Posted by andswhoWhat sign are you and would you?
Wattle fetish
Posted by andswhoHahhaha!!! Yes, well spotted. Oedipus complex could be actually responsible for men fixated on women in their 20-30ies. Bring on the older mothers 🙂!Posted by OrchideeTaurusPosted by andswhoWhat sign are you and would you?
Wattle fetish
Sure even better if she is in her 70s with a huge estate with no heirs
Oedipus complex is weird wouldn't your mom be in her 20s or 30s anyway when you are growing up
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Posted by MaxPowerNot talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Sure! My girl is two years older.
Posted by AjnaWould you say it has something to do with millenial men losing desire to procreate or simply not having one? Nowadays, when I speak to a younger man who is in his late 20s to late 30s, they all think children are a financial burden and or added responsiblility on their self-involved and carefree life style .
dont believe in (gov) marriage
but yes. definitely
Posted by MaxPowerIt's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.Posted by OrchideeI definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.Posted by MaxPowerNot talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Sure! My girl is two years older.
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Posted by CancerOnTheCuspIs that a welcome message?
Orchidee
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Posted by andswhololllll. You're such a security oriented Taurus.Posted by OrchideeTaurusPosted by andswhoWhat sign are you and would you?
Wattle fetish
Sure even better if she is in her 70s with a huge estate with no heirs
Oedipus complex is weird wouldn't your mom be in her 20s or 30s anyway when you are growing up
So you should be into that age group in theory rightclick to expand
Posted by MaxPowerLet me guess, single kid?Posted by OrchideeThat's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.Posted by MaxPowerIt's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.Posted by OrchideeI definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.Posted by MaxPowerNot talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Sure! My girl is two years older.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.click to expand
Posted by MaxPowerIs that her only child?Posted by OrchideeWho, what, why?Posted by MaxPowerLet me guess, single kid?Posted by OrchideeThat's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.Posted by MaxPowerIt's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.Posted by OrchideeI definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.Posted by MaxPowerNot talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Sure! My girl is two years older.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
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Posted by MaxPowerBeing a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.Posted by OrchideeThat's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.Posted by MaxPowerIt's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.Posted by OrchideeI definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.Posted by MaxPowerNot talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Sure! My girl is two years older.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.click to expand
Posted by MaxPowerOf course. The poor woman finally had a kid at 41, she's going to cherish every moment and joy that comes with motherhood. When I see a woman who's had her first child at 40, it's usually a single child and I see them as very devoted parent. Can it be otherwise? Sure, but it's not likely.Posted by OrchideeYes.Posted by MaxPowerIs that her only child?Posted by OrchideeWho, what, why?Posted by MaxPowerLet me guess, single kid?Posted by OrchideeThat's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.Posted by MaxPowerIt's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.Posted by OrchideeI definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.Posted by MaxPowerNot talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Sure! My girl is two years older.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
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Posted by MaxPowerSo you're a delusional aged man?Posted by OrchideeSpeak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...Posted by MaxPowerBeing a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.Posted by OrchideeThat's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.Posted by MaxPowerIt's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.Posted by OrchideeI definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.Posted by MaxPowerNot talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Sure! My girl is two years older.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
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Posted by MaxPowerYou can get all the botox you want, do all the exercise you can, but fact of life is that ageing withers a human being. We start to decay. Putting on tons of make up, getting cosmetic surgeries doesn't change the fact that we are withering. Leave it to the West to sell that delusion to people that just because you look good on the outside, you're just as new on the inside.Posted by OrchideeSpeak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...Posted by MaxPowerBeing a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.Posted by OrchideeThat's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.Posted by MaxPowerIt's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.Posted by OrchideeI definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.Posted by MaxPowerNot talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Sure! My girl is two years older.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
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Posted by MaxPowerLOL. That's cute. You don't need to prove anything to my stranger self. If you feel invigorated, that's fine. I'm not here to rain on your parade. I'm just stating a fact that one would be foolish to deny. Nothing trumps natural law.Posted by OrchideeThere's no delusion. LOL I just had my physical, in fact. My HDL is 60. My LDL is 50. My blood pressure was 110/70 and heart rate was 65. I'm happy. I sleep well. I'm only here because I'm on vacation and bored.Posted by MaxPowerSo you're a delusional aged man?Posted by OrchideeSpeak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...Posted by MaxPowerBeing a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.Posted by OrchideeThat's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.Posted by MaxPowerIt's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.Posted by OrchideeI definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.Posted by MaxPowerNot talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Sure! My girl is two years older.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
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Posted by CheVirgoYeah, but celebs don't count. Their marriages are usually short lived and a joke.
IDK females Like Mariah Carey, Angela Bassett etc have men almost 10 to 15 years younger.
Posted by MaxPowerPondering makes me sad? Okay, then.Posted by OrchideeYou sound like a sad sack. I'm sorry things aren't going well for you.Posted by MaxPowerLOL. That's cute. You don't need to prove anything to my stranger self. If you feel invigorated, that's fine. I'm not here to rain on your parade. I'm just stating a fact that one would be foolish to deny. Nothing trumps natural law.Posted by OrchideeThere's no delusion. LOL I just had my physical, in fact. My HDL is 60. My LDL is 50. My blood pressure was 110/70 and heart rate was 65. I'm happy. I sleep well. I'm only here because I'm on vacation and bored.Posted by MaxPowerSo you're a delusional aged man?Posted by OrchideeSpeak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...Posted by MaxPowerBeing a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.Posted by OrchideeThat's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.Posted by MaxPowerIt's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.Posted by OrchideeI definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.Posted by MaxPowerNot talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Sure! My girl is two years older.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
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Posted by MaxPowerIt's a phenomena that I'm observing lately and because it goes against natural law, I thought I explore it.Posted by OrchideeSo, why don't you tell us why you really started this thread. You clearly didn't want to know if other men would date older women.Posted by MaxPowerYou can get all the botox you want, do all the exercise you can, but fact of life is that ageing withers a human being. We start to decay. Putting on tons of make up, getting cosmetic surgeries doesn't change the fact that we are withering. Leave it to the West to sell that delusion to people that just because you look good on the outside, you're just as new on the inside.Posted by OrchideeSpeak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...Posted by MaxPowerBeing a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.Posted by OrchideeThat's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.Posted by MaxPowerIt's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.Posted by OrchideeI definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.Posted by MaxPowerNot talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Sure! My girl is two years older.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
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Posted by MaxPowerWouldn't it suck if you find out that I could be an older woman. LOL. All your life you hear men saying "the younger the better" blah blah blah and then to witness this, it's fascinating.Posted by OrchideeWhy did you start the thread? Did you want to shit on older women?Posted by MaxPowerPondering makes me sad? Okay, then.Posted by OrchideeYou sound like a sad sack. I'm sorry things aren't going well for you.Posted by MaxPowerLOL. That's cute. You don't need to prove anything to my stranger self. If you feel invigorated, that's fine. I'm not here to rain on your parade. I'm just stating a fact that one would be foolish to deny. Nothing trumps natural law.Posted by OrchideeThere's no delusion. LOL I just had my physical, in fact. My HDL is 60. My LDL is 50. My blood pressure was 110/70 and heart rate was 65. I'm happy. I sleep well. I'm only here because I'm on vacation and bored.Posted by MaxPowerSo you're a delusional aged man?Posted by OrchideeSpeak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...Posted by MaxPowerBeing a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.Posted by OrchideeThat's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.Posted by MaxPowerIt's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.Posted by OrchideeI definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.Posted by MaxPowerNot talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Sure! My girl is two years older.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
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Posted by MaxPowerThat's the guy! I was trying to remember this guy's name who is always going on about natural law. I wanted him to drop by and explain this too. I'd like his take on it too.Posted by Orchidee"natural law"Posted by MaxPowerIt's a phenomena that I'm observing lately and because it goes against natural law, I thought I explore it.Posted by OrchideeSo, why don't you tell us why you really started this thread. You clearly didn't want to know if other men would date older women.Posted by MaxPowerYou can get all the botox you want, do all the exercise you can, but fact of life is that ageing withers a human being. We start to decay. Putting on tons of make up, getting cosmetic surgeries doesn't change the fact that we are withering. Leave it to the West to sell that delusion to people that just because you look good on the outside, you're just as new on the inside.Posted by OrchideeSpeak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...Posted by MaxPowerBeing a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.Posted by OrchideeThat's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.Posted by MaxPowerIt's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.Posted by OrchideeI definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.Posted by MaxPowerNot talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Sure! My girl is two years older.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
LOL
Okay, I get it. We got another DJ. I'm moving along.click to expand
Posted by CheVirgoYeah, it goes against natural law. Since I'm seeing a high occurrence in the opposite, it got me curious as to why it's happening.Posted by OrchideeThat's true Yeah IDK if males usually marry older females. I have not seen it personally.Posted by CheVirgoYeah, but celebs don't count. Their marriages are usually short lived and a joke.
IDK females Like Mariah Carey, Angela Bassett etc have men almost 10 to 15 years younger.
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Posted by MaxPowerI don't care about this other stupid beliefs, but I do agree with some of the natural law things he talks about. You'd be a pure hater if you say that everything he says is wrong. He's not always typing out of his ass. Sometimes he's on point.Posted by OrchideeYes, the resident woman beater who masturbates to his posts bullying women.Posted by MaxPowerThat's the guy! I was trying to remember this guy's name who is always going on about natural law. I wanted him to drop by and explain this too. I'd like his take on it too.Posted by Orchidee"natural law"Posted by MaxPowerIt's a phenomena that I'm observing lately and because it goes against natural law, I thought I explore it.Posted by OrchideeSo, why don't you tell us why you really started this thread. You clearly didn't want to know if other men would date older women.Posted by MaxPowerYou can get all the botox you want, do all the exercise you can, but fact of life is that ageing withers a human being. We start to decay. Putting on tons of make up, getting cosmetic surgeries doesn't change the fact that we are withering. Leave it to the West to sell that delusion to people that just because you look good on the outside, you're just as new on the inside.Posted by OrchideeSpeak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...Posted by MaxPowerBeing a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.Posted by OrchideeThat's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.Posted by MaxPowerIt's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.Posted by OrchideeI definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.Posted by MaxPowerNot talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Sure! My girl is two years older.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
LOL
Okay, I get it. We got another DJ. I'm moving along.
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Posted by CheVirgoIt wouldn't be against natural law if you're going for a woman in her child bearing years, but it's off if she's barren and you're looking to have a kid.Posted by OrchideeYeah I have not done it but also never thought about it. I don't know if it's against natural law.Posted by CheVirgoYeah, it goes against natural law. Since I'm seeing a high occurrence in the opposite, it got me curious as to why it's happening.Posted by OrchideeThat's true Yeah IDK if males usually marry older females. I have not seen it personally.Posted by CheVirgoYeah, but celebs don't count. Their marriages are usually short lived and a joke.
IDK females Like Mariah Carey, Angela Bassett etc have men almost 10 to 15 years younger.
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Posted by CheVirgoBut that's part of natural law because younger woman is looking for financial stability plus women mature faster than men sexually and mentally.
Is it against natural law for an younger woman to marry an older male? I don't know it all depends on the individual.
Posted by MaxPowerI don't know about everything he says and nor do I pay attention to his bullshit posts, but the posts I have read of his, he was rational and logical about the matter (biology of it all).Posted by OrchideeMaybe when he isn't talking about gender. Everything he says about men, women, sex, and love is based on the fact that he hates his mother and father. His mommy never loved him, his dad was abusive, and as soon as he outgrew his dad, he started abusing him and calling him a "shortcel."Posted by MaxPowerI don't care about this other stupid beliefs, but I do agree with some of the natural law things he talks about. You'd be a pure hater if you say that everything he says is wrong. He's not always typing out of his ass. Sometimes he's on point.Posted by OrchideeYes, the resident woman beater who masturbates to his posts bullying women.Posted by MaxPowerThat's the guy! I was trying to remember this guy's name who is always going on about natural law. I wanted him to drop by and explain this too. I'd like his take on it too.Posted by Orchidee"natural law"Posted by MaxPowerIt's a phenomena that I'm observing lately and because it goes against natural law, I thought I explore it.Posted by OrchideeSo, why don't you tell us why you really started this thread. You clearly didn't want to know if other men would date older women.Posted by MaxPowerYou can get all the botox you want, do all the exercise you can, but fact of life is that ageing withers a human being. We start to decay. Putting on tons of make up, getting cosmetic surgeries doesn't change the fact that we are withering. Leave it to the West to sell that delusion to people that just because you look good on the outside, you're just as new on the inside.Posted by OrchideeSpeak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...Posted by MaxPowerBeing a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.Posted by OrchideeThat's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.Posted by MaxPowerIt's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.Posted by OrchideeI definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.Posted by MaxPowerNot talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Sure! My girl is two years older.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
LOL
Okay, I get it. We got another DJ. I'm moving along.
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Posted by CheVirgoFor the most part, yes. Men, when younger, aren't that mature and their priorities are very different from a woman's. Men aren't looking to be tied down at a younger age. How many guys do you know in their 20s and early 30s (modern day of course) who want to get married and have kids?Posted by OrchideeI'm sorry I lied/spoke too soon, I know one friend when I was in the military he was in his late 20's and married an woman in her late 30s to 40s. They are still together and have a child. I alway thought woman don't do younger men because they felt the younger the less mature he is.Posted by CheVirgoIt wouldn't be against natural law if you're going for a woman in her child bearing years, but it's off if she's barren and you're looking to have a kid.Posted by OrchideeYeah I have not done it but also never thought about it. I don't know if it's against natural law.Posted by CheVirgoYeah, it goes against natural law. Since I'm seeing a high occurrence in the opposite, it got me curious as to why it's happening.Posted by OrchideeThat's true Yeah IDK if males usually marry older females. I have not seen it personally.Posted by CheVirgoYeah, but celebs don't count. Their marriages are usually short lived and a joke.
IDK females Like Mariah Carey, Angela Bassett etc have men almost 10 to 15 years younger.
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Posted by CheVirgoYou should know that women subconciously look for financial stability for themselves and their offspring. It's their nature. A woman that is looking to support a man financially is just thirsty for love and desperate to be in a relationship.Posted by OrchideeThat sounds like the woman is not looking for love but a father figure or sugar daddy, someone to take care of her and pay her bills. I'm not disagreeing or agreeing lol I honesty don't know.Posted by CheVirgoBut that's part of natural law because younger woman is looking for financial stability plus women mature faster than men sexually and mentally.
Is it against natural law for an younger woman to marry an older male? I don't know it all depends on the individual.
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Posted by MaxPowerWhen people attack you for your beliefs, it's natural to attack back. That's what he does. He starts to type fast and that's where the grammar starts to slip in my opinion. I know if someone on the net is able to get a reaction from me, I start to type fast. Then, my spelling starts to get affected. LOL. I'm not his representative here to defend him and we should stop discussing him. I'm not that impressed by him. Just some of his views coincide with mine.Posted by OrchideeHe fakes rational and logical, just as he fakes being intelligent. As soon as someone gets him, which is pretty early on every time, he starts attacking women and losing his cool. He has to post faster, so his grammar gets worse and worse, showing that he is actually not educated at all. And then he disappears.Posted by MaxPowerI don't know about everything he says and nor do I pay attention to his bullshit posts, but the posts I have read of his, he was rational and logical about the matter (biology of it all).Posted by OrchideeMaybe when he isn't talking about gender. Everything he says about men, women, sex, and love is based on the fact that he hates his mother and father. His mommy never loved him, his dad was abusive, and as soon as he outgrew his dad, he started abusing him and calling him a "shortcel."Posted by MaxPowerI don't care about this other stupid beliefs, but I do agree with some of the natural law things he talks about. You'd be a pure hater if you say that everything he says is wrong. He's not always typing out of his ass. Sometimes he's on point.Posted by OrchideeYes, the resident woman beater who masturbates to his posts bullying women.Posted by MaxPowerThat's the guy! I was trying to remember this guy's name who is always going on about natural law. I wanted him to drop by and explain this too. I'd like his take on it too.Posted by Orchidee"natural law"Posted by MaxPowerIt's a phenomena that I'm observing lately and because it goes against natural law, I thought I explore it.Posted by OrchideeSo, why don't you tell us why you really started this thread. You clearly didn't want to know if other men would date older women.Posted by MaxPowerYou can get all the botox you want, do all the exercise you can, but fact of life is that ageing withers a human being. We start to decay. Putting on tons of make up, getting cosmetic surgeries doesn't change the fact that we are withering. Leave it to the West to sell that delusion to people that just because you look good on the outside, you're just as new on the inside.Posted by OrchideeSpeak for yourself, old man or old woman, whichever you are. I am in the best shape of my life. Healthier than I have ever been. Well, I'm getting some pudge on my stomach now because the Taurus is, indeed, a great cook, but other than that...Posted by MaxPowerBeing a bad parent has nothing to do with age. YOu can have kids at a young age or old age and be a good mom, but no one should be denying that stamina and patience goes down as we age and that's why our priorities shift. It's called aging.Posted by OrchideeThat's simply false. Lots of women have healthy children in their 40s now. The instances of complications does go up, but the instances of being a shitty parent who was too young goes down.Posted by MaxPowerIt's not even about women in their 40s being interested in raising kids or not. Their stamina and patience to raise goes down and chances of abnormalities in the child increase. They have no choice. No woman thinking with her head would do that. But the ones thinking with their emotions would pop a child whenever.Posted by OrchideeI definitely would have given a considerably older woman a chance when I was in my 30s. Now a woman 10 years older than me would be past menopause, or heading there. I'd have to think about that. I'd like to have at least one kid. My girlfriend has a kid, so if we can't have anymore, that will be fine. Most women in their 40s and beyond aren't interested in raising kids. They're done with all that.Posted by MaxPowerNot talking about that kind of age difference. Would you date someone 10+ older?
Sure! My girl is two years older.
My girlfriend had a kid at 41, and she chases him all over.
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Okay, I get it. We got another DJ. I'm moving along.
He posted all of this on the forum, so I don't think I'm outting him.
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Posted by CheVirgoPosted by Orchideelol I know a lot of Men around my age that want to be tied down. Most men don't like the going outside and being in a million people faces.Posted by CheVirgoFor the most part, yes. Men, when younger, aren't that mature and their priorities are very different from a woman's. Men aren't looking to be tied down at a younger age. How many guys do you know in their 20s and early 30s (modern day of course) who want to get married and have kids?Posted by OrchideeI'm sorry I lied/spoke too soon, I know one friend when I was in the military he was in his late 20's and married an woman in her late 30s to 40s. They are still together and have a child. I alway thought woman don't do younger men because they felt the younger the less mature he is.Posted by CheVirgoIt wouldn't be against natural law if you're going for a woman in her child bearing years, but it's off if she's barren and you're looking to have a kid.Posted by OrchideeYeah I have not done it but also never thought about it. I don't know if it's against natural law.Posted by CheVirgoYeah, it goes against natural law. Since I'm seeing a high occurrence in the opposite, it got me curious as to why it's happening.Posted by OrchideeThat's true Yeah IDK if males usually marry older females. I have not seen it personally.Posted by CheVirgoYeah, but celebs don't count. Their marriages are usually short lived and a joke.
IDK females Like Mariah Carey, Angela Bassett etc have men almost 10 to 15 years younger.
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Posted by CheVirgoYou only find young men with religion like Stephen Curry or who have reached financial stability at a young age looking to do that. I know a guy who is 27 and chose to get married, but he's religious and didn't want to commit the sin of pre-marital sex.Posted by OrchideeNah my homies wanted to married, all very stabled young black men from ages of 25 to 32. Most of their occupation are Board Of Education, Post Office, Military, Audio Engineers and HVAC.Posted by CheVirgoPosted by Orchideelol I know a lot of Men around my age that want to be tied down. Most men don't like the going outside and being in a million people faces.Posted by CheVirgoFor the most part, yes. Men, when younger, aren't that mature and their priorities are very different from a woman's. Men aren't looking to be tied down at a younger age. How many guys do you know in their 20s and early 30s (modern day of course) who want to get married and have kids?Posted by OrchideeI'm sorry I lied/spoke too soon, I know one friend when I was in the military he was in his late 20's and married an woman in her late 30s to 40s. They are still together and have a child. I alway thought woman don't do younger men because they felt the younger the less mature he is.Posted by CheVirgoIt wouldn't be against natural law if you're going for a woman in her child bearing years, but it's off if she's barren and you're looking to have a kid.Posted by OrchideeYeah I have not done it but also never thought about it. I don't know if it's against natural law.Posted by CheVirgoYeah, it goes against natural law. Since I'm seeing a high occurrence in the opposite, it got me curious as to why it's happening.Posted by OrchideeThat's true Yeah IDK if males usually marry older females. I have not seen it personally.Posted by CheVirgoYeah, but celebs don't count. Their marriages are usually short lived and a joke.
IDK females Like Mariah Carey, Angela Bassett etc have men almost 10 to 15 years younger.
Tied down in a relationship or in marriage? Also, what culture do they belong to?
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Posted by Orchidee
Contrary to the popular belief that men don't date/prefer older women, I find Cancers, as chauvinistic as they are, do in their younger days (20s to 30s). I know couple Cancer guys who are in their 30s dating a women nearing 40s to late 40s. Granted that some of these women look young, but I thought 30s is when men get serious about finding someone to build a life with? What gives? Oedipus complex perhaps?
Posted by CheVirgoI agree on the institution of marriage.Posted by OrchideeYeah my friends and I are not religious at all. I personally don't believe in marriage. If the love is there she needs to trust and believe that this is my family and I ain't leaving but I am not going under a contract for marriage. It's nothing but an agreed debt to the gov't. Thats my personal beliefs thoughPosted by CheVirgoYou only find young men with religion like Stephen Curry or who have reached financial stability at a young age looking to do that. I know a guy who is 27 and chose to get married, but he's religious and didn't want to commit the sin of pre-marital sex.Posted by OrchideeNah my homies wanted to married, all very stabled young black men from ages of 25 to 32. Most of their occupation are Board Of Education, Post Office, Military, Audio Engineers and HVAC.Posted by CheVirgoPosted by Orchideelol I know a lot of Men around my age that want to be tied down. Most men don't like the going outside and being in a million people faces.Posted by CheVirgoFor the most part, yes. Men, when younger, aren't that mature and their priorities are very different from a woman's. Men aren't looking to be tied down at a younger age. How many guys do you know in their 20s and early 30s (modern day of course) who want to get married and have kids?Posted by OrchideeI'm sorry I lied/spoke too soon, I know one friend when I was in the military he was in his late 20's and married an woman in her late 30s to 40s. They are still together and have a child. I alway thought woman don't do younger men because they felt the younger the less mature he is.Posted by CheVirgoIt wouldn't be against natural law if you're going for a woman in her child bearing years, but it's off if she's barren and you're looking to have a kid.Posted by OrchideeYeah I have not done it but also never thought about it. I don't know if it's against natural law.Posted by CheVirgoYeah, it goes against natural law. Since I'm seeing a high occurrence in the opposite, it got me curious as to why it's happening.Posted by OrchideeThat's true Yeah IDK if males usually marry older females. I have not seen it personally.Posted by CheVirgoYeah, but celebs don't count. Their marriages are usually short lived and a joke.
IDK females Like Mariah Carey, Angela Bassett etc have men almost 10 to 15 years younger.
Tied down in a relationship or in marriage? Also, what culture do they belong to?
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Posted by EtienneLantierUlterior motive is there too.
Ok, I'm not a man BUT if an old sick and rich woman would ask me to marry her maybe I would say yes. I'd bang her to death (best way to die) and then I'll go find some fresh meat.
ayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
Posted by rabidtalkerI really like most of what you said....
The problem is you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction. That is why I dont get upset if I see people of varying races or ages date each other, because it's their choice. It is true some cultures and parts of the country will be more open minded or have more people in "non-traditional" relationships, but in things like this "fair" has nothing to do with it.
Posted by rabidtalker
The problem is you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction. That is why I dont get upset if I see people of varying races or ages date each other, because it's their choice. It is true some cultures and parts of the country will be more open minded or have more people in "non-traditional" relationships, but in things like this "fair" has nothing to do with it.
Posted by OrchideeShrugPosted by rabidtalker
The problem is you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction. That is why I dont get upset if I see people of varying races or ages date each other, because it's their choice. It is true some cultures and parts of the country will be more open minded or have more people in "non-traditional" relationships, but in things like this "fair" has nothing to do with it.
Nobody is talking about fair or unfair and nor should anyone be getting upset when they see people of varying races and ages date each other. The premise of this post is nothing trumps natural law and the social deviance we see nowadays has got to have a more concrete explanation and something as simple as "you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction" is not sufficient. The question is not of feeling attraction. You can feel attraction for multiple people at one time. It's about what's driving a person to go against nature.click to expand
Posted by Orchidee10 year age difference is so minuscule, it doesn't qualify for the younger guy, older woman discussion imo. Especially if your talking the difference between 30s/40s.
Contrary to the popular belief that men don't date/prefer older women, I find Cancers, as chauvinistic as they are, do in their younger days (20s to 30s). I know couple Cancer guys who are in their 30s dating a women nearing 40s to late 40s. Granted that some of these women look young, but I thought 30s is when men get serious about finding someone to build a life with? What gives? Oedipus complex perhaps?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeAren't you in your late 30s??
im hoping for twins by 41.
Posted by OrchideeActually it's going WITH nature.Posted by rabidtalker
The problem is you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction. That is why I dont get upset if I see people of varying races or ages date each other, because it's their choice. It is true some cultures and parts of the country will be more open minded or have more people in "non-traditional" relationships, but in things like this "fair" has nothing to do with it.
Nobody is talking about fair or unfair and nor should anyone be getting upset when they see people of varying races and ages date each other. The premise of this post is nothing trumps natural law and the social deviance we see nowadays has got to have a more concrete explanation and something as simple as "you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction" is not sufficient. The question is not of feeling attraction. You can feel attraction for multiple people at one time. It's about what's driving a person to go against nature.click to expand
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeSafer bet is just to freeze your eggs. Marry a billionaire and hire a surrogatePosted by LadyNeptuneNo, first knocked up within 6 months, marriage by 42.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeAren't you in your late 30s??
im hoping for twins by 41.
You need to settle asap. Cause you figure 1-1.5 years dating, 6-8months to plan the wedding and then give yourself a least 6 months to get knocked up. Just right there your looking at 3 years minimum for your twins.
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Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's not about sexual peak, my dear. It's about sexual maturity in terms of when you become fertile.Posted by OrchideeActually it's going WITH nature.Posted by rabidtalker
The problem is you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction. That is why I dont get upset if I see people of varying races or ages date each other, because it's their choice. It is true some cultures and parts of the country will be more open minded or have more people in "non-traditional" relationships, but in things like this "fair" has nothing to do with it.
Nobody is talking about fair or unfair and nor should anyone be getting upset when they see people of varying races and ages date each other. The premise of this post is nothing trumps natural law and the social deviance we see nowadays has got to have a more concrete explanation and something as simple as "you can't socially pressure someone to feel attraction" is not sufficient. The question is not of feeling attraction. You can feel attraction for multiple people at one time. It's about what's driving a person to go against nature.
Women live on average 10 years older than men. Also they reach their sexual peak later in life. So nature is telling you to get with a woman whose older.click to expand
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