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Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by nanobot
Who's in the clique? I need to figure out if I'm cool or nah
LOL
If you piss certain people off or hurt their feelings, you might be in one.
It can never be about the fact that what's being said is maybe true and/or accurate and several agree with what you are saying but the person doesn't want to hear it so it's a "clique".
Or maybe a reference to to double standards. I read alot more on here than i post. If you want to call someone out on THAT particular T&C.....dont call someone out on one behaviour and cheer on your mate on in another.
oh I agree the hypocrisy on this site is ridicules.
I personally try to go by don't throw stones in glass houses. NONE of us are innocent.
Thats what got me. Nothing wrong with creating the topic. But by all means why post ONE snapshot comment. Especially after various comments in a lot of threads on the site this week alone.
Snapshot both friend and foe if you want to show examples.click to expand
I was speaking to Nano specifically about the cliques.
Posted by justagirlPosted by nanobot
Who's in the clique? I need to figure out if I'm cool or nah
LOL
If you piss certain people off or hurt their feelings, you might be in one.
It can never be about the fact that what's being said is maybe true and/or accurate and several agree with what you are saying but the person doesn't want to hear it so it's a "clique".click to expand
Yep. This 100%
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by nanobot
Who's in the clique? I need to figure out if I'm cool or nah
LOL
If you piss certain people off or hurt their feelings, you might be in one.
It can never be about the fact that what's being said is maybe true and/or accurate and several agree with what you are saying but the person doesn't want to hear it so it's a "clique".
Or maybe a reference to to double standards. I read alot more on here than i post. If you want to call someone out on THAT particular T&C.....dont call someone out on one behaviour and cheer on your mate on in another.
oh I agree the hypocrisy on this site is ridicules.
I personally try to go by don't throw stones in glass houses. NONE of us are innocent.
Thats what got me. Nothing wrong with creating the topic. But by all means why post ONE snapshot comment. Especially after various comments in a lot of threads on the site this week alone.
Snapshot both friend and foe if you want to show examples.click to expand
Who else used the hate slur QUEER. Enlighten us.
Posted by PontusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by nanobot
Who's in the clique? I need to figure out if I'm cool or nah
LOL
If you piss certain people off or hurt their feelings, you might be in one.
It can never be about the fact that what's being said is maybe true and/or accurate and several agree with what you are saying but the person doesn't want to hear it so it's a "clique".
Or maybe a reference to to double standards. I read alot more on here than i post. If you want to call someone out on THAT particular T&C.....dont call someone out on one behaviour and cheer on your mate on in another.
oh I agree the hypocrisy on this site is ridicules.
I personally try to go by don't throw stones in glass houses. NONE of us are innocent.
Thats what got me. Nothing wrong with creating the topic. But by all means why post ONE snapshot comment. Especially after various comments in a lot of threads on the site this week alone.
Snapshot both friend and foe if you want to show examples.
Who else used the hate slur QUEER. Enlighten us.
Why you say it?
Reportclick to expand
You are so butthurt. Its funny an internet stranger has that effect on you.
Pathetic.
Posted by PontusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by PontusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by nanobot
Who's in the clique? I need to figure out if I'm cool or nah
LOL
If you piss certain people off or hurt their feelings, you might be in one.
It can never be about the fact that what's being said is maybe true and/or accurate and several agree with what you are saying but the person doesn't want to hear it so it's a "clique".
Or maybe a reference to to double standards. I read alot more on here than i post. If you want to call someone out on THAT particular T&C.....dont call someone out on one behaviour and cheer on your mate on in another.
oh I agree the hypocrisy on this site is ridicules.
I personally try to go by don't throw stones in glass houses. NONE of us are innocent.
Thats what got me. Nothing wrong with creating the topic. But by all means why post ONE snapshot comment. Especially after various comments in a lot of threads on the site this week alone.
Snapshot both friend and foe if you want to show examples.
Who else used the hate slur QUEER. Enlighten us.
Why you say it?
Report
You are so butthurt. Its funny an internet stranger has that effect on you.
Pathetic.
You butthurt for effortless. He use words.click to expand
He used a hateful slur
I point it out and you report me for saying the same word = butthurt.
Context my sore ass friend
Posted by PontusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by PontusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by PontusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by nanobot
Who's in the clique? I need to figure out if I'm cool or nah
LOL
If you piss certain people off or hurt their feelings, you might be in one.
It can never be about the fact that what's being said is maybe true and/or accurate and several agree with what you are saying but the person doesn't want to hear it so it's a "clique".
Or maybe a reference to to double standards. I read alot more on here than i post. If you want to call someone out on THAT particular T&C.....dont call someone out on one behaviour and cheer on your mate on in another.
oh I agree the hypocrisy on this site is ridicules.
I personally try to go by don't throw stones in glass houses. NONE of us are innocent.
Thats what got me. Nothing wrong with creating the topic. But by all means why post ONE snapshot comment. Especially after various comments in a lot of threads on the site this week alone.
Snapshot both friend and foe if you want to show examples.
Who else used the hate slur QUEER. Enlighten us.
Why you say it?
Report
You are so butthurt. Its funny an internet stranger has that effect on you.
Pathetic.
You butthurt for effortless. He use words.
He used a hateful slur
I point it out and you report me for saying the same word = butthurt.
Context my sore ass friend
Can I say n word to point out?
You are hypocrisyclick to expand
Sure. Whatever you want boo
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by nanobot
Who's in the clique? I need to figure out if I'm cool or nah
LOL
If you piss certain people off or hurt their feelings, you might be in one.
It can never be about the fact that what's being said is maybe true and/or accurate and several agree with what you are saying but the person doesn't want to hear it so it's a "clique".
Or maybe a reference to to double standards. I read alot more on here than i post. If you want to call someone out on THAT particular T&C.....dont call someone out on one behaviour and cheer on your mate on in another.
oh I agree the hypocrisy on this site is ridicules.
I personally try to go by don't throw stones in glass houses. NONE of us are innocent.
Thats what got me. Nothing wrong with creating the topic. But by all means why post ONE snapshot comment. Especially after various comments in a lot of threads on the site this week alone.
Snapshot both friend and foe if you want to show examples.
Who else used the hate slur QUEER. Enlighten us.click to expand
Go get examples and paste screenshots of the other six "catagories" listed in the T&C's paragraph you quoted.
They all over the site. The only reason you chose that particular screenshot is because of the beef between you and certain other posters.
Posted by PontusPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by nanobot
Who's in the clique? I need to figure out if I'm cool or nah
LOL
If you piss certain people off or hurt their feelings, you might be in one.
It can never be about the fact that what's being said is maybe true and/or accurate and several agree with what you are saying but the person doesn't want to hear it so it's a "clique".
Or maybe a reference to to double standards. I read alot more on here than i post. If you want to call someone out on THAT particular T&C.....dont call someone out on one behaviour and cheer on your mate on in another.
oh I agree the hypocrisy on this site is ridicules.
I personally try to go by don't throw stones in glass houses. NONE of us are innocent.
Thats what got me. Nothing wrong with creating the topic. But by all means why post ONE snapshot comment. Especially after various comments in a lot of threads on the site this week alone.
Snapshot both friend and foe if you want to show examples.
Who else used the hate slur QUEER. Enlighten us.
Go get examples and paste screenshots of the other six "catagories" listed in the T&C's paragraph you quoted.
They all over the site. The only reason you chose that particular screenshot is because of the beef between you and certain other posters.
This true.click to expand
Im not here to white knight you. Her post is valid... without just one screenshot.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by nanobot
Who's in the clique? I need to figure out if I'm cool or nah
LOL
If you piss certain people off or hurt their feelings, you might be in one.
It can never be about the fact that what's being said is maybe true and/or accurate and several agree with what you are saying but the person doesn't want to hear it so it's a "clique".
Or maybe a reference to to double standards. I read alot more on here than i post. If you want to call someone out on THAT particular T&C.....dont call someone out on one behaviour and cheer on your mate on in another.
oh I agree the hypocrisy on this site is ridicules.
I personally try to go by don't throw stones in glass houses. NONE of us are innocent.
Thats what got me. Nothing wrong with creating the topic. But by all means why post ONE snapshot comment. Especially after various comments in a lot of threads on the site this week alone.
Snapshot both friend and foe if you want to show examples.
Who else used the hate slur QUEER. Enlighten us.
Go get examples and paste screenshots of the other six "catagories" listed in the T&C's paragraph you quoted.
They all over the site. The only reason you chose that particular screenshot is because of the beef between you and certain other posters.
click to expand
Whatever you want to believe about my motivations is on you hun.
I call it like I see it.
Posted by ariesbeePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by enfant_terrible
"You agree not to post content that harasses, degrades, intimidates or is hateful toward an individual or group of individuals on the basis of religion, gender, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity, age, or disability"
You have expressed most of those things towards members of this site on account of their gender and race, and on the topic of mental health issues and suicide rates regarding white males you have suggested they should kill themselves.
"most of those things" Quote me or gtfoh with that.
Proof or are you just gonna run your mouth as usual
I remember seeing OP telling a user to “go kill yourself” as well. OP might have deleted it. I think telling people to kill themselves has as much weight as a racial/derogatory slur. Say, a person who is actually depressed and suicidal. That might just give them that little push to do so. It’s very harsh and it’s very hurtful.click to expand
Never told ANYONE to kill themselves. Please do quote me on where I said that.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by nanobot
Who's in the clique? I need to figure out if I'm cool or nah
LOL
If you piss certain people off or hurt their feelings, you might be in one.
It can never be about the fact that what's being said is maybe true and/or accurate and several agree with what you are saying but the person doesn't want to hear it so it's a "clique".
Or maybe a reference to to double standards. I read alot more on here than i post. If you want to call someone out on THAT particular T&C.....dont call someone out on one behaviour and cheer on your mate on in another.
oh I agree the hypocrisy on this site is ridicules.
I personally try to go by don't throw stones in glass houses. NONE of us are innocent.
Thats what got me. Nothing wrong with creating the topic. But by all means why post ONE snapshot comment. Especially after various comments in a lot of threads on the site this week alone.
Snapshot both friend and foe if you want to show examples.
Who else used the hate slur QUEER. Enlighten us.
Go get examples and paste screenshots of the other six "catagories" listed in the T&C's paragraph you quoted.
They all over the site. The only reason you chose that particular screenshot is because of the beef between you and certain other posters.
Whatever you want to believe about my motivations is on you hun.
I call it like I see it.
click to expand
Maybe in any of the other forum topics. But you chose this one.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by justagirlPosted by nanobot
Who's in the clique? I need to figure out if I'm cool or nah
LOL
If you piss certain people off or hurt their feelings, you might be in one.
It can never be about the fact that what's being said is maybe true and/or accurate and several agree with what you are saying but the person doesn't want to hear it so it's a "clique".
Or maybe a reference to to double standards. I read alot more on here than i post. If you want to call someone out on THAT particular T&C.....dont call someone out on one behaviour and cheer on your mate on in another.
oh I agree the hypocrisy on this site is ridicules.
I personally try to go by don't throw stones in glass houses. NONE of us are innocent.
Thats what got me. Nothing wrong with creating the topic. But by all means why post ONE snapshot comment. Especially after various comments in a lot of threads on the site this week alone.
Snapshot both friend and foe if you want to show examples.
Who else used the hate slur QUEER. Enlighten us.
Go get examples and paste screenshots of the other six "catagories" listed in the T&C's paragraph you quoted.
They all over the site. The only reason you chose that particular screenshot is because of the beef between you and certain other posters.
Whatever you want to believe about my motivations is on you hun.
I call it like I see it.
Maybe in any of the other forum topics. But you chose this one.click to expand
wut
I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Posted by PontusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by ariesbeePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by enfant_terrible
"You agree not to post content that harasses, degrades, intimidates or is hateful toward an individual or group of individuals on the basis of religion, gender, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity, age, or disability"
You have expressed most of those things towards members of this site on account of their gender and race, and on the topic of mental health issues and suicide rates regarding white males you have suggested they should kill themselves.
"most of those things" Quote me or gtfoh with that.
Proof or are you just gonna run your mouth as usual
I remember seeing OP telling a user to “go kill yourself” as well. OP might have deleted it. I think telling people to kill themselves has as much weight as a racial/derogatory slur. Say, a person who is actually depressed and suicidal. That might just give them that little push to do so. It’s very harsh and it’s very hurtful.
Never told ANYONE to kill themselves. Please do quote me on where I said that.
@enfant_terribleclick to expand
Proposing suicide for men (on the very topic of mental health problems & suicide rates among males) disguised as some sort of social justice statement/solution for domestic violence lol.
Also, written as a response to Soul who as far as I remember, has been or is struggling with depression and things of that sort.
Remember guys, slice vertically for all the women beaters out there! 👍
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by PontusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by ariesbeePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by enfant_terrible
"You agree not to post content that harasses, degrades, intimidates or is hateful toward an individual or group of individuals on the basis of religion, gender, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity, age, or disability"
You have expressed most of those things towards members of this site on account of their gender and race, and on the topic of mental health issues and suicide rates regarding white males you have suggested they should kill themselves.
"most of those things" Quote me or gtfoh with that.
Proof or are you just gonna run your mouth as usual
I remember seeing OP telling a user to “go kill yourself” as well. OP might have deleted it. I think telling people to kill themselves has as much weight as a racial/derogatory slur. Say, a person who is actually depressed and suicidal. That might just give them that little push to do so. It’s very harsh and it’s very hurtful.
Never told ANYONE to kill themselves. Please do quote me on where I said that.
@enfant_terrible
Proposing suicide for men (on the very topic of mental health problems & suicide rates among males) disguised as some sort of social justice statement/solution for domestic violence lol.
Also, written as a response to Soul who as far as I remember, has been or is struggling with depression and things of that sort.
Remember guys, slice vertically for all the women beaters out there! 👍
click to expand
Honestly, this is the first time I have seen this ss and that shit is disturbing.
Posted by Pontus
LadyNeptut is hypocrite.
Evidence
Nahh she's gonna eel her way out of it like a typical Aries moon. They spew fire but can't be true to themselves and face the music
"Ok so where did I tell anyone to kill themselves?!! " is her next to-go argument, meaning she didn't literally use the words so she figures she's off the hook.
Missed her calling in life, she should have been a lawyer.
Posted by PontusPosted by Endless
I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocriteclick to expand
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same category as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
Another member passionate about social justice work @LaMadrina
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Posted by PontusPosted by EndlessPosted by PontusPosted by Endless
I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same category as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
You want both way
effortless cant use q word
Ladynetpune can use word to explain
Brother say keep word out from mouth.
Say just lgbtq or gay
His marraige almost 3 year now.click to expand
Your brother being gay and married DOES NOT make him the FINAL highest authority on how the word "queer" is used.
I sometimes identify as queer (because most people don't understand the word "pansexual"). I have seen that word thrown around by my friends and some family members who are LGBTQI. None of them bat an eyelid or get offended when other people use it.
Effortless has a colourful history on dxp, him being extremely homophobic is one of those colours. I saw him use that term and guess what? It didn't bother me. IF anyone else is to use it, it wouldn't bother me either.
I have not seen the context within which LadyNeptune used that word, but I'm pretty sure it wouldn't bother me either.
You're speaking on the hypocrisy here? You of all people should know it's much, much worse in the real world. At least with dxp, you can just close your browser and walk away.
Posted by PontusPosted by EndlessPosted by PontusPosted by Endless
I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
I see not difference
n word for black
m word for dwarf
r word for mental disable
f and q for gay
All reclaimclick to expand
I don't want a specific way, because I have little interest in this subject, but if someone is asking for a ban for someone else, Imho their case should be sound, effortless could argue his use of the word, ladyneptune is clearly using it to point her case, Im not arguing if their use was wrong,but that the word is used by many.
your brother is a third-party, I have seem kids using the word "gay" to point out a "lame" situation, they say:
Dad: Going to the family reunion, see you there.
Teenager: Dad, that's so gay.
Dad: what you mean?.
Teenager: it's lame and boring.
so, easily someone can perceive the word gay as a pejorative term, but it isnt.
Posted by Pontus
you say you see no difference.
I make my last point again.
there's "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory"
have you ever see a N****r studies? or m****t theory? no? yeah I thought so.
unlike queer there's no use of those "reclaimed" words in any formal situation, they are and have been use as slurs only, queer however is used in legit ways to point out both people of the lgbt community and for academic purposes.
Posted by Ram416Posted by PontusPosted by EndlessPosted by PontusPosted by Endless
I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same category as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
You want both way
effortless cant use q word
Ladynetpune can use word to explain
Brother say keep word out from mouth.
Say just lgbtq or gay
His marraige almost 3 year now.
Your brother being gay and married DOES NOT make him the FINAL highest authority on how the word "queer" is used.
I sometimes identify as queer (because most people don't understand the word "pansexual"). I have seen that word thrown around by my friends and some family members who are LGBTQI. None of them bat an eyelid or get offended when other people use it.
Effortless has a colourful history on dxp, him being extremely homophobic is one of those colours. I saw him use that term and guess what? It didn't bother me. IF anyone else is to use it, it wouldn't bother me either.
I have not seen the context within which LadyNeptune used that word, but I'm pretty sure it wouldn't bother me either.
You're speaking on the hypocrisy here? You of all people should know it's much, much worse in the real world. At least with dxp, you can just close your browser and walk away.click to expand
I used it in the context of, its not cool to use this word. Lol he stays reaching
Posted by enfant_terrible
Another member passionate about social justice work @LaMadrina
I've seen this. Had it said to me.
Always wanted to ask those moral cowards "why, too scared to do the deed to me but are comfortable with me doing it to myself?
Had Scorpiofish wanting to have a duel with me or meet me in a parking lot (sorry, I'm not gay dude).
Even had that weirdo Aquaboy (I think he's permabanned now or the library won't let him use their computers) threaten to kill me, posted in a thread and via PM. DXP was pretty quick about banning him, even did it before I had a chance to report it.
The last one is the only one I remotely took seriously. The only response in my head, though not expressed, was said by this guy:
Posted by PontusPosted by Ram416Posted by PontusPosted by EndlessPosted by PontusPosted by Endless
I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same category as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
You want both way
effortless cant use q word
Ladynetpune can use word to explain
Brother say keep word out from mouth.
Say just lgbtq or gay
His marraige almost 3 year now.
Your brother being gay and married DOES NOT make him the FINAL highest authority on how the word "queer" is used.
I sometimes identify as queer (because most people don't understand the word "pansexual"). I have seen that word thrown around by my friends and some family members who are LGBTQI. None of them bat an eyelid or get offended when other people use it.
Effortless has a colourful history on dxp, him being extremely homophobic is one of those colours. I saw him use that term and guess what? It didn't bother me. IF anyone else is to use it, it wouldn't bother me either.
I have not seen the context within which LadyNeptune used that word, but I'm pretty sure it wouldn't bother me either.
You're speaking on the hypocrisy here? You of all people should know it's much, much worse in the real world. At least with dxp, you can just close your browser and walk away.
Does not make right.
She can use word and tell person kill themself but get mad for others.click to expand
Never told anyone to kill themselves.
Still waiting on those receipts...
Posted by PontusPosted by enfant_terrible
Another member passionate about social justice work @LaMadrina
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Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by PontusPosted by Ram416Posted by PontusPosted by EndlessPosted by PontusPosted by Endless
I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same category as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
You want both way
effortless cant use q word
Ladynetpune can use word to explain
Brother say keep word out from mouth.
Say just lgbtq or gay
His marraige almost 3 year now.
Your brother being gay and married DOES NOT make him the FINAL highest authority on how the word "queer" is used.
I sometimes identify as queer (because most people don't understand the word "pansexual"). I have seen that word thrown around by my friends and some family members who are LGBTQI. None of them bat an eyelid or get offended when other people use it.
Effortless has a colourful history on dxp, him being extremely homophobic is one of those colours. I saw him use that term and guess what? It didn't bother me. IF anyone else is to use it, it wouldn't bother me either.
I have not seen the context within which LadyNeptune used that word, but I'm pretty sure it wouldn't bother me either.
You're speaking on the hypocrisy here? You of all people should know it's much, much worse in the real world. At least with dxp, you can just close your browser and walk away.
Does not make right.
She can use word and tell person kill themself but get mad for others.
Never told anyone to kill themselves.
Still waiting on those receipts...click to expand
@enfant_terrible
You called it and the "lady" delivers.
Posted by PontusPosted by Ram416Posted by PontusPosted by EndlessPosted by PontusPosted by Endless
I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same category as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
You want both way
effortless cant use q word
Ladynetpune can use word to explain
Brother say keep word out from mouth.
Say just lgbtq or gay
His marraige almost 3 year now.
Your brother being gay and married DOES NOT make him the FINAL highest authority on how the word "queer" is used.
I sometimes identify as queer (because most people don't understand the word "pansexual"). I have seen that word thrown around by my friends and some family members who are LGBTQI. None of them bat an eyelid or get offended when other people use it.
Effortless has a colourful history on dxp, him being extremely homophobic is one of those colours. I saw him use that term and guess what? It didn't bother me. IF anyone else is to use it, it wouldn't bother me either.
I have not seen the context within which LadyNeptune used that word, but I'm pretty sure it wouldn't bother me either.
You're speaking on the hypocrisy here? You of all people should know it's much, much worse in the real world. At least with dxp, you can just close your browser and walk away.
Does not make right.
She can use word and tell person kill themself but get mad for others.click to expand
Did she use the word to belittle or slur someone (like Effortless did)?
Or did she use it to report him?
Posted by PontusPosted by EndlessPosted by PontusPosted by EndlessPosted by PontusPosted by Endless
I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
I see not difference
n word for black
m word for dwarf
r word for mental disable
f and q for gay
All reclaim
I don't want a specific way, because I have little interest in this subject, but if someone is asking for a ban for someone else, Imho their case should be sound, effortless could argue his use of the word, ladyneptune is clearly using it to point her case, Im not arguing if their use was wrong,but that the word is used by many.
your brother is a third-party, I have seem kids using the word "gay" to point out a "lame" situation, they say:
Dad: Going to the family reunion, see you there.
Teenager: Dad, that's so gay.
Dad: what you mean?.
Teenager: it's lame and boring.
so, easily someone can perceive the word gay as a pejorative term, but it isnt.
Posted by Pontus
you say you see no difference.
I make my last point again.
there's "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory"
have you ever see a N****r studies? or m****t theory? no? yeah I thought so.
unlike queer there's no use of those "reclaimed" words in any formal situation, they are and have been use as slurs only, queer however is used in legit ways to point out both people of the lgbt community and for academic purposes.
It also used for slur like you point to effortless.
Ladynetpun reference slur and say it.
She not use it in study. She use as slur exampleclick to expand
it CAN be used as a slur, it CAN be used in studies, It CAN be use to identify a non heteronormative person.
the fact that the word is used in academic and formal speak legitimize its use, the fact that it is controversial to many doesn't make it a "wrong" word, my point is therefore, that the use of the word is not a slur unless the person to who it is directed feels offended by it.
and I prove my point in the merriam-webster website explanation of the usage of the word queer.
Posted by PontusPosted by Ram416Posted by PontusPosted by Ram416Posted by PontusPosted by EndlessPosted by PontusPosted by Endless
I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same category as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
You want both way
effortless cant use q word
Ladynetpune can use word to explain
Brother say keep word out from mouth.
Say just lgbtq or gay
His marraige almost 3 year now.
Your brother being gay and married DOES NOT make him the FINAL highest authority on how the word "queer" is used.
I sometimes identify as queer (because most people don't understand the word "pansexual"). I have seen that word thrown around by my friends and some family members who are LGBTQI. None of them bat an eyelid or get offended when other people use it.
Effortless has a colourful history on dxp, him being extremely homophobic is one of those colours. I saw him use that term and guess what? It didn't bother me. IF anyone else is to use it, it wouldn't bother me either.
I have not seen the context within which LadyNeptune used that word, but I'm pretty sure it wouldn't bother me either.
You're speaking on the hypocrisy here? You of all people should know it's much, much worse in the real world. At least with dxp, you can just close your browser and walk away.
Does not make right.
She can use word and tell person kill themself but get mad for others.
Did she use the word to belittle or slur someone (like Effortless did)?
Or did she use it to report him?
She reference slur and say itclick to expand
Referencing a word is very different from using it to hurt and belittle someone.
So you're saying she used it to report him?
Posted by PontusPosted by LadyNeptune
You tell person to kill selfclick to expand
Pointing out the right way to kill yourself =/= telling someone to kill themselves
Posted by PontusPosted by EndlessPosted by PontusPosted by EndlessPosted by PontusPosted by EndlessPosted by PontusPosted by Endless
I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
I see not difference
n word for black
m word for dwarf
r word for mental disable
f and q for gay
All reclaim
I don't want a specific way, because I have little interest in this subject, but if someone is asking for a ban for someone else, Imho their case should be sound, effortless could argue his use of the word, ladyneptune is clearly using it to point her case, Im not arguing if their use was wrong,but that the word is used by many.
your brother is a third-party, I have seem kids using the word "gay" to point out a "lame" situation, they say:
Dad: Going to the family reunion, see you there.
Teenager: Dad, that's so gay.
Dad: what you mean?.
Teenager: it's lame and boring.
so, easily someone can perceive the word gay as a pejorative term, but it isnt.
Posted by Pontus
you say you see no difference.
I make my last point again.
there's "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory"
have you ever see a N****r studies? or m****t theory? no? yeah I thought so.
unlike queer there's no use of those "reclaimed" words in any formal situation, they are and have been use as slurs only, queer however is used in legit ways to point out both people of the lgbt community and for academic purposes.
It also used for slur like you point to effortless.
Ladynetpun reference slur and say it.
She not use it in study. She use as slur example
it CAN be used as a slur, it CAN be used in studies, It CAN be use to identify a non heteronormative person.
the fact that the word is used in academic and formal speak legitimize its use, the fact that it is controversial to many doesn't make it a "wrong" word, my point is therefore, that the use of the word is not a slur unless the person to who it is directed feels offended by it.
and I prove my point in the merriam-webster website explanation of the usage of the word queer.
So this apply to all slur?click to expand
Posted by Pontus
you say you see no difference.
I make my last point again.
there's "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" and people using it to identify themself and others
have you ever see a N****r studies? or m****t theory? no? yeah I thought so.
unlike queer there's no use of those "reclaimed" words in any formal situation, they are and have been use as slurs ONLY, queer however is used in legit ways to point out both people of the lgbt community and for academic purposes, I dont see why I need to point this twice.
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
@enfant_terrible
You called it and the "lady" delivers.
Yup, just look at her responses after being exposed. She's shortcircuiting. Her self-righteousness knows no limits.
Posted by PontusPosted by LadyNeptune
You tell person to kill selfclick to expand
So is this really about her use of the word "queer" or that she told someone to kill himself?
Still waiting on receipts
Posted by PontusPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by PontusPosted by LadyNeptune
You tell person to kill self
Pointing out the right way to kill yourself =/= telling someone to kill themselves
You say how to kill self to someone is suicidle. That is better?
You remember girl who in prison for say to boyfriend how to kill self.
Same for you.click to expand
He never said he was suicidal.
Posted by PontusPosted by Ram416Posted by PontusPosted by Ram416Posted by PontusPosted by Ram416Posted by PontusPosted by EndlessPosted by PontusPosted by Endless
I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same category as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
You want both way
effortless cant use q word
Ladynetpune can use word to explain
Brother say keep word out from mouth.
Say just lgbtq or gay
His marraige almost 3 year now.
Your brother being gay and married DOES NOT make him the FINAL highest authority on how the word "queer" is used.
I sometimes identify as queer (because most people don't understand the word "pansexual"). I have seen that word thrown around by my friends and some family members who are LGBTQI. None of them bat an eyelid or get offended when other people use it.
Effortless has a colourful history on dxp, him being extremely homophobic is one of those colours. I saw him use that term and guess what? It didn't bother me. IF anyone else is to use it, it wouldn't bother me either.
I have not seen the context within which LadyNeptune used that word, but I'm pretty sure it wouldn't bother me either.
You're speaking on the hypocrisy here? You of all people should know it's much, much worse in the real world. At least with dxp, you can just close your browser and walk away.
Does not make right.
She can use word and tell person kill themself but get mad for others.
Did she use the word to belittle or slur someone (like Effortless did)?
Or did she use it to report him?
She reference slur and say it
Referencing a word is very different from using it to hurt and belittle someone.
So you're saying she used it to report him?
So reference f word for gay and n word word for black are okay if reporting.
Why you are defending person that say for person to kill self?click to expand
I'm not defending her on the part of her telling people to kill themselves. I'm usually one of those who reports such things (I even reported a friend for saying it once and she was temp banned).
Show me the original post and I will report.
I'm more interested in why you think she was slurring anyone with the use of the word queer.
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Still waiting on receiptsclick to expand
Where did I say "go kill yourself"
Where did he say "I'm suicidal"
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You tell person to kill self
So is this really about her use of the word "queer" or that she told someone to kill himself?
It about hypocrisy of thread.
You understand?click to expand
Definitely. So in other words you baited people into this thread by claiming she was using the word queer and getting away with it. But really its about her telling people to kill themselves, and getting away with it.
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You tell person to kill self
Pointing out the right way to kill yourself =/= telling someone to kill themselves
You say how to kill self to someone is suicidle. That is better?
You remember girl who in prison for say to boyfriend how to kill self.
Same for you.click to expand
That girl actually spent weeks persuading him to kill himself. It was premeditated, she had it all planned out beforehand. THAT was why she went to jail.
Telling someone to kill themselves in the spur of the moment (therefore not premeditated) is not the same thing. It's not right, and definitely bannable, but not the same level as a premeditated attempt.
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I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same category as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
You want both way
effortless cant use q word
Ladynetpune can use word to explain
Brother say keep word out from mouth.
Say just lgbtq or gay
His marraige almost 3 year now.
Your brother being gay and married DOES NOT make him the FINAL highest authority on how the word "queer" is used.
I sometimes identify as queer (because most people don't understand the word "pansexual"). I have seen that word thrown around by my friends and some family members who are LGBTQI. None of them bat an eyelid or get offended when other people use it.
Effortless has a colourful history on dxp, him being extremely homophobic is one of those colours. I saw him use that term and guess what? It didn't bother me. IF anyone else is to use it, it wouldn't bother me either.
I have not seen the context within which LadyNeptune used that word, but I'm pretty sure it wouldn't bother me either.
You're speaking on the hypocrisy here? You of all people should know it's much, much worse in the real world. At least with dxp, you can just close your browser and walk away.
Does not make right.
She can use word and tell person kill themself but get mad for others.
Did she use the word to belittle or slur someone (like Effortless did)?
Or did she use it to report him?
She reference slur and say it
Referencing a word is very different from using it to hurt and belittle someone.
So you're saying she used it to report him?
So reference f word for gay and n word word for black are okay if reporting.
Why you are defending person that say for person to kill self?
I'm not defending her on the part of her telling people to kill themselves. I'm usually one of those who reports such things (I even reported a friend for saying it once and she was temp banned).
Show me the original post and I will report.
I'm more interested in why you think she was slurring anyone with the use of the word queer.
It was you!
Terramine dayzclick to expand
😈🤗
I think I wasn't the only one though. I also reported Terra as well for the same thing.But then with Terra it's an almost regular thing. Every time he comes back he just has to threaten someone or tell them to kill themselves.😑
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I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same category as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
You want both way
effortless cant use q word
Ladynetpune can use word to explain
Brother say keep word out from mouth.
Say just lgbtq or gay
His marraige almost 3 year now.
Your brother being gay and married DOES NOT make him the FINAL highest authority on how the word "queer" is used.
I sometimes identify as queer (because most people don't understand the word "pansexual"). I have seen that word thrown around by my friends and some family members who are LGBTQI. None of them bat an eyelid or get offended when other people use it.
Effortless has a colourful history on dxp, him being extremely homophobic is one of those colours. I saw him use that term and guess what? It didn't bother me. IF anyone else is to use it, it wouldn't bother me either.
I have not seen the context within which LadyNeptune used that word, but I'm pretty sure it wouldn't bother me either.
You're speaking on the hypocrisy here? You of all people should know it's much, much worse in the real world. At least with dxp, you can just close your browser and walk away.
Does not make right.
She can use word and tell person kill themself but get mad for others.
Did she use the word to belittle or slur someone (like Effortless did)?
Or did she use it to report him?
She reference slur and say it
Referencing a word is very different from using it to hurt and belittle someone.
So you're saying she used it to report him?
So reference f word for gay and n word word for black are okay if reporting.
Why you are defending person that say for person to kill self?
I'm not defending her on the part of her telling people to kill themselves. I'm usually one of those who reports such things (I even reported a friend for saying it once and she was temp banned).
Show me the original post and I will report.
I'm more interested in why you think she was slurring anyone with the use of the word queer.
She reference slur as example.
Not different to reference f word for gay or n word for black as exampleclick to expand
Referencing a word is completely different from actually using it to belittle someone.
One is used as a point of information.
The other is used as a weapon to hurt someone.
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I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
I see not difference
n word for black
m word for dwarf
r word for mental disable
f and q for gay
All reclaim
I don't want a specific way, because I have little interest in this subject, but if someone is asking for a ban for someone else, Imho their case should be sound, effortless could argue his use of the word, ladyneptune is clearly using it to point her case, Im not arguing if their use was wrong,but that the word is used by many.
your brother is a third-party, I have seem kids using the word "gay" to point out a "lame" situation, they say:
Dad: Going to the family reunion, see you there.
Teenager: Dad, that's so gay.
Dad: what you mean?.
Teenager: it's lame and boring.
so, easily someone can perceive the word gay as a pejorative term, but it isnt.
Posted by Pontus
you say you see no difference.
I make my last point again.
there's "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory"
have you ever see a N****r studies? or m****t theory? no? yeah I thought so.
unlike queer there's no use of those "reclaimed" words in any formal situation, they are and have been use as slurs only, queer however is used in legit ways to point out both people of the lgbt community and for academic purposes.
Show what study she useclick to expand
He was talking in general terms, not with reference to LN.
He's trying to point out that there is a difference in usage.
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I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
I see not difference
n word for black
m word for dwarf
r word for mental disable
f and q for gay
All reclaim
I don't want a specific way, because I have little interest in this subject, but if someone is asking for a ban for someone else, Imho their case should be sound, effortless could argue his use of the word, ladyneptune is clearly using it to point her case, Im not arguing if their use was wrong,but that the word is used by many.
your brother is a third-party, I have seem kids using the word "gay" to point out a "lame" situation, they say:
Dad: Going to the family reunion, see you there.
Teenager: Dad, that's so gay.
Dad: what you mean?.
Teenager: it's lame and boring.
so, easily someone can perceive the word gay as a pejorative term, but it isnt.
Posted by Pontus
you say you see no difference.
I make my last point again.
there's "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory"
have you ever see a N****r studies? or m****t theory? no? yeah I thought so.
unlike queer there's no use of those "reclaimed" words in any formal situation, they are and have been use as slurs only, queer however is used in legit ways to point out both people of the lgbt community and for academic purposes.
It also used for slur like you point to effortless.
Ladynetpun reference slur and say it.
She not use it in study. She use as slur example
it CAN be used as a slur, it CAN be used in studies, It CAN be use to identify a non heteronormative person.
the fact that the word is used in academic and formal speak legitimize its use, the fact that it is controversial to many doesn't make it a "wrong" word, my point is therefore, that the use of the word is not a slur unless the person to who it is directed feels offended by it.
and I prove my point in the merriam-webster website explanation of the usage of the word queer.
So this apply to all slur?
Posted by Pontus
you say you see no difference.
I make my last point again.
there's "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" and people using it to identify themself and others
have you ever see a N****r studies? or m****t theory? no? yeah I thought so.
unlike queer there's no use of those "reclaimed" words in any formal situation, they are and have been use as slurs ONLY, queer however is used in legit ways to point out both people of the lgbt community and for academic purposes, I dont see why I need to point this twice.
What study she referred to?
Point to please.click to expand
you want me to defend ladyneptune? why? I think that would be against your interest....
have you hear the expression "Swimming Against the Current” cuz this will be you
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anyway
you're belittling "queer studies" by implying it is (a / one) study
"queer study" is a FIELD focused on issues relating to sexual orientation and gender identity.
some people like to self identify with the word queer because they "rejects your minoritizing logic of toleration and political representation in favor of a more thorough resistance to regimes of the normal" so anyone using the word is (like it or not) falling into the "queer theory" of critical thinking, that makes us all part of it and your socially constructed categories of sexual identity dont define if it is right or wrong.
P.S: damn that gemini mars.
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I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
I see not difference
n word for black
m word for dwarf
r word for mental disable
f and q for gay
All reclaim
I don't want a specific way, because I have little interest in this subject, but if someone is asking for a ban for someone else, Imho their case should be sound, effortless could argue his use of the word, ladyneptune is clearly using it to point her case, Im not arguing if their use was wrong,but that the word is used by many.
your brother is a third-party, I have seem kids using the word "gay" to point out a "lame" situation, they say:
Dad: Going to the family reunion, see you there.
Teenager: Dad, that's so gay.
Dad: what you mean?.
Teenager: it's lame and boring.
so, easily someone can perceive the word gay as a pejorative term, but it isnt.
Posted by Pontus
you say you see no difference.
I make my last point again.
there's "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory"
have you ever see a N****r studies? or m****t theory? no? yeah I thought so.
unlike queer there's no use of those "reclaimed" words in any formal situation, they are and have been use as slurs only, queer however is used in legit ways to point out both people of the lgbt community and for academic purposes.
It also used for slur like you point to effortless.
Ladynetpun reference slur and say it.
She not use it in study. She use as slur example
it CAN be used as a slur, it CAN be used in studies, It CAN be use to identify a non heteronormative person.
the fact that the word is used in academic and formal speak legitimize its use, the fact that it is controversial to many doesn't make it a "wrong" word, my point is therefore, that the use of the word is not a slur unless the person to who it is directed feels offended by it.
and I prove my point in the merriam-webster website explanation of the usage of the word queer.
So this apply to all slur?
Posted by Pontus
you say you see no difference.
I make my last point again.
there's "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" and people using it to identify themself and others
have you ever see a N****r studies? or m****t theory? no? yeah I thought so.
unlike queer there's no use of those "reclaimed" words in any formal situation, they are and have been use as slurs ONLY, queer however is used in legit ways to point out both people of the lgbt community and for academic purposes, I dont see why I need to point this twice.
What study she referred to?
Point to please.
you want me to defend ladyneptune? why? I think that would be against your interest....
have you hear the expression "Swimming Against the Current” cuz this will be you
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anyway
you're belittling "queer studies" by implying it is (a / one) study
"queer study" is a FIELD focused on issues relating to sexual orientation and gender identity.
some people like to self identify with the word queer because they "rejects your minoritizing logic of toleration and political representation in favor of a more thorough resistance to regimes of the normal" so anyone using the word is (like it or not) falling into the "queer theory" of critical thinking, that makes us all part of it and your socially constructed categories of sexual identity dont define if it is right or wrong.click to expand
He was baiting us.
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I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
I see not difference
n word for black
m word for dwarf
r word for mental disable
f and q for gay
All reclaim
I don't want a specific way, because I have little interest in this subject, but if someone is asking for a ban for someone else, Imho their case should be sound, effortless could argue his use of the word, ladyneptune is clearly using it to point her case, Im not arguing if their use was wrong,but that the word is used by many.
your brother is a third-party, I have seem kids using the word "gay" to point out a "lame" situation, they say:
Dad: Going to the family reunion, see you there.
Teenager: Dad, that's so gay.
Dad: what you mean?.
Teenager: it's lame and boring.
so, easily someone can perceive the word gay as a pejorative term, but it isnt.
Posted by Pontus
you say you see no difference.
I make my last point again.
there's "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory"
have you ever see a N****r studies? or m****t theory? no? yeah I thought so.
unlike queer there's no use of those "reclaimed" words in any formal situation, they are and have been use as slurs only, queer however is used in legit ways to point out both people of the lgbt community and for academic purposes.
It also used for slur like you point to effortless.
Ladynetpun reference slur and say it.
She not use it in study. She use as slur example
it CAN be used as a slur, it CAN be used in studies, It CAN be use to identify a non heteronormative person.
the fact that the word is used in academic and formal speak legitimize its use, the fact that it is controversial to many doesn't make it a "wrong" word, my point is therefore, that the use of the word is not a slur unless the person to who it is directed feels offended by it.
and I prove my point in the merriam-webster website explanation of the usage of the word queer.
So this apply to all slur?
Posted by Pontus
you say you see no difference.
I make my last point again.
there's "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" and people using it to identify themself and others
have you ever see a N****r studies? or m****t theory? no? yeah I thought so.
unlike queer there's no use of those "reclaimed" words in any formal situation, they are and have been use as slurs ONLY, queer however is used in legit ways to point out both people of the lgbt community and for academic purposes, I dont see why I need to point this twice.
What study she referred to?
Point to please.
you want me to defend ladyneptune? why? I think that would be against your interest....
have you hear the expression "Swimming Against the Current” cuz this will be you
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anyway
you're belittling "queer studies" by implying it is (a / one) study
"queer study" is a FIELD focused on issues relating to sexual orientation and gender identity.
some people like to self identify with the word queer because they "rejects your minoritizing logic of toleration and political representation in favor of a more thorough resistance to regimes of the normal" so anyone using the word is (like it or not) falling into the "queer theory" of critical thinking, that makes us all part of it and your socially constructed categories of sexual identity dont define if it is right or wrong.
He was baiting us.click to expand
well, ofc I'm aware of it, but I like arguments.
but I'm still baffled by it, why focus on the q-word part? if he want to mess with ladyneptune, how come he doesn't focus on what enfant_terrible said, that's clearly more juicy, afaik promoting other people "attempts" is actually a felony in many jurisdiction, and that only requires to do or say something that intentionally aids another person in doing that, it will certainly fall into criminal harassment at least, but he just fail miserably at catching that.
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I don't care who's this effortless, and beyond my opinion on the word "queer", I had this discussion before and.
from merriam-webster
"Usage of Queer - Adjective"
"Over the past two decades, an important change has occurred in the use of queer in the senses that refer to sexuality. The older, strongly pejorative use has certainly not vanished, but a use by some gay people and some academics as a neutral or even positive term has established itself. This development is most noticeable in the adjective but is reflected in the corresponding noun as well. The newer use is sometimes taken to be offensive, especially by older gay men who fostered the acceptance of gay in these uses and still have a strong preference for it"
the use of queer as a slur is debated nowadays, as long as some people from the lgbtqia+ community insist of "reclaiming" the word, it can in fact be used to indicate a person is a non cis-heterosexual, beyond the use of the poster.
and black is also freely use to point someones race, I notice americans are very fast at pointing each other races, even in public media, generally with disregard and the intent to create hostility, but the use of "correct" words as innuendos is something very popular around here, obviously because taken literally, they look innocent.
the initial accusation, feels lackluster.
Not same.
Context use by effortless is same LadyNeptute use to explain.
Not differ from m word for dwarf f word for gay and n word for black.
Some use m word here to slur dwarf and someone say m word to call out and report. Same
Someone use n word to slur black and someone say n word to call out and report. Same.
Those words be claim back by community m word and n word. You not say same.
Hypocrite
so let me get this right.
according to you, (I don't know if you're part of the lgbt but I imagine it doesn't matter) according to you the word "QUEER" is under the same as others "reclaimed" words, you point out the N word as an example.
but even IF (and that can be debated by him) the use of the word by effortless is as a pejorative slur, you're wrong when you compare queer with the N word, is true that both words have been "reclaimed" by their respective community but there's a big difference, no one is using the N word in any academic field or in any formal speech, but you can google for "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" I have yet to see the use of the N words in a similar fashion.
so, who can't say the same?
and your attend to point my "Hypocrisy" is lackluster too
I see not difference
n word for black
m word for dwarf
r word for mental disable
f and q for gay
All reclaim
I don't want a specific way, because I have little interest in this subject, but if someone is asking for a ban for someone else, Imho their case should be sound, effortless could argue his use of the word, ladyneptune is clearly using it to point her case, Im not arguing if their use was wrong,but that the word is used by many.
your brother is a third-party, I have seem kids using the word "gay" to point out a "lame" situation, they say:
Dad: Going to the family reunion, see you there.
Teenager: Dad, that's so gay.
Dad: what you mean?.
Teenager: it's lame and boring.
so, easily someone can perceive the word gay as a pejorative term, but it isnt.
Posted by Pontus
you say you see no difference.
I make my last point again.
there's "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory"
have you ever see a N****r studies? or m****t theory? no? yeah I thought so.
unlike queer there's no use of those "reclaimed" words in any formal situation, they are and have been use as slurs only, queer however is used in legit ways to point out both people of the lgbt community and for academic purposes.
It also used for slur like you point to effortless.
Ladynetpun reference slur and say it.
She not use it in study. She use as slur example
it CAN be used as a slur, it CAN be used in studies, It CAN be use to identify a non heteronormative person.
the fact that the word is used in academic and formal speak legitimize its use, the fact that it is controversial to many doesn't make it a "wrong" word, my point is therefore, that the use of the word is not a slur unless the person to who it is directed feels offended by it.
and I prove my point in the merriam-webster website explanation of the usage of the word queer.
So this apply to all slur?
Posted by Pontus
you say you see no difference.
I make my last point again.
there's "Queer Nation" "Queer studies" "Queer theory" and people using it to identify themself and others
have you ever see a N****r studies? or m****t theory? no? yeah I thought so.
unlike queer there's no use of those "reclaimed" words in any formal situation, they are and have been use as slurs ONLY, queer however is used in legit ways to point out both people of the lgbt community and for academic purposes, I dont see why I need to point this twice.
What study she referred to?
Point to please.
you want me to defend ladyneptune? why? I think that would be against your interest....
have you hear the expression "Swimming Against the Current” cuz this will be you
---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
anyway
you're belittling "queer studies" by implying it is (a / one) study
"queer study" is a FIELD focused on issues relating to sexual orientation and gender identity.
some people like to self identify with the word queer because they "rejects your minoritizing logic of toleration and political representation in favor of a more thorough resistance to regimes of the normal" so anyone using the word is (like it or not) falling into the "queer theory" of critical thinking, that makes us all part of it and your socially constructed categories of sexual identity dont define if it is right or wrong.
P.S: damn that gemini mars.
Not Gemini mars. I am Aquarius marsclick to expand
right.
I am the gemini mars.
that's why you can't hold me a candle 😆
@Ram416
Look, now he's trying to shoehorn the F word and the N word into this topic too lmao
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@Soul was struggling with depression?
Or is he just a Scorpio Moon?
@Soul if you were/are depressed, hope you're okay. Put down that shitty spiced rum though.
All is good.
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