@Queenaries2
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What stops you from talking to someone you’re attracted to
Reasons That Prevent You From Talking to Someone You Are Attracted To
Fear of rejection, lack of confidence, and worry about awkwardness often stop people from approaching someone they find attractive. Understanding these fears can help you overcome them and build confidence to start conversations naturally.
Red flags
Married
pinworms
(in before ole hoofy hoof)
Posted by Senorita_LL
Earth signs.Because they don't like the chase. And that made me lazy to pursue further. 😏
*chases you around with a broom*
Posted by Nightcap-
pinworms(in before ole hoofy hoof)
Pinworms dunt stop dat kiiid
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True, it's an awkward first date question especially when you gave it your all to dress snappy
I’ll keep trying to destroy it if trust isn’t there. However, I’ll continue going back to view the wreckage.
No common ground and if I don't vibe with their personality
if i find out someone else is in the picture
My boyfriend 😒😒
Jk 😛
Myself, really. Make excuses to not grab my balls by the horns and just approach the gal I want.
I decided I am tired of seeing great girls with douchebags, and going to make a better effort at going after what I want 🙂
the consequent emptiness
If he’s not interested
Bad vibes.
Posted by Meowpie
Bad vibes.and low self-esteem click to expand
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True, they will leech off a person who would give them attention until they find the next best person who feeds them even more attention or self-esteem then they would just dump your ass. Manipulative psychos.
When I found out she's not a clingy type.
no reciprocation of interest
Posted by AerialView
When I found out she's not a clingy type.
No wonder why you've never been with a Sag!! 😆 😛
Posted by AerialView
When I found out she's not a clingy type.No wonder why you've never been with a Sag!!
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They would never be at home lol
Posted by AerialView
When I found out she's not a clingy type.No wonder why you've never been with a Sag!!
They would never be at home lol click to expand
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lol. I have a Caner moon,I'm a homebody most days but I do like going out with friends. I will cook you dinner before I leave! How about that! 😛
Mine is stinky breath and bad hygiene in general. My attraction will fade just like his clouds of halitosis!
Posted by AerialView
When I found out she's not a clingy type.No wonder why you've never been with a Sag!!
They would never be at home lol click to expand
lol. I have a Caner moon,I'm a homebody most days but I do like going out with friends. I will cook you dinner before I leave! How about that! click to expand
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Dinner alone then 😫
Over-thinking, fear of rejection, mixed signals...
Posted by AerialView
When I found out she's not a clingy type.No wonder why you've never been with a Sag!!
They would never be at home lol click to expand
lol. I have a Caner moon,I'm a homebody most days but I do like going out with friends. I will cook you dinner before I leave! How about that! click to expand
Dinner alone then 😫 click to expand
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Hahahaha! Awww I didn't think of it like that! lol That does suck! 😆 I like pleasing my partner though anyways, I'm adaptable lol
When I don't have plans! 😛
When the are playing the Hot and Cold game.
Posted by kitten_
She is a : Taurus
Gemini
Cancer
Leo
Virgo
Libra
Scorpio
Sag or Aquarius
You mention almost the whole zodiac signs, there will be no one for you to date if u continu that pad, very sad. maybe u have bad experiences with this signs. But don't forget that not everyone is the same. And everyone has also different planets in there sign. If u are the kind that judge people to much by there zodiac.
Fear and not feeling very attracted.
Disrespect
My mood
Posted by WittyGem88v2
If hes already in a relationship with another girl.
Some people seem to think that doesn't matter
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Posted by halalbae
If the other person isnt shamelessly into and excited by me. Anything else is a self esteem killer to me and Im not entertaining it
Yes, indifference or detachment is a passion killer
Ewwww
Posted by WittyGem88v2
If hes already in a relationship with another girl.Some people seem to think that doesn't matter
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There are married people here chasing others
🙄
Posted by WittyGem88v2
If hes already in a relationship with another girl.Some people seem to think that doesn't matter
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There are married people here chasing others
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Thats something I dont understand. Tbh, if one if the couple is unhappy, just end it. it will lessen the damage click to expand
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Some people want the best of both worlds!
Posted by WittyGem88v2
If hes already in a relationship with another girl.Some people seem to think that doesn't matter
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There are married people here chasing others
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Thats something I dont understand. Tbh, if one if the couple is unhappy, just end it. it will lessen the damage click to expand
Some people want the best of both worlds!
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Yes. Oh you know I watched a crime documentary on youtube. Lady shot her hubby. It was because he was abusing her and he also cheated on her while she was pregnant. Even brought his mistress to the hospital to hold his baby infront of his wife. I am not saying what the wife did was right but... imagine how painful that mustve been for the wife. click to expand
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He was a moron to do that 🙄
boredom combined with more interesting distractions
If he is not crazy about me
- Unhygienic
- talking to other dudes on the side
- Lying
Not much now
Fear of reaction maybe 4 or 5 years ago
Posted by Dolluxxe
Red flags
This!!!! Lol
Posted by MiZLeo
If someone new and more exciting comes along. If they have a shitty personality. If they are narcissistic in an unbearable way. If they have kids. If they have a gf or wife. If they find anything about me annoying. If they nag me. If they use me.
I'm just curious....is there such a thing as a narcissist that's NOT unbearable? I mean, there's no way you really meant narcissistic. Maybe you meant conceited or arrogant.
They're with their significant other. 😕 Lol
I’m overweight
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