When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?
I keep seeing this about libras...is it true?

Even when i say nothing at all, it doesnt mean that im done. Im probably licking my wounds. Only applicable to that one person i really love. ((i still dont understand why i cant let go even when i entertain others.. i wonder when it will feel ok for him to be forever out of my life))
For the rest, when im done im really done.
For the rest, when im done im really done.
Posted by fishcrabscale2
Even when i say nothing at all, it doesnt mean that im done. Im probably licking my wounds. Only applicable to that one person i really love. ((i still dont understand why i cant let go even when i entertain others.. i wonder when it will feel ok for him to be forever out of my life))
For the rest, when im done im really done.
And that makes perfect sense. What's his sign?
Facts.

class="bqexpand"> Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by fishcrabscale2
Even when i say nothing at all, it doesnt mean that im done. Im probably licking my wounds. Only applicable to that one person i really love. ((i still dont understand why i cant let go even when i entertain others.. i wonder when it will feel ok for him to be forever out of my life))
For the rest, when im done im really done.
And that makes perfect sense. What's his sign? click to expandclick to expand
Leo
class="bqexpand"> Posted by fishcrabscale2Yes for the fire! What's the issues with him that aren't so good?Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by fishcrabscale2
Even when i say nothing at all, it doesnt mean that im done. Im probably licking my wounds. Only applicable to that one person i really love. ((i still dont understand why i cant let go even when i entertain others.. i wonder when it will feel ok for him to be forever out of my life))
For the rest, when im done im really done.
And that makes perfect sense. What's his sign? click to expand
Leo click to expandclick to expand
class="bqexpand"> Posted by AwesomeyoI knew you would comment lolPosted by Brickhouse27
When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?
TRUE click to expandclick to expand
Posted by heliumfiascoWhat sets you off to get to that point?
Facts.
class="bqexpand"> Posted by Brickhouse27Lack of equal effort.Posted by heliumfiasco
Facts.
What sets you off to get to that point? click to expandclick to expand
class="bqexpand"> Posted by heliumfiascoYeah I definitely can understand that. Will you warn them or just no?Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by heliumfiasco
Facts.
What sets you off to get to that point? click to expand
Lack of equal effort. click to expandclick to expand
class="bqexpand"> Posted by AwesomeyoLol and that's good you can express yourself. So what sets you off to get to that point?Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by AwesomeyoPosted by Brickhouse27
When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?
TRUE click to expand
I knew you would comment lol click to expand
LOL words are my power. When I am truly done with someone, I won't even waste a single word on them. click to expandclick to expand
class="bqexpand"> Posted by Brickhouse27Me telling you 3 times prior I was done was the warning. Now I just evaporate into thin air... Like the air dominate gal that I am! hahaPosted by heliumfiascoPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by heliumfiasco
Facts.
What sets you off to get to that point? click to expand
Lack of equal effort. click to expand
Yeah I definitely can understand that. Will you warn them or just no? click to expandclick to expand
class="bqexpand"> Posted by heliumfiascoPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by heliumfiascoPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by heliumfiasco
Facts.
What sets you off to get to that point? click to expand
Lack of equal effort. click to expand
Yeah I definitely can understand that. Will you warn them or just no? click to expand
Me telling you 3 times prior I was done was the warning. Now I just evaporate into thin air... Like the air dominate gal that I am! haha click to expandclick to expand
LOL it gets no realer than that.

class="bqexpand"> Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by fishcrabscale2Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by fishcrabscale2
Even when i say nothing at all, it doesnt mean that im done. Im probably licking my wounds. Only applicable to that one person i really love. ((i still dont understand why i cant let go even when i entertain others.. i wonder when it will feel ok for him to be forever out of my life))
For the rest, when im done im really done.
And that makes perfect sense. What's his sign? click to expand
Leo click to expand
Yes for the fire! What's the issues with him that aren't so good? click to expandclick to expand
So many things like it doesnt make sense for us to be together at all. My head says it is not meant to be, but my heart feels it is unfinished business. Anyway, i guess itll be done when i fall in love with someone else.
class="bqexpand"> Posted by AwesomeyoPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by AwesomeyoPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by AwesomeyoPosted by Brickhouse27
When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?
TRUE click to expand
I knew you would comment lol click to expand
LOL words are my power. When I am truly done with someone, I won't even waste a single word on them. click to expand
Lol and that's good you can express yourself. So what sets you off to get to that point? click to expand
Like a fellow libra said "Lack of EQUAL effort".
I will only balance us for so long, you will be warned everytime (coz that is a fair game), and still you are not reciprocating properly... well then... TATA click to expandclick to expand
That's only right. Relationships are 50/50. Some ppl dont want to put in any effort.
class="bqexpand"> Posted by fishcrabscale2Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by fishcrabscale2Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by fishcrabscale2
Even when i say nothing at all, it doesnt mean that im done. Im probably licking my wounds. Only applicable to that one person i really love. ((i still dont understand why i cant let go even when i entertain others.. i wonder when it will feel ok for him to be forever out of my life))
For the rest, when im done im really done.
And that makes perfect sense. What's his sign? click to expand
Leo click to expand
Yes for the fire! What's the issues with him that aren't so good? click to expand
So many things like it doesnt make sense for us to be together at all. My head says it is not meant to be, but my heart feels it is unfinished business. Anyway, i guess itll be done when i fall in love with someone else. click to expandclick to expand
Is the 50/50 thing apart of it? Are you looking to date someone else right now?

class="bqexpand"> Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by fishcrabscale2Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by fishcrabscale2Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by fishcrabscale2
Even when i say nothing at all, it doesnt mean that im done. Im probably licking my wounds. Only applicable to that one person i really love. ((i still dont understand why i cant let go even when i entertain others.. i wonder when it will feel ok for him to be forever out of my life))
For the rest, when im done im really done.
And that makes perfect sense. What's his sign? click to expand
Leo click to expand
Yes for the fire! What's the issues with him that aren't so good? click to expand
So many things like it doesnt make sense for us to be together at all. My head says it is not meant to be, but my heart feels it is unfinished business. Anyway, i guess itll be done when i fall in love with someone else. click to expand
Is the 50/50 thing apart of it? Are you looking to date someone else right now? click to expandclick to expand
Yes. After the LDR (i moved to another city for a project) we just couldnt work it out anymore. At the same time, after the 2yr mark i expected more from him.
Yes, talking to guys now. There is a gemini thats is kinda fun and interesting but there is no depth after a month -maybe will end up being just friends. A sag just came into the picture -lets see.
class="bqexpand"> Posted by AwesomeyoPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by AwesomeyoPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by AwesomeyoPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by AwesomeyoPosted by Brickhouse27
When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?
TRUE click to expand
I knew you would comment lol click to expand
LOL words are my power. When I am truly done with someone, I won't even waste a single word on them. click to expand
Lol and that's good you can express yourself. So what sets you off to get to that point? click to expand
Like a fellow libra said "Lack of EQUAL effort".
I will only balance us for so long, you will be warned everytime (coz that is a fair game), and still you are not reciprocating properly... well then... TATA click to expand
That's only right. Relationships are 50/50. Some ppl dont want to put in any effort. click to expand
Exactly. But sometimes people fail to understand this and when a libra vanishes they call him/her a heartbreaker. Only because when a libra was with them they felt so veryyy powerful. click to expandclick to expand
Right so if they really feel like it can work with them then it just takes patience for the other party?
Never experienced patience. Couldnt tell you anything about it.
class="bqexpand"> Posted by fishcrabscale2Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by fishcrabscale2Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by fishcrabscale2Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by fishcrabscale2
Even when i say nothing at all, it doesnt mean that im done. Im probably licking my wounds. Only applicable to that one person i really love. ((i still dont understand why i cant let go even when i entertain others.. i wonder when it will feel ok for him to be forever out of my life))
For the rest, when im done im really done.
And that makes perfect sense. What's his sign? click to expand
Leo click to expand
Yes for the fire! What's the issues with him that aren't so good? click to expand
So many things like it doesnt make sense for us to be together at all. My head says it is not meant to be, but my heart feels it is unfinished business. Anyway, i guess itll be done when i fall in love with someone else. click to expand
Is the 50/50 thing apart of it? Are you looking to date someone else right now? click to expand
Yes. After the LDR (i moved to another city for a project) we just couldnt work it out anymore. At the same time, after the 2yr mark i expected more from him.
Yes, talking to guys now. There is a gemini thats is kinda fun and interesting but there is no depth after a month -maybe will end up being just friends. A sag just came into the picture -lets see. click to expandclick to expand
That's understandable. Right you have options.
class="bqexpand"> Posted by AwesomeyoPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by AwesomeyoPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by AwesomeyoPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by AwesomeyoPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by AwesomeyoPosted by Brickhouse27
When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?
TRUE click to expand
I knew you would comment lol click to expand
LOL words are my power. When I am truly done with someone, I won't even waste a single word on them. click to expand
Lol and that's good you can express yourself. So what sets you off to get to that point? click to expand
Like a fellow libra said "Lack of EQUAL effort".
I will only balance us for so long, you will be warned everytime (coz that is a fair game), and still you are not reciprocating properly... well then... TATA click to expand
That's only right. Relationships are 50/50. Some ppl dont want to put in any effort. click to expand
Exactly. But sometimes people fail to understand this and when a libra vanishes they call him/her a heartbreaker. Only because when a libra was with them they felt so veryyy powerful. click to expand
Right so if they really feel like it can work with them then it just takes patience for the other party? click to expand
I would say Reciprocity more than patience.
I am really bad with patience lol. click to expandclick to expand
Lol ok got ya.
Posted by heliumfiasco
Never experienced patience. Couldnt tell you anything about it.
Me neither until now
Posted by SuninLibraWhat makes you get to that point?
I can be done with someone but still be friends with them. When I don't say anything it means ur dead to me.
Posted by SuninLibra
@heliumfiasco how r things with the Gemini if I may ask ofc?
Confusing for me. He has kind of backed off, and Ive done the same. Although he has stated several times for me to show him some patience. Hes had a rough work week, worked 110 hours at the fire department, is training for a big race. A race in which he will compete against the champion, who just happens to be the man who his ex cheated on him with, who is currently pregnant and engaged to. He hasnt raced since that happened. I cant imagine the anxiety. He also suffered a concussion last week. Getting a cat scan today.... So, its alot. Its just hard for me to take his word about being too busy to see me, or even text regularly. So I told him I wasnt going to continue to not have effort matched. He asked me to stay around and that he'd be better soon. I'm not holding any expectations and keeping it moving.
Im tied between being understanding, but also not being a fool. How hard is it to ask how someones day is? If I text he always responds. Im just tired of two weeks of me mostly initiating.
class="bqexpand"> Posted by SuninLibraIt's def a bad time for him. I don't think there is any lie in him about that. However, that doesnt mean I should settle for less than I deserve, or less than I give. I dont think its over. I'm just pausing myself currently.Posted by heliumfiascoPosted by SuninLibra
@heliumfiasco how r things with the Gemini if I may ask ofc?
Confusing for me. He has kind of backed off, and Ive done the same. Although he has stated several times for me to show him some patience. Hes had a rough work week, worked 110 hours at the fire department, is training for a big race. A race in which he will compete against the champion, who just happens to be the man who his ex cheated on him with, who is currently pregnant and engaged to. He hasnt raced since that happened. I cant imagine the anxiety. He also suffered a concussion last week. Getting a cat scan today.... So, its alot. Its just hard for me to take his word about being too busy to see me, or even text regularly. So I told him I wasnt going to continue to not have effort matched. He asked me to stay around and that he'd be better soon. I'm not holding any expectations and keeping it moving.
Im tied between being understanding, but also not being a fool. How hard is it to ask how someones day is? If I text he always responds. Im just tired of two weeks of me mostly initiating. click to expand
Well I'm sorry to hear that, I really hoped for you guys to get closer but its not over yet.
Maybe its just a bad time for him but ur right u can't keep initiating things while he's just there doing nothing. click to expandclick to expand
class="bqexpand"> Posted by SuninLibraPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by SuninLibra
I can be done with someone but still be friends with them. When I don't say anything it means ur dead to me.
What makes you get to that point? click to expand
Like mentioned previously, lack of equal efforts, no reciprocity. Sometimes even small things can make me lose interest like returning a text. click to expandclick to expand
Woah.
class="bqexpand"> Posted by heliumfiascoPosted by SuninLibraPosted by heliumfiascoPosted by SuninLibra
@heliumfiasco how r things with the Gemini if I may ask ofc?
Confusing for me. He has kind of backed off, and Ive done the same. Although he has stated several times for me to show him some patience. Hes had a rough work week, worked 110 hours at the fire department, is training for a big race. A race in which he will compete against the champion, who just happens to be the man who his ex cheated on him with, who is currently pregnant and engaged to. He hasnt raced since that happened. I cant imagine the anxiety. He also suffered a concussion last week. Getting a cat scan today.... So, its alot. Its just hard for me to take his word about being too busy to see me, or even text regularly. So I told him I wasnt going to continue to not have effort matched. He asked me to stay around and that he'd be better soon. I'm not holding any expectations and keeping it moving.
Im tied between being understanding, but also not being a fool. How hard is it to ask how someones day is? If I text he always responds. Im just tired of two weeks of me mostly initiating. click to expand
Well I'm sorry to hear that, I really hoped for you guys to get closer but its not over yet.
Maybe its just a bad time for him but ur right u can't keep initiating things while he's just there doing nothing. click to expand
It's def a bad time for him. I don't think there is any lie in him about that. However, that doesnt mean I should settle for less than I deserve, or less than I give. I dont think its over. I'm just pausing myself currently. click to expandclick to expand
I agree totally
Why is it a big deal if I miss your call but if you miss mines I dont trip?

Posted by Brickhouse27Pretty much. Yes :-)
When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?
class="bqexpand"> Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Brickhouse27
When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?
Pretty much. Yes :-) click to expandclick to expand
What gets you to that point?

class="bqexpand"> Posted by Brickhouse27Pretty much as others have pointed out. Things should be 50/50. If you not putting effort in I will say something. Obviously people and things don't change over night, but if it's constant reminding then there are only so many chances you get. Basically if you not adding any value to my life, friends or lovers, turning my back on you is no problem for me, and 9/10 you wont hear or see from me again. I will add its not just a choice made over night either, it will have been a "long time coming" 😄Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Brickhouse27
When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?
Pretty much. Yes :-) click to expand
What gets you to that point? click to expandclick to expand
class="bqexpand"> Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Brickhouse27
When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?
Pretty much. Yes :-) click to expand
What gets you to that point? click to expand
Pretty much as others have pointed out. Things should be 50/50. If you not putting effort in I will say something. Obviously people and things don't change over night, but if it's constant reminding then there are only so many chances you get. Basically if you not adding any value to my life, friends or lovers, turning my back on you is no problem for me, and 9/10 you wont hear or see from me again. I will add its not just a choice made over night either, it will have been a "long time coming" click to expandclick to expand
That's deep
class="bqexpand"> Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesWe have similar charts. Agree 100%Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Brickhouse27
When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?
Pretty much. Yes :-) click to expand
What gets you to that point? click to expand
Pretty much as others have pointed out. Things should be 50/50. If you not putting effort in I will say something. Obviously people and things don't change over night, but if it's constant reminding then there are only so many chances you get. Basically if you not adding any value to my life, friends or lovers, turning my back on you is no problem for me, and 9/10 you wont hear or see from me again. I will add its not just a choice made over night either, it will have been a "long time coming" click to expandclick to expand
How do I figure out my chart...

class="bqexpand"> Posted by heliumfiascoI've noticed we do 🙂.... I may have asked before but how do you find that gem moon in the 8th? For me it's like Gem moon wants to talk it over then 8th hose slaps a gagging order 😂🤣😂Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Brickhouse27
When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?
Pretty much. Yes :-) click to expand
What gets you to that point? click to expand
Pretty much as others have pointed out. Things should be 50/50. If you not putting effort in I will say something. Obviously people and things don't change over night, but if it's constant reminding then there are only so many chances you get. Basically if you not adding any value to my life, friends or lovers, turning my back on you is no problem for me, and 9/10 you wont hear or see from me again. I will add its not just a choice made over night either, it will have been a "long time coming" click to expand
We have similar charts. Agree 100% click to expandclick to expand
LOL words are my power. When I am truly done with someone, I won't even waste a single word on them. click to expand
I'm the exact same way. When I'm done I don't even want to see their face again and they would never hear from me.
Posted by heliumfiascoYou are correct. No matter how busy someone is they always have time for the one they love. These are excuses. Are you sure he isn't seeing others and just keeping you on hold until he finds out if it's going to work with another?Posted by SuninLibra
@heliumfiasco how r things with the Gemini if I may ask ofc?
Confusing for me. He has kind of backed off, and Ive done the same. Although he has stated several times for me to show him some patience. Hes had a rough work week, worked 110 hours at the fire department, is training for a big race. A race in which he will compete against the champion, who just happens to be the man who his ex cheated on him with, who is currently pregnant and engaged to. He hasnt raced since that happened. I cant imagine the anxiety. He also suffered a concussion last week. Getting a cat scan today.... So, its alot. Its just hard for me to take his word about being too busy to see me, or even text regularly. So I told him I wasnt going to continue to not have effort matched. He asked me to stay around and that he'd be better soon. I'm not holding any expectations and keeping it moving.
Im tied between being understanding, but also not being a fool. How hard is it to ask how someones day is? If I text he always responds. Im just tired of two weeks of me mostly initiating. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by DonnaLibraHe is on dating sites so he very well could be entertaining many people. Which is fine, we arent committed. However, he has told me he is not seeing anyone else. He has every right to explore options, as do I. But no effort is a pass for me!Posted by heliumfiascoPosted by SuninLibra
@heliumfiasco how r things with the Gemini if I may ask ofc?
Confusing for me. He has kind of backed off, and Ive done the same. Although he has stated several times for me to show him some patience. Hes had a rough work week, worked 110 hours at the fire department, is training for a big race. A race in which he will compete against the champion, who just happens to be the man who his ex cheated on him with, who is currently pregnant and engaged to. He hasnt raced since that happened. I cant imagine the anxiety. He also suffered a concussion last week. Getting a cat scan today.... So, its alot. Its just hard for me to take his word about being too busy to see me, or even text regularly. So I told him I wasnt going to continue to not have effort matched. He asked me to stay around and that he'd be better soon. I'm not holding any expectations and keeping it moving.
Im tied between being understanding, but also not being a fool. How hard is it to ask how someones day is? If I text he always responds. Im just tired of two weeks of me mostly initiating. click to expand
You are correct. No matter how busy someone is they always have time for the one they love. These are excuses. Are you sure he isn't seeing others and just keeping you on hold until he finds out if it's going to work with another? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by mudraDo you ever go back ?
Hm... when I think back on it...
Yup, that's pretty true. Shiet. One day, I just disappear with no trace. But you better believe I stuck around trying until that day came.
Posted by SuninLibraLol it makes complete sense though.Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by SuninLibraPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by SuninLibra
I can be done with someone but still be friends with them. When I don't say anything it means ur dead to me.
What makes you get to that point? click to expand
Like mentioned previously, lack of equal efforts, no reciprocity. Sometimes even small things can make me lose interest like returning a text. click to expand
Woah. click to expand
Sorry not sorry lol
What I meant is I can take a lot of ish but when enough is enough I can just break it off over stupid things if u know what I mean. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Brickhouse27Not true for me. If I say I'm done, I'm done. If I don't say anything, then it could go either way.
When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?
Posted by FleshpotPosted by Brickhouse27
When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?
Not true for me. If I say I'm done, I'm done. If I don't say anything, then it could go either way. click to expandclick to expand
Time to recharge?
Posted by Brickhouse27Yes, pretty much. It takes us a long time to get to the decision of being done and once we have made up our minds it's kind of hard to change it.
When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?
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