LinoleumGirl
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Posted by sakuraflowersExactly what I was thinking. He just proposed to you @OP and you’re here wondering why he’s ignoring you, when right now you should be too busy celebrating your future together and feeling euphoric and excited.Posted by LinoleumGirlHe knows how to keep you around.
So, after the whole me telling me how I felt about that other girl. He ignored me. For days. Barely used his social media. Which is strange for him.
I showed up to his apartment. We talked. The next day, he showed up at my place and he asked me to marry him. I said yes.
Now? He's ignoring me. He doesn't even read my texts now. Just leave me on delivered.
He hasn't deleted me or unfollowed me. Just, ignore.
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Posted by sakuraflowersAh he’s an Aries? I don’t know the backstory with her and him. I was going to ask there signs.Posted by HippieGemI doubt that, sadly. 😢
Or his feelings scare himself and he’s having doubts after popping the question.
I've never known an Aries who would ignore someone they like or someone they want to marry. The Aries didn't even bother to open the messages. Even my Aries guyfriend has never ignored my messages. For myself, unless I dislike the person or not comfortable with the person, I generally respond within a day or 2 at max. If I don't say anything, I would at least read it. If I like someone, I tend to respond even faster to that person.
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Posted by tizianiNaw, libra would have to leave the fence. 😏Posted by sakuraflowersIt's almost like how a Libra would do it 😱Posted by HippieGemPosted by sakuraflowersAh he’s an Aries? I don’t know the backstory with her and him. I was going to ask there signs.Posted by HippieGemI doubt that, sadly. 😢
Or his feelings scare himself and he’s having doubts after popping the question.
I've never known an Aries who would ignore someone they like or someone they want to marry. The Aries didn't even bother to open the messages. Even my Aries guyfriend has never ignored my messages. For myself, unless I dislike the person or not comfortable with the person, I generally respond within a day or 2 at max. If I don't say anything, I would at least read it. If I like someone, I tend to respond even faster to that person.
I agree though, an Aries wouldn’t normally do that. They’re all in once they fall in love. And even with friendships like you said, they don’t leave someone they truly care about in a platonic or romantic way wondering about what they want or acting distant no matter what they’re dealing with personally. I always see Aries as reliable and there for the ones they care about in a heartbeat.
My Aries son (I have two of them but the older one is 18), is so reliable and good to everyone. Such a great kid. Young man. Whichever, he’s still my baby, lol. But when he’s talking to girls, and they confuse him and play games, he just doesn’t respond and asks me what he should say.
I used to find Aries guys confusing. One in particular. But I think that’s just them getting confused by others that don’t tell them exactly how they feel.
Yes. OP was seeing this Aries guy. Then after some time, this other girl came into the picture. The Ram got distant. OP wrote to him about how she felt about the other girl. Basically if he is now interested in the girl, she will leave. He responded that he likes her and talked a bit of where the "relationship" was going and then ignored her for days. She shows up at his apartment and they talked. The next day, he proposed and then proceed to ignore her again.
That's whole lot of ignoring for an Aries that's supposedly interested in and supposedly wanted to marry OP. It seems more like OP confronts an issue and the Aries responds accordingly to keep her around.
lol, I don't know about that...If an Aries is this confusing, it probably means they are not all there in the "relationship". If an Aries is confused, the more likely scenario is that they will be the one to speak up.
IMO 🙂
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Posted by tizianiI KNEW that was you!!!Posted by justagirlHe can always carry the fence with him.Posted by tizianiNaw, libra would have to leave the fence. 😏Posted by sakuraflowersIt's almost like how a Libra would do it 😱Posted by HippieGemPosted by sakuraflowersAh he’s an Aries? I don’t know the backstory with her and him. I was going to ask there signs.Posted by HippieGemI doubt that, sadly. 😢
Or his feelings scare himself and he’s having doubts after popping the question.
I've never known an Aries who would ignore someone they like or someone they want to marry. The Aries didn't even bother to open the messages. Even my Aries guyfriend has never ignored my messages. For myself, unless I dislike the person or not comfortable with the person, I generally respond within a day or 2 at max. If I don't say anything, I would at least read it. If I like someone, I tend to respond even faster to that person.
I agree though, an Aries wouldn’t normally do that. They’re all in once they fall in love. And even with friendships like you said, they don’t leave someone they truly care about in a platonic or romantic way wondering about what they want or acting distant no matter what they’re dealing with personally. I always see Aries as reliable and there for the ones they care about in a heartbeat.
My Aries son (I have two of them but the older one is 18), is so reliable and good to everyone. Such a great kid. Young man. Whichever, he’s still my baby, lol. But when he’s talking to girls, and they confuse him and play games, he just doesn’t respond and asks me what he should say.
I used to find Aries guys confusing. One in particular. But I think that’s just them getting confused by others that don’t tell them exactly how they feel.
Yes. OP was seeing this Aries guy. Then after some time, this other girl came into the picture. The Ram got distant. OP wrote to him about how she felt about the other girl. Basically if he is now interested in the girl, she will leave. He responded that he likes her and talked a bit of where the "relationship" was going and then ignored her for days. She shows up at his apartment and they talked. The next day, he proposed and then proceed to ignore her again.
That's whole lot of ignoring for an Aries that's supposedly interested in and supposedly wanted to marry OP. It seems more like OP confronts an issue and the Aries responds accordingly to keep her around.
lol, I don't know about that...If an Aries is this confusing, it probably means they are not all there in the "relationship". If an Aries is confused, the more likely scenario is that they will be the one to speak up.
IMO 🙂
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Posted by sakuraflowersHmm, thanks Sakura for the explanation of what’s happening. I fully agree with you. He’s interested in another girl and becomes distant. He’s not fully invested in a relationship with @OP If he was, she wouldn’t even be here questioning it.Posted by HippieGemPosted by sakuraflowersAh he’s an Aries? I don’t know the backstory with her and him. I was going to ask there signs.Posted by HippieGemI doubt that, sadly. 😢
Or his feelings scare himself and he’s having doubts after popping the question.
I've never known an Aries who would ignore someone they like or someone they want to marry. The Aries didn't even bother to open the messages. Even my Aries guyfriend has never ignored my messages. For myself, unless I dislike the person or not comfortable with the person, I generally respond within a day or 2 at max. If I don't say anything, I would at least read it. If I like someone, I tend to respond even faster to that person.
I agree though, an Aries wouldn’t normally do that. They’re all in once they fall in love. And even with friendships like you said, they don’t leave someone they truly care about in a platonic or romantic way wondering about what they want or acting distant no matter what they’re dealing with personally. I always see Aries as reliable and there for the ones they care about in a heartbeat.
My Aries son (I have two of them but the older one is 18), is so reliable and good to everyone. Such a great kid. Young man. Whichever, he’s still my baby, lol. But when he’s talking to girls, and they confuse him and play games, he just doesn’t respond and asks me what he should say.
I used to find Aries guys confusing. One in particular. But I think that’s just them getting confused by others that don’t tell them exactly how they feel.
Yes. OP was seeing this Aries guy. Then after some time, this other girl came into the picture. The Ram got distant. OP wrote to him about how she felt about the other girl. Basically if he is now interested in the girl, she will leave. He responded that he likes her and talked a bit of where the "relationship" was going and then ignored her for days. She shows up at his apartment and they talked. The next day, he proposed and then proceed to ignore her again.
That's whole lot of ignoring for an Aries that's supposedly interested in and supposedly wanted to marry OP. It seems more like OP confronts an issue and the Aries responds accordingly to keep her around.
lol, I don't know about that...If an Aries is this confusing, it probably means they are not all there in the "relationship". If an Aries is confused, the more likely scenario is that they will be the one to speak up.
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Posted by LinoleumGirlI’m sorry you’re going through this. A man who really wants to be with you would not be playing with your feelings this way.
How do I get him to talk to me?
I know him, if he didn't care, he would have blocked me from Facebook and twitter. He hasn't.
Why are social media important to him? It's how he stays connected to the world. I can't really explain it. He's very political and into gaming. He doesn't have a lot of friends. He's a loner. But social media is how he socialize.
I read a lot about Aries in love. And before he ignored me, after I told him how I felt and that I wouldn't be his stand by girl while he chase that other girl, he was pretty into me. Always replying right away. Always messaging me. Telling me how he felt about life and his problem. I felt like his confident. We were really close.
But telling him how I felt, changed something. And he's been really silent. On twitter. Like he was brewing his feelings, or he was hurt. I didn't push. I waited. After a week, I went to him and we talked. We cleaned a lot of stuff. It felt good.
He always dated girl he had nothing in common with. I'm his first girlfriend he truly connected with. We're both in our 30's.

Posted by LinoleumGirlThere is something you don't tell. If you were truly connected an aries would rather die than ignore you. You either did something was a red flag, or you have some quality give him no peace, or simply you lost his trust. Think back what happened you will find, then you gotta sort it out before it's too late. If he ignores you, it means he try to set himself up to live without you so you better hurry up
How do I get him to talk to me?
I know him, if he didn't care, he would have blocked me from Facebook and twitter. He hasn't.
Why are social media important to him? It's how he stays connected to the world. I can't really explain it. He's very political and into gaming. He doesn't have a lot of friends. He's a loner. But social media is how he socialize.
I read a lot about Aries in love. And before he ignored me, after I told him how I felt and that I wouldn't be his stand by girl while he chase that other girl, he was pretty into me. Always replying right away. Always messaging me. Telling me how he felt about life and his problem. I felt like his confident. We were really close.
But telling him how I felt, changed something. And he's been really silent. On twitter. Like he was brewing his feelings, or he was hurt. I didn't push. I waited. After a week, I went to him and we talked. We cleaned a lot of stuff. It felt good.
He always dated girl he had nothing in common with. I'm his first girlfriend he truly connected with. We're both in our 30's.

Posted by tizianiYes. But is a guy really going to go invest in a ring he doesn’t want to buy in the first place? And who would give him a diamond engagement ring to a malethat he could later use on a woman? Besides one passed down from family which I’m sure he wouldn’t frivolously give away to buy himself time.
You can buy rings or use ones you were given from years ago.

Posted by SheeverAries is a walking detector, he not necessarily share what he see but take notes constantly.Posted by LinoleumGirlThere is something you don't tell. If you were truly connected an aries would rather die than ignore you. You either did something was a red flag, or you have some quality give him no peace, or simply you lost his trust. Think back what happened you will find, then you gotta sort it out before it's too late. If he ignores you, it means he try to set himself up to live without you so you better hurry up
How do I get him to talk to me?
I know him, if he didn't care, he would have blocked me from Facebook and twitter. He hasn't.
Why are social media important to him? It's how he stays connected to the world. I can't really explain it. He's very political and into gaming. He doesn't have a lot of friends. He's a loner. But social media is how he socialize.
I read a lot about Aries in love. And before he ignored me, after I told him how I felt and that I wouldn't be his stand by girl while he chase that other girl, he was pretty into me. Always replying right away. Always messaging me. Telling me how he felt about life and his problem. I felt like his confident. We were really close.
But telling him how I felt, changed something. And he's been really silent. On twitter. Like he was brewing his feelings, or he was hurt. I didn't push. I waited. After a week, I went to him and we talked. We cleaned a lot of stuff. It felt good.
He always dated girl he had nothing in common with. I'm his first girlfriend he truly connected with. We're both in our 30's.
Aries is a walking detector, he not necessarily share what he see but take notes constantly.
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Posted by sakuraflowersLMAO...it's not serious. And if it is - this man must be scared to death of her!Posted by Aries_LuminaryThere was a week of silence from him. She went to his apartment and talked. The next day he proposed. Now he's ignoring her again.
When he proposed, was there a ring?
A ring means this was planned out before hand. Means he’s given this serious thought.
A 3 person relationship, Immediately moving into a marriage proposal sounds.... messy.
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Posted by HearttofTopazA to the F
Awkward

Posted by sakuraflowersBut..Posted by Aries_LuminaryThere was a week of silence from him. She went to his apartment and talked. The next day he proposed. Now he's ignoring her again.
When he proposed, was there a ring?
A ring means this was planned out before hand. Means he’s given this serious thought.
A 3 person relationship, Immediately moving into a marriage proposal sounds.... messy.
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Posted by xyinsaturnIs it a bye floppydisk situation?
If there is another person....
Unless you two were just dating then it's fair game BUT it sounds more than that considering his proposal. I don't give a crap if he proposed to me, that it seemed like he chose me. Naw. Once another person is in the picture when it was established that we're together, bye 💾
























Posted by halalbaeNo. I don't save links. Maybe someone else has it.Posted by GemitatiI want to read this, do you have a link to the thread?Posted by MyStarsShineWhat are you smiling Star? It's winter everywhere...isn't it? 👀Posted by sakuraflowersSpring coming soon 😃🐑🌺Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by sakuraflowersHey miss.....how are you? 😃Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LinoleumGirlWho is "that other girl" ?
So, after the whole me telling me how I felt about that other girl. He ignored me. For days. Barely used his social media. Which is strange for him.
I showed up to his apartment. We talked. The next day, he showed up at my place and he asked me to marry him. I said yes.
Now? He's ignoring me. He doesn't even read my texts now. Just leave me on delivered.
He hasn't deleted me or unfollowed me. Just, ignore.
What's his deal?
Hi Star 🙂
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/aries-new-obsession-is-messing-with-our-relationship-9364086/
Will have a read....thanks
Good, thanks. 🤓 Not loving winter one bit lol.
Yourself? 😊
I'm doing great thanks
⭐️
Ok! Now there is another girl in a same hotel room. But he is still marrying OP.
While ignoring her...
Is it most confusing thread after Indian guy loves his ex after 16 years of nothing?
Anyone? Word of wisdom. Please...click to expand

Posted by Aries_LuminaryHad OP ever appeared?
Let your intuition guide you. Speak without fear at all times. Respect yourself first. And good luck.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamI don't care if you believe me or not.
I call bs on the OP tbh.
She's acting like her namesake- getting walked all over.
But tbh, I don't believe her story. After all that bullshit her stupid ass said yes to an impromptu marriage proposal?
lolz. Who does that? On either side of the story? She's a goddamned troll.
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I showed up to his apartment. We talked. The next day, he showed up at my place and he asked me to marry him. I said yes.
Now? He's ignoring me. He doesn't even read my texts now. Just leave me on delivered.
He hasn't deleted me or unfollowed me. Just, ignore.
What's his deal?