I keep seeing this about libras...is it true?

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Even when i say nothing at all, it doesnt mean that im done. Im probably licking my wounds. Only applicable to that one person i really love. ((i still dont understand why i cant let go even when i entertain others.. i wonder when it will feel ok for him to be forever out of my life))

For the rest, when im done im really done.

And that makes perfect sense. What's his sign?
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Even when i say nothing at all, it doesnt mean that im done. Im probably licking my wounds. Only applicable to that one person i really love. ((i still dont understand why i cant let go even when i entertain others.. i wonder when it will feel ok for him to be forever out of my life))



For the rest, when im done im really done.


And that makes perfect sense. What's his sign? click to expand
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Even when i say nothing at all, it doesnt mean that im done. Im probably licking my wounds. Only applicable to that one person i really love. ((i still dont understand why i cant let go even when i entertain others.. i wonder when it will feel ok for him to be forever out of my life))





For the rest, when im done im really done.



And that makes perfect sense. What's his sign? click to expand


Leo click to expand
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Yes for the fire! What's the issues with him that aren't so good?
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When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?







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I knew you would comment lol click to expand



LOL words are my power. When I am truly done with someone, I won't even waste a single word on them. click to expand
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Lol and that's good you can express yourself. So what sets you off to get to that point?
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Facts.







What sets you off to get to that point? click to expand





Lack of equal effort. click to expand



Yeah I definitely can understand that. Will you warn them or just no? click to expand
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Me telling you 3 times prior I was done was the warning. Now I just evaporate into thin air... Like the air dominate gal that I am! haha
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Facts.









What sets you off to get to that point? click to expand







Lack of equal effort. click to expand





Yeah I definitely can understand that. Will you warn them or just no? click to expand



Me telling you 3 times prior I was done was the warning. Now I just evaporate into thin air... Like the air dominate gal that I am! haha click to expand
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LOL it gets no realer than that.
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Even when i say nothing at all, it doesnt mean that im done. Im probably licking my wounds. Only applicable to that one person i really love. ((i still dont understand why i cant let go even when i entertain others.. i wonder when it will feel ok for him to be forever out of my life))







For the rest, when im done im really done.




And that makes perfect sense. What's his sign? click to expand



Leo click to expand



Yes for the fire! What's the issues with him that aren't so good? click to expand
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So many things like it doesnt make sense for us to be together at all. My head says it is not meant to be, but my heart feels it is unfinished business. Anyway, i guess itll be done when i fall in love with someone else.
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When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?











TRUE click to expand









I knew you would comment lol click to expand







LOL words are my power. When I am truly done with someone, I won't even waste a single word on them. click to expand





Lol and that's good you can express yourself. So what sets you off to get to that point? click to expand



Like a fellow libra said "Lack of EQUAL effort".
I will only balance us for so long, you will be warned everytime (coz that is a fair game), and still you are not reciprocating properly... well then... TATA click to expand
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That's only right. Relationships are 50/50. Some ppl dont want to put in any effort.
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Even when i say nothing at all, it doesnt mean that im done. Im probably licking my wounds. Only applicable to that one person i really love. ((i still dont understand why i cant let go even when i entertain others.. i wonder when it will feel ok for him to be forever out of my life))









For the rest, when im done im really done.





And that makes perfect sense. What's his sign? click to expand




Leo click to expand





Yes for the fire! What's the issues with him that aren't so good? click to expand


So many things like it doesnt make sense for us to be together at all. My head says it is not meant to be, but my heart feels it is unfinished business. Anyway, i guess itll be done when i fall in love with someone else. click to expand
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Is the 50/50 thing apart of it? Are you looking to date someone else right now?
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Even when i say nothing at all, it doesnt mean that im done. Im probably licking my wounds. Only applicable to that one person i really love. ((i still dont understand why i cant let go even when i entertain others.. i wonder when it will feel ok for him to be forever out of my life))











For the rest, when im done im really done.






And that makes perfect sense. What's his sign? click to expand





Leo click to expand







Yes for the fire! What's the issues with him that aren't so good? click to expand



So many things like it doesnt make sense for us to be together at all. My head says it is not meant to be, but my heart feels it is unfinished business. Anyway, i guess itll be done when i fall in love with someone else. click to expand


Is the 50/50 thing apart of it? Are you looking to date someone else right now? click to expand
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Yes. After the LDR (i moved to another city for a project) we just couldnt work it out anymore. At the same time, after the 2yr mark i expected more from him.

Yes, talking to guys now. There is a gemini thats is kinda fun and interesting but there is no depth after a month -maybe will end up being just friends. A sag just came into the picture -lets see.
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When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?















TRUE click to expand













I knew you would comment lol click to expand











LOL words are my power. When I am truly done with someone, I won't even waste a single word on them. click to expand









Lol and that's good you can express yourself. So what sets you off to get to that point? click to expand







Like a fellow libra said "Lack of EQUAL effort".


I will only balance us for so long, you will be warned everytime (coz that is a fair game), and still you are not reciprocating properly... well then... TATA click to expand



That's only right. Relationships are 50/50. Some ppl dont want to put in any effort. click to expand



Exactly. But sometimes people fail to understand this and when a libra vanishes they call him/her a heartbreaker. Only because when a libra was with them they felt so veryyy powerful. click to expand
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Right so if they really feel like it can work with them then it just takes patience for the other party?
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Even when i say nothing at all, it doesnt mean that im done. Im probably licking my wounds. Only applicable to that one person i really love. ((i still dont understand why i cant let go even when i entertain others.. i wonder when it will feel ok for him to be forever out of my life))













For the rest, when im done im really done.







And that makes perfect sense. What's his sign? click to expand






Leo click to expand









Yes for the fire! What's the issues with him that aren't so good? click to expand




So many things like it doesnt make sense for us to be together at all. My head says it is not meant to be, but my heart feels it is unfinished business. Anyway, i guess itll be done when i fall in love with someone else. click to expand



Is the 50/50 thing apart of it? Are you looking to date someone else right now? click to expand


Yes. After the LDR (i moved to another city for a project) we just couldnt work it out anymore. At the same time, after the 2yr mark i expected more from him.
Yes, talking to guys now. There is a gemini thats is kinda fun and interesting but there is no depth after a month -maybe will end up being just friends. A sag just came into the picture -lets see. click to expand
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That's understandable. Right you have options.
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When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?



















TRUE click to expand

















I knew you would comment lol click to expand















LOL words are my power. When I am truly done with someone, I won't even waste a single word on them. click to expand













Lol and that's good you can express yourself. So what sets you off to get to that point? click to expand











Like a fellow libra said "Lack of EQUAL effort".




I will only balance us for so long, you will be warned everytime (coz that is a fair game), and still you are not reciprocating properly... well then... TATA click to expand





That's only right. Relationships are 50/50. Some ppl dont want to put in any effort. click to expand







Exactly. But sometimes people fail to understand this and when a libra vanishes they call him/her a heartbreaker. Only because when a libra was with them they felt so veryyy powerful. click to expand



Right so if they really feel like it can work with them then it just takes patience for the other party? click to expand


I would say Reciprocity more than patience.
I am really bad with patience lol. click to expand
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Lol ok got ya.
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@heliumfiasco how r things with the Gemini if I may ask ofc?


Confusing for me. He has kind of backed off, and Ive done the same. Although he has stated several times for me to show him some patience. Hes had a rough work week, worked 110 hours at the fire department, is training for a big race. A race in which he will compete against the champion, who just happens to be the man who his ex cheated on him with, who is currently pregnant and engaged to. He hasnt raced since that happened. I cant imagine the anxiety. He also suffered a concussion last week. Getting a cat scan today.... So, its alot. Its just hard for me to take his word about being too busy to see me, or even text regularly. So I told him I wasnt going to continue to not have effort matched. He asked me to stay around and that he'd be better soon. I'm not holding any expectations and keeping it moving.

Im tied between being understanding, but also not being a fool. How hard is it to ask how someones day is? If I text he always responds. Im just tired of two weeks of me mostly initiating.
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@heliumfiasco how r things with the Gemini if I may ask ofc?







Confusing for me. He has kind of backed off, and Ive done the same. Although he has stated several times for me to show him some patience. Hes had a rough work week, worked 110 hours at the fire department, is training for a big race. A race in which he will compete against the champion, who just happens to be the man who his ex cheated on him with, who is currently pregnant and engaged to. He hasnt raced since that happened. I cant imagine the anxiety. He also suffered a concussion last week. Getting a cat scan today.... So, its alot. Its just hard for me to take his word about being too busy to see me, or even text regularly. So I told him I wasnt going to continue to not have effort matched. He asked me to stay around and that he'd be better soon. I'm not holding any expectations and keeping it moving.



Im tied between being understanding, but also not being a fool. How hard is it to ask how someones day is? If I text he always responds. Im just tired of two weeks of me mostly initiating. click to expand


Well I'm sorry to hear that, I really hoped for you guys to get closer but its not over yet.
Maybe its just a bad time for him but ur right u can't keep initiating things while he's just there doing nothing. click to expand
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It's def a bad time for him. I don't think there is any lie in him about that. However, that doesnt mean I should settle for less than I deserve, or less than I give. I dont think its over. I'm just pausing myself currently.
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I can be done with someone but still be friends with them. When I don't say anything it means ur dead to me.





What makes you get to that point? click to expand


Like mentioned previously, lack of equal efforts, no reciprocity. Sometimes even small things can make me lose interest like returning a text. click to expand
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Woah.
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@heliumfiasco how r things with the Gemini if I may ask ofc?










Confusing for me. He has kind of backed off, and Ive done the same. Although he has stated several times for me to show him some patience. Hes had a rough work week, worked 110 hours at the fire department, is training for a big race. A race in which he will compete against the champion, who just happens to be the man who his ex cheated on him with, who is currently pregnant and engaged to. He hasnt raced since that happened. I cant imagine the anxiety. He also suffered a concussion last week. Getting a cat scan today.... So, its alot. Its just hard for me to take his word about being too busy to see me, or even text regularly. So I told him I wasnt going to continue to not have effort matched. He asked me to stay around and that he'd be better soon. I'm not holding any expectations and keeping it moving.





Im tied between being understanding, but also not being a fool. How hard is it to ask how someones day is? If I text he always responds. Im just tired of two weeks of me mostly initiating. click to expand



Well I'm sorry to hear that, I really hoped for you guys to get closer but its not over yet.

Maybe its just a bad time for him but ur right u can't keep initiating things while he's just there doing nothing. click to expand



It's def a bad time for him. I don't think there is any lie in him about that. However, that doesnt mean I should settle for less than I deserve, or less than I give. I dont think its over. I'm just pausing myself currently. click to expand
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I agree totally
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When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?





Pretty much. Yes :-) click to expand


What gets you to that point? click to expand
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Pretty much as others have pointed out. Things should be 50/50. If you not putting effort in I will say something. Obviously people and things don't change over night, but if it's constant reminding then there are only so many chances you get. Basically if you not adding any value to my life, friends or lovers, turning my back on you is no problem for me, and 9/10 you wont hear or see from me again. I will add its not just a choice made over night either, it will have been a "long time coming" 😄
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When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?







Pretty much. Yes :-) click to expand



What gets you to that point? click to expand



Pretty much as others have pointed out. Things should be 50/50. If you not putting effort in I will say something. Obviously people and things don't change over night, but if it's constant reminding then there are only so many chances you get. Basically if you not adding any value to my life, friends or lovers, turning my back on you is no problem for me, and 9/10 you wont hear or see from me again. I will add its not just a choice made over night either, it will have been a "long time coming" click to expand
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That's deep
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When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?







Pretty much. Yes :-) click to expand



What gets you to that point? click to expand



Pretty much as others have pointed out. Things should be 50/50. If you not putting effort in I will say something. Obviously people and things don't change over night, but if it's constant reminding then there are only so many chances you get. Basically if you not adding any value to my life, friends or lovers, turning my back on you is no problem for me, and 9/10 you wont hear or see from me again. I will add its not just a choice made over night either, it will have been a "long time coming" click to expand
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We have similar charts. Agree 100%
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When a libra says I'm done, their not really done. But when they say nothing at all that means they are really done. True or no?









Pretty much. Yes :-) click to expand




What gets you to that point? click to expand





Pretty much as others have pointed out. Things should be 50/50. If you not putting effort in I will say something. Obviously people and things don't change over night, but if it's constant reminding then there are only so many chances you get. Basically if you not adding any value to my life, friends or lovers, turning my back on you is no problem for me, and 9/10 you wont hear or see from me again. I will add its not just a choice made over night either, it will have been a "long time coming" click to expand



We have similar charts. Agree 100% click to expand
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I've noticed we do 🙂.... I may have asked before but how do you find that gem moon in the 8th? For me it's like Gem moon wants to talk it over then 8th hose slaps a gagging order 😂🤣😂
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Confusing for me. He has kind of backed off, and Ive done the same. Although he has stated several times for me to show him some patience. Hes had a rough work week, worked 110 hours at the fire department, is training for a big race. A race in which he will compete against the champion, who just happens to be the man who his ex cheated on him with, who is currently pregnant and engaged to. He hasnt raced since that happened. I cant imagine the anxiety. He also suffered a concussion last week. Getting a cat scan today.... So, its alot. Its just hard for me to take his word about being too busy to see me, or even text regularly. So I told him I wasnt going to continue to not have effort matched. He asked me to stay around and that he'd be better soon. I'm not holding any expectations and keeping it moving.

Im tied between being understanding, but also not being a fool. How hard is it to ask how someones day is? If I text he always responds. Im just tired of two weeks of me mostly initiating. click to expand
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You are correct. No matter how busy someone is they always have time for the one they love. These are excuses. Are you sure he isn't seeing others and just keeping you on hold until he finds out if it's going to work with another?
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@heliumfiasco how r things with the Gemini if I may ask ofc?







Confusing for me. He has kind of backed off, and Ive done the same. Although he has stated several times for me to show him some patience. Hes had a rough work week, worked 110 hours at the fire department, is training for a big race. A race in which he will compete against the champion, who just happens to be the man who his ex cheated on him with, who is currently pregnant and engaged to. He hasnt raced since that happened. I cant imagine the anxiety. He also suffered a concussion last week. Getting a cat scan today.... So, its alot. Its just hard for me to take his word about being too busy to see me, or even text regularly. So I told him I wasnt going to continue to not have effort matched. He asked me to stay around and that he'd be better soon. I'm not holding any expectations and keeping it moving.



Im tied between being understanding, but also not being a fool. How hard is it to ask how someones day is? If I text he always responds. Im just tired of two weeks of me mostly initiating. click to expand



You are correct. No matter how busy someone is they always have time for the one they love. These are excuses. Are you sure he isn't seeing others and just keeping you on hold until he finds out if it's going to work with another? click to expand
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He is on dating sites so he very well could be entertaining many people. Which is fine, we arent committed. However, he has told me he is not seeing anyone else. He has every right to explore options, as do I. But no effort is a pass for me!
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I can be done with someone but still be friends with them. When I don't say anything it means ur dead to me.









What makes you get to that point? click to expand




Like mentioned previously, lack of equal efforts, no reciprocity. Sometimes even small things can make me lose interest like returning a text. click to expand



Woah. click to expand


Sorry not sorry lol
What I meant is I can take a lot of ish but when enough is enough I can just break it off over stupid things if u know what I mean. click to expand
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Lol it makes complete sense though.