Leo man & Cancer woman

Hi, since i'm new to this idk where to post this topic so i post it in Leo Forum. i wish somebody give me a good advice 🙂

i'm 24 y.o cancer girl dating a 31 y.o leo man. we met in February and then 2 weeks later we're get into a relationship, idk he said he loves me since first sight.

and everything gone well, he treated me like a princess even introduced me to his whole family. we were madly in love. it was interracial relationship since i'm an asian and he's european man. it was really short time, 3 months but i felt like he would give everything to me, and me too!

in June i gone back to my country, he said in Jule he would come to see me. but then i made mistakes, we were arguing and he cancel his plan to see me. i broke him up, he fought for our relationship but i just hurt his pride, for constant 3 months- i know that's my bad, but i'm pregnant. and i want him to see me asap!. i gave him deadline until end this month but he just flown to china (after he said he can't take free time more than 3 days, he was a week in china). i threw big tantrum to him, and he wants a break.. for 1 or 2 months. i can't! you know it's living in hell for a cancer girl like me.. i couldn't bear it so he said it's better when we break up.

next day i tried to reach him softly,friendly. he open up to me, but he said he's afraid to love me again after all my confrontation and tantrum. i said ok. and then he said, he starts flirts another girl. he like her but just that! he met her for several times but nothings happened, just friendly cheeks kiss. i'm broken, i mean how could he check out another girl while we are not contacting each other when i almost everynight cried to sleep? but then i fought for our love, i said i want him back and all he said he wants me to give him little break, until desember. i can't wait any longer 😢 so i said goodbye and all he said was 'i will always there for you and baby if you need any help' and i said thanks.

could you guys give me any advice to get him back again? am i lost him already? i really afraid if he love this new girl 😢 pls help 😢 thanks in advance.

Lol @ leos always getting themselves into trouble through international travel

Posted by enfant_terrible

Lol @ leos always getting themselves into trouble through international travel

i lived in his country when i met him, and i gone back to my country because the contract was over 😢

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Lol @ leos always getting themselves into trouble through international travel

i lived in his country when i met him, and i gone back to my country because the contract was over 😢

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Well he knocked you up fast enough you should have just got married while you were at it.

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Lol @ leos always getting themselves into trouble through international travel

i lived in his country when i met him, and i gone back to my country because the contract was over 😢

Well he knocked you up fast enough you should have just got married while you were at it.

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i just realise that i'm pregnant a month later, while i'm in my country. and the saddest part is, he is my first.. you know it breaks me into pieces 😢

Posted by Black-Mamba

Isn't there something legal you can do

Also fuk him worry about your child



Why would you want that loser

He's disloyal and disposed of you over a few arguments

He sounds wack and like a control freak

i don't want to take him in a bad situation 😢

he also said it's better for me to abort it.

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Isn't there something legal you can do

Also fuk him worry about your child



Why would you want that loser

He's disloyal and disposed of you over a few arguments

He sounds wack and like a control freak

i don't want to take him in a bad situation 😢

he also said it's better for me to abort it.

Wow he's a gross human being

What's wrong with you?

Is your self esteem that low, why do you want to be with this guy... He's wack

You don't want him in bad situation?

Who gives a fuk about him. He created a child time to take responsibility

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i don't know what to do. he said he didn't believe that i'm pregnant, i sent USG pictures every months and that's what he said. he said he need time and i stressed him out lately. and if i want to see him, he would see me in December.

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i still love can leo combo even if my baby daddy ex was so stupid to let everything go to trash. my new friend is again a leo, and i already adore her. now i will read the op.

yeah you're right.. they are adorable.. but mine, i don't know where i stand rn.

Posted by MissKrabs

oh girl you are pregnant. fuck him. either he will take responsibility or not. are you ok? does he know that you are pregnant? people use fucking protection!

i don't know how to treetrunk him really. he asked me many times to do abortion but i refused 😢

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oh girl you are pregnant. fuck him. either he will take responsibility or not. are you ok? does he know that you are pregnant? people use fucking protection!

i don't know how to treetrunk him really. he asked me many times to do abortion but i refused 😢

do what you think it's right. if you want a baby, have a baby. i'm all pro babies so maybe i'm not the best person to answer.

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i really want it but he want me to do abortion 😢 i refuse.

he starts dating another girl now..

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oh girl you are pregnant. fuck him. either he will take responsibility or not. are you ok? does he know that you are pregnant? people use fucking protection!

i don't know how to treetrunk him really. he asked me many times to do abortion but i refused 😢

do what you think it's right. if you want a baby, have a baby. i'm all pro babies so maybe i'm not the best person to answer.

i really want it but he want me to do abortion 😢 i refuse.

he starts dating another girl now..

i hope you are not trolling. i'm a single working mom, so my brain is not always sharp lmao.

it's not his call, it is your decision.

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he is my first tho 😢

i have to raise it alone then..

do you think i lost him?

sorry but this sounds fake

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sorry but this sounds fake

which part?

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Posted by imnotvirgo

sorry but this sounds fake

the whole story? i vote yes, or i'm here too long.

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why i should fake something when i really need your advice 😢

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Posted by imnotvirgo

sorry but this sounds fake

which part?

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the whole part

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Posted by imnotvirgo

sorry but this sounds fake

which part?

the whole part

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it is what it is, that's why i need your advice..

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oh girl you are pregnant. fuck him. either he will take responsibility or not. are you ok? does he know that you are pregnant? people use fucking protection!

i don't know how to treetrunk him really. he asked me many times to do abortion but i refused 😢

do what you think it's right. if you want a baby, have a baby. i'm all pro babies so maybe i'm not the best person to answer.

i really want it but he want me to do abortion 😢 i refuse.

he starts dating another girl now..

i hope you are not trolling. i'm a single working mom, so my brain is not always sharp lmao.

it's not his call, it is your decision.

he is my first tho 😢

i have to raise it alone then..

do you think i lost him?

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I think he was never yours to begin with. Take care of yourself mama

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oh girl you are pregnant. fuck him. either he will take responsibility or not. are you ok? does he know that you are pregnant? people use fucking protection!

i don't know how to treetrunk him really. he asked me many times to do abortion but i refused 😢

do what you think it's right. if you want a baby, have a baby. i'm all pro babies so maybe i'm not the best person to answer.

i really want it but he want me to do abortion 😢 i refuse.

he starts dating another girl now..

i hope you are not trolling. i'm a single working mom, so my brain is not always sharp lmao.

it's not his call, it is your decision.

he is my first tho 😢

i have to raise it alone then..

do you think i lost him?

I think he was never yours to begin with. Take care of yourself mama

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but everythings seems real, he even introduced me to his whole family and friends. and then everything turns into disaster.

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this song 😢

Hi Lillyboo! I'm a cancer woman and I've been dating a Leo man for months now and i have several leo bestfriends. Trust me I know being a cancer myself how you feel right now. Must be really hard right? I had a lot of fights with my leo man and he always comes back to me if I apologize and tell him how much I love him. He said some hurtful things everytime we fight but i get used to it already. If he really loves you then he wont stay mad for a long time. Leos I know wont give up easily for people they love even they get hurt in that relationship

Posted by Kittycat02

Hi Lillyboo! I'm a cancer woman and I've been dating a Leo man for months now and i have several leo bestfriends. Trust me I know being a cancer myself how you feel right now. Must be really hard right? I had a lot of fights with my leo man and he always comes back to me if I apologize and tell him how much I love him. He said some hurtful things everytime we fight but i get used to it already. If he really loves you then he wont stay mad for a long time. Leos I know wont give up easily for people they love even they get hurt in that relationship

thanks for sharing! yeah it's kinda hard for me to fit in his personality.

i've apologized and he said he needed time to be alone. he said it makes him sick everytime he thinks about how much i hurted him.

but as cancer girl, i can't bear silent treatment and one again, baby needs his father too..

it's hurt my heart knowing he starts dating another girl, no, flirting i mean. even he haven't done anything with her, i still hurt inside when i found that out. am i really lost him? i gone through hell this past 4 months, pregnant and without any support from him. i beg him to stay but he haven't response and just read my text 😢

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Hi Lillyboo! I'm a cancer woman and I've been dating a Leo man for months now and i have several leo bestfriends. Trust me I know being a cancer myself how you feel right now. Must be really hard right? I had a lot of fights with my leo man and he always comes back to me if I apologize and tell him how much I love him. He said some hurtful things everytime we fight but i get used to it already. If he really loves you then he wont stay mad for a long time. Leos I know wont give up easily for people they love even they get hurt in that relationship

thanks for sharing! yeah it's kinda hard for me to fit in his personality.

i've apologized and he said he needed time to be alone. he said it makes him sick everytime he thinks about how much i hurted him.

but as cancer girl, i can't bear silent treatment and one again, baby needs his father too..

it's hurt my heart knowing he starts dating another girl, no, flirting i mean. even he haven't done anything with her, i still hurt inside when i found that out. am i really lost him? i gone through hell this past 4 months, pregnant and without any support from him. i beg him to stay but he haven't response and just read my text 😢

get a hold of yourself, he is emotionally blackmailing you with that hurt crap. If he really cared about you he wouldn't be treating you this way.

stop feeling bad for yourself and stop being stupid

take care of yourself and child

get financial help from him even if you have to get the law involved

move on.

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hi, Blackmamba. thanks for the advice..

i know recently i'm being so stupid. but yesterday i asked him for financial support- because this 4 months i work for myself part time since i'm writing my thesis too. i said i could take law help if he refuse to help me, but i'm not getting any answer even he read it and still online.

i'm never fell head to heels before, and knowing he makes so many excuses makes me depressed.

i will try to moving on. thanks

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Hi Lillyboo! I'm a cancer woman and I've been dating a Leo man for months now and i have several leo bestfriends. Trust me I know being a cancer myself how you feel right now. Must be really hard right? I had a lot of fights with my leo man and he always comes back to me if I apologize and tell him how much I love him. He said some hurtful things everytime we fight but i get used to it already. If he really loves you then he wont stay mad for a long time. Leos I know wont give up easily for people they love even they get hurt in that relationship

thanks for sharing! yeah it's kinda hard for me to fit in his personality.

i've apologized and he said he needed time to be alone. he said it makes him sick everytime he thinks about how much i hurted him.

but as cancer girl, i can't bear silent treatment and one again, baby needs his father too..

it's hurt my heart knowing he starts dating another girl, no, flirting i mean. even he haven't done anything with her, i still hurt inside when i found that out. am i really lost him? i gone through hell this past 4 months, pregnant and without any support from him. i beg him to stay but he haven't response and just read my text 😢

get a hold of yourself, he is emotionally blackmailing you with that hurt crap. If he really cared about you he wouldn't be treating you this way.

stop feeling bad for yourself and stop being stupid

take care of yourself and child

get financial help from him even if you have to get the law involved

move on.

hi, Blackmamba. thanks for the advice..

i know recently i'm being so stupid. but yesterday i asked him for financial support- because this 4 months i work for myself part time since i'm writing my thesis too. i said i could take law help if he refuse to help me, but i'm not getting any answer even he read it and still online.

i'm never fell head to heels before, and knowing he makes so many excuses makes me depressed.

i will try to moving on. thanks

why do you keep texting him if he's ignoring you?

you running yourself into the ground trying to get this guys attention

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i don't really know what to do! i'm alone and since 4 months i decided to moved to another city because my family don't know that i'm pregnant.

that's why i'm here seeking for advice.

Posted by Black-Mamba

I understand first love i get it, it's hard, but he doesn't love you, look at how he's treating you.

is that the kind of man you want to love, someone who ignores you, and can't take responsibility for his actions?

this is the bad side being cancerians, i always see the good side of him and think that i could fix this. he was the most generous person i know, when i was there. everything has changed and i trapped in past.

he's not my first love, but my first... man- you know what i mean.

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Hi Lillyboo! I'm a cancer woman and I've been dating a Leo man for months now and i have several leo bestfriends. Trust me I know being a cancer myself how you feel right now. Must be really hard right? I had a lot of fights with my leo man and he always comes back to me if I apologize and tell him how much I love him. He said some hurtful things everytime we fight but i get used to it already. If he really loves you then he wont stay mad for a long time. Leos I know wont give up easily for people they love even they get hurt in that relationship

thanks for sharing! yeah it's kinda hard for me to fit in his personality.

i've apologized and he said he needed time to be alone. he said it makes him sick everytime he thinks about how much i hurted him.

but as cancer girl, i can't bear silent treatment and one again, baby needs his father too..

it's hurt my heart knowing he starts dating another girl, no, flirting i mean. even he haven't done anything with her, i still hurt inside when i found that out. am i really lost him? i gone through hell this past 4 months, pregnant and without any support from him. i beg him to stay but he haven't response and just read my text 😢

get a hold of yourself, he is emotionally blackmailing you with that hurt crap. If he really cared about you he wouldn't be treating you this way.

stop feeling bad for yourself and stop being stupid

take care of yourself and child

get financial help from him even if you have to get the law involved

move on.

hi, Blackmamba. thanks for the advice..

i know recently i'm being so stupid. but yesterday i asked him for financial support- because this 4 months i work for myself part time since i'm writing my thesis too. i said i could take law help if he refuse to help me, but i'm not getting any answer even he read it and still online.

i'm never fell head to heels before, and knowing he makes so many excuses makes me depressed.

i will try to moving on. thanks

why do you keep texting him if he's ignoring you?

you running yourself into the ground trying to get this guys attention

i don't really know what to do! i'm alone and since 4 months i decided to moved to another city because my family don't know that i'm pregnant.

that's why i'm here seeking for advice.

Maybe talk to a counselor/therapist.

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i'll try.. thanks..

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I understand first love i get it, it's hard, but he doesn't love you, look at how he's treating you.

is that the kind of man you want to love, someone who ignores you, and can't take responsibility for his actions?

this is the bad side being cancerians, i always see the good side of him and think that i could fix this. he was the most generous person i know, when i was there. everything has changed and i trapped in past.

he's not my first love, but my first... man- you know what i mean.

I understand. Look mourn as you want. It's very painful. Stop contacting him. You've told him your expectations. He can man up now if he chooses, you don't need to keep texting/nagging.

Also get to know the countries laws, cause ya, you might have to fight in court.

It's too far along to get an abortion. I myself don't believe in abortions. It won't be an easy life raising a child by yourself, but you put yourself in this situation and now have to act accordingly.

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ok, why could i be so blind lately. i couldn't see that he tried to run from any responsibilities 😢

i will try to get information about the laws, thanks! since i have some friends there maybe it would help.

nah, i will never do abortion. this baby is innocent, i would take care of it even it would be hard.

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Hi Lillyboo! I'm a cancer woman and I've been dating a Leo man for months now and i have several leo bestfriends. Trust me I know being a cancer myself how you feel right now. Must be really hard right? I had a lot of fights with my leo man and he always comes back to me if I apologize and tell him how much I love him. He said some hurtful things everytime we fight but i get used to it already. If he really loves you then he wont stay mad for a long time. Leos I know wont give up easily for people they love even they get hurt in that relationship

thanks for sharing! yeah it's kinda hard for me to fit in his personality.

i've apologized and he said he needed time to be alone. he said it makes him sick everytime he thinks about how much i hurted him.

but as cancer girl, i can't bear silent treatment and one again, baby needs his father too..

it's hurt my heart knowing he starts dating another girl, no, flirting i mean. even he haven't done anything with her, i still hurt inside when i found that out. am i really lost him? i gone through hell this past 4 months, pregnant and without any support from him. i beg him to stay but he haven't response and just read my text 😢

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Sounds a lot like my man. Everytime we have a fight he always tells me that i make him sad. I can't deal with silent treatment too. It's killing us as cancer women. But if leo gets upset and he needs some alone time then there's nothing you can do about it, you gotta leave him alone and give him some time to cool down. Have you decided what are you gonna do with the baby yet?

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Hi Lillyboo! I'm a cancer woman and I've been dating a Leo man for months now and i have several leo bestfriends. Trust me I know being a cancer myself how you feel right now. Must be really hard right? I had a lot of fights with my leo man and he always comes back to me if I apologize and tell him how much I love him. He said some hurtful things everytime we fight but i get used to it already. If he really loves you then he wont stay mad for a long time. Leos I know wont give up easily for people they love even they get hurt in that relationship

thanks for sharing! yeah it's kinda hard for me to fit in his personality.

i've apologized and he said he needed time to be alone. he said it makes him sick everytime he thinks about how much i hurted him.

but as cancer girl, i can't bear silent treatment and one again, baby needs his father too..

it's hurt my heart knowing he starts dating another girl, no, flirting i mean. even he haven't done anything with her, i still hurt inside when i found that out. am i really lost him? i gone through hell this past 4 months, pregnant and without any support from him. i beg him to stay but he haven't response and just read my text 😢

Sounds a lot like my man. Everytime we have a fight he always tells me that i make him sad. I can't deal with silent treatment too. It's killing us as cancer women. But if leo gets upset and he needs some alone time then there's nothing you can do about it, you gotta leave him alone and give him some time to cool down. Have you decided what are you gonna do with the baby yet?

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are Leo men always do this? they need time..

as cancer women, nothing hurt us more than indifference, right?

i could give him space, but he wants 2 months? tell me it's a joke. it would be hard for me during pregnancy without any support from him.

i decided to take care of it, he asked me to do abortion but i don't want to do that.. little eyes are waiting to see the world! 🙂

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What did you say to him?

which part do you wanna know? because many things i've said to him..

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What did you say to him?

which part do you wanna know? because many things i've said to him..

Tell me all the mean things you’ve said to him.

From the beginning.

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i can't clearly remember what i've said.

it's constant 3 or 4 months fight.

i said he disappointed me by cancel his plan to see me in July (until now, he haven't come to me yet)

and he just flirts and dates another girls out there because he likes to play with somebody else's feelings (trust me i found out he texting with a girl constantly).

i said that he is heartless leaving me this way alone and running from any responsibilities he should take. i blame everything on him. i humiliated him.

but i said that with reasons, because he broke his promises, he starts to withdraw when he know i'm pregnant, and he's getting colder since i got back to my country.

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What did you say to him?

which part do you wanna know? because many things i've said to him..

Tell me all the mean things you’ve said to him.

From the beginning.

i can't clearly remember what i've said.

it's constant 3 or 4 months fight.

i said he disappointed me by cancel his plan to see me in July (until now, he haven't come to me yet)

and he just flirts and dates another girls out there because he likes to play with somebody else's feelings (trust me i found out he texting with a girl constantly).

i said that he is heartless leaving me this way alone and running from any responsibilities he should take. i blame everything on him. i humiliated him.

but i said that with reasons, because he broke his promises, he starts to withdraw when he know i'm pregnant, and he's getting colder since i got back to my country.

Have you done anything wrong?

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i got mad knowing him texting with that girl, since that we fought a lot..

i ignored him for several weeks when he explained that he's not cheat on me and he always loyal.

my faults were ignoring him and throwing tantrum for long time..l