How long can you function without sex?

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Forever I guess. I had sex with an ex over halloween, but before that it was like 4 years. And it was with the same person.

I'm the type that can fuck many times a day and absolutely love doing it, but only with someone I connect or have connected with. Truth is I hardly connect with anyone. For me to find a person that I can connect with, know they want to have sex, and know they are indeed a woman is rare. Things have to line up right for me to feel comfortable enough to show my real self, and even when it does its with some crazy bitch that I absolutely despise over time.
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Posted by Soul
Forever I guess. I had sex with an ex over halloween, but before that it was like 4 years. And it was with the same person.

I'm the type that can fuck many times a day and absolutely love doing it, but only with someone I connect or have connected with. Truth is I hardly connect with anyone. For me to find a person that I can connect with, know they want to have sex, and know they are indeed a woman is rare. Things have to line up right for me to feel comfortable enough to show my real self, and even when it does its with some crazy bitch that I absolutely despise over time.
Same, but it doesn't keep me from being sexually frustrated. @Soul what is your Mars ?
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Posted by Soul
Forever I guess. I had sex with an ex over halloween, but before that it was like 4 years. And it was with the same person.

I'm the type that can fuck many times a day and absolutely love doing it, but only with someone I connect or have connected with. Truth is I hardly connect with anyone. For me to find a person that I can connect with, know they want to have sex, and know they are indeed a woman is rare. Things have to line up right for me to feel comfortable enough to show my real self, and even when it does its with some crazy bitch that I absolutely despise over time.
Same, but it doesn't keep me from being sexually frustrated. @Soul what is your Mars ?
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Taurus.
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Are you an angry sex sober or a content one?
define "function" please lol.
Lol I mean does it start to consume your thoughts. Do you start getting mad at random shit from lack of physical touch from a human being you are close to.
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When in a relationship= a couple of days



When single= A couple of weeks
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I've been abstinent for about a year now by choice. And I'm slowly dying inside LOL, can't help it, it's the Taurus in me. 2-4 times a day with someone I care and/or love would make me happy lmao

I'm a lady in the streets and you know what in the sheets, but only with someone that I'm seriously dating and I feel 110% safe and comfortable with him(or at least close to it lol). No judgement to anyone else that is different. It's either going to happen in that scenario or if its ever one of those "it feels right" moments with a guy

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I'm fine, tbh. Yeah, I'm a highly sexual person, but it's like if there isn't someone around to get that going, it sort of goes dormant and I'm good.

But if there's someone around, dating, relationship, whatever, then it just stirs all that up and it's an entirely different story.

People who tend to whine about not getting laid or let the lack of it affect their moods have problems and need to get over it.
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When I was a virgin - all the time. If you don't have it, you can't miss it.

Now - one and a half day TOPS. A little longer if I'm crazy busy and stressed. When I begin to get cranky about tiny things, it's time to soothe the primal beast within. ? That physical and emotional and mental connection is simply unmatched. It is also, by far, my BEST de-stressor.

Why WOULD'NT I want to connect with him that way? I am not ashamed of needing that connection. I've paid my dues, lol.
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Posted by tiziani
I've been going on long enough without it that I cannot even tell what effect it has on me. I'm sure it's unhealthy though. Sex and connection is meant to be a great thing.
This is driving me up a wall!

Why? Why able man would do this to themselves?

And as many times I've heard that I am wondering - who invented a description of men as dogs?

If guys can restrain themselves - why dogs then? And who are those who are chasing everything that moves?
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I've been going on long enough without it that I cannot even tell what effect it has on me. I'm sure it's unhealthy though. Sex and connection is meant to be a great thing.
This is driving me up a wall!

Why? Why able man would do this to themselves?

And as many times I've heard that I am wondering - who invented a description of men as dogs?

If guys can restrain themselves - why dogs then? And who are those who are chasing everything that moves?
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It is usually insecure men who cheat or who "cannot" control themselves.