
stillstillwater
@stillstillwater
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Posted by jeane
cue classic libra response...
how you treat others (and him) is what you should expect in return.
Are you
respectful?
kind?
attentive?
loving?
giving?
accepting?
understanding?
compassionate?
honest?
responsible?
trustworthy?

Posted by WarAngel
Making a list and checking it twice will just make you disappointed when not enough check marks get ticked off.
I've been at this game long enough to know, your person will not be everything, everyday for you.

Posted by PowerLunch
Buying you a house - extra appreciation

Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by jeane
cue classic libra response...
how you treat others (and him) is what you should expect in return.
Are you
respectful?
kind?
attentive?
loving?
giving?
accepting?
understanding?
compassionate?
honest?
responsible?
trustworthy?
These are kinna given and differ from situation as no one can be perfect and be all those things all the time.
How about some examples of practical things?click to expand


Posted by PowerLunchPosted by jazzykid
If he doesn’t jump off of a cliff to prove he’s no longer mad at you for wrecking the car, is it even love?
Situationshipclick to expand

Posted by PowerLunchPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by WarAngel
Making a list and checking it twice will just make you disappointed when not enough check marks get ticked off.
I've been at this game long enough to know, your person will not be everything, everyday for you.
Yeah sooo true! I try to keep this mind esp after reading this book called 'getting the love you want'.
But let's just talk general rather than every single time?
What did the book say?click to expand

Posted by jazzykid
If he doesn’t jump off of a cliff to prove he’s no longer mad at you for wrecking the car, is it even love?

Posted by LuxePurr
Hmmm.. I'm pretty appreciative over the tiniest things and don't really overthink how I react to sweet gestures. If I don't know him well, I smile and say thank you. As we get to know each other, dating for a while and I feel comfortable with him, I tend to show more. I don't really get too poetic, except for when a dude gets a little emotional and opens up to me about his past, goals, passion etc.
Like last time my ram and I hung out. He knows I love chicken nuggets and so when he picked me up, he opened the passenger door for me and I see McNuggies and coffee waiting for me. I actually squealed and kissed him all over. It's simple but cute and thoughtful. And he got the biggest smile on his face with my acting like a 7 year old. 😑
Try not to overthink it and just do or say what you feel at that moment.


Posted by LuxePurrPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LuxePurr
Hmmm.. I'm pretty appreciative over the tiniest things and don't really overthink how I react to sweet gestures. If I don't know him well, I smile and say thank you. As we get to know each other, dating for a while and I feel comfortable with him, I tend to show more. I don't really get too poetic, except for when a dude gets a little emotional and opens up to me about his past, goals, passion etc.
Like last time my ram and I hung out. He knows I love chicken nuggets and so when he picked me up, he opened the passenger door for me and I see McNuggies and coffee waiting for me. I actually squealed and kissed him all over. It's simple but cute and thoughtful. And he got the biggest smile on his face with my acting like a 7 year old. 😑
Try not to overthink it and just do or say what you feel at that moment.
Good perspective girl. Guess I'm afraid to come off like no man has ever treated me nice 💔😭 that's my baggage tho and my own reflection...
Been there, done that. After my Taurus ex, I was shattered and had zero confidence. I was so used to being treated like shit, I didn't know what to do when a guy did something nice for me. It's like I get all suspicious and shit, no idea how to acknowledge it lol. Over time, it'll be natural to you. Good luck!click to expand

Posted by stillstillwater
So ever since my last two ex's (Libra is not really an ex but situationship I guess) I think I have super low standards and expectations from men.
I just wanna check myself. What kinna things are to be expected and a simple thank you or a smile is enough for...and what kinna things do you break out the poetic words for??
Guys -you can also chime in about what kinna things you do that should be given and what kinna things deserve extra appreciation??

Posted by rabidtalkerPosted by stillstillwater
So ever since my last two ex's (Libra is not really an ex but situationship I guess) I think I have super low standards and expectations from men.
I just wanna check myself. What kinna things are to be expected and a simple thank you or a smile is enough for...and what kinna things do you break out the poetic words for??
Guys -you can also chime in about what kinna things you do that should be given and what kinna things deserve extra appreciation??
Pretty simple for me, if i like you, i want you to like me back. Frequently i can tell i am being measured up to something or someone else, which is a huge turn off.click to expand



Posted by stillstillwater
So ever since my last two ex's (Libra is not really an ex but situationship I guess) I think I have super low standards and expectations from men.
I just wanna check myself. What kinna things are to be expected and a simple thank you or a smile is enough for...and what kinna things do you break out the poetic words for??
Guys -you can also chime in about what kinna things you do that should be given and what kinna things deserve extra appreciation??




Posted by virgoOPPP
1. following scheduled dates (appropriate cancellation procedures will apply)
2. BUT spontaneous dates welcome too
3. my toothbrush exactly where i left it
4. adding me on facebook
compared to joe exotic's attention to carole baskin's bike routine,
these are bare minimums



Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by virgoOPPP
1. following scheduled dates (appropriate cancellation procedures will apply)
2. BUT spontaneous dates welcome too
3. my toothbrush exactly where i left it
4. adding me on facebook
compared to joe exotic's attention to carole baskin's bike routine,
these are bare minimums
Adding on facebook? Why's that?click to expand


Posted by LuxePurrPosted by stillstillwater
@luxepurr men who feed you .. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Lol my virgo ex was really good at that tho and even now he'll get me food any time any day.
Cancer is good at it too... Surprising me with starbucks drinks and asking if I ate etc. I don't even ask and on the way home he'll be like we are stopping by to get smoothies etc. I think it's just cuz he likes to enjoy food himself lol smh
Yesterday he bought me a chakra alignment book just because he thought it's something I'd like. That' was quite thoughtful and using initiative. It's nice when people just do things that u don't even ask! That's cherry on top....
Same Cancer guy you went out with weeks ago?
Brings you SB drinks, smoothies and chakra alignment books? Girrrrrl.. I like this guy. Lock him down 🔐click to expand

Posted by LuxePurrPosted by stillstillwater
@luxepurr when the cancer stoped by to drop me off some starbucks once, my dog was barking like crazy and bit his hand (not hard just to make a point lol). And I told my dog infront of him, stop you have to be nice to this man because he feeds us!! Cancer had a good laugh.... Lol but it's true he does haha.
Sounds like you guys are off to a good start. While I had a horrible experience with a Cancer ex (his temper and jealousy), I gotta give them points for being so thoughtful. They will bring you food AND cook for you. Anything to make you happy really.click to expand

Posted by LiterallyStalinGPosted by CoffeeAndCream
@LiterallyStalinG
what do you mean by this "The brightest light will cast the longest shadows."
I'm going off on tangents without completing my thoughts. Other the the feminine and masculine energies there's also the shadow that lives in our unconscious. Working with this shadow and recognizing it is necessary in self mastery.
Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.![]()
Feminine -Anima
Masculine -Animus
The process of finding ones true self is stripping the identities thrust onto you and ingrained into your unconscious by society as a child and bringing them to the surface.
They meet halfway into the middle to unify into your true self. Not the self society tried to make you.
Unity of the capacities of the mind is a hard process but once done very rewarding.
This video is a quick glimpse into this. It explains the masculine in the womanclick to expand

Posted by WarAngel
Something I am proud of personally: the three Fs.
1. Fun
2. Food
3. good Fucking
Follow me on DXP for more great tips. 😁


Posted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LuxePurrPosted by stillstillwater
@luxepurr when the cancer stoped by to drop me off some starbucks once, my dog was barking like crazy and bit his hand (not hard just to make a point lol). And I told my dog infront of him, stop you have to be nice to this man because he feeds us!! Cancer had a good laugh.... Lol but it's true he does haha.
Sounds like you guys are off to a good start. While I had a horrible experience with a Cancer ex (his temper and jealousy), I gotta give them points for being so thoughtful. They will bring you food AND cook for you. Anything to make you happy really.
Yepppp he says that all the time he'll do anything to make me happy. Words are nice but we'll see...
Temper and jealousy... I still have a lot going on w my virgo ex that woupd make any man jump off the train easily... But he's handling it like a champ and supporting me... Im really surprised !!
what stuff with your ex?
also I wish someone love bombed me right nowclick to expand

Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LuxePurrPosted by stillstillwater
@luxepurr when the cancer stoped by to drop me off some starbucks once, my dog was barking like crazy and bit his hand (not hard just to make a point lol). And I told my dog infront of him, stop you have to be nice to this man because he feeds us!! Cancer had a good laugh.... Lol but it's true he does haha.
Sounds like you guys are off to a good start. While I had a horrible experience with a Cancer ex (his temper and jealousy), I gotta give them points for being so thoughtful. They will bring you food AND cook for you. Anything to make you happy really.
Yepppp he says that all the time he'll do anything to make me happy. Words are nice but we'll see...
Temper and jealousy... I still have a lot going on w my virgo ex that woupd make any man jump off the train easily... But he's handling it like a champ and supporting me... Im really surprised !!
what stuff with your ex?
also I wish someone love bombed me right now
Na that's too much for dxp to know...
Don't throw your negativity and shade on what I got going on. You don't know if it's love bombing or not.click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptune
Having low expectations of someone isn’t all bad. Almost for the best at the beginning tbf.

Posted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by WarAngelPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by WarAngel
Something I am proud of personally: the three Fs.
1. Fun
2. Food
3. good Fucking
Follow me on DXP for more great tips. 😁
That's all most women want tbh lmao when a man handles his shit hell find that most women are easy going and open to fun/receive... Allowing themselves to be in their feminine energy. Not all women but most.. obv there are still toxic women that no matter what they'll give you shit.
It removes complications and expectations. Years of research have gone into this method. 😎
why is everyone mia on zoom
no movie tonight😭 oh well we'll try again tomorrowclick to expand

Posted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LuxePurrPosted by stillstillwater
@luxepurr when the cancer stoped by to drop me off some starbucks once, my dog was barking like crazy and bit his hand (not hard just to make a point lol). And I told my dog infront of him, stop you have to be nice to this man because he feeds us!! Cancer had a good laugh.... Lol but it's true he does haha.
Sounds like you guys are off to a good start. While I had a horrible experience with a Cancer ex (his temper and jealousy), I gotta give them points for being so thoughtful. They will bring you food AND cook for you. Anything to make you happy really.
Yepppp he says that all the time he'll do anything to make me happy. Words are nice but we'll see...
Temper and jealousy... I still have a lot going on w my virgo ex that woupd make any man jump off the train easily... But he's handling it like a champ and supporting me... Im really surprised !!
what stuff with your ex?
also I wish someone love bombed me right now
Na that's too much for dxp to know...
Don't throw your negativity and shade on what I got going on. You don't know if it's love bombing or not.
it wasn't shade, but okclick to expand

Posted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LuxePurrPosted by stillstillwater
@luxepurr when the cancer stoped by to drop me off some starbucks once, my dog was barking like crazy and bit his hand (not hard just to make a point lol). And I told my dog infront of him, stop you have to be nice to this man because he feeds us!! Cancer had a good laugh.... Lol but it's true he does haha.
Sounds like you guys are off to a good start. While I had a horrible experience with a Cancer ex (his temper and jealousy), I gotta give them points for being so thoughtful. They will bring you food AND cook for you. Anything to make you happy really.
Yepppp he says that all the time he'll do anything to make me happy. Words are nice but we'll see...
Temper and jealousy... I still have a lot going on w my virgo ex that woupd make any man jump off the train easily... But he's handling it like a champ and supporting me... Im really surprised !!
what stuff with your ex?
also I wish someone love bombed me right now
Na that's too much for dxp to know...
Don't throw your negativity and shade on what I got going on. You don't know if it's love bombing or not.
@coffeeandcream I already got enough trust issues and anxiety about relationships. So many days I'm like I'm not ready to be with anyone 🤦♀️
i hear you but you seem open to it atleast you're tryingclick to expand

Posted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LuxePurrPosted by stillstillwater
@luxepurr when the cancer stoped by to drop me off some starbucks once, my dog was barking like crazy and bit his hand (not hard just to make a point lol). And I told my dog infront of him, stop you have to be nice to this man because he feeds us!! Cancer had a good laugh.... Lol but it's true he does haha.
Sounds like you guys are off to a good start. While I had a horrible experience with a Cancer ex (his temper and jealousy), I gotta give them points for being so thoughtful. They will bring you food AND cook for you. Anything to make you happy really.
Yepppp he says that all the time he'll do anything to make me happy. Words are nice but we'll see...
Temper and jealousy... I still have a lot going on w my virgo ex that woupd make any man jump off the train easily... But he's handling it like a champ and supporting me... Im really surprised !!
what stuff with your ex?
also I wish someone love bombed me right now
Na that's too much for dxp to know...
Don't throw your negativity and shade on what I got going on. You don't know if it's love bombing or not.
it wasn't shade, but ok
Love bombing is not a good look
OK dude, i just meant i wish i had someone give me warmth and affection the way your crab is showing you
okay
okay
okayclick to expand

Posted by Soul
No woman would settle for a poor man with a good personality, unless she was an ugly woman with a bad personality.




Posted by MadTwins80Posted by RollergirlOrc
You mad? @Madtwins80 😅
Anyway, I think I have high-low expectations. In that I pretend to have low expectations but they turn out to be extremely high. I just want to be treated once in a while yea? I'm the financially lowest maintenance, highest emotional maintenance girl out there..
Mad about what? 🤔click to expand

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I just wanna check myself. What kinna things are to be expected and a simple thank you or a smile is enough for...and what kinna things do you break out the poetic words for??
Guys -you can also chime in about what kinna things you do that should be given and what kinna things deserve extra appreciation??