So I'm a Leo woman whose been engaged to a Cappie guy since May of 2017. I'm terrified of marriage because I don't want to make the mistake of marrying someone I shouldn't and for that reason we haven't gotten married.. Don't get me wrong he treats me like a queen and he has also stepped up to be a father to my two kids.. He supports us financially.. He even got us a place in both our names.. And he so desperately wants to marry me but I'm not sure.. We went from friends w/ benefits to a relationship now to being engaged.. During the course of our relationship we have been through a lot because in the past he couldn't let go of his ex.. He cheated on me with her two months into our relationship and a year ago during our breakup he went back and had sex with her which was five months after his infidelity.. Because of that I'm afraid to marry him even though he swears he's over her and hasnt messed with her in a year and wants to marry me.. I don't know if I should believe him.. I love him but I don't want to be stupid. How do I know that he is being truthful and really serious about marrying me... How can I tell if he is completely over/done with his ex?? Please help cause marriage is SERIOUS and I'm not about to take that big commitment if he's not 100% percent ready..
