Phoebz
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Posted by PhoebzIf a man says that "he does not want anything more than friendship", Then leave it as that and move on.
I am a Leo woman and about 2-3 months ago I started communication with Libra guy. We started our communication as friends and we still are very good ones. When I started to catch some feelings towards him, I was hiding it, because he said that does not want anything more than friendship (commitment and responsibility). We have not gone to any decent dates, but we have met several times just to hang out which led us to kissing and flirting with each other. Now the situation is completely confusing, because I have opened up to him about my feelings and he is starting to push me away, but not cutting any communication out. He is still friendly and nice, but when it comes to flirting and making bigger step, he completely pushes me away by ignoring nice texts or saying that he is afraid I want something from him that does not exist. I have asked him about his feelings and he admitted that feels an attachment and likes me, but does not want anything else even tho we talk every single day (messages, phone calls, video chats), kiss and hug when meet, flirt, etc. (we meet rarely, because he lives in a different city)
Has someone been in a similar situation? Should I just drop out and forget about him? I have read that Libra and Leo makes the best match, and I feel it when we are together in person, but why is he pushing away, avoiding his feelings, possibly lying or being scared of something?


Posted by PhoebzI think he craves the intimacy, what he lost (broken up with long term girlfriend)
@2Moon he recently broke up with his long term relationship girlfriend. we both agreed on having open and truthful communication with no lies and secrets, because he hates them and so do I. Our communication is great. Its free, its open minded, etc. We are really good friends now.
He just gets me confused, because I can feel the vibe he is into me as much as I am into him, especially in real life. He has never denied it also.

Posted by Phoebz
why is he pushing away, avoiding his feelings, possibly lying or being scared of something?
Posted by PhoebzHe has been up front from the beginning. Believe him. You are playing yourself because your hopeful and caught up in your feels. If you can't handle a fwb then don't agree to one aka kiss and flirt with your 'friend'.
he said that does not want anything more than friendship (commitment and responsibility).click to expand

Posted by PhoebzBeing 'into someone' doesn't mean you want a relationship with them.
He just gets me confused, because I can feel the vibe he is into me as much as I am into him, especially in real life. He has never denied it also.

Posted by wisebloodYou are wrong. We are done, but it's normal to miss them. All people do. And all people need a certain "cool down" period after a relationship for soul healing, actually for re-balancing the levels of cortisol in our bodies. Whoever says different, they lie to themselves.Posted by 2MoonCause you guys are almost never done with exes.. Libras go back and forth with their exes a lot.. I've experienced this with 2 Libras..Posted by wisebloodWhat happened? What is the big red flag! lolPosted by PhoebzBig red flag! Especially with a Libra. smh
@2Moon he recently broke up with his long term relationship girlfriend. we both agreed on having open and truthful communication with no lies and secrets, because he hates them and so do I. Our communication is great. Its free, its open minded, etc. We are really good friends now.
He just gets me confused, because I can feel the vibe he is into me as much as I am into him, especially in real life. He has never denied it also.
All I see is just a man that broke up with an ex?click to expand

Posted by wisebloodHaving a rebound is standard practice for most people who have exited a relationship. With Libra men I've noticed the women they take things slow with seem to have a greater hold on their life.Posted by 2MoonAnd to add to this..Posted by wisebloodWhat happened? What is the big red flag! lolPosted by PhoebzBig red flag! Especially with a Libra. smh
@2Moon he recently broke up with his long term relationship girlfriend. we both agreed on having open and truthful communication with no lies and secrets, because he hates them and so do I. Our communication is great. Its free, its open minded, etc. We are really good friends now.
He just gets me confused, because I can feel the vibe he is into me as much as I am into him, especially in real life. He has never denied it also.
All I see is just a man that broke up with an ex?
From what I have observed, Libra men find an attention replacement very very quickly as a means to get over their exes.. doesn't mean they are going to get involved, but they want and need the attention of a female.. which he found with her..click to expand

Posted by Phoebz
@2Moon he recently broke up with his long term relationship girlfriend. we both agreed on having open and truthful communication with no lies and secrets, because he hates them and so do I. Our communication is great. Its free, its open minded, etc. We are really good friends now.
He just gets me confused, because I can feel the vibe he is into me as much as I am into him, especially in real life. He has never denied it also.

Posted by PhoebzHe told you repeatedly he doesn’t want a relationship with you + he is ‘pushing you away’ (your words not mine) after you told him you caught feelings. If that isn’t denying it I don’t know what is.
He just gets me confused, because I can feel the vibe he is into me as much as I am into him, especially in real life. He has never denied it also.

Posted by wisebloodIf we are in love, we keep that love in our hearts for a very, very long time. We still want a reunion with the ex, if possible. But the rebound thing, I don't do it even if I like someone. I befriend new people, but by no means I get romantically involved. I simply cannot.Posted by compyYeah.. but I have yet to meet one that ever took a cool down period.. Maybe for a day or two.. Not even kidding.. That's the problem I have observed.. There is no "cool down" just an immediate replacement of attention from another female. Doesn't mean a relationship or any feelings.. but they love to charm and flirt.Posted by wisebloodYou are wrong. We are done, but it's normal to miss them. All people do. And all people need a certain "cool down" period after a relationship for soul healing, actually for re-balancing the levels of cortisol in our bodies. Whoever says different, they lie to themselves.Posted by 2MoonCause you guys are almost never done with exes.. Libras go back and forth with their exes a lot.. I've experienced this with 2 Libras..Posted by wisebloodWhat happened? What is the big red flag! lolPosted by PhoebzBig red flag! Especially with a Libra. smh
@2Moon he recently broke up with his long term relationship girlfriend. we both agreed on having open and truthful communication with no lies and secrets, because he hates them and so do I. Our communication is great. Its free, its open minded, etc. We are really good friends now.
He just gets me confused, because I can feel the vibe he is into me as much as I am into him, especially in real life. He has never denied it also.
All I see is just a man that broke up with an ex?
First Libra I was ever involved with reached out to me like 2 weeks after leaving a 7 year relationship cause he needed female attention (I didn't know this until after) but he got back together with her and kept me on the side.. didn't tell me for months and played us both. The second Libra I have been with for 3 and a half years and there have been many ups and downs and separations.. but he can't stay away from me for more than a week.. But I surely know about his attention seeking when we are on the offs.. Maybe you don't do this.. but many do. Just sharing my experience cause I am willing to be this dudes ex is still in the picture. It's not beneath them to lie..click to expand

Posted by PhoebzGirl I hope you're trolling us. The answers are in your goddamn post.
When I started to catch some feelings towards him, I was hiding it, because he said that does not want anything more than friendship (commitment and responsibility). Now the situation is completely confusing, because I have opened up to him about my feelings ice texts or saying that he is afraid I want something from him that does not exist. I have asked him about his feelings and he admitted that feels an attachment and likes me, but does not want anything else even tho we talk every single day (messages, phone calls, video chats), kiss and
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Has someone been in a similar situation? Should I just drop out and forget about him? I have read that Libra and Leo makes the best match, and I feel it when we are together in person, but why is he pushing away, avoiding his feelings, possibly lying or being scared of something?