What are some ways to deal with a Cancer's mood swings?

I at times admit I just don't know how to deal with Cancers when they get their mood swings. I just normally stay away and just leave them be.

But what are some ways that someone can deal with a Cancer when they are going through their mood swings? I want to be as helpful and supportive as I can be.

Thank you 🙂

Imagine having cancer twin girls! They're an emotional roller coaster. I let them have their mood swing but once they push my Taurus buttons and I can't take it anymore I close myself out. Take it all away from them.

These mood swings are by far the worst! When I get in one of them, the only thing that calms me is for the other person to let me know they are their whenever I'm ready, because I get over them quickly if I just have some alone time. If someone becomes angry and "punishes" or abandons me for them, well it just gets worse. I'm sorry we dont be mean to be such a mood machine! 0🙂

Posted by thoughtful-libra94
I at times admit I just don't know how to deal with Cancers when they get their mood swings. I just normally stay away and just leave them be.

But what are some ways that someone can deal with a Cancer when they are going through their mood swings? I want to be as helpful and supportive as I can be.

Thank you 🙂

"I want to be as helpful and supportive as I can be."....THIS!

My sister is a libra and it took some years into adulthood but she finally found the trick, she's very in tune to when Im feeling anxious and moody, her support and kindness has been the best medicine for a mood swing! A libras sweetness has always done the trick, love you guys

What works for me is understanding--going through so many moods and mood swings is not as bad as it looks. Yes, we feel deeply, but I'm used to it. Just have faith that we will get through it. Us Cancers pick up in such things, and it means so much more than trying to actively help us. We listen to our intuition more than direct help. Or, at least, I do.

Oh, and give us space. My mom is a Libra, and the hardest thing to do for her is in action--she wants to help through her actions. But, it is her emotional state and faith in my strength that helps me more than any offer of help.

*inaction

The tides eventually calm down on their own, and best to stay ashore until they do. Trust me on this one.

Posted by Crabra
The tides eventually calm down on their own, and best to stay ashore until they do. Trust me on this one.

True, but don't let us Cancers push you around with our emotions.

Dump them

ignore them.. they do their thing , then they pout cause they being ignored, pout some more and then come back like everything is hunky dory.

*shrug*

Posted by Seraphlight
Yes we are so very emotional

But can I ask one thing

Little push please ??





Tee hee sorry I am just being silly 🙂

aww it's ok 🙂 it's cute 🙂

appreciate the responses 🙂

My former coworker turned friend, is a cancer. We talk often via text, she is such fun person. When we worked together I always experienced her in a consistent light. Once she went through a rough breakup and of course that took a toll on her but didn't notice much of mood swings. However, sometimes when we text about different topics, she confuses me on her position, one day she may be positive about it and the next, she is negative. I'm often confused about it at times after reading this post, I wonder if her constant change is mood related.

Just be there...if we say we want space that doesn't necessarily mean disappear...text or call to check to see if we're okay or need to talk. Be understanding that everything in the world effects our moods. Someone can give me the wrong sauce at McDonald's and I be in a mood the rest of the week. Most importantly don't try to fix it so we'll be in a better mood...just let it ride and we'll get over it.

Be sweet and make silence. Not make ''ugly faces'' or talk in a critical way, don't say they are in a ''bad mood'' because they will think you are just another insensible and superficial person, and in the ''right time'' they will say that to you.

Just listen to what they have to say. Hug them. Spend time with them. Don't react in a negative way. They'll get over it faster