Tell me a time you’ve seen Karma play out

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Anyway, TELL ME A TIME YOU WITNESSED KARMA HANDED TO SOMEONE? What did they do to you and how do you feel the karma was justified—

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So I was having a conversation with a friend, and we were talking about karma. They were telling me how they’ve always noticed people who hurt them—people who hurt them with the intent of being hurtful—always received their karma.

For me, not that I necessarily go around wishing for people to be harmed, but I’ve never witnessed someone that hurt me get their karma. In fact, it usually feels the other way around, where they just keep on thriving. To add some context, I have met and attracted a LOT of abusive partners and/or narcissistic gaslighters in my life, starting with my parents. The only good thing that has come from it, is it’s squashed the people pleaser in me. And it’s helped me learn how to say “no” more.

Posted by Wizardz

There's this scumbag junkie homeless guy lived near me. Nothing against homeless people, I usually feel for them and often help them out but this guy was a piece of shit. One day I walked past him but I gave him a wide berth because he's nasty. He shouted at me "Oi mate , don't get run over" taking the piss because he could see I was avoiding him. Later on that day he OD'd and died

Extreme retribution

Are you really such a sociopath that you deem there's some sort of justice in a homeless man OD'ing because he shouted "don't get run over" to you?

Posted by Wizardz

There's this scumbag junkie homeless guy lived near me. Nothing against homeless people, I usually feel for them and often help them out but this guy was a piece of shit. One day I walked past him but I gave him a wide berth because he's nasty. He shouted at me "Oi mate , don't get run over" taking the piss because he could see I was avoiding him. Later on that day he OD'd and died

Extreme retribution

I like you, but please don’t troll my posts. I’m asking for serious observations on karma.

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Posted by Wizardz

There's this scumbag junkie homeless guy lived near me. Nothing against homeless people, I usually feel for them and often help them out but this guy was a piece of shit. One day I walked past him but I gave him a wide berth because he's nasty. He shouted at me "Oi mate , don't get run over" taking the piss because he could see I was avoiding him. Later on that day he OD'd and died

Extreme retribution

Are you really such a sociopath that you deem there's some sort of justice in a homeless man OD'ing because he shouted "don't get run over" to you?

Lol no but he used to threaten to stab people with dirty syringes and shit like that

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Clearly he was mentally ill. Hardly say this was karma, at least as it pertains to you.

Posted by magma5

I worked for the worst boss I ever had for 9 years and saw him get what he had coming to him, it was poetic. Among other things, over the years he lost 2 wives, his business, and after wrecking his liver over time from alcohol, died from it. He had a bad childhood, looking back he didn't stand a chance. When he was good he was awesome and when he was bad he was terrible.

But I would never wish this sort of end time on my worst enemy. It wasn't hard to see the little boy in him and that made it incredibly sad for me and still is.

Hmm doesn’t sound like karma...sounds like a guy who’s unhealed childhood traumas took over his life.

Posted by Wizardz

Posted by Enfant-Terrible-II

Posted by Wizardz

There's this scumbag junkie homeless guy lived near me. Nothing against homeless people, I usually feel for them and often help them out but this guy was a piece of shit. One day I walked past him but I gave him a wide berth because he's nasty. He shouted at me "Oi mate , don't get run over" taking the piss because he could see I was avoiding him. Later on that day he OD'd and died

Extreme retribution

Are you really such a sociopath that you deem there's some sort of justice in a homeless man OD'ing because he shouted "don't get run over" to you?

Lol no but he used to threaten to stab people with dirty syringes and shit like that

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So you mean it's fair to compare seemingly healthy and welladjusted ppl to those with mental illness and call it karma?

From where I stand he's in a disadvantage to begin with.

I hope he didn't ruin your life by shouting that to you, drama queen.

Posted by Wizardz

No he was evil

No such thing as good and evil

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Posted by Wizardz

Posted by Enfant-Terrible-II

Posted by Wizardz

There's this scumbag junkie homeless guy lived near me. Nothing against homeless people, I usually feel for them and often help them out but this guy was a piece of shit. One day I walked past him but I gave him a wide berth because he's nasty. He shouted at me "Oi mate , don't get run over" taking the piss because he could see I was avoiding him. Later on that day he OD'd and died

Extreme retribution

Are you really such a sociopath that you deem there's some sort of justice in a homeless man OD'ing because he shouted "don't get run over" to you?

Lol no but he used to threaten to stab people with dirty syringes and shit like that

So you mean it's fair to compare seemingly healthy and welladjusted ppl to those with mental illness and call it karma?

From where I stand he's in a disadvantage to begin with.

I hope he didn't ruin your life by shouting that to you, drama queen.

Shut the fk up

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Aww, what's the matter, ran out of steam already?

Posted by peachy06

When the so-called childhood friend I used to have, backstabbed me, then lost all her friends a few years later. Back then I warned her they weren't her true friends, she didn't believe me. Now she lost them all and she regrets me.

That's the best karma so far. Cry bitch.

I agree. To me, karma is best served when it mirrors or highlights the person’s original sin. In this case, she overlooked a true friend in favor of people who never cared about her at all.

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Posted by malloryor

Posted by magma5

I worked for the worst boss I ever had for 9 years and saw him get what he had coming to him, it was poetic. Among other things, over the years he lost 2 wives, his business, and after wrecking his liver over time from alcohol, died from it. He had a bad childhood, looking back he didn't stand a chance. When he was good he was awesome and when he was bad he was terrible.

But I would never wish this sort of end time on my worst enemy. It wasn't hard to see the little boy in him and that made it incredibly sad for me and still is.

Hmm doesn’t sound like karma...sounds like a guy who’s unhealed childhood traumas took over his life.

So if he'd had a good childhood it would then be karma?

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Not what I said at all. Karma and unhealed trauma that leads to unhealthy coping habits are TWO very different things.

This jackass kept trying to race me on the highway (2 lane and just me and this dude). I was just driving minding my own business...even got over when the dude came off the ramp. Anyway....he kept showing down so I would have to go around him, then he'd speed up to go around me....speeding and shit. I'm like wtf is this guy's problem. So we get up to this hill and once again dude speeds past me...only to me met with a trooper who pulled him over. As I drove past...i almost pointed and laughed but thought...nah, cause that might back fire lol. It's the first time I've seen instant karma like that ....it was beautiful lol

I've seen karma happen a time or two.

1) Abusive Ex: I have talked about this before, but my ex from 20 odd years ago, was a piece of shit. Til this day, every year or two, he will message me on facebook, while drunk. He either complains about his life sucking, his wife sucking, or being miserable. While I just LULZ and proceed to tell him how great my life is now.

2) My bestfriend: There was a time when my best friend and I had a slight falling out because of another friend of ours. We were all 3 bestfriends, but after a few years, I noticed some shady behavior and cut her out. In turn, she lied and my Aqua bestfriend believed it for a hot second. After some time passed, she realized the other friend was pretty shit. So now, that one is gone, and lost most of the people that actually gave a shit about her.

3) My ex-boss: Ever since I left him, he has lost 80% of his lenders and clients. He's going broke. His new girlfriend bled him dry. And he is likely going to spend years in jail for 7 felony charges. Mind you, this is only about 4 months after I helped him get 4 felony charges dismissed. Dude is floundering now. I am also helping in the case against him as well, now, since it involves his own mom, niece, and nephew. Dude should have kept his mouth shut, after I left his employment. Shouldn't be going around saying my new boss "stole me". Calling me a thief for doing contract work for another customer that was going through an audit, and needed my help with organizing paperwork (totally unrelated to my duties during my employment). Fuck head should never piss off the person that knows all his fucked up secrets.

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Posted by Wizardz

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Posted by Wizardz

There's this scumbag junkie homeless guy lived near me. Nothing against homeless people, I usually feel for them and often help them out but this guy was a piece of shit. One day I walked past him but I gave him a wide berth because he's nasty. He shouted at me "Oi mate , don't get run over" taking the piss because he could see I was avoiding him. Later on that day he OD'd and died

Extreme retribution

Are you really such a sociopath that you deem there's some sort of justice in a homeless man OD'ing because he shouted "don't get run over" to you?

Lol no but he used to threaten to stab people with dirty syringes and shit like that

So you mean it's fair to compare seemingly healthy and welladjusted ppl to those with mental illness and call it karma?

From where I stand he's in a disadvantage to begin with.

I hope he didn't ruin your life by shouting that to you, drama queen.

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So thats justification for stabbing ppl?

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Posted by malloryor

Posted by peachy06

When the so-called childhood friend I used to have, backstabbed me, then lost all her friends a few years later. Back then I warned her they weren't her true friends, she didn't believe me. Now she lost them all and she regrets me.

That's the best karma so far. Cry bitch.

I agree. To me, karma is best served when it mirrors or highlights the person’s original sin. In this case, she overlooked a true friend in favor of people who never cared about her at all.

I was always a good friend to her, I even stopped talking to another friend of ours because she stole her bf. She was an idiot without personality who'd follow the mass, so I was glad to cut her out.

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Gotta stand up for yourself at times

Posted by magma5

Posted by malloryor

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Posted by magma5

I worked for the worst boss I ever had for 9 years and saw him get what he had coming to him, it was poetic. Among other things, over the years he lost 2 wives, his business, and after wrecking his liver over time from alcohol, died from it. He had a bad childhood, looking back he didn't stand a chance. When he was good he was awesome and when he was bad he was terrible.

But I would never wish this sort of end time on my worst enemy. It wasn't hard to see the little boy in him and that made it incredibly sad for me and still is.

Hmm doesn’t sound like karma...sounds like a guy who’s unhealed childhood traumas took over his life.

So if he'd had a good childhood it would then be karma?

Not what I said at all. Karma and unhealed trauma that leads to unhealthy coping habits are TWO very different things.

I'm trying to understand you. Do you believe that it can't be karma if it involves an unhealed trauma?

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I’m not sure where I confused you, unhealed or unresolved trauma can create unhealthy coping mechanisms. You said you had an awful boss who had a drinking problem. When he was great, he was great, when he was bad, he was bad. Sounds like an alcoholic and a man with mental health issues. So therefore, I’d never classify his mental health and dependency as karma.

He had demons far outside of you, and you were unfortunate to be in the crossfire.

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Posted by Wizardz

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Posted by Wizardz

There's this scumbag junkie homeless guy lived near me. Nothing against homeless people, I usually feel for them and often help them out but this guy was a piece of shit. One day I walked past him but I gave him a wide berth because he's nasty. He shouted at me "Oi mate , don't get run over" taking the piss because he could see I was avoiding him. Later on that day he OD'd and died

Extreme retribution

Are you really such a sociopath that you deem there's some sort of justice in a homeless man OD'ing because he shouted "don't get run over" to you?

Lol no but he used to threaten to stab people with dirty syringes and shit like that

So you mean it's fair to compare seemingly healthy and welladjusted ppl to those with mental illness and call it karma?

From where I stand he's in a disadvantage to begin with.

I hope he didn't ruin your life by shouting that to you, drama queen.

So thats justification for stabbing ppl?

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I don't know what "justification" means exactly in this context. Ever seen someone in psychosis, then let's talk justification..

I usually think in terms of "explanation". That there are explanations to why ppl act the way that they do and it's never bc they are evil. Or good

Posted by LostinmyMind11

This jackass kept trying to race me on the highway (2 lane and just me and this dude). I was just driving minding my own business...even got over when the dude came off the ramp. Anyway....he kept showing down so I would have to go around him, then he'd speed up to go around me....speeding and shit. I'm like wtf is this guy's problem. So we get up to this hill and once again dude speeds past me...only to me met with a trooper who pulled him over. As I drove past...i almost pointed and laughed but thought...nah, cause that might back fire lol. It's the first time I've seen instant karma like that ....it was beautiful lol

Maybe the Universe spared you with that intuitive warning, but I’d suggest in that situation beep your horn as you drive by. The officer will most likely think you were applauding a dangerous driver being checked. And the asshole would have known that that honk was for them lol.

But honestly, you didn’t need to do a thing. They were probably burnt red, because that is embarrassing. And everyone who drove by saw.

Posted by nikkistar

I've seen karma happen a time or two.

1) Abusive Ex: I have talked about this before, but my ex from 20 odd years ago, was a piece of shit. Til this day, every year or two, he will message me on facebook, while drunk. He either complains about his life sucking, his wife sucking, or being miserable. While I just LULZ and proceed to tell him how great my life is now.

2) My bestfriend: There was a time when my best friend and I had a slight falling out because of another friend of ours. We were all 3 bestfriends, but after a few years, I noticed some shady behavior and cut her out. In turn, she lied and my Aqua bestfriend believed it for a hot second. After some time passed, she realized the other friend was pretty shit. So now, that one is gone, and lost most of the people that actually gave a shit about her.

3) My ex-boss: Ever since I left him, he has lost 80% of his lenders and clients. He's going broke. His new girlfriend bled him dry. And he is likely going to spend years in jail for 7 felony charges. Mind you, this is only about 4 months after I helped him get 4 felony charges dismissed. Dude is floundering now. I am also helping in the case against him as well, now, since it involves his own mom, niece, and nephew. Dude should have kept his mouth shut, after I left his employment. Shouldn't be going around saying my new boss "stole me". Calling me a thief for doing contract work for another customer that was going through an audit, and needed my help with organizing paperwork (totally unrelated to my duties during my employment). Fuck head should never piss off the person that knows all his fucked up secrets.

With the boss thing? Did you enact revenge or was that karma acting for you?

Posted by malloryor

Posted by LostinmyMind11

This jackass kept trying to race me on the highway (2 lane and just me and this dude). I was just driving minding my own business...even got over when the dude came off the ramp. Anyway....he kept showing down so I would have to go around him, then he'd speed up to go around me....speeding and shit. I'm like wtf is this guy's problem. So we get up to this hill and once again dude speeds past me...only to me met with a trooper who pulled him over. As I drove past...i almost pointed and laughed but thought...nah, cause that might back fire lol. It's the first time I've seen instant karma like that ....it was beautiful lol

Maybe the Universe spared you with that intuitive warning, but I’d suggest in that situation beep your horn as you drive by. The officer will most likely think you were applauding a dangerous driver being checked. And the asshole would have known that that honk was for them lol.

But honestly, you didn’t need to do a thing. They were probably burnt red, because that is embarrassing. And everyone who drove by saw.

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I looked and smiled as I drove by ...so they knew but my luck ...if I would of done more...karma might have bit me in the ass later. It was just a beautiful thing to witness that still brings a smile to my face 😆

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Posted by malloryor

Posted by LostinmyMind11

This jackass kept trying to race me on the highway (2 lane and just me and this dude). I was just driving minding my own business...even got over when the dude came off the ramp. Anyway....he kept showing down so I would have to go around him, then he'd speed up to go around me....speeding and shit. I'm like wtf is this guy's problem. So we get up to this hill and once again dude speeds past me...only to me met with a trooper who pulled him over. As I drove past...i almost pointed and laughed but thought...nah, cause that might back fire lol. It's the first time I've seen instant karma like that ....it was beautiful lol

Maybe the Universe spared you with that intuitive warning, but I’d suggest in that situation beep your horn as you drive by. The officer will most likely think you were applauding a dangerous driver being checked. And the asshole would have known that that honk was for them lol.

But honestly, you didn’t need to do a thing. They were probably burnt red, because that is embarrassing. And everyone who drove by saw.

I looked and smiled as I drove by ...so they knew but my luck ...if I would of done more...karma might have bit me in the ass later. It was just a beautiful thing to witness that still brings a smile to my face 😆

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Yup! I’d love to witness something like that too lol. You’d like to think that would make that person forever think twice about being an asshole on the road...but some people have hard heads lol

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Posted by nikkistar

I've seen karma happen a time or two.

1) Abusive Ex: I have talked about this before, but my ex from 20 odd years ago, was a piece of shit. Til this day, every year or two, he will message me on facebook, while drunk. He either complains about his life sucking, his wife sucking, or being miserable. While I just LULZ and proceed to tell him how great my life is now.

2) My bestfriend: There was a time when my best friend and I had a slight falling out because of another friend of ours. We were all 3 bestfriends, but after a few years, I noticed some shady behavior and cut her out. In turn, she lied and my Aqua bestfriend believed it for a hot second. After some time passed, she realized the other friend was pretty shit. So now, that one is gone, and lost most of the people that actually gave a shit about her.

3) My ex-boss: Ever since I left him, he has lost 80% of his lenders and clients. He's going broke. His new girlfriend bled him dry. And he is likely going to spend years in jail for 7 felony charges. Mind you, this is only about 4 months after I helped him get 4 felony charges dismissed. Dude is floundering now. I am also helping in the case against him as well, now, since it involves his own mom, niece, and nephew. Dude should have kept his mouth shut, after I left his employment. Shouldn't be going around saying my new boss "stole me". Calling me a thief for doing contract work for another customer that was going through an audit, and needed my help with organizing paperwork (totally unrelated to my duties during my employment). Fuck head should never piss off the person that knows all his fucked up secrets.

With the boss thing? Did you enact revenge or was that karma acting for you?

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I never intentionally did anything. I didn't go out of my way to make his life worse. But if I am contacted and asked questions, I am not going to lie or omit information. Karma handled that for me.

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Posted by nikkistar

I've seen karma happen a time or two.

1) Abusive Ex: I have talked about this before, but my ex from 20 odd years ago, was a piece of shit. Til this day, every year or two, he will message me on facebook, while drunk. He either complains about his life sucking, his wife sucking, or being miserable. While I just LULZ and proceed to tell him how great my life is now.

2) My bestfriend: There was a time when my best friend and I had a slight falling out because of another friend of ours. We were all 3 bestfriends, but after a few years, I noticed some shady behavior and cut her out. In turn, she lied and my Aqua bestfriend believed it for a hot second. After some time passed, she realized the other friend was pretty shit. So now, that one is gone, and lost most of the people that actually gave a shit about her.

3) My ex-boss: Ever since I left him, he has lost 80% of his lenders and clients. He's going broke. His new girlfriend bled him dry. And he is likely going to spend years in jail for 7 felony charges. Mind you, this is only about 4 months after I helped him get 4 felony charges dismissed. Dude is floundering now. I am also helping in the case against him as well, now, since it involves his own mom, niece, and nephew. Dude should have kept his mouth shut, after I left his employment. Shouldn't be going around saying my new boss "stole me". Calling me a thief for doing contract work for another customer that was going through an audit, and needed my help with organizing paperwork (totally unrelated to my duties during my employment). Fuck head should never piss off the person that knows all his fucked up secrets.

With the boss thing? Did you enact revenge or was that karma acting for you?

I never intentionally did anything. I didn't go out of my way to make his life worse. But if I am contacted and asked questions, I am not going to lie or omit information. Karma handled that for me.

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Just asking, some people see it fit to enact karma themselves. Meh, I’m not gonna judge.

But it’s high risk it could backfire.

But back to your situation, yup! Sometimes people get exposed for who they are when they are left alone. You don’t even have to do anything. Their character will end up exposing themselves.

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Posted by nikkistar

I've seen karma happen a time or two.

1) Abusive Ex: I have talked about this before, but my ex from 20 odd years ago, was a piece of shit. Til this day, every year or two, he will message me on facebook, while drunk. He either complains about his life sucking, his wife sucking, or being miserable. While I just LULZ and proceed to tell him how great my life is now.

2) My bestfriend: There was a time when my best friend and I had a slight falling out because of another friend of ours. We were all 3 bestfriends, but after a few years, I noticed some shady behavior and cut her out. In turn, she lied and my Aqua bestfriend believed it for a hot second. After some time passed, she realized the other friend was pretty shit. So now, that one is gone, and lost most of the people that actually gave a shit about her.

3) My ex-boss: Ever since I left him, he has lost 80% of his lenders and clients. He's going broke. His new girlfriend bled him dry. And he is likely going to spend years in jail for 7 felony charges. Mind you, this is only about 4 months after I helped him get 4 felony charges dismissed. Dude is floundering now. I am also helping in the case against him as well, now, since it involves his own mom, niece, and nephew. Dude should have kept his mouth shut, after I left his employment. Shouldn't be going around saying my new boss "stole me". Calling me a thief for doing contract work for another customer that was going through an audit, and needed my help with organizing paperwork (totally unrelated to my duties during my employment). Fuck head should never piss off the person that knows all his fucked up secrets.

With the boss thing? Did you enact revenge or was that karma acting for you?

I never intentionally did anything. I didn't go out of my way to make his life worse. But if I am contacted and asked questions, I am not going to lie or omit information. Karma handled that for me.

Just asking, some people see it fit to enact karma themselves. Meh, I’m not gonna judge.

But it’s high risk it could backfire.

But back to your situation, yup! Sometimes people get exposed for who they are when they are left alone. You don’t even have to do anything. Their character will end up exposing themselves.

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Yea, I don't really call it karma when people enact it themselves. That's more revenge.

I prefer to watch them burn in their own misery, without having to do anything myself. I find it more satisfying that way. lol

Has anyone discussed their own karma?

Harsh as it is, I clung to others, thinking I needed the perfect family, relationships etc to fulfill me but they all either died or came to an end

I was so needy for other people in my life, my karma was to learn to be independent and although I went through hell getting there, it brought some well needed lessons

I now have the perfect balance of independence and the company of others

Amen

🙏

Posted by Undine

I don’t believe in karma, but I really want to contribute with something. How about some stories about my sister and I seriously offending some women as young children....only to become those women decades later? Is that good enough karma?

Sure, feel free to share whatever you’d like.

Posted by MyStarsShine

Has anyone discussed their own karma?

Harsh as it is, I clung to others, thinking I needed the perfect family, relationships etc to fulfill me but they all either died or came to an end

I was so needy for other people in my life, my karma was to learn to be independent and although I went through hell getting there, it brought some well needed lessons

I now have the perfect balance of independence and the company of others

Amen

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Yes! Nothing wrong with sharing your own karma. Although I think your karma falls in the line of more spirituality. Ya know, the one that preaches we all have karma—whether you believe in reincarnation, or just life forcing lessons upon you.

So there’s those type of karmas that teach you to say, be less codependent.

And then there’s the more secular type of karma I’m talking about, someone did a. Just for it to befall back on them some how.

Either stories are welcomed though

Posted by Dastard2020

Omg, that’s cold af.

Don’t do that.

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Posted by malloryor

~~~~~~~~~~~~TL;DR~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Anyway, TELL ME A TIME YOU WITNESSED KARMA HANDED TO SOMEONE? What did they do to you and how do you feel the karma was justified—

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So I was having a conversation with a friend, and we were talking about karma. They were telling me how they’ve always noticed people who hurt them—people who hurt them with the intent of being hurtful—always received their karma.

For me, not that I necessarily go around wishing for people to be harmed, but I’ve never witnessed someone that hurt me get their karma. In fact, it usually feels the other way around, where they just keep on thriving. To add some context, I have met and attracted a LOT of abusive partners and/or narcissistic gaslighters in my life, starting with my parents. The only good thing that has come from it, is it’s squashed the people pleaser in me. And it’s helped me learn how to say “no” more.

Omg! I'm so glad someone posted about this!

Girl, let me tell you. I've witnessed karma play out all too many times to say that it's a fluke. People really do get what they put out - both positively and negatively, good or bad. To be honest, it's why I NEVER chase anyone that leaves my life or anyone that does me wrong. Because I know, deeply, that karma has its own way of giving people what they deserve.

My best example - would have to be the first man I ever loved. I was really young back then and really truly thought he was the person for me - we were just friends, but very close. He, however, never treated me like I was worth his time and dated other women. I had always felt so betrayed. It got to a point where our friendship became so toxic that he told me he wanted to end it between us. I was heartbroken for some time....but then realized, how much freedom this had bought me. I no longer was tied to the idea that he was the only one for me. Picked myself back up and moved on with my life, worked/played hard, dated many men, and ended up in some really amazing relationships.

A year after - I saw him again. We chatted. I could tell that he had seen how I had changed and was no longer attached to him. Yet - I could tell, he was really into me. He asked me out and tried REALLY hard to get me back, I gave him a chance. But later realized - wtf had I been thinking in the past? This guy was not all I thought he was - pitiful, deceiving, and not worth my time any longer. I left him and haven't looked back since. This was 100% the biggest karma case I've been through and it felt SO GOOD turning him away after all that he'd done to me - but all the while, I stayed true to myself.

If you truly believe in karma - it will happen. I would say it's even partially responsible for my current state of things and helping me to find a job I truly love and care about. It's such a real thing for me. I believe that although we may not see it sometimes - people do really get what they deserve. It may happen months, years down the line. But never fails to happen - in the right way, and at the right time. What you put out into the universe - is what you'll get back.

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Sounds like he was wearing a false mask, he needed to make others feel less than desireable to play up himself.

Chef kisses for leaving him to be wack by himself lol

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I worked for the worst boss I ever had for 9 years and saw him get what he had coming to him, it was poetic. Among other things, over the years he lost 2 wives, his business, and after wrecking his liver over time from alcohol, died from it. He had a bad childhood, looking back he didn't stand a chance. When he was good he was awesome and when he was bad he was terrible.

But I would never wish this sort of end time on my worst enemy. It wasn't hard to see the little boy in him and that made it incredibly sad for me and still is.

Hmm doesn’t sound like karma...sounds like a guy who’s unhealed childhood traumas took over his life.

So if he'd had a good childhood it would then be karma?

Not what I said at all. Karma and unhealed trauma that leads to unhealthy coping habits are TWO very different things.

I'm trying to understand you. Do you believe that it can't be karma if it involves an unhealed trauma?

I’m not sure where I confused you, unhealed or unresolved trauma can create unhealthy coping mechanisms. You said you had an awful boss who had a drinking problem. When he was great, he was great, when he was bad, he was bad. Sounds like an alcoholic and a man with mental health issues. So therefore, I’d never classify his mental health and dependency as karma.

He had demons far outside of you, and you were unfortunate to be in the crossfire.

I see your point. I didn't feel that his bad childhood or alcoholism/death was the Karma, those were incidental parts of the story, but I ran it all together so I can see why you thought what you did, my mistake.

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Fair enough, because I thought you were linking them together. But if you’re simply saying he was an awful boss, who liked to idk...humiliate others as a way to boost himself up, him being humbled by life would certainly be fitting.

Posted by MareInfame

Yes, I’ve seen Karma play out - both good and bad, to the point that I felt I had (have) a very strong army of guardian angels protecting me. As long as I let the situation, happen... I see things even out in the end. It’s weird, because many times I’m not invested in waiting to see karma happen. It’s just fate to be in a situation where I do SEE.

I don’t really feel like talking about it in detail, but it pretty much revolves around a person intentionally putting in a lot of effort to do me wrong - most of these people were considered very close friends of mine, or friends - hardly any acquaintances. So, they tried to do long term damage and at a deep level. In the thick of it, I hardly did much to defend myself, even though I’m exceptional at defending others... I’m just taken aback and shocked by the actions that I freeze and observe to take in the realness of their dark side. Most of this revolves bulllying, manipulation, lies, defamation of character. Nothing physical - I defend myself there very well.

My reaction is to want nothing to do with them. Sometimes when they persist too much and just don’t leave me alone, I do wish them dead or for them to never have existed.

Once I’ve seen the Karma, I don’t feel sorry for them... maybe because I’m desensitized towards them. I’ve also received begging for forgiveness on their part... but it means nothing to me. It’s only till recently that I have started praying for them, their souls. Just because I do wonder what kind of life they must have had to become that way?!? Who hurt them?!?! I was hurt by them... but overall I’m pretty fortunate and live a blessed life.

I think it’s a protective mechanism and I try to get away from people like this because I don’t want to mirror them and become the very person I am despising.

Recently... few years ago, I found myself in that scenario. This person wouldn’t leave me alone. I tried and tried to reason and after a few years of trying... I started mirroring. I became that person’s karma. I didn’t like that. And I had to always get space to remember who I was. Stay true to myself and let it be. Also... find it within myself to see the humanity in that person. I had to be LOVE so that I wouldn’t become what I despised...

It’s hard.

I can understand the part about being almost too shocked to do anything. It’s always astounding when you realize how dark someone can truly be. I’m glad to hear you found a way to protect yourself from becoming just as they were. Pain can turn us bitter.

I was raised in a narcissistic family. Mom is covert/vulnerable narcissist and father an overt/grandiose narcissist. My brother was the golden child, I was the scapegoat for always speaking the truth and shattering the narcissistic fantasies made up of lies. He was always abusive to me for nor reason and would team up with my parents to gang up on me and make me the black sheep of the family. Everything was my fault in their eyes. There's too many incidents I could mention but one that I distinctly remember is him telling me to kill myself. Now imagine many other incidents similar to that one.

One day, we had an altercation over some petty issue that was blown out of proportion by him and my parents. It almost got physical. The issues started because I ordered Chinese food over the phone and they thought I forgot the rice cause they couldn't find it. Their dumbasses found the rice inside the bag after the incident ended.

They were trying to crucify me and blame me for not asking for rice. I said Chicken & Broccoli always comes with rice, that's so obvious that I shouldn't even need to mention it and if they forgot or needed me to mention that then they are just incompetent fools. I got angry and fed up of them ganging up on me and that's when my brother almost got physical and I looked at him dead in the eye and something snapped deep inside of my psyche. It was a crucial moment that lasted a few seconds, the emotional realization that he died to me in that moment and that he was not only dead to me and no longer my family, he was not only unable to get another chance from me to repair our relationship, but he was an enemy that I will somehow completely destroy.

There was no immediate plan to hurt him, all I knew was that I will hurt him so but so but sooo badly. I didn't know when, I didn't know how, but I had the certainty that hell was awaiting him. I was very willing and capable to be patient in order to plan the most cruel and devastating revenge. Days later I started to contemplate my options, they were things that went through my head and that I was willing to carry out that I still cannot mention to anyone without sending shivers down their spines and make them label me as a scary, dark, cruel, sadistic, mighty twisted and nefarious person. I don't even feel comfortable verbalizing those plans. But something that always stood to me was the absolute certainty that payback was coming... there was never a shadow of a doubt about that. I couldn't even fathom the idea of me possibly dying because I HAD to exact my revenge on him.

One time, about a year later, I was trying to calm my mind to focus on spell completely unrelated to this but could not lift my mood in order to do it successfully. Aside from that I was having a bad day and I was extremely frustrated. I thought to myself, I need to release the feeling of frustration in order to do this spell. To me frustration, anger, and hatred and deeply intertwined. So a lightbulb went on in my head and I decide to do a death/hatred ritual, using my brother as the target to release all the negative energy I had inside. I wasted no time because I did not want the anger to fade.

I visualized my anger and hatred towards him as black cloud with black lightening approaching him to where he spent most of his time (his room, sitting in front of the desktop computer) and entering his head, striking, burning, frying his brain, his neurons, whatever is inside his neurons, his spirit, his soul, his essence with the black lightning representing all my anger and hatred towards him. I poured so much emotion into it that I felt like my hatred could swallow an entire planets. I was completely exhausted at the end of the ritual. But also completely relaxed and at peace. I then sort of completely forgot about this ritual and never gave it much thought. My plans to destroy him were still going to be carried out, though.

One day, about a year later, he woke up and suddenly couldn't move his legs and was throwing up. He was taken to the hospital and had to be given steroids to reduce the swelling in his brain. A biopsy was performed and turns out he had stage 4 glioblastoma (brain cancer) that had been forming for about a year (what the doctor said) exactly around the time I performed the ritual and in the area that I visualized him being harmed.

He suffered a lot. It was a slow, painful death. At the beginning he did express that he thought karma had something to do with it. Months later he told me a man approach him and said someone did a black magick spell on him. About 3 months before his passing he told me he dreamed we were both kids again and we were still living with our grandmother, playing in the spiral staircase where we used to play as kids. And suddenly I disappeared, and then appeared out of nowhere with an axe and the most intense and disturbing expression of hatred in my eyes and face and was about to strike him in the head and kill him. He was crying as he was telling me his dream. He also mentioned perceiving the scent of incense in the dream. I did ended up admitting it was me who performed the black magick spell on him.

On the day of his passing I was asleep having a normal, bizarre dream about nothing important and suddenly found myself in his old room, illuminated with a bright light and him sitting in a white bed, wearing a white robe. He stood up, I approached him, we held hands and we starting crying. We didn't say a word, just I intuitively understood this was the end and goodbye. I woke up in tears and ran to his room to check on him. It was early in the morning about 6:30 am... held his cold hand and told him I dreamed of him. He was under palliative care at that point, he could not longer move or speak, only hear. Right before he passed, his skin had a very yellowish, pale and unhealthy tone, his hands were very cold, his body stiff... right before he died I saw the life escape his eyes and I started to weep. He somehow lifted out his arm and tried to reach for my head to console me as I was hugging his body, crying thinking he was already dead. After he made that last effort he did finally passed.

I lived with so much hatred and resentment for so many years and after his diagnosis and death I feel like an enormous weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Sometimes I feel very sad about how things turned out, sometimes when I remember the abuse I feel triumphant and vindicated. There are times when I ask myself if I had the choice to turn back time and change things, would I be happier now? And the answer is always no. Because he would be the same as he was prior to his diagnosis and I would be carrying the venom that is resentment and hatred.

Even though I'm quite adept at magick, in this type of cases there is no way to know with full certainty whether this was me, karma, or just a casuality. I believe it was me, but it could be karma. Who knows?

One time, there was a guy who was a complete dick. Then one day, he randomly died. I'm not sure why. It was written off as natural causes. Life is like that. Karma severed nonetheless, and now he is either a rotting corpse being eaten by worms, or ash. Both fitting imo. At least we can all consider him as equal, despite being racist and disgusting.

I honestly don't wish death upon anything though, and love a comeback. More then being glad he is dead, I'm more depressed he never had the ability, influence, or inspiration to be better.

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I was raised in a narcissistic family. Mom is covert/vulnerable narcissist and father an overt/grandiose narcissist. My brother was the golden child, I was the scapegoat for always speaking the truth and shattering the narcissistic fantasies made up of lies. He was always abusive to me for nor reason and would team up with my parents to gang up on me and make me the black sheep of the family. Everything was my fault in their eyes. There's too many incidents I could mention but one that I distinctly remember is him telling me to kill myself. Now imagine many other incidents similar to that one.

One day, we had an altercation over some petty issue that was blown out of proportion by him and my parents. It almost got physical. The issues started because I ordered Chinese food over the phone and they thought I forgot the rice cause they couldn't find it. Their dumbasses found the rice inside the bag after the incident ended.

They were trying to crucify me and blame me for not asking for rice. I said Chicken & Broccoli always comes with rice, that's so obvious that I shouldn't even need to mention it and if they forgot or needed me to mention that then they are just incompetent fools. I got angry and fed up of them ganging up on me and that's when my brother almost got physical and I looked at him dead in the eye and something snapped deep inside of my psyche. It was a crucial moment that lasted a few seconds, the emotional realization that he died to me in that moment and that he was not only dead to me and no longer my family, he was not only unable to get another chance from me to repair our relationship, but he was an enemy that I will somehow completely destroy.

There was no immediate plan to hurt him, all I knew was that I will hurt him so but so but sooo badly. I didn't know when, I didn't know how, but I had the certainty that hell was awaiting him. I was very willing and capable to be patient in order to plan the most cruel and devastating revenge. Days later I started to contemplate my options, they were things that went through my head and that I was willing to carry out that I still cannot mention to anyone without sending shivers down their spines and make them label me as a scary, dark, cruel, sadistic, mighty twisted and nefarious person. I don't even feel comfortable verbalizing those plans. But something that always stood to me was the absolute certainty that payback was coming... there was never a shadow of a doubt about that. I couldn't even fathom the idea of me possibly dying because I HAD to exact my revenge on him.

One time, about a year later, I was trying to calm my mind to focus on spell completely unrelated to this but could not lift my mood in order to do it successfully. Aside from that I was having a bad day and I was extremely frustrated. I thought to myself, I need to release the feeling of frustration in order to do this spell. To me frustration, anger, and hatred and deeply intertwined. So a lightbulb went on in my head and I decide to do a death/hatred ritual, using my brother as the target to release all the negative energy I had inside. I wasted no time because I did not want the anger to fade.

I visualized my anger and hatred towards him as black cloud with black lightening approaching him to where he spent most of his time (his room, sitting in front of the desktop computer) and entering his head, striking, burning, frying his brain, his neurons, whatever is inside his neurons, his spirit, his soul, his essence with the black lightning representing all my anger and hatred towards him. I poured so much emotion into it that I felt like my hatred could swallow an entire planets. I was completely exhausted at the end of the ritual. But also completely relaxed and at peace. I then sort of completely forgot about this ritual and never gave it much thought. My plans to destroy him were still going to be carried out, though.

One day, about a year later, he woke up and suddenly couldn't move his legs and was throwing up. He was taken to the hospital and had to be given steroids to reduce the swelling in his brain. A biopsy was performed and turns out he had stage 4 glioblastoma (brain cancer) that had been forming for about a year (what the doctor said) exactly around the time I performed the ritual and in the area that I visualized him being harmed.

He suffered a lot. It was a slow, painful death. At the beginning he did express that he thought karma had something to do with it. Months later he told me a man approach him and said someone did a black magick spell on him. About 3 months before his passing he told me he dreamed we were both kids again and we were still living with our grandmother, playing in the spiral staircase where we used to play as kids. And suddenly I disappeared, and then appeared out of nowhere with an axe and the most intense and disturbing expression of hatred in my eyes and face and was about to strike him in the head and kill him. He was crying as he was telling me his dream. He also mentioned perceiving the scent of incense in the dream. I did ended up admitting it was me who performed the black magick spell on him.

On the day of his passing I was asleep having a normal, bizarre dream about nothing important and suddenly found myself in his old room, illuminated with a bright light and him sitting in a white bed, wearing a white robe. He stood up, I approached him, we held hands and we starting crying. We didn't say a word, just I intuitively understood this was the end and goodbye. I woke up in tears and ran to his room to check on him. It was early in the morning about 6:30 am... held his cold hand and told him I dreamed of him. He was under palliative care at that point, he could not longer move or speak, only hear. Right before he passed, his skin had a very yellowish, pale and unhealthy tone, his hands were very cold, his body stiff... right before he died I saw the life escape his eyes and I started to weep. He somehow lifted out his arm and tried to reach for my head to console me as I was hugging his body, crying thinking he was already dead. After he made that last effort he did finally passed.

I lived with so much hatred and resentment for so many years and after his diagnosis and death I feel like an enormous weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Sometimes I feel very sad about how things turned out, sometimes when I remember the abuse I feel triumphant and vindicated. There are times when I ask myself if I had the choice to turn back time and change things, would I be happier now? And the answer is always no. Because he would be the same as he was prior to his diagnosis and I would be carrying the venom that is resentment and hatred.

Even though I'm quite adept at magick, in this type of cases there is no way to know with full certainty whether this was me, karma, or just a casuality. I believe it was me, but it could be karma. Who knows?

Omg

Posted by MyStarsShine

Has anyone discussed their own karma?

Harsh as it is, I clung to others, thinking I needed the perfect family, relationships etc to fulfill me but they all either died or came to an end

I was so needy for other people in my life, my karma was to learn to be independent and although I went through hell getting there, it brought some well needed lessons

I now have the perfect balance of independence and the company of others

Amen

🙏

My Scorpio mil is exactly like this to the T. But in reality she and her family and relatives are far from perfect and she in particular will go to extreme lengths to conceal it and distort shit to make herself and her family look perfect. She’s also needy for others and wants to be in complete control of them. I see her being taught zero lessons, even after endless humiliation after humiliation. In fact it just fuels her even stronger to continue her insanely mental charades?!

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There's this scumbag junkie homeless guy lived near me. Nothing against homeless people, I usually feel for them and often help them out but this guy was a piece of shit. One day I walked past him but I gave him a wide berth because he's nasty. He shouted at me "Oi mate , don't get run over" taking the piss because he could see I was avoiding him. Later on that day he OD'd and died

Extreme retribution

Are you really such a sociopath that you deem there's some sort of justice in a homeless man OD'ing because he shouted "don't get run over" to you?

Lol no but he used to threaten to stab people with dirty syringes and shit like that

So you mean it's fair to compare seemingly healthy and welladjusted ppl to those with mental illness and call it karma?

From where I stand he's in a disadvantage to begin with.

I hope he didn't ruin your life by shouting that to you, drama queen.

Shut the fk up

Aww, what's the matter, ran out of steam already?

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1.

Getting this mean gurl-wannabe banned from here for 3-4 months for thinking for far too long his shit don't stink and biting more than he could chew.



2. Seeing a DXP predator list the plethora of health issues they're suffering from. What can I say, I'm an Old Testament kinda guy. Don't expect any sympathy from me. Shit happens to bad people sometimes. I didn't make the rules, I'm just pointing them out.

Posted by Dastard2020

I was raised in a narcissistic family. Mom is covert/vulnerable narcissist and father an overt/grandiose narcissist. My brother was the golden child, I was the scapegoat for always speaking the truth and shattering the narcissistic fantasies made up of lies. He was always abusive to me for nor reason and would team up with my parents to gang up on me and make me the black sheep of the family. Everything was my fault in their eyes. There's too many incidents I could mention but one that I distinctly remember is him telling me to kill myself. Now imagine many other incidents similar to that one.

One day, we had an altercation over some petty issue that was blown out of proportion by him and my parents. It almost got physical. The issues started because I ordered Chinese food over the phone and they thought I forgot the rice cause they couldn't find it. Their dumbasses found the rice inside the bag after the incident ended.

They were trying to crucify me and blame me for not asking for rice. I said Chicken & Broccoli always comes with rice, that's so obvious that I shouldn't even need to mention it and if they forgot or needed me to mention that then they are just incompetent fools. I got angry and fed up of them ganging up on me and that's when my brother almost got physical and I looked at him dead in the eye and something snapped deep inside of my psyche. It was a crucial moment that lasted a few seconds, the emotional realization that he died to me in that moment and that he was not only dead to me and no longer my family, he was not only unable to get another chance from me to repair our relationship, but he was an enemy that I will somehow completely destroy.

There was no immediate plan to hurt him, all I knew was that I will hurt him so but so but sooo badly. I didn't know when, I didn't know how, but I had the certainty that hell was awaiting him. I was very willing and capable to be patient in order to plan the most cruel and devastating revenge. Days later I started to contemplate my options, they were things that went through my head and that I was willing to carry out that I still cannot mention to anyone without sending shivers down their spines and make them label me as a scary, dark, cruel, sadistic, mighty twisted and nefarious person. I don't even feel comfortable verbalizing those plans. But something that always stood to me was the absolute certainty that payback was coming... there was never a shadow of a doubt about that. I couldn't even fathom the idea of me possibly dying because I HAD to exact my revenge on him.

One time, about a year later, I was trying to calm my mind to focus on spell completely unrelated to this but could not lift my mood in order to do it successfully. Aside from that I was having a bad day and I was extremely frustrated. I thought to myself, I need to release the feeling of frustration in order to do this spell. To me frustration, anger, and hatred and deeply intertwined. So a lightbulb went on in my head and I decide to do a death/hatred ritual, using my brother as the target to release all the negative energy I had inside. I wasted no time because I did not want the anger to fade.

I visualized my anger and hatred towards him as black cloud with black lightening approaching him to where he spent most of his time (his room, sitting in front of the desktop computer) and entering his head, striking, burning, frying his brain, his neurons, whatever is inside his neurons, his spirit, his soul, his essence with the black lightning representing all my anger and hatred towards him. I poured so much emotion into it that I felt like my hatred could swallow an entire planets. I was completely exhausted at the end of the ritual. But also completely relaxed and at peace. I then sort of completely forgot about this ritual and never gave it much thought. My plans to destroy him were still going to be carried out, though.

One day, about a year later, he woke up and suddenly couldn't move his legs and was throwing up. He was taken to the hospital and had to be given steroids to reduce the swelling in his brain. A biopsy was performed and turns out he had stage 4 glioblastoma (brain cancer) that had been forming for about a year (what the doctor said) exactly around the time I performed the ritual and in the area that I visualized him being harmed.

He suffered a lot. It was a slow, painful death. At the beginning he did express that he thought karma had something to do with it. Months later he told me a man approach him and said someone did a black magick spell on him. About 3 months before his passing he told me he dreamed we were both kids again and we were still living with our grandmother, playing in the spiral staircase where we used to play as kids. And suddenly I disappeared, and then appeared out of nowhere with an axe and the most intense and disturbing expression of hatred in my eyes and face and was about to strike him in the head and kill him. He was crying as he was telling me his dream. He also mentioned perceiving the scent of incense in the dream. I did ended up admitting it was me who performed the black magick spell on him.

On the day of his passing I was asleep having a normal, bizarre dream about nothing important and suddenly found myself in his old room, illuminated with a bright light and him sitting in a white bed, wearing a white robe. He stood up, I approached him, we held hands and we starting crying. We didn't say a word, just I intuitively understood this was the end and goodbye. I woke up in tears and ran to his room to check on him. It was early in the morning about 6:30 am... held his cold hand and told him I dreamed of him. He was under palliative care at that point, he could not longer move or speak, only hear. Right before he passed, his skin had a very yellowish, pale and unhealthy tone, his hands were very cold, his body stiff... right before he died I saw the life escape his eyes and I started to weep. He somehow lifted out his arm and tried to reach for my head to console me as I was hugging his body, crying thinking he was already dead. After he made that last effort he did finally passed.

I lived with so much hatred and resentment for so many years and after his diagnosis and death I feel like an enormous weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Sometimes I feel very sad about how things turned out, sometimes when I remember the abuse I feel triumphant and vindicated. There are times when I ask myself if I had the choice to turn back time and change things, would I be happier now? And the answer is always no. Because he would be the same as he was prior to his diagnosis and I would be carrying the venom that is resentment and hatred.

Even though I'm quite adept at magick, in this type of cases there is no way to know with full certainty whether this was me, karma, or just a casuality. I believe it was me, but it could be karma. Who knows?

Damn bro.

I try to read for a thoughtful reply, but sometimes there are simply no words. I have to ask, why do you feel so much of your anger was toward your brother and not your narcissistic parents. Often times, children who grow up with narcissistic parents will either learn to adopt similar behavior as a coping mechanism to please the parent, unfortunately that can include ganging up on another family member. Sometimes siblings can become narcissistic because the parent treats them like they can “do no wrong” while berating the other child. Who knows which was the catalyst for your brother, but why not have had that anger towards your parents who encouraged that behavior?

Also, what is the difference between covert/vulnerable narcissist and a grandiose narcissist? Personally, I understand what a grandiose narc is, and the COVERT bit sounds self explanatory, but how does that mix with the vulnerability?

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There's this scumbag junkie homeless guy lived near me. Nothing against homeless people, I usually feel for them and often help them out but this guy was a piece of shit. One day I walked past him but I gave him a wide berth because he's nasty. He shouted at me "Oi mate , don't get run over" taking the piss because he could see I was avoiding him. Later on that day he OD'd and died

Extreme retribution

Are you really such a sociopath that you deem there's some sort of justice in a homeless man OD'ing because he shouted "don't get run over" to you?

Lol no but he used to threaten to stab people with dirty syringes and shit like that

So you mean it's fair to compare seemingly healthy and welladjusted ppl to those with mental illness and call it karma?

From where I stand he's in a disadvantage to begin with.

I hope he didn't ruin your life by shouting that to you, drama queen.

Shut the fk up

Aww, what's the matter, ran out of steam already?

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Getting this mean gurl-wannabe banned from here for 3-4 months for thinking for far too long his shit don't stink and biting more than he could chew.



2. Seeing a DXP predator list the plethora of health issues they're suffering from. What can I say, I'm an Old Testament kinda guy. Don't expect any sympathy from me. Shit happens to bad people sometimes. I didn't make the rules, I'm just pointing them out.

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Well shit, but what did they do to you? Especially the last one?

my libra sun ex in his darkest moments always gets this glazed look in his eyes and recalls something his sagg ex said to him.. which he strongly believed to be a curse.

just by that, I knew right away that whatever went down between them was totally his fault.

coz nothing eats away at the soul like guilt.

should the karmic universal forces fail to favor me, I'd settle for this one human quirk.

then again, I've told my cap ex to die multiple times but we're probably gonna have a candle-lit dinner on Tuesday coz I like to invest in long-term quirk enhancements.

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my libra sun ex in his darkest moments always gets this glazed look in his eyes and recalls something his sagg ex said to him.. which he strongly believed to be a curse.

just by that, I knew right away that whatever went down between them was totally his fault.

coz nothing eats away at the soul like guilt.

should the karmic universal forces fail to favor me, I'd settle for this one human quirk.

then again, I've told my cap ex to die multiple times but we're probably gonna have a candle-lit dinner on Tuesday coz I like to invest in long-term quirk enhancements.

Now, I have to ask...what did they say?

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There's this scumbag junkie homeless guy lived near me. Nothing against homeless people, I usually feel for them and often help them out but this guy was a piece of shit. One day I walked past him but I gave him a wide berth because he's nasty. He shouted at me "Oi mate , don't get run over" taking the piss because he could see I was avoiding him. Later on that day he OD'd and died

Extreme retribution

Are you really such a sociopath that you deem there's some sort of justice in a homeless man OD'ing because he shouted "don't get run over" to you?

Lol no but he used to threaten to stab people with dirty syringes and shit like that

So you mean it's fair to compare seemingly healthy and welladjusted ppl to those with mental illness and call it karma?

From where I stand he's in a disadvantage to begin with.

I hope he didn't ruin your life by shouting that to you, drama queen.

Shut the fk up

Aww, what's the matter, ran out of steam already?

1.

Getting this mean gurl-wannabe banned from here for 3-4 months for thinking for far too long his shit don't stink and biting more than he could chew.



2. Seeing a DXP predator list the plethora of health issues they're suffering from. What can I say, I'm an Old Testament kinda guy. Don't expect any sympathy from me. Shit happens to bad people sometimes. I didn't make the rules, I'm just pointing them out.

Well shit, but what did they do to you? Especially the last one?

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They're cowardly wastes of oxygen, the rest is too long to get into. No time

The people that used to talk shit to me in middle school because I didn't dress like a broke y2k chent or try to match their status quo

...

All wound up with weight and image problems, after spending years judging my appearance in a tone that was most narcissistic.

I stayed looking good and now they have something to be ashamed of. The outside finally matches the inside.

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There's this scumbag junkie homeless guy lived near me. Nothing against homeless people, I usually feel for them and often help them out but this guy was a piece of shit. One day I walked past him but I gave him a wide berth because he's nasty. He shouted at me "Oi mate , don't get run over" taking the piss because he could see I was avoiding him. Later on that day he OD'd and died

Extreme retribution

Are you really such a sociopath that you deem there's some sort of justice in a homeless man OD'ing because he shouted "don't get run over" to you?

Lol no but he used to threaten to stab people with dirty syringes and shit like that

So you mean it's fair to compare seemingly healthy and welladjusted ppl to those with mental illness and call it karma?

From where I stand he's in a disadvantage to begin with.

I hope he didn't ruin your life by shouting that to you, drama queen.

Shut the fk up

Aww, what's the matter, ran out of steam already?

1.

Getting this mean gurl-wannabe banned from here for 3-4 months for thinking for far too long his shit don't stink and biting more than he could chew.



2. Seeing a DXP predator list the plethora of health issues they're suffering from. What can I say, I'm an Old Testament kinda guy. Don't expect any sympathy from me. Shit happens to bad people sometimes. I didn't make the rules, I'm just pointing them out.

Well shit, but what did they do to you? Especially the last one?

They're cowardly wastes of oxygen, the rest is too long to get into. No time

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Dave Matthews? Looks like him.

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There's this scumbag junkie homeless guy lived near me. Nothing against homeless people, I usually feel for them and often help them out but this guy was a piece of shit. One day I walked past him but I gave him a wide berth because he's nasty. He shouted at me "Oi mate , don't get run over" taking the piss because he could see I was avoiding him. Later on that day he OD'd and died

Extreme retribution

Are you really such a sociopath that you deem there's some sort of justice in a homeless man OD'ing because he shouted "don't get run over" to you?

Lol no but he used to threaten to stab people with dirty syringes and shit like that

So you mean it's fair to compare seemingly healthy and welladjusted ppl to those with mental illness and call it karma?

From where I stand he's in a disadvantage to begin with.

I hope he didn't ruin your life by shouting that to you, drama queen.

Shut the fk up

Aww, what's the matter, ran out of steam already?

1.

Getting this mean gurl-wannabe banned from here for 3-4 months for thinking for far too long his shit don't stink and biting more than he could chew.



2. Seeing a DXP predator list the plethora of health issues they're suffering from. What can I say, I'm an Old Testament kinda guy. Don't expect any sympathy from me. Shit happens to bad people sometimes. I didn't make the rules, I'm just pointing them out.

Well shit, but what did they do to you? Especially the last one?

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He is referring to me on the 2nd one.

He's still pissy over me memeing Jed with pictures and gifs with the word Jed in it. And/or because I "bullied" other bullies on dxp.

His "karma" he is speaking of no longer really exists. My health issues have all but disappeared or evened out now.

He's pissy at Dazed for the first one because dazed.

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There's this scumbag junkie homeless guy lived near me. Nothing against homeless people, I usually feel for them and often help them out but this guy was a piece of shit. One day I walked past him but I gave him a wide berth because he's nasty. He shouted at me "Oi mate , don't get run over" taking the piss because he could see I was avoiding him. Later on that day he OD'd and died

Extreme retribution

Are you really such a sociopath that you deem there's some sort of justice in a homeless man OD'ing because he shouted "don't get run over" to you?

Lol no but he used to threaten to stab people with dirty syringes and shit like that

So you mean it's fair to compare seemingly healthy and welladjusted ppl to those with mental illness and call it karma?

From where I stand he's in a disadvantage to begin with.

I hope he didn't ruin your life by shouting that to you, drama queen.

Shut the fk up

Aww, what's the matter, ran out of steam already?

1.

Getting this mean gurl-wannabe banned from here for 3-4 months for thinking for far too long his shit don't stink and biting more than he could chew.



2. Seeing a DXP predator list the plethora of health issues they're suffering from. What can I say, I'm an Old Testament kinda guy. Don't expect any sympathy from me. Shit happens to bad people sometimes. I didn't make the rules, I'm just pointing them out.

Well shit, but what did they do to you? Especially the last one?

He is referring to me on the 2nd one.

He's still pissy over me memeing Jed with pictures and gifs with the word Jed in it. And/or because I "bullied" other bullies on dxp.

His "karma" he is speaking of no longer really exists. My health issues have all but disappeared or evened out now.

He's pissy at Dazed for the first one because dazed.

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Oh, okay.

I’d never wish bad or try to harm others ... the threefold law always comes to mind

I remember years back an old man said to me “cast thine bread upon the water and it will be returned to you a thousand fold”

So true!

Think and wish bad = receive bad

Think and wish good = receive good

It’s a simple Universal law...

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There was a girl who was all kinds of nasty, caused problems between me and my serious boyfriend until finally she fucked him. She got killed in a car accident with some other dude. She and I had few run ins and she always tried to cause me grief, like pointedly. I didn’t feel bad when I heard. Even though that part of my life was over, it felt almost relieving to hear about.

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There's this scumbag junkie homeless guy lived near me. Nothing against homeless people, I usually feel for them and often help them out but this guy was a piece of shit. One day I walked past him but I gave him a wide berth because he's nasty. He shouted at me "Oi mate , don't get run over" taking the piss because he could see I was avoiding him. Later on that day he OD'd and died

Extreme retribution

Are you really such a sociopath that you deem there's some sort of justice in a homeless man OD'ing because he shouted "don't get run over" to you?

Lol no but he used to threaten to stab people with dirty syringes and shit like that

So you mean it's fair to compare seemingly healthy and welladjusted ppl to those with mental illness and call it karma?

From where I stand he's in a disadvantage to begin with.

I hope he didn't ruin your life by shouting that to you, drama queen.

Shut the fk up

Aww, what's the matter, ran out of steam already?

1.

Getting this mean gurl-wannabe banned from here for 3-4 months for thinking for far too long his shit don't stink and biting more than he could chew.



2. Seeing a DXP predator list the plethora of health issues they're suffering from. What can I say, I'm an Old Testament kinda guy. Don't expect any sympathy from me. Shit happens to bad people sometimes. I didn't make the rules, I'm just pointing them out.

Well shit, but what did they do to you? Especially the last one?

He is referring to me on the 2nd one.

He's still pissy over me memeing Jed with pictures and gifs with the word Jed in it. And/or because I "bullied" other bullies on dxp.

His "karma" he is speaking of no longer really exists. My health issues have all but disappeared or evened out now.

He's pissy at Dazed for the first one because dazed.

Yes, he is a bully enabler and minion. How dare anyone stand up and fight the bullies?

Dazed is rocking it in the free world.

Oh btw, totally unrelated to this post, but Mars in Cancer goes better on a woman than a man. The women can be pretty ruthless and the men crybabies. 🤣

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I'm not gonna pretend that either Dazed or I are saints. Lol

I create chaos when bored for my own amusement on here. And so does Dazed, just his method is different from mine. Just bans don't stick to me like they do for Dazed. Lol

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Damn bro.

I try to read for a thoughtful reply, but sometimes there are simply no words. I have to ask, why do you feel so much of your anger was toward your brother and not your narcissistic parents. Often times, children who grow up with narcissistic parents will either learn to adopt similar behavior as a coping mechanism to please the parent, unfortunately that can include ganging up on another family member. Sometimes siblings can become narcissistic because the parent treats them like they can “do no wrong” while berating the other child. Who knows which was the catalyst for your brother, but why not have had that anger towards your parents who encouraged that behavior?

Also, what is the difference between covert/vulnerable narcissist and a grandiose narcissist? Personally, I understand what a grandiose narc is, and the COVERT bit sounds self explanatory, but how does that mix with the vulnerability?

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Well, umm... the abuse coming from my brother was more overt and that made it easier for me to identify it as abuse and something that was being done intentionally. The abuse from parents was far more insidious and damaging because they were the puppet masters. Especially the abuse from my mother, it was extremely insidious, almost invisible but far more damaging. Also, at the time I was not aware that my parents were narcissists. I learned about my parents' narcissism after my brother's death.

It's hard to uncover a narcissistic parent when they feign love, outwardly act like they care, excuse their abuse and negligence as them simply not being perfect and doing the best they can. It was also unfathomable to even imagine that my parents hated me, that they were envious of me, they were actively trying to sabotage my happiness.

A covert or vulnerable narcissist is a narcissist just as entitled, selfish, envious and contemptuous as any other narcissist. The difference lies in the delivery or outward disguise. Their mask is misleading. They don't come across as confident, charismatic or full of themselves. On the contrary, they like to come off as meek, submissive, weak, selfless, even shy. They are the perpetual victim in life. It's always a drama and they are the star, the difference is that their role is that of a victim. It's always the tale of

"woe is me, woe is me, woe is me, why does this always and only happens to me?" They love to elicit sympathy, they want people to feel bad for them, they want to guild trip them, manipulate them and control them.

They act like martyrs in hopes of gaining sainthood status in front of the people around them. They want worshippers/minions/enablers/fans who validate their "goodness" and sainthood, who then they can later use as flying monkeys to whom the narcissist can manipulate to hurt a person by proxy. They'll start smear campaigns and use the flying monkeys to achieve that. They will also use these clueless sycophants or "fans" (as I like to call them) to keep tabs on someone they want to control and further abuse after that person has decided to cut ties with the abuser.

A covert narcissist will never explicitly insult you or devalue you. They will suggest it in order to plant a seed of doubt, guilt, shame or any type of insecurity. And they reinforce these almost subliminal messages consistently. It's the roll of the eyes to imply dismissal, or suddenly yawning when you tell them something important, or suddenly forgetting something important to you on purpose. It's the loaded questions that imply you're inadequate at something or not good enough. The disbelief they express in your opinion about anything only to suddenly believe what you say after hearing it from someone else. And if confronted they will defend themselves by saying they were just trying to help and now they feel bad (guilt trip). And if confronted later it will be denied (gaslighting) or conveniently forgotten.

I do hate my parents. Even more than I hated my brother. I'm just emotionally burned out, no longer live with them, and try not to dwell on my hatred so it may seem like the hate isn't there but it is. I'm also extremely careful about how I go about handling this situation. My parents don't know that I know about their condition. Telling a narcissist that you know they're a narcissist isn't a good idea unless you have a plan to deal with the aftermath. I can't be focusing on revenge all the time, I have to build myself and focus on myself. I want to be successful without their help. Once I achieve that they'll most likely try to take credit for it and that's when I'll unmask them in front of everyone, making them feel shame they won't be able to escape.

That is of course, if they don't die of Covid. They are afraid of vaccines and are stuck in their house. I'm reinforcing that fear in them via text and phone calls. I want them stuck inside the house, fighting with each other, feeding themselves negativity.

If they live well into old age and covid free, I'll put them in a nursing home. Slowly but surely I will rob them of their happiness. I do call my parents when I'm feeling negative and dump my negative feelings unto them. I tell them that I'm doing great so that they'll die a little inside. I'd also start criticizing them and paint them as unhappy, miserable, negative, and tell them something along the lines of "why can't you just be happy like me?". When they try to defend themselves I change the subject and dismiss anything they say by ignoring it and continue talking over them about whatever it is that I'm talking.

This may sound twisted but I feel good after calling my parents. I feel like the "normal" one, the "happy" one after make them out to be the unhappy and miserable ones. Giving them a taste of their own medicine. Maybe karma is finally starting to catch up to them.

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This jackass kept trying to race me on the highway (2 lane and just me and this dude). I was just driving minding my own business...even got over when the dude came off the ramp. Anyway....he kept showing down so I would have to go around him, then he'd speed up to go around me....speeding and shit. I'm like wtf is this guy's problem. So we get up to this hill and once again dude speeds past me...only to me met with a trooper who pulled him over. As I drove past...i almost pointed and laughed but thought...nah, cause that might back fire lol. It's the first time I've seen instant karma like that ....it was beautiful lol

That’s the instant Karma Lennon sang

about lol