Capricorn Guy...... Help

I have never met anyone who behaves like him. I don't know if he is a mystery or playing mind games. So me and the cap guy are in the same class in college. From the first week i noticed he stared at me a lot. I caught him looking at me several times. He would always look away quickly when i caught him which i found funny and cute. The staring has been going on for weeks.

We are in a big class and he sits at the front with his friends and am in the back. So one day i come to class and i find him sitting where i usually sit. Was not expecting that. So i went ahead and sat beside him . Later on i tried striking a conversation but he came off standoffish and he kept looking at his phone. So i took this as a hint that he may not be interested and backed off.

I have not bothered him since then and have kept my distance. He still sits where i sit nowadays and not with his friends at the front. The staring has not stopped. He keeps giving me intense piercing stares. I had to give a power point with a classmate and i gave him a quick glance and i was shocked by the look on his face. He had the most surprised look on his face. His eyebrows were raised and he had a very naughty smile. Then sometimes when we are in groups he will greet everyone except me. I noticed he seems very chill and happy with his friends but when he is close he seems very cold. I also seem to bump into him a lot at school which wasn't the case.

I am a Pisces btw. Personally I lose interest quickly when mind games are involved. I thought if he is not interested, wouldn't he be gone?

This is so cute but I bet super annoying the mixed signals thing is definitely a work out.

You know this would be good fan fiction for Renesme from Twilight. Another guy noticing her and she is not sure what to do because she needed a break from Jake because he was smothering her but some weird attraction is going on with this guy in her freshman college class.

Lol sorry for derailing there but I agree with @sakuraflowers sounds like he is shy and nervous.

Capricorns are big mysteries. They show their feelings through actions not words. I think a lot of woman prefer concrete evidence that a man likes us and this usually involves words. So I think you'll be analyzing his actions a lot and you might even feel uncertain at times. It might feel like he's playing games. This sign takes awhile to decide if they want a serious relationship. Until then, they will take it extremely slow. I call them snail males. You will need a lot of patience!

He likes you. I can tell by the avoidance.

Thing is, he can continue this behavior for forever, so not sure if you should pay it any real attention until he makes a move.

Are Capricorns known for avoiding someone they like? Or is it another placement in his chart. My Capricorn didn't waste any time: speaking to me the first time he saw me, going out on a date the second day, meeting his mother, brother, and meeting his friend on the second week...

I know that people are different, but I'm curious to know what caps are "known" for. ^___^

Posted by LillyPetal
Are Capricorns known for avoiding someone they like? Iris that anther placement in his chart. My Capricorn didn't waste any time: speaking to me the first time he saw me, going out on a date the second day, meeting his mother, brother, and meeting his friend on the second week...

I know that people are different, but I'm curious to know what caps are "known" for. ^___^

How long have you been dating? How old is he?

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Posted by LillyPetal
Are Capricorns known for avoiding someone they like? Iris that anther placement in his chart. My Capricorn didn't waste any time: speaking to me the first time he saw me, going out on a date the second day, meeting his mother, brother, and meeting his friend on the second week...

I know that people are different, but I'm curious to know what caps are "known" for. ^___^

How long have you been dating? How old is he?

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Going on 9 months. He'll be 21 in December *^____^*

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Posted by LillyPetal
Are Capricorns known for avoiding someone they like? Iris that anther placement in his chart. My Capricorn didn't waste any time: speaking to me the first time he saw me, going out on a date the second day, meeting his mother, brother, and meeting his friend on the second week...

I know that people are different, but I'm curious to know what caps are "known" for. ^___^

How long have you been dating? How old is he?

Going on 9 months. He'll be 21 in December *^____^*

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Sounds positive for you! Sometimes I read stories about younger caps moving very fast in the beginning and then it doesn't work out. I think you might be an exception! I've also read that older caps move very slow in the beginning because they are deciding if the girl is the right lifetime partner. That's what I'm going through.. He's 36.

Posted by ladylibra21
This is so cute but I bet super annoying the mixed signals thing is definitely a work out.

You know this would be good fan fiction for Renesme from Twilight. Another guy noticing her and she is not sure what to do because she needed a break from Jake because he was smothering her but some weird attraction is going on with this guy in her freshman college class.

Lol sorry for derailing there but I agree with @sakuraflowers sounds like he is shy and nervous.

Maybe he is shy and nervous. But its weird he does not look like the type. He seemed confident from a distance. Could be a front.

Posted by lnana04
He likes you. I can tell by the avoidance.

Thing is, he can continue this behavior for forever, so not sure if you should pay it any real attention until he makes a move.

That's what i thought after while, he could do this for however long. I am in my last semester and getting ready to graduate. I may never see him again. This could easily become one of those situations where you wonder what could have been....

Posted by pinkbird03
Capricorns are big mysteries. They show their feelings through actions not words. I think a lot of woman prefer concrete evidence that a man likes us and this usually involves words. So I think you'll be analyzing his actions a lot and you might even feel uncertain at times. It might feel like he's playing games. This sign takes awhile to decide if they want a serious relationship. Until then, they will take it extremely slow. I call them snail males. You will need a lot of patience!

Snail males ...hahahah

He really is a big mystery. As for patience, i may have but i am graduating soon and i may never see him after school. I think i will keep moving....

The young Cap guys I know come across as shy. They also come across as gentlemen. They're also usually not interested in anything serious, which is where I think the perceived shyness comes in.

They're very interested in sex, but not so much in maintaining a relationship. At least until they're older / more settled. So:

Interested in sex

+ them not wanting anything serious

÷ by them being gentlemen

× by them being, above all, practical and horny

= them staring at and flirting with the woman (women?) on their radar, but not engaging or encouraging said female further. However, should that woman approach *him* and make her interest known, the Cap will definitely be receptive to it. He might even sleep with her or casually date her for awhile, but will also likely have no qualms about abruptly walking away once he's done.

I wouldn't expect anything serious or long term from him if he's not making any moves at all. They go after what they want. And I think in their mind, them not initiating = "I don't want anything serious", which they expect you to know.

Posted by pinkbird03
Capricorns are big mysteries. They show their feelings through actions not words. I think a lot of woman prefer concrete evidence that a man likes us and this usually involves words. So I think you'll be analyzing his actions a lot and you might even feel uncertain at times. It might feel like he's playing games. This sign takes awhile to decide if they want a serious relationship. Until then, they will take it extremely slow. I call them snail males. You will need a lot of patience!

But wouldn't actions qualify as "concrete" and words as "abstract"?

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Posted by LillyPetal

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by LillyPetal
Are Capricorns known for avoiding someone they like? Iris that anther placement in his chart. My Capricorn didn't waste any time: speaking to me the first time he saw me, going out on a date the second day, meeting his mother, brother, and meeting his friend on the second week...

I know that people are different, but I'm curious to know what caps are "known" for. ^___^

How long have you been dating? How old is he?

Going on 9 months. He'll be 21 in December *^____^*

Sounds positive for you! Sometimes I read stories about younger caps moving very fast in the beginning and then it doesn't work out. I think you might be an exception! I've also read that older caps move very slow in the beginning because they are deciding if the girl is the right lifetime partner. That's what I'm going through.. He's 36.

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Interesting! It just goes to show that a lot more is involved than mere placements. Past relationships, age...there really isn't a right or wrong way, just what's good for the couple in question!

Posted by Andalusia
The young Cap guys I know come across as shy. They also come across as gentlemen. They're also usually not interested in anything serious, which is where I think the perceived shyness comes in.

They're very interested in sex, but not so much in maintaining a relationship. At least until they're older / more settled. So:

Interested in sex

+ them not wanting anything serious

÷ by them being gentlemen

× by them being, above all, practical and horny

= them staring at and flirting with the woman (women?) on their radar, but not engaging or encouraging said female further. However, should that woman approach *him* and make her interest known, the Cap will definitely be receptive to it. He might even sleep with her or casually date her for awhile, but will also likely have no qualms about abruptly walking away once he's done.

I wouldn't expect anything serious or long term from him if he's not making any moves at all. They go after what they want. And I think in their mind, them not initiating = "I don't want anything serious", which they expect you to know.

Wow, this actually make a lot of sense!!!! I wont take it serious and will keep moving...

Posted by LillyPetal

Posted by pinkbird03
Capricorns are big mysteries. They show their feelings through actions not words. I think a lot of woman prefer concrete evidence that a man likes us and this usually involves words. So I think you'll be analyzing his actions a lot and you might even feel uncertain at times. It might feel like he's playing games. This sign takes awhile to decide if they want a serious relationship. Until then, they will take it extremely slow. I call them snail males. You will need a lot of patience!

But wouldn't actions qualify as "concrete" and words as "abstract"?

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Yes, sometimes. But I want both! Because if I don't see him for a few weeks, then he's not really showing me any action at all and it causes me to have doubts. But, when I see him again, I can see he cares. I don't see my guy too much. That's probably my problem. I've tried to get him to see me more, but that hasn't really been the case.

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Posted by pinkbird03
Capricorns are big mysteries. They show their feelings through actions not words. I think a lot of woman prefer concrete evidence that a man likes us and this usually involves words. So I think you'll be analyzing his actions a lot and you might even feel uncertain at times. It might feel like he's playing games. This sign takes awhile to decide if they want a serious relationship. Until then, they will take it extremely slow. I call them snail males. You will need a lot of patience!

But wouldn't actions qualify as "concrete" and words as "abstract"?

No! Words do have meaning. for a life time.....

actions=do (for i in capcricorn do; $ (actions); done)

words=life_time_itteration (for i in 1..100000000000000 do; $ (words); done)

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Doubt thou the stars are fire;

Doubt that the sun doth move;

Doubt truth to be a liar;

But never doubt I love

--W Shakespeare (dedicated to foreverloveme)

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This made me so sad just now but it was beautiful!

Posted by netpower
I have never met anyone who behaves like him. I don't know if he is a mystery or playing mind games. So me and the cap guy are in the same class in college. From the first week i noticed he stared at me a lot. I caught him looking at me several times. He would always look away quickly when i caught him which i found funny and cute. The staring has been going on for weeks.

We are in a big class and he sits at the front with his friends and am in the back. So one day i come to class and i find him sitting where i usually sit. Was not expecting that. So i went ahead and sat beside him . Later on i tried striking a conversation but he came off standoffish and he kept looking at his phone. So i took this as a hint that he may not be interested and backed off.

I have not bothered him since then and have kept my distance. He still sits where i sit nowadays and not with his friends at the front. The staring has not stopped. He keeps giving me intense piercing stares. I had to give a power point with a classmate and i gave him a quick glance and i was shocked by the look on his face. He had the most surprised look on his face. His eyebrows were raised and he had a very naughty smile. Then sometimes when we are in groups he will greet everyone except me. I noticed he seems very chill and happy with his friends but when he is close he seems very cold. I also seem to bump into him a lot at school which wasn't the case.

I am a Pisces btw. Personally I lose interest quickly when mind games are involved. I thought if he is not interested, wouldn't he be gone?

If he was staring at you but then just randomly sits where you are sitting (back of the class) - that's a signal that you're on his radar. He greets everyone except you? Yea, another sign. I personally don't know if this will go anywhere, but it would be interesting to see if he makes a move and sparks a conversation.

How sure are you that he's looking at you and not someone directly behind you.

"So one day i come to class and i find him sitting where i usually sit."

Very typical I like you, I'm interested in you behavior. I've only seen Caps do this, but they are sure to show up where they think you will be and pretend it was an accident instead of just asking you to hang out or whatever LOL. They are super afraid of rejection, but it's definitely not as subtle as they think...



Prepare yourself for:

Tests

Intuiting their feelings they won't express

Having to pick up on the world's most subtle hints

Having to connect the dots for them...

Basically if you can stand all of this you *may* receive someone who will be loyal. You may not.

CHEERS!

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Posted by pinkbird03
Capricorns are big mysteries. They show their feelings through actions not words. I think a lot of woman prefer concrete evidence that a man likes us and this usually involves words. So I think you'll be analyzing his actions a lot and you might even feel uncertain at times. It might feel like he's playing games. This sign takes awhile to decide if they want a serious relationship. Until then, they will take it extremely slow. I call them snail males. You will need a lot of patience!

But wouldn't actions qualify as "concrete" and words as "abstract"?

No! Words do have meaning. for a life time.....

actions=do (for i in capcricorn do; $ (actions); done)

words=life_time_itteration (for i in 1..100000000000000 do; $ (words); done)

---

Doubt thou the stars are fire;

Doubt that the sun doth move;

Doubt truth to be a liar;

But never doubt I love

--W Shakespeare (dedicated to foreverloveme)

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Words are nice, but in my opinion, when it comes to my relationship, actions trump words (not to say I don't appreciate the words.) For example, I lost my aunt this past weekend. My boyfriend could have given me his condolences and words of solice, or he could attend her funeral with me and been there to comfort me. He did both. Years from now, when I look back, I will most definitely remember the feeling of him being there for me. Then he took me to get dairy-free FroYo. Yes, I'll recall that he said the things he did, but I will never forget how he made me feel.

Update:

Hahaha 😄.... so this guy came running after me when i left class.

I had to leave class early for an appointment. As i was walking from class , i heard someone running. The person was running so fast so i stood beside to let them pass only for them to stop when they reached me. Well it was him. I was kinda shocked. He quickly introduced himself by telling me his full name. Then he told me he has been seeing another guy talking to me. This other guy is just a classmate who was asking me about a class quiz.

Before i could say anything, he left so quickly. He just ran away. I just stood in the hallway and laafed 😄

So bizarre.

Posted by netpower
Update:

Hahaha 😄.... so this guy came running after me when i left class.

I had to leave class early for an appointment. As i was walking from class , i heard someone running. The person was running so fast so i stood beside to let them pass only for them to stop when they reached me. Well it was him. I was kinda shocked. He quickly introduced himself by telling me his full name. Then he told me he has been seeing another guy talking to me. This other guy is just a classmate who was asking me about a class quiz.

Before i could say anything, he left so quickly. He just ran away. I just stood in the hallway and laafed 😄

So bizarre.

Lol adorable

he likes you haha