If someone has a crush on you and you sort of know it, will you ever approach them? (provided you don't dislike them and it's in an office environment)
Crush
Yes. I'll even try to make it clear that i don't like them that way (if that's the case). I don't like to take people for a ride (give them false hope).
If I like him I will make myself available. If not I just keep it friendly but I will give him signals that I am not interested.
In the office?
I do nothing.
I do nothing.
Capricorn sun virgo moon woman has been stalking for a year.
But without an official green light on her part I could just be paranoid and overthinking it so I just observe.
But without an official green light on her part I could just be paranoid and overthinking it so I just observe.
Posted by pisceswoman123
If I like him I will make myself available. If not I just keep it friendly but I will give him signals that I am not interested.
Would you completely avoid any form of eye contact when passing each other or anything like that ( just to show that you are not interested)
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just don’t go there when it’s in the office too.
We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".
We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!
What do i do 😢
Posted by Weeds
Capricorn sun virgo moon woman has been stalking for a year.
But without an official green light on her part I could just be paranoid and overthinking it so I just observe.
Why would you do that? You could atleast talk to her casually to open her up.
Maybe she is thinking that you are not interested?
Uhhh why would you do that??
Posted by DMV
In the office?
I do nothing.
Uhhh
Posted by neves
Yes. I'll even try to make it clear that i don't like them that way (if that's the case). I don't like to take people for a ride (give them false hope).
What would you do to make it clear that you don't like them back? Can you please elaborate?
Posted by PoloChatPosted by pisceswoman123
If I like him I will make myself available. If not I just keep it friendly but I will give him signals that I am not interested.
Would you completely avoid any form of eye contact when passing each other or anything like that ( just to show that you are not interested)click to expand
Lol, no. That will mean I cannot look at half of the men I work with 😄
I act normal. Friendly, smiling, but I don’t initiate and keep it professional. Never letting them on and making sure that they know that I am in a relationship ( if that’s the case) and that they don’t have a chance.
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by PoloChatPosted by pisceswoman123
If I like him I will make myself available. If not I just keep it friendly but I will give him signals that I am not interested.
Would you completely avoid any form of eye contact when passing each other or anything like that ( just to show that you are not interested)
Lol, no. That will mean I cannot look at half of the men I work with 😄
I act normal. Friendly, smiling, but I don’t initiate and keep it professional. Never letting them on and making sure that they know that I am in a relationship ( if that’s the case) and that they don’t have a chance.click to expand
I am going to be single forever 😭
Posted by PoloChatPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by PoloChatPosted by pisceswoman123
If I like him I will make myself available. If not I just keep it friendly but I will give him signals that I am not interested.
Would you completely avoid any form of eye contact when passing each other or anything like that ( just to show that you are not interested)
Lol, no. That will mean I cannot look at half of the men I work with 😄
I act normal. Friendly, smiling, but I don’t initiate and keep it professional. Never letting them on and making sure that they know that I am in a relationship ( if that’s the case) and that they don’t have a chance.
I am going to be single forever 😭click to expand
What?? Why? How can I help you?
Posted by PoloChatPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just don’t go there when it’s in the office too.
We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".
We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!
What do i do 😢click to expand
Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.
Posted by PoloChatPosted by neves
Yes. I'll even try to make it clear that i don't like them that way (if that's the case). I don't like to take people for a ride (give them false hope).
What would you do to make it clear that you don't like them back? Can you please elaborate?click to expand
Looking back... i approached the subject (romance) - till i got a confirmation that it's actually true - and just freaking said it (i see... i'm really sorry - but i don't feel that type of attraction for you... 😐 or something like that). This is usually the best way (least painful in the long run... kinda like removing a band aid - fast). And yes, it's gonna be uncomfortable for both of you (more for the one having a crush ofc). But it's for the best (since it promotes the fastest recovery... the healthiest form of rejection - if you will). If you work together - there's no other way around it (since you're bound to see each-other on a daily basis - and both of you will keep on feeling uncomfortable around one another - for opposite reasons). Obviously, even after you clear this part - you'll still feel some level of discomfort in each-other's presence, but this time around... for the right reasons - since it takes some time for things to get back to normal (so to speak). Well, maybe she'll treat you different afterwards - but that's to be expected.
Posted by PoloChatPosted by Weeds
Capricorn sun virgo moon woman has been stalking for a year.
But without an official green light on her part I could just be paranoid and overthinking it so I just observe.
Why would you do that? You could atleast talk to her casually to open her up.
Maybe she is thinking that you are not interested?
Uhhh why would you do that??click to expand
I am not the type to break the ice and she is far to low key for me to step out in the water and hope I don't drown in the awkwardness.
I need a bit more to go on if I'm going to make the first move.
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by PoloChatPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by PoloChatPosted by pisceswoman123
If I like him I will make myself available. If not I just keep it friendly but I will give him signals that I am not interested.
Would you completely avoid any form of eye contact when passing each other or anything like that ( just to show that you are not interested)
Lol, no. That will mean I cannot look at half of the men I work with 😄
I act normal. Friendly, smiling, but I don’t initiate and keep it professional. Never letting them on and making sure that they know that I am in a relationship ( if that’s the case) and that they don’t have a chance.
I am going to be single forever 😭
What?? Why? How can I help you?click to expand
Coz my crush is not initiating any conversation, means he is not interested too.
Posted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just don’t go there when it’s in the office too.
We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".
We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!
What do i do 😢
Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.click to expand
So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! 😢
Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just don’t go there when it’s in the office too.
We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".
We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!
What do i do 😢
Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.
So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! 😢click to expand
Lol why do you think like that? Just be subtle and things will be good. Tbh most of my friendships are there because the other person showed interest and initiated. So don't worry. What's your sign?
You a Sag— I heard all Sag love a good office romance! 😆 I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore 😄
Posted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just don’t go there when it’s in the office too.
We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".
We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!
What do i do 😢
Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.
So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! 😢
Lol why do you think like that? Just be subtle and things will be good. Tbh most of my friendships are there because the other person showed interest and initiated. So don't worry. What's your sign?click to expand
I am a cancerian
Posted by nevesPosted by PoloChatPosted by neves
Yes. I'll even try to make it clear that i don't like them that way (if that's the case). I don't like to take people for a ride (give them false hope).
What would you do to make it clear that you don't like them back? Can you please elaborate?
Looking back... i approached the subject (romance) - till i got a confirmation that it's actually true - and just freaking said it (i see... i'm really sorry - but i don't feel that type of attraction for you... 😐 or something like that). This is usually the best way (least painful in the long run... kinda like removing a band aid - fast). And yes, it's gonna be uncomfortable for both of you (more for the one having a crush ofc). But it's for the best (since it promotes the fastest recovery... the healthiest form of rejection - if you will). If you work together - there's no other way around it (since you're bound to see each-other on a daily basis - and both of you will keep on feeling uncomfortable around one another - for opposite reasons). Obviously, even after you clear this part - you'll still feel some level of discomfort in each-other's presence, but this time around... for the right reasons - since it takes some time for things to get back to normal (so to speak). Well, maybe she'll treat you different afterwards - but that's to be expected.click to expand
Subject! *facepalm*
Posted by WeedsPosted by PoloChatPosted by Weeds
Capricorn sun virgo moon woman has been stalking for a year.
But without an official green light on her part I could just be paranoid and overthinking it so I just observe.
Why would you do that? You could atleast talk to her casually to open her up.
Maybe she is thinking that you are not interested?
Uhhh why would you do that??
I am not the type to break the ice and she is far to low key for me to step out in the water and hope I don't drown in the awkwardness.
I need a bit more to go on if I'm going to make the first move.click to expand
But what about just "hi", maybe she's craving that (i am assuming that she is feeling like me)
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by PoloChatPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just don’t go there when it’s in the office too.
We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".
We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!
What do i do 😢
You have to interact with him to figure out if there is more. As a guy, especially at work, you can’t go assuming a woman is interested from one interaction. He might have though you were just being friendly or are a nice person. Usually we need more to go on before making a move.click to expand
What if you catch that woman staring at you more than usual?!
Posted by saggurl88
You a Sag— I heard all Sag love a good office romance! 😆 I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore 😄
No i am a cancerian.
Heavy flirting! Teach me how to do that! Please do teach me
Posted by PoloChat
If someone has a crush on you and you sort of know it, will you ever approach them? (provided you don't dislike them and it's in an office environment)
No. I don't shit where I eat
Posted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just don’t go there when it’s in the office too.
We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".
We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!
What do i do 😢
Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.
So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! 😢
Lol why do you think like that? Just be subtle and things will be good. Tbh most of my friendships are there because the other person showed interest and initiated. So don't worry. What's your sign?click to expand
Oh i am a negative nancy who underestimates herself to the best possible extent!!!
Posted by PoloChatPosted by saggurl88
You a Sag— I heard all Sag love a good office romance! 😆 I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore 😄
No i am a cancerian.
Heavy flirting! Teach me how to do that! Please do teach meclick to expand
Unfortunately for you as a Cancer, it's impossible 😆 You guys just get super close and creepy and brush up all against people and pretend you don't notice what you're doing lol
Posted by saggurl88Posted by PoloChatPosted by saggurl88
You a Sag— I heard all Sag love a good office romance! 😆 I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore 😄
No i am a cancerian.
Heavy flirting! Teach me how to do that! Please do teach me
Unfortunately for you as a Cancer, it's impossible 😆 You guys just get super close and creepy and brush up all against people and pretend you don't notice what you're doing lol
https://media.giphy.com/media/3ov9jW4oHIUXnnejV6/giphy.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand
And i thought I was this close to learn how to flirt
Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just don’t go there when it’s in the office too.
We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".
We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!
What do i do 😢
Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.
So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! 😢
Lol why do you think like that? Just be subtle and things will be good. Tbh most of my friendships are there because the other person showed interest and initiated. So don't worry. What's your sign?
Oh i am a negative nancy who underestimates herself to the best possible extent!!!click to expand
We like such people lol. Better than those who boast around.
Posted by PoloChatPosted by saggurl88Posted by PoloChatPosted by saggurl88
You a Sag— I heard all Sag love a good office romance! 😆 I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore 😄
No i am a cancerian.
Heavy flirting! Teach me how to do that! Please do teach me
Unfortunately for you as a Cancer, it's impossible 😆 You guys just get super close and creepy and brush up all against people and pretend you don't notice what you're doing lol
And i thought I was this close to learn how to flirtclick to expand
Use your words instead of your body lol That should do it! 😆
Posted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just don’t go there when it’s in the office too.
We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".
We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!
What do i do 😢
Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.
So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! 😢
Lol why do you think like that? Just be subtle and things will be good. Tbh most of my friendships are there because the other person showed interest and initiated. So don't worry. What's your sign?
Oh i am a negative nancy who underestimates herself to the best possible extent!!!
We like such people lol. Better than those who boast around.click to expand
Oooh...
You know i am stuck between moving on and dreaming about him 😭
Posted by saggurl88Posted by PoloChatPosted by saggurl88Posted by PoloChatPosted by saggurl88
You a Sag— I heard all Sag love a good office romance! 😆 I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore 😄
No i am a cancerian.
Heavy flirting! Teach me how to do that! Please do teach me
Unfortunately for you as a Cancer, it's impossible 😆 You guys just get super close and creepy and brush up all against people and pretend you don't notice what you're doing lol
And i thought I was this close to learn how to flirt
Use your words instead of your body lol That should do it! 😆click to expand
Words!!! Hahaha
We don't talk and i am stupid enough not to initiate and he is maybe disinterested enough not to initiate
Posted by PoloChatPosted by saggurl88Posted by PoloChatPosted by saggurl88Posted by PoloChatPosted by saggurl88
You a Sag— I heard all Sag love a good office romance! 😆 I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore 😄
No i am a cancerian.
Heavy flirting! Teach me how to do that! Please do teach me
Unfortunately for you as a Cancer, it's impossible 😆 You guys just get super close and creepy and brush up all against people and pretend you don't notice what you're doing lol
And i thought I was this close to learn how to flirt
Use your words instead of your body lol That should do it! 😆
Words!!! Hahaha
We don't talk and i am stupid enough not to initiate and he is maybe disinterested enough not to initiateclick to expand
Cancer side stepping in it's finest lol I'm so good at subtly flirting, it's ridiculous.
You know if he helps, say stuff like "oh my gosh, you're so good at that." "You're the best, I wouldn't have been able to do it with out you." Wow, You're amazing, I didn't even think of that" Super over the top bull shit, but guys know it's bull shit and still eat it up. 😆
There's a Leo at my job that flirts and I say stuff like "Oh really? Where does it go? What hole does it go into?" All super innocent, like I don't know what I'm saying lol I can make a sex joke or statement out of almost anything though, cause my mind is a gutter whoore.
Google subtle flirting lines and see if you can pull something off with out getting shy and embarrassed.
Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just don’t go there when it’s in the office too.
We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".
We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!
What do i do 😢
Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.
So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! 😢
Lol why do you think like that? Just be subtle and things will be good. Tbh most of my friendships are there because the other person showed interest and initiated. So don't worry. What's your sign?
Oh i am a negative nancy who underestimates herself to the best possible extent!!!
We like such people lol. Better than those who boast around.
Oooh...
You know i am stuck between moving on and dreaming about him 😭click to expand
Okay. See you need to be a bit bold and just initiate. No point in making yourself suffer in anticipation. Just try to just be casual and start things. There is a woman in my office who always says hi to me when she sees me and before that I was always afraid what she would think of me so I never approached her. We can be very very reserved lol.
Posted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just don’t go there when it’s in the office too.
We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".
We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!
What do i do 😢
Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.
So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! 😢
Lol why do you think like that? Just be subtle and things will be good. Tbh most of my friendships are there because the other person showed interest and initiated. So don't worry. What's your sign?
Oh i am a negative nancy who underestimates herself to the best possible extent!!!
We like such people lol. Better than those who boast around.
Oooh...
You know i am stuck between moving on and dreaming about him 😭
Okay. See you need to be a bit bold and just initiate. No point in making yourself suffer in anticipation. Just try to just be casual and start things. There is a woman in my office who always says hi to me when she sees me and before that I was always afraid what she would think of me so I never approached her. We can be very very reserved lol.click to expand
Ohkkhay..
And now you and that woman from your office are ...... —
Posted by saggurl88Posted by PoloChatPosted by saggurl88Posted by PoloChatPosted by saggurl88Posted by PoloChatPosted by saggurl88
You a Sag— I heard all Sag love a good office romance! 😆 I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore 😄
No i am a cancerian.
Heavy flirting! Teach me how to do that! Please do teach me
Unfortunately for you as a Cancer, it's impossible 😆 You guys just get super close and creepy and brush up all against people and pretend you don't notice what you're doing lol
And i thought I was this close to learn how to flirt
Use your words instead of your body lol That should do it! 😆
Words!!! Hahaha
We don't talk and i am stupid enough not to initiate and he is maybe disinterested enough not to initiate
Cancer side stepping in it's finest lol I'm so good at subtly flirting, it's ridiculous.
You know if he helps, say stuff like "oh my gosh, you're so good at that." "You're the best, I wouldn't have been able to do it with out you." Wow, You're amazing, I didn't even think of that" Super over the top bull shit, but guys know it's bull shit and still eat it up. 😆
There's a Leo at my job that flirts and I say stuff like "Oh really? Where does it go? What hole does it go into?" All super innocent, like I don't know what I'm saying lol I can make a sex joke or statement out of almost anything though, cause my mind is a gutter whoore.
Google subtle flirting lines and see if you can pull something off with out getting shy and embarrassed.click to expand
Hahaha this was crazy!!!
I will definitely try this if and when i get the chance
Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by Capricorn91Posted by PoloChatPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Can you give any more details? Depending on how much or little you guys interact the other person might have no idea. Some people just don’t go there when it’s in the office too.
We interacted just ONCE. And its me who has got crush kn him and he is not approaching me directly. So my friends are telling me to move on coz "it has been 2 months and he would have done something, if he was interested".
We just have way too much of eye contact which somehow makes me feel that he is not that disinterested!
What do i do 😢
Caps are a bit shy and reserved. It is easier for us to approach once the other person has shown considerable interest that they indeed like interacting with us. So I would suggest you initiate the talks and just say hi when you see him next time. If we aren't interested we will stay away to avoid any such situation. But if we are interested in you even as a friend we will come back.
So I have to put myself in a tricky position and give him the right to make fun of me with his friends! 😢
Lol why do you think like that? Just be subtle and things will be good. Tbh most of my friendships are there because the other person showed interest and initiated. So don't worry. What's your sign?
Oh i am a negative nancy who underestimates herself to the best possible extent!!!
We like such people lol. Better than those who boast around.
Oooh...
You know i am stuck between moving on and dreaming about him 😭
Okay. See you need to be a bit bold and just initiate. No point in making yourself suffer in anticipation. Just try to just be casual and start things. There is a woman in my office who always says hi to me when she sees me and before that I was always afraid what she would think of me so I never approached her. We can be very very reserved lol.
Ohkkhay..
And now you and that woman from your office are ...... —click to expand
Nothing. She is just a friend.
Posted by PoloChatPosted by saggurl88Posted by PoloChatPosted by saggurl88Posted by PoloChatPosted by saggurl88Posted by PoloChatPosted by saggurl88
You a Sag— I heard all Sag love a good office romance! 😆 I can't say it's not true! Now I just keep it to heavy flirting. I don't shit where I eat- Anymore 😄
No i am a cancerian.
Heavy flirting! Teach me how to do that! Please do teach me
Unfortunately for you as a Cancer, it's impossible 😆 You guys just get super close and creepy and brush up all against people and pretend you don't notice what you're doing lol
And i thought I was this close to learn how to flirt
Use your words instead of your body lol That should do it! 😆
Words!!! Hahaha
We don't talk and i am stupid enough not to initiate and he is maybe disinterested enough not to initiate
Cancer side stepping in it's finest lol I'm so good at subtly flirting, it's ridiculous.
You know if he helps, say stuff like "oh my gosh, you're so good at that." "You're the best, I wouldn't have been able to do it with out you." Wow, You're amazing, I didn't even think of that" Super over the top bull shit, but guys know it's bull shit and still eat it up. 😆
There's a Leo at my job that flirts and I say stuff like "Oh really? Where does it go? What hole does it go into?" All super innocent, like I don't know what I'm saying lol I can make a sex joke or statement out of almost anything though, cause my mind is a gutter whoore.
Google subtle flirting lines and see if you can pull something off with out getting shy and embarrassed.
Hahaha this was crazy!!!
I will definitely try this if and when i get the chanceclick to expand
I can say something that can mean the most filthiest thing in the world and still pull off an innocent deer-in-headlights look. I love doing it and am really good at it 😆
Men almost look confused at first, like I can't possibly mean what I am saying cause their mind goes to sex too 😆
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