
daron76
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Posted by -elle-That made me laugh.
This is such a confusing venus sign.
it has to be really painful for water venuses....confusing for earth......annoying to fire....and air....well, we kinda like it but it's still a mindfuck sometimes.
Some days, we are just the best lovers in the world.
Some days, he is more clingy than I am....and I am a Scorpio...lol
Some days, we are just roommates
Some days, we are just best friends
It's like one giant gumball machine...I stick a quarter in every morning and some days I get the yellow one, some days the red...some days.......





Posted by daron76Yes it's that bad they're just trying to spare your feelings.
Is it really that bad? Or are we just another astrological scapegoat?
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Posted by HarleyTwinFlameThat's a fairly accurate statement.
For a venus sign who is unemotional they are very emotional.. prideful, picky...
They are the type to put their hands up after one date and say "friends only!!" then they go home and swoon and fantasize about being yours forever in secret, they fall fast but like to keep their feelings guarded.
Good people inside, just confusing to me in romantic.
My kid and my mom have that
2 of my friends
and a guy I used to talk to
Posted by WonderWoman14Omg is this how we come across when we ask a million questions lol
probing me with a million questions. But it all came across as if he was judging me or finding me not up to par.
weird thing in dating because I never ever get the feels before the men do. And I take my sweet ass time deciding if I like someone.

Posted by cheekyfaerieDittoPosted by -elle-Am I the only one that sees this as a positive? You know he loves you, right? Then the rest is just keeping it interesting. The Boy's Gem moon would probably have grown tired of me by now otherwise. 😆
This is such a confusing venus sign.
it has to be really painful for water venuses....confusing for earth......annoying to fire....and air....well, we kinda like it but it's still a mindfuck sometimes.
Some days, we are just the best lovers in the world.
Some days, he is more clingy than I am....and I am a Scorpio...lol
Some days, we are just roommates
Some days, we are just best friends
It's like one giant gumball machine...I stick a quarter in every morning and some days I get the yellow one, some days the red...some days.......
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Posted by daron76Posted by HarleyTwinFlameThat's a fairly accurate statement.
For a venus sign who is unemotional they are very emotional.. prideful, picky...
They are the type to put their hands up after one date and say "friends only!!" then they go home and swoon and fantasize about being yours forever in secret, they fall fast but like to keep their feelings guarded.
Good people inside, just confusing to me in romantic.
My kid and my mom have that
2 of my friends
and a guy I used to talk to
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Posted by WonderWoman14
probing me with a million questions. But it all came across as if he was judging me or finding me not up to par.
weird thing in dating because I never ever get the feels before the men do. And I take my sweet ass time deciding if I like someone.
Holy shit, I do the same thing. Why would asking questions come across a judgmental? If someone doesn't ask about you, I would think that would be more concerning, no?
Posted by PVandJellyScorpio Venus and Aquarius Venus is a match made in hell.. lol. But idk. We piss Scorpio Venus people off unknowningly .. but never under estimate their ability to make us feel pain. Lol
I have Moon in Virgo and Aquarius Venus, so I'm just a bucket of warmth. I'm not really sure which to blame for me coming off detached. I will say there is a tendency for me to mirror. If I'm with someone emo, I'm emo. If they're affectionate, I'm affectionate. If they're stoic, I'm stoic, which creates awkwardness, because no spark can develop. So it's like you kind of have to lead with the energy you want to create. Libra venus is great for us because the steady affection let's us relax. Sag venus are kindred spirits, but I've never met a male one who believes in fidelity. Virgo venus and Aqua venus is a match created by Satan.

Posted by PVandJellyWhy would Virgo Venus and Aqua Venus be that bad? We might be the only sign capable of dealing with their alleged perfectionism and nit-pickiness?
I have Moon in Virgo and Aquarius Venus, so I'm just a bucket of warmth. I'm not really sure which to blame for me coming off detached. I will say there is a tendency for me to mirror. If I'm with someone emo, I'm emo. If they're affectionate, I'm affectionate. If they're stoic, I'm stoic, which creates awkwardness, because no spark can develop. So it's like you kind of have to lead with the energy you want to create. Libra venus is great for us because the steady affection let's us relax. Sag venus are kindred spirits, but I've never met a male one who believes in fidelity. Virgo venus and Aqua venus is a match created by Satan.

Posted by pisces4scorpioSo how are the new meds working out?Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
For a venus sign who is unemotional they are very emotional.. prideful, picky...
They are the type to put their hands up after one date and say "friends only!!" then they go home and swoon and fantasize about being yours forever in secret, they fall fast but like to keep their feelings guarded.
Good people inside, just confusing to me in romantic.
My kid and my mom have that
2 of my friends
and a guy I used to talk to
Oh my god.
ohmygod.
When me and the guy who is also Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Capricorn were dating - THREE MONTHS - on constant communication and we could NEVER decide between friends or lovers. We never even fooled around. We just kept changing the rules on each other five times a day. it was INFURIATING! He mustve blocked me five times. I was like WHY do you keep blocking me asshole? Then hed be all why do you keep breaking my heart? And i would be like what? When did emotions get involved in this?! but I was totally hoping it would work out and be amazeballs. NYOPE.
We stopped talking end of October I think .
But we have a date Feb. 3rd to catch up over drinks.
He totally instigated the reconnection by texting me: So how are the new meds working out?
*facepalm*
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Posted by pisces4scorpioI like him ??Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
For a venus sign who is unemotional they are very emotional.. prideful, picky...
They are the type to put their hands up after one date and say "friends only!!" then they go home and swoon and fantasize about being yours forever in secret, they fall fast but like to keep their feelings guarded.
Good people inside, just confusing to me in romantic.
My kid and my mom have that
2 of my friends
and a guy I used to talk to
Oh my god.
ohmygod.
When me and the guy who is also Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Capricorn were dating - THREE MONTHS - on constant communication and we could NEVER decide between friends or lovers. We never even fooled around. We just kept changing the rules on each other five times a day. it was INFURIATING! He mustve blocked me five times. I was like WHY do you keep blocking me asshole? Then hed be all why do you keep breaking my heart? And i would be like what? When did emotions get involved in this?! but I was totally hoping it would work out and be amazeballs. NYOPE.
We stopped talking end of October I think .
But we have a date Feb. 3rd to catch up over drinks.
He totally instigated the reconnection by texting me: So how are the new meds working out?
*facepalm*
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Posted by AreyoumytwinflameWow, that's what my husband does, tries to get me tipsy. One time he came home with a new product... a case of wine in pint sized bottles. And, he's just surprises me to get a reaction. I thought it was him. But, it may be his reaction to me.Posted by -elle-
This is such a confusing venus sign.
it has to be really painful for water venuses....confusing for earth......annoying to fire....and air....well, we kinda like it but it's still a mindfuck sometimes.
Some days, we are just the best lovers in the world.
Some days, he is more clingy than I am....and I am a Scorpio...lol
Some days, we are just roommates
Some days, we are just best friends
It's like one giant gumball machine...I stick a quarter in every morning and some days I get the yellow one, some days the red...some days.......
This is funny and accurate.
If I want my Venus in Aqua to get "feely" I just get him drunk and I honestly think it's a welcome release for him. He gets to use alcohol as an excuse to be emotionally expressive. It's adorable.
But after almost 2 years I can read him pretty well too. I'll purposely try to shock him or get a reaction. I'll bend over in front of him to show my stockings and play innocent and he won't have any noticeable reaction but I know he's going crazy underneath the poker face.
?
If you're someone who wants or needs those reactions you're out of luck (uses to be me) if you can just do it and not care about the positive affirmations...youre good.
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Posted by aquanibExactly. If I just saw you or saw a lot of you, I feel nothing is different from yesterday- and I want to give it a few days so we have new things to talk about next time we hang out. However, I accept that it can't work like that in romantic relationships- which means I just have to be more creativePosted by Infinite8If the cold shoulder isn't related to any grudges or similar.....then imo this is just the need for space manifesting itself.
I have three Aqua Venus / Pisces sun guy friends and two of them have given me hell... super complicated. Friends one day and then they give me cold shoulder not no good reason.?
Example: one day i could hang out with coworkers and it goes on until late at night, the next day i could just say good morning to the same group of people and not even stop to chat up apart from the customary "How you doing boys?".
The feeling of it would best be described as "temporarily fed-up" with the person. You still like/love though, it's just......"i've had enough of you for a bit, tnx,bye, have fun, cya later"
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Posted by PVandJellyYeah, Venus can't be more than two signs away either side of the Sun sign... and still a plethora of Sags.Posted by VenusAquariusVenus tends to stay close to the sun sign, so for an Aries that would be Pisces, Aries, and Taurus Venus. Aquarius and Gemini Venus are the most rare for an Aries.
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Posted by ScorpioTruthYeah I'm a libra dominant. Usually attract cap sun venus in AquaPosted by libralotusI also have Venus in Virgo and two of my exes (both long term relationships) had Aqua Venus. I can't keep away from those guys. Smdh I think the Libran influence in my chart (4 placements) is attracted to that aloof quality.
Never had luck with my venus in Virgo. I've attracted a few of these recently and it just doesn't work hah
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Posted by PVandJellyI think it's mostly in comparison to the general thirst displayed by the general population. It also can come across flighty... but, by comparison mostly.Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by PVandJellyYeah, Venus can't be more than sign can never be further than two signs away either side of the Sun sign... and still a plethora of Sags.Posted by VenusAquariusVenus tends to stay close to the sun sign, so for an Aries that would be Pisces, Aries, and Taurus Venus. Aquarius and Gemini Venus are the most rare for an Aries.
Why are there hardly any Aries with Venus in Aquarius?
I feel like the "worst" Venus in Aquas are Sags and Aries. It heightens the independent spirit... and hot/cold.
Interesting. I never knew about this Aquarius Venus detached thing, but I keep hearing it. I thought it was just me. I worry about losing myself in a person, so I tend to want to be close, but not too close.
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Posted by aquanibYESPosted by Infinite8If the cold shoulder isn't related to any grudges or similar.....then imo this is just the need for space manifesting itself.
I have three Aqua Venus / Pisces sun guy friends and two of them have given me hell... super complicated. Friends one day and then they give me cold shoulder not no good reason.?
Example: one day i could hang out with coworkers and it goes on until late at night, the next day i could just say good morning to the same group of people and not even stop to chat up apart from the customary "How you doing boys?".
The feeling of it would best be described as "temporarily fed-up" with the person. You still like/love though, it's just......"i've had enough of you for a bit, tnx,bye, have fun, cya later"
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Posted by VenusAquariusIs this where I jump in the conversation !? I'm an Aries with Aqua Venus. Idk if I being numb of love or what but I never really feel that deep connection to the opposite sex. I do love my family, especially my mom though I never said that I love her. I love people of how funny and foolish they are, but I prefer keeping the distance (cautiousness of Cancer Rising maybe?) I do agree with aquanib about the "temporarily fed-up" with people. I want everyday to be different, not the same shit that repeat itself over and over again. I want to experience all different type of feelings, things, activities,... because it make me feel alive and also because life is too short to not doing it, and because I might die tmr. To be honest, I would not imagine myself being married for the next 10-15 years.Posted by PVandJellyI think it's mostly in comparison to the general thirst displayed by the general population. It also can come across flighty... but, by comparison mostly.Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by PVandJellyYeah, Venus can't be more than sign can never be further than two signs away either side of the Sun sign... and still a plethora of Sags.Posted by VenusAquariusVenus tends to stay close to the sun sign, so for an Aries that would be Pisces, Aries, and Taurus Venus. Aquarius and Gemini Venus are the most rare for an Aries.
Why are there hardly any Aries with Venus in Aquarius?
I feel like the "worst" Venus in Aquas are Sags and Aries. It heightens the independent spirit... and hot/cold.
Interesting. I never knew about this Aquarius Venus detached thing, but I keep hearing it. I thought it was just me. I worry about losing myself in a person, so I tend to want to be close, but not too close.
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Posted by PVandJellyMy Virgo hubby is a Libra Venus. He holds me down. Venus in Libra in the 7th house. Venus conjunct Pluto in Libra both in the 7th... add to that Mars in Taurus... Venus dominant.Posted by -elle-
This is such a confusing venus sign.
it has to be really painful for water venuses....confusing for earth......annoying to fire....and air....well, we kinda like it but it's still a mindfuck sometimes.
Some days, we are just the best lovers in the world.
Some days, he is more clingy than I am....and I am a Scorpio...lol
Some days, we are just roommates
Some days, we are just best friends
It's like one giant gumball machine...I stick a quarter in every morning and some days I get the yellow one, some days the red...some days.......
I have difficulty understanding Libra venus. I wish there were more thread on Libra venus. You all come off kind of emotionally light, for lack of a better term. I feel like you can take or leave me, and I'm never sure if I'm being too much.
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Posted by daron76I dont think its bad at all. I have both venus and mars in Aqua . Contrary to what is said about venus in Aqua ...i can feel emotions in its greatest of depth . I am not detached nor aloof in a relationship .
Is it really that bad? Or are we just another astrological scapegoat?
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Posted by libralotusI am married to venus in Virgo and i am venus in Aqua
Never had luck with my venus in Virgo. I've attracted a few of these recently and it just doesn't work hah

Posted by Infinite8Capricorn 🙂Posted by marshmallowNice! What's your sun?Posted by daron76I dont think its bad at all. I have both venus and mars in Aqua . Contrary to what is said about venus in Aqua ...i can feel emotions in its greatest of depth . I am not detached nor aloof in a relationship .
Is it really that bad? Or are we just another astrological scapegoat?
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Posted by daron76Posted by WonderWoman14Oh we are all learning so much about ourselves on here aren't we! exactly why think we are being judgemental?! I'm actually the least judgemental person around. I'm asking because I'm interested and I want to get to know you! maybe some people see it as interrogating?!
probing me with a million questions. But it all came across as if he was judging me or finding me not up to par.
weird thing in dating because I never ever get the feels before the men do. And I take my sweet ass time deciding if I like someone.
Holy shit, I do the same thing. Why would asking questions come across a judgmental? If someone doesn't ask about you, I would think that would be more concerning, no?click to expand
If people don't ask about me I assume they aren't really interested.


Posted by arose32I don't see that. My guy is a Scorpio Venus and I'm aqua Venus. I like his Scorpio Venus I'm not sure if that's because my Pisces sun?! He's sag moon and I'm libra moon which go well together. Hell I don't know I'm still trying to get my head around it all.Posted by PVandJellyScorpio Venus and Aquarius Venus is a match made in hell.. lol. But idk. We piss Scorpio Venus people off unknowningly .. but never under estimate their ability to make us feel pain. Lol
I have Moon in Virgo and Aquarius Venus, so I'm just a bucket of warmth. I'm not really sure which to blame for me coming off detached. I will say there is a tendency for me to mirror. If I'm with someone emo, I'm emo. If they're affectionate, I'm affectionate. If they're stoic, I'm stoic, which creates awkwardness, because no spark can develop. So it's like you kind of have to lead with the energy you want to create. Libra venus is great for us because the steady affection let's us relax. Sag venus are kindred spirits, but I've never met a male one who believes in fidelity. Virgo venus and Aqua venus is a match created by Satan.click to expand

Posted by Areyoumytwinflame??☺️
Oh one awesome thing about Aqua Venus...they are super experimental in the bedroom. I don't think they know the word no

Posted by Infinite8It's not the cold shoulder! We just like to recharge sometimes. It's not moodiness either. If we talk and talk for hours with you then you are valued. We just like space sometimes.Posted by PVandJellyI have three Aqua Venus / Pisces sun guy friends and two of them have given me hell... super complicated. Friends one day and then they give me cold shoulder not no good reason.?
I have Moon in Virgo and Aquarius Venus, so I'm just a bucket of warmth. I'm not really sure which to blame for me coming off detached. I will say there is a tendency for me to mirror. If I'm with someone emo, I'm emo. If they're affectionate, I'm affectionate. If they're stoic, I'm stoic, which creates awkwardness, because no spark can develop. So it's like you kind of have to lead with the energy you want to create. Libra venus is great for us because the steady affection let's us relax. Sag venus are kindred spirits, but I've never met a male one who believes in fidelity. Virgo venus and Aqua venus is a match created by Satan.
The third one is giving me hope though —?... total sweet heart and remained consistent. No silent treatments yet —
If it weren't for their unexplained moodiness, I'd say it's a brilliant combo. Talk and talk for hours and hours without end. It's a lovely flow... when it's good ?
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Posted by PVandJellyDittoPosted by Infinite8Posted by PVandJellyYes!! Lots of unnecessary blocking. It's quite funny to watch, because it's so obvious to me that it is a huge fear within them.Posted by Infinite8Posted by PVandJellyI have three Aqua Venus / Pisces sun guy friends and two of them have given me hell... super complicated. Friends one day and then they give me cold shoulder not no good reason.?
I have Moon in Virgo and Aquarius Venus, so I'm just a bucket of warmth. I'm not really sure which to blame for me coming off detached. I will say there is a tendency for me to mirror. If I'm with someone emo, I'm emo. If they're affectionate, I'm affectionate. If they're stoic, I'm stoic, which creates awkwardness, because no spark can develop. So it's like you kind of have to lead with the energy you want to create. Libra venus is great for us because the steady affection let's us relax. Sag venus are kindred spirits, but I've never met a male one who believes in fidelity. Virgo venus and Aqua venus is a match created by Satan.
The third one is giving me hope though —?... total sweet heart and remained consistent. No silent treatments yet —
If it weren't for their unexplained moodiness, I'd say it's a brilliant combo. Talk and talk for hours and hours without end. It's a lovely flow... when it's good ?
Oh, I didn't realize this hot and cold thing is aqua venus. I do it cause I'm sensitive and self protective. I don't want to be too attached to anyone. That way if they leave my life, I won't crumble.
Someone mentioned blocking. Guilty.
I have so many Aqua suns in my family... I know this energy VERY well. With the men, I always feel like punching them or hugging them, because they could be real jerks about their need for independence, but I also clearly see their fear to get too close. It looks like an inner-jail they could never really escape. The feeedom lovers seem to always create the opposite for themselves. They want closeness and fear it to death. So sad.
With women - I am much closer to them. But maybe women are naturally just more willing to closeness.
With Pisces suns... I feel duped! Because the Pisces energy desires the closeness and invites it - so I'm all over that! But then you get whiplashed by the cold and aloof Aqua energy that just came from left field.?...
I wish the Aqua energy would come out first so that I could prepare myself and just make sure I don't get too close ??. Keep it light and aloof. Treat them like my Aqua friends and all will be well in the world ?
Aww man. ?? I do want to be close, but people tend to unintentionally hurt my feelings a lot. Then I have to put my shield back up. I don't fear losing my freedom, I only fear losing myself. I tend to always hold a little something back with people, so I'm not completely devastated if things go south. Maybe that's what you're sensing with the Aqua aloofness. I'm all like I love this person, they're awesome. Then my aqua side goes best not to get too attached ya know, nothing lasts forever. Then I pull back a little.
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Posted by -elle-LMAO
it has to be really painful for water venuses....



Posted by PVandJellyYes I have them. That's how I know part of his chart.Posted by WonderWoman14Oh yeah. I get the two heads stare too lol. You only really need his date and year of birth to get started. I usually find a way to obtain those two 😈

Posted by pisces4scorpioActually, I really like this stage. To me it means we have a good comfort level. Normally, I can't tolerate dead time with most romantic interest- either we are doing something or doing each other- doing nothing is a no no. However, it can't go on for more than a couple of days.Do any other Aqua in Venus fear the point in the relationship where couples just sit on the couch and watch TV together? As I am dating again I have found that I dont want to get anywhere near that stage of the relationship as I cant think of a hotter hell.
I worry about things becoming stagnant. Gotta test my boundaries. 😆
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Posted by VenusAquarius*guilty*Posted by AreyoumytwinflameWow, that's what my husband does, tries to get me tipsy. One time he came home with a new product... a case of wine in pint sized bottles. And, he's just surprises me to get a reaction. I thought it was him. But, it may be his reaction to me.Posted by -elle-
This is such a confusing venus sign.
it has to be really painful for water venuses....confusing for earth......annoying to fire....and air....well, we kinda like it but it's still a mindfuck sometimes.
Some days, we are just the best lovers in the world.
Some days, he is more clingy than I am....and I am a Scorpio...lol
Some days, we are just roommates
Some days, we are just best friends
It's like one giant gumball machine...I stick a quarter in every morning and some days I get the yellow one, some days the red...some days.......
This is funny and accurate.
If I want my Venus in Aqua to get "feely" I just get him drunk and I honestly think it's a welcome release for him. He gets to use alcohol as an excuse to be emotionally expressive. It's adorable.
But after almost 2 years I can read him pretty well too. I'll purposely try to shock him or get a reaction. I'll bend over in front of him to show my stockings and play innocent and he won't have any noticeable reaction but I know he's going crazy underneath the poker face.
?
If you're someone who wants or needs those reactions you're out of luck (uses to be me) if you can just do it and not care about the positive affirmations...youre good.
Says alot that he's a Virgo. I guess I'm the bigger robot.
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Posted by -elle-
This is such a confusing venus sign.
it has to be really painful for water venuses....confusing for earth......annoying to fire....and air....well, we kinda like it but it's still a mindfuck sometimes.
Some days, we are just the best lovers in the world.
Some days, he is more clingy than I am....and I am a Scorpio...lol
Some days, we are just roommates
Some days, we are just best friends
It's like one giant gumball machine...I stick a quarter in every morning and some days I get the yellow one, some days the red...some days.......
Posted by WonderWoman14I like Scorpio Venus too.. things just went south but she's the one who has my heart.. or brain. So I guess that counts.Posted by arose32I don't see that. My guy is a Scorpio Venus and I'm aqua Venus. I like his Scorpio Venus I'm not sure if that's because my Pisces sun?! He's sag moon and I'm libra moon which go well together. Hell I don't know I'm still trying to get my head around it all.Posted by PVandJellyScorpio Venus and Aquarius Venus is a match made in hell.. lol. But idk. We piss Scorpio Venus people off unknowningly .. but never under estimate their ability to make us feel pain. Lol
I have Moon in Virgo and Aquarius Venus, so I'm just a bucket of warmth. I'm not really sure which to blame for me coming off detached. I will say there is a tendency for me to mirror. If I'm with someone emo, I'm emo. If they're affectionate, I'm affectionate. If they're stoic, I'm stoic, which creates awkwardness, because no spark can develop. So it's like you kind of have to lead with the energy you want to create. Libra venus is great for us because the steady affection let's us relax. Sag venus are kindred spirits, but I've never met a male one who believes in fidelity. Virgo venus and Aqua venus is a match created by Satan.
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