So me and this Gemini are friends with benefits. Are gems prone, to catching feelings? We just started. While we were intimate he was extremely gentle and he even asked asked me if I was okay. And gave me a kiss and a hug. When I left.
Gemini FWB.

Posted by LilondasnitchUmmm I don't believe in the success of FWB, but do you like him?
So me and this Gemini are friends with benefits. Are gems prone, to catching feelings? We just started. While we were intimate he was extremely gentle and he even asked asked me if I was okay. And gave me a kiss and a hug. When I left.

Lol it's in his best interests to be affectionate and considerate during your hookups to ensure you'll want to continue. Don't mistake this for feelings on his part. Your just a hole to fuck, no strings attached. That what you agreed to.

Posted by LadyNeptuneI agree..
Lol it's in his best interests to be affectionate and considerate during your hookups to ensure you'll want to continue. Don't mistake this for feelings on his part. Your just a hole to fuck, no strings attached. That what you agreed to.
Don't read too much into his affection... Gemini men will agree to a FWB type of relationship before a commitment.. He wants to ensure you aren't catching feelings..

Of I've ever agreed to FWB I would start planning wedding right even before sex...
So...men Gems are weirdos!
You can have a kiss and never see him again so no friend and no benefits...
Oy!
So...men Gems are weirdos!
You can have a kiss and never see him again so no friend and no benefits...
Oy!

Posted by GemitatiWut
Of I've ever agreed to FWB I would start planning wedding right even before sex...
So...men Gems are weirdos!
You can have a kiss and never see him again so no friend and no benefits...
Oy!

If you want a connection and mutual feelings, don't lower yourself to FWB
If you just want to be a woman that guys have sex with.....carry on
Personally, I would choose a lifetime of celibacy over that
If you just want to be a woman that guys have sex with.....carry on
Personally, I would choose a lifetime of celibacy over that

Posted by LadyNeptuneWut wut?Posted by GemitatiWut
Of I've ever agreed to FWB I would start planning wedding right even before sex...
So...men Gems are weirdos!
You can have a kiss and never see him again so no friend and no benefits...
Oy!click to expand

@notsosure

Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?

Posted by GemitatiWut wut in the buttPosted by LadyNeptuneWut wut?Posted by GemitatiWut
Of I've ever agreed to FWB I would start planning wedding right even before sex...
So...men Gems are weirdos!
You can have a kiss and never see him again so no friend and no benefits...
Oy!click to expand

Posted by MoonbutterDating...
Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?
He takes you out to dinner in public places (is seen with you).
Introduces you to his friends and family as his gf not his friend.
Calls/texts you throughout the day, not just after dark.
Actively gets to know your likes and dislikes and shares his.
FWB....
Never takes you out, you stay in and netflix and chill.
Introduces you to his friends as just another friend, that is if you meet them at all.
Only calls/texts you when he wants to hit the booty, usually after dark.
Conversations remain superficial and he doesn't open up or get personal. i.e. physical intimacy is the only intimacy between you.


Posted by LadyNeptuneCool stupidPosted by GemitatiWut wut in the buttPosted by LadyNeptuneWut wut?Posted by GemitatiWut
Of I've ever agreed to FWB I would start planning wedding right even before sex...
So...men Gems are weirdos!
You can have a kiss and never see him again so no friend and no benefits...
Oy!click to expand

Posted by LilondasnitchI've been FWB before and once I starting to catch feelings so I stopped, second time didn't, he did so I stopped.
So me and this Gemini are friends with benefits. Are gems prone, to catching feelings? We just started. While we were intimate he was extremely gentle and he even asked asked me if I was okay. And gave me a kiss and a hug. When I left.
I've friends that have started as FWB and then move into a relationship, but not without some drama in between.

Posted by LadyNeptuneThanks, good list! What about going grocery shopping together/ cooking together and holding hands, he opens the car door? Not being intimate every time you see eachother?Posted by MoonbutterDating...
Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?
He takes you out to dinner in public places (is seen with you).
Introduces you to his friends and family as his gf not his friend.
Calls/texts you throughout the day, not just after dark.
Actively gets to know your likes and dislikes and shares his.
FWB....
Never takes you out, you stay in and netflix and chill.
Introduces you to his friends as just another friend, that is if you meet them at all.
Only calls/texts you when he wants to hit the booty, usually after dark.
Conversations remain superficial and he doesn't open up or get personal. i.e. physical intimacy is the only intimacy between you.click to expand

Posted by TeteTete!!! How r u girl?!Posted by LilondasnitchI've been FWB before and once I starting to catch feelings so I stopped, second time didn't, he did so I stopped.
So me and this Gemini are friends with benefits. Are gems prone, to catching feelings? We just started. While we were intimate he was extremely gentle and he even asked asked me if I was okay. And gave me a kiss and a hug. When I left.
I've friends that have started as FWB and then move into a relationship, but not without some drama in between.
click to expand

Posted by MoonbutterCould be indicative of a dating senerio. But also fwb if he's affectionate and likes to hold hands and cooking/eating is part of your pre-game ritual. The game being sex.Posted by LadyNeptuneThanks, good list! What about going grocery shopping together/ cooking together and holding hands, he opens the car door? Not being intimate every time you see eachother?Posted by MoonbutterDating...
Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?
He takes you out to dinner in public places (is seen with you).
Introduces you to his friends and family as his gf not his friend.
Calls/texts you throughout the day, not just after dark.
Actively gets to know your likes and dislikes and shares his.
FWB....
Never takes you out, you stay in and netflix and chill.
Introduces you to his friends as just another friend, that is if you meet them at all.
Only calls/texts you when he wants to hit the booty, usually after dark.
Conversations remain superficial and he doesn't open up or get personal. i.e. physical intimacy is the only intimacy between you.click to expand
Just depends on the bigger picture. Fastest way to find out where its headed is to ask. Even non-directly. Find out if he's looking for a serious relationship or he wants to play the field. Typically if a guy likes you he'll lock you down asap.

Posted by LadyNeptuneHmm well there is cooking and cuddling but no sex( not every time) he talks of future things he wants to do with me like take me fishing at certain places, etc I'm like 99% sure he's not seeing anyone else as he works way too much( I know his schedule ?) and we text at night. I work with him so I hear about his wereaboutd all the time and he's pretty trustworthy. Plus he usually chooses spending time with me over his buddies.Posted by MoonbutterCould be indicative of a dating senerio. But also fwb if he's affectionate and likes to hold hands and cooking/eating is part of your pre-game ritual. The game being sex.Posted by LadyNeptuneThanks, good list! What about going grocery shopping together/ cooking together and holding hands, he opens the car door? Not being intimate every time you see eachother?Posted by MoonbutterDating...
Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?
He takes you out to dinner in public places (is seen with you).
Introduces you to his friends and family as his gf not his friend.
Calls/texts you throughout the day, not just after dark.
Actively gets to know your likes and dislikes and shares his.
FWB....
Never takes you out, you stay in and netflix and chill.
Introduces you to his friends as just another friend, that is if you meet them at all.
Only calls/texts you when he wants to hit the booty, usually after dark.
Conversations remain superficial and he doesn't open up or get personal. i.e. physical intimacy is the only intimacy between you.
Just depends on the bigger picture. Fastest way to find out where its headed is to ask. Even non-directly. Find out if he's looking for a serious relationship or he wants to play the field. Typically if a guy likes you he'll lock you down asap.click to expand

Posted by MoonbutterPosted by TeteTete!!! How r u girl?!Posted by LilondasnitchI've been FWB before and once I starting to catch feelings so I stopped, second time didn't, he did so I stopped.
So me and this Gemini are friends with benefits. Are gems prone, to catching feelings? We just started. While we were intimate he was extremely gentle and he even asked asked me if I was okay. And gave me a kiss and a hug. When I left.
I've friends that have started as FWB and then move into a relationship, but not without some drama in between.
click to expand
Back in the game hehehehe just PM you girl 🙂

Posted by MoonbutterHow long have you been seeing each other?Posted by LadyNeptuneHmm well there is cooking and cuddling but no sex( not every time) he talks of future things he wants to do with me like take me fishing at certain places, etc I'm like 99% sure he's not seeing anyone else as he works way too much( I know his schedule ?) and we text at night. I work with him so I hear about his wereaboutd all the time and he's pretty trustworthy. Plus he usually chooses spending time with me over his buddies.Posted by MoonbutterCould be indicative of a dating senerio. But also fwb if he's affectionate and likes to hold hands and cooking/eating is part of your pre-game ritual. The game being sex.Posted by LadyNeptuneThanks, good list! What about going grocery shopping together/ cooking together and holding hands, he opens the car door? Not being intimate every time you see eachother?Posted by MoonbutterDating...
Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?
He takes you out to dinner in public places (is seen with you).
Introduces you to his friends and family as his gf not his friend.
Calls/texts you throughout the day, not just after dark.
Actively gets to know your likes and dislikes and shares his.
FWB....
Never takes you out, you stay in and netflix and chill.
Introduces you to his friends as just another friend, that is if you meet them at all.
Only calls/texts you when he wants to hit the booty, usually after dark.
Conversations remain superficial and he doesn't open up or get personal. i.e. physical intimacy is the only intimacy between you.
Just depends on the bigger picture. Fastest way to find out where its headed is to ask. Even non-directly. Find out if he's looking for a serious relationship or he wants to play the field. Typically if a guy likes you he'll lock you down asap.click to expand

Posted by Tete??Posted by MoonbutterPosted by TeteTete!!! How r u girl?!Posted by LilondasnitchI've been FWB before and once I starting to catch feelings so I stopped, second time didn't, he did so I stopped.
So me and this Gemini are friends with benefits. Are gems prone, to catching feelings? We just started. While we were intimate he was extremely gentle and he even asked asked me if I was okay. And gave me a kiss and a hug. When I left.
I've friends that have started as FWB and then move into a relationship, but not without some drama in between.
Back in the game hehehehe just PM you girl 🙂
click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptuneA month or just about... I'm not rushing though in fact I'm still figuring things out.Posted by MoonbutterHow long have you been seeing each other?Posted by LadyNeptuneHmm well there is cooking and cuddling but no sex( not every time) he talks of future things he wants to do with me like take me fishing at certain places, etc I'm like 99% sure he's not seeing anyone else as he works way too much( I know his schedule ?) and we text at night. I work with him so I hear about his wereaboutd all the time and he's pretty trustworthy. Plus he usually chooses spending time with me over his buddies.Posted by MoonbutterCould be indicative of a dating senerio. But also fwb if he's affectionate and likes to hold hands and cooking/eating is part of your pre-game ritual. The game being sex.Posted by LadyNeptuneThanks, good list! What about going grocery shopping together/ cooking together and holding hands, he opens the car door? Not being intimate every time you see eachother?Posted by MoonbutterDating...
Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?
He takes you out to dinner in public places (is seen with you).
Introduces you to his friends and family as his gf not his friend.
Calls/texts you throughout the day, not just after dark.
Actively gets to know your likes and dislikes and shares his.
FWB....
Never takes you out, you stay in and netflix and chill.
Introduces you to his friends as just another friend, that is if you meet them at all.
Only calls/texts you when he wants to hit the booty, usually after dark.
Conversations remain superficial and he doesn't open up or get personal. i.e. physical intimacy is the only intimacy between you.
Just depends on the bigger picture. Fastest way to find out where its headed is to ask. Even non-directly. Find out if he's looking for a serious relationship or he wants to play the field. Typically if a guy likes you he'll lock you down asap.click to expand

Posted by MoonbutterNot rushing is good. Maybe bring up exclusivity to him. Like mention that your dating him exclusively and see if he says the same.Posted by LadyNeptuneA month or just about... I'm not rushing though in fact I'm still figuring things out.Posted by MoonbutterHow long have you been seeing each other?Posted by LadyNeptuneHmm well there is cooking and cuddling but no sex( not every time) he talks of future things he wants to do with me like take me fishing at certain places, etc I'm like 99% sure he's not seeing anyone else as he works way too much( I know his schedule ?) and we text at night. I work with him so I hear about his wereaboutd all the time and he's pretty trustworthy. Plus he usually chooses spending time with me over his buddies.Posted by MoonbutterCould be indicative of a dating senerio. But also fwb if he's affectionate and likes to hold hands and cooking/eating is part of your pre-game ritual. The game being sex.Posted by LadyNeptuneThanks, good list! What about going grocery shopping together/ cooking together and holding hands, he opens the car door? Not being intimate every time you see eachother?Posted by MoonbutterDating...
Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?
He takes you out to dinner in public places (is seen with you).
Introduces you to his friends and family as his gf not his friend.
Calls/texts you throughout the day, not just after dark.
Actively gets to know your likes and dislikes and shares his.
FWB....
Never takes you out, you stay in and netflix and chill.
Introduces you to his friends as just another friend, that is if you meet them at all.
Only calls/texts you when he wants to hit the booty, usually after dark.
Conversations remain superficial and he doesn't open up or get personal. i.e. physical intimacy is the only intimacy between you.
Just depends on the bigger picture. Fastest way to find out where its headed is to ask. Even non-directly. Find out if he's looking for a serious relationship or he wants to play the field. Typically if a guy likes you he'll lock you down asap.click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptuneYeah I've been thinking about that... I hate to assume but my intuition tells me he assumes the same... ugh ? I hate this but he's pretty good about communication at least.Posted by MoonbutterNot rushing is good. Maybe bring up exclusivity to him. Like mention that your dating him exclusively and see if he says the same.Posted by LadyNeptuneA month or just about... I'm not rushing though in fact I'm still figuring things out.Posted by MoonbutterHow long have you been seeing each other?Posted by LadyNeptuneHmm well there is cooking and cuddling but no sex( not every time) he talks of future things he wants to do with me like take me fishing at certain places, etc I'm like 99% sure he's not seeing anyone else as he works way too much( I know his schedule ?) and we text at night. I work with him so I hear about his wereaboutd all the time and he's pretty trustworthy. Plus he usually chooses spending time with me over his buddies.Posted by MoonbutterCould be indicative of a dating senerio. But also fwb if he's affectionate and likes to hold hands and cooking/eating is part of your pre-game ritual. The game being sex.Posted by LadyNeptuneThanks, good list! What about going grocery shopping together/ cooking together and holding hands, he opens the car door? Not being intimate every time you see eachother?Posted by MoonbutterDating...
Just to be sure... what are things that show you are just in a FWB? Vs dating? ?
He takes you out to dinner in public places (is seen with you).
Introduces you to his friends and family as his gf not his friend.
Calls/texts you throughout the day, not just after dark.
Actively gets to know your likes and dislikes and shares his.
FWB....
Never takes you out, you stay in and netflix and chill.
Introduces you to his friends as just another friend, that is if you meet them at all.
Only calls/texts you when he wants to hit the booty, usually after dark.
Conversations remain superficial and he doesn't open up or get personal. i.e. physical intimacy is the only intimacy between you.
Just depends on the bigger picture. Fastest way to find out where its headed is to ask. Even non-directly. Find out if he's looking for a serious relationship or he wants to play the field. Typically if a guy likes you he'll lock you down asap.click to expand
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