Ask a Cap Male (Page 11)

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Posted by Cancan26
so who is capricorn favorite sign?

For me it goes like this; 1 Scorpio, 2 Cancer, 3 Taurus. I wish I had met a virgo to see what they are like ( I hear they are awesome) but it hasn't happened yet.

Awwww. I'm number 1 😄 ♥

P.S. virgos r nasty manipulative and cold assed. Oh and bitches. They r bitches.

Soo I wanna know... why cappy men r so serious all the time? It looks like they can't just chillax and have a good time.

If we chillax the world will get destroyed lol 😄. Jokes aside we feel if we are not serious we won't be doing our work properly and become inefficient. And most of the time it is just on the outside. I have seen people more serious than me and they were of different signs. Also we feel irresponsible if we are not serious like taking things lightly. But we do let our hair down and just chill. But that happens once in a blue moon. We don't want to lose our focus.

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Posted by WonderWoman14

Posted by Capri-sun
Why do cap males not answer the f***ing questions?!?!—

I want my money back!!!

When a capricorn is ignored by another capricorn and they know how much we dislike being ignored

Funny that my cap ignores me (eventually gets back to me) and I never ignore him, maybe I should give him a taste of his own medicine ??

All they do is get pouty & ask why you're not talking to them lol...even when it's unintentional

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Posted by WonderWoman14
I'm interested to know how a cap sun, Scorpio Venus, sag moon are in love? The needs of Venus and moon appear opposite, does the sun balance it out?

I'm with a scorpio sun, cap moon, sag venus...

From what I can tell so far, moon > sun > venus

I mostly see his sun & moon. Not sure how his sag energy factors in yet.

In your situation from what I recall of cap sun sag moon, they are still pretty steady & traditional in romantic relationships.

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Posted by WonderWoman14
I'm interested to know how a cap sun, Scorpio Venus, sag moon are in love? The needs of Venus and moon appear opposite, does the sun balance it out?

I'm with a scorpio sun, cap moon, sag venus...

From what I can tell so far, moon > sun > venus

I mostly see his sun & moon. Not sure how his sag energy factors in yet.

In your situation from what I recall of cap sun sag moon, they are still pretty steady & traditional in romantic relationships.

I am a scorp sun with a sag venus.. & Although I am a woman.. I think the same applies.. I am very loyal.. loving.. affectionate.. I do need space sometimes... I'm family person.. I want a husband, kids.. house, the whole 9 yards... When things are bad, I try to outweigh it with the good for a while.. I will hang tight til the wheels fall off.. But when nothing changes.. At all! & there is constant conflict and drama, etc.. I get scared and run... Sometimes never to look back..Sag in Venus don't like to be combative.. We hold alot of iish in.. (A glimpse into my Sag Venus.)

Probably a reason I can handle my cap.. His Venus is in Aqua..

Sag + Aqua Venus' are very compatible.

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Posted by WonderWoman14
I'm interested to know how a cap sun, Scorpio Venus, sag moon are in love? The needs of Venus and moon appear opposite, does the sun balance it out?

I'm with a scorpio sun, cap moon, sag venus...

From what I can tell so far, moon > sun > venus

I mostly see his sun & moon. Not sure how his sag energy factors in yet.

In your situation from what I recall of cap sun sag moon, they are still pretty steady & traditional in romantic relationships.

I am a scorp sun with a sag venus.. & Although I am a woman.. I think the same applies.. I am very loyal.. loving.. affectionate.. I do need space sometimes... I'm family person.. I want a husband, kids.. house, the whole 9 yards... When things are bad, I try to outweigh it with the good for a while.. I will hang tight til the wheels fall off.. But when nothing changes.. At all! & there is constant conflict and drama, etc.. I get scared and run... Sometimes never to look back..Sag in Venus don't like to be combative.. We hold alot of iish in.. (A glimpse into my Sag Venus.)

Probably a reason I can handle my cap.. His Venus is in Aqua..

Sag + Aqua Venus' are very compatible.

lol! I edited my comment a bit.. lol! Still the same tho.. @ Capri-sun!

& You're welcome!! You've got a good one on your hands.. Knowing me.. I love to love & love being loved.. 😉

Thanks! I worry about the space part do I'm glad you gave your perspective.

He comes off as clingy to me lol

We only see each other on weekends because it's an hour drive & we both work physically demanding jobs.

I don't want to bug him by texting too much, then when he doesn't hear from me he makes it an issue lol.

I worked 7 days last week so the plan was to just not see each other that weekend because he had plans too...that worked well lol 😄

He asked to see me so we made it happen smh...I told him us being apart doesn't look like it's going to last long & I teased him since he couldn't go a week without me lol 🙂

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Posted by WonderWoman14
I'm interested to know how a cap sun, Scorpio Venus, sag moon are in love? The needs of Venus and moon appear opposite, does the sun balance it out?

I'm with a scorpio sun, cap moon, sag venus...

From what I can tell so far, moon > sun > venus

I mostly see his sun & moon. Not sure how his sag energy factors in yet.

In your situation from what I recall of cap sun sag moon, they are still pretty steady & traditional in romantic relationships.

I am a scorp sun with a sag venus.. & Although I am a woman.. I think the same applies.. I am very loyal.. loving.. affectionate.. I do need space sometimes... I'm family person.. I want a husband, kids.. house, the whole 9 yards... When things are bad, I try to outweigh it with the good for a while.. I will hang tight til the wheels fall off.. But when nothing changes.. At all! & there is constant conflict and drama, etc.. I get scared and run... Sometimes never to look back..Sag in Venus don't like to be combative.. We hold alot of iish in.. (A glimpse into my Sag Venus.)

Probably a reason I can handle my cap.. His Venus is in Aqua..

Sag + Aqua Venus' are very compatible.

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Posted by WonderWoman14
I'm interested to know how a cap sun, Scorpio Venus, sag moon are in love? The needs of Venus and moon appear opposite, does the sun balance it out?

I'm with a scorpio sun, cap moon, sag venus...

From what I can tell so far, moon > sun > venus

I mostly see his sun & moon. Not sure how his sag energy factors in yet.

In your situation from what I recall of cap sun sag moon, they are still pretty steady & traditional in romantic relationships.

I am a scorp sun with a sag venus.. & Although I am a woman.. I think the same applies.. I am very loyal.. loving.. affectionate.. I do need space sometimes... I'm family person.. I want a husband, kids.. house, the whole 9 yards... When things are bad, I try to outweigh it with the good for a while.. I will hang tight til the wheels fall off.. But when nothing changes.. At all! & there is constant conflict and drama, etc.. I get scared and run... Sometimes never to look back..Sag in Venus don't like to be combative.. We hold alot of iish in.. (A glimpse into my Sag Venus.)

Probably a reason I can handle my cap.. His Venus is in Aqua..

Sag + Aqua Venus' are very compatible.

lol! I edited my comment a bit.. lol! Still the same tho.. @ Capri-sun!

& You're welcome!! You've got a good one on your hands.. Knowing me.. I love to love & love being loved.. 😉

Thanks! I worry about the space part do I'm glad you gave your perspective.

He comes off as clingy to me lol

We only see each other on weekends because it's an hour drive & we both work physically demanding jobs.

I don't want to bug him by texting too much, then when he doesn't hear from me he makes it an issue lol.

I worked 7 days last week so the plan was to just not see each other that weekend because he had plans too...that worked well lol 😄

He asked to see me so we made it happen smh...I told him us being apart doesn't look like it's going to last long & I teased him since he couldn't go a week without me lol 🙂

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Posted by WonderWoman14
I'm interested to know how a cap sun, Scorpio Venus, sag moon are in love? The needs of Venus and moon appear opposite, does the sun balance it out?

I'm with a scorpio sun, cap moon, sag venus...

From what I can tell so far, moon > sun > venus

I mostly see his sun & moon. Not sure how his sag energy factors in yet.

In your situation from what I recall of cap sun sag moon, they are still pretty steady & traditional in romantic relationships.

I am a scorp sun with a sag venus.. & Although I am a woman.. I think the same applies.. I am very loyal.. loving.. affectionate.. I do need space sometimes... I'm family person.. I want a husband, kids.. house, the whole 9 yards... When things are bad, I try to outweigh it with the good for a while.. I will hang tight til the wheels fall off.. But when nothing changes.. At all! & there is constant conflict and drama, etc.. I get scared and run... Sometimes never to look back..Sag in Venus don't like to be combative.. We hold alot of iish in.. (A glimpse into my Sag Venus.)

Probably a reason I can handle my cap.. His Venus is in Aqua..

Sag + Aqua Venus' are very compatible.

lol! I edited my comment a bit.. lol! Still the same tho.. @ Capri-sun!

& You're welcome!! You've got a good one on your hands.. Knowing me.. I love to love & love being loved.. 😉

Thanks! I worry about the space part do I'm glad you gave your perspective.

He comes off as clingy to me lol

We only see each other on weekends because it's an hour drive & we both work physically demanding jobs.

I don't want to bug him by texting too much, then when he doesn't hear from me he makes it an issue lol.

I worked 7 days last week so the plan was to just not see each other that weekend because he had plans too...that worked well lol 😄

He asked to see me so we made it happen smh...I told him us being apart doesn't look like it's going to last long & I teased him since he couldn't go a week without me lol 🙂

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Posted by Gob_Shite
My Cap has treated me better than any other boyfriend in the past. In fact, he's exceeded my expectations. However, he won't say that he loves me (often enough), according to what Hollywood has drummed into my head, since my days of playing with Barbie and Ken. I fear he doesn't love me. Does he really care about me?

Posted by Capri-sun
People give you guys no credit

I wonder why that is

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Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by Capri-sun
People give you guys no credit

I wonder why that is

What do you mean by this ?

Capricorn men are sweethearts ❤

They show love through actions not just empty words, dependable, reliable, providers, protective...

Maybe it's just because I'm a Capricorn & understand them a little bit better than most women...

If they didn't see me as the sisterly one then I'd be with one. They are in touch with their emotions without being emotional. The "ideal man" imo

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Posted by Capri-sun
People give you guys no credit

I wonder why that is

What do you mean by this ?

Capricorn men are sweethearts ❤

They show love through actions not just empty words, dependable, reliable, providers, protective...

Maybe it's just because I'm a Capricorn & understand them a little bit better than most women...

If they didn't see me as the sisterly one then I'd be with one. They are in touch with their emotions without being emotional. The "ideal man" imo

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Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by Capri-sun
People give you guys no credit

I wonder why that is

What do you mean by this ?

Capricorn men are sweethearts ❤

They show love through actions not just empty words, dependable, reliable, providers, protective...

Maybe it's just because I'm a Capricorn & understand them a little bit better than most women...

If they didn't see me as the sisterly one then I'd be with one. They are in touch with their emotions without being emotional. The "ideal man" imo

I agree with this completely-that caps have amazing qualities, and I think a lot of women do too because they liked your post. But I think it's hard for you to relate to the person dating the cap because it's a totally different experience than just being friends with them. We always appreciate the loving things they do. We adore it. They are so extremely special in so many ways, but they are also very distant compared to any other sign. That's why girls get frustrated with them and why it might appear to you that we don't always give them credit. Now I do believe you were talking to one cap who was ignoring you and that frustrated you very much. That's only a glimpse of what it's like for some of us to date cap men. Try dealing with that constantly or on and off throughout the relationship. *i know not all cap men are like this, but a lot are.

I understand where you're coming from. The caps I can think of that ignored me, 1. Smoked so I told him it wouldn't work, he still tired reaching out so I don't think that's the 1, 2. Wasn't interested and we hadn't met yet so I took it as just that, lack of interest, 3. Was long distance and lied & later was in a relationship possibly so... I'm guessing #3 maybe. Unless you're talking about when I was joking with the dxp cap men...they ignoring me all the time lol

If a cap is ignoring you they are either mad or uninterested.

There is a difference in ignoring and being distant. Even with that said anytime someone reaches out to me I'm available or respond at some point if I'm interested.

When you experience the unconditional love of a Capricorn then you'll understand what I mean & the difference. Not speaking of the friendship aspect, just speaking based on how I am so of course it could be different for the males.

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Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by Capri-sun
People give you guys no credit

I wonder why that is

What do you mean by this ?

Capricorn men are sweethearts ❤

They show love through actions not just empty words, dependable, reliable, providers, protective...

Maybe it's just because I'm a Capricorn & understand them a little bit better than most women...

If they didn't see me as the sisterly one then I'd be with one. They are in touch with their emotions without being emotional. The "ideal man" imo

I agree with this completely-that caps have amazing qualities, and I think a lot of women do too because they liked your post. But I think it's hard for you to relate to the person dating the cap because it's a totally different experience than just being friends with them. We always appreciate the loving things they do. We adore it. They are so extremely special in so many ways, but they are also very distant compared to any other sign. That's why girls get frustrated with them and why it might appear to you that we don't always give them credit. Now I do believe you were talking to one cap who was ignoring you and that frustrated you very much. That's only a glimpse of what it's like for some of us to date cap men. Try dealing with that constantly or on and off throughout the relationship. *i know not all cap men are like this, but a lot are.

I understand where you're coming from. The caps I can think of that ignored me, 1. Smoked so I told him it wouldn't work, he still tired reaching out so I don't think that's the 1, 2. Wasn't interested and we hadn't met yet so I took it as just that, lack of interest, 3. Was long distance and lied & later was in a relationship possibly so... I'm guessing #3 maybe. Unless you're talking about when I was joking with the dxp cap men...they ignoring me all the time lol

If a cap is ignoring you they are either mad or uninterested.

There is a difference in ignoring and being distant. Even with that said anytime someone reaches out to me I'm available or respond at some point if I'm interested.

When you experience the unconditional love of a Capricorn then you'll understand what I mean & the difference. Not speaking of the friendship aspect, just speaking based on how I am so of course it could be different for the males.

That's not always true. Sometimes they are just extremely busy and are focused on work or other aspects in their life that take priority. Plus they move super slow, which is why us girls sometimes take that as not interested when the case is actually the opposite. I just took offense to your comment because you don't know everything about them. It's just your opinion like this is mine and I feel that your comment was disrespectful to me and other women who have actually dated cap men for a good period of time. I believe we have a totally different understanding than you do. We do give them a lot of credit and it's rude to say we don't. Besides you're not even a cap man. You don't know if that's what they are thinking.

I already said it was my own opinion. Some move slow, some don't.

I'm not sure why you took offense or found it disrespectful. That was not my intentions.

The original post was in response to Gob going on about females complaining about the cap guys treating them better than any of their ex's

It's also my personal opinion that the busy with work thing is an excuse and a cop out. People make time for the things that are important to them. If you're (not you in particular I'm speaking in general) a priority he will be thinking about you while he is at work.

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Posted by Rindaroo
When a Cap is distant, but still communicating with you & seeing you, and then goes back to acting normal ( I.e. Affectionate, happy to see you etc), does he normally want to talk about what was wrong? Or is it best to wait til he offers up his feelings?

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When a Cap is distant, but still communicating with you & seeing you, and then goes back to acting normal ( I.e. Affectionate, happy to see you etc), does he normally want to talk about what was wrong? Or is it best to wait til he offers up his feelings?

Was the distance because of you and your relationship or something completely different? 🙂

Our relationship I believe. Although he kept saying nothing was wrong. He was acting like he was protecting himself. But still reached out daily, still talked about a million other things, when we saw each other still wanted me there but acted distant. Which I hadn't seen before & was for 3 weeks. There are two issues, he said he loved me & I didn't say it back, and I have had a plan of moving in two years. I tried to bring up the first, but he wouldn't talk about it & he's been telling me his process about the idea of moving somewhere & deciding he's staying here due to his granddaughter. I was going through my own process about the moving & well I haven't said I love you to anyone in a long time & with the move I needed to know about #2 before I could do #1 and take bigger steps in the relationship. It's been 5 months we've been together (exclusively & boyfriend/girlfriend). I ended up sending a text explaining some things & that I love him, want to be with him, and would stay & not move if the relationship is looking like we'd have a good future. It was just so hard to talk in person since he was acting so distant & cold. I thought it was better to give him the info some way. Then I let him come towards me. Instead of reaching out. He didn't say a word about the text, but starting acting better towards me again via text & then asked me to come over last night. Still not talking about it, back to super happy to see me & kissing me when I walked through the door & other signs he's feeling better. But shouldn't we be talking about this—

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When a Cap is distant, but still communicating with you & seeing you, and then goes back to acting normal ( I.e. Affectionate, happy to see you etc), does he normally want to talk about what was wrong? Or is it best to wait til he offers up his feelings?

Was the distance because of you and your relationship or something completely different? 🙂

Our relationship I believe. Although he kept saying nothing was wrong. He was acting like he was protecting himself. But still reached out daily, still talked about a million other things, when we saw each other still wanted me there but acted distant. Which I hadn't seen before & was for 3 weeks. There are two issues, he said he loved me & I didn't say it back, and I have had a plan of moving in two years. I tried to bring up the first, but he wouldn't talk about it & he's been telling me his process about the idea of moving somewhere & deciding he's staying here due to his granddaughter. I was going through my own process about the moving & well I haven't said I love you to anyone in a long time & with the move I needed to know about #2 before I could do #1 and take bigger steps in the relationship. It's been 5 months we've been together (exclusively & boyfriend/girlfriend). I ended up sending a text explaining some things & that I love him, want to be with him, and would stay & not move if the relationship is looking like we'd have a good future. It was just so hard to talk in person since he was acting so distant & cold. I thought it was better to give him the info some way. Then I let him come towards me. Instead of reaching out. He didn't say a word about the text, but starting acting better towards me again via text & then asked me to come over last night. Still not talking about it, back to super happy to see me & kissing me when I walked through the door & other signs he's feeling better. But shouldn't we be talking about this—

I'm not a cap thought I'd best clarify that but my bf of 18 months is. Plus my dad so I think I have a very good understanding.

My opinion only. He withdrew himself because you didn't give the reaction he expected when he told you he loved you. For a cap to tell you that would have been a huge deal, it's not something they would say unless they were sincere and he obviously felt the feeling wasn't mutual. If I've got this right it sounds like he was willing to move with you although he may never have said that direct. He's now changed his mind as he didn't think you wanted the same thing.

You did the right thing reaching out and telling him how you really feel and then giving him time and space to digest it. He's obviously realised that you do feel the same even if you didn't say so immediately. You do need to talk about it. I wouldn't spring it on him, I'd just text or talk to him over the phone and say, I'd like to discuss the text I sent you and explain my reasons for my slow response.

Well he's been thinking about moving somewhere warm & at the beach (which is where I wanted to go - back to where I grew up and have a lot of support system). He also grew up close to the beach but a different area. But he was thinking about multiple places. In the middle of this, his granddaughter was born & he is. completely attached to her. The latest he told me was where i wanted to go was one of the places he was considering, and the others. But, now he doesn't want to leave her unless he moved them with him. Lol. I knew from the day she was born he wouldn't leave her, hence my process of what I really wanted. I did explain to him in the text why I took so long,and that i haven't said I love you to anyone since my ex -6 years ago. And well it's a hard thing to say outloud for me. I told him I tried to show him in other ways, and I'm really sorry about how this happened. Oh & also told him I would never ask him to leave her. So I think he already has that info. Part of me thinks we just need to move forward & try this again, saying we love each other & me apologizing for how this happened. Idk. Rehashing it & the why isn't going to help much at this point.

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Posted by Rindaroo
When a Cap is distant, but still communicating with you & seeing you, and then goes back to acting normal ( I.e. Affectionate, happy to see you etc), does he normally want to talk about what was wrong? Or is it best to wait til he offers up his feelings?

Was the distance because of you and your relationship or something completely different? 🙂

Our relationship I believe. Although he kept saying nothing was wrong. He was acting like he was protecting himself. But still reached out daily, still talked about a million other things, when we saw each other still wanted me there but acted distant. Which I hadn't seen before & was for 3 weeks. There are two issues, he said he loved me & I didn't say it back, and I have had a plan of moving in two years. I tried to bring up the first, but he wouldn't talk about it & he's been telling me his process about the idea of moving somewhere & deciding he's staying here due to his granddaughter. I was going through my own process about the moving & well I haven't said I love you to anyone in a long time & with the move I needed to know about #2 before I could do #1 and take bigger steps in the relationship. It's been 5 months we've been together (exclusively & boyfriend/girlfriend). I ended up sending a text explaining some things & that I love him, want to be with him, and would stay & not move if the relationship is looking like we'd have a good future. It was just so hard to talk in person since he was acting so distant & cold. I thought it was better to give him the info some way. Then I let him come towards me. Instead of reaching out. He didn't say a word about the text, but starting acting better towards me again via text & then asked me to come over last night. Still not talking about it, back to super happy to see me & kissing me when I walked through the door & other signs he's feeling better. But shouldn't we be talking about this—

I'm not a cap thought I'd best clarify that but my bf of 18 months is. Plus my dad so I think I have a very good understanding.

My opinion only. He withdrew himself because you didn't give the reaction he expected when he told you he loved you. For a cap to tell you that would have been a huge deal, it's not something they would say unless they were sincere and he obviously felt the feeling wasn't mutual. If I've got this right it sounds like he was willing to move with you although he may never have said that direct. He's now changed his mind as he didn't think you wanted the same thing.

You did the right thing reaching out and telling him how you really feel and then giving him time and space to digest it. He's obviously realised that you do feel the same even if you didn't say so immediately. You do need to talk about it. I wouldn't spring it on him, I'd just text or talk to him over the phone and say, I'd like to discuss the text I sent you and explain my reasons for my slow response.

Well he's been thinking about moving somewhere warm & at the beach (which is where I wanted to go - back to where I grew up and have a lot of support system). He also grew up close to the beach but a different area. But he was thinking about multiple places. In the middle of this, his granddaughter was born & he is. completely attached to her. The latest he told me was where i wanted to go was one of the places he was considering, and the others. But, now he doesn't want to leave her unless he moved them with him. Lol. I knew from the day she was born he wouldn't leave her, hence my process of what I really wanted. I did explain to him in the text why I took so long,and that i haven't said I love you to anyone since my ex -6 years ago. And well it's a hard thing to say outloud for me. I told him I tried to show him in other ways, and I'm really sorry about how this happened. Oh & also told him I would never ask him to leave her. So I think he already has that info. Part of me thinks we just need to move forward & try this again, saying we love each other & me apologizing for how this happened. Idk. Rehashing it & the why isn't going to help much at this point.

Argh the first granddaughter I understand that, I was the apple of my granddads eyes as are my daughter's to theirs. I can understand him not wanting to leave them.

Ok so he knows and understands then. I don't think you need to bring it up again. If I was you I would be the first to say it next time though because he probably won't in fear you may not reciprocate again. I wouldn't stress over it either, just say it when it feels and comes naturally.

Oh he calls her "his baby" since he never had a girl, only two boys. He is a devoted father & grandpa already. 🙂 okay sounds good. Looks like I'm saying it first next time.

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Posted by StrawberryJam
do you ever change your mind after you dump someone?

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Posted by StrawberryJam
do you ever change your mind after you dump someone?

If they were sincerely committed to you. The breakup could have been the breaking point from all the emotions that exploded in an instant rather than healthily discussed. They'll use that space apart to determine if he reacted too brashly and if he really sees a future with you or if he felt the breakup would have arrived later anyhow if not sooner.

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Posted by daron76
You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo. 🙂

Posted by Blairjones512
A cap guy stopped talking to me (even though he used to tell everyone I was his dream girl). But then he got mad cause I got back with my ex after almost a 2 months of no contact with the cap. He ended up asking me to talk after he saw me and my ex out but then once I told him we could he never replied. He acts like I screwed him over and was sketchy all along when I really actually liked him and was hurt a lot by him cutting things off w me. Can caps just turn off all feelings or is he still hurt or might even try to reach out again. He told me that he knew we would get back together, but I really wouldn't have gotten back with my ex if he would have kept at least talking to me. Kind of wish I could fix it but is there even a way to?

Posted by AriesAlways
I'm dating this cap and he's been away for a week but we made plans for tonight (first day he's back) but he just cancelled! Says he's got a lot to do today/a lot on his mind (he's moving up north end of the week), that he's sorry, and asked to see me tomorrow for brunch - I wanted to spend a night with him but does this cancellation mean he's lost interest in me?? Help I'm an Arian so this kind of behaviour is opposite to what I would do if I liked someone...

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Posted by AriesAlways
I'm dating this cap and he's been away for a week but we made plans for tonight (first day he's back) but he just cancelled! Says he's got a lot to do today/a lot on his mind (he's moving up north end of the week), that he's sorry, and asked to see me tomorrow for brunch - I wanted to spend a night with him but does this cancellation mean he's lost interest in me?? Help I'm an Arian so this kind of behaviour is opposite to what I would do if I liked someone...

Not necessarily, they tend to like putting everything else as a priority over their SO. My cap man has done this to me so many times. But didnt lose interest.

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Posted by DepthAndDeath
Caps, what state of mind that drive you want to make as much money as possible?

Provider, security, stability, enjoying life

Just guessing until the guys chime in

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Posted by DepthAndDeath
Caps, what state of mind that drive you want to make as much money as possible?

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Posted by daron76
You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo. 🙂

What style clothing do you prefer on women?

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Posted by scorpio24356
My cap man has never posted pics of his girlfriends. He says he will once he is married. We've already been together for a year, but it really bothers me. He talks about marrying me, but doesnt talk about me to many people or anything. I just wanna see him treat me how he would if we were married so i can decide if its worth it. I wont be with someone who wants to hide me for the rest of his life. He also has a lot of girl friends that he texts (and sometimes answers their calls) when we are on dates and sometimes even more than he talks to me. I doubt that half of them even know i exist in his life. I've tried to understand it or just ask him to respect our time when we find time together, but he just gets super defensive. Do you think he is hiding me to keep his options open? Thats what it feels like. It makes me wanna do all these things to him, but i know the result would be terrible so i dont.

I don't care what anyone says... he low key has hoes. proceed with caution.

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Posted by Pumpkin33
Capricorn said he just wanted to be friends do I ever have a chance to be more? He is an amazing guy, we still hang out and we have never been intimate? I'm a Cancer, he is very special to me

Posted by MoonyEYES88
Hello cappies! Can I lend your ear and advice, there is a capricorn man thats into me, flirty, and I think he may ask me on a date. I would like to tell this other capricorn man that although I adore him, Im already in a relationship. Will he become angry and cold with me?

Posted by StrawberryJam
do you ever change your mind after you dump someone?

Yes

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Posted by daron76
You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo. 🙂

What style clothing do you prefer on women?

Elegant in public. Subtle but sexy in private.

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Posted by StrawberryJam
do you ever change your mind after you dump someone?

Yes

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What made you change your mind? She asked for second chance or you went back to her?

My cap broke up with me 3 weeks ago. He came to my house ended it with me face to face. I didn't beg I just respect his wish and thanked him for doing it face to face. He had tears I his eyes and admit he is sad but he just don't think it will work in long term.

2 days later I wrote him an email to apologize for my bad behavior and thank him for his honesty. I also acknowledge that it's ashamed we didn't meet after I have dealt with my trust issues. Losing him has been prompt me to seek help.

He replied and told me not to be too harsh on myself as he said he likes me and enjoys my company we could have stay together for a comfortable and enjoyable relationship but he knows it won't be forever as he didn't develop the emotional connection with me.

Even until now he is still almost always the first to view my stories and like my post. He hasn't gone back to dating site yet.

What do you think of our situation?

Posted by Virgiene
My cappy guy calls every night , text me several times in a day , ccoks for me, we see each other once or twice a week but we go to church every Sunday. It is been like this for more than a year already but he doesn't say anything about the future, did not meet his friends and family yet . My question is , IN YOUR OPINION... what am I to him?