moonrvr46
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Are Virgos super sexual?...
Sometimes a lil dopamine in the morning gets us ready for the long day ahead.
A lil in the afternoon .. a lil at supper time.
A lil in the afternoon .. a lil at supper time.
I don't listen to it on purpose...I can hear it in the bathroom from bed when I'm waking up or if I am walking by the bathroom.
Yeah I understand - but I don't understand choosing that over a morning quickie.
Yeah I understand - but I don't understand choosing that over a morning quickie.
Got it. Is it normal that sometimes he jerks off after sex too?
Posted by moonrvr46
Got it. Is it normal that sometimes he jerks off after sex too?
Is there a reason why you aren’t finishing him off?
You have multiple holes 🕳 to satisfy him.
He gotta have a fixed moon lol
Or venus
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Posted by PowerLunchPosted by moonrvr46
Got it. Is it normal that sometimes he jerks off after sex too?
Inside the bathroom again?click to expand
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Yes in the bathroom.
I always want to finish him. He cums inside me btw during sex.
I always want to finish him. He cums inside me btw during sex.
PS he doesn’t give me a chance. We have sex. And later he goes jerks off.
Posted by moonrvr46
PS he doesn’t give me a chance. We have sex. And later he goes jerks off.
He should be dehydrated with as much cumming as he’s doing. 😳 I’m surprised he has energy for sex.
But he obviously is super sexual. Seems addicted to it.
Yeah and I am super sexual too. So I am happy to have sex literally whenever. He knows that.
That’s why I wonder if I am around why not just do that again instead of jerking off?
I always thought to guys sex feels better than masterbation.
That’s why I wonder if I am around why not just do that again instead of jerking off?
I always thought to guys sex feels better than masterbation.
Posted by moonrvr46
Yeah and I am super sexual too. So I am happy to have sex literally whenever. He knows that.
That’s why I wonder if I am around why not just do that again instead of jerking off?
I always thought to guys sex feels better than masterbation.
Maybe he wants alone time. Maybe he knows what he likes and gets there quicker.
He has enough sex with you to not be disinterested. He just likes pleasing himself too.
Nothing wrong with it.
Start masturbating. As long as he’s keeping it to self satisfaction and not branch out to other women l, doesn’t seem like a big deal.
He is his own person with needs. You don’t have to fulfill them all.
But he masterbates more than sex!
But he masterbates more than sex!
Posted by moonrvr46
But he masterbates more than sex!
Why exactly is that a problem for you?
It reads like you are interpreting this to mean something and I'm curious as to what it is.
Posted by moonrvr46
But he masterbates more than sex!
So what. It’s not affecting your sex life.
It’s not an issue of you being there or not.
He just likes jacking off. Let him.
When he does that more and starts denying you sex, then it will be an issue.
Let the man live
I’m having quick sex but spending time in the bathroom jerking seems abnormal
Can’t edit. Meant we are having quick sex ...
Posted by moonrvr46
Yeah and I am super sexual too. So I am happy to have sex literally whenever. He knows that.
That’s why I wonder if I am around why not just do that again instead of jerking off?
I always thought to guys sex feels better than masterbation.
It may not be a matter of "one is better" than another, and more like one is simply different from the other, and they both provide pleasure. Variety makes life far more interesting. Are there not times when you prefer to have him go down on you then being pounded? Rhetorical question.
I think you're getting too caught up in what ever box you think he should be in as a "sexual man".
Posted by moonrvr46
I’m having quick sex but spending time in the bathroom jerking seems abnormal
Hmph.
Do you refer to it as "abnormal" when you address it with him?
And it's not actually.
Posted by moonrvr46
I’m having quick sex but spending time in the bathroom jerking seems abnormal
Uh I’m pretty sure when he’s jacking off, he’s quick about that too. Lol. So he’s being consistent.
Make him do more foreplay or more to please you. Virgos aim to please.
But don’t let it be about what he’s doing to himself. Have him do the work when he’s focused on you and the sex you guys are having. Don’t be competitive and interrupt his self love. That would be like nagging.
Just give him more chores that have to do with your body 😅😅😅
No. First off he never goes down on me.
He doesn’t take time to have sex with making out. Kissing. Oral. Then sex. He kinda pounds me for a few.
So I think it bothers me that he spends more time with his dick and porn than he does on me and us.
He doesn’t take time to have sex with making out. Kissing. Oral. Then sex. He kinda pounds me for a few.
So I think it bothers me that he spends more time with his dick and porn than he does on me and us.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by moonrvr46
I’m having quick sex but spending time in the bathroom jerking seems abnormal
Uh I’m pretty sure when he’s jacking off, he’s quick about that too. Lol. So he’s being consistent.click to expand
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Lol freakin' Sags.......
Posted by saggurl88
Make him do more foreplay or more to please you. Virgos aim to please.
But don’t let it be about what he’s doing to himself. Have him do the work when he’s focused on you and the sex you guys are having. Don’t be competitive and interrupt his self love. That would be like nagging.
Just give him more chores that have to do with your body 😅😅😅
*like*
Posted by moonrvr46
No. First off he never goes down on me.
He doesn’t take time to have sex with making out. Kissing. Oral. Then sex. He kinda pounds me for a few.
So I think it bothers me that he spends more time with his dick and porn than he does on me and us.
Okay. So we're finally getting to it. You're not being satisfied.
Rather than spending time on making it more pleasurable for you and busting one good nut, he squirting out several random nuts. So questions, if he was taking the time to fully satisfy you, would you care as much that he's jerking off afterwards?
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by saggurl88Posted by moonrvr46
I’m having quick sex but spending time in the bathroom jerking seems abnormal
Uh I’m pretty sure when he’s jacking off, he’s quick about that too. Lol. So he’s being consistent.
*like*
Lol freakin' Sags.......click to expand
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Posted by moonrvr46
No. First off he never goes down on me.
He doesn’t take time to have sex with making out. Kissing. Oral. Then sex. He kinda pounds me for a few.
So I think it bothers me that he spends more time with his dick and porn than he does on me and us.
It sounds a lot like you need to talk to him about what you like. Not so much his routine, but what you need/want from him.
Okay read this thread over. Reads like your are trying to figure out if his sex drive is the reason he's a subpar lover, and that may not be the case. A high sex drive typically doesn't equate to unsatisfactory sex. Quite the opposite, especially if you are saying you have a high sex drive as well.
Speaking up, telling him what you like, getting him to become more aware of your body and getting him to slow down, is what will be required to address this. However, depending on how deep this goes, talking alone may not be enough. You will also probably need to take the lead sexually as well until things shift and more time is spent on you.
If he's trying to stick it in after 2 seconds of foreplay, gently grab his cock and tell him not yet, then flip him over and take your time. Just tell him to lay back and relax so he doesn't think you're scolding him, but trying to please him. Rub his cock on your clit and just tease him and kiss him, watch his expression. Kiss him the way you want to be kissed. Kiss him where you want to be kissed. Talk to him while you're on top gently telling him how you like to be touched. Suck his nipples while you're rubbing his cock on your clit. Use those hips. Let him touch you, tease you, but don't let him put it in yet. Tell him how much he turns you on. If you're getting wetter than you usually do, point that out as an indication that pacing himself is what turns you on more. Ride the man's face. Change positions and continue to tease his cock while he eats you out. It's better to encourage when he's doing something right vs scolding when he's not getting it right, so if you like it when he sucks your clit vs licking it, let him know with a gentle moan or tell him exactly that. Then, you slowly ride him's cock. If he bust a nut quick before you get it inside, don't get upset. Suck his nuts until he gets hard again (since he seems to bounce back quickly) and then ride him. Slowly. Pick up the pace, slow it down....Rinse, repeat with another variation of what's written above to avoid boredom.
Point is, you'll need to take the lead to shift things.
Speaking up, telling him what you like, getting him to become more aware of your body and getting him to slow down, is what will be required to address this. However, depending on how deep this goes, talking alone may not be enough. You will also probably need to take the lead sexually as well until things shift and more time is spent on you.
If he's trying to stick it in after 2 seconds of foreplay, gently grab his cock and tell him not yet, then flip him over and take your time. Just tell him to lay back and relax so he doesn't think you're scolding him, but trying to please him. Rub his cock on your clit and just tease him and kiss him, watch his expression. Kiss him the way you want to be kissed. Kiss him where you want to be kissed. Talk to him while you're on top gently telling him how you like to be touched. Suck his nipples while you're rubbing his cock on your clit. Use those hips. Let him touch you, tease you, but don't let him put it in yet. Tell him how much he turns you on. If you're getting wetter than you usually do, point that out as an indication that pacing himself is what turns you on more. Ride the man's face. Change positions and continue to tease his cock while he eats you out. It's better to encourage when he's doing something right vs scolding when he's not getting it right, so if you like it when he sucks your clit vs licking it, let him know with a gentle moan or tell him exactly that. Then, you slowly ride him's cock. If he bust a nut quick before you get it inside, don't get upset. Suck his nuts until he gets hard again (since he seems to bounce back quickly) and then ride him. Slowly. Pick up the pace, slow it down....Rinse, repeat with another variation of what's written above to avoid boredom.
Point is, you'll need to take the lead to shift things.
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