Nofun101
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I lied to my Cancer man, help?
Start with not telling lies.
You are all over the place and talking out of both sides of your mouth.. justifying your actions and demonizing his, when both of you are doing the same damn thing.
I'd start by looking deeper into that.
I'd start by looking deeper into that.
Wow...wow wow wow wow. I'm a virgo, and let me tell you this:
your signs have nothing to do with your question and i got so annoyed at the sign thing that i didnt even wanna answer the rest, but i will anyway.
My answer to you is this:
1) You shouldn't talk sh*t about somebody behind their back, period. Dont do that again. Then you will solve 90% of your stupid problems
2) The reason he's "unpredictable" is because you are a pathological liar. I am a pretty dominant guy, and when a woman is honest with me, I am loving, cool, chill, and sweet. I only go "crazy", so to speak, when she LIES to me.
Get the connection?
Lying = he goes crazy
Telling the truth = he won't be crazy
It's not really rocket science, is it?
Thats true for like 90% of men
its also true for women, if you lie to a woman, she goes crazy oftentimes. Ive seen it happen. Oh believe me, I know some stories. My friend lied to his girl, she slashed his tires and f*cked his boss when she found out. another girl tried stabbing the guy. (that story i heard through a mutual acquaintance.) so believe me, girls can be crazy too.
DONT F*CKING LIE TO PEOPLE DAMN IT! THEN YOU WONT HAVE TO WORRY!
You SHOULD worry about him being crazy, IF you lie. IF you lie, he WILL go crazy, COUNT ON IT. But if you dont lie? You have nothing to worry about.
3) You say "I always lie and tell him he doesn't need to"- STOP LYING! DAMN!
Your horoscope/sign is not the problem. Your lying is!
4) Hes intimidating? Liars are often intimidated by all guys, because they are secretly insecure they will be caught in their lies and "punished". If you stop lying, you won't have reason to worry.
You also find him intimidating because you are a lying, spineless, cowardly, sneaky, gossiping, smack-talking, dishonest little sh*t, and he is a righteous, courageous, brave, up front and honest dude. That scares you, and it should. (But make no mistake- you're the problem, not him.)
Your pathological lying obsession, is the problem. You have an addiction to lying. You have a bad habit, and this bad habit of lying is negatively impacting multiple aspects of your life, probably not just your dating life. You need to seek psychological help, from a professional, to work on your lying and learn to fix it. That is the answer to literally all of your problems here.
Progressivism/liberalism is probably partly to blame here- the whole "truth is what you make of it", "morality is relative", "there is no such thing as real truth, truth is just an opinion", "bad is good", etc, is probably why you are so damn confused. You should stop being liberal, first of all. It's almost impossible to remain a democrat/liberal, and maintain honesty. Because they are so patently dishonest about everything.
your signs have nothing to do with your question and i got so annoyed at the sign thing that i didnt even wanna answer the rest, but i will anyway.
My answer to you is this:
1) You shouldn't talk sh*t about somebody behind their back, period. Dont do that again. Then you will solve 90% of your stupid problems
2) The reason he's "unpredictable" is because you are a pathological liar. I am a pretty dominant guy, and when a woman is honest with me, I am loving, cool, chill, and sweet. I only go "crazy", so to speak, when she LIES to me.
Get the connection?
Lying = he goes crazy
Telling the truth = he won't be crazy
It's not really rocket science, is it?
Thats true for like 90% of men
its also true for women, if you lie to a woman, she goes crazy oftentimes. Ive seen it happen. Oh believe me, I know some stories. My friend lied to his girl, she slashed his tires and f*cked his boss when she found out. another girl tried stabbing the guy. (that story i heard through a mutual acquaintance.) so believe me, girls can be crazy too.
DONT F*CKING LIE TO PEOPLE DAMN IT! THEN YOU WONT HAVE TO WORRY!
You SHOULD worry about him being crazy, IF you lie. IF you lie, he WILL go crazy, COUNT ON IT. But if you dont lie? You have nothing to worry about.
3) You say "I always lie and tell him he doesn't need to"- STOP LYING! DAMN!
Your horoscope/sign is not the problem. Your lying is!
4) Hes intimidating? Liars are often intimidated by all guys, because they are secretly insecure they will be caught in their lies and "punished". If you stop lying, you won't have reason to worry.
You also find him intimidating because you are a lying, spineless, cowardly, sneaky, gossiping, smack-talking, dishonest little sh*t, and he is a righteous, courageous, brave, up front and honest dude. That scares you, and it should. (But make no mistake- you're the problem, not him.)
Your pathological lying obsession, is the problem. You have an addiction to lying. You have a bad habit, and this bad habit of lying is negatively impacting multiple aspects of your life, probably not just your dating life. You need to seek psychological help, from a professional, to work on your lying and learn to fix it. That is the answer to literally all of your problems here.
Progressivism/liberalism is probably partly to blame here- the whole "truth is what you make of it", "morality is relative", "there is no such thing as real truth, truth is just an opinion", "bad is good", etc, is probably why you are so damn confused. You should stop being liberal, first of all. It's almost impossible to remain a democrat/liberal, and maintain honesty. Because they are so patently dishonest about everything.
Posted by Nofun101Address that character flaw in yourself before you consider having a relationship with another male (or anybody for that fact).
My boyfriend found out that I was talking garbadge about his little "quirks" to my friends and as a result he's clearly heartbroken and won't talk to me............ What do I do?
I'm super confused as to the actual issue.
At first it sounds like you want him and are apologetic for bad mouthing him to your friends.
You said you wish to be honest with him as if you also want to move forward.
Then you say you want to be rid of him and call him beta?
I don't think a cancer male is right for you. He sounds like he is hesitant and doesn't trust you. You can't read him because he is one step above you intuitively, he is good at not letting emotional disturbances show.
And also, this is a major red flag. You're basically saying you hate his character. Do you think he'll be less of the qualities you hate later on?
Just have a serious and respectful talk. Don't call him ridiculous names like you have here. I'm sure he has words for you too and chooses not to use them. And his reactions shouldn't really matter since you're over it anyway. Just be respectful and mature
At first it sounds like you want him and are apologetic for bad mouthing him to your friends.
You said you wish to be honest with him as if you also want to move forward.
Then you say you want to be rid of him and call him beta?
I don't think a cancer male is right for you. He sounds like he is hesitant and doesn't trust you. You can't read him because he is one step above you intuitively, he is good at not letting emotional disturbances show.
And also, this is a major red flag. You're basically saying you hate his character. Do you think he'll be less of the qualities you hate later on?
Just have a serious and respectful talk. Don't call him ridiculous names like you have here. I'm sure he has words for you too and chooses not to use them. And his reactions shouldn't really matter since you're over it anyway. Just be respectful and mature
You reap what you sow.
what do you need help with? you bashed him ? he's not talking to you ...instead of being an adult and telling him that your sorry for bashing him ...you come on this website and STILL.....continue to talk shit about him ...— I'm sorry I"m just lost as to what you need....you clearly don't care about his feelings ...maybe your concerned about how you come off to others .....
Why do you care to win his trust back if you are trying to get rid of him?
Your post is all over the place and confusing. Interesting you used the term beta yet you lie because of your intimidation of him. You sound a bit young.
Your post is all over the place and confusing. Interesting you used the term beta yet you lie because of your intimidation of him. You sound a bit young.
Posted by Nofun101cancers are the most sensitive sign. just always be upfront with him. He may be upset with what you have to say, but he will analyze it until he realizes you are not trying to hurt him.
Virgo woman here. My boyfriend found out that I was talking garbadge about his little "quirks" to my friends and as a result he's clearly heartbroken and won't talk to me. But now he's basically "staking" me through social media & talking crap and I'm sick it. All I know is that I lost his trust and I don't know how to get it back. I'm too afraid to be brutally honest with him because he's unpredictable. I can NEVER read him and it makes me severely uneasy. He says to "just say what you want me change about myself" but I always lie & tell him he does not need to. He's a sweetheart and is really helpful, but I just don't feel anything. His kindess just doesn't effect me, in fact, it is a bit annoying since I prefer to be independant. He hasn't physically abused me ever or yelled at me, but he is clingy. Sure we got into arguments about certain things like morality & polotics but it didn't really damage anything. He's just so intimidating and I'm not sure how to get rid of this pathetic "beta male." as most people call people like him. What do I do?
Lmao you are all a bunch of childish and immature bastards aren't you? How about you all grow up and learn to "live and let live". Make the most of your lives and stop bashing and judging other people for their way of thinking and life. I asked for help, not a lecture about morality. I can do what I want and will do what I want. Now are you going to give me useful advice on how to deal with this fool, or are you going to continue questioning my morality. I don't care if you think what I am doing is wrong or not, just get this over with then you won't have to see me again. God, what a bunch of butthurt beta's you all are. Get with the pace of society, or get out. Nobody cares about all that emotional shit anymore. Go to date a religious latino if you want compassion from families & loved ones. Seriously, i'm so done with you softees.
Posted by PalerioPfft. I'll do what I want. Don't act like you don't tell lies.
Start with not telling lies.
Posted by ImpulsvGrow a backbone sweetie. 😉
U leave him alone
U don't appriciate him n even here u are insulting him calling him beta male, annoying. He s not for you so just let him be
Posted by Arielle83Crying manbaby :3
Two faced idiot
Posted by SensitiveBluesDid you consider the fact that maybe I want to get rid of him in the quickest possible way? Without runing my reputation?Posted by Nofun101you obviously don't respect or even like him
Virgo woman here. My boyfriend found out that I was talking garbadge about his little "quirks" to my friends and as a result he's clearly heartbroken and won't talk to me. But now he's basically "staking" me through social media & talking crap and I'm sick it. All I know is that I lost his trust and I don't know how to get it back. I'm too afraid to be brutally honest with him because he's unpredictable. I can NEVER read him and it makes me severely uneasy. He says to "just say what you want me change about myself" but I always lie & tell him he does not need to. He's a sweetheart and is really helpful, but I just don't feel anything. His kindess just doesn't effect me, in fact, it is a bit annoying since I prefer to be independant. He hasn't physically abused me ever or yelled at me, but he is clingy. Sure we got into arguments about certain things like morality & polotics but it didn't really damage anything. He's just so intimidating and I'm not sure how to get rid of this pathetic "beta male." as most people call people like him. What do I do?
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I am not a fan of you telling a lie to him, but I am not a fan of his response to you either.
It seems like you both did some bad stuff here, but it's now a question of whether or not it's a relationship worth repairing and continuing.
He needs to stop cyber-stalking you after ignoring you.
If I were you, I would tell him that you need him to stop that shit right now if he wants to fix the relationship.
It seems like you both did some bad stuff here, but it's now a question of whether or not it's a relationship worth repairing and continuing.
He needs to stop cyber-stalking you after ignoring you.
If I were you, I would tell him that you need him to stop that shit right now if he wants to fix the relationship.
I wonder about all the head issues a woman suffers from when they want to be with a man they can't even stand to begin with? This is all very telling about the OP than her man.
Posted by Redoctober2000LMAO Says the one who likely stays on their phone all day every day. He's a Beta male. I can do what I want, whenever I want, when I want. He's pathetic and because he's a pussy he deserves little respect. Its kill or be killed in our society. You either grow some balls or don't even bother asking girls out, especially one's like me. This is why i'm more into girls. So many men thinking kindess is the way to our hearts. Only a non-indepdant woman would allow a man to have too much of a say, let alone let the whitewash get to her. Time to grow up and get real.
He doesn't have to change to please you. If you don't like him the way he is, you are not the woman for him... You are a lying nasty bitch. If he has not dumped your ass already, I sincerely hope he does and SOON. He could do much better than you... You lowlife!!
Everyone here is already bashing you enough that I won't continue in that vein.
But let me ask you this...If your lover called you a fool, a beta, an unattractive crybaby, how much longer would you want to continue on with him?
I believe that relationships don't need to be this hard. Your not compatible with him. You find his core personality unattractive. It's like trying to shove the wrong key into the lock. It just doesn't work...
But let me ask you this...If your lover called you a fool, a beta, an unattractive crybaby, how much longer would you want to continue on with him?
I believe that relationships don't need to be this hard. Your not compatible with him. You find his core personality unattractive. It's like trying to shove the wrong key into the lock. It just doesn't work...
Posted by NevermoreSup. 🙂
Now wheres OP.
Posted by Nofun101Break up with him and start dating chicks then. True independence is embracing self. Get out of the closet and breath the fresh air with the rest of us.
This is why i'm more into girls.
Stop discussing about your boyfriend with your friends! Atleast don't insult him
Thats rude! If my guy will discuss about me with his friends, i'll stop talking to him...And if i continue talking to him, i will never trust him again...Crabs may forgive but they never forget!
You have problems with him, tell him...in a kind way because we are sensitive peeps...we can be hurt if somebody close to us is harsh to us...If you think you can handle all this, go ahead
Thats rude! If my guy will discuss about me with his friends, i'll stop talking to him...And if i continue talking to him, i will never trust him again...Crabs may forgive but they never forget!
You have problems with him, tell him...in a kind way because we are sensitive peeps...we can be hurt if somebody close to us is harsh to us...If you think you can handle all this, go ahead
Posted by LadyNeptuneYou make it sound like it's the Boyfriend's fault. This lier, ((who I also assume is one those stereo-typical "basic-white LGBT+ Feminazi fangirls" who gets off to male youtubers but only relates to females enough to date them.)) manipulated this poor man, and you're embracing that? It shouldn't matter if she cares little about morals, we shouldn't emcourage the bad habits either.Posted by Nofun101Break up with him and start dating chicks then. True independence is embracing self. Get out of the closet and breath the fresh air with the rest of us.
This is why i'm more into girls.click to expand
Posted by NevermorePosted by Nofun101There you are! Now you're showing that side, its no wonder that Cancer wants you.
Lmao you are all a bunch of childish and immature bastards aren't you? How about you all grow up and learn to "live and let live". Make the most of your lives and stop bashing and judging other people for their way of thinking and life. I asked for help, not a lecture about morality. I can do what I want and will do what I want. Now are you going to give me useful advice on how to deal with this fool, or are you going to continue questioning my morality. I don't care if you think what I am doing is wrong or not, just get this over with then you won't have to see me again. God, what a bunch of butthurt beta's you all are. Get with the pace of society, or get out. Nobody cares about all that emotional shit anymore. Go to date a religious latino if you want compassion from families & loved ones. Seriously, i'm so done with you softees.
But it seems you don't come here by that though.. You're already prepared to insulted others after you just created your account today.
Another troll that has come to insult. Bye felicia~click to expand
OP is probably just butthurt and looking for justification for what she's done.
Posted by AveryconfusedwolfDude your delusional. I'm encouraging her to be honest with herself. I never mentioned anything that would assign blame to her boyfriend.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou make it sound like it's the Boyfriend's fault. This lier, ((who I also assume is one those stereo-typical "basic-white LGBT+ Feminazi fangirls" who gets off to male youtubers but only relates to females enough to date them.)) manipulated this poor man, and you're embracing that? It shouldn't matter if she cares little about morals, we shouldn't emcourage the bad habits either.Posted by Nofun101Break up with him and start dating chicks then. True independence is embracing self. Get out of the closet and breath the fresh air with the rest of us.
This is why i'm more into girls.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneAaand there goes my respect for you.Posted by AveryconfusedwolfDude your delusional. I'm encouraging her to be honest with herself. I never mentioned anything that would assign blame to her boyfriend.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou make it sound like it's the Boyfriend's fault. This lier, ((who I also assume is one those stereo-typical "basic-white LGBT+ Feminazi fangirls" who gets off to male youtubers but only relates to females enough to date them.)) manipulated this poor man, and you're embracing that? It shouldn't matter if she cares little about morals, we shouldn't emcourage the bad habits either.Posted by Nofun101Break up with him and start dating chicks then. True independence is embracing self. Get out of the closet and breath the fresh air with the rest of us.
This is why i'm more into girls.
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Posted by Nofun101Are you here wanting help or just to troll? Because it seems to me that is all you're here for. You come to tell us your sob story how you can't handle telling the truth wanting us to "Help" you in your situation. Only one here that needs to grow up is you. Stop telling lies and guys will find you more attractive. Cunt.Posted by Redoctober2000LMAO Says the one who likely stays on their phone all day every day. He's a Beta male. I can do what I want, whenever I want, when I want. He's pathetic and because he's a pussy he deserves little respect. Its kill or be killed in our society. You either grow some balls or don't even bother asking girls out, especially one's like me. This is why i'm more into girls. So many men thinking kindess is the way to our hearts. Only a non-indepdant woman would allow a man to have too much of a say, let alone let the whitewash get to her. Time to grow up and get real.
He doesn't have to change to please you. If you don't like him the way he is, you are not the woman for him... You are a lying nasty bitch. If he has not dumped your ass already, I sincerely hope he does and SOON. He could do much better than you... You lowlife!!click to expand
Posted by NevermorePosted by Averyconfusedwolfessential_terrifle? (sorry, very wary of that name) is that you?Posted by LadyNeptuneAaand there goes my respect for you.Posted by AveryconfusedwolfDude your delusional. I'm encouraging her to be honest with herself. I never mentioned anything that would assign blame to her boyfriend.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou make it sound like it's the Boyfriend's fault. This lier, ((who I also assume is one those stereo-typical "basic-white LGBT+ Feminazi fangirls" who gets off to male youtubers but only relates to females enough to date them.)) manipulated this poor man, and you're embracing that? It shouldn't matter if she cares little about morals, we shouldn't emcourage the bad habits either.Posted by Nofun101Break up with him and start dating chicks then. True independence is embracing self. Get out of the closet and breath the fresh air with the rest of us.
This is why i'm more into girls.
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I'm sorry?
Posted by AveryconfusedwolfI'm heartbroken as my whole purpose here was to gain your respect.Posted by LadyNeptuneAaand there goes my respect for you.Posted by AveryconfusedwolfDude your delusional. I'm encouraging her to be honest with herself. I never mentioned anything that would assign blame to her boyfriend.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou make it sound like it's the Boyfriend's fault. This lier, ((who I also assume is one those stereo-typical "basic-white LGBT+ Feminazi fangirls" who gets off to male youtubers but only relates to females enough to date them.)) manipulated this poor man, and you're embracing that? It shouldn't matter if she cares little about morals, we shouldn't emcourage the bad habits either.Posted by Nofun101Break up with him and start dating chicks then. True independence is embracing self. Get out of the closet and breath the fresh air with the rest of us.
This is why i'm more into girls.
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Who are you?
Posted by Nofun101You're getting what you deserve for the way you treated that guy. If you wanted to leave him, you could of been up front with him and say "Hey dude I wanna break up." and he wouldn't be asshole towards you right now. But what you did just proves you are a Bitch in a hollow shell of skin filled with rotting meat. You're getting the consequences for your actions like everybody else. I hope he torments you the way you did to him.
Lmao you are all a bunch of childish and immature bastards aren't you? How about you all grow up and learn to "live and let live". Make the most of your lives and stop bashing and judging other people for their way of thinking and life. I asked for help, not a lecture about morality. I can do what I want and will do what I want. Now are you going to give me useful advice on how to deal with this fool, or are you going to continue questioning my morality. I don't care if you think what I am doing is wrong or not, just get this over with then you won't have to see me again. God, what a bunch of butthurt beta's you all are. Get with the pace of society, or get out. Nobody cares about all that emotional shit anymore. Go to date a religious latino if you want compassion from families & loved ones. Seriously, i'm so done with you softees.
This thread is too funny!
OP i am telling you how to deal with this "fool"
Leave him alone
He is too sweet to handle a butterhead like you!
OP i am telling you how to deal with this "fool"
Leave him alone
He is too sweet to handle a butterhead like you!
Posted by AquistormShe doesn't need help...she's trolling! And we were giving her serious advice...lolPosted by Nofun101Are you here wanting help or just to troll? Because it seems to me that is all you're here for. You come to tell us your sob story how you can't handle telling the truth wanting us to "Help" you in your situation. Only one here that needs to grow up is you. Stop telling lies and guys will find you more attractive. Cunt.Posted by Redoctober2000LMAO Says the one who likely stays on their phone all day every day. He's a Beta male. I can do what I want, whenever I want, when I want. He's pathetic and because he's a pussy he deserves little respect. Its kill or be killed in our society. You either grow some balls or don't even bother asking girls out, especially one's like me. This is why i'm more into girls. So many men thinking kindess is the way to our hearts. Only a non-indepdant woman would allow a man to have too much of a say, let alone let the whitewash get to her. Time to grow up and get real.
He doesn't have to change to please you. If you don't like him the way he is, you are not the woman for him... You are a lying nasty bitch. If he has not dumped your ass already, I sincerely hope he does and SOON. He could do much better than you... You lowlife!!click to expand
OP are you an animal or something?
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