Are we really scary?

I'm an Aries woman 24 year old and 1st Decan. Honestly men either tell me that I scare them or even when they tell me they aren't scared of me they're still scared. It's like I can smell their fear. They can't even look me in the eyes for too long. Are Aries woman really that intimidating?

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Now I'm recalling reading about two types of Aries - Rams or Lambs.

@Twodrinks I spy with my judgy little eyes a Sun square Mars aspect~ On a serious note though, you have Venus, Saturn and Uranus all trine your Leo ascendant. That with the fact you're fire-dominant chart wise, I can picture you having lots of energy that get's released in a controlled fashion in general. It also implies that you'll shake things up either in an attempt to remedy becoming too predicable to others. A temper that like lightning is what I picture, quick and over in a flash, but powerfully destructive. You also have a nice Mars/Venus trine going on, so it suggests a natural appeal that's attractive to many.

So from these little snippets, I can picture people being intimidated by you, by a mixture of your Arian woman independence, mixed with your control and grace with your body movements. The fact you're hard to predict can also mean they feel off balance, hence automatically defensive toward you due to a lack of control on their part. I could throw in that your Venus-Neptune trine can help your project the image of dangerous fiery vixen, but I don't think you need to be told the obvious, right? 😄

Overall, I think you're presence is just filled with energy and intensity, they have to recoil or risk getting burned.

My virgo mom and gemini dad used to say Wednesday Addams was my alter ego when I was a little girl. I get the sense that men get intimidated by me once conversation starts. It's why the giggly girls tend to be surrounded by guys all of the time. The only solution, it seems, is for me to just smile and let them do the talking.

I have a Libra rising, no -_-

No, not at all..

I just had a Gemini last night tell me that I was 'confrontational', and I was 'scaring' him. But honestly, it's all relative. He was being quite abrasive and seemed as if he was trying to compete with me. And I'm generally very Libran (Libra dominant) and fair, but I still have my Arian deliverance lol I will tell you how I feel, always. Respectfully, but you'll know what I think. He just didn't want to be challenged, it seems.

I'm honestly tired of hearing people bashing Aries suns. Can't stand the heat? Back off, then. No need to trash someone's character. If you are an overly domineering Aries sun, try to acknowledge that. But don't allow some pansy to make you feel badly about traits that feel natural to you. Aries suns are passionate about the things we believe in. Strong in our convictions, I always say; own it. But still be respectful.

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I have a Libra rising, no -_-

I have a Libra rising as well as Libra moon, and I'm still Arian; it's our soul. You don't feel like you have strong Aries impulses at times?

Sometimes. A few Aries women I know keep mean mugging all the time. Like they're always angry

What scares people about Aires women is not the way they look, it's the assertiveness and confidence they have. Most other signs don't have that outside of Leo. Those two signs are most confident signs.

I'm a first decan Aries and I have been told I'm intimidating. It's not because of how I look. It's because of what I do. Word spreads... neighborhood, family, job...

One example is that my in my first few months at a new job, I fired someone (in a culture where it is damned near impossible to fire someone) and managers act scary.

Pictures don't seem to be working lately but, I saw a flash of it. So maybe later when it's working, those who are interested will see my picture. I look innocent and have often used that to my benefit. My husband is an Aries Ascendant and we were talking about getting into altercations and how he rarely does (and wants to so badly). And, I told him it's because he acts intimidating and shows his anger ferociously. I don't. I'm very air dominant. My last physical fight was about 5 years ago.

My day is "the Day of Innocence."

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no don't get that impression. just because i befriend one aries still doesn't prove my love for aries. nobody is actually worth loving for in general, but if there's one sign that has a fat chance for a worthy of my love would be taurus.

You love us

ok. now you forced me into this. you dun started something now. i wanna test your martian skills.

what would your reaction be if you were to see me on the streets? let's say we just pass by each other going the opposite direction. we just walk by each other and say, hi. and out of the blue, i ask you aren't you on dxp? and then i tell you i'm your fellow dxper, AirManForce. and i already know how you look cuz i've seen your pic here before. how would you react?

I was gonna make a joke but I'll be 100% honest.

We're on the street? Walking past each other and you ask me about being on DXP. I wouldn't answer but I'd smile big and say "hi! Who are you?" And I might blush a little because im bashful. You say your name and I would say "ohh! Yes...I know who you are now. What are you doing around here? Small world Huh?"

I'd keep it short probably because im not too extremely social but I'd be cordial and then say "hey, well it was good to meet you, I have to be off to work/shop/school/whatever now"

does gemini men interest you?

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LMAO!!!!!

on a string

a lot of people find my aries mum intimidating

Posted by Avies
I'm an Aries woman 24 year old and 1st Decan. Honestly men either tell me that I scare them or even when they tell me they aren't scared of me they're still scared. It's like I can smell their fear. They can't even look me in the eyes for too long. Are Aries woman really that intimidating?

Lmao. No Aries women are not scary, but people can read your facial expressions. ***DISCLAIMER, Please don't take this offensive, and I am not trying to compare you to an animal. Just merely using this example as analogy for better understanding**** Sometimes you can look certain dogs in the eyes and just tell when they feel threatened or their about to start barking or even snap at you. So, you disengage that eye contact. Well, some Aries, walk around with that look and it's a look of "aggressive challenge." Certain people might not be in the mood to go there with you or even deal with it. I had a few female friends who wore that face constantly and couldn't understand why people didn't like them or had things to say about them. You all handle things quite well in large groups though. Quite fearless and it's imprressive. 😉

I guess I'm not scared of Aries Women, that's why this thing doesn't work for me.

Apparently so. I get that a lot. Or "Intimidating."

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I'm an Aries woman 24 year old and 1st Decan. Honestly men either tell me that I scare them or even when they tell me they aren't scared of me they're still scared. It's like I can smell their fear. They can't even look me in the eyes for too long. Are Aries woman really that intimidating?

Lmao. No Aries women are not scary, but people can read your facial expressions. ***DISCLAIMER, Please don't take this offensive, and I am not trying to compare you to an animal. Just merely using this example as analogy for better understanding**** Sometimes you can look certain dogs in the eyes and just tell when they feel threatened or their about to start barking or even snap at you. So, you disengage that eye contact. Well, some Aries, walk around with that look and it's a look of "aggressive challenge." Certain people might not be in the mood to go there with you or even deal with it. I had a few female friends who wore that face constantly and couldn't understand why people didn't like them or had things to say about them. You all handle things quite well in large groups though. Quite fearless and it's imprressive. 😉

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aka "resting bitch face."

I actually love Aries women. There confidence is infectious. They are very blunt but I admire that about them. Get past the abrasive personality, I find them very sweet and some of the most caring people I know. I find the aggressive ones very sexy!

Aries guys are kinky.

HA! yes!!! Aires - dem lean and hungry look. Btw all those guys want to fuck you.

Aires gets scary. Leo gets nerve racking. Sag gets oafey.


Signed,

Nerve racking

My ascendant is Aries as well and my sun is also Aries. I always say what I think and I don't sugarcoat stuff. I used to feel bad about myself but honestly ever since I started to embrace my true nature I'm becoming happier by the day. A man once told me that I have some sort of power over men because they can't have me or something. I still don't know what the hell he is talking about.