Gemini FWB.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Lol it's in his best interests to be affectionate and considerate during your hookups to ensure you'll want to continue. Don't mistake this for feelings on his part. Your just a hole to fuck, no strings attached. That what you agreed to.
I agree..

Don't read too much into his affection... Gemini men will agree to a FWB type of relationship before a commitment.. He wants to ensure you aren't catching feelings..
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Posted by Moonbutter
Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?
Dating...

He takes you out to dinner in public places (is seen with you).

Introduces you to his friends and family as his gf not his friend.

Calls/texts you throughout the day, not just after dark.

Actively gets to know your likes and dislikes and shares his.



FWB....

Never takes you out, you stay in and netflix and chill.

Introduces you to his friends as just another friend, that is if you meet them at all.

Only calls/texts you when he wants to hit the booty, usually after dark.

Conversations remain superficial and he doesn't open up or get personal. i.e. physical intimacy is the only intimacy between you.
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Posted by Lilondasnitch
So me and this Gemini are friends with benefits. Are gems prone, to catching feelings? We just started. While we were intimate he was extremely gentle and he even asked asked me if I was okay. And gave me a kiss and a hug. When I left.
I've been FWB before and once I starting to catch feelings so I stopped, second time didn't, he did so I stopped.

I've friends that have started as FWB and then move into a relationship, but not without some drama in between.

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Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?
Dating...

He takes you out to dinner in public places (is seen with you).

Introduces you to his friends and family as his gf not his friend.

Calls/texts you throughout the day, not just after dark.

Actively gets to know your likes and dislikes and shares his.



FWB....

Never takes you out, you stay in and netflix and chill.

Introduces you to his friends as just another friend, that is if you meet them at all.

Only calls/texts you when he wants to hit the booty, usually after dark.

Conversations remain superficial and he doesn't open up or get personal. i.e. physical intimacy is the only intimacy between you.
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Thanks, good list! What about going grocery shopping together/ cooking together and holding hands, he opens the car door? Not being intimate every time you see eachother?
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Posted by Lilondasnitch
So me and this Gemini are friends with benefits. Are gems prone, to catching feelings? We just started. While we were intimate he was extremely gentle and he even asked asked me if I was okay. And gave me a kiss and a hug. When I left.
I've been FWB before and once I starting to catch feelings so I stopped, second time didn't, he did so I stopped.

I've friends that have started as FWB and then move into a relationship, but not without some drama in between.

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Tete!!! How r u girl?!
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Posted by Moonbutter
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Posted by Moonbutter
Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?
Dating...

He takes you out to dinner in public places (is seen with you).

Introduces you to his friends and family as his gf not his friend.

Calls/texts you throughout the day, not just after dark.

Actively gets to know your likes and dislikes and shares his.



FWB....

Never takes you out, you stay in and netflix and chill.

Introduces you to his friends as just another friend, that is if you meet them at all.

Only calls/texts you when he wants to hit the booty, usually after dark.

Conversations remain superficial and he doesn't open up or get personal. i.e. physical intimacy is the only intimacy between you.
Thanks, good list! What about going grocery shopping together/ cooking together and holding hands, he opens the car door? Not being intimate every time you see eachother?
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Could be indicative of a dating senerio. But also fwb if he's affectionate and likes to hold hands and cooking/eating is part of your pre-game ritual. The game being sex.

Just depends on the bigger picture. Fastest way to find out where its headed is to ask. Even non-directly. Find out if he's looking for a serious relationship or he wants to play the field. Typically if a guy likes you he'll lock you down asap.
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Posted by LadyNeptune
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Posted by Moonbutter
Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?
Dating...

He takes you out to dinner in public places (is seen with you).

Introduces you to his friends and family as his gf not his friend.

Calls/texts you throughout the day, not just after dark.

Actively gets to know your likes and dislikes and shares his.



FWB....

Never takes you out, you stay in and netflix and chill.

Introduces you to his friends as just another friend, that is if you meet them at all.

Only calls/texts you when he wants to hit the booty, usually after dark.

Conversations remain superficial and he doesn't open up or get personal. i.e. physical intimacy is the only intimacy between you.
Thanks, good list! What about going grocery shopping together/ cooking together and holding hands, he opens the car door? Not being intimate every time you see eachother?
Could be indicative of a dating senerio. But also fwb if he's affectionate and likes to hold hands and cooking/eating is part of your pre-game ritual. The game being sex.

Just depends on the bigger picture. Fastest way to find out where its headed is to ask. Even non-directly. Find out if he's looking for a serious relationship or he wants to play the field. Typically if a guy likes you he'll lock you down asap.
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Hmm well there is cooking and cuddling but no sex( not every time) he talks of future things he wants to do with me like take me fishing at certain places, etc I'm like 99% sure he's not seeing anyone else as he works way too much( I know his schedule ?) and we text at night. I work with him so I hear about his wereaboutd all the time and he's pretty trustworthy. Plus he usually chooses spending time with me over his buddies.
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Posted by Lilondasnitch
So me and this Gemini are friends with benefits. Are gems prone, to catching feelings? We just started. While we were intimate he was extremely gentle and he even asked asked me if I was okay. And gave me a kiss and a hug. When I left.
I've been FWB before and once I starting to catch feelings so I stopped, second time didn't, he did so I stopped.

I've friends that have started as FWB and then move into a relationship, but not without some drama in between.


Tete!!! How r u girl?!
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Back in the game hehehehe just PM you girl 🙂

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Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?
Dating...

He takes you out to dinner in public places (is seen with you).

Introduces you to his friends and family as his gf not his friend.

Calls/texts you throughout the day, not just after dark.

Actively gets to know your likes and dislikes and shares his.



FWB....

Never takes you out, you stay in and netflix and chill.

Introduces you to his friends as just another friend, that is if you meet them at all.

Only calls/texts you when he wants to hit the booty, usually after dark.

Conversations remain superficial and he doesn't open up or get personal. i.e. physical intimacy is the only intimacy between you.
Thanks, good list! What about going grocery shopping together/ cooking together and holding hands, he opens the car door? Not being intimate every time you see eachother?
Could be indicative of a dating senerio. But also fwb if he's affectionate and likes to hold hands and cooking/eating is part of your pre-game ritual. The game being sex.

Just depends on the bigger picture. Fastest way to find out where its headed is to ask. Even non-directly. Find out if he's looking for a serious relationship or he wants to play the field. Typically if a guy likes you he'll lock you down asap.
Hmm well there is cooking and cuddling but no sex( not every time) he talks of future things he wants to do with me like take me fishing at certain places, etc I'm like 99% sure he's not seeing anyone else as he works way too much( I know his schedule ?) and we text at night. I work with him so I hear about his wereaboutd all the time and he's pretty trustworthy. Plus he usually chooses spending time with me over his buddies.
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How long have you been seeing each other?
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Posted by Lilondasnitch
So me and this Gemini are friends with benefits. Are gems prone, to catching feelings? We just started. While we were intimate he was extremely gentle and he even asked asked me if I was okay. And gave me a kiss and a hug. When I left.
I've been FWB before and once I starting to catch feelings so I stopped, second time didn't, he did so I stopped.

I've friends that have started as FWB and then move into a relationship, but not without some drama in between.


Tete!!! How r u girl?!



Back in the game hehehehe just PM you girl 🙂

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Posted by Moonbutter
Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?
Dating...

He takes you out to dinner in public places (is seen with you).

Introduces you to his friends and family as his gf not his friend.

Calls/texts you throughout the day, not just after dark.

Actively gets to know your likes and dislikes and shares his.



FWB....

Never takes you out, you stay in and netflix and chill.

Introduces you to his friends as just another friend, that is if you meet them at all.

Only calls/texts you when he wants to hit the booty, usually after dark.

Conversations remain superficial and he doesn't open up or get personal. i.e. physical intimacy is the only intimacy between you.
Thanks, good list! What about going grocery shopping together/ cooking together and holding hands, he opens the car door? Not being intimate every time you see eachother?
Could be indicative of a dating senerio. But also fwb if he's affectionate and likes to hold hands and cooking/eating is part of your pre-game ritual. The game being sex.

Just depends on the bigger picture. Fastest way to find out where its headed is to ask. Even non-directly. Find out if he's looking for a serious relationship or he wants to play the field. Typically if a guy likes you he'll lock you down asap.
Hmm well there is cooking and cuddling but no sex( not every time) he talks of future things he wants to do with me like take me fishing at certain places, etc I'm like 99% sure he's not seeing anyone else as he works way too much( I know his schedule ?) and we text at night. I work with him so I hear about his wereaboutd all the time and he's pretty trustworthy. Plus he usually chooses spending time with me over his buddies.
How long have you been seeing each other?
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A month or just about... I'm not rushing though in fact I'm still figuring things out.
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Posted by Moonbutter
Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?
Dating...

He takes you out to dinner in public places (is seen with you).

Introduces you to his friends and family as his gf not his friend.

Calls/texts you throughout the day, not just after dark.

Actively gets to know your likes and dislikes and shares his.



FWB....

Never takes you out, you stay in and netflix and chill.

Introduces you to his friends as just another friend, that is if you meet them at all.

Only calls/texts you when he wants to hit the booty, usually after dark.

Conversations remain superficial and he doesn't open up or get personal. i.e. physical intimacy is the only intimacy between you.
Thanks, good list! What about going grocery shopping together/ cooking together and holding hands, he opens the car door? Not being intimate every time you see eachother?
Could be indicative of a dating senerio. But also fwb if he's affectionate and likes to hold hands and cooking/eating is part of your pre-game ritual. The game being sex.

Just depends on the bigger picture. Fastest way to find out where its headed is to ask. Even non-directly. Find out if he's looking for a serious relationship or he wants to play the field. Typically if a guy likes you he'll lock you down asap.
Hmm well there is cooking and cuddling but no sex( not every time) he talks of future things he wants to do with me like take me fishing at certain places, etc I'm like 99% sure he's not seeing anyone else as he works way too much( I know his schedule ?) and we text at night. I work with him so I hear about his wereaboutd all the time and he's pretty trustworthy. Plus he usually chooses spending time with me over his buddies.
How long have you been seeing each other?
A month or just about... I'm not rushing though in fact I'm still figuring things out.
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Not rushing is good. Maybe bring up exclusivity to him. Like mention that your dating him exclusively and see if he says the same.
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Posted by Moonbutter
Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?
Dating...

He takes you out to dinner in public places (is seen with you).

Introduces you to his friends and family as his gf not his friend.

Calls/texts you throughout the day, not just after dark.

Actively gets to know your likes and dislikes and shares his.



FWB....

Never takes you out, you stay in and netflix and chill.

Introduces you to his friends as just another friend, that is if you meet them at all.

Only calls/texts you when he wants to hit the booty, usually after dark.

Conversations remain superficial and he doesn't open up or get personal. i.e. physical intimacy is the only intimacy between you.
Thanks, good list! What about going grocery shopping together/ cooking together and holding hands, he opens the car door? Not being intimate every time you see eachother?
Could be indicative of a dating senerio. But also fwb if he's affectionate and likes to hold hands and cooking/eating is part of your pre-game ritual. The game being sex.

Just depends on the bigger picture. Fastest way to find out where its headed is to ask. Even non-directly. Find out if he's looking for a serious relationship or he wants to play the field. Typically if a guy likes you he'll lock you down asap.
Hmm well there is cooking and cuddling but no sex( not every time) he talks of future things he wants to do with me like take me fishing at certain places, etc I'm like 99% sure he's not seeing anyone else as he works way too much( I know his schedule ?) and we text at night. I work with him so I hear about his wereaboutd all the time and he's pretty trustworthy. Plus he usually chooses spending time with me over his buddies.
How long have you been seeing each other?
A month or just about... I'm not rushing though in fact I'm still figuring things out.
Not rushing is good. Maybe bring up exclusivity to him. Like mention that your dating him exclusively and see if he says the same.
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Yeah I've been thinking about that... I hate to assume but my intuition tells me he assumes the same... ugh ? I hate this but he's pretty good about communication at least.