.Posted by SeleukosIt always is. 😢Posted by SmidgeThe Aries board is boring again isn't it?
Yes, I agree, aquas are annoying.
Also, there's a lack of Aries on this site anyway, so even when someone makes a thread it dies out fairly quickly.
We need some drama.
Leo is the same. People don't complain about us enough. Everyone complains about Aquas though.
You are allowed to thank us when we have reached utopia.
It's instilling false hope and false expectations. That's not helping people. That's delaying the inevitable and making people get attached to an idea and believing something that doesn't exist.
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Posted by lisabethur8😁Posted by saggurl88you're very easy going. lol
Do people really do this? You either accept me for me, or go kick some rocks. I could give 2 fuccs about me not being what they want. I don't care if you get angry either, get over it lol
I'm always gonna do me, you do you lol
I can compromise, but don't expect me to be what you want, I need to be what I want.
"If you're not an aquarius, state your sun, moon, mars mercury."
Sag, Cancer, Leo, Sagclick to expand
Posted by Lioness18881is this your experience with your ex aqua when he couldnt stop working and spend time with you?
I think it's the other way around and Aqua want everyone and everything on their terms. They don't compromise for others. One side is expected to adapt and bend and they won't do the same. It's selfish
as an example?
if so, i agree with you to an extent.
i wouldnt want that.
Posted by Smidgeyeah there's not many aries here.Posted by SeleukosYup 🤔Posted by SmidgeYou guys need to become more confusing.Posted by SeleukosIt always is. 😢Posted by SmidgeThe Aries board is boring again isn't it?
Yes, I agree, aquas are annoying.
Also, there's a lack of Aries on this site anyway, so even when someone makes a thread it dies out fairly quickly.
We need some drama.
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i remember they did a poll of 100 posters on this site? alot of water suns, earth suns, leo suns, other fire and air, too,
not many aquas (maybe one or two), but they need to do a recount..... lol
and i think maybe 5 or less aries?
Posted by justagirlYou know what justagirl, I think us aqua women are more straight up then the mean. Most people on this board are referring to the men.Posted by Lioness18881I disagree. Many Aquas tell folks straight up the guy/girl isn't interested and get told we are mean or too cold. Or we hear ten pages of things that happened in the relationship that isn't a relationship and to dissect what happened. People hear what they want to has been my experience in the past 4 + years here.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881Yes, we like ot listen and help where we can.Posted by SmidgeLol. I think i figurred ot out. It's because they're full of shit. Go to the Leo or Aries one and ask why a guy isn't calling or texting and we tell them straight out, he doesn't like you. Ask an aqua and they say he likes you but he needs his space. Then people as what should i do and then they go into a rant about how you should give him space, don't be this, don't be that, aquas are the best just accept him the way he is and don't expect a fucking thing ever. Wait around and be friends for 70 years and they will love you like no other... 😝Posted by Lioness18881Aqua board is always busy 😂Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosYup 🤔Posted by SmidgeYou guys need to become more confusing.Posted by SeleukosIt always is. 😢Posted by SmidgeThe Aries board is boring again isn't it?
Yes, I agree, aquas are annoying.
Also, there's a lack of Aries on this site anyway, so even when someone makes a thread it dies out fairly quickly.
We need some drama.
Leo is the same. People don't complain about us enough. Everyone complains about Aquas though.
You are allowed to thank us when we have reached utopia.
It's instilling false hope and false expectations. That's not helping people. That's delaying the inevitable and making people get attached to an idea and believing something that doesn't exist.
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Posted by Lioness18881This made me laugh so hard! 😂😂😂😂Posted by SmidgeLol. I think i figurred ot out. It's because they're full of shit. Go to the Leo or Aries one and ask why a guy isn't calling or texting and we tell them straight out, he doesn't like you. Ask an aqua and they say he likes you but he needs his space. Then people as what should i do and then they go into a rant about how you should give him space, don't be this, don't be that, aquas are the best just accept him the way he is and don't expect a fucking thing ever. Wait around and be friends for 70 years and they will love you like no other. .. 😝Posted by Lioness18881Aqua board is always busy 😂Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosYup 🤔Posted by SmidgeYou guys need to become more confusing.Posted by SeleukosIt always is. 😢Posted by SmidgeThe Aries board is boring again isn't it?
Yes, I agree, aquas are annoying.
Also, there's a lack of Aries on this site anyway, so even when someone makes a thread it dies out fairly quickly.
We need some drama.
Leo is the same. People don't complain about us enough. Everyone complains about Aquas though.
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Posted by STILLPosted by justagirlYou know what justagirl, I think us aqua women are more straight up then the mean. Most people on this board are referring to the men.Posted by Lioness18881I disagree. Many Aquas tell folks straight up the guy/girl isn't interested and get told we are mean or too cold. Or we hear ten pages of things that happened in the relationship that isn't a relationship and to dissect what happened. People hear what they want to has been my experience in the past 4 + years here.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881Yes, we like ot listen and help where we can.Posted by SmidgeLol. I think i figurred ot out. It's because they're full of shit. Go to the Leo or Aries one and ask why a guy isn't calling or texting and we tell them straight out, he doesn't like you. Ask an aqua and they say he likes you but he needs his space. Then people as what should i do and then they go into a rant about how you should give him space, don't be this, don't be that, aquas are the best just accept him the way he is and don't expect a fucking thing ever. Wait around and be friends for 70 years and they will love you like no other... 😝Posted by Lioness18881Aqua board is always busy 😂Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosYup 🤔Posted by SmidgeYou guys need to become more confusing.Posted by SeleukosIt always is. 😢Posted by SmidgeThe Aries board is boring again isn't it?
Yes, I agree, aquas are annoying.
Also, there's a lack of Aries on this site anyway, so even when someone makes a thread it dies out fairly quickly.
We need some drama.
Leo is the same. People don't complain about us enough. Everyone complains about Aquas though.
You are allowed to thank us when we have reached utopia.
It's instilling false hope and false expectations. That's not helping people. That's delaying the inevitable and making people get attached to an idea and believing something that doesn't exist.
😆
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Maybe. We certainly out number the dudes that's for sure lol I think we have 3, maybe 4 left that post regularly.
Posted by STILLPosted by justagirlYou know what justagirl, I think us aqua women are more straight up then the men. Most people on this board are referring to the men.Posted by Lioness18881I disagree. Many Aquas tell folks straight up the guy/girl isn't interested and get told we are mean or too cold. Or we hear ten pages of things that happened in the relationship that isn't a relationship and to dissect what happened. People hear what they want to has been my experience in the past 4 + years here.Posted by SeleukosPosted by Lioness18881Yes, we like ot listen and help where we can.Posted by SmidgeLol. I think i figurred ot out. It's because they're full of shit. Go to the Leo or Aries one and ask why a guy isn't calling or texting and we tell them straight out, he doesn't like you. Ask an aqua and they say he likes you but he needs his space. Then people as what should i do and then they go into a rant about how you should give him space, don't be this, don't be that, aquas are the best just accept him the way he is and don't expect a fucking thing ever. Wait around and be friends for 70 years and they will love you like no other... 😝Posted by Lioness18881Aqua board is always busy 😂Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosYup 🤔Posted by SmidgeYou guys need to become more confusing.Posted by SeleukosIt always is. 😢Posted by SmidgeThe Aries board is boring again isn't it?
Yes, I agree, aquas are annoying.
Also, there's a lack of Aries on this site anyway, so even when someone makes a thread it dies out fairly quickly.
We need some drama.
Leo is the same. People don't complain about us enough. Everyone complains about Aquas though.
You are allowed to thank us when we have reached utopia.
It's instilling false hope and false expectations. That's not helping people. That's delaying the inevitable and making people get attached to an idea and believing something that doesn't exist.
😆
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Posted by Lioness18881There's a big difference between full of shit and full of mystery.Posted by SmidgeLol. I think i figurred ot out. It's because they're full of shit. Go to the Leo or Aries one and ask why a guy isn't calling or texting and we tell them straight out, he doesn't like you. Ask an aqua and they say he likes you but he needs his space. Then people as what should i do and then they go into a rant about how you should give him space, don't be this, don't be that, aquas are the best just accept him the way he is and don't expect a fucking thing ever. Wait around and be friends for 70 years and they will love you like no other... 😝Posted by Lioness18881Aqua board is always busy 😂Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosYup 🤔Posted by SmidgeYou guys need to become more confusing.Posted by SeleukosIt always is. 😢Posted by SmidgeThe Aries board is boring again isn't it?
Yes, I agree, aquas are annoying.
Also, there's a lack of Aries on this site anyway, so even when someone makes a thread it dies out fairly quickly.
We need some drama.
Leo is the same. People don't complain about us enough. Everyone complains about Aquas though.
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Posted by Cheesecakelol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.Posted by lisabethur8It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.Posted by Cheesecakeif it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,
I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
are you talking about just friendship/platonic?
as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.
I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".
We're just too different.
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(as if she had some taurus in her)
i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?
and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.
show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.
(i'm very clingy like that) lol
when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,
he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol
Posted by lisabethur8No it's not I thought it was getting better but I think I was wrong.Posted by ladylibra21it doesn't sound like an easy going relationshp for you and your aqua though, if it's too hard. :/
I think it is because they barely react to things to people want to see how far they go. My Aqua says he has experienced this. In a way I think it's the opposite he expects things from me then he gets confused when I don't live up to what he thinks is happening. I think he is never sure what he is feeling and projects that on to me. Saying things like I feel like you feel this way when I can't even figure out how he came to that conclusion it comes off as stuff he is really feeling about me but he isn't sure how to express it.click to expand
Posted by ladylibra21:/Posted by lisabethur8No it's not I thought it was getting better but I think I was wrong.Posted by ladylibra21it doesn't sound like an easy going relationshp for you and your aqua though, if it's too hard. :/
I think it is because they barely react to things to people want to see how far they go. My Aqua says he has experienced this. In a way I think it's the opposite he expects things from me then he gets confused when I don't live up to what he thinks is happening. I think he is never sure what he is feeling and projects that on to me. Saying things like I feel like you feel this way when I can't even figure out how he came to that conclusion it comes off as stuff he is really feeling about me but he isn't sure how to express it.click to expand
that's too bad.
why do you two remain if it's too hard? do you feel it's still worth it to stay though?
are you both married yet?
Posted by CheesecakeAwww! lol. I had this same instance. The Cancer guy told me he missed me when he came back from a trip. I said nothing. I barely knew himPosted by lisabethur8It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.Posted by Cheesecakeif it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,
I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
are you talking about just friendship/platonic?
as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for like a month. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.
I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".
We're just too different.
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Later on I found out he was upset about it. Then a month later I found out he was interested in me.
You guys got to stop hiding everything.
Posted by lisabethur8But he's your husband. It's ok to be clingy with him.Posted by Cheesecakelol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.Posted by lisabethur8It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.Posted by Cheesecakeif it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,
I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
are you talking about just friendship/platonic?
as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.
I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".
We're just too different.
(as if she had some taurus in her)
i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?
and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.
show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.
(i'm very clingy like that) lol
when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,
he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol
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Posted by STILLyou dont think it's a good idea to be clingy while dating?Posted by lisabethur8But he's your husband. It's ok to be clingy with him.Posted by Cheesecakelol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.Posted by lisabethur8It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.Posted by Cheesecakeif it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,
I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
are you talking about just friendship/platonic?
as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.
I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".
We're just too different.
(as if she had some taurus in her)
i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?
and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.
show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.
(i'm very clingy like that) lol
when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,
he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol
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@Cheesecake, may I do what all the other girls do and pick your brain? What happened with you two? How did it end?
What other things, specifically, do you not like about aqua women?
What other things, specifically, do you not like about aqua women?
Posted by lisabethur8Not within a month! It takes a long time for me to soften up. At least until after the honeymoon phase, if I don't run or detach before then.Posted by STILLyou dont think it's a good idea to be clingy while dating?Posted by lisabethur8But he's your husband. It's ok to be clingy with him.Posted by Cheesecakelol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.Posted by lisabethur8It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.Posted by Cheesecakeif it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,
I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
are you talking about just friendship/platonic?
as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.
I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".
We're just too different.
(as if she had some taurus in her)
i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?
and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.
show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.
(i'm very clingy like that) lol
when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,
he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol
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Posted by SmidgeI wonder why @aquarius_man hasn't comeback?Posted by SeleukosYup 🤔Posted by SmidgeYou guys need to become more confusing.Posted by SeleukosIt always is. 😢Posted by SmidgeThe Aries board is boring again isn't it?
Yes, I agree, aquas are annoying.
Also, there's a lack of Aries on this site anyway, so even when someone makes a thread it dies out fairly quickly.
We need some drama.
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He will rock Aries board again with his cheesy threads 😂
Posted by Cheesecakeok I see. Some of us, including myself, are very shy. lolPosted by STILLIt wasn't a dramatic exit or anything. I moved cities and we both moved on. We were in touch for maybe a year after the relationship, but nothing happened. She's married now and has 3 kids. She follows me in IG a little too closely for my comfort, but she's alright.
@Cheesecake, may I do what all the other girls do and pick your brain? What happened with you two? How did it end?
What other things, specifically, do you not like about aqua women?
I can't make a big list of things I don't like about Aqua women. Most of them are amazing human beings. BUT, I'm not sure if aqua women find it difficult to open up or even if they can open up, but personally, I don't understand how do they tick.
Most of the Aqua women I've met are fine with just chillin' and doing nothing. But in my experience, that often doesn't include much conversation. Part of it is that I'm a quiet guy to begin with, but the other part is them just never engaging enough. Maybe they were shy, too? Who knows?.. I like people with clear interests and passion. I just never met one who's open about anything remotely important to her.
They just don't open up, it's difficult to relate to them because of that and it just ends up being a lame duck relationship for me.click to expand
I guess it's counterproductive, but most of us will not let our guards down, until we know for sure that the person is invested.
Were you able to open up with her or did you prefer for her to open up first? Were you interested in her for a long term relationship or something else? Were you very secretive towards her?
Posted by CheesecakeAquas don't usually do clingy. We don't know how to cling. lol You have to give us a nudge to show us what you want and need.Posted by STILLI don't mind cute clingy after the third date. Just not in a "I want to be your BFF". Not before 3 months anyway.Posted by lisabethur8Not within a month! It takes a long time for me to soften up. At least until after the honeymoon phase, if I don't run or detach before then.Posted by STILLyou dont think it's a good idea to be clingy while dating?Posted by lisabethur8But he's your husband. It's ok to be clingy with him.Posted by Cheesecakelol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.Posted by lisabethur8It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.Posted by Cheesecakeif it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,
I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
are you talking about just friendship/platonic?
as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.
I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".
We're just too different.
(as if she had some taurus in her)
i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?
and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.
show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.
(i'm very clingy like that) lol
when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,
he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol
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Besides, if you look at all the postings about Cancer men on dxp, you guys seem to not want a clingy person.
Posted by STILLyeah i guess that would scare about potential dates.Posted by lisabethur8Not within a month! It takes a long time for me to soften up. At least until after the honeymoon phase, if I don't run or detach before then.Posted by STILLyou dont think it's a good idea to be clingy while dating?Posted by lisabethur8But he's your husband. It's ok to be clingy with him.Posted by Cheesecakelol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.Posted by lisabethur8It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.Posted by Cheesecakeif it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,
I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
are you talking about just friendship/platonic?
as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.
I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".
We're just too different.
(as if she had some taurus in her)
i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?
and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.
show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.
(i'm very clingy like that) lol
when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,
he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol
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what types of men have you dated? are they the sensitive sweet kind?
what sign(s)?
Posted by Cheesecakewow thanks for sharing. she sounded like a pretty easy going type of woman, and her goal was to find marrige/partnership and having children, a home.Posted by STILLIt wasn't a dramatic exit or anything. I moved cities and we both moved on. We were in touch for maybe a year after the relationship, but nothing happened. She's married now and has 3 kids. She follows me in IG a little too closely for my comfort, but she's alright.
@Cheesecake, may I do what all the other girls do and pick your brain? What happened with you two? How did it end?
What other things, specifically, do you not like about aqua women?
I can't make a big list of things I don't like about Aqua women. Most of them are amazing human beings. BUT, I'm not sure if aqua women find it difficult to open up or even if they can open up, but personally, I don't understand how do they tick.
Most of the Aqua women I've met are fine with just chillin' and doing nothing. But in my experience, that often doesn't include much conversation. Part of it is that I'm a quiet guy to begin with, but the other part is them just never engaging enough. Maybe they were shy, too? Who knows?.. I like people with clear interests and passion. I just never met one who's open about anything remotely important to her.
They just don't open up, it's difficult to relate to them because of that and it just ends up being a lame duck relationship for me.click to expand
i think you'd have to have similar interests to be with someone, it sounds, such as both of you having a passion you both enjoy.
her following you alot on IG is a little strange, considering she is married lol
i would really hate that if i saw my man following some girl on IG, or twitter that he knew from a long time ago. and he would also be pissed off why i'm following some guy on IG who was my ex OR even dated him or kissed him...
there would be a fight going on. lol
Posted by STILLPosted by CheesecakeAquas don't usually do clingy. We don't know how to cling. lol You have to give us a nudge to show us what you want and need.Posted by STILLI don't mind cute clingy after the third date. Just not in a "I want to be your BFF". Not before 3 months anyway.Posted by lisabethur8Not within a month! It takes a long time for me to soften up. At least until after the honeymoon phase, if I don't run or detach before then.Posted by STILLyou dont think it's a good idea to be clingy while dating?Posted by lisabethur8But he's your husband. It's ok to be clingy with him.Posted by Cheesecakelol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.Posted by lisabethur8It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.Posted by Cheesecakeif it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,
I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
are you talking about just friendship/platonic?
as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.
I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".
We're just too different.
(as if she had some taurus in her)
i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?
and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.
show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.
(i'm very clingy like that) lol
when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,
he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol
Besides, if you look at all the postings about Cancer men on dxp, you guys seem to not want a clingy person.
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i dont know ...i'm really clingy, and my man always calls before he comes home IF he is out of the house for work a couple days a week, so he'll always call me. he's very clingy, and i love that. i got so used to it. lol
edit - it made me see how wonderful it is, to be honest..
when my ex's weren't clingy at all... i thought that is how men love, the kind that is ...lacking. i mean it's good for women who need alot of freedom..
and then i met my husband, i really love that kind of love.
Posted by CheesecakeGot it.Posted by STILLI was myself. I don't pretend to be anything I'm not, and she knew that. I don't think I was looking for anything long term or short term. I was just looking to find someone interesting, and if she's the one then she's the one.Posted by Cheesecakeok I see. Some of us, including myself, are very shy. lolPosted by STILLIt wasn't a dramatic exit or anything. I moved cities and we both moved on. We were in touch for maybe a year after the relationship, but nothing happened. She's married now and has 3 kids. She follows me in IG a little too closely for my comfort, but she's alright.
@Cheesecake, may I do what all the other girls do and pick your brain? What happened with you two? How did it end?
What other things, specifically, do you not like about aqua women?
I can't make a big list of things I don't like about Aqua women. Most of them are amazing human beings. BUT, I'm not sure if aqua women find it difficult to open up or even if they can open up, but personally, I don't understand how do they tick.
Most of the Aqua women I've met are fine with just chillin' and doing nothing. But in my experience, that often doesn't include much conversation. Part of it is that I'm a quiet guy to begin with, but the other part is them just never engaging enough. Maybe they were shy, too? Who knows?.. I like people with clear interests and passion. I just never met one who's open about anything remotely important to her.
They just don't open up, it's difficult to relate to them because of that and it just ends up being a lame duck relationship for me.
I guess it's counterproductive, but most of us will not let our guards down, until we know for sure that the person is invested.
Were you able to open up with her or did you prefer for her to open up first? Were you interested in her for a long term relationship or something else? Were you very secretive towards her?
But the whole wait to make sure that I'm invested wouldn't work. I wouldn't think that, "hey, this person is holding back love and affection because they are not sure how invested I am in them. Maybe I should invest some more in us". I'd just think that's how they are and I'd accept that and move on.
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Posted by CheesecakeNot really holding back, just not entertaining the thoughts of love, until you know the person actually wants that.Posted by STILLI was myself. I don't pretend to be anything I'm not, and she knew that. I don't think I was looking for anything long term or short term. I was just looking to find someone interesting, and if she's the one then she's the one.Posted by Cheesecakeok I see. Some of us, including myself, are very shy. lolPosted by STILLIt wasn't a dramatic exit or anything. I moved cities and we both moved on. We were in touch for maybe a year after the relationship, but nothing happened. She's married now and has 3 kids. She follows me in IG a little too closely for my comfort, but she's alright.
@Cheesecake, may I do what all the other girls do and pick your brain? What happened with you two? How did it end?
What other things, specifically, do you not like about aqua women?
I can't make a big list of things I don't like about Aqua women. Most of them are amazing human beings. BUT, I'm not sure if aqua women find it difficult to open up or even if they can open up, but personally, I don't understand how do they tick.
Most of the Aqua women I've met are fine with just chillin' and doing nothing. But in my experience, that often doesn't include much conversation. Part of it is that I'm a quiet guy to begin with, but the other part is them just never engaging enough. Maybe they were shy, too? Who knows?.. I like people with clear interests and passion. I just never met one who's open about anything remotely important to her.
They just don't open up, it's difficult to relate to them because of that and it just ends up being a lame duck relationship for me.
I guess it's counterproductive, but most of us will not let our guards down, until we know for sure that the person is invested.
Were you able to open up with her or did you prefer for her to open up first? Were you interested in her for a long term relationship or something else? Were you very secretive towards her?
But the whole wait to make sure that I'm invested wouldn't work. I wouldn't think that, "hey, this person is holding back love and affection because they are not sure how invested I am in them. Maybe I should invest some more in us". I'd just think that's how they are and I'd accept that and move on.
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Posted by lisabethur8idk if she means anything by it on not. I wouldn't follow an ex though.Posted by Cheesecakewow thanks for sharing. she sounded like a pretty easy going type of woman, and her goal was to find marrige/partnership and having children, a home.Posted by STILLIt wasn't a dramatic exit or anything. I moved cities and we both moved on. We were in touch for maybe a year after the relationship, but nothing happened. She's married now and has 3 kids. She follows me in IG a little too closely for my comfort, but she's alright.
@Cheesecake, may I do what all the other girls do and pick your brain? What happened with you two? How did it end?
What other things, specifically, do you not like about aqua women?
I can't make a big list of things I don't like about Aqua women. Most of them are amazing human beings. BUT, I'm not sure if aqua women find it difficult to open up or even if they can open up, but personally, I don't understand how do they tick.
Most of the Aqua women I've met are fine with just chillin' and doing nothing. But in my experience, that often doesn't include much conversation. Part of it is that I'm a quiet guy to begin with, but the other part is them just never engaging enough. Maybe they were shy, too? Who knows?.. I like people with clear interests and passion. I just never met one who's open about anything remotely important to her.
They just don't open up, it's difficult to relate to them because of that and it just ends up being a lame duck relationship for me.
i think you'd have to have similar interests to be with someone, it sounds, such as both of you having a passion you both enjoy.
her following you alot on IG is a little strange, considering she is married lol
i would really hate that if i saw my man following some girl on IG, or twitter that he knew from a long time ago. and he would also be pissed off why i'm following some guy on IG who was my ex OR even dated him or kissed him...
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Posted by Lioness18881wow she is ironmaiden. lolPosted by lisabethur8Not just that. Observations from topics on here from others as well. I had an Aqua manager like that too. Everyone hated her but i became friends with her after i lion mauled her. She didn't know she had to adapt her management style to suit individuals, not just make demands of people and then keep expecting more. Half the girls would come from their performance reviews in tears or wanting to quit because of it and she had no idea. Other people and their feelings are important too and i don't think some realise how not being considerate of those things can affect or hurt others. I'm pretty tough when i need to be so i don't let stuff get to me but when other people get hurt by it, that makes me mad.Posted by Lioness18881is this your experience with your ex aqua when he couldnt stop working and spend time with you?
I think it's the other way around and Aqua want everyone and everything on their terms. They don't compromise for others. One side is expected to adapt and bend and they won't do the same. It's selfish
as an example?
if so, i agree with you to an extent.
i wouldnt want that.
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she needs to be the velvet glove in an iron fist type.
good thing you went in there and helped her out. i bet she appreciated it.
Posted by CheesecakeWere there ever any times that you kept your feelings or opinions to yourself, even is she asked about them?Posted by STILLNo & No. Just by keeping an eye on the details of the recipient's reaction.Posted by CheesecakeYes, but is there a such thing as too much affection to you? Are you ever turned off by someone who cares about you? How would someone know if it's not enough or too much?Posted by STILLI mean, I don't search for clingy people. I think affection is a bigger thing for me. I'd need that relatively early on.Posted by CheesecakeAquas don't usually do clingy. We don't know how to cling. lol You have to give us a nudge to show us what you want and need.Posted by STILLI don't mind cute clingy after the third date. Just not in a "I want to be your BFF". Not before 3 months anyway.Posted by lisabethur8Not within a month! It takes a long time for me to soften up. At least until after the honeymoon phase, if I don't run or detach before then.Posted by STILLyou dont think it's a good idea to be clingy while dating?Posted by lisabethur8But he's your husband. It's ok to be clingy with him.Posted by Cheesecakelol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.Posted by lisabethur8It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.Posted by Cheesecakeif it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,
I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
are you talking about just friendship/platonic?
as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.
I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".
We're just too different.
(as if she had some taurus in her)
i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?
and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.
show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.
(i'm very clingy like that) lol
when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,
he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol
Besides, if you look at all the postings about Cancer men on dxp, you guys seem to not want a clingy person.
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Posted by STILLnot really, i really like to cuddle on the couch with my man.Posted by CheesecakeYes, but is there a such thing as too much affection to you? Are you ever turned off by someone who cares about you? How would someone know if it's not enough or too much?Posted by STILLI mean, I don't search for clingy people. I think affection is a bigger thing for me. I'd need that relatively early on.Posted by CheesecakeAquas don't usually do clingy. We don't know how to cling. lol You have to give us a nudge to show us what you want and need.Posted by STILLI don't mind cute clingy after the third date. Just not in a "I want to be your BFF". Not before 3 months anyway.Posted by lisabethur8Not within a month! It takes a long time for me to soften up. At least until after the honeymoon phase, if I don't run or detach before then.Posted by STILLyou dont think it's a good idea to be clingy while dating?Posted by lisabethur8But he's your husband. It's ok to be clingy with him.Posted by Cheesecakelol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.Posted by lisabethur8It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.Posted by Cheesecakeif it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,
I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
are you talking about just friendship/platonic?
as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.
I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".
We're just too different.
(as if she had some taurus in her)
i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?
and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.
show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.
(i'm very clingy like that) lol
when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,
he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol
Besides, if you look at all the postings about Cancer men on dxp, you guys seem to not want a clingy person.
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what about yourself? is too much cuddling or physical affection too much for you?
Posted by lisabethur8When I get out there and start dating again, cuddles are welcomed. I still don't think I can initiate anything though.Posted by STILLnot really, i really like to cuddle on the couch with my man.Posted by CheesecakeYes, but is there a such thing as too much affection to you? Are you ever turned off by someone who cares about you? How would someone know if it's not enough or too much?Posted by STILLI mean, I don't search for clingy people. I think affection is a bigger thing for me. I'd need that relatively early on.Posted by CheesecakeAquas don't usually do clingy. We don't know how to cling. lol You have to give us a nudge to show us what you want and need.Posted by STILLI don't mind cute clingy after the third date. Just not in a "I want to be your BFF". Not before 3 months anyway.Posted by lisabethur8Not within a month! It takes a long time for me to soften up. At least until after the honeymoon phase, if I don't run or detach before then.Posted by STILLyou dont think it's a good idea to be clingy while dating?Posted by lisabethur8But he's your husband. It's ok to be clingy with him.Posted by Cheesecakelol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.Posted by lisabethur8It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.Posted by Cheesecakeif it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,
I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
are you talking about just friendship/platonic?
as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.
I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".
We're just too different.
(as if she had some taurus in her)
i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?
and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.
show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.
(i'm very clingy like that) lol
when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,
he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol
Besides, if you look at all the postings about Cancer men on dxp, you guys seem to not want a clingy person.
what about yourself? is too much cuddling or physical affection too much for you?click to expand
Posted by CheesecakeLol I can't! 😢 I'm very reserved in person and men hate it.Posted by STILLJust be yourself and enjoy yourself. Fuck everything else.Posted by lisabethur8When I get out there and start dating again, cuddles are welcomed. I still don't think I can initiate anything though.Posted by STILLnot really, i really like to cuddle on the couch with my man.Posted by CheesecakeYes, but is there a such thing as too much affection to you? Are you ever turned off by someone who cares about you? How would someone know if it's not enough or too much?Posted by STILLI mean, I don't search for clingy people. I think affection is a bigger thing for me. I'd need that relatively early on.Posted by CheesecakeAquas don't usually do clingy. We don't know how to cling. lol You have to give us a nudge to show us what you want and need.Posted by STILLI don't mind cute clingy after the third date. Just not in a "I want to be your BFF". Not before 3 months anyway.Posted by lisabethur8Not within a month! It takes a long time for me to soften up. At least until after the honeymoon phase, if I don't run or detach before then.Posted by STILLyou dont think it's a good idea to be clingy while dating?Posted by lisabethur8But he's your husband. It's ok to be clingy with him.Posted by Cheesecakelol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.Posted by lisabethur8It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.Posted by Cheesecakeif it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,
I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
are you talking about just friendship/platonic?
as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.
I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".
We're just too different.
(as if she had some taurus in her)
i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?
and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.
show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.
(i'm very clingy like that) lol
when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,
he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol
Besides, if you look at all the postings about Cancer men on dxp, you guys seem to not want a clingy person.
what about yourself? is too much cuddling or physical affection too much for you?
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Posted by CheesecakeHonestly, it's hard for me to trust men. My friends come to me for advice and the stories are appalling. Dxp postings have made it worst. So I'm always on guard.Posted by STILLSome men really like the shy reserved type. It's really important to be yourself. Messing with that will negatively affect other things down the line.Posted by CheesecakeLol I can't! 😢 I'm very reserved in person and men hate it.Posted by STILLJust be yourself and enjoy yourself. Fuck everything else.Posted by lisabethur8When I get out there and start dating again, cuddles are welcomed. I still don't think I can initiate anything though.Posted by STILLnot really, i really like to cuddle on the couch with my man.Posted by CheesecakeYes, but is there a such thing as too much affection to you? Are you ever turned off by someone who cares about you? How would someone know if it's not enough or too much?Posted by STILLI mean, I don't search for clingy people. I think affection is a bigger thing for me. I'd need that relatively early on.Posted by CheesecakeAquas don't usually do clingy. We don't know how to cling. lol You have to give us a nudge to show us what you want and need.Posted by STILLI don't mind cute clingy after the third date. Just not in a "I want to be your BFF". Not before 3 months anyway.Posted by lisabethur8Not within a month! It takes a long time for me to soften up. At least until after the honeymoon phase, if I don't run or detach before then.Posted by STILLyou dont think it's a good idea to be clingy while dating?Posted by lisabethur8But he's your husband. It's ok to be clingy with him.Posted by Cheesecakelol sounds like she didnt want you to leave, and was greedy for your company.Posted by lisabethur8It's just so easy for Aquas and I to get into a misunderstanding. I feel like Aqua men get angry with me a lot. I just don't try to be so.. out there.. as they are. I don't think they really like the passive type.Posted by Cheesecakeif it's difficult for you, i dont think aqua women are right for you, it has to be an easy going relationship,
I'd love to be cool with Aquas. It's my most troubling dynamic in relationships. Men or women.
are you talking about just friendship/platonic?
as for the men, why do you think you have a difficult time with them? again...friendship wise?
Aqua women on the other hand, they love me, but we're just on different planets. I remember that I dated an aqua for a few months. Once, I dropped her at her place. We talked. Laughed. Kissed. Good innocent time.
I then told her I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks and that I'm going to miss her. She sort of froze and gave me that malfunctioning human look. An awkward silence later was broken by a frustration filled "alriiight! I love you. Okaey. Humph". She thought that's what I was after for some reason. I just wanted a.."I'm going to miss you too" or a "have a safe trip".
We're just too different.
(as if she had some taurus in her)
i would have in her place told you, or asked you why you have to leave? can't you stay?
and i want your number and we have to talk everyday when you're gone, on skype or video /live text.
show me everything and what you're doing everyday when you get up and go to bed.
(i'm very clingy like that) lol
when my husband used to go out of town for a few days and go to another country, business trip,
he'd call me during his lunch break and then before bedtime, and we'd talk for a couple hours while he and i discussed what he was scanning through in the hotel room's netflix ..lol
Besides, if you look at all the postings about Cancer men on dxp, you guys seem to not want a clingy person.
what about yourself? is too much cuddling or physical affection too much for you?
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I'm shy but I don't think men realize it cause I'm sassy! When it comes to showing affection I'm shy, so after some time they assume I'm not interested. 😩
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