
21st century ISH!


Posted by VenusAquariusShe never learned how to have sex right to begin with.Posted by Ram416Men always ask if you're cumming. It adds to the pleasure. I imagined it's a part of any sexual fantasy. But, I'm sure there are fantasies that don't involve the pleasure of another's orgasm or even sex.Posted by VenusAquariusThey don't need to. The important part is making sure their client cums.
I cant believe she doesn't cum... Does that make a good escort? I mean geez.
But, the game, fantasy, he's paying for seems to be one that would inlvolve her having an orgasm too.
However, I couldn't be an escort and not have an O. Maybe it's because she's young.
Instead of getting paid, the OP is about to get played in the game.
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Posted by DianasartForget the money, fuck the kid and have a an orgasm! GEEZ!
Wow the comments came in fast!!
He has no recent ex and I am the first person he's ever paid for sex (aside from some video camera action).
I knkw when he's honest, and when he's not. The things he's not honest about are petty things, like work hours. He expresses deep insecurities, yet when scheduling a meeting, he'll mention the hour he'll be getting home to make the time decided seem reasonable, but I have a feeling that he gets home much earlier than he claims, most likely to have more time for himself, which I would never have complained about. That just how petty his little lies can be. Or if he wants me to leave already, he'll bring up work. "I have work tomorrow." Petty.
He has had me sleep over a night here and there. He's really a man of solitude and likes to keep in touch with email. From day one our emails had been long. We both have a passion for writing! Sometimes our convention might die down a bit, and then there are few rare days when we don't exchange a word, but the emails have been constant and full of long, expressive paragraphs.
Part of what I do is make the men I'm with feel wanted, comfortable, and secure. I always make sure they know I accept them in every way and make them feel special, even with all their flaws on the table.
Even without the money, I would have became involved with him. He has a charm he's mastered (and used in the beginning; no real need for it now). But, without the money, I would have given up on him long ago. No doubt there. I get bored wayyy too easily! It's rare that a man has be blushing (real blushing, non of the fake *look down, smile, bath lashes* blushing, like my classmate has me doing).
I'm good at what I do and I'm usually good at reading my men. It's rare that emotions are provoked in me, which is why this work is ideal.
Yet, it's not so ideal when I get bored because my drive dies down (or sex becomes painful with dryness).
As an Aquarius, how can I go about seducing him into pleasing me the way I want to be pleased (is really the question I should be asking)?
I know he's the boss, the one holding the money, but even men who pay can be manipulated by their sex kittens!
Maybe I need an insight to Aquarius in general. I know that there are full charts to these things. His birthday is January 3, 1977.
ALSO, I don't get off very easily (not so sensitive and forget orgasms! I'll be lucky to have just one in this lifetime), so glancing at the clock to keep track of time was as simple as... glancing at the clock.

Posted by PotHeadVirgo27DAMN!
Well if you weren't such a hore, you wouldn't have to ask how do I get him to fucc me.

Posted by FknNerdLol she basically did write it. In caps.Posted by DianasartWilling to message me the website?Posted by FknNerdThere's a website for arrangements like this. The first time someone told me about it, I thought it was a joke. I made my account as a joke. They have "sugar mama's" on there too. Not as many, but from wha I know, there are.
How does one get into a business such as this? Where do I start?
It's just like a dating site. You go out for coffee, converse, connect, so on... simple.
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Posted by DianasartWhy don't you just fuck the kid on one of your days off? Could you not live with the guilt? Or what?Posted by NobleSagI feel fairly happy. No confinement or pressure. Content for the most part.Posted by DianasartD I think you should move on. Let me ask you, how does he make you feel? Confined, happy, reserved? What is it?
Some correction: he is NOT 60. Who did the math.1977. He's 40!
Also, if anyone could have feelings hurt out of this, it's him. Which worries me, but only a enough to not want to make it hard if/when this comes to an end.
When I say love, I mean the kind you might have for a good friend. We often call each other "lover and friend." We tried the title "boyfriend/girlfriend" for a short while but then I had burst out of anger towards him (can't remember the reason now) and removed the title. I even gave him a hard time, resetting out boundaries and place, which was a step back from lord knows where we were heading. I set a wall to keep us in one place, because even with all the affection and fun, (like some of you keep pointing out) it is a business agreement.
Kind of like the olden times when women were "given away" and had allowances and a few rights in exchange for their wombs and their sex. Fathers had their gain, but now the gain is only mine and there are no contracts binding me or stealing my freedom. So... I don't see how I'm being played...
I only wanted to understand his through a different lens to figure out how I could change things up in the bedroom to my preference. He's so gentle and loving, which I adore, but get bored of some times. Not always, but sometimes.
I don't want to allow myself to think of another (the boy from class) because as fun and exciting as it would be for a while, but there would be no gain. Focusing on a new, young and fresh relationship would only bring lose to one that I have been gaining from and feel secure enough in without pressure or false hopes.
The topic really attracted a lot of attention. Entertaining, really. But I don't plan on leaving him or moving on. It's not some lovey dovey fairy tale. It's reality. Just like all the other aspects in life, I accept it for what it is and with it's possibility to end at any given moment.click to expand

Posted by DianasartNone of my "girlfriends" ever cost me $ 250/hour but keep telling yourself that.. Like last night, I spent $ 2,750 worth of ho time (talking included) and didn't pay a dime.
The ironic part of being paid for sex (though transactions would be made even without there always being sex) was that these men, these older, too busy to date, too old to attract the fresh and firm young girls, sometimes insecure, often desiring no commitment (and let's face it, we're often cheaper than a real girlfriend), these men who paid to have their own way ware sooo much kinder (not nessicarly "nice" but kind) than men I've dated with the traditional standards set by our society.

Posted by enfant_terrible"Often" and not "all".Posted by DianasartNone of my "girlfriends" ever cost me $ 250/hour but keep telling yourself that.. Like last night, I spent $ 2,750 worth of ho time (talking included) and didn't pay a dime.
The ironic part of being paid for sex (though transactions would be made even without there always being sex) was that these men, these older, too busy to date, too old to attract the fresh and firm young girls, sometimes insecure, often desiring no commitment (and let's face it, we're often cheaper than a real girlfriend), these men who paid to have their own way ware sooo much kinder (not nessicarly "nice" but kind) than men I've dated with the traditional standards set by our society.
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Posted by Ram416Nope, a gf is ALWAYS cheaper. If she's not, she's a ho. Simple mathPosted by enfant_terrible"Often" and not "all".Posted by DianasartNone of my "girlfriends" ever cost me $ 250/hour but keep telling yourself that.. Like last night, I spent $ 2,750 worth of ho time (talking included) and didn't pay a dime.
The ironic part of being paid for sex (though transactions would be made even without there always being sex) was that these men, these older, too busy to date, too old to attract the fresh and firm young girls, sometimes insecure, often desiring no commitment (and let's face it, we're often cheaper than a real girlfriend), these men who paid to have their own way ware sooo much kinder (not nessicarly "nice" but kind) than men I've dated with the traditional standards set by our society.
I am aware of some women who are girlfriends but expect everything to be paid for them, even the toilet paper they use to wipe their asses with. At least escorts are up front about their services.click to expand


Posted by Arielle83Damn good question even in the bar fast money is fast money.
Do you spend the cash as fast as you make it?

Posted by tizianiIn the past 6 years i've lost 8 friends in that business. Left it when my daughter was born. You gointo a bar acting stupid yeah you'll be chewed up and swallowed. I did it for ten years.I had rules though and that's why im here.Posted by Arielle83I was told if you stay in the trade for anymore than 4-5 years you're probably never getting out again.
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Posted by tizianiBar work, but there's plenty of sex 😉Posted by NobleSagYou're talking about bar work or sex work?Posted by tizianiIn the past 6 years i've lost 8 friends in that business. Left it when my daughter was born. You gointo a bar acting stupid yeah you'll be chewed up and swallowed. I did it for ten years.I had rules though and that's why im here.Posted by Arielle83I was told if you stay in the trade for anymore than 4-5 years you're probably never getting out again.
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Posted by NobleSagDamn I was really hoping you were gonna say you use to be a prostitute tooPosted by tizianiBar work, but there's plenty of sex 😉Posted by NobleSagYou're talking about bar work or sex work?Posted by tizianiIn the past 6 years i've lost 8 friends in that business. Left it when my daughter was born. You gointo a bar acting stupid yeah you'll be chewed up and swallowed. I did it for ten years.I had rules though and that's why im here.Posted by Arielle83I was told if you stay in the trade for anymore than 4-5 years you're probably never getting out again.
Do you spend the cash as fast as you make it?
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Posted by AfternoonDelights22The sausage is free but you have to work for the gravy. I could have but free drinks all night from women was good enough for me I was a cheap 2 hour see you next weekend after I banged you kinda guy. date whatever.Posted by NobleSagDamn I was really hoping you were gonna say you use to be a prostitute tooPosted by tizianiBar work, but there's plenty of sex 😉Posted by NobleSagYou're talking about bar work or sex work?Posted by tizianiIn the past 6 years i've lost 8 friends in that business. Left it when my daughter was born. You gointo a bar acting stupid yeah you'll be chewed up and swallowed. I did it for ten years.I had rules though and that's why im here.Posted by Arielle83I was told if you stay in the trade for anymore than 4-5 years you're probably never getting out again.
Do you spend the cash as fast as you make it?
I would have filled my dxp quota for the year and could have left till january
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Posted by bricklemarkIf you are male and aqua, it's time to state ALL your sexual preferences, fetishes and tabus in this thread....
Gees this is so far removed from everything l've experienced in my life.....just get another dude...

Posted by UndineWwwat? Why?Posted by bricklemarkIf you are male and aqua, it's time to state ALL your sexual preferences, fetishes and tabus in this thread....
Gees this is so far removed from everything l've experienced in my life.....just get another dude...click to expand




Posted by Ssuperman
I thought that's why you paid hookers? You pay them so there's no feelings involved. You're a shitty hooker. Maybe look at changing professions.

Posted by UndineOr emotion. It's like fucking a robotPosted by Ssuperman
I thought that's why you paid hookers? You pay them so there's no feelings involved. You're a shitty hooker. Maybe look at changing professions.
I agree.
Also OP, you don't seem to be enjoying your "profession". You may not come to make him fuck you hard, but at least give yourself an O. Air and water signs (minus Scorps I imagine) are the only ones not to be fazed by a fucking partner using a sex toy (or even an electric toothbrush) during the act, to orgasm each time.
Which makes me think....this is one reason why Water and Air are very compatible indeed! Try that with a Cap and he will complain each time...that it hurts him, lol....his ego, perhaps?
Aquas show very little ego during sex.
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Posted by SsupermanAquas would probably love to fuck a robot. And an alien. One dream of mine's, and I'm only Aqua Venus and Mercury)!Posted by UndineOr emotion. It's like fucking a robotPosted by Ssuperman
I thought that's why you paid hookers? You pay them so there's no feelings involved. You're a shitty hooker. Maybe look at changing professions.
I agree.
Also OP, you don't seem to be enjoying your "profession". You may not come to make him fuck you hard, but at least give yourself an O. Air and water signs (minus Scorps I imagine) are the only ones not to be fazed by a fucking partner using a sex toy (or even an electric toothbrush) during the act, to orgasm each time.
Which makes me think....this is one reason why Water and Air are very compatible indeed! Try that with a Cap and he will complain each time...that it hurts him, lol....his ego, perhaps?
Aquas show very little ego during sex.
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Posted by UndineI can wrap my cock in tin foil and you can pretend? Would that help fulfill your fantasy?Posted by SsupermanAquas would probably love to fuck a robot. And an alien. One dream of mine's, and I'm only Aqua Venus and Mercury)!Posted by UndineOr emotion. It's like fucking a robotPosted by Ssuperman
I thought that's why you paid hookers? You pay them so there's no feelings involved. You're a shitty hooker. Maybe look at changing professions.
I agree.
Also OP, you don't seem to be enjoying your "profession". You may not come to make him fuck you hard, but at least give yourself an O. Air and water signs (minus Scorps I imagine) are the only ones not to be fazed by a fucking partner using a sex toy (or even an electric toothbrush) during the act, to orgasm each time.
Which makes me think....this is one reason why Water and Air are very compatible indeed! Try that with a Cap and he will complain each time...that it hurts him, lol....his ego, perhaps?
Aquas show very little ego during sex.
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Posted by SsupermanHAHA!!!! Not sure what sort of sensation would this provide? Plus point for your imagination, though 🙂!Posted by UndineI can wrap my cock in tin foil and you can pretend? Would that help fulfill your fantasy?Posted by SsupermanAquas would probably love to fuck a robot. And an alien. One dream of mine's, and I'm only Aqua Venus and Mercury)!Posted by UndineOr emotion. It's like fucking a robotPosted by Ssuperman
I thought that's why you paid hookers? You pay them so there's no feelings involved. You're a shitty hooker. Maybe look at changing professions.
I agree.
Also OP, you don't seem to be enjoying your "profession". You may not come to make him fuck you hard, but at least give yourself an O. Air and water signs (minus Scorps I imagine) are the only ones not to be fazed by a fucking partner using a sex toy (or even an electric toothbrush) during the act, to orgasm each time.
Which makes me think....this is one reason why Water and Air are very compatible indeed! Try that with a Cap and he will complain each time...that it hurts him, lol....his ego, perhaps?
Aquas show very little ego during sex.
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Posted by LibraLovesHimI agree with Libra! And just hope that boy from college isn't aquarius too because aqua men have no clue in how to sex! 😄Posted by DianasartForget the money, fuck the kid and have a an orgasm! GEEZ!
Wow the comments came in fast!!
He has no recent ex and I am the first person he's ever paid for sex (aside from some video camera action).
I knkw when he's honest, and when he's not. The things he's not honest about are petty things, like work hours. He expresses deep insecurities, yet when scheduling a meeting, he'll mention the hour he'll be getting home to make the time decided seem reasonable, but I have a feeling that he gets home much earlier than he claims, most likely to have more time for himself, which I would never have complained about. That just how petty his little lies can be. Or if he wants me to leave already, he'll bring up work. "I have work tomorrow." Petty.
He has had me sleep over a night here and there. He's really a man of solitude and likes to keep in touch with email. From day one our emails had been long. We both have a passion for writing! Sometimes our convention might die down a bit, and then there are few rare days when we don't exchange a word, but the emails have been constant and full of long, expressive paragraphs.
Part of what I do is make the men I'm with feel wanted, comfortable, and secure. I always make sure they know I accept them in every way and make them feel special, even with all their flaws on the table.
Even without the money, I would have became involved with him. He has a charm he's mastered (and used in the beginning; no real need for it now). But, without the money, I would have given up on him long ago. No doubt there. I get bored wayyy too easily! It's rare that a man has be blushing (real blushing, non of the fake *look down, smile, bath lashes* blushing, like my classmate has me doing).
I'm good at what I do and I'm usually good at reading my men. It's rare that emotions are provoked in me, which is why this work is ideal.
Yet, it's not so ideal when I get bored because my drive dies down (or sex becomes painful with dryness).
As an Aquarius, how can I go about seducing him into pleasing me the way I want to be pleased (is really the question I should be asking)?
I know he's the boss, the one holding the money, but even men who pay can be manipulated by their sex kittens!
Maybe I need an insight to Aquarius in general. I know that there are full charts to these things. His birthday is January 3, 1977.
ALSO, I don't get off very easily (not so sensitive and forget orgasms! I'll be lucky to have just one in this lifetime), so glancing at the clock to keep track of time was as simple as... glancing at the clock.click to expand

Posted by P-Angelwtf chill granny don't be so envious
You must be a lousy whore considering you cannot even get a trick to dick you.
So, what are you selling? Certainly not feelings, since you obviously have none to give him.
this whole thing is funny as hell .... a whore who can't get fucked.
rflmao

Posted by Dianasartthere's that sag, you need some adventure and some strange ass. do what you do girl
It's been six months. Six wonderful months in this... what should I call it... arrangement?
Long story short, he's my supporter. This arrangement is almost like a paid relationship. Only the perks, none of the responsibilities or commitments or really most of what traditional relationships hold.
He gives me an "allowance" and I stay a sweet, sexy, fun, and positive girlfriend.
We are honest, however. It's not as fake as it may sound. There is love (maybe not the most romantic love) and respect, AND monogamy.
I'm a paid lover, call it what you want, prostitute, whore. Escort might be a better word. There's more I do than just fuck. But this client, he wanted monogamy along with the package. I adored him enough to agree to it.
So here we are, six months.
Sex is great. Mostlyyy great.
Aside from being such a sweet man, he's also very gentle. He loves to please. In fact, he loves to please very much! I once let him stay down between my legs for as long as he wanted and kept my eye on the clock out of curiosity of how long he'll stay down. About an hour! I say about because we moved to the bedroom after 40 minutes where he wanted me to sit on his face while he continues. It's his favorite position.
There isn't a position we haven't played with. We've even made up a few.
And you'd think this would be awesome forever, but... I get bored. And this isn't the first time I get bored.
I do love him. I don't want to move on. I care about him deeply. And of course, the obvious, I also depend on him (though truth be told, I've made much more with other clients, so money's not the only factor). Aside from this line of work I'm in, I'm also a college student. And though I won't claim to be some unresistable babe, I do get enough attention that, yes, other men can be tempting.
Tempting!! I am crushing so hard on a classmate who's been flirty and cute. We've had study dates and chatted a lot. What I do is no secret, so of course, he knows I'm not available. I've made that clear. Yet, there are moments when I want him!!! Just earlier today while sitting across from him in class I was blushing like a preteen! I wonder about sex with him. He has this stubborn childish charm about him that sparks my imagination... maybehe'll be more dominant in the bedroom? Maybe he'll have a bit of the aggressive playfulness I want?..
I've asked my Aqua the first time I felt a bit bored to be more aggressive and dominant. I want him to take over sometimes. He gave it a shot, a very small shot, but gave up too soon.
He'll pull my hair the way I've described how I'd like to sometimes. But he's still so gentle and sweet.
I better get to the point before I continue going on in circles!
I'm losing interest in my Aqua and the cute guy from class isn't helping. Maybe it doesn't help the my Aqua is also much older, though it's never bothered me.
I want to know how to approach my Aqua about my boredom and ask him to for once just fuck me. No more love making. Just hardcore, no hesitation, fucking!
For some reason, he's afraid of hurting me. He thinks of me as this delicate thing, though I've taken control many times and proven to be far from delicate.
I need him to fuck me till this guy from school is forgotten completely!



Posted by P-AngelRead again. She is getting fucked...just not in the way and style she enjoys.
You must be a lousy whore considering you cannot even get a trick to dick you.
So, what are you selling? Certainly not feelings, since you obviously have none to give him.
this whole thing is funny as hell .... a whore who can't get fucked.
rflmao

Posted by LadyNeptuneVery perceptive, look it's a garbage man, he's literally picking up garbage.Posted by P-AngelRead again. She is getting fucked...just not in the way and style she enjoys.
You must be a lousy whore considering you cannot even get a trick to dick you.
So, what are you selling? Certainly not feelings, since you obviously have none to give him.
this whole thing is funny as hell .... a whore who can't get fucked.
rflmao
Which is funny because he's paying her for his enjoyment, not hers.click to expand

Posted by tizianiHard to accept a 9-5 where you make a few hundred a day. When for a few play sessions you can bank a thous.Posted by Arielle83I was told if you stay in the trade for anymore than 4-5 years you're probably never getting out again.
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Posted by NobleSag@Deadpoop SOS I'm in need of more healingPosted by LadyNeptuneVery perceptive, look it's a garbage man, he's literally picking up garbage.Posted by P-AngelRead again. She is getting fucked...just not in the way and style she enjoys.
You must be a lousy whore considering you cannot even get a trick to dick you.
So, what are you selling? Certainly not feelings, since you obviously have none to give him.
this whole thing is funny as hell .... a whore who can't get fucked.
rflmao
Which is funny because he's paying her for his enjoyment, not hers.
At least she had the balls to be honest where's the respect?
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Posted by LadyNeptuneHAHAHAHAHA he doesn't even respond to me anymore. You need a new hero. I took his cape.Posted by NobleSag@Deadpoop SOS I'm in need of more healingPosted by LadyNeptuneVery perceptive, look it's a garbage man, he's literally picking up garbage.Posted by P-AngelRead again. She is getting fucked...just not in the way and style she enjoys.
You must be a lousy whore considering you cannot even get a trick to dick you.
So, what are you selling? Certainly not feelings, since you obviously have none to give him.
this whole thing is funny as hell .... a whore who can't get fucked.
rflmao
Which is funny because he's paying her for his enjoyment, not hers.
At least she had the balls to be honest where's the respect?
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Posted by LadyNeptuneTold you no sign of him. He's cryng in his mom's basement.Posted by NobleSag@Deadpoop SOS I'm in need of more healingPosted by LadyNeptuneVery perceptive, look it's a garbage man, he's literally picking up garbage.Posted by P-AngelRead again. She is getting fucked...just not in the way and style she enjoys.
You must be a lousy whore considering you cannot even get a trick to dick you.
So, what are you selling? Certainly not feelings, since you obviously have none to give him.
this whole thing is funny as hell .... a whore who can't get fucked.
rflmao
Which is funny because he's paying her for his enjoyment, not hers.
At least she had the balls to be honest where's the respect?
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Posted by DianasartYeah the part where you don't owe anyone here a thing. You don't owe anyone shit especially an explanation to justify your actions to total strangers. Most of these judges of character would probably have to pay double just to get a hug. I think your cool as hell. Do what you think is right for you.
Dear lord, this is a bigger mess here than it will ever be in reality.
Maybe I'm giving you guys all the wrong impressions.
Maybe I'm not being clear enough.
1) I know what I want. I like what I have.
2) yes, love, it's there. But NOT the fairy tale BS some of you are assuming. I have resolved all past issues long ago so this isn't some confusing mess I'm seeking help about.
3) there is complete honesty and respect between this man and myself. Granted, I hold this one, itty bitty thing back, but that is all I was curious (not desperate or confused) about and wanted new ideas on how to approach him with the subject. This does not mean I'm unhappy with him, with myself, or feel lost.
4) my dignity is in tact, for some of you assuming the worst. I do not depend on what I do solely. But if I'm going to be involved with a man, and there are men willing to pay, why skip the benefits? I'm not picky. Not do I put up with being treating completely like an object. I have self respect and deal with only the respectful.
I have boundaries and rules and set limits.
5) anyone curious about how I spend money... I have no guilt though money is never discussed face to face to allow a sense of a real relationship. And my money goes to the basics of living: food, toiletries, and the occasional needs like my new backpack with wheels because fuck, too many books to carry!! I also penny pinch with food, so I carry what I can keep in my trunk.
I live like a bum. Growing up poor has thought me important lessons and saving and investing is definitely one of them.
To whomever mentioned a loose vagina (I don't care enough to go back and recall everyones name, sorry) all I can say is I WISH! A loose vagina might be easier to work with.
I know I've admitted to being a prostitute, and I have an even longer trail from a time when I was more lost and confused and lacked self respect (that's no secret), but I don't have as much sex as I let on.
My client and I have sex once a week. Last month we skipped three weeks (yes, he still supports me even when we don't have sex) and my vagina (here comes more information than some of you really want to know)... my vagina shrinks back up. Tight as a virgin. In just a little over a week, it goes back to it's original virgin size and I'm just beyond happy that I don't have to deal with a penis too far above average.
There you go. I WISH I had a loose vagina.
But again, (don't read between the lines, I don't beat around the bush, read my words) this is a bigger mess here than it has or ever will be in real life.
There are no confusions. My attraction to my classmate is just a small frustration (though also a fun distraction from this lonely life of institution). I just didn't like experiencing the spark. He's just a boy and sparks mean little in reality. Delusions are fun, but... they're delusions, after all.
I don't think my perspective is messed up in any way. It's honest.
I'm no train wreck. Haven't been for a long time. My life is in perfect order, with healthy friendships and relations with some family. I have done more for myself, alone, than I can say for most and don't think it's necessary to criticise me over past post (that only displayed portions on the truth) which were issues I have overcome, and yes, with the occasional help of professional therapy. I'm not afraid to admit when I need help. But referencing my past self... you might as well be talking about a different person.
Anything I'm missing? Any questions I forgot to answer?
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