Need some advice/tips about Leo woman

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Hi all,

I have met a very nice Leo woman for a week now. Im trying to understand her (with some help about astrology of course) so im not surprised by her behaviour later on. I already saw that she likes to hang out and be active, works very hard and is self confident, like me. We decided to have a drink together next week (she came with the offer) and hoping all will be fine.

Some questions to the Leo woman though that I have on my mind right now:

- Are they loyal, trustworthy? Not everyone is the same I know, I mean in general.

- What do they like and what not in a person?

- Good/bad traits I need to know before hand or?

- If I really want her later on; How can I make her fall in love with me?

I need some basic insight to keep it in my backhead.

Thanks in advance.
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I guess I can only answer from my personal experience. So here I (29, female, leo Sun, Cap moon, Libra Asc) go

-Loyal? Yesssss. So much! Unless you really screw me over, but even then i still find myself hoping the other person is doing ok secretly. I do not like feeling like I hurt someone and id never betray someone. I dont open up easily, but once I decide that I like you and care about you, you're not getting out of it. haha And I hate lying. Why lie? Im very straightforward and honesty is always the best way. Not too blunt though, coz I might get my feelings hurt. haha.

- Likes? Again, honesty. I dont like push-overs. I have a strong personality and am very opinionated. I like someone who can keep up with that. Not someone who will just bow to everything i say. It might be fun in the beginning, but long term it bores me. Same with someone who seems to not care and just goes along with everything. Definitely prefer active people. Passionate and make me laugh. Someone fun and reliable.

- Good traits - loyal, caring. I like to make people feel special and cheer them up.

- Bad traits - Arrogance and needing praise?? Though I dont really know if they apply to me. But those are usually associated with Leos.

- For me, a big deal is being able to rely on someone. But apparently that's my Cap Moon speaking. So I dunno about other leos. I dont need anyone, but i really appreciate when someone is there for me without me having to ask. I tend to do everything on my own and stress myself out over it (might be my Virgo merc though). And someone just doing little things for me like buying me some chocolate for no reason, doing chores (cleaning the litter box, doing the dishes etc), or making me dinner is huge for me. Apparently leos are into luxury and expensive things, but i couldn't care less about the value of things.

Just make her feel special but dont treat her like she is fragile. Like, you know she's fine on her own, but you WANT to support her and be there for her. Not like you think she needs your help.

Not sure if any of this helped.

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Posted by LibraSupreme

1 word of advice with a leo..... Do not hold back on the praise and you will be banging her in no time.


Not sure about this. The praise needs to be genuine.

And too much praise kinda puts pressure on me to fulfill the expectations ... Like someone keep telling me how im oh so beautiful, id feel like I can't be make-up less and in sweatpants around him. If that makes sense. i already put enough pressure on myself to be perfect, I dont need outside pressure added to that.

Make sure it genuine and in small, natural doses, and not superficial/standard.
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I guess I can only answer from my personal experience. So here I (29, female, leo Sun, Cap moon, Libra Asc) go

-Loyal? Yesssss. So much! Unless you really screw me over, but even then i still find myself hoping the other person is doing ok secretly. I do not like feeling like I hurt someone and id never betray someone. I dont open up easily, but once I decide that I like you and care about you, you're not getting out of it. haha And I hate lying. Why lie? Im very straightforward and honesty is always the best way. Not too blunt though, coz I might get my feelings hurt. haha.

- Likes? Again, honesty. I dont like push-overs. I have a strong personality and am very opinionated. I like someone who can keep up with that. Not someone who will just bow to everything i say. It might be fun in the beginning, but long term it bores me. Same with someone who seems to not care and just goes along with everything. Definitely prefer active people. Passionate and make me laugh. Someone fun and reliable.

- Good traits - loyal, caring. I like to make people feel special and cheer them up.

- Bad traits - Arrogance and needing praise?? Though I dont really know if they apply to me. But those are usually associated with Leos.

- For me, a big deal is being able to rely on someone. But apparently that's my Cap Moon speaking. So I dunno about other leos. I dont need anyone, but i really appreciate when someone is there for me without me having to ask. I tend to do everything on my own and stress myself out over it (might be my Virgo merc though). And someone just doing little things for me like buying me some chocolate for no reason, doing chores (cleaning the litter box, doing the dishes etc), or making me dinner is huge for me. Apparently leos are into luxury and expensive things, but i couldn't care less about the value of things.

Just make her feel special but dont treat her like she is fragile. Like, you know she's fine on her own, but you WANT to support her and be there for her. Not like you think she needs your help.

Not sure if any of this helped.


That was a great read and very informative, thanks alot for your time writing it. Much appreciated.

So just being real, be myself, honest and true will make her feel good towards me already. Thats good to know, cause im also like that.. 1-0 for me then lol.
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1 word of advice with a leo..... Do not hold back on the praise and you will be banging her in no time.

Not sure about this. The praise needs to be genuine.

And too much praise kinda puts pressure on me to fulfill the expectations ... Like someone keep telling me how im oh so beautiful, id feel like I can't be make-up less and in sweatpants around him. If that makes sense. i already put enough pressure on myself to be perfect, I dont need outside pressure added to that.

Make sure it genuine and in small, natural doses, and not superficial/standard.
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Sure you are correct if you want a meaningful relationship, but heavy praise can speed up the bedroom activities.
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So we had a great first date; We went to a nice park for a walk to know each other, had a great diner together and went to a horror movie at the end till midnight (which she had chosen; Annabelle Comes Home). Hugged and kissed each other at the end and went to home nicely. All good, perfect to be honest, so far.

A few questions though to be sure:

- Is it normal that she takes the lead as a leo woman? 2 days have passed from our first date and she already asked for when we do the second. She even came up with ideas, I was surprised.

- Does she likes being praised and accepting compliments? I had a feeling like when I was praising her with her hair she felt quite happy and proud, kinda.

- She is very talkative, I can be a bit silent sometimes but because of her I talk alot more too. I get the feeling sometimes like ''I hope im not talking too much..'' but at the same time it feels right?

- She is open and wants to come to my home soon so we can watch a movie or just simply be together. But not yet she said. I didn't asked for it, she came with it out of nowhere. Felt okay, means she is going for me (I guess?) but also with a little bit hesitate at the moment, cause we know each other almost 1,5 weeks now. Good signs?

Thanks.
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So we had a great first date; We went to a nice park for a walk to know each other, had a great diner together and went to a horror movie at the end till midnight (which she had chosen; Annabelle Comes Home). Hugged and kissed each other at the end and went to home nicely. All good, perfect to be honest, so far.

A few questions though to be sure:

- Is it normal that she takes the lead as a leo woman? 2 days have passed from our first date and she already asked for when we do the second. She even came up with ideas, I was surprised.

- Does she likes being praised and accepting compliments? I had a feeling like when I was praising her with her hair she felt quite happy and proud, kinda.

- She is very talkative, I can be a bit silent sometimes but because of her I talk alot more too. I get the feeling sometimes like ''I hope im not talking too much..'' but at the same time it feels right?

- She is open and wants to come to my home soon so we can watch a movie or just simply be together. But not yet she said. I didn't asked for it, she came with it out of nowhere. Felt okay, means she is going for me (I guess?) but also with a little bit hesitate at the moment, cause we know each other almost 1,5 weeks now. Good signs?

Thanks.

Lol I can't help, but find this adoreable. All these green lights and you're still over thinking it. Then again us Leo ladies can be a fickle breed at times.

Just be yourself and it's either going to work out between you two or it's not.

That said, things are looking pretty good for you. Personally, I don't like wasting my time and if I'm into you, you're going to know it one way or another.
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Thanks.

Its nice to have some sort of confirmation from the leos themselves which is nice and much appreciated.
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Whats your sign?

Im a Taurus, 27 april.

I thought it could be difficult to get her (Leo, 3 august) but we have an unique connection since the beginning. I hope this continues like this, or even get better.

I know two Leo women and they are both amazing women. I have a lot of respect for them. Hope everything works out for you 👍🙋‍♀️
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I hope so too. She has a nice, friendly and funny personality that I like. Straight to the point and very confident.
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Posted by Majin

Hi all,

I have met a very nice Leo woman for a week now. Im trying to understand her (with some help about astrology of course) so im not surprised by her behaviour later on. I already saw that she likes to hang out and be active, works very hard and is self confident, like me. We decided to have a drink together next week (she came with the offer) and hoping all will be fine.

Some questions to the Leo woman though that I have on my mind right now:

- Are they loyal, trustworthy? Not everyone is the same I know, I mean in general.

- What do they like and what not in a person?

- Good/bad traits I need to know before hand or?

- If I really want her later on; How can I make her fall in love with me?

I need some basic insight to keep it in my backhead.

Thanks in advance.


I'm a Leo woman x do you know her moon sign.

Leo women are loyal loving and generous.

Be cool and leave her guessing abit. It will drive her crazy but she will want you more.

If you are always texting and being available she nay find it too much.

Definitely be yourself. I know when I fall in love it's usually very quick. I know very early on..
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We have dated 2 times now, which went perfect for both of us. We have a great click and chemistry together and know how to make each other laugh. The 3rd date day is coming soon these days.

What strikes me is that she is coming with the ideas and plans. Like for example; After the first date she asked the next day when the second will be. She came with ideas right away and planned out almost by herself. I was like okay.. Im not used to this but anyway.

Most of them are great ideas so I agreed with them. But like I said im not used to this. As far I know the man comes with ideas and makes the preparations for a great date. But its all fine with me, this way I need to think less lol. Im only adjusting the little details and we are ready to have a nice day together.

Is this normal for a leo to be like this? She takes the lead and asks me out instead me asking her out. I have no problems with it however.

She is smart and knows what she is talking about. She definitly likes the attention (talks and tells alot lol..) from others around her. This is the first time im going out with a Leo so im trying to understand her.

So far so good.
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Sounds good so far, but at some point after your next date let her know that you want to make the plans for the next one (hopefully you'll know her tastes enough to do something she'll be impressed with). Nothing wrong with the lady taking the lead, but as a Taurus eventually you may find yourself getting led by the nose and not liking it. At least for me, I like being in charge but I like it better when my man is, sometimes, lol. We will go along doing our thing and not realize we're sort of emasculating you (sometimes an unevolved Leo female will do this on purpose). If she pushes back on the suggestion, be careful as she may be looking for someone to control.

I luurve Taurus men, but control issues and ego battles can come up real quick if you're both not careful.

Best of luck, it sounds great so far!
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So to update this subject:

Meanwhile we have dated 6 times already and as we become closer to each other we met a few times to just "see each other" for few hours, have a drink and enjoy the weather together.

All goes good so far and I love having her next to me. Feels really good. We also had some serious talking together about our future and meanwhile she was holding my hand with both of her hands tightly. I hope this continues and only gets better.

A few things that I see/experience:

- She is/can be bossy, but I don't really mind that. The ideas behind it and the reasons why she wants something her way were all fairly right so far. I don't complain really. She respects my ideas and if needed she agrees on me too. Im not that stubborn even though im a Taurus.

- She ain't taking the first step. Its me (which I don't mind, all good lol) that does that and she just accepts it. Behind that ego boost of her that she loves to show is also someone shy hiding behind it.

- Loves to spend money and loves luxury. Wants always the best of the best. I mean, who doesn't? Don't lie to yourself lol. Everyone loves a comfortable and luxury life when you're working for it so you can enjoy. I do too.

- Loves her hair (why?). She plays with it, puts it left and right and so on. Just caught my attention.

- I bought her a big bunch of roses yesterday to surprise her and she loved it very much. She said she ain't that of a romantic person and liked that I am. Is this true for a Leo for not being that romantic as me (Taurus)? When im romantic she enjoys it so I don't get it lol. Maybe this has to do with "not taking the step herself" and I need to fire this up before she gets in the mood.

- Im just being the real me, speaking the truth, let her know what I think and feel and that I like her. She blushes and likes my honesty and holds my hand even tighter. I just hope that she is this loyal/truth/honest to me too to me like its says on the internet about this Leo sign (I know.. Not everyone is the same). Any thoughts on this subject?

- Im wondering; She goes on vacation for 10 days with her family soon. What is the best way (for a Leo) to stay connected without being annoying? Even though I always want to see and talk to her I don't want to be sticky or irritating in this period. We already made plans for when she returns to do things together and continue our "love sessions" lol.

Thanks.
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Update:

So we had yesterday another day spend together, all went great again luckely. We spend like 7 hours straight till midnight!

But.. What I do see is that she has some trusting issues (I guess..). While she likes me alot, just like I like her, she isn't going 100% for it yet as far I can see. We kiss, hold hands, hug everywhere, have fun and talk continously while having a drink its all positive. I will continue being me and hope for the best, hopefully she will let me in into her heart soon.

They say Taurus is slow paced in love, which infact is true, but I fell in love quite fast this time. Her strong, confident and beautiful look makes me crazy..

Also would be nice if a leo could reply to my previous comment, if not, well, all good lol.
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- Are they loyal, trustworthy? Not everyone is the same I know, I mean in general.

generally yes unless theres reasons not to

- What do they like and what not in a person?

likes honesty, kindness, forgiveness, patience (which i'm sure taureans have)

dislikes passive aggressiveness, mean people, excuses

- Good/bad traits I need to know before hand or?

-good: good for long term relationships, will stand for your bs, friend for life

-bad : too honest, will not tolerate bs thats hurtful, can be emotional

- If I really want her later on; How can I make her fall in love with me?

-be there for her when she needs you and have lots of quality time together. make sure she knows where you two stand together
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Posted by Majin

So to update this subject:

Meanwhile we have dated 6 times already and as we become closer to each other we met a few times to just "see each other" for few hours, have a drink and enjoy the weather together.

All goes good so far and I love having her next to me. Feels really good. We also had some serious talking together about our future and meanwhile she was holding my hand with both of her hands tightly. I hope this continues and only gets better.

A few things that I see/experience:

- She is/can be bossy, but I don't really mind that. The ideas behind it and the reasons why she wants something her way were all fairly right so far. I don't complain really. She respects my ideas and if needed she agrees on me too. Im not that stubborn even though im a Taurus.

- She ain't taking the first step. Its me (which I don't mind, all good lol) that does that and she just accepts it. Behind that ego boost of her that she loves to show is also someone shy hiding behind it.

- Loves to spend money and loves luxury. Wants always the best of the best. I mean, who doesn't? Don't lie to yourself lol. Everyone loves a comfortable and luxury life when you're working for it so you can enjoy. I do too.

- Loves her hair (why?). She plays with it, puts it left and right and so on. Just caught my attention.

- I bought her a big bunch of roses yesterday to surprise her and she loved it very much. She said she ain't that of a romantic person and liked that I am. Is this true for a Leo for not being that romantic as me (Taurus)? When im romantic she enjoys it so I don't get it lol. Maybe this has to do with "not taking the step herself" and I need to fire this up before she gets in the mood.

- Im just being the real me, speaking the truth, let her know what I think and feel and that I like her. She blushes and likes my honesty and holds my hand even tighter. I just hope that she is this loyal/truth/honest to me too to me like its says on the internet about this Leo sign (I know.. Not everyone is the same). Any thoughts on this subject?

- Im wondering; She goes on vacation for 10 days with her family soon. What is the best way (for a Leo) to stay connected without being annoying? Even though I always want to see and talk to her I don't want to be sticky or irritating in this period. We already made plans for when she returns to do things together and continue our "love sessions" lol.

Thanks.


Emails... Texting?

Nothing that will take much of her time and will actually allow her to miss you. Encourage her to have fun and tell her you're excited to hang out with her again when she comes back home.

Leo and taurus pairing gets difficult when one attempts to control the other

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Thanks for the answers. much appreciated. I hope it all just works out fine at the end and also after the vacation periods. Its been almost a month now and we are still going strong. We must keep it like that or get it even better.

But something weird happened.. I met another Leo when I went out with my friends. I had no intentions on meeting others but anyway. She isn't my priority because the first one is and I will be loyal to her as long she is too. For the moment we are normal friends with the second one.

Im lately feeling like im walking on an open field surrounded by lions watching me carefully, every step I take... Where do these Leos come from out of nowhere lol.
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Hi all,

I have met a very nice Leo woman for a week now. Im trying to understand her (with some help about astrology of course) so im not surprised by her behaviour later on. I already saw that she likes to hang out and be active, works very hard and is self confident, like me. We decided to have a drink together next week (she came with the offer) and hoping all will be fine.

Some questions to the Leo woman though that I have on my mind right now:

- Are they loyal, trustworthy? Not everyone is the same I know, I mean in general.

- What do they like and what not in a person?

- Good/bad traits I need to know before hand or?

- If I really want her later on; How can I make her fall in love with me?

I need some basic insight to keep it in my backhead.

Thanks in advance.

They are trustworthy so long as you treat them well.

They don't like pressure being told what to do or being told they pamper themselves too much.

Good traits generous to their friends and family warm. Understanding. Empathetic. Very sympathetic.

Bad traits drama sometimes. They don't always make the best choices in life or friends etc.

If you want her to fall in love with you....spoil her ..be important...
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- They are trustworthy so long as you treat them well.

Check. I get this strong connection with her. A bit shy and wants to be sure. I trust her till now, hope she does also.

- They don't like pressure being told what to do or being told they pamper themselves too much.

Check. No discussions or arguments till now. We have our opinions and make our decisions based on them. All good really.

- Good traits generous to their friends and family warm. Understanding. Empathetic. Very sympathetic.

Check. She is warm, funny and very talkative. Quite smart also.

- Bad traits drama sometimes. They don't always make the best choices in life or friends etc.

Need to see it yet.

- If you want her to fall in love with you....spoil her ..be important...

Check. I did spend quite some money this past month on and to be with her. Bought expensive roses, chocolates and gifts because it was her birthday yesterday. We ate at really nice places also. She goes on vacation so I can save a bit now lol. I do what I can!
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Today we accepted to talk and drink with the second Leo. Dunno.. If I compare these 2 ladies then I can say that I have met 2 different Leos;

First one (+-1 month knowing her):

- Huge ego, really, no joke. I have no problems with that as long it doesn't starts to irritate me.

- Likes to party and hangout.

- Wants to keep her "being free" feeling, I think she is scared that if we get serious together she will lose it. Thats why she needs some time before doing so.

- Attention, attention, attention.

- "Im right, I do my way what I want and whenever I want..", As I stated before she is right most of the time and knows what she is talking about. But no need to get to stubborn levels.

- Admitted she likes luxury and expensive things, spending money. Who doesn't lol.

Overall a nice Leo but some thoughts of her ain't that right. She acts like the world is turning around her and has alot of friends.. Trust me, she doesn't. But I still like her and we have our good and positive moments like I stated before. We can laugh and have fun together. But I have my doubts for the long run.. She needs to show it to me more clearly and that is what the time will tell.

Second one (knowing her for few days):

- Very soft, nice and gentle.

- Very understanding, respects my opinions.

- No ego, she said she doesn't like that attitude from other Leos.

- Innocent and shy looking. Very cute.

- A little bit insecure about her future.

- Wants to have a family.

- Likes to travel but not partying.

- No alcohol/smoking (like me).

- Doesn't need luxury, as long she likes it its alright.

Its damn day and night difference literally! I was expecting the same ego boost against me but its not there at all. We talked for almost 5 hours straight about everything and nothing, got late so we had to go. Next week we meet again hopefully.

Im just shocked that there is such a big difference between them 2. Oh well, we will see..
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Posted by Majin

Today we accepted to talk and drink with the second Leo. Dunno.. If I compare these 2 ladies then I can say that I have met 2 different Leos;

First one (+-1 month knowing her):

- Huge ego, really, no joke. I have no problems with that as long it doesn't starts to irritate me.

- Likes to party and hangout.

- Wants to keep her "being free" feeling, I think she is scared that if we get serious together she will lose it. Thats why she needs some time before doing so.

- Attention, attention, attention.

- "Im right, I do my way what I want and whenever I want..", As I stated before she is right most of the time and knows what she is talking about. But no need to get to stubborn levels.

- Admitted she likes luxury and expensive things, spending money. Who doesn't lol.

Overall a nice Leo but some thoughts of her ain't that right. She acts like the world is turning around her and has alot of friends.. Trust me, she doesn't. But I still like her and we have our good and positive moments like I stated before. We can laugh and have fun together. But I have my doubts for the long run.. She needs to show it to me more clearly and that is what the time will tell.

Second one (knowing her for few days):

- Very soft, nice and gentle.

- Very understanding, respects my opinions.

- No ego, she said she doesn't like that attitude from other Leos.

- Innocent and shy looking. Very cute.

- A little bit insecure about her future.

- Wants to have a family.

- Likes to travel but not partying.

- No alcohol/smoking (like me).

- Doesn't need luxury, as long she likes it its alright.

Its damn day and night difference literally! I was expecting the same ego boost against me but its not there at all. We talked for almost 5 hours straight about everything and nothing, got late so we had to go. Next week we meet again hopefully.

Im just shocked that there is such a big difference between them 2. Oh well, we will see..


Can you perhaps share if they are July or August Leos?

Also... Their moon?

Just curious 🙂
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I didn't texted my Leo in the morning.. I waited for her response first this time so there was silence till midday (normally we do text) and she texted saying:

"Uhm.. How are you? Why are you so silence, is there something or did you just forgot me? I really don't like that.. *sadface"

Now I confirmed their attention seeking behaviour lol. And also that she misses me, otherwise she wouldn't text me either I guess. Missing and being missed is a good feeling by itself and brings people more together most of the time.

Oh well.. Shes gone for 10 days, I can rest and charge up till then and we will see from there.
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One piece of advice. If you really like the first leo, don't go out with the other and kinda keep your options open. If she finds out, she's probably gonna be pissed as hell. I dont know if you guys are in a relationship or what, but it sounded like you were exploring your feelings for leo No2. If you're just friends with her, that's ok. But if you kinda are comparing the 2, youre stepping on very thin ice.

My guy having female friends is totally ok with me. As long as i know about them. Even just casually mentioned in conversations. Going out, one on one, with another girl that she doesn't know about might make her jealous, but not in a good way .... Especially if she's not 100% ready to trust you yet.

Also, on vacay. Text her randomly. But dont be like: Hey how was your day. send me photos! Or stuff like that. One guy did that to me and it was so exhausting. Like, dont demand things from me. Just send her little messages and make her laugh. But dont try to rope her into a conversation/discussion while she's on vacation.

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One piece of advice. If you really like the first leo, don't go out with the other and kinda keep your options open. If she finds out, she's probably gonna be pissed as hell. I dont know if you guys are in a relationship or what, but it sounded like you were exploring your feelings for leo No2. If you're just friends with her, that's ok. But if you kinda are comparing the 2, youre stepping on very thin ice.

My guy having female friends is totally ok with me. As long as i know about them. Even just casually mentioned in conversations. Going out, one on one, with another girl that she doesn't know about might make her jealous, but not in a good way .... Especially if she's not 100% ready to trust you yet.

Also, on vacay. Text her randomly. But dont be like: Hey how was your day. send me photos! Or stuff like that. One guy did that to me and it was so exhausting. Like, dont demand things from me. Just send her little messages and make her laugh. But dont try to rope her into a conversation/discussion while she's on vacation.


Thanks alot.

Yes, I really like the first one and the one im going for. We are not yet "official" in a relationship as she needed some time to know me better first, see and confirm for herself that im like I tell her I am. We have plans and activities already planned for after the vacation period and I think we will set some serious steps after that.

With the second one we are just normal friends. At the moment no intentions at all to get serious with her. The comparison I made was what I felt different from both of them. The conclusion that it can be day and night difference sometimes. I won't make any moves with her while im busy with the first one.. I must stay loyal to her.

Thanks for the vacation tips. When I don't text her in the morning or till midday she texts me asking to text her and why im silence. I sincerely said that I don't want to be irritating while she is on vacation and she said "Only you can text me and you know it" so basically I can lol. But anyway.. It felt good when she admitted that she thinks and misses me. Can't wait till she comes back after 9 days (left!).
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Majin
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7 Years

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Update:

Still going strong, nothing weird happened.

Only yesterday something small;

She had texted me the day before at night when I just went to sleep because I have to wake up early for work. I saw it the next day but was a bit in a hurry so I didn't respond, yet. Before I know it was midday and she texted me why I was ignoring her, while thats not what I was doing or my intention at all. So I wrote something romantic and let her know that I never would do that and she became the old herself again. I was like.. Damn she needs the attention! Oh well.. All good anyway nothing to worry about.

Good signs she thinks and misses me still and hopefully will stay loyal as it is now cause I will too.

And im not talking with the 2nd Leo that much now.. Don't want to take any risks.

My advice dealing with a Leo so far?

I think; being yourself, confident, truth and honesty will bring you far with them. They ain't that hard to get in my opinion.
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Basorexia
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7 Years500+ Posts

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Posted by Majin

Update:

Still going strong, nothing weird happened.

Only yesterday something small;

She had texted me the day before at night when I just went to sleep because I have to wake up early for work. I saw it the next day but was a bit in a hurry so I didn't respond, yet. Before I know it was midday and she texted me why I was ignoring her, while thats not what I was doing or my intention at all. So I wrote something romantic and let her know that I never would do that and she became the old herself again. I was like.. Damn she needs the attention! Oh well.. All good anyway nothing to worry about.

Good signs she thinks and misses me still and hopefully will stay loyal as it is now cause I will too.

And im not talking with the 2nd Leo that much now.. Don't want to take any risks.

My advice dealing with a Leo so far?

I think; being yourself, confident, truth and honesty will bring you far with them. They ain't that hard to get in my opinion.


Don't play games with Leo's = let's see what happens if I ignore her, let's see what happens if I wait for her to text first.

we're on to you, we know you're doing it and we'll drop you the second it gets repetitive.

You constantly say she needs attention... Or Leo's need attention :

Leo's need you to be *consistent.

I agree with dropping the Leo #2.

Just be you. Have fun.

Don't put her in a box cause she's Leo, astrology doesn't /. Shouldn't work like that.

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Majin
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7 Years

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Posted by Basorexia
Posted by Majin

Update:

Still going strong, nothing weird happened.

Only yesterday something small;

She had texted me the day before at night when I just went to sleep because I have to wake up early for work. I saw it the next day but was a bit in a hurry so I didn't respond, yet. Before I know it was midday and she texted me why I was ignoring her, while thats not what I was doing or my intention at all. So I wrote something romantic and let her know that I never would do that and she became the old herself again. I was like.. Damn she needs the attention! Oh well.. All good anyway nothing to worry about.

Good signs she thinks and misses me still and hopefully will stay loyal as it is now cause I will too.

And im not talking with the 2nd Leo that much now.. Don't want to take any risks.

My advice dealing with a Leo so far?

I think; being yourself, confident, truth and honesty will bring you far with them. They ain't that hard to get in my opinion.

Don't play games with Leo's = let's see what happens if I ignore her, let's see what happens if I wait for her to text first.

we're on to you, we know you're doing it and we'll drop you the second it gets repetitive.

You constantly say she needs attention... Or Leo's need attention :

Leo's need you to be *consistent.

I agree with dropping the Leo #2.

Just be you. Have fun.

Don't put her in a box cause she's Leo, astrology doesn't /. Shouldn't work like that.
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Thanks alot, straightforward and clear explained.
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Majin
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7 Years

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Update:

Well her vacation is over and she is back in town tomorrow. The days has passed quite fast to be honest.

We had an interesting talk about children and our future, she started the subject. It seems she doesn't like to have childrens later because its too much time consuming and she can't go out or do her own thing (partying, vacations and working) as she said herself. Her ego is coming upfront talking about these things, the world turns around her kinda. She said for now but that could also mean forever. Don't know what to think or make of it.

I thought Leos did like having a family and could be a great mother as I had read on the internet? Or, is she not yet mature enough to think about her future plans? It seems her personal enjoyment of life comes before everything else.

Me on the other hand I like childrens. You know, 1 or 2 is good enough. Atleast you get the family feeling and being a dad after some time must feel good. Not only me but my parents and her parents would be very happy too.

Or she is testing me asking that kind of questions to be sure.. Or she really wants to stay alone only with me. I get her point; You can do whatever and whenever you want together without to think about a child nexto you. But I don't see myself being 50 years sitting alone with her in a big house lol.

I think she needs to put her stupid ego a bit aside and think about others too.. Its not only about her as she may think, its everyone close to her and us. Or I will permanently move on to the other Leo who has much more feelings and less ego compared to this one.

Time will tell and we will see..
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7 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by but_didyoudie

It was like a horror story reading through this... you have not one but two Leo's you are considering dating unbeknownst to them but somehow it has ended with calling the first one egotistical for not wanting babies and you wanting to move on to the other one whom you barely even know but still saving on the side.

My two cents... move on.

Tauruses are something else smh


Yeah that was a total 360
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6 Years500+ Posts

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Posted by Majin

Update:

Well her vacation is over and she is back in town tomorrow. The days has passed quite fast to be honest.

We had an interesting talk about children and our future, she started the subject. It seems she doesn't like to have childrens later because its too much time consuming and she can't go out or do her own thing (partying, vacations and working) as she said herself. Her ego is coming upfront talking about these things, the world turns around her kinda. She said for now but that could also mean forever. Don't know what to think or make of it.

I thought Leos did like having a family and could be a great mother as I had read on the internet? Or, is she not yet mature enough to think about her future plans? It seems her personal enjoyment of life comes before everything else.

Me on the other hand I like childrens. You know, 1 or 2 is good enough. Atleast you get the family feeling and being a dad after some time must feel good. Not only me but my parents and her parents would be very happy too.

Or she is testing me asking that kind of questions to be sure.. Or she really wants to stay alone only with me. I get her point; You can do whatever and whenever you want together without to think about a child nexto you. But I don't see myself being 50 years sitting alone with her in a big house lol.

I think she needs to put her stupid ego a bit aside and think about others too.. Its not only about her as she may think, its everyone close to her and us. Or I will permanently move on to the other Leo who has much more feelings and less ego compared to this one.

Time will tell and we will see..

i think that you might be relying on astrology too much to define your relationship, just treat her in a nice way and you will get the same in return. plus every leo is different, even though leos will/can have leo traits. "i thought leos liked to have a family" - like the internet said. this is bound to end in failure
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7 Years

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LMAO from what i know about taurus men they are insanely funny as hell. the little manipulation tactic you were doing to text her and see if she missed you? don't do that. some women get insecure and there is probably a reason why she thinks that you're ignoring her (some past relationship problems), therefore you tread on thin ice when you pull out tactics such as this. i don't believe you should actually base ALL your values that you understand about her based on her sun sign (leo) you should probably look into her birth chart and see what other aspects and planets are within her chart (astrology is ALOT more than just a single sun sign). also don't make generalisable statements about leos? not all of us are the same? the fact that she doesn't want kids shouldn't be a sign to deter you, she was just being honest and communicating what she felt and it's not her fault that you didn't take it the right way. you've only just met this woman. give it time before you try to judge her life plans? people have reasonings for things.

ciao!
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Cleo88
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6 Years

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Creo que lo que estás haciendo es manipulando a las chicas leo, además todo desde tu perspectiva, parece que eres calculador y no sabes de la espontaneidad. Tengo muy mala experiencia con chico tauro, lo peor q me ha sucedido,horrible, misógino, egoísta,abusivo con las mujeres, habla de lo femenino como si esto se redujera a un comercial de los cincuenta, estrecho de miras, perdedor con baja autoestima, que al final hasta envidia me tenía. No no de broma salgo con un hombre tauro. Y soy una leo fuerte con virgo de ascendente.