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For a venus sign who is unemotional they are very emotional.. prideful, picky...

They are the type to put their hands up after one date and say "friends only!!" then they go home and swoon and fantasize about being yours forever in secret, they fall fast but like to keep their feelings guarded.

Good people inside, just confusing to me in romantic.

My kid and my mom have that

2 of my friends

and a guy I used to talk to
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I didn't get the unemotional thing until I realised it's because I hide it. So maybe we come across that way.

I've been told that I can come across as stand offish to men when they first meet me even though I'm friendly. I think that's because if I like someone I don't like to show it until I know the feelings mutual so I'm guarded.

If I love you then the barrier comes down and I will be there for you and show you that love in so many ways. I'm not a clingy woman either if there's 100% trust then I don't see the harm in each having independence.

I can be detached when I feel the person has lost interest or I'm being ignored then that barrier is straight up and I'll detach from that person but the feelings will still run deep inside I just won't show it.

I was with my husband for 15 years and I was the most loyal and faithful wife. So the whole best been single thing is bollocks.
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This is such a confusing venus sign.

it has to be really painful for water venuses....confusing for earth......annoying to fire....and air....well, we kinda like it but it's still a mindfuck sometimes.

Some days, we are just the best lovers in the world.

Some days, he is more clingy than I am....and I am a Scorpio...lol

Some days, we are just roommates

Some days, we are just best friends

It's like one giant gumball machine...I stick a quarter in every morning and some days I get the yellow one, some days the red...some days.......
That made me laugh.

Because I'm new to all this I've never really thought about it in great detail until the last month or so.

My Venus in Aquarius is still something I'm trying to get my head around.
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This is funny and accurate.

If I want my Venus in Aqua to get "feely" I just get him drunk and I honestly think it's a welcome release for him. He gets to use alcohol as an excuse to be emotionally expressive. It's adorable.

But after almost 2 years I can read him pretty well too. I'll purposely try to shock him or get a reaction. I'll bend over in front of him to show my stockings and play innocent and he won't have any noticeable reaction but I know he's going crazy underneath the poker face.

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If you're someone who wants or needs those reactions you're out of luck (uses to be me) if you can just do it and not care about the positive affirmations...youre good.



Haha this is hilarious.

I'm the same when I get drunk, it's like the barrier drops and I can't do anything about it. Plus I get verbal diarrhea and tell them what I'm really thinking emotionally.

My friends say I totally loosen up when I'm drunk.

My guy does that, we can be in a bar and he'll do something to try and shock me. I'm like a swan all gracious on the surface but underneath I'm going like the clappers. He knows what he's doing but I don't react haha.

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For a venus sign who is unemotional they are very emotional.. prideful, picky...

They are the type to put their hands up after one date and say "friends only!!" then they go home and swoon and fantasize about being yours forever in secret, they fall fast but like to keep their feelings guarded.

Good people inside, just confusing to me in romantic.

My kid and my mom have that

2 of my friends

and a guy I used to talk to
That's a fairly accurate statement.
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probing me with a million questions. But it all came across as if he was judging me or finding me not up to par.

weird thing in dating because I never ever get the feels before the men do. And I take my sweet ass time deciding if I like someone.


Omg is this how we come across when we ask a million questions lol

I'm the same with dating.



Now I understand why my ex said she felt like I judged her. Lol..

That's my way of like falling for you. You're on my mind.

People don't understand how obsessive we can get mentally over the person we truly care for...
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This is such a confusing venus sign.

it has to be really painful for water venuses....confusing for earth......annoying to fire....and air....well, we kinda like it but it's still a mindfuck sometimes.

Some days, we are just the best lovers in the world.

Some days, he is more clingy than I am....and I am a Scorpio...lol

Some days, we are just roommates

Some days, we are just best friends

It's like one giant gumball machine...I stick a quarter in every morning and some days I get the yellow one, some days the red...some days.......
Am I the only one that sees this as a positive? You know he loves you, right? Then the rest is just keeping it interesting. The Boy's Gem moon would probably have grown tired of me by now otherwise. 😆

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For a venus sign who is unemotional they are very emotional.. prideful, picky...

They are the type to put their hands up after one date and say "friends only!!" then they go home and swoon and fantasize about being yours forever in secret, they fall fast but like to keep their feelings guarded.

Good people inside, just confusing to me in romantic.

My kid and my mom have that

2 of my friends

and a guy I used to talk to
That's a fairly accurate statement.

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Okay yeah you know us.

I will literally not talk to you for days And think about you mentally and feel like we are okay.

The problem is with Venus signs like Scorpio, they require actual talking.. People in general. But I'm learning now; Get out of my head and actually recognize the actual person.
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probing me with a million questions. But it all came across as if he was judging me or finding me not up to par.

weird thing in dating because I never ever get the feels before the men do. And I take my sweet ass time deciding if I like someone.



Holy shit, I do the same thing. Why would asking questions come across a judgmental? If someone doesn't ask about you, I would think that would be more concerning, no?
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I have Moon in Virgo and Aquarius Venus, so I'm just a bucket of warmth. I'm not really sure which to blame for me coming off detached. I will say there is a tendency for me to mirror. If I'm with someone emo, I'm emo. If they're affectionate, I'm affectionate. If they're stoic, I'm stoic, which creates awkwardness, because no spark can develop. So it's like you kind of have to lead with the energy you want to create. Libra venus is great for us because the steady affection let's us relax. Sag venus are kindred spirits, but I've never met a male one who believes in fidelity. Virgo venus and Aqua venus is a match created by Satan.
Scorpio Venus and Aquarius Venus is a match made in hell.. lol. But idk. We piss Scorpio Venus people off unknowningly .. but never under estimate their ability to make us feel pain. Lol
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I have Moon in Virgo and Aquarius Venus, so I'm just a bucket of warmth. I'm not really sure which to blame for me coming off detached. I will say there is a tendency for me to mirror. If I'm with someone emo, I'm emo. If they're affectionate, I'm affectionate. If they're stoic, I'm stoic, which creates awkwardness, because no spark can develop. So it's like you kind of have to lead with the energy you want to create. Libra venus is great for us because the steady affection let's us relax. Sag venus are kindred spirits, but I've never met a male one who believes in fidelity. Virgo venus and Aqua venus is a match created by Satan.
Why would Virgo Venus and Aqua Venus be that bad? We might be the only sign capable of dealing with their alleged perfectionism and nit-pickiness?
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For a venus sign who is unemotional they are very emotional.. prideful, picky...

They are the type to put their hands up after one date and say "friends only!!" then they go home and swoon and fantasize about being yours forever in secret, they fall fast but like to keep their feelings guarded.

Good people inside, just confusing to me in romantic.

My kid and my mom have that

2 of my friends

and a guy I used to talk to


Oh my god.

ohmygod.

When me and the guy who is also Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Capricorn were dating - THREE MONTHS - on constant communication and we could NEVER decide between friends or lovers. We never even fooled around. We just kept changing the rules on each other five times a day. it was INFURIATING! He mustve blocked me five times. I was like WHY do you keep blocking me asshole? Then hed be all why do you keep breaking my heart? And i would be like what? When did emotions get involved in this?! but I was totally hoping it would work out and be amazeballs. NYOPE.

We stopped talking end of October I think .

But we have a date Feb. 3rd to catch up over drinks.

He totally instigated the reconnection by texting me: So how are the new meds working out?

*facepalm*

I hated that THATS how he reestablished connection. Yet it is TOTALLY what I wouldve done.
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So how are the new meds working out?

Literally spit out my tea to that one! Fucking brilliant
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For a venus sign who is unemotional they are very emotional.. prideful, picky...

They are the type to put their hands up after one date and say "friends only!!" then they go home and swoon and fantasize about being yours forever in secret, they fall fast but like to keep their feelings guarded.

Good people inside, just confusing to me in romantic.

My kid and my mom have that

2 of my friends

and a guy I used to talk to


Oh my god.

ohmygod.

When me and the guy who is also Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Capricorn were dating - THREE MONTHS - on constant communication and we could NEVER decide between friends or lovers. We never even fooled around. We just kept changing the rules on each other five times a day. it was INFURIATING! He mustve blocked me five times. I was like WHY do you keep blocking me asshole? Then hed be all why do you keep breaking my heart? And i would be like what? When did emotions get involved in this?! but I was totally hoping it would work out and be amazeballs. NYOPE.

We stopped talking end of October I think .

But we have a date Feb. 3rd to catch up over drinks.

He totally instigated the reconnection by texting me: So how are the new meds working out?

*facepalm*

I hated that THATS how he reestablished connection. Yet it is TOTALLY what I wouldve done.
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I like him ??

He seems like a true charmer.
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This is such a confusing venus sign.

it has to be really painful for water venuses....confusing for earth......annoying to fire....and air....well, we kinda like it but it's still a mindfuck sometimes.

Some days, we are just the best lovers in the world.

Some days, he is more clingy than I am....and I am a Scorpio...lol

Some days, we are just roommates

Some days, we are just best friends

It's like one giant gumball machine...I stick a quarter in every morning and some days I get the yellow one, some days the red...some days.......


This is funny and accurate.

If I want my Venus in Aqua to get "feely" I just get him drunk and I honestly think it's a welcome release for him. He gets to use alcohol as an excuse to be emotionally expressive. It's adorable.

But after almost 2 years I can read him pretty well too. I'll purposely try to shock him or get a reaction. I'll bend over in front of him to show my stockings and play innocent and he won't have any noticeable reaction but I know he's going crazy underneath the poker face.

?

If you're someone who wants or needs those reactions you're out of luck (uses to be me) if you can just do it and not care about the positive affirmations...youre good.

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Wow, that's what my husband does, tries to get me tipsy. One time he came home with a new product... a case of wine in pint sized bottles. And, he's just surprises me to get a reaction. I thought it was him. But, it may be his reaction to me.

Says alot that he's a Virgo. I guess I'm the bigger robot.
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I have three Aqua Venus / Pisces sun guy friends and two of them have given me hell... super complicated. Friends one day and then they give me cold shoulder not no good reason.?


If the cold shoulder isn't related to any grudges or similar.....then imo this is just the need for space manifesting itself.

Example: one day i could hang out with coworkers and it goes on until late at night, the next day i could just say good morning to the same group of people and not even stop to chat up apart from the customary "How you doing boys?".

The feeling of it would best be described as "temporarily fed-up" with the person. You still like/love though, it's just......"i've had enough of you for a bit, tnx,bye, have fun, cya later"



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Exactly. If I just saw you or saw a lot of you, I feel nothing is different from yesterday- and I want to give it a few days so we have new things to talk about next time we hang out. However, I accept that it can't work like that in romantic relationships- which means I just have to be more creative
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Why are there hardly any Aries with Venus in Aquarius?
Venus tends to stay close to the sun sign, so for an Aries that would be Pisces, Aries, and Taurus Venus. Aquarius and Gemini Venus are the most rare for an Aries.
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Yeah, Venus can't be more than two signs away either side of the Sun sign... and still a plethora of Sags.

I feel like the "worst" Venus in Aquas are Sags and Aries. It heightens the independent spirit... and hot/cold.

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Never had luck with my venus in Virgo. I've attracted a few of these recently and it just doesn't work hah
I also have Venus in Virgo and two of my exes (both long term relationships) had Aqua Venus. I can't keep away from those guys. Smdh I think the Libran influence in my chart (4 placements) is attracted to that aloof quality.

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Yeah I'm a libra dominant. Usually attract cap sun venus in Aqua

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Why are there hardly any Aries with Venus in Aquarius?
Venus tends to stay close to the sun sign, so for an Aries that would be Pisces, Aries, and Taurus Venus. Aquarius and Gemini Venus are the most rare for an Aries.
Yeah, Venus can't be more than sign can never be further than two signs away either side of the Sun sign... and still a plethora of Sags.

I feel like the "worst" Venus in Aquas are Sags and Aries. It heightens the independent spirit... and hot/cold.



Interesting. I never knew about this Aquarius Venus detached thing, but I keep hearing it. I thought it was just me. I worry about losing myself in a person, so I tend to want to be close, but not too close.

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I think it's mostly in comparison to the general thirst displayed by the general population. It also can come across flighty... but, by comparison mostly.
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I have three Aqua Venus / Pisces sun guy friends and two of them have given me hell... super complicated. Friends one day and then they give me cold shoulder not no good reason.?


If the cold shoulder isn't related to any grudges or similar.....then imo this is just the need for space manifesting itself.

Example: one day i could hang out with coworkers and it goes on until late at night, the next day i could just say good morning to the same group of people and not even stop to chat up apart from the customary "How you doing boys?".

The feeling of it would best be described as "temporarily fed-up" with the person. You still like/love though, it's just......"i've had enough of you for a bit, tnx,bye, have fun, cya later"



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YES

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Why are there hardly any Aries with Venus in Aquarius?
Venus tends to stay close to the sun sign, so for an Aries that would be Pisces, Aries, and Taurus Venus. Aquarius and Gemini Venus are the most rare for an Aries.
Yeah, Venus can't be more than sign can never be further than two signs away either side of the Sun sign... and still a plethora of Sags.

I feel like the "worst" Venus in Aquas are Sags and Aries. It heightens the independent spirit... and hot/cold.



Interesting. I never knew about this Aquarius Venus detached thing, but I keep hearing it. I thought it was just me. I worry about losing myself in a person, so I tend to want to be close, but not too close.


I think it's mostly in comparison to the general thirst displayed by the general population. It also can come across flighty... but, by comparison mostly.

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Is this where I jump in the conversation !? I'm an Aries with Aqua Venus. Idk if I being numb of love or what but I never really feel that deep connection to the opposite sex. I do love my family, especially my mom though I never said that I love her. I love people of how funny and foolish they are, but I prefer keeping the distance (cautiousness of Cancer Rising maybe?) I do agree with aquanib about the "temporarily fed-up" with people. I want everyday to be different, not the same shit that repeat itself over and over again. I want to experience all different type of feelings, things, activities,... because it make me feel alive and also because life is too short to not doing it, and because I might die tmr. To be honest, I would not imagine myself being married for the next 10-15 years.
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This is such a confusing venus sign.

it has to be really painful for water venuses....confusing for earth......annoying to fire....and air....well, we kinda like it but it's still a mindfuck sometimes.

Some days, we are just the best lovers in the world.

Some days, he is more clingy than I am....and I am a Scorpio...lol

Some days, we are just roommates

Some days, we are just best friends

It's like one giant gumball machine...I stick a quarter in every morning and some days I get the yellow one, some days the red...some days.......

I have difficulty understanding Libra venus. I wish there were more thread on Libra venus. You all come off kind of emotionally light, for lack of a better term. I feel like you can take or leave me, and I'm never sure if I'm being too much.

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My Virgo hubby is a Libra Venus. He holds me down. Venus in Libra in the 7th house. Venus conjunct Pluto in Libra both in the 7th... add to that Mars in Taurus... Venus dominant.

So, of course, house placement, aspects, etc. and synastry matter.

I have alot of trines to my Venus (air dominant) which makes me the stereotypical. So, I feel like Venus in Libra not only gets me but, likes me.



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Is it really that bad? Or are we just another astrological scapegoat?
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I dont think its bad at all. I have both venus and mars in Aqua . Contrary to what is said about venus in Aqua ...i can feel emotions in its greatest of depth . I am not detached nor aloof in a relationship .


Nice! What's your sun?

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Capricorn 🙂
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Now I understand why my ex said she felt like I judged her. Lol..

That's my way of like falling for you. You're on my mind.

People don't understand how obsessive we can get mentally over the person we truly care for...



Now I get why anyone I want to really get to know whether it be friendship or relationship think I'm judging them but like you said it's actually a compliment, it means we are interested in them not interrogating them.
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probing me with a million questions. But it all came across as if he was judging me or finding me not up to par.

weird thing in dating because I never ever get the feels before the men do. And I take my sweet ass time deciding if I like someone.



Holy shit, I do the same thing. Why would asking questions come across a judgmental? If someone doesn't ask about you, I would think that would be more concerning, no?
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Oh we are all learning so much about ourselves on here aren't we! exactly why think we are being judgemental?! I'm actually the least judgemental person around. I'm asking because I'm interested and I want to get to know you! maybe some people see it as interrogating?!

If people don't ask about me I assume they aren't really interested.
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I have Moon in Virgo and Aquarius Venus, so I'm just a bucket of warmth. I'm not really sure which to blame for me coming off detached. I will say there is a tendency for me to mirror. If I'm with someone emo, I'm emo. If they're affectionate, I'm affectionate. If they're stoic, I'm stoic, which creates awkwardness, because no spark can develop. So it's like you kind of have to lead with the energy you want to create. Libra venus is great for us because the steady affection let's us relax. Sag venus are kindred spirits, but I've never met a male one who believes in fidelity. Virgo venus and Aqua venus is a match created by Satan.
Scorpio Venus and Aquarius Venus is a match made in hell.. lol. But idk. We piss Scorpio Venus people off unknowningly .. but never under estimate their ability to make us feel pain. Lol
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I don't see that. My guy is a Scorpio Venus and I'm aqua Venus. I like his Scorpio Venus I'm not sure if that's because my Pisces sun?! He's sag moon and I'm libra moon which go well together. Hell I don't know I'm still trying to get my head around it all.
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I have Moon in Virgo and Aquarius Venus, so I'm just a bucket of warmth. I'm not really sure which to blame for me coming off detached. I will say there is a tendency for me to mirror. If I'm with someone emo, I'm emo. If they're affectionate, I'm affectionate. If they're stoic, I'm stoic, which creates awkwardness, because no spark can develop. So it's like you kind of have to lead with the energy you want to create. Libra venus is great for us because the steady affection let's us relax. Sag venus are kindred spirits, but I've never met a male one who believes in fidelity. Virgo venus and Aqua venus is a match created by Satan.
I have three Aqua Venus / Pisces sun guy friends and two of them have given me hell... super complicated. Friends one day and then they give me cold shoulder not no good reason.?

The third one is giving me hope though —?... total sweet heart and remained consistent. No silent treatments yet —

If it weren't for their unexplained moodiness, I'd say it's a brilliant combo. Talk and talk for hours and hours without end. It's a lovely flow... when it's good ?

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It's not the cold shoulder! We just like to recharge sometimes. It's not moodiness either. If we talk and talk for hours with you then you are valued. We just like space sometimes.
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I have Moon in Virgo and Aquarius Venus, so I'm just a bucket of warmth. I'm not really sure which to blame for me coming off detached. I will say there is a tendency for me to mirror. If I'm with someone emo, I'm emo. If they're affectionate, I'm affectionate. If they're stoic, I'm stoic, which creates awkwardness, because no spark can develop. So it's like you kind of have to lead with the energy you want to create. Libra venus is great for us because the steady affection let's us relax. Sag venus are kindred spirits, but I've never met a male one who believes in fidelity. Virgo venus and Aqua venus is a match created by Satan.
I have three Aqua Venus / Pisces sun guy friends and two of them have given me hell... super complicated. Friends one day and then they give me cold shoulder not no good reason.?

The third one is giving me hope though —?... total sweet heart and remained consistent. No silent treatments yet —

If it weren't for their unexplained moodiness, I'd say it's a brilliant combo. Talk and talk for hours and hours without end. It's a lovely flow... when it's good ?



Oh, I didn't realize this hot and cold thing is aqua venus. I do it cause I'm sensitive and self protective. I don't want to be too attached to anyone. That way if they leave my life, I won't crumble.

Someone mentioned blocking. Guilty.


Yes!! Lots of unnecessary blocking. It's quite funny to watch, because it's so obvious to me that it is a huge fear within them.

I have so many Aqua suns in my family... I know this energy VERY well. With the men, I always feel like punching them or hugging them, because they could be real jerks about their need for independence, but I also clearly see their fear to get too close. It looks like an inner-jail they could never really escape. The feeedom lovers seem to always create the opposite for themselves. They want closeness and fear it to death. So sad.

With women - I am much closer to them. But maybe women are naturally just more willing to closeness.

With Pisces suns... I feel duped! Because the Pisces energy desires the closeness and invites it - so I'm all over that! But then you get whiplashed by the cold and aloof Aqua energy that just came from left field.?...

I wish the Aqua energy would come out first so that I could prepare myself and just make sure I don't get too close ??. Keep it light and aloof. Treat them like my Aqua friends and all will be well in the world ?



Aww man. ?? I do want to be close, but people tend to unintentionally hurt my feelings a lot. Then I have to put my shield back up. I don't fear losing my freedom, I only fear losing myself. I tend to always hold a little something back with people, so I'm not completely devastated if things go south. Maybe that's what you're sensing with the Aqua aloofness. I'm all like I love this person, they're awesome. Then my aqua side goes best not to get too attached ya know, nothing lasts forever. Then I pull back a little.



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Oh yeah. I get the two heads stare too lol. You only really need his date and year of birth to get started. I usually find a way to obtain those two 😈


Yes I have them. That's how I know part of his chart.

He's sun cap, moon sag, Scorpio Venus, mercury Capricorn, mars Gemini and so on. I'm still teeing ti get my head round my chart yet alone his lol.





Sounds complicated. On a side note, how come quotes don't work for us.
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From what I've gathered so far cap and Pisces can work well, our moon signs work well together.

Is it because I'm chopping the convo down and just keeping the last bit? ??‍♀️
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I worry about things becoming stagnant. Gotta test my boundaries. 😆


Do any other Aqua in Venus fear the point in the relationship where couples just sit on the couch and watch TV together? As I am dating again I have found that I dont want to get anywhere near that stage of the relationship as I cant think of a hotter hell.
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Actually, I really like this stage. To me it means we have a good comfort level. Normally, I can't tolerate dead time with most romantic interest- either we are doing something or doing each other- doing nothing is a no no. However, it can't go on for more than a couple of days.
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Not sure, the quote feature isn't working for me either lol. I rarely attract Cap men. I know there is physical attraction, because they always offer to jump my bones, but nothing ever happens.



It worked last time for me but yours doesn't appear to have that time.

After I split from my husband a year on I gave internet dating a shot. So wish it'd found out their astrological details as I have no clue who I attract or who I get on with/don't get on with in terms of astrology.
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This is such a confusing venus sign.

it has to be really painful for water venuses....confusing for earth......annoying to fire....and air....well, we kinda like it but it's still a mindfuck sometimes.

Some days, we are just the best lovers in the world.

Some days, he is more clingy than I am....and I am a Scorpio...lol

Some days, we are just roommates

Some days, we are just best friends

It's like one giant gumball machine...I stick a quarter in every morning and some days I get the yellow one, some days the red...some days.......


This is funny and accurate.

If I want my Venus in Aqua to get "feely" I just get him drunk and I honestly think it's a welcome release for him. He gets to use alcohol as an excuse to be emotionally expressive. It's adorable.

But after almost 2 years I can read him pretty well too. I'll purposely try to shock him or get a reaction. I'll bend over in front of him to show my stockings and play innocent and he won't have any noticeable reaction but I know he's going crazy underneath the poker face.

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If you're someone who wants or needs those reactions you're out of luck (uses to be me) if you can just do it and not care about the positive affirmations...youre good.


Wow, that's what my husband does, tries to get me tipsy. One time he came home with a new product... a case of wine in pint sized bottles. And, he's just surprises me to get a reaction. I thought it was him. But, it may be his reaction to me.

Says alot that he's a Virgo. I guess I'm the bigger robot.

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*guilty*
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This is such a confusing venus sign.

it has to be really painful for water venuses....confusing for earth......annoying to fire....and air....well, we kinda like it but it's still a mindfuck sometimes.

Some days, we are just the best lovers in the world.

Some days, he is more clingy than I am....and I am a Scorpio...lol

Some days, we are just roommates

Some days, we are just best friends

It's like one giant gumball machine...I stick a quarter in every morning and some days I get the yellow one, some days the red...some days.......


this sounds like Gemini venus 😕
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I have Moon in Virgo and Aquarius Venus, so I'm just a bucket of warmth. I'm not really sure which to blame for me coming off detached. I will say there is a tendency for me to mirror. If I'm with someone emo, I'm emo. If they're affectionate, I'm affectionate. If they're stoic, I'm stoic, which creates awkwardness, because no spark can develop. So it's like you kind of have to lead with the energy you want to create. Libra venus is great for us because the steady affection let's us relax. Sag venus are kindred spirits, but I've never met a male one who believes in fidelity. Virgo venus and Aqua venus is a match created by Satan.
Scorpio Venus and Aquarius Venus is a match made in hell.. lol. But idk. We piss Scorpio Venus people off unknowningly .. but never under estimate their ability to make us feel pain. Lol
I don't see that. My guy is a Scorpio Venus and I'm aqua Venus. I like his Scorpio Venus I'm not sure if that's because my Pisces sun?! He's sag moon and I'm libra moon which go well together. Hell I don't know I'm still trying to get my head around it all.

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I like Scorpio Venus too.. things just went south but she's the one who has my heart.. or brain. So I guess that counts.
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