Ouch! So sorry to hear that, because that means you will have to see them again. Sorry you had to go through that. Imo, I don't think the gems I've slept with(just two, though) have been inconsistent, tbh, so either I've been lucky or you unlucky.
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Posted by KittenLaRougeYeah. I don't like lingering. Too much room for a power play like..... Him kicking you out for no reason. Not saying that you should adopt my mental, but I never cuddle, pillow talk, or text my FWB (unless its about dick). As soon as I walk in the door I usually ask, " why are you wearing clothes?". I don't care about your day, you kids, your job. Drop you pants and fuck me so I can leave N go shopping. Period.Posted by Magenta_Azurereally you dont cuddle. but the rest of what you said i agree with
I think it's weird to stay around after you fuck. Idk I'm pretty hoeish tho.
Anyways, there is no valid excuse for their behavior. Nope, in reality it doesn't matter how long you wait to screw. Nope, it doesn't matter that you act like a lady. At the end of the day these guys are pieces of shit. I would sit them down and have a conversation about how their treatment makes you feel. If they seem indifferent or don't seem interested in talking then I'd suggest you bounce.
Men are like busses and train. There's another one already waiting.click to expand
Im like this because when I was younger and first getting into sex I had learned the hard way that men are allowed to treat women like shit with no repercussions. If you walk into a FWB as a human being you will get mistreated. Men treat women like shit because they can. People never check men when they are disrespectful or hateful towards women. People always make excuses and assume that its just in their nature. Men are not held responsible for their actions. So when they inevitably fuck you over its always going to be your fault, no matter preventative measures you took (waiting to have sex, acting 'classy', ect.).
Take your emotions out of sex and enjoy it for what it really is. A bodily exchange between two human beings. Sex can be more than just that, but the society we live in doesn't allow for it.
In terms of mouth kissing. Thats extremely intimate and bonding for me.
If this guy is ur man, then thats unacceptable
If this guy is ur man, then thats unacceptable
Posted by GreyWizi can see that
you said "again". if this has happened to you several times i think you need to really introspect yourself. you don't just get into situations by accident. your thoughts, your feelings attract certain people, places and experiences to you. It may be deep in your subconcious but it is there.
you need a big timeout and reset. you need to be alone and look at your situations with clarity. If it happens often it is something to do with you.
Posted by DMVthis is exactly how he made it out to be however my cancer moon was crushed
If I could give another side to this,
sometimes I have trouble sleeping next to people. Its like I cant get comfortbale. Or if i have a busy day.
So I have left a guys bed at 3am, I have asked them to leave, and I have slept on couches, spade beds.
I dont mean anything personal by it. I just have a routine about my sleeping habits.
Posted by DMVit is unacceptable. the first time we were initimate he was making out with me, now im "only allowed to kiss him on the cheek"" what the hell? its insane to me
In terms of mouth kissing. Thats extremely intimate and bonding for me.
If this guy is ur man, then thats unacceptable
Posted by DMVOhhh hell, you'd get kicked out the other side of the bed.
If I could give another side to this,
sometimes I have trouble sleeping next to people. Its like I cant get comfortbale. Or if i have a busy day.
So I have left a guys bed at 3am, I have asked them to leave, and I have slept on couches, spade beds.
I dont mean anything personal by it. I just have a routine about my sleeping habits.
Posted by LuckyLibra979the only ass was me when he told me to go home at 3am
Lmmfao how can you take some of these threads serious on here? They are obviously jabs at y'all and some of y'all commenting away lmao
Don't let this woman make an ass out y'all.
Posted by KittenLaRougeSex is disgusting. Its fun, but nasty as shit. Even clean sex. The concept of sex is fundamentally disgusting to me. But I love it.Posted by Magenta_Azuredisgusting?
Also, its good to not put emotion into sex. Something so valuable shouldn't be associated with something so disgusting.click to expand
#HoeIsLife2016
Posted by Magenta_Azureim a cancer moon i cant subract emotion from sex, its doesnt even compute. however what you said about power is interesting. this gemini talks alot about "power. i have the power you have the power. POWER is a very dominant topic of conversation with this guy when it comes to he and i. it's weirdPosted by KittenLaRougeYeah. I don't like lingering. Too much room for a power play like..... Him kicking you out for no reason. Not saying that you should adopt my mental, but I never cuddle, pillow talk, or text my FWB (unless its about dick). As soon as I walk in the door I usually ask, " why are you wearing clothes?". I don't care about your day, you kids, your job. Drop you pants and fuck me so I can leave N go shopping. Period.Posted by Magenta_Azurereally you dont cuddle. but the rest of what you said i agree with
I think it's weird to stay around after you fuck. Idk I'm pretty hoeish tho.
Anyways, there is no valid excuse for their behavior. Nope, in reality it doesn't matter how long you wait to screw. Nope, it doesn't matter that you act like a lady. At the end of the day these guys are pieces of shit. I would sit them down and have a conversation about how their treatment makes you feel. If they seem indifferent or don't seem interested in talking then I'd suggest you bounce.
Men are like busses and train. There's another one already waiting.
Im like this because when I was younger and first getting into sex I had learned the hard way that men are allowed to treat women like shit with no repercussions. If you walk into a FWB as a human being you will get mistreated. Men treat women like shit because they can. People never check men when they are disrespectful or hateful towards women. People always make excuses and assume that its just in their nature. Men are not held responsible for their actions. So when they inevitably fuck you over its always going to be your fault, no matter preventative measures you took (waiting to have sex, acting 'classy', ect.).
Take your emotions out of sex and enjoy it for what it really is. A bodily exchange between two human beings. Sex can be more than just that, but the society we live in doesn't allow for it.click to expand
Posted by GreyWizByePosted by Magenta_AzurePosted by KittenLaRougeYeah. I don't like lingering. Too much room for a power play like..... Him kicking you out for no reason. Not saying that you should adopt my mental, but I never cuddle, pillow talk, or text my FWB (unless its about dick). As soon as I walk in the door I usually ask, " why are you wearing clothes?". I don't care about your day, you kids, your job. Drop you pants and fuck me so I can leave N go shopping. Period.Posted by Magenta_Azurereally you dont cuddle. but the rest of what you said i agree with
I think it's weird to stay around after you fuck. Idk I'm pretty hoeish tho.
Anyways, there is no valid excuse for their behavior. Nope, in reality it doesn't matter how long you wait to screw. Nope, it doesn't matter that you act like a lady. At the end of the day these guys are pieces of shit. I would sit them down and have a conversation about how their treatment makes you feel. If they seem indifferent or don't seem interested in talking then I'd suggest you bounce.
Men are like busses and train. There's another one already waiting.
Im like this because when I was younger and first getting into sex I had learned the hard way that men are allowed to treat women like shit with no repercussions. If you walk into a FWB as a human being you will get mistreated. Men treat women like shit because they can. People never check men when they are disrespectful or hateful towards women. People always make excuses and assume that its just in their nature. Men are not held responsible for their actions. So when they inevitably fuck you over its always going to be your fault, no matter preventative measures you took (waiting to have sex, acting 'classy', ect.).
Take your emotions out of sex and enjoy it for what it really is. A bodily exchange between two human beings. Sex can be more than just that, but the society we live in doesn't allow for it.
wow. no. just no. you are one of those modern feminists.......
only god can save your brainwashing..click to expand
Posted by DMVprostitutes dont kiss their johns
In terms of mouth kissing. Thats extremely intimate and bonding for me.
If this guy is ur man, then thats unacceptable
Posted by KittenLaRougeIf the price is right they will.Posted by DMVprostitutes dont kiss their johns
In terms of mouth kissing. Thats extremely intimate and bonding for me.
If this guy is ur man, then thats unacceptableclick to expand
Hey, I respect the fact that you include emotion in your sex life. (Idk if someone asked already.) Are you dating these men or just banging? Regardless of either scenario you deserve to be respected 110% , but if the Gemini is as into power as you say then more than likely he sees having sex with you as a sort of power play with you being the submissive one of course. And the fact that you were willing to have sex with him with no strings may make him feel entitled to treating you like shit. I don't know if this is happened a lot with the same guy but that could be something.
Men in general that actually focus on power are usually abusive.
Men in general that actually focus on power are usually abusive.
Posted by Magenta_AzureI'm totally laughing at your virgo bits! I find nothing disgusting about sex, not even the slimy fluids that go with it.Posted by KittenLaRougeSex is disgusting. Its fun, but nasty as shit. Even clean sex. The concept of sex is fundamentally disgusting to me. But I love it.Posted by Magenta_Azuredisgusting?
Also, its good to not put emotion into sex. Something so valuable shouldn't be associated with something so disgusting.
#HoeIsLife2016click to expand
Posted by SugarfootThis too.Posted by KittenLaRougeIf you want a guy to treat you like he loves you after having sex....wait until he loves you BEFORE you have sex with him. Trust me on this one ‰
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.click to expand
Sounds like the guys are just fucking to be fucking
Posted by hydorahUnfortunately it's very common. I once knew this girl who had a guy once tell her outright she had a nice body but didn't really like her face...Posted by SassyKiwiI'm thinking this
Maybe you have a hot body but an eh face nobody wants to wake up to ?!click to expand
The relationships after that had an odd pattern around whether she'd cave into having sex with them or not before letting her go.
Sometimes peoples' personalities or their emotional connection to them aren't strong enough to look past other stuff I guess.
You'd also have more power if it was over at your place. See if guys leave then.
Posted by KittenLaRougeIf any man asked me to leave like that I'd laugh in their face and make myself comfortable.
does anyone know how humiliating it is to be asked to leave mans bed at 230 am because he wants to get some sleep and then you have to do the walk of shame back to your car in the middle of the night by yourself and then go home and feel like a piece of garbage and wonder why this man you are dating thinks this is ok?
Posted by Sugarfootbut how do you know if he really loves you or just want to smash? he might "fake it" and say it tooPosted by KittenLaRougeIf you want a guy to treat you like he loves you after having sex....wait until he loves you BEFORE you have sex with him. Trust me on this one ‰
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.click to expand
Posted by KittenLaRougeHon it's supposed to be something that's felt, not verbalized.Posted by Sugarfootbut how do you know if he really loves you or just want to smash? he might "fake it" and say it tooPosted by KittenLaRougeIf you want a guy to treat you like he loves you after having sex....wait until he loves you BEFORE you have sex with him. Trust me on this one ‰
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.click to expand
Posted by Magenta_Azureits like he is obsessed with power. if i do certain things he feels like i am "trying to dominate him" . he is very into the dominant submissive thing but hes not really a dom because doms treat their subs with love so i think he's more a masochist? also im white, hes black and it seems as tho he wants me to serve him. but the whole aksing me to leave last night just killed ANY attraction i have to this guy.
Hey, I respect the fact that you include emotion in your sex life. (Idk if someone asked already.) Are you dating these men or just banging? Regardless of either scenario you deserve to be respected 110% , but if the Gemini is as into power as you say then more than likely he sees having sex with you as a sort of power play with you being the submissive one of course. And the fact that you were willing to have sex with him with no strings may make him feel entitled to treating you like shit. I don't know if this is happened a lot with the same guy but that could be something.
Men in general that actually focus on power are usually abusive.
Posted by LuckyLibra979its not funny doing a walk of shame at 3 am.Posted by KittenLaRougeLol OK so are you serious? You have a sarcastic tone right now. The threads I see on here just seem so sarcastic at times this made me laugh if you're being serious I truly apologize but you gotta work on your deliveryPosted by LuckyLibra979the only ass was me when he told me to go home at 3am
Lmmfao how can you take some of these threads serious on here? They are obviously jabs at y'all and some of y'all commenting away lmao
Don't let this woman make an ass out y'all.click to expand
Posted by SassyKiwiwell he was acting "extemely" loving until sex and even during the first time... wonderful. then some sort of different person emerged, bizarre.Posted by KittenLaRougeHon it's supposed to be something that's felt, not verbalized.Posted by Sugarfootbut how do you know if he really loves you or just want to smash? he might "fake it" and say it tooPosted by KittenLaRougeIf you want a guy to treat you like he loves you after having sex....wait until he loves you BEFORE you have sex with him. Trust me on this one ‰
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.click to expand
Posted by Magenta_AzureAgreed 100% with Magenta..Posted by KittenLaRougeYeah. I don't like lingering. Too much room for a power play like..... Him kicking you out for no reason. Not saying that you should adopt my mental, but I never cuddle, pillow talk, or text my FWB (unless its about dick). As soon as I walk in the door I usually ask, " why are you wearing clothes?". I don't care about your day, you kids, your job. Drop you pants and fuck me so I can leave N go shopping. Period.Posted by Magenta_Azurereally you dont cuddle. but the rest of what you said i agree with
I think it's weird to stay around after you fuck. Idk I'm pretty hoeish tho.
Anyways, there is no valid excuse for their behavior. Nope, in reality it doesn't matter how long you wait to screw. Nope, it doesn't matter that you act like a lady. At the end of the day these guys are pieces of shit. I would sit them down and have a conversation about how their treatment makes you feel. If they seem indifferent or don't seem interested in talking then I'd suggest you bounce.
Men are like busses and train. There's another one already waiting.
Im like this because when I was younger and first getting into sex I had learned the hard way that men are allowed to treat women like shit with no repercussions. If you walk into a FWB as a human being you will get mistreated. Men treat women like shit because they can. People never check men when they are disrespectful or hateful towards women. People always make excuses and assume that its just in their nature. Men are not held responsible for their actions. So when they inevitably fuck you over its always going to be your fault, no matter preventative measures you took (waiting to have sex, acting 'classy', ect.).
Take your emotions out of sex and enjoy it for what it really is. A bodily exchange between two human beings. Sex can be more than just that, but the society we live in doesn't allow for it.click to expand
Please start holding these guys accountable with how they treat you.
Please guard your heart and love yourself more.
My advice is coming from a loving place because my heart bleeds for you every time I read the comments that you write here. I know you're hurting but please to learn from this and never put yourself through that again.
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by KittenLaRougeKitty, would you kiss a clogged urinal?
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.
Waiting for an answer, kitty.click to expand
Posted by candycloudsIt's BOTH your faults.
Casual sex never ends well.. IT NEVER DOES. It's really not your fault. Everybody does this and then they reach a point where it hurts so much that they decide what they really want is a beautiful serious long term relationship with someone who loves them.
And sometimes people forget how crappy the casual period can be so if their long term relationship is over they just come back to it. Until it becomes unbearable again 😛
You just reached that point. That's all.
I have gone through the casual sex phase twice in my life. And I've been treated like a princess, and like crap(one guy left right after sex AND I KEPT SEEING THAT GUY FOR A FEW MORE WEEKS..THAT DESPERATE !??!! I know 😄 ).. sometimes it ended because they had a gf or I was jealous, and sometimes because they asked me to be their gf and I didn't want to.
All this craziness ends when you stop the casual sex stuff and become the 'I only do serious long term relationships' girl again. No sex until then might seems like no fun but there is no way around it. Just set some goals and dedicate your time and energy to perfect yourself until your next relationship- join the gym, be more social meet new people, learn new skills etc
good luck 😉
Posted by xtinaOooh no. I would leave, and when I say leave, I mean Leeeave! Fo evvva.Posted by KittenLaRougeIf any man asked me to leave like that I'd laugh in their face and make myself comfortable.
does anyone know how humiliating it is to be asked to leave mans bed at 230 am because he wants to get some sleep and then you have to do the walk of shame back to your car in the middle of the night by yourself and then go home and feel like a piece of garbage and wonder why this man you are dating thinks this is ok?click to expand
Posted by MrFirebirdwhy?Posted by candycloudsIt's BOTH your faults.
Casual sex never ends well.. IT NEVER DOES. It's really not your fault. Everybody does this and then they reach a point where it hurts so much that they decide what they really want is a beautiful serious long term relationship with someone who loves them.
And sometimes people forget how crappy the casual period can be so if their long term relationship is over they just come back to it. Until it becomes unbearable again 😛
You just reached that point. That's all.
I have gone through the casual sex phase twice in my life. And I've been treated like a princess, and like crap(one guy left right after sex AND I KEPT SEEING THAT GUY FOR A FEW MORE WEEKS..THAT DESPERATE !??!! I know 😄 ).. sometimes it ended because they had a gf or I was jealous, and sometimes because they asked me to be their gf and I didn't want to.
All this craziness ends when you stop the casual sex stuff and become the 'I only do serious long term relationships' girl again. No sex until then might seems like no fun but there is no way around it. Just set some goals and dedicate your time and energy to perfect yourself until your next relationship- join the gym, be more social meet new people, learn new skills etc
good luck 😉
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Posted by hydorahHaha, very possiblePosted by SassyKiwiI'm thinking this
Maybe you have a hot body but an eh face nobody wants to wake up to ?!click to expand
Posted by candycloudswell he said we were in a committed relationship but his actions didn't match
Casual sex never ends well.. IT NEVER DOES. It's really not your fault. Everybody does this and then they reach a point where it hurts so much that they decide what they really want is a beautiful serious long term relationship with someone who loves them.
And sometimes people forget how crappy the casual period can be so if their long term relationship is over they just come back to it. Until it becomes unbearable again 😛
You just reached that point. That's all.
I have gone through the casual sex phase twice in my life. And I've been treated like a princess, and like crap(one guy left right after sex AND I KEPT SEEING THAT GUY FOR A FEW MORE WEEKS..THAT DESPERATE !??!! I know 😄 ).. sometimes it ended because they had a gf or I was jealous, and sometimes because they asked me to be their gf and I didn't want to.
All this craziness ends when you stop the casual sex stuff and become the 'I only do serious long term relationships' girl again. No sex until then might seems like no fun but there is no way around it. Just set some goals and dedicate your time and energy to perfect yourself until your next relationship- join the gym, be more social meet new people, learn new skills etc
good luck 😉
*taking bets that this thread gets pulled soon
c'mon lets get the dxp black market rollin
c'mon lets get the dxp black market rollin
Posted by KittenLaRougeWell if it's just sex your after, don't go to their house, have them come to yours..that way your in control and on yoir turf and when the deed is done, kick them out. None of these guys are prince charming or even half that.
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.
If it's just sex you want, you domt need to be sleeping there. They don't need to be sleeping over yours either.
Do it to them next time, tell them.to leave. I've done that before, the look on their face is priceless I swear!!
Posted by GreyWizyou write shitty erotica, don't you?
the craving can overwhelm a man at times but he has to exercise control. you have to maintain control. you grit your teeth in lust but you have to calm yourself. just breathe deeply and control yourself. It doesn't matter how badly you want her or need her. just be in control.............
Posted by GreyWizthe thing is not a cap woman, the thing is behind you as you bend for soap.
oh he is a gemini? gem men and cap women never work.
I am waiting for someone to go "You're only 23, you have the whole life ahead of you".
Topic will be complete.
Topic will be complete.
Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberwe had sex and he said would you be mad if i slept by myself tonight. i said are you asking me to leave he said yes. i got up put on my clothes and walked out without saying anything and then i text him we are done
OP, you are seriously doing some fouled up stuff if a Piscean threw you out in the middle of the night.
A woman would have to do some seriously messed up stuff for me to throw her into the cold darkness at 2 AM.
Seriously, I am not heartless, but if you did something really screwed up like TEXT SOME OTHER GUY or some shit like that, then hell yea, my boot will be up your ass on the way out the door.
Stop sleeping with men you are not in a relationship with
I feel sick to my stomach that your allowing yourself to be treated in this manner.
What kind of men are you choosing. Key word YOU.
Please stop having sex and reassess your life choices.
I feel sick to my stomach that your allowing yourself to be treated in this manner.
What kind of men are you choosing. Key word YOU.
Please stop having sex and reassess your life choices.
Posted by ShadowAbsorberthank you. i asked him MULTIPLE times do you just want sex just tell me i wont be mad and i meant it , he said no no no
@sugarfoot but still... why would guys get rude AFTER sex? if they didn't want anything deeper, shouldn't they have been a bit colder to the woman from the beginning? Doesn't that mean something? And even if women should make sure of security if that's what they're seeking, it's really not nice of guys to treat women so coldly, right? I mean, they can communicate that they don't want anymore more, and they should be upfront about it from the beginning, not just AFTER sex, right? Lots of pain. Sigh.
Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberLOLPosted by GoldigoldYeah, I could see that.
It's probably what made him fall in love with me 🙂
They like being emotionally abused for some weird reason.
Not me, tho.
I would be like, you are throwing me out at 2 AM? Cool, see you around kid.click to expand
Posted by balblairhe told me "WE ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP" before i slept with him. i asked him 100 times if you want just sex tell me its cool just be REAL. i might have still slept with him but i wouldnt have expected anything. he made it clear. we are in relationship we dont see anyone else
Stop sleeping with men you are not in a relationship with
I feel sick to my stomach that your allowing yourself to be treated in this manner.
What kind of men are you choosing. Key word YOU.
Please stop having sex and reassess your life choices.
Posted by Sugarfooti did take my time getting to know him. i didnt know he would do a 180 like he did not me and treat me like garbage. i dont know how i could have known he wouldPosted by ShadowAbsorberIf they were cold in the beginning, they'd never get what they want. They (assholes) play along at first making you think they want everything you want. Then, when you let your gaurd down, they get the sex, and they don't have to pretend to be interested anymore. Here comes the coldness.
@sugarfoot but still... why would guys get rude AFTER sex? if they didn't want anything deeper, shouldn't they have been a bit colder to the woman from the beginning? Doesn't that mean something? And even if women should make sure of security if that's what they're seeking, it's really not nice of guys to treat women so coldly, right? I mean, they can communicate that they don't want anymore more, and they should be upfront about it from the beginning, not just AFTER sex, right? Lots of pain. Sigh.
This is why it's important to take your time getting to know someone. A manwhore won't waste time doing that. He'll lose interest quick and move on to easier prey. A man who is really interested in getting to know you as a person will be around even without the sex.
People can be terrible and selfish and dark. You can't make them act how they should. The only person you can control is you. It gets easy enough to brush aside the dogs out there once you have a better handle on yourself and what you will and wont tolerate from people.click to expand
Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberim telling you exaclty as it happened. AND he cooked me dinner before hand. thats it.Posted by KittenLaRougeWell, IF YOU ARE TELLING THE TRUTH, then you clearly need to reassess your life choices as another DXP member just made clear.Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberwe had sex and he said would you be mad if i slept by myself tonight. i said are you asking me to leave he said yes. i got up put on my clothes and walked out without saying anything and then i text him we are done
OP, you are seriously doing some fouled up stuff if a Piscean threw you out in the middle of the night.
A woman would have to do some seriously messed up stuff for me to throw her into the cold darkness at 2 AM.
Seriously, I am not heartless, but if you did something really screwed up like TEXT SOME OTHER GUY or some shit like that, then hell yea, my boot will be up your ass on the way out the door.
I have to wonder what it is that you said or did to make him speak like this.
I am in my 30s, and no matter how tired or beat I have been from a hard day at work or some crazy sex, I never ask my woman to leave the house.
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Posted by ShadowAbsorberi was with one person for almost 8 years committed,, what we had was very special. i have had nothing but this ^^^ since. i feel like i had "my relationship" and that's it. i can't find it again. maybe its me? i don't know thus the thread.Posted by KittenLaRougeYeah, girl. They're always acting like they want a relationship up until the sex, then suddenly it's like you're not even human and without any feelings. I've been there many times before.Posted by ShadowAbsorberthank you. i asked him MULTIPLE times do you just want sex just tell me i wont be mad and i meant it , he said no no no
@sugarfoot but still... why would guys get rude AFTER sex? if they didn't want anything deeper, shouldn't they have been a bit colder to the woman from the beginning? Doesn't that mean something? And even if women should make sure of security if that's what they're seeking, it's really not nice of guys to treat women so coldly, right? I mean, they can communicate that they don't want anymore more, and they should be upfront about it from the beginning, not just AFTER sex, right? Lots of pain. Sigh.click to expand
Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberno. i was under the impression we were in a relationship as i was told.Posted by ShadowAbsorberThe OP is withholding information.
@sugarfoot but still... why would guys get rude AFTER sex? if they didn't want anything deeper, shouldn't they have been a bit colder to the woman from the beginning? Doesn't that mean something? And even if women should make sure of security if that's what they're seeking, it's really not nice of guys to treat women so coldly, right? I mean, they can communicate that they don't want anymore more, and they should be upfront about it from the beginning, not just AFTER sex, right? Lots of pain. Sigh.
Ten bucks says she got caught with her cellphone in the bathroom texting some other dude or some shit.
Of course the Piscean went apeshit and threw her out, as he should have.click to expand
Posted by GreenteaNO WAY i would have this douchebag to my house thank goodness i didntPosted by KittenLaRougeWell if it's just sex your after, don't go to their house, have them come to yours..that way your in control and on yoir turf and when the deed is done, kick them out. None of these guys are prince charming or even half that.
i don' know what i'm doing wrong. the pisces has kicked me out of bed in the middle of the night and asked me to go home, now the gemini did it to me last night in the middle of the night, said he wanted to sleep alone. yet they text me tell me they love me and wont leave me alone. the first date the with gemini was beautiful and he was a gentleman. now after i slept with him he treats me like garbage. wont allow me to kiss him on the mouth only the cheek. wanted me to come over and then kicked me out after sleeping with me. no foreplay no love just "boom boom boom". i tell them their behavior is unacceptable. i call them out on it. i break things off with them but they come back. i have 2 jobs my own house and car i don't have to put up with anything. and i like sex but as soon as i sleep with a guy the bullshit begins. i don't sleep with them on the first date or second. but as a soon as i do, it seems they loose respect for me. men can sleep with women no problem but if a woman exercises her sexual freedom, God forbid, shes treated like a slut. what a double standard. so really, when is it ok to sleep with a guy so he doesn't disrespect u? i guess never.
If it's just sex you want, you domt need to be sleeping there. They don't need to be sleeping over yours either.
Do it to them next time, tell them.to leave. I've done that before, the look on their face is priceless I swear!!
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Posted by ShadowAbsorberMindblowing.
Dude honestly i was with this guy and i thought we had a deeper connection, we were from the same elementary school & everything
Posted by LuckyLibra979
O u just want some honesty. I completely understand my bad I thought u were bullshitting at first but him telling you y'all are in a relationship puts the blame on him but then again he was honest in saying he wanted to sleep alone but if he is making proclamations without convictions dust his ass n keep moving or you'll always be hit with a lame excuse
having sex and then having me leave felt AWFUL. omg i never felt so crappy walking to my car in the cold and 2 am and it was a walk. he didnt even walk me to the car. it was awful. never again. i felt like used garbage
I can't with this topic anymore. Sorry to spoil any fun if I did.
Gotta go before I give myself a heart attack.
Gotta go before I give myself a heart attack.
Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberno i really liked this guy, i was focused on him i told you as it happened step by stepPosted by KittenLaRougeSo no slick 2 AM cellphone shit going on in the bathroom or some other shady shit?Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberno. i was under the impression we were in a relationship as i was told.Posted by ShadowAbsorberThe OP is withholding information.
@sugarfoot but still... why would guys get rude AFTER sex? if they didn't want anything deeper, shouldn't they have been a bit colder to the woman from the beginning? Doesn't that mean something? And even if women should make sure of security if that's what they're seeking, it's really not nice of guys to treat women so coldly, right? I mean, they can communicate that they don't want anymore more, and they should be upfront about it from the beginning, not just AFTER sex, right? Lots of pain. Sigh.
Ten bucks says she got caught with her cellphone in the bathroom texting some other dude or some shit.
Of course the Piscean went apeshit and threw her out, as he should have.
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Posted by ShadowAbsorberughh. well i like pigs because pigs are as smart as dogs and loyal so these guys are below that
Dude honestly i was with this guy and i thought we had a deeper connection, we were from the same elementary school & everything, we did lots of things hanging out without the sex, but it got to a point where he was only motivated to talk things out if i threatened sex or used sex. and deep down i was hurt, because i was observing this about him, he was never motivated to talk and work things out just because my feelings were hurt... yeah, it hurt. i'm just gonna leave this thread before my negativity comes out more because i just think guys are pigs. ;/
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