Caps are so hard to get over!!

I debated about posting this but I actually think it's funny. I'm finding it so hard to get over him. Sure I'm living my own life and not talking to him. Today though he said hi to me in passing and I've been walking around with a smile on my face ever since. ? Not to mention earlier I had something wrong with my computer and one of the guys forwarded my issue to him. Grr! Anyway on the phone while he was helping me, he did this grunt thing that I find sexy as hell. Needless to say I wanted to climb through the phone and kiss him something fierce. ? Anyway just laughing at myself for feeling this way. Anyone else having this problem or is it just me?

Aww why aren't you with him or why are you trying to get over him? 😢 I'm fairly new to this forum

Posted by Capri-sun
It's just you 😛

I thought so. Sometimes I dislike being a bull.

Not really

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Posted by Aerazo
Aww why aren't you with him or why are you trying to get over him? 😢 I'm fairly new to this forum

He broke up with me because he said he didn't want to be monogamous. Basically he wanted to have sex with anything that moves without strings attached. Whateeeeever. Lol. ? At least he told me the truth instead of prolonging the agony.

Alas, I still want to be with him but he'd rather be living the single life. His loss. I'm just finding it hard to get over him because he understood me like no other and he touched a piece of me that no one else has even gotten close to. Anyways sucks for me but I'll get over it eventually. Lol.

Posted by Capri-sun
It's just you 😛

Lol! My stubborn ass would have asked for someone else's help.. 😛 😛 😛

Posted by Celticmoongoddess89
I debated about posting this but I actually think it's funny. I'm finding it so hard to get over him. Sure I'm living my own life and not talking to him. Today though he said hi to me in passing and I've been walking around with a smile on my face ever since. ? Not to mention earlier I had something wrong with my computer and one of the guys forwarded my issue to him. Grr! Anyway on the phone while he was helping me, he did this grunt thing that I find sexy as hell. Needless to say I wanted to climb through the phone and kiss him something fierce. ? Anyway just laughing at myself for feeling this way. Anyone else having this problem or is it just me?

In my experience - if they're not ready for anything serious, they can leave a lot of loose ends.

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Posted by Aerazo
Aww why aren't you with him or why are you trying to get over him? 😢 I'm fairly new to this forum

He broke up with me because he said he didn't want to be monogamous. Basically he wanted to have sex with anything that moves without strings attached. Whateeeeever. Lol. ? At least he told me the truth instead of prolonging the agony.

Alas, I still want to be with him but he'd rather be living the single life. His loss. I'm just finding it hard to get over him because he understood me like no other and he touched a piece of me that no one else has even gotten close to. Anyways sucks for me but I'll get over it eventually. Lol.

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In a situation like this, that shit would suck! Like you said, at least he was honest.. but the sight of him would disgust me after he made a decision like that.. leave me so you can do you?? & ive done nothing to wrong you. He's an ass..

I guess I can see how they are hard to get over though! It would take some time to get over my cap!! He so good to me.. being without him would suck!

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Aww why aren't you with him or why are you trying to get over him? 😢 I'm fairly new to this forum

He broke up with me because he said he didn't want to be monogamous. Basically he wanted to have sex with anything that moves without strings attached. Whateeeeever. Lol. ? At least he told me the truth instead of prolonging the agony.

Alas, I still want to be with him but he'd rather be living the single life. His loss. I'm just finding it hard to get over him because he understood me like no other and he touched a piece of me that no one else has even gotten close to. Anyways sucks for me but I'll get over it eventually. Lol.

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That's true, at least he's honest with you. Same reason why I broke up with my high school crush, I felt like if we stayed together I wasn't going to be able to get experience which might lead to issues later on in our lives. Also because I was going to move to another country but he didn't know 😢

I'm sure that he cares deeply for you, otherwise he wouldn't have told you that. and if he knows you that well, then yes even better that he told you. He will probably come back when he's ready, but don't hold your life (seeing other people) for him, bc you never know.

Still I'm sure you still sort of enjoy the butterflies when you see him. Bittersweet.

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Posted by Capri-sun
It's just you 😛

I thought so. Sometimes I dislike being a bull.

Lol I was just teasing

I'm the same way. Mine was just with a scorp & pisces instead of cap.

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I found it hard to over those signs as well but this cap got me like ?? I was devastated, still am. He was literally everything I needed but again his loss. He'll find out what he's missing out on sooner or later. Probably later but still. Lol.

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Aww why aren't you with him or why are you trying to get over him? 😢 I'm fairly new to this forum

He broke up with me because he said he didn't want to be monogamous. Basically he wanted to have sex with anything that moves without strings attached. Whateeeeever. Lol. ? At least he told me the truth instead of prolonging the agony.

Alas, I still want to be with him but he'd rather be living the single life. His loss. I'm just finding it hard to get over him because he understood me like no other and he touched a piece of me that no one else has even gotten close to. Anyways sucks for me but I'll get over it eventually. Lol.

That's true, at least he's honest with you. Same reason why I broke up with my high school crush, I felt like if we stayed together I wasn't going to be able to get experience which might lead to issues later on in our lives. Also because I was going to move to another country but he didn't know 😢

I'm sure that he cares deeply for you, otherwise he wouldn't have told you that. and if he knows you that well, then yes even better that he told you. He will probably come back when he's ready, but don't hold your life (seeing other people) for him, bc you never know.

Still I'm sure you still sort of enjoy the butterflies when you see him. Bittersweet.

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I know he'll come back when he's ready but alas I'm not really waiting on him. I'm doing me like he's doing him. I'm going to school and working my tail off. ?? But yes you're right I still get butterflies when I see him. I'll get a whiff of his cologne and it just makes me miss him even more and then there's the sexual tension....?? lol. That's a whole different story.

Maybe it's an earth sign thing but it's sooooooo hard to let him go because he was so good to me, unlike any man I've ever dated. ? I guess I just need to stop holding onto the memories like it was some long drawn out love affair when it was only 3 months. ??

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Posted by Celticmoongoddess89
I debated about posting this but I actually think it's funny. I'm finding it so hard to get over him. Sure I'm living my own life and not talking to him. Today though he said hi to me in passing and I've been walking around with a smile on my face ever since. ? Not to mention earlier I had something wrong with my computer and one of the guys forwarded my issue to him. Grr! Anyway on the phone while he was helping me, he did this grunt thing that I find sexy as hell. Needless to say I wanted to climb through the phone and kiss him something fierce. ? Anyway just laughing at myself for feeling this way. Anyone else having this problem or is it just me?

In my experience - if they're not ready for anything serious, they can leave a lot of loose ends.

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Will you elaborate on your experience? That is only if you want to. ?

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Aww why aren't you with him or why are you trying to get over him? 😢 I'm fairly new to this forum

He broke up with me because he said he didn't want to be monogamous. Basically he wanted to have sex with anything that moves without strings attached. Whateeeeever. Lol. ? At least he told me the truth instead of prolonging the agony.

Alas, I still want to be with him but he'd rather be living the single life. His loss. I'm just finding it hard to get over him because he understood me like no other and he touched a piece of me that no one else has even gotten close to. Anyways sucks for me but I'll get over it eventually. Lol.

That's true, at least he's honest with you. Same reason why I broke up with my high school crush, I felt like if we stayed together I wasn't going to be able to get experience which might lead to issues later on in our lives. Also because I was going to move to another country but he didn't know 😢

I'm sure that he cares deeply for you, otherwise he wouldn't have told you that. and if he knows you that well, then yes even better that he told you. He will probably come back when he's ready, but don't hold your life (seeing other people) for him, bc you never know.

Still I'm sure you still sort of enjoy the butterflies when you see him. Bittersweet.

I know he'll come back when he's ready but alas I'm not really waiting on him. I'm doing me like he's doing him. I'm going to school and working my tail off. ?? But yes you're right I still get butterflies when I see him. I'll get a whiff of his cologne and it just makes me miss him even more and then there's the sexual tension....?? lol. That's a whole different story.

Maybe it's an earth sign thing but it's sooooooo hard to let him go because he was so good to me, unlike any man I've ever dated. ? I guess I just need to stop holding onto the memories like it was some long drawn out love affair when it was only 3 months. ??

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Awww you sound like you are so into him ? I'm sure he will realize soon enough or it wasn't meant to be.

3 months if you shared special moments together I understand but better now than later.

I know how you feel!! for me is hard to be close to my Cap and not get on top of him! ? he keeps me off of him basically.

Is not that I just want the sex, it's that our connection is deep and I just love having him ?? haha



Just let things flow, that's the best thing to do ?

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Aww why aren't you with him or why are you trying to get over him? 😢 I'm fairly new to this forum

He broke up with me because he said he didn't want to be monogamous. Basically he wanted to have sex with anything that moves without strings attached. Whateeeeever. Lol. ? At least he told me the truth instead of prolonging the agony.

Alas, I still want to be with him but he'd rather be living the single life. His loss. I'm just finding it hard to get over him because he understood me like no other and he touched a piece of me that no one else has even gotten close to. Anyways sucks for me but I'll get over it eventually. Lol.

That's true, at least he's honest with you. Same reason why I broke up with my high school crush, I felt like if we stayed together I wasn't going to be able to get experience which might lead to issues later on in our lives. Also because I was going to move to another country but he didn't know 😢

I'm sure that he cares deeply for you, otherwise he wouldn't have told you that. and if he knows you that well, then yes even better that he told you. He will probably come back when he's ready, but don't hold your life (seeing other people) for him, bc you never know.

Still I'm sure you still sort of enjoy the butterflies when you see him. Bittersweet.

I know he'll come back when he's ready but alas I'm not really waiting on him. I'm doing me like he's doing him. I'm going to school and working my tail off. ?? But yes you're right I still get butterflies when I see him. I'll get a whiff of his cologne and it just makes me miss him even more and then there's the sexual tension....?? lol. That's a whole different story.

Maybe it's an earth sign thing but it's sooooooo hard to let him go because he was so good to me, unlike any man I've ever dated. ? I guess I just need to stop holding onto the memories like it was some long drawn out love affair when it was only 3 months. ??

Awww you sound like you are so into him ? I'm sure he will realize soon enough or it wasn't meant to be.

3 months if you shared special moments together I understand but better now than later.

I know how you feel!! for me is hard to be close to my Cap and not get on top of him! ? he keeps me off of him basically.

Is not that I just want the sex, it's that our connection is deep and I just love having him ?? haha



Just let things flow, that's the best thing to do ?

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Our connection was intense too. If our living situation had been different, he would've had to keep me off of him too. ??

But yeah I'm definitely not putting my life on hold waiting for him. My main focus is getting my degree and making lots of paper (typically earth sign stuffs). Lol. The stolen glances I get from him sometimes is something else but oh well. ?

He walks around our job like a zombie. It absolutely breaks my heart. I just want to hug him but I steer clear because let's face it, the cappy coldness can be so cruel sometimes, not that he's been cruel to me. Time will tell me what to do. I just hope he's okay, I know he's been going through a lot.

Thanks for your input, I truly appreciate it. ??

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Anyone else having this problem or is it just me?

Guilty as charged.

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they're hard to get over for Taurus women yes, not Crab women, no.

This is unfortunately true @DivaCanLeo . Been trying to move on for almost two weeks from a cap man that started "ghosting" me for idk what reason. Seems like every 3-4 days, he'll reach out to me saying something random. Like today, he messaged me something odd, and I responded 5 hours later on purpose. He responded immediately saying, something along the lines that he was "randomly thinking" about a particular thing that I used to do(nothing sexual). I responded a half hr later with a joke and that's it. I don't reach out first to him anymore. 😢

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fixed signs problem ??

TRUTH

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Posted by Aerazo
Aww why aren't you with him or why are you trying to get over him? 😢 I'm fairly new to this forum

His loss. I'm just finding it hard to get over him because he understood me like no other and he touched a piece of me that no one else has even gotten close to. Anyways sucks for me but I'll get over it eventually. Lol.

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Dont sell yourself cheap.instead learn a lesson and not open your legs for anyone easily again whether they understand you or make sexy grunts like goats. (a dig at the carp lol)

Its your crab moon (give it 28 days of non communication and you will get over him easy. Ok darling. Bless your gentle gentle heart.. next time you Avoid Scorps and Carps for you... I can see future headaches with those two...

So pumpkin 28 days of no communication whatsoever ... and you will get over him. either that you can sell yourself cheap and be his fuck buddy (thats why he said hi to you to check if he still got you under is key),,, And yes he is confident he still has you.

Beware.....you've been warned.



Mephisto

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Aww why aren't you with him or why are you trying to get over him? 😢 I'm fairly new to this forum

His loss. I'm just finding it hard to get over him because he understood me like no other and he touched a piece of me that no one else has even gotten close to. Anyways sucks for me but I'll get over it eventually. Lol.

Dont sell yourself cheap.instead learn a lesson and not open your legs for anyone easily again whether they understand you or make sexy grunts like goats. (a dig at the carp lol)

Its your crab moon (give it 28 days of non communication and you will get over him easy. Ok darling. Bless your gentle gentle heart.. next time you Avoid Scorps and Carps for you... I can see future headaches with those two...

So pumpkin 28 days of no communication whatsoever ... and you will get over him. either that you can sell yourself cheap and be his fuck buddy (thats why he said hi to you to check if he still got you under is key),,, And yes he is confident he still has you.

Beware.....you've been warned.



Mephisto

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Thank you and I have never sold myself cheap and I never will. Lol. This bull has too much pride for that. And he sure as hell isnt going to get me as his fuck buddy, eff that; he can keep wishing. Thank you for the advice, it's already been a week since I've last spoke with him and it wasn't even personal, it was work things. Regardless of his sensuality, I have the willpower to not speak to him. ??

Capricorn? Grunt that makes you crazy—

Hmmmm...I haven't got one in decades...

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Capricorn? Grunt that makes you crazy—

Hmmmm...I haven't got one in decades...

I can't even describe the noise he makes, I just find it sexy as hell. Lol. So apparently he isn't the only cappy that does this? ??

Posted by youngali
i find cap men always come back...

unfortunately, i don't go backwards.

I need to learn to not go backwards. But I do miss him. I miss the 6-7 hours of laughing and joking non-stop. But one can't always get what they want, sometimes they just gotta keep it moving. If they're ever ready either they will get lucky or they will lost out because someone else got to the other person first. It is what it is.

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i find cap men always come back...

unfortunately, i don't go backwards.

I need to learn to not go backwards. But I do miss him. I miss the 6-7 hours of laughing and joking non-stop. But one can't always get what they want, sometimes they just gotta keep it moving. If they're ever ready either they will get lucky or they will lost out because someone else got to the other person first. It is what it is.

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Same. I miss him like crazy too. I texted him yesterday about something I knew he'd have the answer to and I immediately felt dumb because I still "need" him. ? I've been keeping myself distracted but I still think of him often, I wonder if that'll ever pass? ?

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i find cap men always come back...

unfortunately, i don't go backwards.

I need to learn to not go backwards. But I do miss him. I miss the 6-7 hours of laughing and joking non-stop. But one can't always get what they want, sometimes they just gotta keep it moving. If they're ever ready either they will get lucky or they will lost out because someone else got to the other person first. It is what it is.

Same. I miss him like crazy too. I texted him yesterday about something I knew he'd have the answer to and I immediately felt dumb because I still "need" him. ? I've been keeping myself distracted but I still think of him often, I wonder if that'll ever pass? ?

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It will. As they saying goes, "If it's meant to be, y'all will find a way". Started talking to someone new this weekend and he is actually interested in me, like he actually SAID IT, something my cap man lacks among other things. He's funny and he's GORGEOUS too. I find him very attractive. However, I still have that cap man on my mind here & there because of the real good times we had. But I'm going to give this other guy a try, not rushing but it'll be a distraction and if it works out then sucks for the cap but I'm not getting any younger lol. I wish the best for the cap man.

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i find cap men always come back...

unfortunately, i don't go backwards.

I need to learn to not go backwards. But I do miss him. I miss the 6-7 hours of laughing and joking non-stop. But one can't always get what they want, sometimes they just gotta keep it moving. If they're ever ready either they will get lucky or they will lost out because someone else got to the other person first. It is what it is.

Same. I miss him like crazy too. I texted him yesterday about something I knew he'd have the answer to and I immediately felt dumb because I still "need" him. ? I've been keeping myself distracted but I still think of him often, I wonder if that'll ever pass? ?

It will. As they saying goes, "If it's meant to be, y'all will find a way". Started talking to someone new this weekend and he is actually interested in me, like he actually SAID IT, something my cap man lacks among other things. He's funny and his GORGEOUS too. I find him very attractive, however, I still have that cap man in my mind here & there because of the real good times we had. But I'm going to give this other guy a try, not rushing but it'll be a distraction and if it works out then sucks for the cap but I'm not getting any younger lol. I wish the best for the cap man.

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You're totally right. I wish you well with the new GORGEOUS man in your life. ?

As for me. I will continue to keep myself busy and solely focus on myself. He's came back once before already, he'll probably do it again but I'm not waiting around for him to finally decide I'm what he wants. I have a degree to finish. Lol.

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@Celticmoongoddess89 & @Sugarandspunk you have to look at things like this, you might just end up with a Cap. But these guys just aren't YOUR cap. Yours will come along with better chemistry, breathtaking sex and compatible placements. so keep that chin up you sexy beasts! stay up.

Lol. Thank you!! Sad part is our placements were pretty compatible. Ohs well. His loss, not mine.

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i find cap men always come back...

unfortunately, i don't go backwards.

I need to learn to not go backwards. But I do miss him. I miss the 6-7 hours of laughing and joking non-stop. But one can't always get what they want, sometimes they just gotta keep it moving. If they're ever ready either they will get lucky or they will lost out because someone else got to the other person first. It is what it is.

That's the taurus in you. Taurus and Cap is just deep. My taurus moon dislikes saying bye, but the sag in me is like "ah well, keep it moving".

I find what grabs a caps attention is when you go better and stronger for yourself. Especially when you look good while doing it.

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Oh trust me when I say I'm going hard for myself and I look good doing it. Lol. I've lost 20lbs since we broke up! Ha. Living well is always the best revenge. ??

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i find cap men always come back...

unfortunately, i don't go backwards.

I need to learn to not go backwards. But I do miss him. I miss the 6-7 hours of laughing and joking non-stop. But one can't always get what they want, sometimes they just gotta keep it moving. If they're ever ready either they will get lucky or they will lost out because someone else got to the other person first. It is what it is.

That's the taurus in you. Taurus and Cap is just deep. My taurus moon dislikes saying bye, but the sag in me is like "ah well, keep it moving".

I find what grabs a caps attention is when you go better and stronger for yourself. Especially when you look good while doing it.

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That's exactly what happened when I went on a business trip 2 weeks ago. He saw so many pics of me happy and looking fine AF and having a great time. He then saw pic of me with an Aquarius guy who was also GORGEOUS, but me & that guy are just friends. He started to message me almost every day. He was initiating everything convo wise. But now, he just disappeared again. I know he's going through a VERY rough time in his 2nd career in which he is more passionate about than his 1st career, instead of it going uphill, it's going downhill. And as much as I want to be there for him and cater to him, I can't. He never allowed me to get there since we haven't hung out since November and he never opened up enough about himself to me in order for me to trust him more. It is what it is. Can't force things to happen.

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i find cap men always come back...

unfortunately, i don't go backwards.

I need to learn to not go backwards. But I do miss him. I miss the 6-7 hours of laughing and joking non-stop. But one can't always get what they want, sometimes they just gotta keep it moving. If they're ever ready either they will get lucky or they will lost out because someone else got to the other person first. It is what it is.

Same. I miss him like crazy too. I texted him yesterday about something I knew he'd have the answer to and I immediately felt dumb because I still "need" him. ? I've been keeping myself distracted but I still think of him often, I wonder if that'll ever pass? ?

It will. As they saying goes, "If it's meant to be, y'all will find a way". Started talking to someone new this weekend and he is actually interested in me, like he actually SAID IT, something my cap man lacks among other things. He's funny and his GORGEOUS too. I find him very attractive, however, I still have that cap man in my mind here & there because of the real good times we had. But I'm going to give this other guy a try, not rushing but it'll be a distraction and if it works out then sucks for the cap but I'm not getting any younger lol. I wish the best for the cap man.

You're totally right. I wish you well with the new GORGEOUS man in your life. ?

As for me. I will continue to keep myself busy and solely focus on myself. He's came back once before already, he'll probably do it again but I'm not waiting around for him to finally decide I'm what he wants. I have a degree to finish. Lol.

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Thanks beautiful. He's a Libra, but he doesn't seem like the crazy Libra like the first one from last Saturday which I cut off super fast, so I'm just taking it day by day with this one since it is still very, very new.

Good luck on that degree woman! Hope you reach your goals! Once you do, you'll be unstoppable! Degree in what exactly?

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i find cap men always come back...

unfortunately, i don't go backwards.

I need to learn to not go backwards. But I do miss him. I miss the 6-7 hours of laughing and joking non-stop. But one can't always get what they want, sometimes they just gotta keep it moving. If they're ever ready either they will get lucky or they will lost out because someone else got to the other person first. It is what it is.

Same. I miss him like crazy too. I texted him yesterday about something I knew he'd have the answer to and I immediately felt dumb because I still "need" him. ? I've been keeping myself distracted but I still think of him often, I wonder if that'll ever pass? ?

It will. As they saying goes, "If it's meant to be, y'all will find a way". Started talking to someone new this weekend and he is actually interested in me, like he actually SAID IT, something my cap man lacks among other things. He's funny and his GORGEOUS too. I find him very attractive, however, I still have that cap man in my mind here & there because of the real good times we had. But I'm going to give this other guy a try, not rushing but it'll be a distraction and if it works out then sucks for the cap but I'm not getting any younger lol. I wish the best for the cap man.

You're totally right. I wish you well with the new GORGEOUS man in your life. ?

As for me. I will continue to keep myself busy and solely focus on myself. He's came back once before already, he'll probably do it again but I'm not waiting around for him to finally decide I'm what he wants. I have a degree to finish. Lol.

Thanks beautiful. He's a Libra, but he doesn't seem like the crazy Libra like the first one from last Saturday which I cut off super fast, so I'm just taking it day by day with this one since it is still very, very new.

Good luck on that degree woman! Hope you reach your goals! Once you do, you'll be unstoppable! Degree in what exactly?

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Health information. I'm already working in the field but doesn't hurt to have the degree under my belt too.

So he came back around, like I knew he would. ? Texted all night last night. Felt good to talk to him like a friend again.

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So he came back around, like I knew he would. ? Texted all night last night. Felt good to talk to him like a friend again.

LMAO! @Celticmoongoddess89 ! Mine came around last night too! We spoke on skype for a little while. Felt refreshing talking to someone who I can be myself around and not feel weird about it. Was good to hear his voice and his laugh. It was nice but now I know where I stand, as just friends based on how he's been living. It's for the best for me, because I move on in peace.

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So he came back around, like I knew he would. ? Texted all night last night. Felt good to talk to him like a friend again.

LMAO! @Celticmoongoddess89 ! Mine came around last night too! We spoke on skype for a little while. Felt refreshing talking to someone who I can be myself around and not feel weird about it. Was good to hear his voice and his laugh. It was nice but now I know where I stand, as just friends based on how he's been living. It's for the best for me, because I move on in peace.

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I totally get that! He's pretty transparent but we both agreed that we'd be friendly to each other instead of acting like the other doesn't exist.

Alright y'all. I need help keeping me in check. Lol. He's been texting me non stop since Thursday night. He's showing "interest" in me again. I.e asking me how my day was, offering me help with my math homework and offering to help move furniture up into my new apartment. He's totally just being friendly right? I'm not really trying to read too much because my walls are concrete at this point. Just want someone else to calm me down too! HAAAAALLLLPPPP!! ??

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Alright y'all. I need help keeping me in check. Lol. He's been texting me non stop since Thursday night. He's showing "interest" in me again. I.e asking me how my day was, offering me help with my math homework and offering to help move furniture up into my new apartment. He's totally just being friendly right? I'm not really trying to read too much because my walls are concrete at this point. Just want someone else to calm me down too! HAAAAALLLLPPPP!! ??

I would just be very "cautious". Mine was like that too for a week straight. He always reached out to me since I had stopped reaching out to him. Then he disappeared for 10 days, came back and talked me for a while the day he came back while explaining what's been really happening to him, wanting to know how I've been, blah blah blah and now he's gone again lol. Only difference is, I only want him as a friend now, not a potential bf candidate lol

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Alright y'all. I need help keeping me in check. Lol. He's been texting me non stop since Thursday night. He's showing "interest" in me again. I.e asking me how my day was, offering me help with my math homework and offering to help move furniture up into my new apartment. He's totally just being friendly right? I'm not really trying to read too much because my walls are concrete at this point. Just want someone else to calm me down too! HAAAAALLLLPPPP!! ??

I would just be very "cautious". Mine was like that too for a week straight. He always reached out to me since I had stopped reaching out to him. Then he disappeared for 10 days, came back and talked me for a while the day he came back while explaining what's been really happening to him, wanting to know how I've been, blah blah blah and now he's gone again lol. Only difference is, I only want him as a friend now, not a potential bf candidate lol

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Seriously though it's like okay, I know you're only around for a short amount of time so just tell me for how long. Lol.

Thank you!! ??

Posted by Celticmoongoddess89
I debated about posting this but I actually think it's funny. I'm finding it so hard to get over him. Sure I'm living my own life and not talking to him. Today though he said hi to me in passing and I've been walking around with a smile on my face ever since. ? Not to mention earlier I had something wrong with my computer and one of the guys forwarded my issue to him. Grr! Anyway on the phone while he was helping me, he did this grunt thing that I find sexy as hell. Needless to say I wanted to climb through the phone and kiss him something fierce. ? Anyway just laughing at myself for feeling this way. Anyone else having this problem or is it just me?

No! Every other 11 signs are easy to get over.

It's just if you let's say we're having 3 kids wit...Libra and he left - no big deal! You just sing your way to work or supermarket...

If your Leo left you for your sister - who really cares? It's notnlikenifnhebwS a Cap!

If your Aqua went shopping and never returned - put favorite tunes on and shake your booty!

Or if your Gem forgot to show up at the church on your wedding day - just go to the reception and make bar prices go up twice!

But if Cap...OMG! Rope and soap is the answer!

Lmao

Posted by youngali
They're gaming.

You're probably right!

Once you realize they're not that great (and you will), you will giggle at how obsessed you were at one point (now).

Speaking from experience.

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Alright y'all. I need help keeping me in check. Lol. He's been texting me non stop since Thursday night. He's showing "interest" in me again. I.e asking me how my day was, offering me help with my math homework and offering to help move furniture up into my new apartment. He's totally just being friendly right? I'm not really trying to read too much because my walls are concrete at this point. Just want someone else to calm me down too! HAAAAALLLLPPPP!! ??

hmmm not sure of the particulars at this point but girl you need to slow your roll or he may do the same thing to you again ... think about that and how you don't deserve that because someone else is "confused" and "awwww poor baby" ... the reality needs to be first priority and that's it

give it time, lots of time and I'm not talking a day week month or year ... this is your life - don't get into something that isn't good for you ...

just hope it all works out for you - you seem to have a lot going for yourself ...

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Alright y'all. I need help keeping me in check. Lol. He's been texting me non stop since Thursday night. He's showing "interest" in me again. I.e asking me how my day was, offering me help with my math homework and offering to help move furniture up into my new apartment. He's totally just being friendly right? I'm not really trying to read too much because my walls are concrete at this point. Just want someone else to calm me down too! HAAAAALLLLPPPP!! ??

hmmm not sure of the particulars at this point but girl you need to slow your roll or he may do the same thing to you again ... think about that and how you don't deserve that because someone else is "confused" and "awwww poor baby" ... the reality needs to be first priority and that's it

give it time, lots of time and I'm not talking a day week month or year ... this is your life - don't get into something that isn't good for you ...

just hope it all works out for you - you seem to have a lot going for yourself ...

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You're totally right!! I need to slow the eff down. Just cause he's showing interest, doesn't mean anything. Thanks for putting my head back in the right place. ?

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Posted by Celticmoongoddess89
Alright y'all. I need help keeping me in check. Lol. He's been texting me non stop since Thursday night. He's showing "interest" in me again. I.e asking me how my day was, offering me help with my math homework and offering to help move furniture up into my new apartment. He's totally just being friendly right? I'm not really trying to read too much because my walls are concrete at this point. Just want someone else to calm me down too! HAAAAALLLLPPPP!! ??

hmmm not sure of the particulars at this point but girl you need to slow your roll or he may do the same thing to you again ... think about that and how you don't deserve that because someone else is "confused" and "awwww poor baby" ... the reality needs to be first priority and that's it

give it time, lots of time and I'm not talking a day week month or year ... this is your life - don't get into something that isn't good for you ...

just hope it all works out for you - you seem to have a lot going for yourself ...

You're totally right!! I need to slow the eff down. Just cause he's showing interest, doesn't mean anything. Thanks for putting my head back in the right place. ?

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whew, good - he just doesn't seem like he really knows himself enough to be solid with anything long term so just be very careful and cautious and try not to fall for him showing interest - yea it's great but what does it all mean to him is the question -

My wife is still hung up on her cap ex....l don't mind, l see she can't help it...and he's a tough, cold old fvk. She was just 15 and he was like 27. Always avoided being seen with her...she felt like he didnt really like her...but later he admitted his love, but she was already with someone else....l think caps are at the top, it's quite obvious...they must be the most desirable people. I was in love wi a cap at school.

OP take your time with this guy. It will help you keep things in perspective and, besides, its clear he is not in a rush anyway.

Posted by youngali
from my experience, i feel like Capricorn dudes come back around once they see that you're doing good and looking good without them. it's game. it's the chase and it's the challenge of seeing whether they can get you to fall for them again. it's basically to see if they "still got it".

Gasp!!!

I thought you loved me!!!

😄

Posted by youngali
from my experience, i feel like Capricorn dudes come back around once they see that you're doing good and looking good without them. it's game. it's the chase and it's the challenge of seeing whether they can get you to fall for them again. it's basically to see if they "still got it".

I don't like that game. -_-

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If anyone can handle a Cap, it would be a scorpio. They talk the same talk, and play the same game.

sneaky sneaky.

So it seems my ex cap is back with his ex wife Scorpio. He was apparently keeping our friendship under wraps from her and I wasn't having it. I need to be the bigger person here and let him go but it seems he doesn't want to let me go. He still keeps trying to talk to me. Oh well. Time heals all wounds even this one. I wished him and wife well that's all I can do.