Andalusia
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Thank you for the reminder. Definitely needed it. ?
Posted by yupvirgooI dunno.. maybe? I've posted about him before. We 'dated' briefly then he ghosted, only to come back a year later and pursue me. Only for us to start 'dating' again and him to ghost again. Only for us to start talking a couple months later and then him to tell me** he "just really valued his alone time" and couldn't offer me the communication and connection that I was looking for.
Did he string you along?
My Gem aunt has Leo venus and Leo mars and she's had a string of unfortunate relationships.
Except that one time with a Sag but that also didn't work out for too long.
**tell me that ^^ after I made it clear I wasn't in the market for anything casual.
I said 'dating' in quotes because I was never sure what we were, but he would tell everyone [but me] that we were dating and about how much I meant to him and how much he respected me and blah blah blah.
I used to think he was just young and shy. But now I think it was just immature and low key manipulative. Telling things to other people cause he knows that I'll hear it, but never telling me those things himself so he wouldn't have to be held accountable for them.
That's probably the best way to go about Cap men ..... let them go with their own flow..... just act like they don't exist so when they show up you were not expecting it. and if they go for good then you were "prepared".
Posted by Andalusia
Which hurts. Way fucking worse than it should.
Any girl that is questioning where you stand with a Capricorn - if you have to question, then you're not important. To him at least.
Also, fuck him.
Did you ever ask him if he was single?
lol I'm about to block his number right now. Thank you for the reminder. The manipulative shit mine has pulled this week makes me angry all over again after reading this. Hugs everyone! Heal heal heal.
Everyone put R Kelly in your phone of picture RKelly when you see him. I bet you Won't think about entertaining his bull shit then lol.
Posted by magikarpThe fear excuse gets old. I swear sometimes I think Cap men are really secret Sags with a PR firm (public image). Yall don't really want to commit. Relationships are just accessories.
trivia: When capricorn love you deeply biggest chance also he will leave you, because they do believe in true loves but afraid of it.
All the negative talk about Cap men worry me... 😢 I'd like to hope I have a good one...
Posted by ParisianCappyLol you always tickle me I wish you could hear my mental voice for you.
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
Posted by poison_ivyThey are amazing when they know what they want. I have lots of positive Cap people around me but I also know how they can be when they don't give a fuck.
All the negative talk about Cap men worry me... 😢 I'd like to hope I have a good one...
Posted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?
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I have heard this before. I think maybe @SirHorns may have made a statement about how confident older women were.
Posted by Capri-sunVery sexy with lots of exasperation and hidden humor hahaPosted by ladylibra21He's French so I'm sure it's sexy 😉Posted by ParisianCappyLol you always tickle me I wish you could hear my mental voice for you.
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hideclick to expand
Posted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?click to expand
I posted a thread the other day about a Cap man who recently told me I'm like a trophy to him. he has also said that he is in love with me.
Posted by ladylibra21I agree! I'm in a LDR w one.. so it has it's difficult moments.. He's not an "emo" like me and sometimes he comes off as shy.. (nonchalant).. I have to pull it out of him.. But he's very possesive and protective over me.. When we're together, he's amazing! Very chivalrous ... But I always read these topics and my mind starts to play games with my heart.. I've gotten used to his "ghosting" moments cause he always comes back .. not something I prefer in a bf tho.. He's not a phone person.. Not alot of texting/phone calls.. It's not good for a LDR but I give him his space cause I need my own space at times.. I'm getting used to a man that I never thought I'd end up with.. It's different.. Plus my dad is a cap & I see alot of my dad in my bf! o_OPosted by poison_ivyThey are amazing when they know what they want. I have lots of positive Cap people around me but I also know how they can be when they don't give a fuck.
All the negative talk about Cap men worry me... 😢 I'd like to hope I have a good one...
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I read your post about your cap interest (coworker).. How has that been lately? any updates!! 🙂
Posted by ParisianCappyPosted by Aerazoyou seems affraid asfuk when you said this to mePosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
I posted a thread the other day about a Cap man who recently told me I'm like a trophy to him. he has also said that he is in love with me.
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I am because this is the cap that's offering me and my girls a whole life together.
He's 36, I'm 29, we know each other for 8 yrs at least and like you said at that time it was too late for us to meet... but now I'm single and he's back to pursuing me, he said that he has worked and will continue to work very hard for Me and my kids (he has kids too).
Also we have a business partnership and our ideals to help other people are the same.
it still terrifies me
Posted by ParisianCappyDifferent Caps ? Cap #4 is still around texting me every day and sends me videos but I haven't seen him since my birthday 3 weeks agoPosted by Aerazoyou finished your study, and he don't, you have kids and he don't. yes you are a trophy, in his mind it was impossible to handle a women like you. what do you think right nowPosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
I posted a thread the other day about a Cap man who recently told me I'm like a trophy to him. he has also said that he is in love with me.
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Posted by ParisianCappyI know haha the older cap I feel has stepped up because I told him I started seeing the other cap and told him the reasons why I like him and he said but you know I'm already everything you are seeing he will become.Posted by Aerazook, i'm sorry for what i've said. you know :-P i'm not reading whole story about all your capman,Posted by ParisianCappyPosted by Aerazoyou seems affraid asfuk when you said this to mePosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
I posted a thread the other day about a Cap man who recently told me I'm like a trophy to him. he has also said that he is in love with me.
I am because this is the cap that's offering me and my girls a whole life together.
He's 36, I'm 29, we know each other for 8 yrs at least and like you said at that time it was too late for us to meet... but now I'm single and he's back to pursuing me, he said that he has worked and will continue to work very hard for Me and my kids (he has kids too).
Also we have a business partnership and our ideals to help other people are the same.
it still terrifies me
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It's true and is not that I don't like him is just that I closed down all my options with him years ago and I sort of "got over him" but I know If I let him get closer to me everything will opened up again —
Posted by Capri-sunI've noticed that cap men do do like older women or women that are established and mentally mature. I could be wrong don't quote me lolPosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?
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Posted by poison_ivyI can agree with most of that with my Cap I'm in a LDR with. Plus my dad is a Cap too. His texting is very good though but he has his ghosting moments.Posted by ladylibra21I agree! I'm in a LDR w one.. so it has it's difficult moments.. He's not an "emo" like me and sometimes he comes off as shy.. (nonchalant).. I have to pull it out of him.. But he's very possesive and protective over me.. When we're together, he's amazing! Very chivalrous ... But I always read these topics and my mind starts to play games with my heart.. I've gotten used to his "ghosting" moments cause he always comes back .. not something I prefer in a bf tho.. He's not a phone person.. Not alot of texting/phone calls.. It's not good for a LDR but I give him his space cause I need my own space at times.. I'm getting used to a man that I never thought I'd end up with.. It's different.. Plus my dad is a cap & I see alot of my dad in my bf! o_OPosted by poison_ivyThey are amazing when they know what they want. I have lots of positive Cap people around me but I also know how they can be when they don't give a fuck.
All the negative talk about Cap men worry me... 😢 I'd like to hope I have a good one...
I read your post about your cap interest (coworker).. How has that been lately? any updates!! 🙂click to expand
Posted by ParisianCappyYou're not disagreeing though ?Posted by WonderWoman14i've already spoke too muchPosted by Capri-sunI've noticed that cap men do do like older women or women that are established and mentally mature. I could be wrong don't quote me lolPosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?
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Posted by ParisianCappyimportant ones (3)Posted by AerazoJe comprend rien, how many caps there is ?Posted by ParisianCappyI know haha the older cap I feel has stepped up because I told him I started seeing the other cap and told him the reasons why I like him and he said but you know I'm already everything you are seeing he will become.Posted by Aerazook, i'm sorry for what i've said. you know :-P i'm not reading whole story about all your capman,Posted by ParisianCappyPosted by Aerazoyou seems affraid asfuk when you said this to mePosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
I posted a thread the other day about a Cap man who recently told me I'm like a trophy to him. he has also said that he is in love with me.
I am because this is the cap that's offering me and my girls a whole life together.
He's 36, I'm 29, we know each other for 8 yrs at least and like you said at that time it was too late for us to meet... but now I'm single and he's back to pursuing me, he said that he has worked and will continue to work very hard for Me and my kids (he has kids too).
Also we have a business partnership and our ideals to help other people are the same.
it still terrifies me
It's true and is not that I don't like him is just that I closed down all my options with him years ago and I sort of "got over him" but I know If I let him get closer to me everything will opened up again —
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my ex husband of 12 yrs but we are friends now, he wanted to get back together but I can't be with him anymore.
cap (2) I've known him for 8 yrs (he's actually still married but separated)
Cap (3) the newbie, I like him a lot and he's
cap (2)in the making .. but he's still in school and I do understand that he has no kids and I do. That's why I'm not pushy with him. if he wants to be with me he will come around.
By the time he does, it might be too late.. ?
Posted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunWhen ladylibra come on dxp she told us that she has kids and working on the same environnement as his cap, but look the relation of poison_ivy, the capricorn has kids and dont work on the same place. instant in couple.Posted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
i mean if he was the boss and didnt risk to have problem problem he won't care about that flag but he's not,
kids are the most important thing in a whole life, and you already have two ? one ? i dont remenber. i remenber here a scorpio girls she has a daughter the cap man still finished to married with her. the point is
if i havnt finished my carrier, i mean i'm not at the place i want to be, i wont have child'. the second if i'm not the place where i want to be but i still have child, i wont mind to be in couple with someone who has child.
i think you both are compatible souls but you met too soon or too late
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It makes sense..
I have 1 kid he has 2.. We are LDR ... about an hour and a half apart... He's trying to start another biz besides his other 4 jobs.. & he just got pnuemonia.. so that's taking a toll.. I check up on him but he's not as proactive.. It's ok. I'm not worried... I'm his first gf in 3 years after his kids mom.. He dated of course between the time before meeting me... but the fact that he chose me after so much dating...? I can see I'm important.. But what about when he says to me recently "You live too far" (playing around but complaining) Then when I say "ok, we can fix that, I'll move close to you..." etc, he says "no.. You have your place, job, biz etc I don't want you to drop all that.." I tell him "Im not dropping it.. Just making our relationship stronger.. by moving closer... I can move my biz and my place.. I'll find another 9-5.. I'm in accounting.. I want to be with you.." I understand he doesn't wanna be selfish.. then why complain..?
Posted by ParisianCappyYou both give good advice.. You just add flavah to your advice.. te hee hee! 😉
but mb im sayin shit, pls dont listen my advice and keeps calling @daron76
Posted by Capri-sunI agree...Posted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunWhen ladylibra come on dxp she told us that she has kids and working on the same environnement as his cap, but look the relation of poison_ivy, the capricorn has kids and dont work on the same place. instant in couple.Posted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
i mean if he was the boss and didnt risk to have problem problem he won't care about that flag but he's not,
kids are the most important thing in a whole life, and you already have two ? one ? i dont remenber. i remenber here a scorpio girls she has a daughter the cap man still finished to married with her. the point is
if i havnt finished my carrier, i mean i'm not at the place i want to be, i wont have child'. the second if i'm not the place where i want to be but i still have child, i wont mind to be in couple with someone who has child.
i think you both are compatible souls but you met too soon or too late
I'm like this one date too. I prefer dating someone who's on the same page as me. If he doesn't have kids then I'm skeptical because I don't know how he will be around mine and if he might ever want kids one day. Also with men who have all their kids since mine are still young. If his kids are too young that's also turn off like a one year old is too fresh for me. Same thing with school I would want someone who's working full-time the same way I am.
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Makes sense.. Me and my cap both work 9-5's & have businesses.. His kids are older.. He has a 7 & 5 Year old and I have a 6 year old.. So our kids are around the same age.. I agree that a man with a 1 year old.. 2... 3 even.. is too fresh! We gotta be sorta on the same page.. or we clash.
Posted by WonderWoman14I always feel good when someone relates.. hahah.. I mean besides the texting.. My cap will text whenever I text.. answer when I call or when I ask him to call, he will.. But he's a "straight to the point" guy... So I don't hold him long since I know how he is... He's a lot of fun to talk to.. we vibe.. never a dull moment with us.. but it's better when we're together! 🙂Posted by poison_ivyI can agree with most of that with my Cap I'm in a LDR with. Plus my dad is a Cap too. His texting is very good though but he has his ghosting moments.Posted by ladylibra21I agree! I'm in a LDR w one.. so it has it's difficult moments.. He's not an "emo" like me and sometimes he comes off as shy.. (nonchalant).. I have to pull it out of him.. But he's very possesive and protective over me.. When we're together, he's amazing! Very chivalrous ... But I always read these topics and my mind starts to play games with my heart.. I've gotten used to his "ghosting" moments cause he always comes back .. not something I prefer in a bf tho.. He's not a phone person.. Not alot of texting/phone calls.. It's not good for a LDR but I give him his space cause I need my own space at times.. I'm getting used to a man that I never thought I'd end up with.. It's different.. Plus my dad is a cap & I see alot of my dad in my bf! o_OPosted by poison_ivyThey are amazing when they know what they want. I have lots of positive Cap people around me but I also know how they can be when they don't give a fuck.
All the negative talk about Cap men worry me... 😢 I'd like to hope I have a good one...
I read your post about your cap interest (coworker).. How has that been lately? any updates!! 🙂
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Lets not totally hate on cap men. Some are probably great in relationships. We just don't hear about them often because most people don't come on here to share their success stories.
But as the evidence often shows, if you are questioning your relationship on dxp, it's just not working out and most likely won't end in a happily ever after. Something is incompatible.
I still have hope though for all the girls that date those dreamy hunks of men! Anything is possible!
But as the evidence often shows, if you are questioning your relationship on dxp, it's just not working out and most likely won't end in a happily ever after. Something is incompatible.
I still have hope though for all the girls that date those dreamy hunks of men! Anything is possible!
Posted by ladylibra21#DEAD LMAO
Everyone put R Kelly in your phone of picture RKelly when you see him. I bet you Won't think about entertaining his bull shit then lol.
Posted by pinkbird03@daron76 reminds me of my bae! Of course the way he writes.. (sounds like bae) Plus they both have alot of the same signs in their chart! LOL! I need all his secretttttsss! LOL!
@daron76 and @CAPS-LOCK
^^^Only cap men I will ever like ^^^
Posted by youngaliPosted by ladylibra21Yup, i've been saying that Capricorn & Sagittarius men are neck and neck on the heartbreaker chart.Posted by magikarpThe fear excuse gets old. I swear sometimes I think Cap men are really secret Sags with a PR firm (public image). Yall don't really want to commit. Relationships are just accessories.
trivia: When capricorn love you deeply biggest chance also he will leave you, because they do believe in true loves but afraid of it.
the only difference is Caps are more low-key about it. Sags just ain't shit on a high key.
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lol legit and I have dealt with tons of Sags only a few romantically but I was with my son's father from almost 6 years the level of selfishness is unreal but that could just be him
Posted by ParisianCappyPosted by WonderWoman14i've already spoke too muchPosted by Capri-sunI've noticed that cap men do do like older women or women that are established and mentally mature. I could be wrong don't quote me lolPosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?
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I'm glad we were able to be part of your moment of "Enlightenment" ?
Posted by poison_ivyDitto to all that ? I'm going to PM you if that's okPosted by WonderWoman14I always feel good when someone relates.. hahah.. I mean besides the texting.. My cap will text whenever I text.. answer when I call or when I ask him to call, he will.. But he's a "straight to the point" guy... So I don't hold him long since I know how he is... He's a lot of fun to talk to.. we vibe.. never a dull moment with us.. but it's better when we're together! 🙂Posted by poison_ivyI can agree with most of that with my Cap I'm in a LDR with. Plus my dad is a Cap too. His texting is very good though but he has his ghosting moments.Posted by ladylibra21I agree! I'm in a LDR w one.. so it has it's difficult moments.. He's not an "emo" like me and sometimes he comes off as shy.. (nonchalant).. I have to pull it out of him.. But he's very possesive and protective over me.. When we're together, he's amazing! Very chivalrous ... But I always read these topics and my mind starts to play games with my heart.. I've gotten used to his "ghosting" moments cause he always comes back .. not something I prefer in a bf tho.. He's not a phone person.. Not alot of texting/phone calls.. It's not good for a LDR but I give him his space cause I need my own space at times.. I'm getting used to a man that I never thought I'd end up with.. It's different.. Plus my dad is a cap & I see alot of my dad in my bf! o_OPosted by poison_ivyThey are amazing when they know what they want. I have lots of positive Cap people around me but I also know how they can be when they don't give a fuck.
All the negative talk about Cap men worry me... 😢 I'd like to hope I have a good one...
I read your post about your cap interest (coworker).. How has that been lately? any updates!! 🙂
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Posted by WonderWoman14Yes they do, they don't like whiny girls, if you can take and answer back at their sarcastic comments you're pre-approved lolPosted by Capri-sunI've noticed that cap men do do like older women or women that are established and mentally mature. I could be wrong don't quote me lolPosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?
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Posted by poison_ivyPosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunWhen ladylibra come on dxp she told us that she has kids and working on the same environnement as his cap, but look the relation of poison_ivy, the capricorn has kids and dont work on the same place. instant in couple.Posted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
i mean if he was the boss and didnt risk to have problem problem he won't care about that flag but he's not,
kids are the most important thing in a whole life, and you already have two ? one ? i dont remenber. i remenber here a scorpio girls she has a daughter the cap man still finished to married with her. the point is
if i havnt finished my carrier, i mean i'm not at the place i want to be, i wont have child'. the second if i'm not the place where i want to be but i still have child, i wont mind to be in couple with someone who has child.
i think you both are compatible souls but you met too soon or too late
It makes sense..
I have 1 kid he has 2.. We are LDR ... about an hour and a half apart... He's trying to start another biz besides his other 4 jobs.. & he just got pnuemonia.. so that's taking a toll.. I check up on him but he's not as proactive.. It's ok. I'm not worried... I'm his first gf in 3 years after his kids mom.. He dated of course between the time before meeting me... but the fact that he chose me after so much dating...? I can see I'm important.. But what about when he says to me recently "You live too far" (playing around but complaining) Then when I say "ok, we can fix that, I'll move close to you..." etc, he says "no.. You have your place, job, biz etc I don't want you to drop all that.." I tell him "Im not dropping it.. Just making our relationship stronger.. by moving closer... I can move my biz and my place.. I'll find another 9-5.. I'm in accounting.. I want to be with you.." I understand he doesn't wanna be selfish.. then why complain..?
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I've seen they like women with kids, with my ex husband I already had a girl with another Cap (in another country) when I met him. we were 15 yrs old and he decided to take on the relationship. I never pushed him to love my kid as his, it all came naturally. ☺
They see you as someone responsible by the way you take care of your kids.
They are traditional, they like to have a home with a wife and kids, a wife that will take care of them all (including him) and he will provide for all.
Posted by WonderWoman14COOL w me!! 🙂Posted by poison_ivyDitto to all that ? I'm going to PM you if that's okPosted by WonderWoman14I always feel good when someone relates.. hahah.. I mean besides the texting.. My cap will text whenever I text.. answer when I call or when I ask him to call, he will.. But he's a "straight to the point" guy... So I don't hold him long since I know how he is... He's a lot of fun to talk to.. we vibe.. never a dull moment with us.. but it's better when we're together! 🙂Posted by poison_ivyI can agree with most of that with my Cap I'm in a LDR with. Plus my dad is a Cap too. His texting is very good though but he has his ghosting moments.Posted by ladylibra21I agree! I'm in a LDR w one.. so it has it's difficult moments.. He's not an "emo" like me and sometimes he comes off as shy.. (nonchalant).. I have to pull it out of him.. But he's very possesive and protective over me.. When we're together, he's amazing! Very chivalrous ... But I always read these topics and my mind starts to play games with my heart.. I've gotten used to his "ghosting" moments cause he always comes back .. not something I prefer in a bf tho.. He's not a phone person.. Not alot of texting/phone calls.. It's not good for a LDR but I give him his space cause I need my own space at times.. I'm getting used to a man that I never thought I'd end up with.. It's different.. Plus my dad is a cap & I see alot of my dad in my bf! o_OPosted by poison_ivyThey are amazing when they know what they want. I have lots of positive Cap people around me but I also know how they can be when they don't give a fuck.
All the negative talk about Cap men worry me... 😢 I'd like to hope I have a good one...
I read your post about your cap interest (coworker).. How has that been lately? any updates!! 🙂
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Posted by WonderWoman14I'm 5 years older than the cap that comes and goes in my life. I am well established in my career in the sense of stability and financially stable. He has a decent job but does other side jobs to make more money. I love his ambitious side. Just wish he was just as ambitious with me lol.Posted by Capri-sunI've noticed that cap men do do like older women or women that are established and mentally mature. I could be wrong don't quote me lolPosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?
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Posted by Capri-sunYes, or "separated" He doesn't go out to clubs but I have seen his wife at clubs with her friends and dancing with guys so it makes sense when he says that they're not together and that she told him that she understands that one day he will want to be with someone he loves so she's ready to step away.Posted by AerazoPosted by ParisianCappyDifferent Caps ? Cap #4 is still around texting me every day and sends me videos but I haven't seen him since my birthday 3 weeks agoPosted by Aerazoyou finished your study, and he don't, you have kids and he don't. yes you are a trophy, in his mind it was impossible to handle a women like you. what do you think right nowPosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
I posted a thread the other day about a Cap man who recently told me I'm like a trophy to him. he has also said that he is in love with me.
Is this the one that is married?
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He brought her from another country and she has no family here so he told me that one main rule is that he will take her of her financially forever. She doesn't work.
He's going to latin america for 7 months... when i asked him why he wants to be with me if hes not gonna be around he said: It's only to be able to provide for the people I love and That includes you and the girls. (Besides his kids and wife) Just want all three of you in my life.
Also when he got married it was a huge surprise and he had kids right away so I asked him why did he marry her and he said bc she was the only woman I told exactly what I wanted and took it without question.
(I know he had a lot of failed relationships and apparently I'm the one he loves... the reason why I hold back is bc I don't trust him yet, and I told him that when I realized I didn't want to be with my ex, I left him, I dropped out of school, to work full time, take care of my kids 24/7, I did a lot to get out of that relationship to be able to be with someone else later)
also, I have never suggested him to leave her for me... and I haven't assured him that if he does move out I will be with him.
Posted by SugarandSpunkAww I just think he's scared to not be able to give you what he wants. They are the head of household type and he would want to make sure that he has everything to have you as a queen.Posted by WonderWoman14I'm 5 years older than the cap that comes and goes in my life. I am well established in my career in the sense of stability and financially stable. He has a decent job but does other side jobs to make more money. I love his ambitious side. Just wish he was just as ambitious with me lol.Posted by Capri-sunI've noticed that cap men do do like older women or women that are established and mentally mature. I could be wrong don't quote me lolPosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?
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Posted by AerazoIf that's what he's really feeling then that would suck. I've noticed him not being as active as he used to be on social media. Something must be wrong with him. Maybe he's going through something. I'm not hitting him up. He can take as much time as he needs. I've gotten somewhat used to it by now. I have a bad habit of spoiling the men in my life. Wish I knew what he wants to give me (other than the obvious 😉 lol). Aside from that all I need is just a faithful loving bf, that's it. I don't need his money, I know I make much more than him and money isn't always everything.Posted by SugarandSpunkAww I just think he's scared to not be able to give you what he wants. They are the head of household type and he would want to make sure that he has everything to have you as a queen.Posted by WonderWoman14I'm 5 years older than the cap that comes and goes in my life. I am well established in my career in the sense of stability and financially stable. He has a decent job but does other side jobs to make more money. I love his ambitious side. Just wish he was just as ambitious with me lol.Posted by Capri-sunI've noticed that cap men do do like older women or women that are established and mentally mature. I could be wrong don't quote me lolPosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?
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Posted by poison_ivyDon't be. Same thing happens on the Scorpio board. Remember, DXP is essentially a historical account of random relationships written from the victims point of view. So take it all with a grain of salt.
All the negative talk about Cap men worry me... 😢 I'd like to hope I have a good one...
Posted by daron76Yea, we got a bad rep also! Guess every sign does!Posted by poison_ivyDon't be. Same thing happens on the Scorpio board. Remember, DXP is essentially a historical account of random relationships written from the victims point of view. So take it all with a grain of salt.
All the negative talk about Cap men worry me... 😢 I'd like to hope I have a good one...
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@daron76 and @CAPS-LOCK
^^^Only cap men I will ever like ^^^
Posted by daron76Posted by poison_ivyDon't be. Same thing happens on the Scorpio board. Remember, DXP is essentially a historical account of random relationships written from the victims point of view. So take it all with a grain of salt.
All the negative talk about Cap men worry me... 😢 I'd like to hope I have a good one...
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Great point of view... Sometimes we don't realize the things we do that make them act in that way as well, even if we don't mean to.
Also, I believe that every person brings out a different side of me... I'm one way with one guy and another way with another one. I'm sure it happens the same thing to them...so sometimes basing relationships on simply Zodiac signs doesn't resolve the whole dilemma.
Posted by SugarandSpunkWhat do you mean by comes and goes? do you have a casual relationship?Posted by WonderWoman14I'm 5 years older than the cap that comes and goes in my life. I am well established in my career in the sense of stability and financially stable. He has a decent job but does other side jobs to make more money. I love his ambitious side. Just wish he was just as ambitious with me lol.Posted by Capri-sunI've noticed that cap men do do like older women or women that are established and mentally mature. I could be wrong don't quote me lolPosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?
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Posted by Aerazosarcasm is my speciality, I've just learnt that it's wasted on most as they don't get it and take it to personally.Posted by WonderWoman14Yes they do, they don't like whiny girls, if you can take and answer back at their sarcastic comments you're pre-approved lolPosted by Capri-sunI've noticed that cap men do do like older women or women that are established and mentally mature. I could be wrong don't quote me lolPosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?
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Posted by SugarandSpunkI know you don't mind that you make more money than him but as a Cap I'm sure he does.Posted by AerazoIf that's what he's really feeling then that would suck. I've noticed him not being as active as he used to be on social media. Something must be wrong with him. Maybe he's going through something. I'm not hitting him up. He can take as much time as he needs. I've gotten somewhat used to it by now. I have a bad habit of spoiling the men in my life. Wish I knew what he wants to give me (other than the obvious 😉 lol). Aside from that all I need is just a faithful loving bf, that's it. I don't need his money, I know I make much more than him and money isn't always everything.Posted by SugarandSpunkAww I just think he's scared to not be able to give you what he wants. They are the head of household type and he would want to make sure that he has everything to have you as a queen.Posted by WonderWoman14I'm 5 years older than the cap that comes and goes in my life. I am well established in my career in the sense of stability and financially stable. He has a decent job but does other side jobs to make more money. I love his ambitious side. Just wish he was just as ambitious with me lol.Posted by Capri-sunI've noticed that cap men do do like older women or women that are established and mentally mature. I could be wrong don't quote me lolPosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?
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Even if he doesn't know it he notices. Plus you are older than him so it intimidates him as well.
If I were you, I'd be more encouraging with him, ask him about his job, if you know better opportunities that he would be happy to take, tell him. Ask him what does he want to do in his future, my Cap told me he wants to help the latin community with legal help, he's becoming an attorney and he opened his first non-profit org. page and I go thru it and advice him to make a change or two. (I have a good eye for simple mistakes) and I've seen that he does change it or asks me for my opinion.
Things like that will get you closer to him 🙂
Posted by AerazoJesus I can't keep up with you! loool how many men in your life and all capsPosted by Capri-sunYes, or "separated" He doesn't go out to clubs but I have seen his wife at clubs with her friends and dancing with guys so it makes sense when he says that they're not together and that she told him that she understands that one day he will want to be with someone he loves so she's ready to step away.Posted by AerazoPosted by ParisianCappyDifferent Caps ? Cap #4 is still around texting me every day and sends me videos but I haven't seen him since my birthday 3 weeks agoPosted by Aerazoyou finished your study, and he don't, you have kids and he don't. yes you are a trophy, in his mind it was impossible to handle a women like you. what do you think right nowPosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
I posted a thread the other day about a Cap man who recently told me I'm like a trophy to him. he has also said that he is in love with me.
Is this the one that is married?
He brought her from another country and she has no family here so he told me that one main rule is that he will take her of her financially forever. She doesn't work.
He's going to latin america for 7 months... when i asked him why he wants to be with me if hes not gonna be around he said: It's only to be able to provide for the people I love and That includes you and the girls. (Besides his kids and wife) Just want all three of you in my life.
Also when he got married it was a huge surprise and he had kids right away so I asked him why did he marry her and he said bc she was the only woman I told exactly what I wanted and took it without question.
(I know he had a lot of failed relationships and apparently I'm the one he loves... the reason why I hold back is bc I don't trust him yet, and I told him that when I realized I didn't want to be with my ex, I left him, I dropped out of school, to work full time, take care of my kids 24/7, I did a lot to get out of that relationship to be able to be with someone else later)
also, I have never suggested him to leave her for me... and I haven't assured him that if he does move out I will be with him.
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Posted by youngaliJust like Pisces females seem to get a bad rep off the guys on dxp ??♀️
it's definitely not ALL Cap men, just like it's definitely not ALL Sagittarius men. but out of all the zodiac signs, Caps, Leos & Sags tend to be higher on the bad rep meter.
Posted by WonderWoman14Posted by Aerazosarcasm is my speciality, I've just learnt that it's wasted on most as they don't get it and take it to personally.Posted by WonderWoman14Yes they do, they don't like whiny girls, if you can take and answer back at their sarcastic comments you're pre-approved lolPosted by Capri-sunI've noticed that cap men do do like older women or women that are established and mentally mature. I could be wrong don't quote me lolPosted by ParisianCappyPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ParisianCappyWhy even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?
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I know! usually Caps and Taurus guys are good on sarcasm. I tried with my ex libra and he'd get upset all the time ?
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