aquapiscescusp
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Lol what's with all the random questions lately?
I got one for you, young lady. Where you been?
I got one for you, young lady. Where you been?
Ring all the bells!
Kill that wonderful love!
It might be his last chance to have a virgin!!!
Sorry.
Of course parents need to know
ASAP! Is the perv mentally stable?
Kill that wonderful love!
It might be his last chance to have a virgin!!!
Sorry.
Of course parents need to know
ASAP! Is the perv mentally stable?
Yes!
Yes I would
Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
Definitely.
They say age is just a number. But why the fuck are you dating a 30-year old?
They say age is just a number. But why the fuck are you dating a 30-year old?
It's everybody's business if a child is at risk
Turning a blind eye isn't always the best thing to do
Turning a blind eye isn't always the best thing to do
Posted by cvurkoPosted by BlackburnI dont see how that's evil. People are too easy to judge and project their own definitions of good, evil, right, wrong and etc. on the others. If i don't know the actual situation and the two parties sincere mentality and feelings i am not the one to make the call. Having a relationship with a partner who is way younger/older than you is not evil per se.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
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Actually, I was joking a bit.
Also, is a phrase, it's not literal. There's no right and wrong, is perception.
Yes, I don't know what to do in this situations, but I really think is strange for a grown man/woman to be with a teenager, taking into consideration the experiences/lack of them and other factors as life goals etc.. It's not age gap, but teenager-grown man, I think.
Posted by aquapiscescuspThis is a tough call. I would try to convince her to examine her motivations for why this person in particular.
If you knew the 16 year old girl was secretly seeing a mid 30s man?
Would you want to know as her parents?
People just love to stick their nose where it doesn't belong. Smh
Posted by BlackburnI agree, there is something very weird about an adult dating a teenPosted by cvurkoPosted by BlackburnI dont see how that's evil. People are too easy to judge and project their own definitions of good, evil, right, wrong and etc. on the others. If i don't know the actual situation and the two parties sincere mentality and feelings i am not the one to make the call. Having a relationship with a partner who is way younger/older than you is not evil per se.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
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Actually, I was joking a bit.
Also, is a phrase, it's not literal. There's no right and wrong, is perception.
Yes, I don't know what to do in this situations, but I really think is strange for a grown man/woman to be with a teenager, taking into consideration the experiences/lack of them and other factors as life goals etc.. It's not age gap, but teenager-grown man, I think.
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Creepy
@OP
Are you going to tell the parents of the 16 year old seeing the older guy?
Are you going to tell the parents of the 16 year old seeing the older guy?
Posted by cvurkoIve learned that here. Everyone is a perv. LOLPosted by GemitatiIf she was 18 would he still be a perv? How do you define a pervert?
Ring all the bells!
Kill that wonderful love!
It might be his last chance to have a virgin!!!
Sorry.
Of course parents need to know
ASAP! Is the perv mentally stable?click to expand
Though at legal age all lables are down!
Posted by cvurko+1Posted by BlackburnI dont see how that's evil. People are too easy to judge and project their own definitions of good, evil, right, wrong and etc. on the others. If i don't know the actual situation and the two parties' sincere mentality and feelings i am not the one to make the call. Having a relationship with a partner who is way younger/older than you is not evil per se.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
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To all of what you said!
Posted by TheGreatSearcherHe's obviously preying on her being very naive. Ugh
Definitely.
They say age is just a number. But why the fuck are you dating a 30-year old?
Posted by rabidtalkerI am not supposed to know! Someone told me in confidence...Posted by aquapiscescuspThis is a tough call. I would try to convince her to examine her motivations for why this person in particular.
If you knew the 16 year old girl was secretly seeing a mid 30s man?
Would you want to know as her parents?
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Posted by pisceanloves...
People just love to stick their nose where it doesn't belong. Smh
Where do you stick your nose?
Posted by MyStarsShine
@OP
Are you going to tell the parents of the 16 year old seeing the older guy?
It would her parents I would advise but I really don't know how to handle this...
Posted by yupvirgoo
Yes coz she's underaged.
If it's my daughter, I would want to know wouldn't I?
Yes but some people want to live in denial.
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by MyStarsShine
@OP
Are you going to tell the parents of the 16 year old seeing the older guy?
It would her parents I would advise but I really don't know how to handle this...click to expand
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Maybe trying to talk to her first?
Telling her parents right away is probably betraying the trust of that other person who told you in confidence, because you don't know the situation, maybe hearing from the girl you can see it more clearly (if she is very naive, if she's been manipulated or not)
Posted by enfant_terribleHere and there... 🙂 busy as hell!
Lol what's with all the random questions lately?
I got one for you, young lady. Where you been?
They are random to you, but not to me.
Posted by GemitatiI don't know him at all. She works for him is all I can say.
Ring all the bells!
Kill that wonderful love!
It might be his last chance to have a virgin!!!
Sorry.
Of course parents need to know
ASAP! Is the perv mentally stable?
Posted by aquapiscescuspSo it is basically a gossip?Posted by GemitatiI don't know him at all. She works for him is all I can say.
Ring all the bells!
Kill that wonderful love!
It might be his last chance to have a virgin!!!
Sorry.
Of course parents need to know
ASAP! Is the perv mentally stable?click to expand
Posted by cvurkoHis age vs hers... ?Posted by GemitatiIf she was 18 would he still be a perv? How do you define a pervert?
Ring all the bells!
Kill that wonderful love!
It might be his last chance to have a virgin!!!
Sorry.
Of course parents need to know
ASAP! Is the perv mentally stable?click to expand
Posted by GemitatiNo... it's not gossip. She confided in this person who had to ask for someone's opinion(mine) because she feels it's wrong.Posted by aquapiscescuspSo it is basically a gossip?Posted by GemitatiI don't know him at all. She works for him is all I can say.
Ring all the bells!
Kill that wonderful love!
It might be his last chance to have a virgin!!!
Sorry.
Of course parents need to know
ASAP! Is the perv mentally stable?click to expand
Posted by TeenaOk. She is hiding this relationship. If it was a good thing, they would make it official.Posted by cvurko+1Posted by BlackburnI dont see how that's evil. People are too easy to judge and project their own definitions of good, evil, right, wrong and etc. on the others. If i don't know the actual situation and the two parties' sincere mentality and feelings i am not the one to make the call. Having a relationship with a partner who is way younger/older than you is not evil per se.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
To all of what you said!click to expand
Posted by BlackburnI would be betraying that trust...Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by MyStarsShine
@OP
Are you going to tell the parents of the 16 year old seeing the older guy?
It would her parents I would advise but I really don't know how to handle this...
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Maybe trying to talk to her first?
Telling her parents right away is probably betraying the trust of that other person who told you in confidence, because you don't know the situation, maybe hearing from the girl you can see it more clearly (if she is very naive, if she's been manipulated or not)
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Posted by Gem_from_VenusI honestly wished I didn't know. Friends of the family...Posted by aquapiscescuspIt also depends how well you know her parents. If you know them well, you're almost obligated to tell them if you think their daughter is in danger. That's a lot of "if's" though.Posted by MyStarsShine
@OP
Are you going to tell the parents of the 16 year old seeing the older guy?
It would her parents I would advise but I really don't know how to handle this...click to expand
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by BlackburnI would be betraying that trust...Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by MyStarsShine
@OP
Are you going to tell the parents of the 16 year old seeing the older guy?
It would her parents I would advise but I really don't know how to handle this...
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Maybe trying to talk to her first?
Telling her parents right away is probably betraying the trust of that other person who told you in confidence, because you don't know the situation, maybe hearing from the girl you can see it more clearly (if she is very naive, if she's been manipulated or not)
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Then... what did the person who told you think about it? That person could act carefully without messing things up (?
Idk... good luck
Posted by ChoXtsyI'm with you, that's why it's disturbing. He's manipulating her big time, I can't get into too many details but let's say she's oh so gullible.
That's not even cradle snatching, that's womb robbing. I'm all for dating with age gaps but you're still in high school at 16 and a child. Have to wonder what is wrong with the 30 year old. Depends who it is, it's not my business but if it was a family member, that'd be a different story.
Posted by BlackburnPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by BlackburnI would be betraying that trust...Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by MyStarsShine
@OP
Are you going to tell the parents of the 16 year old seeing the older guy?
It would her parents I would advise but I really don't know how to handle this...
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Maybe trying to talk to her first?
Telling her parents right away is probably betraying the trust of that other person who told you in confidence, because you don't know the situation, maybe hearing from the girl you can see it more clearly (if she is very naive, if she's been manipulated or not)
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Then... what did the person who told you think about it? That person could act carefully without messing things up (?
Idk... good luck
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That's what I said! You do something about it.... but she confided in her and feels trapped, ugh I don't know either.
I could see how 16 would be a questionable age,but in America teenagers are so coddled and sheltered they really are to young minddd. The age of adult in America mentally is around 25 to be honest. Our system is designed to treat them as children for to long and hence they stay emotionally and mentally children for a prolonged length of time.
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by BlackburnPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by BlackburnI would be betraying that trust...Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by MyStarsShine
@OP
Are you going to tell the parents of the 16 year old seeing the older guy?
It would her parents I would advise but I really don't know how to handle this...
----
Maybe trying to talk to her first?
Telling her parents right away is probably betraying the trust of that other person who told you in confidence, because you don't know the situation, maybe hearing from the girl you can see it more clearly (if she is very naive, if she's been manipulated or not)
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Then... what did the person who told you think about it? That person could act carefully without messing things up (?
Idk... good luck
That's what I said! You do something about it.... but she confided in her and feels trapped, ugh I don't know either.
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I think the difference then is if the situation is "dangerous" or negative for the teen or if it just seems weird but they both know what are doing.
Posted by aquapiscescuspMaybe she's hiding because she's scared of these very judgements ppl are making?? Or maybe they didn't even reach a point where they can actually make it official??Posted by TeenaOk. She is hiding this relationship. If it was a good thing, they would make it official.Posted by cvurko+1Posted by BlackburnI dont see how that's evil. People are too easy to judge and project their own definitions of good, evil, right, wrong and etc. on the others. If i don't know the actual situation and the two parties' sincere mentality and feelings i am not the one to make the call. Having a relationship with a partner who is way younger/older than you is not evil per se.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
To all of what you said!
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Posted by Stensco21Oh yes, she is a child... not ready for this big bad wolf
I could see how 16 would be a questionable age,but in America teenagers are so coddled and sheltered they really are to young minddd. The age of adult in America mentally is around 25 to be honest. Our system is designed to treat them as children for to long and hence they stay emotionally and mentally children for a prolonged length of time.
Posted by DivaCanLeoLololol
Young women are the stupidist sheets.
I would first punch her hard in the stomach for being that stupid
Then i would write her parents an anonymous letter
Posted by TeenaPosted by aquapiscescuspMaybe she's hiding because she's scared of these very judgements ppl are making?? Or maybe they didn't even reach a point where they can actually make it official??Posted by TeenaOk. She is hiding this relationship. If it was a good thing, they would make it official.Posted by cvurko+1Posted by BlackburnI dont see how that's evil. People are too easy to judge and project their own definitions of good, evil, right, wrong and etc. on the others. If i don't know the actual situation and the two parties' sincere mentality and feelings i am not the one to make the call. Having a relationship with a partner who is way younger/older than you is not evil per se.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
To all of what you said!
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She's hiding it because she knows her parents wouldn't approve, I mean which parents would? So yeah.. judgements are sometimes necessary.
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by ChoXtsyI'm with you, that's why it's disturbing. He's manipulating her big time, I can't get into too many details but let's say she's oh so gullible.
That's not even cradle snatching, that's womb robbing. I'm all for dating with age gaps but you're still in high school at 16 and a child. Have to wonder what is wrong with the 30 year old. Depends who it is, it's not my business but if it was a family member, that'd be a different story.click to expand
This doesn't seem to be that uncommon either.......quite sickening
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by TeenaPosted by aquapiscescuspMaybe she's hiding because she's scared of these very judgements ppl are making?? Or maybe they didn't even reach a point where they can actually make it official??Posted by TeenaOk. She is hiding this relationship. If it was a good thing, they would make it official.Posted by cvurko+1Posted by BlackburnI dont see how that's evil. People are too easy to judge and project their own definitions of good, evil, right, wrong and etc. on the others. If i don't know the actual situation and the two parties' sincere mentality and feelings i am not the one to make the call. Having a relationship with a partner who is way younger/older than you is not evil per se.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
To all of what you said!
She's hiding it because she knows her parents wouldn't approve, I mean which parents would? So yeah.. judgements are sometimes necessary.
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Exactly my point!! She most definitely knows she won't get an approval from many people let alone her family. What can be any better reason to hide?
There are kids in our lad's class who are having sex, smoking weed, drinking like fish and dabbling in other drugs......how do the parents not have some clue ? If a kid is underage as in under 18, isn't it the responsibility of the parents to find out what their sons and daughters are up to?
Posted by TeenaPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by TeenaPosted by aquapiscescuspMaybe she's hiding because she's scared of these very judgements ppl are making?? Or maybe they didn't even reach a point where they can actually make it official??Posted by TeenaOk. She is hiding this relationship. If it was a good thing, they would make it official.Posted by cvurko+1Posted by BlackburnI dont see how that's evil. People are too easy to judge and project their own definitions of good, evil, right, wrong and etc. on the others. If i don't know the actual situation and the two parties' sincere mentality and feelings i am not the one to make the call. Having a relationship with a partner who is way younger/older than you is not evil per se.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
To all of what you said!
She's hiding it because she knows her parents wouldn't approve, I mean which parents would? So yeah.. judgements are sometimes necessary.
Exactly my point!! She most definitely knows she won't get an approval from many people let alone her family. What can be any better reason to hide?
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Knowing her she wants the whole world to know, trust me.It's him... he's probably saying shush... ya know.
Posted by DivaCanLeoInteresting... I don't think so. But anything is possible.
Do we know if there is abuse in the home? This could be a side condition
Posted by MyStarsShineyes... they should know
There are kids in our lad's class who are having sex, smoking weed, drinking like fish and dabbling in other drugs......how do the parents not have some clue ? If a kid is underage as in under 18, isn't it the responsibility of the parents to find out what their sons and daughters up to?
Another thing, parents know him... harmless... she works for him --
Forget telling her parents, tell the police.
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by MyStarsShineyes... they should know
There are kids in our lad's class who are having sex, smoking weed, drinking like fish and dabbling in other drugs......how do the parents not have some clue ? If a kid is underage as in under 18, isn't it the responsibility of the parents to find out what their sons and daughters up to?click to expand
Yes, I agree
Posted by DivaCanLeoShitheadPosted by aquapiscescuspGross. He's nasty.
Another thing, parents know him... harmless... she works for him --click to expand
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by TeenaPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by TeenaPosted by aquapiscescuspMaybe she's hiding because she's scared of these very judgements ppl are making?? Or maybe they didn't even reach a point where they can actually make it official??Posted by TeenaOk. She is hiding this relationship. If it was a good thing, they would make it official.Posted by cvurko+1Posted by BlackburnI dont see how that's evil. People are too easy to judge and project their own definitions of good, evil, right, wrong and etc. on the others. If i don't know the actual situation and the two parties' sincere mentality and feelings i am not the one to make the call. Having a relationship with a partner who is way younger/older than you is not evil per se.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
To all of what you said!
She's hiding it because she knows her parents wouldn't approve, I mean which parents would? So yeah.. judgements are sometimes necessary.
Exactly my point!! She most definitely knows she won't get an approval from many people let alone her family. What can be any better reason to hide?
Knowing her she wants the whole world to know, trust me.It's him... he's probably saying shush... ya know.
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Or maybe not.
I get what you're saying.Maybe she would want the world to know if this is not the scenario.What do you wanna do anyway?
Posted by TeenaI don't know... send an anonymous letter?Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by TeenaPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by TeenaPosted by aquapiscescuspMaybe she's hiding because she's scared of these very judgements ppl are making?? Or maybe they didn't even reach a point where they can actually make it official??Posted by TeenaOk. She is hiding this relationship. If it was a good thing, they would make it official.Posted by cvurko+1Posted by BlackburnI dont see how that's evil. People are too easy to judge and project their own definitions of good, evil, right, wrong and etc. on the others. If i don't know the actual situation and the two parties' sincere mentality and feelings i am not the one to make the call. Having a relationship with a partner who is way younger/older than you is not evil per se.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
To all of what you said!
She's hiding it because she knows her parents wouldn't approve, I mean which parents would? So yeah.. judgements are sometimes necessary.
Exactly my point!! She most definitely knows she won't get an approval from many people let alone her family. What can be any better reason to hide?
Knowing her she wants the whole world to know, trust me.It's him... he's probably saying shush... ya know.
Or maybe not.
I get what you're saying.Maybe she would want the world to know if this is not the scenario.What do you wanna do anyway?click to expand
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