snowflake017
@snowflake017
8 Years
Comments: 0 ¡ Posts: 1 ¡ Topics: 1
I'm having sexual problems with an Aquarius man. Can someone help me?
You are on page out of 2 | Reverse Order
Maybe he is secretly gay... ? What made him pursue you at the first place otherwise? Something doesn't sounds OK
Iâm a cancer woman newly dating an aqua man and I think we are a pretty good match. Howâs everything else besides the sex issue?
Is he on any medications? I know that can lower your sex drive. Maybe he needs to change something.
Is he on any medications? I know that can lower your sex drive. Maybe he needs to change something.
Posted by SheeverYep. Even my blind dog agrees.
Maybe he is secretly gay... ? What made him pursue you at the first place otherwise? Something doesn't sounds OK
Posted by aquarius_manPosted by snowflake017he either has a lover - but less likely, since you say he was this from the beginning or, more likely, he is gay.
and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. ..
...We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent.
no straight man would act like that around a woman, if the woman is decent looking. are you ?
i mean, aqua has a low sex drive, but not this low, no
click to expand
Iâm an Aqua and my sex drive isnât low.
you may try asking him if he would like to try something new in the bedroom (or out). maybe try finding something he can take interest in like role play for example.
i would also say looking at your ages, that you may be in two different places sexually right now. you may be still experiencing an increased libido and vice versa for him. if he is willing to work with you, i see no reason why this should be the end of the relationship if everything else is great.
you may need to talk to him about your needs and see if its something he's willing to explore with you.
i would also say looking at your ages, that you may be in two different places sexually right now. you may be still experiencing an increased libido and vice versa for him. if he is willing to work with you, i see no reason why this should be the end of the relationship if everything else is great.
you may need to talk to him about your needs and see if its something he's willing to explore with you.
I think you need to just leave him... in all honesty. You are 30 Years old this is your Saturn return... many woman get married for the wrong reasons... maybe he has money, a house, or social network... or connections not saying that has to be it. Though...
Did you change recently?
In all honesty though I donât think you will or can make this work. So why did you in the first place... it would be one thing if you both enjoyed the sex... many woman get married at that 27 number because they feel it is the right thing to do.
Piscesmoon
Did you change recently?
In all honesty though I donât think you will or can make this work. So why did you in the first place... it would be one thing if you both enjoyed the sex... many woman get married at that 27 number because they feel it is the right thing to do.
Piscesmoon
Posted by Supessexual passion stemming from infatuation doesn't last either.Posted by edgelordBut, they donât last.Posted by Supesbecause women make decisions with feelings. "i love him it can always get better. we'll try!"
And why the hell would you marry someone who sucked in bed? You KNEW you wouldnât be satisfied on the first place.
Quit complaining about the guy because this is all you
whereas a man is not the same. obv.
i stay with women who i don't have awesome sex with regularly because our emotional and intellectual connections are satisfying.
Thatâs not very smartclick to expand
there's a reason why they call it the honeymoon phase.
you deserved to be kissed and by someone who knows how.
Posted by snowflake017He could be gay, on the verge of impotence or not sexually attracted to you. My ex Aqua was into some weird sht I can never speak of to anyone for as long as I live. Lol!
Hello, I'm a cancer woman married to an aquarius man. I know we're not supposed to be a good match but I didn't want to believe it at first. Now I'm having sexual issues with my husband and I think it will only get worst.
At the beginning when he started pursuing me he used to talk about sex all the time and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. It seemed weird because he really seemed into and when the time came he acted totally uninterested.
I tried to ignore all this because he's a good guy and has other amazing qualities. But after the first time we had sex, he just stopped talking about that subject completely. He became non-sexual and when I tried to bring up the subject or send him a sexy picture he would act like it was no big deal. I ended up marrying him anyway because I love everything about him, except the sex part and he told me once we lived together everything was going to change because before our relationship was long distance. Well, I was stupid to believe him because nothing changed!!!! We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent. I ended up getting bored of him and now I lost my desire for him completely. I feel like sex has become a duty and I'm just dead every time we have sex. I don't have the desire to kiss him or touch him anymore and the worst part is I can't even fake that I'm having a good time. He has completely kill my passion for sex!!! Of course, I would love to have sex but with someone else because I feel that I can't be horny and passionate with this aquarius man đ˘ I had amazing sex with my previous boyfriends and now I'm stuck with someone with a low sex drive for the rest of my life.
I realized my mistake of marrying him but now I don't want to make a second mistake by having children with him. I told him it was better to end things, as I don't want to bring children to the world without passion and we're not sexually compatible and he got furious!!!
He said he's never going to divorce me and that my duty as a wife is to try to make things work instead of thinking of divorce. He's right but how am I going to get my sexual desire back? He wants to have children with me even if I don't feel happy with out sex life. Since he won't divorce me and wants me to fight for our marriage how can I get back my desire when he never showed interest in sex to begin with? I feel like he's taking the blame on me and it's not fair that I'm the one who has to make an effort when I felt unloved by him. What can I do? Is there any hope? By the way, I'm 30 years old and he's 41
So sorry to hear đ˘
I think you either have sexual chemistry with someone or not
Often it's not with the person you are married to
Sorry, but I see this a lot .... to my mind, it's not something you can create
Often it's not with the person you are married to
Sorry, but I see this a lot .... to my mind, it's not something you can create
Posted by SupesHe married her! And he wouldn't divorce her. So....âPosted by aquarius_manIf sheâs decent looking? I hadnât thought of that. Legit question though. He couldâve seen her without them clothes and got grossed out, but said âfuck itâ.Posted by snowflake017he either has a lover - but less likely, since you say he was this from the beginning or, more likely, he is gay.
and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. ..
...We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent.
no straight man would act like that around a woman, if the woman is decent looking. are you ?
i mean, aqua has a low sex drive, but not this low, no
click to expand
41 in a man is there prime again this is where their hottest,3 times a month is cringe worthy im an aqua and yes im not that sexual like rabbits but when im with my girl we do it atleast 3 times a wk mind you theres so many people always around us but we found waysđ,then again im an aqua with a scorp moon and mars in taurus(my gf doesnt last long either)
Posted by SupesExcept he doesn't! Fuck or roll - he does not!Posted by aquarius_manLol. Thatâs messed up yo!Posted by Supesyes, but he must ve seen her naked before. or at least make an educated assumption. is something about her body? however, if he didnt feel any attraction, why go on with the wedding anyway? looks like a marriage of convenience, where one of the main characters is either into gerald's game bedroom gymnastics or secretly gay.
If sheâs decent looking? I hadnât thought of that. Legit question though. He couldâve seen her without them clothes and got grossed out, but said âfuck itâ.
what do you think ? @Ravishing & other gay ppl on dxp
Like I said, he mustâve said âfuck itâ and rolled with itclick to expand
Posted by Adreamuponwaking...and where...
you deserved to be kissed and by someone who knows how.
Posted by aquarius_manThank you for the male view point...Posted by MyStarsShinelet me explain this to you, from a male's point of you: it's not like that. a man's dick has a life and a mind of its own. you don t have to be in love or to have a sexual chemistry with her in order to bang your wife. the nature took care of these things. it goes like this: male sees female body. man gets a boner. especially if it's a woman you re seeing naked for the 1st time. novelty = arousal; this is not about chemistry, these people are already married. this man doesn't seem to be into women at all, not just her. why marry someone you know you won t be sharing the bed with? it s preposterous, almost like a decoy.
I think you either have sexual chemistry with someone or not
sorry ladies, but this is how im understanding this situation
click to expand
and this is why i remain single
Posted by SupesYou afraid for your bride to turn a whore?Posted by GemitatiShe said yes to a man who didnât and never has satisfied her. Now sheâs complaining and regretting her decision. She shouldnât have said yes.Posted by SupesHe married her! And he wouldn't divorce her. So....âPosted by aquarius_manIf sheâs decent looking? I hadnât thought of that. Legit question though. He couldâve seen her without them clothes and got grossed out, but said âfuck itâ.Posted by snowflake017he either has a lover - but less likely, since you say he was this from the beginning or, more likely, he is gay.
and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. ..
...We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent.
no straight man would act like that around a woman, if the woman is decent looking. are you ?
i mean, aqua has a low sex drive, but not this low, no
I know this topic is easy for you to defend since youâre openly cheating on your husband for the same issues.
Quit trying to turn the world into whoresclick to expand
Posted by SupesSo what do you care about world whores then? As long as is yours isn't...Posted by GemitatiNope.Posted by SupesYou afraid for your bride to turn a whore?Posted by GemitatiShe said yes to a man who didnât and never has satisfied her. Now sheâs complaining and regretting her decision. She shouldnât have said yes.Posted by SupesHe married her! And he wouldn't divorce her. So....âPosted by aquarius_manIf sheâs decent looking? I hadnât thought of that. Legit question though. He couldâve seen her without them clothes and got grossed out, but said âfuck itâ.Posted by snowflake017he either has a lover - but less likely, since you say he was this from the beginning or, more likely, he is gay.
and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. ..
...We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent.
no straight man would act like that around a woman, if the woman is decent looking. are you ?
i mean, aqua has a low sex drive, but not this low, no
I know this topic is easy for you to defend since youâre openly cheating on your husband for the same issues.
Quit trying to turn the world into whores
click to expand
You scared shitless! All men are. Ego!
Posted by SupesYou think it's quantity? Lmao!Posted by GemitatiWhoâs scared? I know Iâm not. I got laid last night and this morning. Whatâs to worry about. I take care of my womanPosted by SupesSo what do you care about world whores then? As long as is yours isn't...Posted by GemitatiNope.Posted by SupesYou afraid for your bride to turn a whore?Posted by GemitatiShe said yes to a man who didnât and never has satisfied her. Now sheâs complaining and regretting her decision. She shouldnât have said yes.Posted by SupesHe married her! And he wouldn't divorce her. So....âPosted by aquarius_manIf sheâs decent looking? I hadnât thought of that. Legit question though. He couldâve seen her without them clothes and got grossed out, but said âfuck itâ.Posted by snowflake017he either has a lover - but less likely, since you say he was this from the beginning or, more likely, he is gay.
and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. ..
...We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent.
no straight man would act like that around a woman, if the woman is decent looking. are you ?
i mean, aqua has a low sex drive, but not this low, no
I know this topic is easy for you to defend since youâre openly cheating on your husband for the same issues.
Quit trying to turn the world into whores
You scared shitless! All men are. Ego!
Youâre ego is way bigger than mine.click to expand
Posted by SupesI guess not đPosted by MyStarsShineThatâs not even close to my perspectivePosted by aquarius_manThank you for the male view point...Posted by MyStarsShinelet me explain this to you, from a male's point of you: it's not like that. a man's dick has a life and a mind of its own. you don t have to be in love or to have a sexual chemistry with her in order to bang your wife. the nature took care of these things. it goes like this: male sees female body. man gets a boner. especially if it's a woman you re seeing naked for the 1st time. novelty = arousal; this is not about chemistry, these people are already married. this man doesn't seem to be into women at all, not just her. why marry someone you know you won t be sharing the bed with? it s preposterous, almost like a decoy.
I think you either have sexual chemistry with someone or not
sorry ladies, but this is how im understanding this situation
and this is why i remain single
click to expand
Thankfully some men transcend that base level mentality and mature into something lots of women connect with
Thank you
Posted by aquarius_manSorry, but i can't take the *banging* thing seriously.....you sound angry and you come across as being disrespectfulPosted by MyStarsShineok i described the human male as if he were some kind of evolved ape.Posted by aquarius_manThank you for the male view point...Posted by MyStarsShinelet me explain this to you, from a male's point of you: it's not like that. a man's dick has a life and a mind of its own. you don t have to be in love or to have a sexual chemistry with her in order to bang your wife. the nature took care of these things. it goes like this: male sees female body. man gets a boner. especially if it's a woman you re seeing naked for the 1st time. novelty = arousal; this is not about chemistry, these people are already married. this man doesn't seem to be into women at all, not just her. why marry someone you know you won t be sharing the bed with? it s preposterous, almost like a decoy.
I think you either have sexual chemistry with someone or not
sorry ladies, but this is how im understanding this situation
and this is why i remain single
but bottom line is men get aroused pretty easy. all it takes is an average lookin warm naked body next to u. the moment she starts moaning, its on. what the OP describes is a different behavior that doesnt fall under this category.
and the 1st 3-4 yrs in a relationship, the chemistry is pure and unadulterated. there is one thing to be unable to perform because you can t get an erection, and another to be disinterested, like she said. and sex 3 times/ month?
i read some letters written by william burroughs (aqua)'s wife, joan (aqua) to kerouac, in which she was complaining that her husband (infamously gay; bisexual at best, he had 2 kids with joan but he loved boys since he was 13; he died at 80+) was only banging her 4 times a month, and always complaining about this 'domestic duty'.
click to expand
Are you very young?
Posted by Aquarius3189Men are in their sexual prime in their 20s, not 40s.
41 in a man is there prime again this is where their hottest,3 times a month is cringe worthy im an aqua and yes im not that sexual like rabbits but when im with my girl we do it atleast 3 times a wk mind you theres so many people always around us but we found waysđ,then again im an aqua with a scorp moon and mars in taurus(my gf doesnt last long either)
Damn, 3xs per month. We hit that quota in the last 12 hrs. Twice last night and again this morning.
Posted by LadyNeptune20s and 40s its like a cycle,im always in a group of married women so they discuss this a lot about sex,they say its like something turned off their mens sex drive when they where in their 30s but when they hit 40s hallellujah!đPosted by Aquarius3189Men are in their sexual prime in their 20s, not 40s.
41 in a man is there prime again this is where their hottest,3 times a month is cringe worthy im an aqua and yes im not that sexual like rabbits but when im with my girl we do it atleast 3 times a wk mind you theres so many people always around us but we found waysđ,then again im an aqua with a scorp moon and mars in taurus(my gf doesnt last long either)click to expand
Posted by Aquarius3189Posted by LadyNeptune20s and 40s its like a cycle,im always in a group of married women so they discuss this a lot about sex,they say its like something turned off their mens sex drive when they where in their 30s but when they hit 40s hallellujah!đPosted by Aquarius3189Men are in their sexual prime in their 20s, not 40s.
41 in a man is there prime again this is where their hottest,3 times a month is cringe worthy im an aqua and yes im not that sexual like rabbits but when im with my girl we do it atleast 3 times a wk mind you theres so many people always around us but we found waysđ,then again im an aqua with a scorp moon and mars in taurus(my gf doesnt last long either)click to expand
Lucky women I guess. Sry but men peak at 18/20 đ¤ˇââď¸
Hi. It's me again!!! Snowflake017!!! Sorry but I had to create another account to log-in because I had trouble resetting my password and I don't know what happened.
I tried asking my husband what his sexual fantasies are one time and he just started giggling and didn't give me an answer. He said he's shy. Really?? I've never met a guy like this in the past.
The reason why I married my husband is because he's the only one who gave me stability in a relationship. The other guys were awesome in bed but not very serious. My husband has a good heart â¤ď¸ but I sexually he sucks (i feel bad for saying it)
My previous boyfriend before him was a Scorpio man and it was the best sex I've ever had. That's why I feel so frustrated. He used to spank me in the ass and I loved it!! Sex was rough and nothing conpared to how things are now. He just knew what he was doing and how to please me but with this aqua I can't imagine myself having rough sex since he's different and shy!!
That Scorpio man never wanted to get serious with me so that's why I let him go. When I found this aqua he treated me very well. I just wish he was more sexual but I honestly don't know what his problem is. He doesn't even like talking about sex and tells me that he desires me even if he doesn't show it
I tried asking my husband what his sexual fantasies are one time and he just started giggling and didn't give me an answer. He said he's shy. Really?? I've never met a guy like this in the past.
The reason why I married my husband is because he's the only one who gave me stability in a relationship. The other guys were awesome in bed but not very serious. My husband has a good heart â¤ď¸ but I sexually he sucks (i feel bad for saying it)
My previous boyfriend before him was a Scorpio man and it was the best sex I've ever had. That's why I feel so frustrated. He used to spank me in the ass and I loved it!! Sex was rough and nothing conpared to how things are now. He just knew what he was doing and how to please me but with this aqua I can't imagine myself having rough sex since he's different and shy!!
That Scorpio man never wanted to get serious with me so that's why I let him go. When I found this aqua he treated me very well. I just wish he was more sexual but I honestly don't know what his problem is. He doesn't even like talking about sex and tells me that he desires me even if he doesn't show it
Iâm an Aquarian guy and my first serious relationship was with a canerican guy.
Iâm a very sexual person and I could have sex multiple times daily (with the right person) and my cancer ex wasnât the right person, his lips were small, his mouth was cold and his saliva was just wrong.
He went to the gym everyday while I stayed at home and he had a great body but it felt wrong to hold.
Finally the sex was the worst, when I first hooked up with him in one instance he wasnât clean down there and I flipped him over and fucked him, when he asked me to blow him I couldnât and I felt very uncomfortable telling him he wasnât clean down there and it turned into this neurological nightmare for me because Iâd be thinking âwhy the fuck canât this guy clean himself etcâ then one day I told him to clean himself and he got shitty with me and then did it and it still stunk and I said no and then he got more shitty with me and thatâs when it became this game of cat and mouse between him and me and our relationship fell apart because he would always be trying to seduce me in very vulgar ways but I just couldnât see him as sexy anymore and he became a nuisance always pestering me for sex that I had no drive to give.....I was furious that I had endured so much embarrassment and mental torture to work up the nerve to ask him to clean himself just so he could get shitty with me like itâs my problem....and I expected he would catch on and take necessary precautions (he didnât) and so I would only fuck him and jack him off lol
But I still stayed in a relationship with him because I really appreciated his companionship and I loved him as a friend and still to this day I love his sense of humour, I ended up breaking up with him because he slept with one of my friends lol and to be honest I wasnât angry I was relieved.
My next boyfriend was a Pisces and his dick was so nice to me lol I had to have it at least 3 times a day. We were together for a year and a half and there was only one day during that time that we didnât have sex and that was when he visited his parents for Christmas.
So yeh to put it short, heâs just not that into you.
Iâm a very sexual person and I could have sex multiple times daily (with the right person) and my cancer ex wasnât the right person, his lips were small, his mouth was cold and his saliva was just wrong.
He went to the gym everyday while I stayed at home and he had a great body but it felt wrong to hold.
Finally the sex was the worst, when I first hooked up with him in one instance he wasnât clean down there and I flipped him over and fucked him, when he asked me to blow him I couldnât and I felt very uncomfortable telling him he wasnât clean down there and it turned into this neurological nightmare for me because Iâd be thinking âwhy the fuck canât this guy clean himself etcâ then one day I told him to clean himself and he got shitty with me and then did it and it still stunk and I said no and then he got more shitty with me and thatâs when it became this game of cat and mouse between him and me and our relationship fell apart because he would always be trying to seduce me in very vulgar ways but I just couldnât see him as sexy anymore and he became a nuisance always pestering me for sex that I had no drive to give.....I was furious that I had endured so much embarrassment and mental torture to work up the nerve to ask him to clean himself just so he could get shitty with me like itâs my problem....and I expected he would catch on and take necessary precautions (he didnât) and so I would only fuck him and jack him off lol
But I still stayed in a relationship with him because I really appreciated his companionship and I loved him as a friend and still to this day I love his sense of humour, I ended up breaking up with him because he slept with one of my friends lol and to be honest I wasnât angry I was relieved.
My next boyfriend was a Pisces and his dick was so nice to me lol I had to have it at least 3 times a day. We were together for a year and a half and there was only one day during that time that we didnât have sex and that was when he visited his parents for Christmas.
So yeh to put it short, heâs just not that into you.
he's just not that into you
you have choices
you have choices
Posted by Aquarius3189i did not experience this at all with the 41 yr old i tried dating. mens prime is way earlier on. womens is later. i think someone was onto something with the asexual comment. i could see this for the right aqua easily.
41 in a man is there prime again this is where their hottest,3 times a month is cringe worthy im an aqua and yes im not that sexual like rabbits but when im with my girl we do it atleast 3 times a wk mind you theres so many people always around us but we found waysđ,then again im an aqua with a scorp moon and mars in taurus(my gf doesnt last long either)
Posted by aquarius_manYou said âAqua has a low sexual driveâ. That would entail Aqua females and males... am Iď¸ wrong? Iď¸ do understand the OP commented on one specific Aqua male, but you responded for all Aquas. Maybe common sense isnât common for everyone.... but I donât think you need common sense to use text evidence? Before you get so defensive reread what you wrote first.Posted by Wineaux15And?Posted by aquarius_manPosted by snowflake017he either has a lover - but less likely, since you say he was this from the beginning or, more likely, he is gay.
and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. ..
...We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent.
no straight man would act like that around a woman, if the woman is decent looking. are you ?
i mean, aqua has a low sex drive, but not this low, no
Iâm an Aqua and my sex drive isnât low.
Are you an Aquarius male, as well?
click to expand
Posted by aquarius_manPosted by Wineaux15Dont be stupid. Im not defensive. Im straight offensive.. You and other aqua women who don t understand you should shut the fuucckk up and dont intervene each and every time you read a story about Aquarius MEN. Plus, in astrology, Aquarius is a sign that's not so keen on sex. It includes both the men and the women. But if you insist, sure: you re the aquarius who loves dick ever so much. But hey. I said he's gay. You couldn't even see that. Just shut it.
You said âAqua has a low sexual driveâ. That would entail Aqua females and males... am Iď¸ wrong? Iď¸ do understand the OP commented on one specific Aqua male, but you responded for all Aquas. Maybe common sense isnât common for everyone.... but I donât think you need common sense to use text evidence? Before you get so defensive reread what you wrote first.click to expand
Who the fuck are you talking to like that? All I said was Iâm an Aqua and that I like sex. Iâm dispelling the myth that ALL Aquas arenât sexual. I was just stating MY experience and you responded, âAND are you a man?â Didnât know OP opened the forum up for just man.... so your response was being DEFENSIVE. Now telling me to shut it is OFFENSIVE to me because you donât know me like that and youâre coming at me 50 kinds of wrong simply because I stated Iâm an Aqua and Iâm sexual. Not stating,â i love dick ever so muchâ but that i enjoy sex with a committed partner that Iâm into and in love with. Maybe this is where I should take @justagirl advice and ignore because some people will take small things to go back and forth about. I canât stand an internet thug.... getting all angry behind a keyboard. Iâll âshut itâ alright... but simply because your response was so ignorant itâs not worthy of anymore time.
Posted by Wineaux15they just messing with you.Posted by aquarius_manPosted by Wineaux15Dont be stupid. Im not defensive. Im straight offensive.. You and other aqua women who don t understand you should shut the fuucckk up and dont intervene each and every time you read a story about Aquarius MEN. Plus, in astrology, Aquarius is a sign that's not so keen on sex. It includes both the men and the women. But if you insist, sure: you re the aquarius who loves dick ever so much. But hey. I said he's gay. You couldn't even see that. Just shut it.
You said âAqua has a low sexual driveâ. That would entail Aqua females and males... am Iď¸ wrong? Iď¸ do understand the OP commented on one specific Aqua male, but you responded for all Aquas. Maybe common sense isnât common for everyone.... but I donât think you need common sense to use text evidence? Before you get so defensive reread what you wrote first.
Who the fuck are you talking to like that? All Iď¸ said was Iâm an Aqua and Iď¸ Iď¸ like sex. Iâm dispelling the myth that ALL Aquas arenât sexual. Iď¸ was just stating MY experience and responded, âAND are you a man?â Didnât know OP opened the forum up for just man.... so your response was being DEFENSIVE. Now telling me to shut is OFFENSIVE to me because you donât know me like that and youâre coming at me 50 kinds of wrong simply because Iď¸ stated Iâm an Aqua and Iâm sexual. Not stating,â i love dick ever so muchâ but that i enjoy sex with a committed partner that Iâm into and in love with. Maybe this is where Iď¸ take @justagirl advice and ignore because some people will take small things to go back and forth about. I canât stand an internet thug.... getting all angry behind a keyboard. Iâll shut alright... but simply because your response was so ignorant itâs not worthy of anymore time.
click to expand
id rather be non-sexual than TOO sexual
if someone is TOO sexual, they might turn out hoe-bag. and can't contain themselves.
Posted by SupesPosted by GemitatiShe said yes to a man who didnât and never has satisfied her. Now sheâs complaining and regretting her decision. She shouldnât have said yes.Posted by SupesHe married her! And he wouldn't divorce her. So....âPosted by aquarius_manIf sheâs decent looking? I hadnât thought of that. Legit question though. He couldâve seen her without them clothes and got grossed out, but said âfuck itâ.Posted by snowflake017he either has a lover - but less likely, since you say he was this from the beginning or, more likely, he is gay.
and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. ..
...We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent.
no straight man would act like that around a woman, if the woman is decent looking. are you ?
i mean, aqua has a low sex drive, but not this low, no
I know this topic is easy for you to defend since youâre openly cheating on your husband for the same issues.
Quit trying to turn the world into whoresclick to expand
horny!!
if you're always so horny then you can't even live without sex. then it's easy for peeps to cheat.
Posted by aquarius_manjust like what happened to Elvis Presley and Priscilla Presley.Posted by Wineaux15im not angry, am just dismissive đPosted by aquarius_manPosted by Wineaux15Dont be stupid. Im not defensive. Im straight offensive.. You and other aqua women who don t understand you should shut the fuucckk up and dont intervene each and every time you read a story about Aquarius MEN. Plus, in astrology, Aquarius is a sign that's not so keen on sex. It includes both the men and the women. But if you insist, sure: you re the aquarius who loves dick ever so much. But hey. I said he's gay. You couldn't even see that. Just shut it.
You said âAqua has a low sexual driveâ. That would entail Aqua females and males... am Iď¸ wrong? Iď¸ do understand the OP commented on one specific Aqua male, but you responded for all Aquas. Maybe common sense isnât common for everyone.... but I donât think you need common sense to use text evidence? Before you get so defensive reread what you wrote first.
Who the fuck are you talking to like that? All I said was Iâm an Aqua and that I like sex. Iâm dispelling the myth that ALL Aquas arenât sexual. I was just stating MY experience and you responded, âAND are you a man?â Didnât know OP opened the forum up for just man.... so your response was being DEFENSIVE. Now telling me to shut it is OFFENSIVE to me because you donât know me like that and youâre coming at me 50 kinds of wrong simply because I stated Iâm an Aqua and Iâm sexual. Not stating,â i love dick ever so muchâ but that i enjoy sex with a committed partner that Iâm into and in love with. Maybe this is where I should take @justagirl advice and ignore because some people will take small things to go back and forth about. I canât stand an internet thug.... getting all angry behind a keyboard. Iâll âshut itâ alright... but simply because your response was so ignorant itâs not worthy of anymore time.
besides, you answered 100% as expected: a typical aquarius female who claims to be different. yes, you are all different. there's one thing to enjoy sex, and another to have a low sex drive. yes, please, do keep quiet. the topic was about AQUARIUS MEN.
click to expand
she wanted sex and complained.
so she divorced Elvis. can't deal with it.
Posted by Wineaux15Posted by aquarius_manYou said âAqua has a low sexual driveâ. That would entail Aqua females and males... am Iď¸ wrong? Iď¸ do understand the OP commented on one specific Aqua male, but you responded for all Aquas. Maybe common sense isnât common for everyone.... but I donât think you need common sense to use text evidence? Before you get so defensive reread what you wrote first.Posted by Wineaux15And?Posted by aquarius_manPosted by snowflake017he either has a lover - but less likely, since you say he was this from the beginning or, more likely, he is gay.
and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. ..
...We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent.
no straight man would act like that around a woman, if the woman is decent looking. are you ?
i mean, aqua has a low sex drive, but not this low, no
Iâm an Aqua and my sex drive isnât low.
Are you an Aquarius male, as well?
click to expand
i dont know....i have Capricorn. Capricorn has the ability to shut off that stuff easily. CONTROL.
and weirdly enough so does Scorpio.
Posted by aquarius_mango look it up. lolPosted by lisabethur8a marriage without sex. that s impossible
just like what happened to Elvis Presley and Priscilla Presley.
she wanted sex and complained.
so she divorced Elvis. can't deal with it.
ps elvis pelvis? wasnt giving it to her?click to expand
gemitati is the type that NEEDS sex.
thus two men. well one stopped performing. lol
Posted by FishyDudewhat if they also suck in bed?
Leave the Aqua, and maybe find yourself a Taurus, Scorpio, or Pisces dude.
(except for the scorpio oooh sex god talk)
cause honestly that's what her problem is, losing her sex drive.
shes gonna find the same problems if she finds them the same.
Posted by snowflake017i'd go with ssupes, get a vibrator.
Hello, I'm a cancer woman married to an aquarius man. I know we're not supposed to be a good match but I didn't want to believe it at first. Now I'm having sexual issues with my husband and I think it will only get worst.
At the beginning when he started pursuing me he used to talk about sex all the time and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. It seemed weird because he really seemed into and when the time came he acted totally uninterested.
I tried to ignore all this because he's a good guy and has other amazing qualities. But after the first time we had sex, he just stopped talking about that subject completely. He became non-sexual and when I tried to bring up the subject or send him a sexy picture he would act like it was no big deal. I ended up marrying him anyway because I love everything about him, except the sex part and he told me once we lived together everything was going to change because before our relationship was long distance. Well, I was stupid to believe him because nothing changed!!!! We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent. I ended up getting bored of him and now I lost my desire for him completely. I feel like sex has become a duty and I'm just dead every time we have sex. I don't have the desire to kiss him or touch him anymore and the worst part is I can't even fake that I'm having a good time. He has completely kill my passion for sex!!! Of course, I would love to have sex but with someone else because I feel that I can't be horny and passionate with this aquarius man đ˘ I had amazing sex with my previous boyfriends and now I'm stuck with someone with a low sex drive for the rest of my life.
I realized my mistake of marrying him but now I don't want to make a second mistake by having children with him. I told him it was better to end things, as I don't want to bring children to the world without passion and we're not sexually compatible and he got furious!!!
He said he's never going to divorce me and that my duty as a wife is to try to make things work instead of thinking of divorce. He's right but how am I going to get my sexual desire back? He wants to have children with me even if I don't feel happy with out sex life. Since he won't divorce me and wants me to fight for our marriage how can I get back my desire when he never showed interest in sex to begin with? I feel like he's taking the blame on me and it's not fair that I'm the one who has to make an effort when I felt unloved by him. What can I do? Is there any hope? By the way, I'm 30 years old and he's 41
lol and marrying a guy who is non-sexual. like all you care about is sex after all....
alot of men would distrust you because that's all you care about.
Posted by aquarius_manlolPosted by lisabethur8but she said she used to enjoy sex with other guys before the gay aqua man
shes gonna find the same problems if she finds them the same.click to expand
this topic is hilarious. why did she marry someone who is gay?
did he need a beard?
Posted by aquarius_manPosted by lisabethur8she didn t know he was gay, because before marrying her he was talking about sex all the time. so she assumed he would be enthusiastic, to say the leastPosted by aquarius_manlolPosted by lisabethur8but she said she used to enjoy sex with other guys before the gay aqua man
shes gonna find the same problems if she finds them the same.
this topic is hilarious. why did she marry someone who is gay?
did he need a beard?click to expand
that's why you should TEST it out. đ
...so no mistakes...and go...ewwww they SUCK in bed.
Posted by aquarius_manUsing MY text evidence..., the title states, âWill SOMEONE help me?â Not will an Aqua man help me. Yes, sheâs speaking of an Aqua man in the original post, but if she only wanted Aqua men to respond she wouldâve specified that. Thus why women AND men responded also people of different astrological signs. Now telling me to be quiet is a great way to disagree....Fawk no. Just because Iâm telling my thoughts and opinion ON A FORUM doesnât me I need to be quiet just because someone doesnât like what I said. Plus you canât jump through the phone and make me be quiet. So fawk you.Posted by Wineaux15im not angry, am just dismissive đPosted by aquarius_manPosted by Wineaux15Dont be stupid. Im not defensive. Im straight offensive.. You and other aqua women who don t understand you should shut the fuucckk up and dont intervene each and every time you read a story about Aquarius MEN. Plus, in astrology, Aquarius is a sign that's not so keen on sex. It includes both the men and the women. But if you insist, sure: you re the aquarius who loves dick ever so much. But hey. I said he's gay. You couldn't even see that. Just shut it.
You said âAqua has a low sexual driveâ. That would entail Aqua females and males... am Iď¸ wrong? Iď¸ do understand the OP commented on one specific Aqua male, but you responded for all Aquas. Maybe common sense isnât common for everyone.... but I donât think you need common sense to use text evidence? Before you get so defensive reread what you wrote first.
Who the fuck are you talking to like that? All I said was Iâm an Aqua and that I like sex. Iâm dispelling the myth that ALL Aquas arenât sexual. I was just stating MY experience and you responded, âAND are you a man?â Didnât know OP opened the forum up for just man.... so your response was being DEFENSIVE. Now telling me to shut it is OFFENSIVE to me because you donât know me like that and youâre coming at me 50 kinds of wrong simply because I stated Iâm an Aqua and Iâm sexual. Not stating,â i love dick ever so muchâ but that i enjoy sex with a committed partner that Iâm into and in love with. Maybe this is where I should take @justagirl advice and ignore because some people will take small things to go back and forth about. I canât stand an internet thug.... getting all angry behind a keyboard. Iâll âshut itâ alright... but simply because your response was so ignorant itâs not worthy of anymore time.
besides, you answered 100% as expected: a typical aquarius female who claims to be different. yes, you are all different. there's one thing to enjoy sex, and another to have a low sex drive. yes, please, do keep quiet. the topic was about AQUARIUS MEN.
click to expand
Posted by aquarius_manAre you religious? Do you believe in sex before marriage?Posted by lisabethur8
...so no mistakes...and go...ewwww they SUCK in bed.
so u believe in sex before marriage, huh. did the scorpio take you for a test before?
click to expand
Posted by Cancer921
Hi. It's me again!!! Snowflake017!!! Sorry but I had to create another account to log-in because I had trouble resetting my password and I don't know what happened.
I tried asking my husband what his sexual fantasies are one time and he just started giggling and didn't give me an answer. He said he's shy. Really?? I've never met a guy like this in the past.
The reason why I married my husband is because he's the only one who gave me stability in a relationship. The other guys were awesome in bed but not very serious. My husband has a good heart â¤ď¸ but I sexually he sucks (i feel bad for saying it)
My previous boyfriend before him was a Scorpio man and it was the best sex I've ever had. That's why I feel so frustrated. He used to spank me in the ass and I loved it!! Sex was rough and nothing conpared to how things are now. He just knew what he was doing and how to please me but with this aqua I can't imagine myself having rough sex since he's different and shy!!
That Scorpio man never wanted to get serious with me so that's why I let him go. When I found this aqua he treated me very well. I just wish he was more sexual but I honestly don't know what his problem is. He doesn't even like talking about sex and tells me that he desires me even if he doesn't show it
Keep talking to him about sex. Get him comfortable with your ideas and helping him express himself. You might find a tiger in there waiting to be unleashed!
Posted by aquarius_manInteresting thingies.Posted by LibWmanyes and yesPosted by aquarius_manAre you religious? Do you believe in sex before marriage?Posted by lisabethur8
...so no mistakes...and go...ewwww they SUCK in bed.
so u believe in sex before marriage, huh. did the scorpio take you for a test before?
click to expand
Posted by aquarius_manPosted by lisabethur8
...so no mistakes...and go...ewwww they SUCK in bed.
so u believe in sex before marriage, huh. did the scorpio take you for a test before?
click to expand
he ain't dumb.
why do you think he married me??
lol it ain't only my good looks. haha.
Posted by LibWmannope not religious. but i believe....Posted by aquarius_manAre you religious? Do you believe in sex before marriage?Posted by lisabethur8
...so no mistakes...and go...ewwww they SUCK in bed.
so u believe in sex before marriage, huh. did the scorpio take you for a test before?
click to expand
and i dont adhere to any "code" or strict religion because like i've said many times in the past...
religion has too many restrictions. and some i dont really believe.
Posted by pinkbird03he might be a VIRGIN.Posted by Cancer921
Hi. It's me again!!! Snowflake017!!! Sorry but I had to create another account to log-in because I had trouble resetting my password and I don't know what happened.
I tried asking my husband what his sexual fantasies are one time and he just started giggling and didn't give me an answer. He said he's shy. Really?? I've never met a guy like this in the past.
The reason why I married my husband is because he's the only one who gave me stability in a relationship. The other guys were awesome in bed but not very serious. My husband has a good heart â¤ď¸ but I sexually he sucks (i feel bad for saying it)
My previous boyfriend before him was a Scorpio man and it was the best sex I've ever had. That's why I feel so frustrated. He used to spank me in the ass and I loved it!! Sex was rough and nothing conpared to how things are now. He just knew what he was doing and how to please me but with this aqua I can't imagine myself having rough sex since he's different and shy!!
That Scorpio man never wanted to get serious with me so that's why I let him go. When I found this aqua he treated me very well. I just wish he was more sexual but I honestly don't know what his problem is. He doesn't even like talking about sex and tells me that he desires me even if he doesn't show it
Keep talking to him about sex. Get him comfortable with your ideas and helping him express himself. You might find a tiger in there waiting to be unleashed!
click to expand
that's a good idea, go and help him.
Posted by aquarius_manplus all these posts and topics how scorpio man is hot sex god...Posted by Cancer921and the aqua doesn t spank you? what kind of aqua is he đ˘
My previous boyfriend before him was a Scorpio man and it was the best sex I've ever had. That's why I feel so frustrated. He used to spank me in the ass and I loved it!!
look, have you tried another approach? as in: when you lay in bed next to each other, start touching yourself and have him watch and encourage him to participate. or blow him and ask him to pleasure you orally. you need to encourage him if he s not gay. create some intimacy first.
since aquarius is a sign thats not too interested in sex (we like sex in an abstract way), maybe you need to stimulate his mind, too. (i dont know why you would need to stimulate his mind, instead of his dick but whatever - thats the zodiac says)
or maybe try to trick him into it. don t talk about it, just do it. at night. assault him. don t let him be, but don t pursue him aggressively, either. be like 2 cousins who explore each other's sexuality - you play with his dick, he plays with your kitty and see what happens.
click to expand
how come she didnt marry that guy then?
if that's all you wanted?
Posted by aquarius_manawwww ....Posted by lisabethur8she had to choose between the sex god (scorpio) who wasnt into her and the most non-sexual sign (aquarius) who made her feel loved & safe. what would you choose?
plus all these posts and topics how scorpio man is hot sex god...
how come she didnt marry that guy then?
if that's all you wanted?click to expand
in the long run women want love and to be safe.
that's why she married him.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account âRelated Topics
Life is a story and to often the cancer woman is typecasted into two roles ...
the first one is the princess/victim
the princess/victim- waits for her prince patiently with the promise of happily ever after in real life the princess just wants to b
she doesn't respond to text messages (she just reads them) so i don't know what her response is to my message. Recently she answers my phone call but doesn't speak just listens. as a scorpio i feel via my intuition that i can have a proper conversation wi
i noticed about my cancer that when i am not able to do something that she wanted me to do at the time that she wanted me to do it, she feels insecure (i think what is going on in her mind is that i don't love her) and acts immaturely/act like a kid. but
Most of you probably remember my screen name from a few months ago when I shared my story of the sweetheart Cancer woman that I basically chased off after she cleaned my house.
Well, what was missing from that story is that prior to her coming into my
I (Cancer woman) met a new Taurus man and I gave him my phone number, telling him to get a hold of me if he ever wanted to get together. He texted me that same day when I didn't expect to hear from him for a bit.
We've texted and Snapchatted back and f
Hey all.
I have just broken up with a lovely Capricorn guy. I ended it after four months and miss him terribly but I wasn't sure if it had a future and he hasn't exactly come rushing back. I posted about all this in another thread.
Anyway...I'm 38 and
Hello All.
First time poster. Nervous.
I'm a Cancer girl who broke up with my Cap boyfriend of just four months because I am depressed about being out of work and hated having him around to witness it. I felt ashamed and embarrassed. I didn't want to
Who don't like Scorpio men? I personally think that this pairing is overrated.
Is your cancer sending you confusing signals
Is your cancer woman refusing to open up to you
Has your cancer man gone cold and silent...
Well fuck off.. This isnt the support group for you... That's down the hall... I think it's called the "
I'm a cancer woman myself, but I'm not sure I can pinpoint the exact things that make me fall for someone. When I fell in love with my ex I fell in love cause I felt reassured that she wouldn't leave and I felt safe with her, but then she still left.. Now
This question is for all who have either dated a cancer woman or know one.
I'm dating this Cancer Girl, 4th Juy born. We been going out and having fun. We also enjoy staying indoors and have great physical chemistry. But there 2 very peculiar behaviors;
I'm having a lot of trouble of letting go of my cancer lady who has left me. I Am very confused as to why she left me as she says it's nothing to do with me and it's just how she feels. We have been in love since we first met. We have both taught eachothe
I have been going out with this Cancer woman for over a month. When are having fun together, and have a lot of things to talk about. We live far away from each other, so meeting up every day is not possible.This is where the problem is, or may be there is
Hi, I am from california and met my cancer friend a few months ago. She is a neighbour. She opened up a lot the first few times we met then just distant polite friends for a couple months. Lately she has been a clingy friend, very hot and cold and I am st
Wondering what Cancer women look for in someone whether it's a casual date versus a potential full fledged relationship?
Hi y'all,
I'm relatively new here and thought would get your insights on a question I've been having, after having read many of the topics on this board.
How does a Pisces male-cancer female relationship compare to a Pisces male-cap female one?
As
I love cancer women, but I don't know how to deal with them day in & day out. So much stress ?
Should I just ignore them when they mood swing?
problem is they still want me around even when they're irritated
Give me ideas on how to â¤ď¸ U ? in a
i like to ask cancer women out there about your love + (combined with) your mood swings.
i picture a cancer woman's mood swings like a pendulum --- where on one side is very very good (she's really really good and positive and happy) and then on the ot
I feel like we don't get enough attention on our on forum ...so please post something about the cancer woman below a song, a picture, a question ...I will start ....
People often mistake your sensitive nature as a sign of weakness and I see this as str
At the beginning when he started pursuing me he used to talk about sex all the time and when the time finally came and he saw me wearing lingerie for the first time he didn't had a big reaction like a horny guy would, he seemed shy to touch me and didn't even know how to kiss me in the mouth!!! We had sex that time but he barely touched me or kissed me. It seemed weird because he really seemed into and when the time came he acted totally uninterested.
I tried to ignore all this because he's a good guy and has other amazing qualities. But after the first time we had sex, he just stopped talking about that subject completely. He became non-sexual and when I tried to bring up the subject or send him a sexy picture he would act like it was no big deal. I ended up marrying him anyway because I love everything about him, except the sex part and he told me once we lived together everything was going to change because before our relationship was long distance. Well, I was stupid to believe him because nothing changed!!!! We only have sex 3 times a month and it's always a routine. It doesn't last more than 10 minutes without any kind of foreplay. If I tell him to kiss a part of my body, he does it very little almost like he doesn't like it or enjoy it.
When I touch him, he seems bored and when I tried wearing sexy outfits or when I'm naked in front of him, he acts so indifferent. I ended up getting bored of him and now I lost my desire for him completely. I feel like sex has become a duty and I'm just dead every time we have sex. I don't have the desire to kiss him or touch him anymore and the worst part is I can't even fake that I'm having a good time. He has completely kill my passion for sex!!! Of course, I would love to have sex but with someone else because I feel that I can't be horny and passionate with this aquarius man đ˘ I had amazing sex with my previous boyfriends and now I'm stuck with someone with a low sex drive for the rest of my life.
I realized my mistake of marrying him but now I don't want to make a second mistake by having children with him. I told him it was better to end things, as I don't want to bring children to the world without passion and we're not sexually compatible and he got furious!!!
He said he's never going to divorce me and that my duty as a wife is to try to make things work instead of thinking of divorce. He's right but how am I going to get my sexual desire back? He wants to have children with me even if I don't feel happy with out sex life. Since he won't divorce me and wants me to fight for our marriage how can I get back my desire when he never showed interest in sex to begin with? I feel like he's taking the blame on me and it's not fair that I'm the one who has to make an effort when I felt unloved by him. What can I do? Is there any hope? By the way, I'm 30 years old and he's 41