Help I just drunk text my ex!

I'm home now but stupidly about 2 hours ago I drunk text my ex not the new guy I've just started dating! My friends all went away home to their partners and well feeling lonely I text my ex for cuddles and a cup of tea weird I know it's not a normal booty call but I missed his cuddles at the time now I'm half sobered up why did I not message this new Aries guy instead the Aquarius all because aqua said I looked gorgeous earlier on in my snap chats, but we are just friends now. How do I rectify this tomorrow? Think I've messed up both new relationship and friendship with my ex! The joys of being a spontaneous aqua girl ?

Say oops i was super drunk. Sorry.

Tell him/her that you were drunk and your phone auto corrected without you catching it.

Tequila had a lot to answer for tonight lol I'm gonna try apologise ex didn't like drunk texting before and new guy is really suspicious about my ex unfinished business he thinks, on the coffee now to sober up this is gonna be a mess I think run and hide is the way I'm feeling just now lol

Posted by LadyNeptune
Tell him/her that you were drunk and your phone auto corrected without you catching it.

Ha ha I'm not sure what I would replace with missing the cuddles through auto correct could be worth a try, he's smart tho knows me inside out

Tell him that you were drunk and the text was a mistake

Yeah ex he's just messaged he's really pissed off that I sent that because we're just friends and nothing more. I've said sorry now don't know if it will do much good, new guys is pissed off too that I didn't ask to see him when I got home don't think the I was drunk is gonna cut it this time

They really need to put a breathalyzer on all smartphones. It would save people a lot of embarrassment.

I wouldn't worry about it too much. We all have been there. Just laugh it off.

I'm gonna try it just hide under a rock and avoid them like the plague lol they do need a breathalysers on phones sobering up cringing at what I wrote lol

why do you have your ex on there??

do you still have feelings for him?

Posted by lisabethur8
why do you have your ex on there??

do you still have feelings for him?

We're still friends and hangout, I'm friends with all my ex's I still have a soft spot for all of them that I wouldn't say no to going back to, so I suppose you could say yes I do have feelings, I've never drunk text an ex before I usually send them to my current dating partner but last night think showed me that my new guy I'm not quite into as much as I thought.

Aquas are cool. He'll get over it. Just keep acting buddy buddy and he'll forget all about it. And you'd be surprised how honestly can really work for you. In a week invite him out for a platonic hangout. Beer. Sports.

Posted by Aries_Luminary
Aquas are cool. He'll get over it. Just keep acting buddy buddy and he'll forget all about it. And you'd be surprised how honestly can really work for you. In a week invite him out for a platonic hangout. Beer. Sports.

Ha ha think beers might have to be avoided but sports could be a thing, just said to him that sorry for last night and that I didn't know shots came with a free shot of embarrassment lol hopefully he will be cool today will keep you posted

Drink less booze?

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Posted by MyStarsShine
Drink less booze?

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I'm Scottish that's never going to happen ha ha!

Posted by Aquascottish

Posted by MyStarsShine
Drink less booze?

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I'm Scottish that's never going to happen ha ha!

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I am sure he's flattered 🙂

Update: he just got back to me said he knew I would text him because of where I was going on a night out, it's near his place, even though I didn't tell him before where I was going don't know how he knew or could of known, now he's avoiding the subject and talking about TVs shows and another weird thing sending me porn ha ha! Don't know if that's a hint to say have fun yourself ?

Posted by Aquascottish
I'm gonna try it just hide under a rock and avoid them like the plague lol they do need a breathalysers on phones sobering up cringing at what I wrote lol

How so? At least this way the new guy knows where you stand. And you know that you got unresolved issues with the ex. It's a win-win situation.

Alcohol is the best truth serum. You really want to get to know a chick & what she's about get drunk with her.

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*cringe

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*cringe

Yep.

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more like...

eww..

gross.

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Posted by lisabethur8
why do you have your ex on there??

do you still have feelings for him?

We're still friends and hangout, I'm friends with all my ex's I still have a soft spot for all of them that I wouldn't say no to going back to, so I suppose you could say yes I do have feelings, I've never drunk text an ex before I usually send them to my current dating partner but last night think showed me that my new guy I'm not quite into as much as I thought.

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well you keeping your ex's numbers show me that you are never gonna be serioius with a new guy.

I would really not trust you to love me all the way. and that's the honest truth.

I don't have a problem with people being friends with ex's I've got numbers and still talk to my first boyfriend from high school no romantic feelings involved, a relationship you are friends throughout and it just didn't work out romantically i don't see why you can't be friends after I still talk to a guy that cheated on me for 6 years after a no contact period we are great now.

I don't have trust issues never cheated in my life even though I text my ex last night it showed me I can't date just yet I broke it off with new guy and he wants to be friends, I wouldn't marry a person that didn't even have one ex as a friend shows emotional maturity I think I trust everyone till they break it. When I'm officially with someone I don't stray ever and if a guy didn't like my ex's he's not the one for me.

Posted by Aquascottish
I don't have a problem with people being friends with ex's I've got numbers and still talk to my first boyfriend from high school no romantic feelings involved, a relationship you are friends throughout and it just didn't work out romantically i don't see why you can't be friends after I still talk to a guy that cheated on me for 6 years after a no contact period we are great now.

I don't have trust issues never cheated in my life even though I text my ex last night it showed me I can't date just yet I broke it off with new guy and he wants to be friends, I wouldn't marry a person that didn't even have one ex as a friend shows emotional maturity I think I trust everyone till they break it. When I'm officially with someone I don't stray ever and if a guy didn't like my ex's he's not the one for me.

I don't care about all that mumbo jumbo about trust issues blah blah blah...

I realize everyone is different but that doesn't mean I like it.

and i'm being honest,

I don't like it. and I never practiced that even when I was in my teens/20s. when I first started in a relationship ect. It never changed. i'm consistent that way.



and you do you...that's why you probably won't be keeping your current man cause you don't even feel anything powerful for him...cause you drunk texting another man.

so think about that.

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Posted by Aquascottish
I'm gonna try it just hide under a rock and avoid them like the plague lol they do need a breathalysers on phones sobering up cringing at what I wrote lol

How so? At least this way the new guy knows where you stand. And you know that you got unresolved issues with the ex. It's a win-win situation.

Alcohol is the best truth serum. You really want to get to know a chick & what she's about get drunk with her.

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It is that very truthful! I've now broke it off with new guy he still wants to be friends he was a bit hurt but understood.

Now trying to resolve issues with ex, that I'm still trying to figure out a way to do it because we didn't have a bad break up just mutually stopped the relationship and became friends.

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Posted by Aquascottish
I don't have a problem with people being friends with ex's I've got numbers and still talk to my first boyfriend from high school no romantic feelings involved, a relationship you are friends throughout and it just didn't work out romantically i don't see why you can't be friends after I still talk to a guy that cheated on me for 6 years after a no contact period we are great now.

I don't have trust issues never cheated in my life even though I text my ex last night it showed me I can't date just yet I broke it off with new guy and he wants to be friends, I wouldn't marry a person that didn't even have one ex as a friend shows emotional maturity I think I trust everyone till they break it. When I'm officially with someone I don't stray ever and if a guy didn't like my ex's he's not the one for me.

I don't care about all that mumbo jumbo about trust issues blah blah blah...

I realize everyone is different but that doesn't mean I like it.

and i'm being honest,

I don't like it. and I never practiced that even when I was in my teens/20s. when I first started in a relationship ect. It never changed. i'm consistent that way.



and you do you...that's why you probably won't be keeping your current man cause you don't even feel anything powerful for him...cause you drunk texting another man.

so think about that.

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He just wasn't for me, we only had 2 dates don't see how I can feel anything that strong, hadn't slept together just kissed nothing official I had dates with other people lined up next week until I'm official I do date around not sleep around texting my ex wasn't for sex just a cuddle.

I think last night just made me realise I like my friend more romantically now he would make a good boyfriend now times past we just were to young before we both were not ready and split mutually.

I respect your honesty and your views I just couldn't think of my ex's that are really good friends not being in my life now.

Posted by Dreamyboy
Too late, he already tastes blood. Nothing you can say will rectify it and now he knows he's in a position of power. Best thing to do is block and sever ties. Easier that way unless you want to really maintain a platonic relationship, it will be difficult since you kind of reached out for him when you were drunk. He might use that to his advantage.

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Just read your other posts in this thread. I think you'll be fine. He probably knows it was just a drunken mishap

Yeah we've been friends for 8 years so blocking him would be too much he's going to phone me after his work have a chat will see what happens I'm hoping I've lightened the mood so far. He's not one for taking advantage thank goodness think I'm just realising he's good boyfriend material now we've grown up a a lot, I've got a lot to think about now.

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Aquascottish
I don't have a problem with people being friends with ex's I've got numbers and still talk to my first boyfriend from high school no romantic feelings involved, a relationship you are friends throughout and it just didn't work out romantically i don't see why you can't be friends after I still talk to a guy that cheated on me for 6 years after a no contact period we are great now.

I don't have trust issues never cheated in my life even though I text my ex last night it showed me I can't date just yet I broke it off with new guy and he wants to be friends, I wouldn't marry a person that didn't even have one ex as a friend shows emotional maturity I think I trust everyone till they break it. When I'm officially with someone I don't stray ever and if a guy didn't like my ex's he's not the one for me.

I don't care about all that mumbo jumbo about trust issues blah blah blah...

I realize everyone is different but that doesn't mean I like it.

and i'm being honest,

I don't like it. and I never practiced that even when I was in my teens/20s. when I first started in a relationship ect. It never changed. i'm consistent that way.



and you do you...that's why you probably won't be keeping your current man cause you don't even feel anything powerful for him...cause you drunk texting another man.

so think about that.

He just wasn't for me, we only had 2 dates don't see how I can feel anything that strong, hadn't slept together just kissed nothing official I had dates with other people lined up next week until I'm official I do date around not sleep around texting my ex wasn't for sex just a cuddle.

I think last night just made me realise I like my friend more romantically now he would make a good boyfriend now times past we just were to young before we both were not ready and split mutually.

I respect your honesty and your views I just couldn't think of my ex's that are really good friends not being in my life now.

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I don't know...you younger generations are really strange with your dating.

Posted by Dreamyboy

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Posted by Dreamyboy
Too late, he already tastes blood. Nothing you can say will rectify it and now he knows he's in a position of power. Best thing to do is block and sever ties. Easier that way unless you want to really maintain a platonic relationship, it will be difficult since you kind of reached out for him when you were drunk. He might use that to his advantage.

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Just read your other posts in this thread. I think you'll be fine. He probably knows it was just a drunken mishap

Yeah we've been friends for 8 years so blocking him would be too much he's going to phone me after his work have a chat will see what happens I'm hoping I've lightened the mood so far. He's not one for taking advantage thank goodness think I'm just realising he's good boyfriend material now we've grown up a a lot, I've got a lot to think about now.

Sometimes it takes a good break up to make people realize what they really want. I have a similar scenario. My ex that broke my heart and left me for another confessed to my sister in December that she's still deeply in love with me. I hope you think well and make a great choice! It's tough when it comes to considering if you should retry a relationship or not.

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Yeah I know it's a hard choice hoping I can make the right one I love our friendship and that is one thing I hope will never change don't know if he's in the same thoughts as me but will hopefully find out tonight ?

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Posted by Aquascottish
I don't have a problem with people being friends with ex's I've got numbers and still talk to my first boyfriend from high school no romantic feelings involved, a relationship you are friends throughout and it just didn't work out romantically i don't see why you can't be friends after I still talk to a guy that cheated on me for 6 years after a no contact period we are great now.

I don't have trust issues never cheated in my life even though I text my ex last night it showed me I can't date just yet I broke it off with new guy and he wants to be friends, I wouldn't marry a person that didn't even have one ex as a friend shows emotional maturity I think I trust everyone till they break it. When I'm officially with someone I don't stray ever and if a guy didn't like my ex's he's not the one for me.

I don't care about all that mumbo jumbo about trust issues blah blah blah...

I realize everyone is different but that doesn't mean I like it.

and i'm being honest,

I don't like it. and I never practiced that even when I was in my teens/20s. when I first started in a relationship ect. It never changed. i'm consistent that way.



and you do you...that's why you probably won't be keeping your current man cause you don't even feel anything powerful for him...cause you drunk texting another man.

so think about that.

He just wasn't for me, we only had 2 dates don't see how I can feel anything that strong, hadn't slept together just kissed nothing official I had dates with other people lined up next week until I'm official I do date around not sleep around texting my ex wasn't for sex just a cuddle.

I think last night just made me realise I like my friend more romantically now he would make a good boyfriend now times past we just were to young before we both were not ready and split mutually.

I respect your honesty and your views I just couldn't think of my ex's that are really good friends not being in my life now.

I don't know...you younger generations are really strange with your dating.

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It's not traditional that's for sure, here in Scotland it's more like you meet at a bar have sex and then your together for how ever long if it works out all good if not back to the bar lol

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Posted by Aquascottish

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Posted by Dreamyboy
Too late, he already tastes blood. Nothing you can say will rectify it and now he knows he's in a position of power. Best thing to do is block and sever ties. Easier that way unless you want to really maintain a platonic relationship, it will be difficult since you kind of reached out for him when you were drunk. He might use that to his advantage.

Edit:

Just read your other posts in this thread. I think you'll be fine. He probably knows it was just a drunken mishap

Yeah we've been friends for 8 years so blocking him would be too much he's going to phone me after his work have a chat will see what happens I'm hoping I've lightened the mood so far. He's not one for taking advantage thank goodness think I'm just realising he's good boyfriend material now we've grown up a a lot, I've got a lot to think about now.

Sometimes it takes a good break up to make people realize what they really want. I have a similar scenario. My ex that broke my heart and left me for another confessed to my sister in December that she's still deeply in love with me. I hope you think well and make a great choice! It's tough when it comes to considering if you should retry a relationship or not.

Yeah I know it's a hard choice hoping I can make the right one I love our friendship and that is one thing I hope will never change don't know if he's in the same thoughts as me but will hopefully find out tonight ?

Oh I like this, sounds like a movie. Update later please! I'm a sucker for love

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Ha ha that's what my girl friends have said my love life's like a movie will update in a few hours and let you know ?

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Posted by Aquascottish
Yeah ex he's just messaged he's really pissed off that I sent that because we're just friends and nothing more. I've said sorry now don't know if it will do much good, new guys is pissed off too that I didn't ask to see him when I got home don't think the I was drunk is gonna cut it this time

He is not interested he told you this. Please walk away with your dignity in tact and block this man. You weren't drunk you was turned on by the fact that he stopped pursuing you because Aquas want what they cant have. Let him go.

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We stopped persuing each other 8 years ago mutually don't get why I should walk away from a friendship and block him?

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Yeah ex he's just messaged he's really pissed off that I sent that because we're just friends and nothing more. I've said sorry now don't know if it will do much good, new guys is pissed off too that I didn't ask to see him when I got home don't think the I was drunk is gonna cut it this time

He is not interested he told you this. Please walk away with your dignity in tact and block this man. You weren't drunk you was turned on by the fact that he stopped pursuing you because Aquas want what they cant have. Let him go.

We stopped persuing each other 8 years ago mutually don't get why I should walk away from a friendship and block him?

Think I might have your situation confused with another one. I thought you two recently stopped dating because he wanted to be strictly friends and that he still wanted to exercise with you and you was hoping he would bang you but he didn't.

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Yeah that was my last ex we're still cool and just friends was out with him last night drinking just having laughs I was worried that he wanted just to have sex Fwb style again he doesn't so all good there.

Tell him you didn't mean to 🙂

Keep us updated please

Update from last night we were about to have our talk and well I found out my aunt passed away just before so I decided against talking about us just now, I'm not in the right frame of mind to talk and well I need to be there for my dad more than anything just now. I'm still in shock and struggling to sink in that she's died, he's being just a really good friend just now.