New Libra (Page 3)

Oh, unless it has to do with the two of you and ofcourse that is when they have us guessing and coming to our own conclusions.

HP, because he is comfortable with you and needs to talk about it.

QS, he's admitted that it felt so good to talk about it because the last 9 months have been hard on him and didn't feel comfortable enough until now to talk about any of it.

I try to flirt with these girls on Memorial, but they don't bite

and you said, "I do!" and shot him a brillant happy smile right?! right?!

no, sorry i was on my 3rd glass of wine when he emailed that. i wasn't thinking too quickly.

I must admit QS, my best friend is a Scorp, and the fact that she listens to me, means SOOOOOo much.

You are forgiven!

DON'T let it happen again. 😉

he sent me an invite to a myspace page that he created yesterday and he already has 3 "friends" on it. all women...

yup confusion. i think he's going to be a player just like the original mr. libra.

not necessarily. He doesn't sound like a player. He might be one of the walking wounded depending on what he says about the divorce. They could be friends.

Libras attract the opposite sex. We just do.

i think i'll just kinda back off either way.

Do what is right for you HP.

🙂

🙂

HP, I think you should just go with the flow for awhile anyway, this is new... See what happens...

Remember most Libra men have a lot of female friends, and they don't necessarily shag them or are even attracted to them in that way. Because they are so sensitive and can relate to the female (outside of the female they are with ofcourse, sometimes) sensibility, they attract alot. Plus they can look at both sides of a story before making an oppinion. Most of the Libra men I know have quite a few female friends, especially my Libra friend.

Don't let that bother you, it shouldn't, you guys just met. Get on that Myspace site and see what these girls are all about, since you all are friends... 🙂 You will be able to see better what is going on...

LS, I have been told I was a great listener, however, I don't share much, hard for me at times... except on this board. This is therapy for me.

Weird, huh as blunt and straight forward as I am.

Hi all. So I've been emailing my new friend today and one email we were joking about now that he created a myspace account to reconnect with his college buddies, he wouldn't have a need for poor ole me. His reply:

"that would mean i'm really shallow.

i've spent money on you; too late to get out."

what does that mean?

Qs, I does seem like therapy on here at times, doesn't it?

That is a joke! And a good one...

what's a joke?

"i've spent money on you; too late to get out"

Do you not see it?

nope

that's why i turn to you good people

He is in a lighthearted way saying that he likes you...

We're not confrontational.

It is a joke and he will be the first to admit that spending money on someone does not quarantee anything or gives you the right to expect anything in return (of the romantic variety)...

I'll tell you something else...

The more serious my message the more likely I'll end it with a joke - way too heavy.

well i figured he meant it light hearted, but i suck at reading between the lines. and we know how libras are....

(it's all good)

Yeah HP, therapy is good...

I agree with Libra, he was totally joking...

He likes you all the same.

i'm scared he's getting attached to me when I'm not sure what i want.

it's nice for a change for someone to get attached to me first, but that's what I'm gathering with someo of his emails to me.

We're just all very human, aren't we...?

apparently so....OMG the reading between the lines thing?? yikes!!! LOL

Chatz! haven't seen you in a while. ((hugs))

so you agree there's reading between the lines with that, huh?

"that would mean i'm really shallow.

i've spent money on you; too late to get out."

HEEEEE LIIIIKKKEEEESSSS UUUUUUU!

It was a joke and his way of saying I like you. You aren't getting away that easy.

🙂

awww

yup I agree with the reading between the lines....just wish I was good at it myself LOL

But HP...yup, there's definitely something there

Oh and I went home yesterday and did my housework - OMG my place looks soooooooooo clean and tidy!!! I can enjoy the weekend knowing I don't have to do a thing - wooohooo...anyway back at work now so can chat 🙂

he's asked me three times since our dinner the other night if we're still going to hang out and watch a movie this weekend. i told him sure. i just figure he's looking for new friends, but you guys think something else?

3 times—? OMG!!!! Ummmm well he's either REALLY into you or a psycho!!!

LOL

oh my

Just have fun with him - enjoy not having to work so hard 🙂

he kinda sorta asked me to go out and meet his friends at a bar tomorrow night, but i'm thinking that is a bit much right now. we've been to a baseball game on sunday, dinnner on tuesday, movie on saturday....so seeing him on friday is a bit much, you think?

whatever makes you comfortable....gawd I'd give anything for my LIbra to see me THAT much - sheesh!!!

but again, whatever makes you comfy...Im taking it you're not really that into him to be indecisive?? Can't be bothered reading through again - sorry LOL....*is lazy*

indecisiveness is 2nd skin to libra...lol

well yeah it is but this one seems to know what he wants!!! Now we have to over-analyze THAT!!! He's not normal LOL

HEEEEE LLLLIIIIIIKKKKKEEEESSS UUUUUUU!!!

🙂

No. He is normal. When we know, we know. We can come on strong.

It is when we like you but aren't sure or aren't ready that we are problematic.

ok, but here's something to twist things up. i met him at the hospital where i volunteer. during our emails today, he asked me to look at his profile on a dating site. he has a profile on match.com. so if he's interested in me the way you seem, then why is he asking me what I think of his dating profile?

it's so confusing...that's why i don't know how to react.

yeah, exactly

LOL LS I didn't mean it that way - its just that he's different to the ones we're all hanging on to LOL.

HP...welcome to my world!!! The dating sites.....mine is just as bad - he sent me the links to the ones he chats on (guess that's honesty for you LOL) but at the end of the day (every day), I know he doesnt pursue anything on there as he is home almost every single night....THAT is the part I cannot work out. He gives me once or twice a fortnight physically, we chat online perhaps a couple of times a week (msn) sometimes and text.....THAT's all he's prepared to give me...the rest— he chats to women online!!! Nic described it as being his escapism from something he may have gone through with his ex (I can see that) and they go to these sites to get attention from the opposite sex that won't lead to anything or not much anyway!

Personally I can't think of anything more boring, especially when you have somebody available who is willing to see you almost every night if you chose but he chooses to continue this way - he's been doing it for 2 years (since his r/ship breakdown)...guess its a habit but yeah, he goes there every day several times....not hours on end but little spurts and apparently goes on when he gets an email from the site saying somebody sent a smile or something.....to me its really weird, especially when he doesnt go out and act on any of the women who try to hook him *shrugs*.

I've come to the conclusion that he was on those sites well before I met him, he is happy to continue just chatting, perhaps getting advice and/or giving it to others about r/ship stuff - who knows, and if it keeps him sane, who am I to argue that? It doesnt bother me anymore as I know he doesnt go and see all and sundry - its just something he does when he is alone at night but damnit I know what I'd rather he be doing and with whom *laffs*

HP, Im not sure exactly what you should say about his profile either....at least he's being honest...and yeah, perhaps he is just looking for new friends...I know for a fact mine chats with women he'll never ever meet as they are overseas - most of them....he's told me about them and if yours is lonely and needs new friends as you suspect, perhaps that is the avenue he's sussing out?? If you really like him, keep him busy so he stays off 🙂

LS, this must be said... I think all Libra men start off persuing hard... Atleast all the ones I have been involved with my libra friend, before the bene's and even after for awhile, called me a couple times a day, in the morning before work, after work, in the evening. We hung out more than recently etc. He pickked me up from the airport took me and picked me up from the hospital, when I got sick and had to have surgery. Too bad I wasn't on the same page then. Same with my ex and another Libra. The initially come on very strong..Once they KNOW you are very interested, they seem to back off a whole lot. So, HP I understand your concern...

It is the "lets see if I can get her in there" game...

HP, no trying to put a damper on things, he definitely seems to like you, however I truly understand your concern.

OMG, my spelling is horrible... *** HP not trying***, ***He picked me up***, *** They initially come on very strong***